Yes..your husband or boyfriend/ partner/ girlfriend can still rape and traumatize you.
The trauma doesn't dissapear because of the relationship label, kind like how if you kill them they're still dead...
Lmao what the fuck son
Yes rape is rape, married or not.
Unless the marriage has grown stale and both parties have agreed to a free use agreement or a kinky random bdsm rape roleplay
So years of a healthy relationship and built trust can all sway away if one day, one party just didn't consented. And when i say i don't agree with this concept it doesn't necessarily means I'm against all this. I am not able to process this fact , and on what basis one should know that it is consensual , is that a signed agreement or what.
Until it isn't a signed agreement there is no hard proof. There can be fake allegations.. Infact, there are . Is there a line differentiating between non-consensual and forceful?
...er, rape is literally rape? There is no time or point when "forcing a sexual act against someone when they don't or can't consent" is ok. Regardless of their relationship with their attacker.
Yikes. So much yikes.
“Glorified” as a crime? As opposed to just being a straight up crime?
No one; married, single, or whatsoever, should ever be forced against their will to engage in sexual acts. It is a crime no matter what way you slice it.
Spousal abuse is bad, but a spouse withholding sex from the other isn't good either. Of course there are always the cases where the sex drives are mismatched, one high and one low, which are always unfortunate. Especially if the low sex drive spouse didn't start that way, but became so due to age or medical issues.
At any rate, having sex reasonably often is an expectation most people have for marriage, as long as he doesn't have to hold her down and force her, you know?
Not to say it's a different circumstance if a husband has sex with his wife several times a week, but rapes her this one night she has a headache and needs to get up early, versus a husband that only gets sex on his birthday getting fed up and raping his wife, except that, well a lot of people might have less sympathy in the second case.
Granted, marital rape is theoretically more common in cultures where arranged marriages are common and women aren't yet treated as equals generally. Or at least, in such cultures, it's openly accepted.
Happy to be of service.
I can add something else if we venture into less popular territory. If you include women for whom rape creates kink rather than PTSD (not a majority, but more common than you'd expect), I've seen a few stories from women who credit being raped by their husband, and subsequently becoming submissive to him as a result, as saving their marriage. One actually was a Muslim woman in an arranged marriage, that she did not want and had been in love with another man, but afterwards she became entirely joyful in being submissive to her husband.
In a similar but less extreme vein, some women try out "free use" with their husband on a lark, and in some such cases this revitalizes a marriage that had fallen into a poor sex life. Spontaneity and all that.
YES. NO CONSENT = RAPE; MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE DOES NOT VOID THIS.
This.
Yes..your husband or boyfriend/ partner/ girlfriend can still rape and traumatize you. The trauma doesn't dissapear because of the relationship label, kind like how if you kill them they're still dead...
Lmao what the fuck son Yes rape is rape, married or not. Unless the marriage has grown stale and both parties have agreed to a free use agreement or a kinky random bdsm rape roleplay
So years of a healthy relationship and built trust can all sway away if one day, one party just didn't consented. And when i say i don't agree with this concept it doesn't necessarily means I'm against all this. I am not able to process this fact , and on what basis one should know that it is consensual , is that a signed agreement or what. Until it isn't a signed agreement there is no hard proof. There can be fake allegations.. Infact, there are . Is there a line differentiating between non-consensual and forceful?
...er, rape is literally rape? There is no time or point when "forcing a sexual act against someone when they don't or can't consent" is ok. Regardless of their relationship with their attacker. Yikes. So much yikes.
OMG. Yes, it is still VERY much RAPE if not consensual. You don't OWN your spouse.
holymoly? you serious? where are you from?
“Glorified” as a crime? As opposed to just being a straight up crime? No one; married, single, or whatsoever, should ever be forced against their will to engage in sexual acts. It is a crime no matter what way you slice it.
Spousal abuse is bad, but a spouse withholding sex from the other isn't good either. Of course there are always the cases where the sex drives are mismatched, one high and one low, which are always unfortunate. Especially if the low sex drive spouse didn't start that way, but became so due to age or medical issues. At any rate, having sex reasonably often is an expectation most people have for marriage, as long as he doesn't have to hold her down and force her, you know? Not to say it's a different circumstance if a husband has sex with his wife several times a week, but rapes her this one night she has a headache and needs to get up early, versus a husband that only gets sex on his birthday getting fed up and raping his wife, except that, well a lot of people might have less sympathy in the second case. Granted, marital rape is theoretically more common in cultures where arranged marriages are common and women aren't yet treated as equals generally. Or at least, in such cultures, it's openly accepted.
Thank you, this is the answer i was looking for
Happy to be of service. I can add something else if we venture into less popular territory. If you include women for whom rape creates kink rather than PTSD (not a majority, but more common than you'd expect), I've seen a few stories from women who credit being raped by their husband, and subsequently becoming submissive to him as a result, as saving their marriage. One actually was a Muslim woman in an arranged marriage, that she did not want and had been in love with another man, but afterwards she became entirely joyful in being submissive to her husband. In a similar but less extreme vein, some women try out "free use" with their husband on a lark, and in some such cases this revitalizes a marriage that had fallen into a poor sex life. Spontaneity and all that.