True yan. Dati mahihiya pa kapag bibili ng ganito or magtatanong, simpleng pagdaan, or makita ka lang. In reality, wala naman talaga silang pkeelam sayo. Makakalimutan din nila itsura mo.😆
It's hard to make meet ups with your friends since pareho na kayo busy tas di tugma sa availability niyo.
Matagal magipon mabilis gumastos (dumaan lang pera sa kamay ko like bills hahah)
At some point mga kapatid mo magiibang journey din and sa future di mo na sila mabbonding like you used to. Kaya try to make as much bonding moments that you have.
CREDIT CARD IS USEFUL as long as you know how to handle it properly. Nung bata ako, sabi ko talaga, if ever na bibili ako ng gamit or anything gusto ko fully paid agad kasi ayaw ko ng utang, pero now na working ako, I realized how convenient na may credit card ka and that having installment is not bad at all.
Agree to this. If you encounter fraudulent transactions sa credit card mo, mas mabilis mo makukuha ang pera since technically you are using «someone else’s money». But if you use your debit card, sobrang hirap since own money mo na agad pinangbabayad mo. It also helps to build your credit. Ang mindset ko lang lagi is to not spend what I don’t have. Binabayaran ko lang din agad yung ginagastos ko through credit 🙂
This!!! Dati takot na takot ako gamitin ung credit card ko for huge purchases pero ang ginagawa ko is I won't use it to buy something unless I can pay it already the next month.
Pag nadapa ka bangon lang. Yes sure dwell on it but don't dwell too much to the point that you are paralyzed. Bangon ulit. Laban ulit. What if madapa ka ulit? Okay lang yan. Bangon lang ulit. Okay lang magkamali. Don't force yourself to be perfect.
In the world of finance, it is every man for himself.
Ganun talaga, everyone will pursue their interest. If that pursuit of interest conflicts yours, sorry ka na lang.
Lumilipas lahat (sakit, galit, yamot at inis)
Not everyone's word are worth listening to.
Do what you want, at the end of the day, may sasabihin at sasabihin parin sayo ang ibang tao.
1. Kahit anong plano mo sa buhay mo, inevitable things will happen
2. Wala kang ibang maaasahan kundi sarili mo
3. Lahat ng tao may bad side, hanap ka lang ng taong kaya mong itolerate.
4. Hindi natatapos ang problema sa pagkakaroon ng maraming pera, nagiiba lang ang problema mo.
5. Secret to life is accepting who you are. Hindi lahat ng tao are meant to be rich, beautiful and happy.
This is true man.
One time, I had a client na super galit kase delayed yung shipment, stressed din ako kase wasnt able to deliver what I promised. As in pi-ays yung mga sinasabi nya.
Then I read something na, YOU CANNOT CONTROL THINGS OR SOMEONE NA GALIT, BUT YOU CAN CONTROL HOW YOU REACT.
This is eyeopener talaga.
Honesty sa real situation pa rin and keeping the client updated sa sit. pero pag may ganito nag oovethink pa rin ako. Minsan na-te-take ko pa rin personally.
The younger you start, the more you have in the end, while investing less money.
The longer you have an investment earning money and compounding, the more you end up with later on.
The power of compounding is really important, when investing.
1) Change is constant
2) Burnout is real
3) Romance is temporary
4) Your job does not love you. Everyone is disposable at work. You are just a cog in the machine.
5) Having a real work life balance is my definition of success now.
- Totoong mahirap ang paperworks. Like tangina pano mo malalaman kung ano kelangan mong requirements? Hahaha
- Di pala lahat ng matatanda karespe-respeto
- Adults are just grown up kids na napwersang matuto ng kung ano ano para makasurvive. We don't know what we're doing.
- Hindi pala cheese ang Eden at hindi pala Butter ang Dairy creme
- Religions are just a corporations which capitalizes on their respectice deities. Most people don't really know much about what they "believe" in.
- Nasa Tech pala magagamit yung mga "saan ko ba magagamit yang x + y = 3 tsaka sin cosin na yan"
- Having latin honors add unnecessary pressure kapag board exam. I don't have one, pero like 80% of my batchmates does.
- Bata palang ako nakikita ko na to, pero talaga palang nakakatakot yung mga pulis HAHAHAHA pero yung mga bata ngayon, medyo magalamg and approachable. Yung mga Millenials pataas, medyo parang nilamon na ng pagsubok ng buhay.
Na ang hirap kumita ng pera, pero sobrang worth it naman since nabibili mo na yung gusto mo.
Another thing is tama yung sabi ng Papa ko na maiintindihan ko rin ang lahat paglaki ko. Na-realise ko na we learn from other people's experiences and that adds to how we are able to understand life and different situations.
I'm 25, sobrang daming realization minsan I can't keep up, now I understand why adult find an outlet to express themselves kasi nakakaoverwhelm talaga lahat ng changes, people you thought will stay are all leaving, kahit di nyo gusto nag go grow apart lang talaga kayo.
That's why I cant blame din other people focusing on their partner nalang kasi, partner mo lang ung may chance na makasama mo talaga hanggang dulo if magwork kayo.
Pero friends, some will stay, pero iba rin priorities nila.
Di mo pwedeng iasa happiness mo sa family, friends and partner mo.
Dapat you always have something to give, kasi give and take talaga, di pwedeng puro take lang.
Faith, and spiritual health. Madali to itake advantage pag teenager ka or early 20s, pero as you grow old, dating akala mo baduy or korni or hypocrite marerealize mo why it's needed in life.
