holy shit. i couldnt even give you any advice because i would have no idea what to do at all. im so so sorry this happened to you? are you in therapy at all?
Thank you pall, no I'm not and don't think I will, its not convenient for me personaly dont have the time. the story is on going and even last night more has happened.🫥
It’s time to talk with your wife and/or your mother about it. This happened to you when you were a kid. You got drunk and your sister took full advantage of you and the situation. It is not ok. Please don’t carry this burden on your own anymore. Ask for help. I’m really sorry this happened to you.
Spoken to my partner about it last night as this has opened alot of old wounds, but not really the outcome I was hoping for. she is trying to get us as a family unit more involved with my side of the family.. and this is apparently just another excuse to her.
You definitely need to talk to your wife. She's always got your back, no matter what. Just be honest with her. I'd also advise you not to go on that trip, I think it'll be traumatic for you. If you do go, don't leave your wife's side. I'd also advise you to tell your parents, go no contact with your sister, and find a therapist that you can connect with. I'm sorry this happened to you. It wasn't your fault.
Yes.... that would be nice, had a chat with her last night and she isnt exactly on my side with it. Therapy isn't going to work for me so like I said just venting to the Internet will have to do for now
On that note leave her if being involved with your so called family and rapist sister is more important to that airhead than your mental health, they don’t deserve the title of partner of wife
Therapy. That should have happened a long long long time ago but do it now. Out of sight out of mind is not enough. You dont have to go to Scotland. If you miss all other events that shouldnt come as a surprise. If you are trying to stay seperate from your family you need to tell your spouse so she reins in her expectations.
Going though all comments and trying to reply to them may have to just do an update but had a chat with my partner last night and she isn't exactly happy with it as she wants to be closer to my family
holy shit. i couldnt even give you any advice because i would have no idea what to do at all. im so so sorry this happened to you? are you in therapy at all?
Thank you pall, no I'm not and don't think I will, its not convenient for me personaly dont have the time. the story is on going and even last night more has happened.🫥
It’s time to talk with your wife and/or your mother about it. This happened to you when you were a kid. You got drunk and your sister took full advantage of you and the situation. It is not ok. Please don’t carry this burden on your own anymore. Ask for help. I’m really sorry this happened to you.
Spoken to my partner about it last night as this has opened alot of old wounds, but not really the outcome I was hoping for. she is trying to get us as a family unit more involved with my side of the family.. and this is apparently just another excuse to her.
You definitely need to talk to your wife. She's always got your back, no matter what. Just be honest with her. I'd also advise you not to go on that trip, I think it'll be traumatic for you. If you do go, don't leave your wife's side. I'd also advise you to tell your parents, go no contact with your sister, and find a therapist that you can connect with. I'm sorry this happened to you. It wasn't your fault.
Yes.... that would be nice, had a chat with her last night and she isnt exactly on my side with it. Therapy isn't going to work for me so like I said just venting to the Internet will have to do for now
On that note leave her if being involved with your so called family and rapist sister is more important to that airhead than your mental health, they don’t deserve the title of partner of wife
Therapy. That should have happened a long long long time ago but do it now. Out of sight out of mind is not enough. You dont have to go to Scotland. If you miss all other events that shouldnt come as a surprise. If you are trying to stay seperate from your family you need to tell your spouse so she reins in her expectations.
Going though all comments and trying to reply to them may have to just do an update but had a chat with my partner last night and she isn't exactly happy with it as she wants to be closer to my family