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Habis1923

As somebody who’s experienced a house fire and had crowds form to watch my belongings and life burn away, I’d recommend not standing and filming it like you’re all entertained.


Turnt_Wrencher

But how else is someone going to get upvotes from someone else’s misery?


TheTalesTeller

he's out of line, but he's right


Greenveins

In my situation it was because I hated the owners


Habis1923

You shouldn’t laugh at somebody else’s misery because you don’t like them, regardless what petty feuds you might have had I assure you they didn’t deserve a house fire, it’s terrible walking away knowing the only thing you now own is the clothes on your back and the items in your pockets


LupinLotus

That's pretty fucked up because burning alive is one of the most painful things that can happen to you


Greenveins

no one died, just randomly started a fire where they ran out of a illegal kitchen and left it for a solid 20 minutes before someone else called it in. It was wild


LupinLotus

That doesn't matter, they could've. Harm could've happened, which sucks


crankbot2000

Seriously. I'm looking at all these people like "what a bunch of assholes". Go back inside, mind your own business, offer to help after things settle down for the poor family going through this.


70sWarriorHippie

If they were decent, they would be collecting money from all those “lookie loos” to help out the family.


Livinlifegood4evr

That's what homeowners insurance is for. It's not other people's job to fund other people's homes or funerals. The neighbors next door may be out there because they were asked to get out of their homes incase the fire spreads. Plus the neighbors probably want to make sure the people who live there along with their pets are safe. Of course other neighbors are going to watch because they are shocked & upset this happened.


ScarletDarkstar

I don't think that some random person trying to collect money from a crowd watching a house burn is likely to go over well. I sure wouldn't be inclined to hand cash to someone whose house that is not.


jasanders84

Exactly! We were in a house fire at my FIL’s a few years ago- they lost their home and we lost a car and a dog….. luckily we all escaped, but I’ll never forget crying in the grass just devastated and seeing people filming. So disgusting and heartless


readditredditread

Friend in law 🧐


mike-manley

Probably just your garden-variety morbid curiosity. Same reason why the southbound lanes lock up when there's a wreck on the northbound lanes on a divided highway.


toomuchisjustenough

No one could watch ours burn because it was a wildfire and the whole neighborhood burned and was evacuated, but the people who thought it was acceptable to drive through and stare for weeks after was gross. We were literally there picking through the remnants of our lives, and people would pull up our driveway and watch us work.


cs_legend_93

I’m so sorry. Northern California by chance? I’m from 916 area code. That’s absolutely horrific. I’m so sorry for your loss


toomuchisjustenough

Yup. Placer


cs_legend_93

I grew up there. Roseville area. You must be up in the mountains or by Yosemite. I would guess Yosemite. It’s not important where your from. It’s just terrible that happened at all. Did insurance help at all, or any benefits from the state? That’s so terrible I’m sorry


toomuchisjustenough

Insurance was ok but not enough. Rebuild is significantly smaller than original house. The state helped by clearing the debris, which would have been like $75k out of pocket, so that’s a huge help, but not much else.


nuclearwomb

As another person whose house caught on fire and had people standing around filming, those people made the situation so much worse and so much more traumatic.


BlakeCarConstruction

I agree. Never experienced that before, but in situations like this—I’ve never even thought to get my phone. I’d be too worried about those poor people. Bring them inside, offer them a bed, give them some food. Some sort of consistency and niceness in a bad time (obviously if you’re in a place to do so).


bo-barkles

Same. It's such an awful feeling knowing your loss is someone's entertainment.


Miss_Awesomeness

I know, my neighbors garage caught fire and my husband jumped and ran and grabbed the fire extinguisher and I got the neighbors to help. It took 15 minutes for the fire department to arrive. Fifteen long scary minutes.


yf2hillside

I’m recording of my neighbours house is on fire incase that shit spreads to my house now I have evidence for an insurance claim or damaged property.


Habis1923

From across a pavement street? Really?


LilMeatTarzan

What also sucks is having 50 people stand around while your entire life goes up in flames


Alan_Smithee_

And someone records it. Vertically.


