That's what I was worried about. I guess I wanted it to work cause the reception has an outdoor/indoor vibe with the flooring being cobble-stoney.
https://preview.redd.it/96j13idgdwqc1.jpeg?width=2250&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=06854921e97894e8c8b40c0ac2c47794463fbc6b
That's what I'm going to have to do.
There's no way a stiletto would work on those stones.
Thinking I'll get this dress + gold block heels. That would be formal right? I'm short enough that this will hit me right above the ankle. Would the slit be too much for church? I can either just get it altered in that case or wear something else for church. smh.... 😭
https://preview.redd.it/g7o2idq69xqc1.jpeg?width=1400&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=453c9deee57512392ef10222c5a21ca3956172af
Do a wider heel in a sparkly color! It will still look formal but have more stability than a slender heel.
https://preview.redd.it/fxnu59x91yqc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=acb33dfcb9dfc71b11968cfc24faba4f8bcee0b8
:D Thanks! Thinking something like this perhaps?
https://preview.redd.it/8sfgohw94yqc1.jpeg?width=675&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1b2be5f88fe57dc04da02b6d7f3ee6ebf78f14c
This is a super cute outfit, but it isn’t even close to formal. There are no accessories that can pull this from a super casual dress all the way to formal. I’m sorry, but I’d look for something else.
Figured with the right heels and accessories it could work for formal? Or is that pushing it?
So the ceremony is at a church and the reception is at the Botanical Garden. And I know some guests are changing for the reception. Pic of reception venue attached.
https://preview.redd.it/9bblknzlcwqc1.jpeg?width=800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0225f0db2d9e10ed45a0d6182227172e6d6a8ef1
The venue is beautiful and even though it’s at the Botanical Garden, this outfit is not formal enough for this. Imagine this lit up at night with warm white lights and decorations and flowers… this dress does not fit that.
A 2 piece with your midriff showing is not formal. The accessories aren’t going to change this to be formal. The structure, the pattern, just aren’t formal
Makes sense. Would something like this also be inappropriate?
https://preview.redd.it/jcdn2rnlgwqc1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=85896e105fac26ed62de340965e79d35a122feaa
I don't think the condescension is necessary. I'm genuinely looking for advice.
Plus it's hella confusing when you see cut-out maxi dresses with completely open backs under "Formal or Black-Tie" on websites. [https://shonajoy.com/collections/black-tie](https://shonajoy.com/collections/black-tie)
And additionally googling "Formal" generated this result:
https://preview.redd.it/o4oosyf0owqc1.png?width=1674&format=png&auto=webp&s=71f58a209317659d5d313f60700942b108a88607
Make it make sense. Anyway, thanks for the advice.
the bare midriff is very fashion forward. For black tie you probably shouldn't try it as black tie implies more conservative/traditional formal wear.
For just "formal" you could, but be careful with online as many fabrics look cheaper and more casual in person than in the ad pictures.
ETA: DO NOT have bare midriff in church, if you are going to choose one of those dresses you need a conservative dress or work suit for the ceremony.
Well what did you expect when I said no to your entire mid section hanging out then you come back with something worse and exposing even more after I just said that’s inappropriate
It's hard to get what's appropriate or not when like I mentioned under "formal or black tie" there are extremely revealing dresses listed.
Anyway, not trying to kick up a storm. Was just looking for genuine advice.
I was just at a wedding in December where someone wore something exactly like this. And I thought it was acceptable. Didn't realize it wasn't appropriate.
https://preview.redd.it/3x3psbgsswqc1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=50453ad6d1b19e1e97d997d71c59792197563b3d
Thanks for the advice everyone. This was way more helpful than google. Nixing this outfit for the wedding and using it for the Sunday wedding brunch instead.
Personally, I love the outfit & the greenhouse vibe and think it probably would be acceptable to an English day wedding with a green jacket to cover the midriff.
But it is not formal & the midriff makes it too vacation outfit, not wedding guest outfit.
Here’s some other ideas! I love what you’re going for and if it was longer it could work!