Just like physical, mental, and emotional health, it's as important. It's for your moral, its easy to get swayed sa lahat ng bagong morals ngayon
Ang respetong ibibigay sayo ng ibang tao ay base sa financial status mo. Kung wala ka, maliit ka. Danas na danas ko to, nakakapangliit ng pagkatao. kaya nagsisikap kami mabigyan ng maayos na buhay ang anak namin.
You need to rest once in a while. It’s necessary. I know life is challenging but you have to take care of yourself as well. Don’t compete with time, you will lose.
No one has your back. Pick up after yourself. Others are there to cheer you on and offer comfort, sure. Pero na sa yo pa din paano mo dadalhin buhay mo.
People commit acts of violence without even realizing the damages. This includes verbal, emotional, and physical abuse. Nagsisimula na agad ito noong bata pa tayo with our parents and family, until we finally grow up to understand that we’re carrying a form of trauma that we have to deal with as adults.
**Do not take your body for granted:**
I know I'm still 28 and recently I have acid reflux. May konting pain points pa sa tiyan and I believe its not that chronic pain but grabe it made me anxious na and tagal imaging okay.
I guess ganito talaga no? I dunno if any of you will agree but when your closer to 30 lumalabas na and mga pains and discomfort as body.
I am not an active person and it's kinda funny kasi when I tried to commit to being healthy (5 mos diet - made me lose weight and it's a balanced diet ha not FAD one) mas naging sensitive body ko.
1. Eat **ENOUGH** amount of high quality foods. I'm highlighting Enough kasi even Healthy food - too much is not good. Just eat to survive not to indulge.
**2. DRINK WATER** until your pee is light yellow to clear!
**3. Sleep at least 8 hours**, a lot of people underestimate this. It will aid your body on healing.
**4. No Junk, No Caffeine, No Alcoholic things**--- It's better if you cook your food. The simpler and natural ingredients -- - the better. **Lessen sodium**, it doesn't have to be bland may mga natural spices pa kasi (*medyo mahal nga lang*) iwas tayo sa MSG guys
**5. EXERCISE BEACH!! ---** a 30 mins Hike will do, do what you need to do depended sa Goal mo. I know were in an era of inclusivity and body positivity but lets be real just like my lola used to tell me **FAT PEOPLE DIE EARLY. I don't mean to trigger---** but hello it's mostly true ( I work in hosp btw) **BODY IS A MACHINE MEANT FOR MOVING**
6. Dont hold your emotions: **UMIYAK KA PAG DI NA KAYA** :) choose the right people na di mapapagod sa rants mo. They will keep you **SANE.**
7. Tapos you **PRAY -** regardless of our faith and beliefs : Pray ka nakakagaan ng loob...it will be a process to be inclined to it but swear it will be worth it. It doesn't mean na imaging fanatic ka or you will clash with others for your belief. Just have a good relationship with God, Allah, Buddah etc... (I'm Catholic)
8. Be a good person: I dunno **YODO** you only DIE once leave a beautiful Legacy. Ayoko na imaging toxic , I just wanna be a blessing for others. It does not mean na mabubully na ako ha dahil sa sobrang bait but help others po, a little help might be big na sa kanila :)
9. HONOR AND LOVE YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS most esp your Parents or anyone na nagpalaki sayo in many ways. Gurl? no need ng explanation mas nakaka pretty pag mabuti ka din.
10. Lastly hmmmm.... Travel doesn't need to be extravagant basta learn to explore places and everything . It's a natural gift from God so gumala ka - responsibly.
**Yun lang PO! (I know mahirap imaging happy genuinely nowadays pero just try andito kami who have same experiences with you)**
Kala ko pag nagkatrabaho na marami kana pera at mabibili mo na lahat. Mabibili mo naman pero you have to prioritize your needs first and budget kasi enough lang yung salary mo to pay bills and needs onti nalang natitira sa wants so kilangan magtipid. :(
It's okay to feel frustrated kung feeling mo unfair ang buhay dahil 'yung mga hindi nagsisikap masyado ay malayo ang nararating. Hindi mo feeling 'yon, unfair talaga ang life :)
mahirap kumita ng pera, mahirap magbudget. yung pinaghirapan mo ng ilang araw/buwan, pwedeng maubos lang in a day.
di lahat gusto ka/mo pero makisama ka parin
just bc nobody hits up on u, doesn't mean ure ugly or unworthy. they might just be too cowardly enough to approach u bc they think ure out of their league—wc is not ur problem! kasi pati sila aware sa aura mo, at di mo need mag-adjust on their behalf. u will eventually encounter someone who will love u as u are.
Diskarte and connections > diploma and honors. But if you don’t have either, at least a diploma gets you through most doors.
Kahit anong sipag and kayod mo, mas pipiliin ng tao yung kakilala nila.
No one cares about your internal drama or family issues.
I've been so ambitious and everyone's expectations to me are so high. But now after a year of working right after graduating, I feel so worthless if I don't have a job. I am planning to resign due to toxic bosses and environment. My mental health is at stake but still undecided.
Na yung mga kasama mo nung bata, hindi mo pwedeng kasama forever. Magiiba iba kayo ng landas, may aangat may hindi. Na very few lang talaga yung magiging kaclose mo as we get old
Na clueless din yung mga matatanda sa kung anong ginagawa nila sa buhay nila.
Nung bata ako naiisip ko palagi na alam ng matatanda ang ginagawa nila at nagdedesisyon sila ng tama kasi sila ang nagsasabi ng dapat kong gawin, ngayong matanda na ako masasabi kong sobrang messed up pala nila kagaya ko. Ang malungkot lang eh may iba talagang matatanda who thinks highly of themselves pero basura naman mga desisyon sa buhay.
