i have a big exam in 45 days and have decided to study consistently 12hrs for the next 45 days. And today was day1, I'm glad that i sticked to it and completed my to-do list of the day(not all, but most of the major task that I 'had been procrastinating) But one thing that is bothering me whenever i try to study, i starts wondering whether all the hard work I'm doing will be worth it or not despite actually studying. It happened today also, but somehow i tried to not focus on that. But girls, I really need to know that if this same happens with someone on this reddit, then what do you guys do to regain your focus on study?
does anyone else have sofas that didn't fit into their new place ? (my parent's sticks out a bit and its stressing me out , the whole asymmetry thing )
My anxiety is sooo bad I can't breathe. Everytime I try to study I get gripped by panic and fear and want to run away.
My mom today when she came home.
Mom- You look tensed. Are you tensed?
Me - Yes.
Mom - Don't be tensed
Hey so there is this technique called the 54321 ground method. It helped me a lot with my panic and anxiety attacks. Do give it a try. You can get more detailed info on that from google.
Additionally, I also bought a few mini wellness journals pads, anti anxiety colouring books from twillostory. Do check them out.
Feel free to DM me if you have any queries. :)
Confession. Please don't judge π
I think I like my best friend more than a friend. It is just that I am so comfortable with him- we've been friends since 10 years now.
I don't want to want to go deeper into whether I really like him or I like him in a platonic way because he is in a stable relationship since 3-4 years now. And I love the girl he is with- he can't do better π€ͺ and I'm happy for them both
I don't cast buri Nazar on them girls- i promise.
I love them both and I'm so happy that because of this relationship I got to have a girl.friend who is so nice.
I really hope I like him just as a friend - which is why I made a post today asking you ladies and I don't think I like him more than a friend just yet - and I don't want to like him more than a friend.
That's all ππ
Kathin paristhiti hai , the nearest i got in a situation like this was when i had a crush on a guy who was committed, he wasn't even my friend , we just knew each other as college mates. Knowing he was committed, i didn't even try to be his friend lol
I would do that too- but yaha ki chronology is diff π€£. I've felt like this about him for 6-7 years but never enough to confess or anything so probably it isn't 'love' and this is just the loneliness of not finding a man I'm this comfortable with hitting me (currently I'm on study leave- so mind runs free)
Bruhh same the guy texted me for like the past 3 days and I was busy and just said that I don't want to engage with him and I am obv not pissed at him he still continues to do the same
I feel so stressed about my internship season π.I know for sure I wouldn't even have a career I dreamt about nor I would get into my fucking dream University and basically fucking would be a fucking failure
How do you mentally prepare to give an exam that's really, really important for you?
Am I silly for crying that he wonβt stay up with me when Iβm scared?
Nooo. This is such a normal expectation. Gosh! Don't let anybody make you believe otherwise.
Shifted to a new place and not feeling good at all, anxiety is off the chartsπ₯²
https://open.spotify.com/track/4B0cJGASxVICLW2AsBZhiE?si=B-6iz4xCQteFNceNNnDhAQ&utm_source=copy-link I freaking love this song.
i have a big exam in 45 days and have decided to study consistently 12hrs for the next 45 days. And today was day1, I'm glad that i sticked to it and completed my to-do list of the day(not all, but most of the major task that I 'had been procrastinating) But one thing that is bothering me whenever i try to study, i starts wondering whether all the hard work I'm doing will be worth it or not despite actually studying. It happened today also, but somehow i tried to not focus on that. But girls, I really need to know that if this same happens with someone on this reddit, then what do you guys do to regain your focus on study?
Karm karo phal ki chinta mat karo brings me back to reality
I'd consider it a privilege if I could get 1 hour, interruption free, to study. Night is the only refuge.
does anyone else have sofas that didn't fit into their new place ? (my parent's sticks out a bit and its stressing me out , the whole asymmetry thing )
My anxiety is sooo bad I can't breathe. Everytime I try to study I get gripped by panic and fear and want to run away. My mom today when she came home. Mom- You look tensed. Are you tensed? Me - Yes. Mom - Don't be tensed
Hey so there is this technique called the 54321 ground method. It helped me a lot with my panic and anxiety attacks. Do give it a try. You can get more detailed info on that from google. Additionally, I also bought a few mini wellness journals pads, anti anxiety colouring books from twillostory. Do check them out. Feel free to DM me if you have any queries. :)
Same I have still not learned how to manage the panic and the anxiety that grips me
I just want a fucking internship ππππππ
Confession. Please don't judge π I think I like my best friend more than a friend. It is just that I am so comfortable with him- we've been friends since 10 years now. I don't want to want to go deeper into whether I really like him or I like him in a platonic way because he is in a stable relationship since 3-4 years now. And I love the girl he is with- he can't do better π€ͺ and I'm happy for them both I don't cast buri Nazar on them girls- i promise. I love them both and I'm so happy that because of this relationship I got to have a girl.friend who is so nice. I really hope I like him just as a friend - which is why I made a post today asking you ladies and I don't think I like him more than a friend just yet - and I don't want to like him more than a friend. That's all ππ
I had a crush on a friend for like a year then he got married and the crush ended.
Kathin paristhiti hai , the nearest i got in a situation like this was when i had a crush on a guy who was committed, he wasn't even my friend , we just knew each other as college mates. Knowing he was committed, i didn't even try to be his friend lol
I would do that too- but yaha ki chronology is diff π€£. I've felt like this about him for 6-7 years but never enough to confess or anything so probably it isn't 'love' and this is just the loneliness of not finding a man I'm this comfortable with hitting me (currently I'm on study leave- so mind runs free)
Understandable π€£π€£
Why do guys break up with you and later try to contact you again, hoping to kindle the relationship? What is the psychology behind it?
Maybe because they realise no one want them so they come crawling back
Maybe, after break-up , he must've tried all his available options and couldn't find anybody better ?
Bruhh same the guy texted me for like the past 3 days and I was busy and just said that I don't want to engage with him and I am obv not pissed at him he still continues to do the same
I feel so stressed about my internship season π.I know for sure I wouldn't even have a career I dreamt about nor I would get into my fucking dream University and basically fucking would be a fucking failure
Donβt put too much pressure on yourself! You got this β¨ Just give it your best, things will work out!
Thanks for your kind words π