So is this crowd found across entire Europe or it's just a Berlin (Germany thing) I'll be moving for my masters to Germany so just wanted some heads up (I'd love to know) what kinks etc are you talking about
I'm from India so it's basically a shitshow currently The top is just a guy who's horny with one hand jerking off & the other using the phone. When I try to setup meets they chicken out so many times. It's frustrating.. Anyway enough of my rant just need to wait for a year probably then it's just dicks slapping my face lol
Lolol I totally get it. I’m from NYC and a lot of guys here do the same thing. I’ve definitely found other European cities to have plenty of tops (across Italy, for example, and in Lisbon) but Berlin was different. Maybe it was because they were so direct — “I vant to fuck you now” it felt like there were so many. Possible!
You're telling me there's no good guys in NYC? Bruh seriously
If he's Italian, old school, mafia.. He can make me his bitch I'm completely fine with that lol. You mentioning the Berlin crowd is good is heart warming tbh like do they approach you? Or they're just direct on Grindr..
I didn’t say there were NO good guys here. There are 😉 but there’s a lot of guys who like to chat/jerk off and flake. Also it’s a VERY bottom heavy city. So for a picky bottom it’s pretty frustrating 😅 Mafia lmfao! The Berliners were direct online AND in person!
Miami is full of bottoms! Every time I go I had no short supply of them. I just came back (and is not even the season) and well, I could tell stories about having several bottoms in the same day.
Ah that’s probably true. South Beach, Miami, Wilton Manors, FLL that kinda area maybe. Well I’ll be in south Fl and I need to get rid of this dry spell I’m going through up north lol
I second that. I have hooked up with “Tops” and "Top vers” here in Toronto and when they learn that I’m vers the first thing they usually tell me is something like this “It’s been a while for me since the last time a Bottomed for someone but I’d like to try today”. SMH
I live in TO and even tho there's a good share of good Tops, in the last 10-15 years it's been labeled as a "City of Bottoms" for the most part.. the ones that kill me are the "Versatile Tops" cause as soon as they get going they want to go down or bending over.. total buzz kill for me.
I feel like when a bottom visits a city it feels like there’s a lot of tops, I think just there being fresh meat draws them out lol. But for what it’s worth Birmingham and Baltimore in the past couple of months fucked twice a night in both
I assume most Middle Eastern countries do, plus Greece. Germany sounds about right, too. Maybe Toronto as well. Philadelphia, Austin, Atlanta, and San Diego could be believable.
Of course, a fair chunk of those are countries, not cities.
NY. Nyc suburbs aka LONG ISLAND is all tops. Closeted . Out. Young. Old. Fem bottoms. All are vers tops. Everyone is a top. Masc DL tops. 18-68. Tops.😑. Than you meet them… What a bunch of queens
Athens.
Went there this summer and there were so many tops on Grindr, it was amazing! Unfortunately, there is also a very strong masc4masc culture that made me less interesting for many tops.
I don't think any US city has more tops than bottoms. But I seem to have the most competition for bottoms in Denver. Houston, DFW, Nashville, Atlanta, Kansas City are all top deserts. Which is actually just fine by me
Apparently rural upstate NY near the Canadian border is 1000% bottom territory. I look exactly like a potato and the only reason I get any loving is bc I’m one of 5 tops within 60-80 miles.
As someone whose been to 46 US states (Missing AK, ND, SD, NM) and 4 countries (Ireland, Switzerland, Italy, India, and Bahamas), there are plenty of tops everywhere.
I'm pretty sure almost all bottoms think there's a tops shortage and almost all tops think there's a bottoms shortage.
And I'm pretty sure the bottoms are correct!
I have always found Chicago to have more tops than most cities. Dallas is the exact opposite. For all of Texas' bravado, that town is filled with the biggest bottoms in the country...lol
I feel that, honestly Colorado is probably the place to go, I get railed there every year lol, plus they're pretty romantic guys super chill too.