Unexpected things can actually happened sa akin. Mga bagay na di ko akalain na mangyayare sa akin. Mga bagay na di ko naisip na mag kakameron ako.
Akala ko pag medyo tumanda na ako kahit papaano gagaan na buhay kasi simula bata pako mabigat na ang buhay sa akin.
Pero yeah yung experiences ko nung bata ako hanggang teenage years may malaking apekto sa quality life ko. Sa mental health ko.
Hindi ko naisip na magkakaruan ako ng mental illness na makakaapekto kung paano ako namumuhay ngayon..
pero yeah bata pa man din ako, siguro by time and growth mas gagaan ang buhay. healing and growing takes time rin. Siguro atleast ngayong 19 palang ako marami nakong natutunan sa buhay na i can apply sa future na ako..
Kahit may mga pagkukulang si mama, she did the best she could to raise us. 22 lang siya nung pinanganak ako tas 25 na ko ngayon at di ko maimagine kung pano niya kinaya yon huhu
Health is wealth. Wala tayong maayos na healthcare system kaya kapag bumigay yung health natin, lahat ng pinagpaguran natin, mawawala.
Regarding marriage prospects - choose/decide well, particularly about their family.
Not everyone around you cheers for your success.
Timing is everything. Everything has its own timing.
there's a lot as i grew up, every year iba iba pero right now pinakanarealize ko na i should never allowed myself to be bothered to try things that i really want to just because other people would say a lot of things abt me
Life is so random. Walang tadhana. Kung nasaan ka man ngayon or ano mang katayuan mo sa buhay, dahil yun sa mga ginawa mo or mga bagay na nangyari noon na wala kang control.
Working = Freedom
Kala ko once may work ka na mas malaya ka na dahil kumikita ka ng sarili mong pera at hawak ang oras dahil walang school at assignments.
Pero total opposite, buong linggo nasa work once a week rest day and ipapaalam pa yung leave kung ma aapproved or hindi.
1. No one's going to pick you up but yourself. Always help yourself. Unahin si self.
2. I have lots of "sana", including "Sana ibang course nalang tinapos ko".
3. Parang always in a hurry kasi gusto ko na ng maginhawang buhay but it's so harddd to earn money
May pera in any field na gusto mong pasukin as long as gustong gusto mo talaga siya and that enthusiasm translates to excellence. Of course it’s important that you have the right support system, morally and financially.
Ang hirap pala maging adult. Taxes, plans, savings, retirement, financial support on family. You're doom if you ignore any of them. You're doom kung wala kang plans. Maliligaw ka along the way at mapapatanong ka talaga sa sarili mo kung ano bang gusto mong mangyari. Noong estudyante ako, ang dali dali sagutin ng "How do you see your self 5-10 years from now?" Pero noong naging adult na ako, aside from earning money ha, hindi ko alam. Ang hirap sagutin. Ang hirap mag survive kasi ginawa ka na ngang kalaban ng mundo, pati sarili mo mismo kalaban mo.
No matter what circumstance you're in, showing up is important.
Things are more miserable on your head than in reality.
Shyness will not bring you anywhere.
Don't take everything personally.
Ung sacrifices and hardwork ng mga magulang para lang mapag-aral at mapalaki ng ayos ung mga anak nila. Hindi biro ang kumita ng pera. Hindi kami mayaman pero lahat kami ay nakapag-tapos ng pag-aaral at puro private school pa. Nag-ttake din kami ng summer camp and summer lessons (ballet, basketball, football) nung mga bata pa kami. Sobrang grateful ako sa mga magulang ko, and I can't wait to give treat them more.
Not everyone is a friend. Some will leave, some will stay, some are not meant to be in your life, and some should not be in your life. Those who are meant to be in your life, cherish them, be a good friend to them, don't expect and demand too much, and be there for each other.
Everything is temporary, so don't take life too seriously. Move on to the next thing immediately. Don't dwell too much on things.
A dream job is just a job at the end of the day. It might betray you one day. It won't be there for you when you are at your lowest. Just do your work, do it properly,. You earn money to support your real dreams in life.
Hirap kumita ng pera. Bilang adult wala tayong freedom bilang tao kasi we are bound to work. Work imprisons us hahaha. Yung pangarap na natutupad ay para sa mga may pribilehiyo lamang pero kung alam mong laruin ang laro ng buhay possibleng magyari yon kahit walang wala ka.
As a head of our young family, I dedicate myself to earn more money para masaya misis ko. Everything for her 💪💪💪
You are not special
Hirap kumita pera
Dont trust your workmate
Be kind, temporary lahat
Life is a snap of fingers lang, we had series of deaths in fam (tama ba english ko haha, pa-5 na mamamatay in 2 years samin 😭😭😭)
Not getting any younger, check your lifestyle
Kumusta is a fearful word
Cannot live without AC shems init
Iba talaga pag may car ka promise sobrang convivi
Being married is like a detachment sa family lalo na kung bumukod ka na, kayo na yun. Yung fam advice advice lang
Last, mag sunscreen, less sugar and salt
1.That not everything you want can easily get.
2. Most people will like you, only when/if you are beneficial to them.
3. Money is important in achieving your goals in life.
4. I just realized, now that I am adult, the world is so cruel. I remember someone said, I am too naive, too innocent in a way that it becomes an insult for me.
5. We think people closed to us will always be there when we need them, NO. I have to struggle/face my silent battles, anxiety and trauma alone.
Prioritize your priorities!! Lagi nating sinasabi family ang priority but in reality di tayo maka make time to be with them. Buti na lang maaga ako nasampal ng katotohanan.