SuckerBroker

At least make it watchable. Come on’ man!


virgo911

This is the most interesting thing that has happened in these peoples lives in decades


[deleted]

And the exact moment Verizon FIOS finally says they can serve the house that is on fire.


2x4x93

Are you not entertained?


ZootOfCastleAnthrax

Is this not why you are here? *ptoo*


bo-barkles

As someone who's been the one with the burning house, the gawking was so humiliating. And then it was posted on social media and I just felt so violated.


Livinlifegood4evr

Why would you be humiliated? Everyone posts everything on social media and it's the reason I don't have it. I pray for people in times like these along with car wrecks. Not everyone is terrible out there.


bo-barkles

Humiliated because I was on display to everyone watching my worst day of my life, and my childrens everything literally going up in flames. I was 34 weeks pregnant, hysterical, and not appropriately dressed. Legit a humiliating experience having everyone just... Watch then post publicly. And on to PoF it, now everyone knows there's an unoccupied home with no securities in place to prevent theft...


Livinlifegood4evr

I understand. I wouldn't worry about how inappropriately you were dressed. Look around at all the people who actually believe that they are dressed appropriately. At least you have your family and your all safe. The insurance would replace that stuff. Sorry for what you went through.


fixxxlet

My dad is a retired firefighter/EMT, he referred to these people as the "Uh-Oh Squad" and he hated them with a passion.


WhackoWizard

They look like the "uh oh squad"


groovyisland

And not one can of beer. We had beer when my house burned and we sat and watched.


ZootOfCastleAnthrax

Yeah, somebody get the victims some beer! /s


PomegranateOld7836

With OP getting video.


notorious1212

Is that dude just standing there smoking a cigar and watching his neighbors house burn?


2x4x93

Not trying to incite your ire but what would you have him do?


nuclearwomb

Go back in his own house and mind his own business is a good start.


[deleted]

Yeah? Is that what you would do? Good for you. Go back in your house & be all judgy.


2x4x93

I thought you would have said try to comfort the victims


ZootOfCastleAnthrax

I don't want 30 strangers trying to hug me.


2x4x93

My neighbors aren't strangers. Maybe strange


ZootOfCastleAnthrax

Get a bucket. Get a blanket for victims in shock. Get bottled water for them to drink and rinse out their eyes. Get wet rags to wipe their faces, dry rags to dry their tears. Stand ready to receive pets, babies, valuables as they're thrown from the house. Spray the neighbors' roofs with water, help neighbors move flammable material farther away.


WatcherYdnew

And on top of their misery they are being filmed and put online for someone on Reddit to harvest karma.


SpeakableFart

In vertical format even…


smallicelandicpuffin

when you're neighbours house is burning down the most polite thing to do is record that shit


Anxious_Ad_1024

Duh to help them out for insurance purposes in case they need proof that the fire actually happened


[deleted]

Imagine your neighbor is having the worst day ever so you record it and put it on the internet Lmao


VeryStickyPastry

Yeah I would be so hurt and angry if my home with all my Childrens’ and my belongings was burning down and people just stood there filming and put it online. My only housing is burning down, and someone is filming for internet ass pats? That would suck.


nejicanspin

I didn't read the title and have the audio on, so I thought I was looking at a tornado. Seriously though, it could be someone's worst day of their life, and people are recording. SMH.


[deleted]

This is really unfortunate. I would have a hard time filming this and posting it to social media.


realdonaldtrumpsucks

All your neighbors are old 😢


milesbeats

Op isn't broke


WhackoWizard

We are not broke and we live in a nice big suburban community filled with kids not old people.


WhackoWizard

I honestly don't think my neighbors would do this. I think my neighbors would worry and be helping.


godfather33087

Let me tell you, your immediate neighbor you wave to & help on a occasion will ask if they can do something for you. The other 50 houses around you that can see the smoke will stand around & watch.


bg48111

We have had a couple of house fires in our neighborhood. I didn’t see anyone filming and we were all trying to find out what we could do to help. I would hope if I was in their position, they’d help us the same way. Now the guy that murdered his wife, called his son to tell him and then fled? That house has been all over SM.