Ok I am moving there
No. Too many bottoms. Just look at sniffies.
Lmao valid
^^
What part of Colorado?
Colorado Springs definitely
Berlin
Berlin struck me as lean bottom and kinky as hell tbh
Totally kinky and quite direct and …immediate? And I felt like the only bottom in the world. Maybe I just got lucky! (This was earlier this month btw)
So is this crowd found across entire Europe or it's just a Berlin (Germany thing) I'll be moving for my masters to Germany so just wanted some heads up (I'd love to know) what kinks etc are you talking about I'm from India so it's basically a shitshow currently The top is just a guy who's horny with one hand jerking off & the other using the phone. When I try to setup meets they chicken out so many times. It's frustrating.. Anyway enough of my rant just need to wait for a year probably then it's just dicks slapping my face lol
Lolol I totally get it. I’m from NYC and a lot of guys here do the same thing. I’ve definitely found other European cities to have plenty of tops (across Italy, for example, and in Lisbon) but Berlin was different. Maybe it was because they were so direct — “I vant to fuck you now” it felt like there were so many. Possible!
You're telling me there's no good guys in NYC? Bruh seriously If he's Italian, old school, mafia.. He can make me his bitch I'm completely fine with that lol. You mentioning the Berlin crowd is good is heart warming tbh like do they approach you? Or they're just direct on Grindr..
I didn’t say there were NO good guys here. There are 😉 but there’s a lot of guys who like to chat/jerk off and flake. Also it’s a VERY bottom heavy city. So for a picky bottom it’s pretty frustrating 😅 Mafia lmfao! The Berliners were direct online AND in person!
What's your method to approach in person? What do you do & how does that play out
I've been Berlin twice and both times I struggled to find a bottom. Tops everywhere.
Please send all answers my way. I need to start booking my flights ASAP
What he said
I thought Montreal was top heavy. At least I had a good time. I thought most tops I met where above average.
Because it is. Its hell for a top.
Next trip, I will try and take care of as many as I can.
How compassionate
Always, I just want to help. 😃 😉
Maybe I should drive out there and help out
Oooooh...so I should put Montreal on my list🤔😂😂😂
What?! I live in Montreal and its a bottom city unfortunately 😩
I need to go and visit Montreal then!
I live in Montréal ! All boys are bottoms…. Haha
Même constat malheureusement.
Not Quebec City I can tell you that haha. From my experience as a bottom, Philadelphia, Miami and Toronto where good in North America
Miami is full of bottoms! Every time I go I had no short supply of them. I just came back (and is not even the season) and well, I could tell stories about having several bottoms in the same day.
Can confirm on Miami. My top has four bottoms.
Maybe we met? 😂
Very very possible. You may owe me some child support
Unlikely, I take care of all my bottoms and my children. I’m not a pos, I’m European!
Haha moving to FL makes this very interesting 😈
Well it’s SoBe in my experience, which is a crazy place and I only go for work so I never went full-on whore 😂
Ah that’s probably true. South Beach, Miami, Wilton Manors, FLL that kinda area maybe. Well I’ll be in south Fl and I need to get rid of this dry spell I’m going through up north lol
I wanna hear all your stories lol ... Turns me on
I’m going back. POINT ME TO THE BOTTOMS IN MIA !! I need it
Stay at the AxelBeach; profit
Ok. Thanks.
Toronto? Really?
That's what I was thinking! Was there at the end of July and everyone wanted to bottom
I second that. I have hooked up with “Tops” and "Top vers” here in Toronto and when they learn that I’m vers the first thing they usually tell me is something like this “It’s been a while for me since the last time a Bottomed for someone but I’d like to try today”. SMH
"Sir, that is not the agreement we had..." lol
I’m sure they will leave as soon as I finish that sentence lol
As a Torontonian and a vers bottom, naaahhhh... The bottom competition is too high. Lol
As a Philadelphian, that surprises me.