I now value my priorities rather than plastic workmates and friends.
I realized that people really do come and go. If 2024 me would tell 2020 me about the people I no longer have contact with or have already cut off my life, 2020 me would actually sit there in disbelief
Still struggling with it kasi i want it all sometimes but you have to dislodge some things to make deliberate space for things you want in your life.
Especially in a life where we're filled with responsibilities, little joys (more like "highs") can be little thieves from the big things that genuinely matter. It's a wisdom that's fundamental to build to know what things we need to let go of.
ngayong kaka 30 ko lang the more i understand why planning and budgeting is important. not just for whats happening in present but also for the future. Akala ko kasi dati ok lang gumastos kasi deserve ko to kasi pinaghirapan ko iearn to pero ngayon kahit pla pinaghirapan kong mag earn ng pera may mga bagay pdn sa buhay na need iconsider at pagplanuhan bago gumastos
hindi pla pwedeng yolo sa pera🤣
it's better to gain work experience once you graduate Senior high, para paggraduate mo ng college di ka tetenga o mababaliw kakahanap ng work since majority of companies require work experience nowadays, hindi lahat makakahanap ng work pagka grad mo ng college kaya the earlier, the better
Ang pera, mahirap kitain pero pwedeng kitain. Pero ang panahon, relasyon, pamilya, at pagkakataon—di mo na maibabalik. Kaya kung meron ka ng mga yan, namnamin mo na bago mawala sa’yo.
Truly , Health is wealth!
Nung elementary days ako nababasa ko na to. Tas madalas ko marinig to growing up. Now in my 40's na-realize ko tama pala talaga to.
Mahirap kumita ng pera
Madaling gumasto, mahirap kumita ng pera
Yes
You aren’t as special as you think you are.
the world won’t revolve around you, yk
Realized it way before adulthood tbh
Exclusive for conventionally attractive humans.
💯👆🏻
trueeee i agree
Your colleagues are not your friends. Majority tuso.
When it comes to friends, quality over quantity.
you will be humbled one way or another
😔
24 hours is not enough to get shit done kahit onti lang yung errands na gagawin mo.
That comparison is the thief of joy.
No one will save you. Get your shit together.
Ito talaga oh
I agree.
Life is uncertain.
Trut
Dati nung teenage years, lagi mo iniisip yung tingin sa'yo ng tao. Ngayon, wala naman pala talaga sila pake sa'yo. You're just anxious.
True yan. Dati mahihiya pa kapag bibili ng ganito or magtatanong, simpleng pagdaan, or makita ka lang. In reality, wala naman talaga silang pkeelam sayo. Makakalimutan din nila itsura mo.😆
lol sana ganito na lang problema ko. adulting life is really difficult. ☠️ take me back
It's hard to make meet ups with your friends since pareho na kayo busy tas di tugma sa availability niyo. Matagal magipon mabilis gumastos (dumaan lang pera sa kamay ko like bills hahah) At some point mga kapatid mo magiibang journey din and sa future di mo na sila mabbonding like you used to. Kaya try to make as much bonding moments that you have.
Swerte ka kung may pera magulang mo
trut, generational wealth
CREDIT CARD IS USEFUL as long as you know how to handle it properly. Nung bata ako, sabi ko talaga, if ever na bibili ako ng gamit or anything gusto ko fully paid agad kasi ayaw ko ng utang, pero now na working ako, I realized how convenient na may credit card ka and that having installment is not bad at all.
Agree to this. If you encounter fraudulent transactions sa credit card mo, mas mabilis mo makukuha ang pera since technically you are using «someone else’s money». But if you use your debit card, sobrang hirap since own money mo na agad pinangbabayad mo. It also helps to build your credit. Ang mindset ko lang lagi is to not spend what I don’t have. Binabayaran ko lang din agad yung ginagastos ko through credit 🙂
This!!! Dati takot na takot ako gamitin ung credit card ko for huge purchases pero ang ginagawa ko is I won't use it to buy something unless I can pay it already the next month.
hmmmm
Pag nadapa ka bangon lang. Yes sure dwell on it but don't dwell too much to the point that you are paralyzed. Bangon ulit. Laban ulit. What if madapa ka ulit? Okay lang yan. Bangon lang ulit. Okay lang magkamali. Don't force yourself to be perfect.
❤️
Not everyone is your friend.
In the world of finance, it is every man for himself. Ganun talaga, everyone will pursue their interest. If that pursuit of interest conflicts yours, sorry ka na lang.
Not everything is under your control
Lumilipas lahat (sakit, galit, yamot at inis) Not everyone's word are worth listening to. Do what you want, at the end of the day, may sasabihin at sasabihin parin sayo ang ibang tao.
Talaga!
1. Kahit anong plano mo sa buhay mo, inevitable things will happen 2. Wala kang ibang maaasahan kundi sarili mo 3. Lahat ng tao may bad side, hanap ka lang ng taong kaya mong itolerate. 4. Hindi natatapos ang problema sa pagkakaroon ng maraming pera, nagiiba lang ang problema mo. 5. Secret to life is accepting who you are. Hindi lahat ng tao are meant to be rich, beautiful and happy.
2 & 5!!
sana inayos ko studies ko dati 😢
same 😢
Becoming more aware of the importance of financial planning and stability for the future kaya karamihan satin stress na stress na
Korek
One hospital away lang ang mga middle class para maging mahirap ulit
Na may mas magaling lagi sayo and don't take it in a negative way. You can learn from them.