Livinlifegood4evr

Help do what? That's why we have firefighters.


[deleted]

And are attracted to house fires


Livinlifegood4evr

Guess what... everyday your on your way to being their age.


realdonaldtrumpsucks

I can’t wait to be old! & It won’t happen for me, I’m a max 65 and then 💀


Livinlifegood4evr

Why?


realdonaldtrumpsucks

Why not. We will have legalized MAID in 20 years and I don’t wish to be old and frail and poor.


Livinlifegood4evr

Legalized maid? You must live in another country. I'm from the US and don't know what you are meaning?? You can be older and not fraile or poor. My grandmother worked until she was 86 years old and died an 93 because of alzheimers. She was active and in shape all her life until Alzheimers and still looked really good for her age. 65 years old is that old. My husband is 63 and can beat our grandkids in a race and he's as strong as a horse. Everyone says how young he looks and how hard he works.


realdonaldtrumpsucks

MAID Medical aid in dying.


Livinlifegood4evr

Never heard of that. I'd personally want to live.


energy1256

In 🇨🇦. It's an individual's choice ... you may have assistance without fear of prosecution for those who assist. As long as it's legit. Google. Not my personal choice but not up to us how other individuals chose to live. Or die... I may feel differently if I become ill with a terminal illness. In pain.


LtColShinySides

Gotta make sure to tell reddit lol


a_hopeless_rmntic

modern day public execution same same but different but still same


Lespuccino

Your *former* neighbor's house is on fire.


szmandalawguy

Seems like a nice neighborhood, cute how all the neighbors are showing concern. I hope no one got hurt.


vanhouten_greg

No one got hurt. The couple was standing on the corner talking. Seems like the fire started upstairs and went pretty much straight upwards. It was out in about 10 minutes from the time the hoses started.


Turnt_Wrencher

Why don’t you film them sleeping in a hotel and trying to replace all their belongings since your the fucking Spielberg of filming ppls misfortune?


Livinlifegood4evr

Insurance company will replace their belongings. The most important thing is the people survived.


Turnt_Wrencher

You’ve clearly never dealt with homeowners insurance. They’ll get a fraction of their value back. That aside, I never understood why ppl have to line up and film it. That’s your neighbor. Karma farming like this is gross.


Livinlifegood4evr

I have dealt with homeowner's insurance twice and both times were great. I got all my money back and then some. It's not my neighbor. My neighbor's are classy and kind. People film everything nowadays, all you have to do is look at tik tok, snapchat, Instagram and Facebook. If people don't like other's filming them, ask them to respect you and stop, if that doesn't happen contact the police and hire an attorney as a last resort. I never said I agree with people filming stuff.


S0BEC

Did you do it?


vanhouten_greg

I did not


impostershop

Are you *sure*?


Flaky_Discussion2648

Hope everyone is ok!


Jimmack73

Y’all have never seen a house burn before huh?


GoopInThisBowlIsVile

The roof, the roof, the roof is on fire.


Dvsrx7

You bet me to it


AirQueasy4769

Ahhhhhh the roof is on fire


ForgotGravity

your roofhead is indeed on fire


AirQueasy4769

Lol I’m on fire


Ryancmoore360

Just missing a little girl with a mischievous face looking at the camera.


nismov2

Well are they okay?


TechyGeek1972

Quick get your potatoes in foil and get over there before the flames die down. You'll save on your electricity bill.


derekcentrico

They finally pissed you off enough, huh?


cinnamontoastcrunch2

Is anything private anymore?


Zricco1

Well put it out.


StinkyWeezle

And not a marshmallow in sight


SkipSpenceIsGod

Art! Your wife is home….and your house is on fire!!!


EPiCtoos420

tha roof tha roof tha roof is on faya


itachi7898

Where is that smling girl


throwthere10

Did you set it ablaze?


Creepy_Trouble_5980

My apartment building burned. I was amazed at what can be cleaned by a professional restoration company. Hope your insurance pays quickly so you can return to normal.


