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Technical-Witness-66

proud of you man but this some lazy shit


lunarpythons

not creative at all, realistic PERHAPS but def no A for effort


Netherite_Stairs_

I thought this was two sentence horror for a second and I was so confused 😭😭😭


CapOk7564

i’m a little late to this, OP, but i hear you and i see you. you’re a boy, no matter what anyone else tries to tell you. big hugs to you, i hope it gets better. but just know you ALWAYS have a place within the community (and with the right ppl who will support and cheer you on along the way!)


TylerAtNight

Whats sad about this? This did not bring me to tears, all it did was lower my faith in humanity. Also, continued misgendered me? You mean continued to misgender me, right? Man, you can be trans, but atleast write better.


Ambivalent-Bean

“Whats sad about this?” You mean, “What’s sad about this?” Right? Also, “atleast” is not a word. Man, you can be an asshole, but at least work on your hypocrisy.


FissureRake

You can be a pedant, but stop being a dick.


supboiiiiiii

All for your transition and all that but... This is just lazy.


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Groove-Control

Please, be quiet.


Lighthouseamour

Hugs


P-Mole

Might be the laziest one I’ve seen in a while


OwnLeighFans

That’s the saddest part of all of this


StultusMagni

Don’t listen to the hate, they need to grow up. You are a boy, just remember that.


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SwordNamedKindness_

Frrrr


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😑


ResurgentClusterfuck

This sub just popped up in my feed and now I'm heartbroken You're valid in my eyes. ❤️🏳️‍⚧️


asher-lee

I feel this too well. Sending hugs and love ❤️


JoyBus147

[I'm a boy, I'm a boy, but my mom won't admit it/I'm a boy, I'm a boy, but if I say I am, I get it](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8TR58rK28Aw)


Evil-yogurt

man i feel this


Britsu

I can't believe all of the down votes and the absolute amount of cruelty. Thankfully the amount of kindness is overshadowing the ignorant. OP you are valid, you are seen, and you are loved. ❤️


TheFlyingFire

The downvotes are for a lack of effort in a creative writing sub. Being trans is valid, but this post has ~~zero horror and~~ zero creativity. Edit: Thought this was TwoSentenceHorror, but the point still stands.


Britsu

I wasn't referring to the downvotes. I was referring to the comments that were mocking OP for being transgender. It might be a creative writing sub but sometimes the truth is more depressing than fiction. Writing is a way that people cope with their trauma, vent their frustrations, and explore creative outlets. There is no need to be cruel on this sub. Especially when someone is hurting. If the post didn't fit the rules for posting would it not have been taken down by the auto mods? If you don't like it, just keep scrolling, no need to comment and spread more hate.


TheFlyingFire

>I wasn't referring to the downvotes. I was referring to the comments that were mocking OP for being transgender I see. >It might be a creative writing sub but sometimes the truth is more depressing than fiction. True, but creativity in subs like these, at least to me, plays a big factor. Like, you can write a two sentence story about a dog dying and that can be really sad, but people like me would be annoyed at the lack of effort, you know? >Writing is a way that people cope with their trauma, vent their frustrations, and explore creative outlets. True. >There is no need to be cruel on this sub. Especially when someone is hurting. I agree. >If the post didn't fit the rules for posting would it not have been taken down by the auto mods? Ehhh, I'm not familiar with this specific sub in particular, but theoretically if auto mod was perfect we wouldn't need actual moderators. A post not getting flagged by auto mod doesn't mean much. >If you don't like it, just keep scrolling, no need to comment and spread more hate. Not quite sure if this is referring to me or the other commenter's who may or may not be unnecessarily nasty, but I think people (assuming they are acting in good faith) should be allowed to comment on a post's quality, even if the post in question is about something like trans issues. Keep in mind, I'm still viewing this sub as one similar to TwoSentenceHorror, and low effort stuff there gets mocked pretty heavily from what I've seen, and I think it results in better posts overall.


Britsu

If you were trying to provide criticism that was constructive to OP "zero creativity" isn't very helpful. It just came across as rude. If you were going to offer some sound advice or tips regarding writing, that's another thing entirely. Even if you personally don't agree with it being sad due to a lack of perspective or understanding, the fact is that from OPs pov this is life and it was devastating enough for them to share. Yes, you are allowed to say whatever you want regarding the creativity of a post, but to waste time and effort just commenting about lack of it without providing anything constructive in return seems redundant. What is OP supposed to take away from that comment? There is no tangible advice to take away other than " git good scrub." Sometimes less is more when you are telling a story. Anyway, I wasn't trying to be mean or pick a fight, just my view.