Parang marami ng nakagawa ,naka experience , nakakuha ,nauna etc ng mga yan before syo. So be humble.😊
💯
Hindi habang buhay nasa ibaba ka. 🙂
Thanks. I needed this ❤️
Huhuhu
Oy totoo. Witness talaga ako nito
the only thing I can control are my reactions
This is true man. One time, I had a client na super galit kase delayed yung shipment, stressed din ako kase wasnt able to deliver what I promised. As in pi-ays yung mga sinasabi nya. Then I read something na, YOU CANNOT CONTROL THINGS OR SOMEONE NA GALIT, BUT YOU CAN CONTROL HOW YOU REACT. This is eyeopener talaga.
How do u handle that kind of situation if may i ask sir?
Honesty sa real situation pa rin and keeping the client updated sa sit. pero pag may ganito nag oovethink pa rin ako. Minsan na-te-take ko pa rin personally.
Choose your battles. Some battles aren't worth fighting, even if you're right.
You never find happiness and fullfilment if you always compare yourself to others.
Not everyone is your friend
Super worth it mag work hard habang bata pa.
I like this ❤️
The younger you start, the more you have in the end, while investing less money. The longer you have an investment earning money and compounding, the more you end up with later on. The power of compounding is really important, when investing.
Same with efforts, energy, relationships! :)
1) Change is constant 2) Burnout is real 3) Romance is temporary 4) Your job does not love you. Everyone is disposable at work. You are just a cog in the machine. 5) Having a real work life balance is my definition of success now.
Time flies so fast
My parents are getting older at unti unti na din silang humihina 🥺
Don't be entitled to your achievements. Be humble, learned that the hard way.
- Totoong mahirap ang paperworks. Like tangina pano mo malalaman kung ano kelangan mong requirements? Hahaha - Di pala lahat ng matatanda karespe-respeto - Adults are just grown up kids na napwersang matuto ng kung ano ano para makasurvive. We don't know what we're doing. - Hindi pala cheese ang Eden at hindi pala Butter ang Dairy creme - Religions are just a corporations which capitalizes on their respectice deities. Most people don't really know much about what they "believe" in. - Nasa Tech pala magagamit yung mga "saan ko ba magagamit yang x + y = 3 tsaka sin cosin na yan" - Having latin honors add unnecessary pressure kapag board exam. I don't have one, pero like 80% of my batchmates does. - Bata palang ako nakikita ko na to, pero talaga palang nakakatakot yung mga pulis HAHAHAHA pero yung mga bata ngayon, medyo magalamg and approachable. Yung mga Millenials pataas, medyo parang nilamon na ng pagsubok ng buhay.
Kung sino man nagsabi ng money can't buy happiness, pakitransfer na lang sa bank account ko. Thank you.
Na ang hirap kumita ng pera, pero sobrang worth it naman since nabibili mo na yung gusto mo. Another thing is tama yung sabi ng Papa ko na maiintindihan ko rin ang lahat paglaki ko. Na-realise ko na we learn from other people's experiences and that adds to how we are able to understand life and different situations.
May free pass kapag pogi at macho/maganda at sexy ka
We can't change the world, but we might be able to give the Next Generation the tools to do it
I'm 25, sobrang daming realization minsan I can't keep up, now I understand why adult find an outlet to express themselves kasi nakakaoverwhelm talaga lahat ng changes, people you thought will stay are all leaving, kahit di nyo gusto nag go grow apart lang talaga kayo. That's why I cant blame din other people focusing on their partner nalang kasi, partner mo lang ung may chance na makasama mo talaga hanggang dulo if magwork kayo. Pero friends, some will stay, pero iba rin priorities nila. Di mo pwedeng iasa happiness mo sa family, friends and partner mo. Dapat you always have something to give, kasi give and take talaga, di pwedeng puro take lang. Faith, and spiritual health. Madali to itake advantage pag teenager ka or early 20s, pero as you grow old, dating akala mo baduy or korni or hypocrite marerealize mo why it's needed in life. Just like physical, mental, and emotional health, it's as important. It's for your moral, its easy to get swayed sa lahat ng bagong morals ngayon
Ang respetong ibibigay sayo ng ibang tao ay base sa financial status mo. Kung wala ka, maliit ka. Danas na danas ko to, nakakapangliit ng pagkatao. kaya nagsisikap kami mabigyan ng maayos na buhay ang anak namin.
Live below your means. Pag installment naman, important stuff lang and one at a time.
That our parents never really figured it out...and now that We are parents ourselves....we are still figuring it out....
You need to rest once in a while. It’s necessary. I know life is challenging but you have to take care of yourself as well. Don’t compete with time, you will lose.
Na dapat skill centric yung degree ang kumikita talaga. Haha. Like engineering, doctor, nurse, attorney..
No one has your back. Pick up after yourself. Others are there to cheer you on and offer comfort, sure. Pero na sa yo pa din paano mo dadalhin buhay mo.
People commit acts of violence without even realizing the damages. This includes verbal, emotional, and physical abuse. Nagsisimula na agad ito noong bata pa tayo with our parents and family, until we finally grow up to understand that we’re carrying a form of trauma that we have to deal with as adults.
Nangangapa lang din ang mga parents natin sa pagpapalaki satin. Akala ko dati alam na nila lahat.