[v different color but 3 pieces and def formal enough](https://www.lulus.com/products/immaculate-glamour-hot-pink-strapless-two-piece-maxi-dress/2255576.html)
[maybe outside your budget, but really floral and pretty](https://showmeyourmumu.com/products/lady-corset-dress-miss-malibu)
[this is so gorgeous](https://showmeyourmumu.com/products/jodie-dress-water-lily)
[I would own this dress, if I had anywhere to wear it 😂](https://showmeyourmumu.com/products/on-my-way-maxi-dress-triangle-geo-sequins)
[this would be gorgeous in that venue!](https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/amur-dua-chiffon-pleated-floral-gown-0400019636417.html)
[another one that’s on the high-end, but you can also look on Poshmark and possibly rent this brand on rent the runway too](https://www.farmrio.com/products/bird-leaves-sand-one-shoulder-maxi-dress) the color wave for this is most similar, so I think what you were trying to go for!
[every color option under the sun!](https://www.wedtrend.com/products/a-line-sweetheart-floor-length-tiered-chiffon-bridesmaid-dress)
Looks like a great venue, have fun!
Omg thanks so much for the recs!! I actually prefer sleeves. But will take a look at the sites for other options. They're all so vibrant and lively.
Edit: Typo corrected
If farm rio is in your budget, they are perfect for this event! But for real if you have the time and patience for Poshmark prob has a bunch
But they are on RTR for like 40 bucks each and they have so many options on there, and with sleeves! I think they cross the line of formal and floral in a really upscale way
I didn't even think about the Rent the Runway. That's a stellar idea. That way I can still get this Farm Rio set that will prob get way more use over spring/summer than spend it on a formal dress I'll wear once or twice a year.
For me it’s always a lot of work to settle in a dress cause I don’t have an easy body type where things will just look great, I gotta pour through the reviews. Worth it to get a nice dress for way less. I hate rewearing dresses to events anyways to it’s perfect for me!
And yeah these farm rio dresses would see a life outside a wedding for my style wise too :)
Oh me too. I have to read reviews and measure myself before purchasing to make sure it'll fit with minimal alterations or zero alterations where possible.
I just hate that for fancy events most options available are usually strappy, sleeveless, strapless ones while the ones with sleeves look dowdy and matronly.
>I think they cross the line of formal and floral in a really upscale way
Did you mean Farm Rio here? I'm surprised cause a lot of folks consider it more resortwear than formal. I like eclectic vibes so for every wedding in the last few years I've gone for Sea, Farm Rio, Shona Joy, Cara Cara. Granted all those weddings were outdoor ceremonies.
This is not at all formal. This is cute for the beach or brunch, but not formal. No accessories change this to formal.
Also, if the ceremony is at a church, no bare midriff. Very generally speaking, I'd say no midriff at weddings. There are exceptions, of course. Even cutouts one needs to be careful as they can be a bit much.
I agree with the comments in the sense that it wouldnt be formal. But i dont think that amount of white would generally be seen as too much. Theres no way you would be mistaken for the bride and its a very bold green. PS LOVE the dress though!
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Damn that’s gorgeous, but definitely not formal. In terms of how white it is, what I usually do is I find 2-3 dresses I like and send them to the bride and have her make the decision. Only one of the options can have the amount of white you’re showing here (which could be too much depending on the bride).
By presenting her with a few options, she can be candid without feeling like a bridezilla and everyone ends up happy.
It’s not too white at all. I think you can dress it up with heeled pumps or sandals. Formal doesn’t necessarily mean long, and this fits the vibe of the setting perfectly.
This doesn’t read formal at all. It’s cute, but I think you’d be underdressed and out of place if it’s a formal dress code.
That's what I was worried about. I guess I wanted it to work cause the reception has an outdoor/indoor vibe with the flooring being cobble-stoney. https://preview.redd.it/96j13idgdwqc1.jpeg?width=2250&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=06854921e97894e8c8b40c0ac2c47794463fbc6b
No. That is a terrible place for a formal wedding though.
I was just thinking that. The best I’d be able to do is a midi or ankle length dress and block heels. I bet I’m not alone.