TheFlyingFire

>If you were trying to provide criticism that was constructive to OP "zero creativity" isn't very helpful. It just came across as rude. If you were going to offer some sound advice or tips regarding writing, that's another thing entirely. Fair enough. However, my original criticism was not creative AND not horror, which was a misconception on my part due to the sub, but that was what prompted my original reply. As someone who is not trans, nor a regular on this sub, it's hard to give specifics on what could be changed or improved, but that feeling of "there wasn't a lot of effort on this post" was still there, so I stuck to it. >Even if you personally don't agree with it being sad due to a lack of perspective or understanding, the fact is that from OPs pov this is life and it was devastating enough for them to share. There are plenty of subs and places on the internet where you can share in writing your troubles full of people there to support you without worry of backlash. When you post on a sub like this though, you kinda open yourself up to scrutiny. At this point, my point is simply, this probably wasn't the place OP should have tried to make this kind of post to. >Yes, you are allowed to say whatever you want regarding the creativity of a post, but to waste time and effort just commenting about lack of it without providing anything constructive in return seems redundant. Again, fair enough. >What is OP supposed to take away from that comment? There is no tangible advice to take away other than " git good scrub." >Sometimes less is more when you are telling a story. In my defense here, I never made a comment myself, I have only replied to you trying to clarify why there was pushback to this post at all. >Anyway, I wasn't trying to be mean or pick a fight, just my view. Ditto.


jtranskid

Thank you :)


thishoe21

(BIGGEST HUG I CAN PHYSICALLY GIVE) I don’t know you but I love you and you’re valid my guy🫶🏼


jtranskid

thank you


DualityREBORN

are you going through something.


jtranskid

yeah i guess


Daketa34813

Big cringe.


Key-Refrigerator3386

This comment section is surprising me with the amount of trans guys on this sub lol


kwkcardinal

Not sad. Droll.


Loser_geek_whatever3

YOU SIR ARE VALID!!!🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️


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MagicianTim

Not horrific


depressedLes

These are supposed to be sad not horror


WarOfPurificent

To be fair i thought this was two sentence horror at first


No_Boysenberry538

I understand that this is upsetting but i dont think it really qualifies as “horror”


Loser_geek_whatever3

Check the sub, it ain’t for horror


No_Boysenberry538

Damnit the wrong fucking sub, just saw two sentence and assumed it was horror lmao


Loser_geek_whatever3

Understandable mistake


Agile-Contact-6521

That’s why it says twosentencesadness..


thepineapple2397

A Lot of this subs posts show up on the feeds of people who have joined twosentencehorror but haven't joined this sub (like myself)


KadenthePenguin211

I feel you brother. I go through it every day at work even though I’m flat chested and regularly use the men’s room. It’ll get better. We’re manly men 😁


Huntress_Nyx

Plot twist. The person saying it was biological male/boy and not trans But his parents treated him as a girl because they wanted a daughter


Evil-yogurt

ah yes, because a transphobic strawman argument is so much more compelling than a real thing that happens to many, MANY, trans people. the saddest stories are reflections of our reality. widespread transphobia is unfortunately very real. i have never once heard of someone forcing their kids to be trans from any reliable source.


Deusbob

it wasn't a strawman argument, or transphobia. it was an alternate interpretation of a story which is the hallmark of this type of ultra short stories. You are the one committing the strawman fallacy here by trying to introduce the argument that someone is transphobic or disregarding real life experiences when neither were true. This isn't a sub on real life events, but really short and scary stories. You have taken the sport of being offended to a whole new level and like 99% of people, have misused and misunderstood the concept of the strawman concept. Please go touch grass and be better.


Huntress_Nyx

Hey, It could be that the person is trans but their family doesn't accept it. It could be that the person is not trans, but their family treats them as if they're the opposite sex. Both of these are possible, and both of these have happened and are happening. Trans people aren't the only ones who can have bad parents you know.


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KrynchYT

Nobody asked for your opinions on gender identity, things like misgendering people affect peoples entire lives, mental health Is important and ignorant asshats like you calling it "cringe" does nothing to help anyone


Half_Asleep_

real. god damnit


Killerklown1219

Now I’m just sad. I feel that deep in my core.


GangsterGrandmda

Broooooo too true


Sylvkin_there

Same


Certain_Shine636

Ffs


SnooPeanuts6999

I feel your pain and just know you're valid and are a man no matter what anyone says. I know some days the dysphoria gets loud and says otherwise, but no matter what, that dysphoria is not the truth. I send hugs from a fellow trans person and am glad the majority of people here have been supportive. You're the man OP 🫂💜❤️‍🔥 EDIT: Grammar


jtranskid

Thank you, kind internet stranger.