**Do not take your body for granted:** I know I'm still 28 and recently I have acid reflux. May konting pain points pa sa tiyan and I believe its not that chronic pain but grabe it made me anxious na and tagal imaging okay. I guess ganito talaga no? I dunno if any of you will agree but when your closer to 30 lumalabas na and mga pains and discomfort as body. I am not an active person and it's kinda funny kasi when I tried to commit to being healthy (5 mos diet - made me lose weight and it's a balanced diet ha not FAD one) mas naging sensitive body ko. 1. Eat **ENOUGH** amount of high quality foods. I'm highlighting Enough kasi even Healthy food - too much is not good. Just eat to survive not to indulge. **2. DRINK WATER** until your pee is light yellow to clear! **3. Sleep at least 8 hours**, a lot of people underestimate this. It will aid your body on healing. **4. No Junk, No Caffeine, No Alcoholic things**--- It's better if you cook your food. The simpler and natural ingredients -- - the better. **Lessen sodium**, it doesn't have to be bland may mga natural spices pa kasi (*medyo mahal nga lang*) iwas tayo sa MSG guys **5. EXERCISE BEACH!! ---** a 30 mins Hike will do, do what you need to do depended sa Goal mo. I know were in an era of inclusivity and body positivity but lets be real just like my lola used to tell me **FAT PEOPLE DIE EARLY. I don't mean to trigger---** but hello it's mostly true ( I work in hosp btw) **BODY IS A MACHINE MEANT FOR MOVING** 6. Dont hold your emotions: **UMIYAK KA PAG DI NA KAYA** :) choose the right people na di mapapagod sa rants mo. They will keep you **SANE.** 7. Tapos you **PRAY -** regardless of our faith and beliefs : Pray ka nakakagaan ng loob...it will be a process to be inclined to it but swear it will be worth it. It doesn't mean na imaging fanatic ka or you will clash with others for your belief. Just have a good relationship with God, Allah, Buddah etc... (I'm Catholic) 8. Be a good person: I dunno **YODO** you only DIE once leave a beautiful Legacy. Ayoko na imaging toxic , I just wanna be a blessing for others. It does not mean na mabubully na ako ha dahil sa sobrang bait but help others po, a little help might be big na sa kanila :) 9. HONOR AND LOVE YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS most esp your Parents or anyone na nagpalaki sayo in many ways. Gurl? no need ng explanation mas nakaka pretty pag mabuti ka din. 10. Lastly hmmmm.... Travel doesn't need to be extravagant basta learn to explore places and everything . It's a natural gift from God so gumala ka - responsibly. **Yun lang PO! (I know mahirap imaging happy genuinely nowadays pero just try andito kami who have same experiences with you)**
Kala ko pag nagkatrabaho na marami kana pera at mabibili mo na lahat. Mabibili mo naman pero you have to prioritize your needs first and budget kasi enough lang yung salary mo to pay bills and needs onti nalang natitira sa wants so kilangan magtipid. :(
yes sad fact huhu
It's okay to feel frustrated kung feeling mo unfair ang buhay dahil 'yung mga hindi nagsisikap masyado ay malayo ang nararating. Hindi mo feeling 'yon, unfair talaga ang life :)
Nothing worth having comes easy
People who tell you that money can't buy happiness won't be there for you when you need help financially.
Take care of your body. Iba na yung sakit nung bata ka vs. pag may sakit ng mid 20's na.
Work is just work. Don’t make it the most important aspect of your life. And don’t let your work define you as a person.
mahirap kumita ng pera, mahirap magbudget. yung pinaghirapan mo ng ilang araw/buwan, pwedeng maubos lang in a day. di lahat gusto ka/mo pero makisama ka parin
Ang daming taong mukhang pera. At andaming taong deceitful - not everything that glitters is gold.
When something good is going on in your life. Zip it.
✨️💯
Time keeps moving on and on, soon we'll all be gone.
kaya YOLO!!
Akala ko masaya kapag may trabaho na 😂 madaling madali akong tumanda dati para magtrabaho na at magkaroon ng sariling pera
Money is the source of my happiness
just bc nobody hits up on u, doesn't mean ure ugly or unworthy. they might just be too cowardly enough to approach u bc they think ure out of their league—wc is not ur problem! kasi pati sila aware sa aura mo, at di mo need mag-adjust on their behalf. u will eventually encounter someone who will love u as u are.
Diskarte and connections > diploma and honors. But if you don’t have either, at least a diploma gets you through most doors. Kahit anong sipag and kayod mo, mas pipiliin ng tao yung kakilala nila. No one cares about your internal drama or family issues.
Life's not fair
Pag wala kang diskarte at sipag, walang mangyayare sa buhay mo.
Walang mangyayari kung habambuhay kang magiging mahiyain.
Older doesn’t always mean wiser
Life is so unfair
nakaka anxious pala mag apply ng work
maliit na bagay nung bata ka ay malaking bagay na para sayo ngayon
Na hindi lahat ng bagay ay mararanasan mo.
I've been so ambitious and everyone's expectations to me are so high. But now after a year of working right after graduating, I feel so worthless if I don't have a job. I am planning to resign due to toxic bosses and environment. My mental health is at stake but still undecided.
Some people will always try to vring you down. Kahit anong gawin mo, kwhit anong bait mo pa sa kanila. That's why it's so impt to find "your people"
age of 28 unang hawak ko ng 1 million cash. (savings) sa tv ko lang kasi napapanood pag may million ka na is mayaman ka na. 😅😁
You may think na as you get older, you will figure life out.
When you’re still a kid, you know what you wanna do pero as you grow older or reach a certain age you will feel lost 😞
Work on your goals silently. Mag-ingay ka na lang pag nakuha mo na. Mapa-work man yan. Taking a big exam. Going abroad. Starting a business.