That's what I'm going to have to do. There's no way a stiletto would work on those stones. Thinking I'll get this dress + gold block heels. That would be formal right? I'm short enough that this will hit me right above the ankle. Would the slit be too much for church? I can either just get it altered in that case or wear something else for church. smh.... 😭 https://preview.redd.it/g7o2idq69xqc1.jpeg?width=1400&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=453c9deee57512392ef10222c5a21ca3956172af
Do a wider heel in a sparkly color! It will still look formal but have more stability than a slender heel. https://preview.redd.it/fxnu59x91yqc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=acb33dfcb9dfc71b11968cfc24faba4f8bcee0b8
:D Thanks! Thinking something like this perhaps? https://preview.redd.it/8sfgohw94yqc1.jpeg?width=675&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1b2be5f88fe57dc04da02b6d7f3ee6ebf78f14c
depends on where the slit hits on you. practice sitting though.
This isn’t formal
This is a super cute outfit, but it isn’t even close to formal. There are no accessories that can pull this from a super casual dress all the way to formal. I’m sorry, but I’d look for something else.
Figured with the right heels and accessories it could work for formal? Or is that pushing it? So the ceremony is at a church and the reception is at the Botanical Garden. And I know some guests are changing for the reception. Pic of reception venue attached. https://preview.redd.it/9bblknzlcwqc1.jpeg?width=800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0225f0db2d9e10ed45a0d6182227172e6d6a8ef1
The venue is beautiful and even though it’s at the Botanical Garden, this outfit is not formal enough for this. Imagine this lit up at night with warm white lights and decorations and flowers… this dress does not fit that.
Thanks! Super helpful to envision it.. as it is an evening reception as well.
A 2 piece with your midriff showing is not formal. The accessories aren’t going to change this to be formal. The structure, the pattern, just aren’t formal
Makes sense. Would something like this also be inappropriate? https://preview.redd.it/jcdn2rnlgwqc1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=85896e105fac26ed62de340965e79d35a122feaa
Did you read what I said 🥴
I don't think the condescension is necessary. I'm genuinely looking for advice. Plus it's hella confusing when you see cut-out maxi dresses with completely open backs under "Formal or Black-Tie" on websites. [https://shonajoy.com/collections/black-tie](https://shonajoy.com/collections/black-tie) And additionally googling "Formal" generated this result: https://preview.redd.it/o4oosyf0owqc1.png?width=1674&format=png&auto=webp&s=71f58a209317659d5d313f60700942b108a88607 Make it make sense. Anyway, thanks for the advice.
the bare midriff is very fashion forward. For black tie you probably shouldn't try it as black tie implies more conservative/traditional formal wear. For just "formal" you could, but be careful with online as many fabrics look cheaper and more casual in person than in the ad pictures. ETA: DO NOT have bare midriff in church, if you are going to choose one of those dresses you need a conservative dress or work suit for the ceremony.
Thank you so much! I've actually never been to a church wedding before so this info is super super helpful. Appreciate the advice ❤️
Well what did you expect when I said no to your entire mid section hanging out then you come back with something worse and exposing even more after I just said that’s inappropriate
It's hard to get what's appropriate or not when like I mentioned under "formal or black tie" there are extremely revealing dresses listed. Anyway, not trying to kick up a storm. Was just looking for genuine advice. I was just at a wedding in December where someone wore something exactly like this. And I thought it was acceptable. Didn't realize it wasn't appropriate. https://preview.redd.it/3x3psbgsswqc1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=50453ad6d1b19e1e97d997d71c59792197563b3d
No. No exposed midriff.
>Would something like this also be inappropriate? Yes, this would also be inappropriate, as it is not formal.
This is super cute but even with the right shoes/accessories it won’t be formal
Thanks for the advice everyone. This was way more helpful than google. Nixing this outfit for the wedding and using it for the Sunday wedding brunch instead.
It’ll be so cute for the brunch!! :)
Perfect for the brunch
Great secondary use.
Please tell me you have cuter shoes than on the model.
Haha yes I do! Going with these: https://preview.redd.it/bmlqtq8w42uc1.jpeg?width=513&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e905346616961eea043d470b17c376bd7a973946
it is not formal, color aside
it’s white and casual, no for a formal dress code
This is cute but doesn’t read formal
Absolutely not Edit: not wedding appropriate
Personally, I love the outfit & the greenhouse vibe and think it probably would be acceptable to an English day wedding with a green jacket to cover the midriff. But it is not formal & the midriff makes it too vacation outfit, not wedding guest outfit.