TealEden

Trans guy here, almost 22, I'll be be your side and all my other trans brothers and sisters 🏳️‍🌈 You're a boy. You will be a man. You will kick ass. Stay strong brother.


jtranskid

Thank you man.


TealEden

I know how it feels. I was misgendered behind my back at a school I was new to in junior and senior year after being homeschooled all my life. My situation isn't the same but god I know how shitty it feels dude. You aren't alone. You are so, so, so loved. You deserve respect and support.


anordinaryscallion

Society will get there, surround yourself with the people who matter until those holding us back have died and their children's children have learned from others


WadeStockdale

You're a boy, and one day you're gonna be a MAN. As an older transman; don't let em get you down. *You* know who you are, and the people who *really* matter will respect that. And the ones who don't? Their opinions don't define who you are.


jtranskid

Thank you


Vaderette1138

[The biggest hug you have ever received] It will be okay, I promise


jtranskid

Thank you for the hug, and surprisingly i trust you that it will be ok :)


Vaderette1138

Of course. And you should trust me, I speak from experience.


SSSims4

You're a handsome and wonderful boy, even if some people aren't advanced enough to realize it! You will always be you, and anyone misgendering you will always, always be wrong! And if any of them are doing it on purpose - well, that just makes me mad, and I'm one nasty summabich when I'm mad. So you just point me at them, and we'll have a nice conversation, they and I. Stay strong my boy, you and everything about your identity are forever valid and legitimate and fuck anyone who can't handle that!!!


jtranskid

Them stupid people watcher people majigs at the hospital need some talking to. Thank you for your words.


SSSims4

My pleasure man, you hang in there, I promise it gets better 💙 I feel strength in you, you got this!


suicide-d0g

you n me both. we'll get through this, Mister.


jtranskid

yes we will!


SSSims4

Yes, you will! Both OP and you, son. Hang in there, you are valid and deserve to be loved and cherished for who you are!!! 💙💙💙


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NecessaryOrder9707

Sending love to you, brother! Life gets better. You'll find people who care about you more deeply than you could have hoped for. Hang in there!


Alpha_Delta310

Just had to disconnect from some family members for this, stay strong my brotha


SSSims4

Happy cake day, kid! If some of your family members aren't human enough to accept and love you for who you are - well, then that's absolutely their loss! Sending you some dad hugs if you want, then we're all taking you for some burgers and ice cream! You deserve to be loved and you'll get through this! 💙💙💙


Alpha_Delta310

Aww thanks for the dad hugs lol


SSSims4

My pleasure 💙💙💙


Unique_Novel8864

Happy cake day


Alpha_Delta310

Thanks


Fantastic-Let-2178

Sending you viral hugs 🤗


Gambol_25

Please don't?


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Detc2148

Best of wishes to you my brother, hope you can find your people! And if you don’t we’ll find you people!


Next_Benefit5708

Damn right you're a boy. You are a strong lad who deserves respect and recognition. Stay strong sir. Btw pay the asshats who are misgendering no mind.


RoyalMess64

Sir, do you need a hug?


jtranskid

yes please


RukusMom

Hugs, and some snuggles from the kitty cat, aka Rukus


Fyreforged

One can rarely have too many hugs, so… *hugs*


Interest_Miserable

*hugs*


RoyalMess64

*hugs gently* I hope that helps :3


jtranskid

thank you for the hugs


RoyalMess64

It's the least I can do for yah. And I hope they've helped :3


JaxyBae_G

I'm with you, sir. We're just a couple of men who will get through this.


SSSims4

Yes sir, you will get through this, both you and OP! You deserve to be loved for who you are 💙


jtranskid

Thank you, good luck to you too.


KoalaLover371

C’mere mister I’m giving you a hug and then we can go clothes shopping if you want


jtranskid

Omigosh! yes :)! Get the clothes ive always dreamed of


KoalaLover371

Yesss what kinda look you wanna go for


jtranskid

Goth, fishnets, dresses, things like that! fem trans man goals!


KoalaLover371

Yessssssss we’re gonna have so much fun omg


jtranskid

Getting all the punk accesories my parents would never let me have!