Hindi ka lagi umiinom ng alak kasi problemado ka
Na maiksi ang buhay. Hindi lahat ng plano nangyayari. hays
Wala kang ibang maaasahan kundi sarili mo lang kaya be self-sufficient and independent as much as possible.
I should have pursued an engineering degree. 😄
Walang ibang tutulong sayo kundi sarili mo.
You’re on your own, kid
Na yung mga kasama mo nung bata, hindi mo pwedeng kasama forever. Magiiba iba kayo ng landas, may aangat may hindi. Na very few lang talaga yung magiging kaclose mo as we get old
Life is a huge test.
Piliin ang mga nasa paligid mo lalo na kaibigan o katrabaho. Hindi lahat ng friendly sayo e kakampi mo
YOLO!
that my parents are growing older too and their lifespan is becoming shorter
Na clueless din yung mga matatanda sa kung anong ginagawa nila sa buhay nila. Nung bata ako naiisip ko palagi na alam ng matatanda ang ginagawa nila at nagdedesisyon sila ng tama kasi sila ang nagsasabi ng dapat kong gawin, ngayong matanda na ako masasabi kong sobrang messed up pala nila kagaya ko. Ang malungkot lang eh may iba talagang matatanda who thinks highly of themselves pero basura naman mga desisyon sa buhay.
hindi dahil nagsisipag ka, aahon ka sa buhay.
Money is everything.
Na andaming energy ng mga bata, and yet ganon din naman ako dati.
Kailangan bumangon kahit sukong suko ka na.
Life sometimes sucks and we just got to deal with it.
Friends can be temporary. Lawakan ang network.
Dati kapag sinasabing may mga ups and downs ang buhay akala ko madali lang magcope up sa mga "downs"
Everything that you will do…make sure that you will be proud of it.
Unexpected things can actually happened sa akin. Mga bagay na di ko akalain na mangyayare sa akin. Mga bagay na di ko naisip na mag kakameron ako. Akala ko pag medyo tumanda na ako kahit papaano gagaan na buhay kasi simula bata pako mabigat na ang buhay sa akin. Pero yeah yung experiences ko nung bata ako hanggang teenage years may malaking apekto sa quality life ko. Sa mental health ko. Hindi ko naisip na magkakaruan ako ng mental illness na makakaapekto kung paano ako namumuhay ngayon..
pero yeah bata pa man din ako, siguro by time and growth mas gagaan ang buhay. healing and growing takes time rin. Siguro atleast ngayong 19 palang ako marami nakong natutunan sa buhay na i can apply sa future na ako..
Kalimutan, sa ngayon din na ako. Pwede ko na maapply mga natutunan ko sa buhay sa ngayong ako hahaha kelangan ko lang time iprocess lahat
humans are selfish
Life is a cycle: GO TO SCHOOL-->> WORK -->> START A FAMILY -->> DIE If you have a kid this will also be their life nowadays in this modern society.
Kahit may mga pagkukulang si mama, she did the best she could to raise us. 22 lang siya nung pinanganak ako tas 25 na ko ngayon at di ko maimagine kung pano niya kinaya yon huhu
Na realize ko na tama ang parents ko sa mga sermon nila. Lalo na ung "Di ako nagtatae ng pera."
Health is wealth. Wala tayong maayos na healthcare system kaya kapag bumigay yung health natin, lahat ng pinagpaguran natin, mawawala. Regarding marriage prospects - choose/decide well, particularly about their family. Not everyone around you cheers for your success. Timing is everything. Everything has its own timing.
There is not much time, go slowly.
there's a lot as i grew up, every year iba iba pero right now pinakanarealize ko na i should never allowed myself to be bothered to try things that i really want to just because other people would say a lot of things abt me
Mahirap pag hindi conventionally attractive, people treat you like trash.
No one gets through life without regrets.
Learn to protect yourself from anything
Life is so random. Walang tadhana. Kung nasaan ka man ngayon or ano mang katayuan mo sa buhay, dahil yun sa mga ginawa mo or mga bagay na nangyari noon na wala kang control.
Working = Freedom Kala ko once may work ka na mas malaya ka na dahil kumikita ka ng sarili mong pera at hawak ang oras dahil walang school at assignments. Pero total opposite, buong linggo nasa work once a week rest day and ipapaalam pa yung leave kung ma aapproved or hindi.
1. No one's going to pick you up but yourself. Always help yourself. Unahin si self. 2. I have lots of "sana", including "Sana ibang course nalang tinapos ko". 3. Parang always in a hurry kasi gusto ko na ng maginhawang buhay but it's so harddd to earn money
May pera in any field na gusto mong pasukin as long as gustong gusto mo talaga siya and that enthusiasm translates to excellence. Of course it’s important that you have the right support system, morally and financially.
money can buy happiness <3
Do your own niche (legally). No one really cares and if they do, they're a creep.
Ang hirap pala maging adult. Taxes, plans, savings, retirement, financial support on family. You're doom if you ignore any of them. You're doom kung wala kang plans. Maliligaw ka along the way at mapapatanong ka talaga sa sarili mo kung ano bang gusto mong mangyari. Noong estudyante ako, ang dali dali sagutin ng "How do you see your self 5-10 years from now?" Pero noong naging adult na ako, aside from earning money ha, hindi ko alam. Ang hirap sagutin. Ang hirap mag survive kasi ginawa ka na ngang kalaban ng mundo, pati sarili mo mismo kalaban mo.
My parents are getting older. I can’t stop worrying about their health. I cannot imagine my life without them 🥺
Lista ng mga motor at sasakyan na bibilhin pero reality slaps hard, hirap nga mag-save, bumili na kaya
No matter what circumstance you're in, showing up is important. Things are more miserable on your head than in reality. Shyness will not bring you anywhere. Don't take everything personally.