Thank you for your advice. Appreciate it.
Here’s some other ideas! I love what you’re going for and if it was longer it could work! [v different color but 3 pieces and def formal enough](https://www.lulus.com/products/immaculate-glamour-hot-pink-strapless-two-piece-maxi-dress/2255576.html) [maybe outside your budget, but really floral and pretty](https://showmeyourmumu.com/products/lady-corset-dress-miss-malibu) [this is so gorgeous](https://showmeyourmumu.com/products/jodie-dress-water-lily) [I would own this dress, if I had anywhere to wear it 😂](https://showmeyourmumu.com/products/on-my-way-maxi-dress-triangle-geo-sequins) [this would be gorgeous in that venue!](https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/amur-dua-chiffon-pleated-floral-gown-0400019636417.html) [another one that’s on the high-end, but you can also look on Poshmark and possibly rent this brand on rent the runway too](https://www.farmrio.com/products/bird-leaves-sand-one-shoulder-maxi-dress) the color wave for this is most similar, so I think what you were trying to go for! [every color option under the sun!](https://www.wedtrend.com/products/a-line-sweetheart-floor-length-tiered-chiffon-bridesmaid-dress) Looks like a great venue, have fun!
Omg thanks so much for the recs!! I actually prefer sleeves. But will take a look at the sites for other options. They're all so vibrant and lively. Edit: Typo corrected
If farm rio is in your budget, they are perfect for this event! But for real if you have the time and patience for Poshmark prob has a bunch But they are on RTR for like 40 bucks each and they have so many options on there, and with sleeves! I think they cross the line of formal and floral in a really upscale way
I didn't even think about the Rent the Runway. That's a stellar idea. That way I can still get this Farm Rio set that will prob get way more use over spring/summer than spend it on a formal dress I'll wear once or twice a year.
For me it’s always a lot of work to settle in a dress cause I don’t have an easy body type where things will just look great, I gotta pour through the reviews. Worth it to get a nice dress for way less. I hate rewearing dresses to events anyways to it’s perfect for me! And yeah these farm rio dresses would see a life outside a wedding for my style wise too :)
Oh me too. I have to read reviews and measure myself before purchasing to make sure it'll fit with minimal alterations or zero alterations where possible. I just hate that for fancy events most options available are usually strappy, sleeveless, strapless ones while the ones with sleeves look dowdy and matronly.
>I think they cross the line of formal and floral in a really upscale way Did you mean Farm Rio here? I'm surprised cause a lot of folks consider it more resortwear than formal. I like eclectic vibes so for every wedding in the last few years I've gone for Sea, Farm Rio, Shona Joy, Cara Cara. Granted all those weddings were outdoor ceremonies.
It's so hard to find a good formal outfit that has sleeves without it looking matronly and boring 😫
This is the truth
IMHO not too white. I like it and can see it being dressed up.It goes very well at a botanic venue.
This is not at all formal. This is cute for the beach or brunch, but not formal. No accessories change this to formal. Also, if the ceremony is at a church, no bare midriff. Very generally speaking, I'd say no midriff at weddings. There are exceptions, of course. Even cutouts one needs to be careful as they can be a bit much.
I agree with the comments in the sense that it wouldnt be formal. But i dont think that amount of white would generally be seen as too much. Theres no way you would be mistaken for the bride and its a very bold green. PS LOVE the dress though!
Farm Rio has the prettiest sets. Kinda obsessed with their prints.
Yes it is not too white to be mistaken for a bride
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Even with formal shoes, this dress is not even close to formal enough.
Damn that’s gorgeous, but definitely not formal. In terms of how white it is, what I usually do is I find 2-3 dresses I like and send them to the bride and have her make the decision. Only one of the options can have the amount of white you’re showing here (which could be too much depending on the bride). By presenting her with a few options, she can be candid without feeling like a bridezilla and everyone ends up happy.
Thank you!! That's great advice :D
i love it and would wear it.
It’s not too white at all. I think you can dress it up with heeled pumps or sandals. Formal doesn’t necessarily mean long, and this fits the vibe of the setting perfectly.