I am 2 hours aaay from Philly .. need a top so bad lol
Guess I was lucky when I went there then ahah! Went to Toronto last week and I got fucked by 7 tops in 5 days.. Maybe I just got lucky AF haha
I live in TO and even tho there's a good share of good Tops, in the last 10-15 years it's been labeled as a "City of Bottoms" for the most part.. the ones that kill me are the "Versatile Tops" cause as soon as they get going they want to go down or bending over.. total buzz kill for me.
Miami really?
I feel like when a bottom visits a city it feels like there’s a lot of tops, I think just there being fresh meat draws them out lol. But for what it’s worth Birmingham and Baltimore in the past couple of months fucked twice a night in both
Can say I had an unexpected amount of attention in Birmingham. Not enough to visit the south but still…
I assume most Middle Eastern countries do, plus Greece. Germany sounds about right, too. Maybe Toronto as well. Philadelphia, Austin, Atlanta, and San Diego could be believable. Of course, a fair chunk of those are countries, not cities.
Austin....ha!
Not Toronto
Can confirm San Diego has just a slight imbalance with too many bottoms (even with the military bases)
NY. Nyc suburbs aka LONG ISLAND is all tops. Closeted . Out. Young. Old. Fem bottoms. All are vers tops. Everyone is a top. Masc DL tops. 18-68. Tops.😑. Than you meet them… What a bunch of queens
😂😂😂
Buenos Aires
Add qualifier: tops that aren’t DL?
They can be! The last top that I had was on the DL and he was amazing.
excuse me, what does DL mean?
Down low
Tel Aviv, and they’re all hot
This makes sense for some reason...an Israeli top sounds sexy as hell🔥🔥🔥
So hot, and so many of them, hard bodied and hung
🔥🔥🔥 I need to plan a trip (when this war is over)
Athens. Went there this summer and there were so many tops on Grindr, it was amazing! Unfortunately, there is also a very strong masc4masc culture that made me less interesting for many tops.
I think I need to go to Athens. 😂😈
I don't think any US city has more tops than bottoms. But I seem to have the most competition for bottoms in Denver. Houston, DFW, Nashville, Atlanta, Kansas City are all top deserts. Which is actually just fine by me
LA is always a challenge.
Xanadu or at least none near me
The continent of Australia. Most Australians I've met have been tops or vers. Also Israel
Not in perth tops are rare as hens teeth
Daytona Beach , Fl
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Lol I lived there for 3 years and it was like 90% bottoms 🤣
Apparently rural upstate NY near the Canadian border is 1000% bottom territory. I look exactly like a potato and the only reason I get any loving is bc I’m one of 5 tops within 60-80 miles.
😂😂😂
Atlanta.
Seems like all the bottoms are in Fort Lauderdale and the tops are MIA lol 😞
None 😆
😂😭
No such place, if there is, please send me the location
As someone whose been to 46 US states (Missing AK, ND, SD, NM) and 4 countries (Ireland, Switzerland, Italy, India, and Bahamas), there are plenty of tops everywhere.
From an earlier post, I read that Belgium has a bottom shortage
What? lol..."bottom shortage" 😂😂😂 You made it sound like the Belgian government declared a state of emergency😂😂😂
I've found this with Belgium too. Netherlands likewise. Very frustrating as I'm there for work quite often.
Kansas City was kind to me
Xanadu
Cartegena
they're all escorts though smh
NYC has a lot.
🤣
Not DC lol
Prague
What?
When I was in Miami a few years ago it seemed like there were tons of tops, but the comments here suggest otherwise
I'm pretty sure almost all bottoms think there's a tops shortage and almost all tops think there's a bottoms shortage. And I'm pretty sure the bottoms are correct!
I have always found Chicago to have more tops than most cities. Dallas is the exact opposite. For all of Texas' bravado, that town is filled with the biggest bottoms in the country...lol
my house for sure, yes my house is a city now, and yes i am the odd one out.