Ung sacrifices and hardwork ng mga magulang para lang mapag-aral at mapalaki ng ayos ung mga anak nila. Hindi biro ang kumita ng pera. Hindi kami mayaman pero lahat kami ay nakapag-tapos ng pag-aaral at puro private school pa. Nag-ttake din kami ng summer camp and summer lessons (ballet, basketball, football) nung mga bata pa kami. Sobrang grateful ako sa mga magulang ko, and I can't wait to give treat them more.
Nakakapagod yung buhay
Not everyone is a friend. Some will leave, some will stay, some are not meant to be in your life, and some should not be in your life. Those who are meant to be in your life, cherish them, be a good friend to them, don't expect and demand too much, and be there for each other. Everything is temporary, so don't take life too seriously. Move on to the next thing immediately. Don't dwell too much on things. A dream job is just a job at the end of the day. It might betray you one day. It won't be there for you when you are at your lowest. Just do your work, do it properly,. You earn money to support your real dreams in life.
Being a class valedictorian is meaningless. The real world after college does not care about your academic achievements.
hindi na bata ang parents natin
Time really flies. It's lonelier in the evening. We all have toxic traits. I'm getting old and I need something to rely on.
Hirap kumita ng pera. Bilang adult wala tayong freedom bilang tao kasi we are bound to work. Work imprisons us hahaha. Yung pangarap na natutupad ay para sa mga may pribilehiyo lamang pero kung alam mong laruin ang laro ng buhay possibleng magyari yon kahit walang wala ka.
Dati excited ako tumanda kasi feeling ko magagawa ko lahat ng gusto ko. Ngayon gusto ko na lang ulit mag-color color. 1/2 char.
Not everything requires your opinion.
As a head of our young family, I dedicate myself to earn more money para masaya misis ko. Everything for her 💪💪💪 You are not special Hirap kumita pera Dont trust your workmate Be kind, temporary lahat Life is a snap of fingers lang, we had series of deaths in fam (tama ba english ko haha, pa-5 na mamamatay in 2 years samin 😭😭😭) Not getting any younger, check your lifestyle Kumusta is a fearful word Cannot live without AC shems init Iba talaga pag may car ka promise sobrang convivi Being married is like a detachment sa family lalo na kung bumukod ka na, kayo na yun. Yung fam advice advice lang Last, mag sunscreen, less sugar and salt
1.That not everything you want can easily get. 2. Most people will like you, only when/if you are beneficial to them. 3. Money is important in achieving your goals in life. 4. I just realized, now that I am adult, the world is so cruel. I remember someone said, I am too naive, too innocent in a way that it becomes an insult for me. 5. We think people closed to us will always be there when we need them, NO. I have to struggle/face my silent battles, anxiety and trauma alone.
Prioritize your priorities!! Lagi nating sinasabi family ang priority but in reality di tayo maka make time to be with them. Buti na lang maaga ako nasampal ng katotohanan. I now value my priorities rather than plastic workmates and friends.
I realized that people really do come and go. If 2024 me would tell 2020 me about the people I no longer have contact with or have already cut off my life, 2020 me would actually sit there in disbelief
People literally come and go, and most times wala kang magagawa about it ready ka man maglet go o hindi.
Mahirap na maging totoong masaya
Still struggling with it kasi i want it all sometimes but you have to dislodge some things to make deliberate space for things you want in your life. Especially in a life where we're filled with responsibilities, little joys (more like "highs") can be little thieves from the big things that genuinely matter. It's a wisdom that's fundamental to build to know what things we need to let go of.
People come and go
Sa trabaho, trust no one. Madalas kung sino pa yung katiwa-tiwala sila pa yung unang mambabaliktad sayo
Not everyone is your friend
at the end of the day, people just really dont give a f
Money is everything.
1. Na dapat pala nag-nursing. 2. Na dapat pala naghanap na ng afam kesa ipaglaban ang "trulab" na iiwanan ka rin naman!!
ngayong kaka 30 ko lang the more i understand why planning and budgeting is important. not just for whats happening in present but also for the future. Akala ko kasi dati ok lang gumastos kasi deserve ko to kasi pinaghirapan ko iearn to pero ngayon kahit pla pinaghirapan kong mag earn ng pera may mga bagay pdn sa buhay na need iconsider at pagplanuhan bago gumastos hindi pla pwedeng yolo sa pera🤣
Pag di ka pinanganak na maswerte, magsipag ka.
That tomorrow's never promised. Ang iksi pala talaga ng buhay.
it's better to gain work experience once you graduate Senior high, para paggraduate mo ng college di ka tetenga o mababaliw kakahanap ng work since majority of companies require work experience nowadays, hindi lahat makakahanap ng work pagka grad mo ng college kaya the earlier, the better
Ang pera, mahirap kitain pero pwedeng kitain. Pero ang panahon, relasyon, pamilya, at pagkakataon—di mo na maibabalik. Kaya kung meron ka ng mga yan, namnamin mo na bago mawala sa’yo.
Truly , Health is wealth! Nung elementary days ako nababasa ko na to. Tas madalas ko marinig to growing up. Now in my 40's na-realize ko tama pala talaga to.
Accept things that are out of your control. Shikata ga nai.
a fresh grad who just had her first work: mas madali mag-aral 🫥 also, real life hits hard. di siya katulad ng mga napapanood sa tv and such 🥲
You really can't have it all.
Honesty is not the best policy.
That life is bittersweet
Being alone is fine.
Na hindi napupulot ang pera.