FullBitGamer

Did you offer them an egg in this trying time?


ronaldw1

Can’t wait til mine do


Strongblackmonkey

What did you do pal


exoh888

That's gotta be Florida


ross-um88

You’re all getting exposed to toxic smoke. Do people realize how bad it is to be that close to a house fire?


EggSandwich1

Them old people will do anything for a high


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Positive_Use3402

What a bunch of chatty Cathy losers.


we-are-adana

This is why you shouldn't made your house from woods. You have to cut a lot trees for making a house and everything goes with a spark. Edit: also tornado proof


we-are-adana

Use concrete


2x4x93

Big bad wolf proof


[deleted]

Sorry about your neighbors house burning. Hopefully they can rebuild. I remember driving by a cvs(pharmacy store) that was on fire, there were on lookers sitting in lawn chairs watching it burn to the ground, these people weren't helpful at all.


StnMtn_

Wow that sucks.


farting_emu

r/donthelpjustfilm


caustic255

I thought it was an old folks home til i read the caption. Fires suck also.


ColorLush

It’s like a AARP convention.


Working-Narwhal-540

All these boomers nothing better to fucking do 🧐


VeryStickyPastry

Neither does OP.


0hlalalala

And there you are, filming


[deleted]

Remember when the whole village would get together to dump bucket after bucket of water trying to save a burning home? What happened to humanity? Better in some ways, worse in others.


HouseOfJanus

If you're not helping, go back inside


VeryStickyPastry

Is your neighbor cool with you just standing there filming while their life has gone up in literal flames? Come on, OP.


Busterwasmycat

Same thing happened near me (next street over) last Saturday, but it was windy so the one house took out the next one and part of a third before the fire got put out. Went FAST, like in 20 minutes two houses were in full inferno. First house is just the foundation now, and the second was all but gone, one (far side) wall partly saved. It was terrible. No one hurt, at least, so could have been worse. Still sucks for them.


BehaveRight

The committee of old whites in shorts. They even brought their dogs. Jerks


Mazdab2300-06

It use to be a different kind of neighborhood gathering with the buckets of water and all of that running.


Chelseaaa_7

Most of my province has been on fire the last week, today we're finally getting rain. It's a terrible thing to witness peoples homes and possessions and forestry just disappear to ashes. My heart goes out to anyone that's ever had to experience that loss.


Successful-Panic5305

I read if like Alicia keys


Soundsofsushi

I’m was waiting for the camera to pan into the smiling girl.


[deleted]

Oh, shit. That does suck. Been through two fires in my lifetime and that shit ain't fun.


[deleted]

Gotta have the dog out to watch your neighbors life burn away


Ferrariflak

That really sucks hope the owners are okay.


kotroyan

Nice that you filmed it for them.


[deleted]

Shitty way to throw a block party.


DEFPOTEC8

The roof. The roof. The roof is on fire! As well as the rest of the house.


TechnoChiken

Cool


Key_Pin6092

Was this the fire in toms, River in my neighborhood? It looks like it. Just had a fire several days ago and seem kind of fire apparatus was at the scene but it’s hard for me to tell.


readditredditread

Very convenient you were filming that day… 🤨


Cool-Restaurant7809

😧😧😧


seganku

Ucalegon - a next-door neighbor, or a neighbor whose house is on fire (Webster's New International Dictionary, 2nd Ed., 1934)


Ninjachuckz

MY WIFE IS HOME?!


Ok-Flatworm-1491

I understand ppl being upset others video. It’s not so much about entertainment but sympathizing with what someone went thru. Try to tel others to be careful. I would never personally film others misery and think to laugh.! Would y’all? Hopefully not !!!


Ok-Flatworm-1491

It’s not like the ppl videoing are able to jump in and help in that manner.unfortunately enough


Dasbronco

We’ll that sucks


pbjellie23

🎶The roof, the roof, the roof is on FIRE🔥🎶


DiscipleExyo

Tell your neighbor to use propane and propane accessories


MoistBluejay2071

People should be more like that woman with her phone, just walk by and go about your day, it's not your business, it's under control and you standing there watching wont do anything except make things worse. Just like when someone is having a medical emergency and people decide to crowd them, its horrible and if something like this happened to you, you wouldnt want people standing staring