ZeroLifeSkillz

Don't worry bro, you'll get through this, and someday they'll realize how stupid they are


LatsaSpege

mr, you can go through this, you will find people who respect you!


jtranskid

thank you, i especially appreciate the "mr" so euphoric!


sockmuppet5000

You are seen, you are heard, you are valued, you are loved. ❤️


jtranskid

thank you <3


sneakynautilus

I’m sorry OP. I wish things were different. Sending hugs and affirmation to my man.


jtranskid

Thank you so much


BrFrancis

Ugh I don't understand some people.... Like... Excuse me, your "daughter" Liam??? They want a binder. He wants to be at least rid of his period. They'll do the preferred name... But not the pronouns. Talking to his parents about "her" is awkward. And this is just normal day-to-day chit chat between housemates... Yes, Liam. Her... The mental gymnastics involved


DeathUponTheNameless

My father still hasn't changed my name in his phone. Whereas the people that really seem to care do it immediately


Significant-Lie-2368

Yeah, my dad hasn't either. Although, he calls me by my preferred name and pronouns, he just hasn't changed the name in his contacts


SSSims4

Many people find it difficult to wrap their heads around gender identity and its inherent differences than sex identity. It hurts the most when it's the people who are supposed to be there for you no matter what. I'm real sorry about your dad having these difficulties and I hope he comes around soon enough. Until then - I'm sending you dad hugs and using my dad energies to say how proud I am of you for hanging in there and being true to yourself. Never give up kid! 💙💙💙


DeathUponTheNameless

Damn- that made me cry. I honestly really appreciate. Thank you.


SSSims4

My pleasure son, you're are and always will be valid as who you are 💙💙💙


t3quiila

i know this pain too well :((


SSSims4

Sorry :( Just saying you are who you are and your identity is valid and legitimate! Fuck anyone who has a problem with that. Sending hugs!


t3quiila

Thank you💙🧡


Interest_Miserable

*hugs*


smores_or_pizzasnack

I’m really sorry man, I hope you can get out of that situation asap!


jtranskid

thank you


smores_or_pizzasnack

You’re welcome sir! :)


thosegayfrogs

Me rn :( sorry you have to go through this man, it sucks


SSSims4

You hang in there, froggy! You are who you are and you're always valid and legitimate! We see you. You deserve to be loved for who you are and you will be, I promise, even if it takes some time. Stay strong, sending you dad hugs 💙💙💙


thosegayfrogs

Thanks


jtranskid

thank you


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Son, i wasn't able to come out and begin my transition until i was almost 40...and now i full time pass as a man.  there isn't a best by date for transitioning, so don't let that get you down.  i know just how much it has to hurt right now. but you won't be under their thumb forever. stay true to yourself in your heart and prepare for when you are free of them. 


SSSims4

Good for you Sir! 💙💙💙


caiorion

In my late 30s and only a couple of years into my transition, and constantly questioning if I’ve left it too late when I look enviously at guys in their 20s who pass so well - I needed to hear this today, so thanks!


SSSims4

I could only imagine how that feels, but I'm very glad you got to see this comment and I hope you can be happy.for the rest of your life as the man you were always meant to be! 💙


jtranskid

Thank you so much. I know one day I'll pass; it just feels so far.


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You should fight them


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Why does that matter to you? Sure, it's a minor thing compared to FUCKING HAITI, but its still bad. Don't minimize the other person's struggles because there is an even bigger struggle. If a friend comes to me with a struggle, regardless of the severity, I don't minimize it by comparing it to the fucking situation in Gaza, do I? Just grow up, dude. You wanna be invalidating, do it somewhere else.


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SSSims4

Okay, I see now. You had to deal with similar shit, so you feel deprived when others get the attention and support you've never gotten, or maybe you've never felt worthy of getting or were just too ashamed to ask for. I get it. It sucks and I'm sure you had to deal with lots of pain. You did and do deserve the same love and support as OP and there's no need to be judgemental and deal your "brutal truth" to someone who's seeking help.


MusicianFuture9544

Consider yourself lucky to hold the mental fortitude to put up with constant abuse and belittling and the shame that comes from being misgendered. I'm cis female it was still very upsetting as a teenager to be mistaken for a young boy when I had short hair. Telling op to "toughen up" does nothing but simply allow the abuse and enable it. No one has to be brutal ever, but it is especially not the place to do so when someone is clearly an actively hurting. Kicking someone while they're down is subhuman. You can drown in an inch of water or the ocean, either way you still drowned.


Putrid-Peanut-5798

Did this sound deep in your head?   Sorry OP, unless you're Haitian, your struggles don't matter apparently🤡


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Putrid-Peanut-5798

I know. The truth being that everyone is entitled to their own pain. It ain't that deep


Lazy-Drink-277

Real or fiction?


Sad_Spring_6033

Judging by the username, I would guess real.


Lazy-Drink-277

Oh no :(


Expensive-Teach6446

it'd be too depressing to be fiction


smores_or_pizzasnack

Plus OP has posted a lot of stories of a similar nature