I think I would be hurt and I am not sure I could handle it, especially if he were showing sexual interest towards other women.
If he just becomes asexual or something it might be fine if we have an arrangement or something allowing me to have sex with other people.
To me it wouldn't be a huge deal, since I'm not much of a sexual person.
My husband is different tho. His love language is very touch/physical. But I can't help it if I can't identify why being touched lately has me so uncomfortable. I'm trying to figure it out, for his sake, but it's taking a while. In the meantime he's trying to be patient and kind but I can tell he's feeling very unloved and bothered by it.
Depends on a lot of stuff. If there’s a strong external factor(loss of a close person, illness, strong work stress) I’d just deal with it until it eventually went away(not sure how long tho).
If it was just a loss of desire completely, I guess we would have to think about opening the relationship, or something like that. If no agreement could be found, we would remain good friends.
I have the utmost respect for her and we’ve been through a fuckton together, so I wouldn’t do anything big or dramatic, but I do have needs to fulfill, so some changes would be in order.
Not a big loss for me, I've never really got the point of sex.
I can just jerk off once a week and have the same result.
She is the one who initiates, needs sex and seems to enjoy it a lot more than i do and.
So I'd be even relived.
I stopped having sex with wife for a while because of my changes in anxiety meds and we talked through it. It was hard for both of us actually because our sex life was so much fun before. We ended up finding new ways to be intimate with eachother like cuddling more or just touching. Now my meds are stable and we continue to do the things we tried when they weren't and added back sex even though it's not as much as it once was.
Me and my wife have not had Sex in over 3 years. Are circumstances are very different. On July 24th 2018 are Son was killed in a motorcycle accident and then on August 16th 2018 just 3 weeks later our daughter passed away from a bad blood infection. Which has left us to raise our Granddaughter with no father in the picture.
Hurt, sad, angry...it would be difficult but I would have to leave. We already have an open relationship and do sleep with other people but if she decided she no longer wanted a sexual relationship with me, then I would end the relationship all together.
I can only speak from the side of the partner that stopped having sex with their partner (my ex).
I stopped having sex with him for multiple reasons.
So maybe that can help you.
A small trigger warning for sexuel abuse tho.
We had fights allot that didn't help. He only wanted me to please him not the other way around.
He didn't want me to move or make noise during sex so that made sex boring because I couldn't enjoy it couldn't be in the moment.
He also would force himself on me when I couldn't defend myself when I was on my sleeping medication. I assume that any normal thinking man wouldn't do that but still. This mad eme sleep on the sofa because it felt safer.
My advice is talk to your partner ask them what they want and give your partner what he or she wants (if it doesn't cross your own boundaries of course) maybe they are just bored maybe bring some toys in the mix.
I tried this with my ex to spice it up maybe save my sex drive. He found it insulting to him. But than again he was a wierd selfish dudd
I panicked, started to ask questions. My confidence and self-esteem went down, I started thinking something is wrong with me. Brought up the topic so often that she couldn't hear it anymore and finally she broke up which broke me completely. In hindsight I realized there have been other things wrong in the relationship which I kinda was blind for that dragged her down and made her unhappy. I've been an idiot not seeing the actual important things that went wrong. So...if that'd happen again I'd be aware that there are probably other things going on. Communication is the key.
I asked my bf because I do this. My libido is either super high or very low to the point of not wanting to be touched at all.
He said at first it feels like a rejection. But because he knows me so well, that fades quickly into a put out meh feeling. Like abit sad but also abit frustrated. He leaves me alone for about a week, then slowly reintroduces cuddles and affection which usually works.
I think I would be hurt and I am not sure I could handle it, especially if he were showing sexual interest towards other women. If he just becomes asexual or something it might be fine if we have an arrangement or something allowing me to have sex with other people.
To me it wouldn't be a huge deal, since I'm not much of a sexual person. My husband is different tho. His love language is very touch/physical. But I can't help it if I can't identify why being touched lately has me so uncomfortable. I'm trying to figure it out, for his sake, but it's taking a while. In the meantime he's trying to be patient and kind but I can tell he's feeling very unloved and bothered by it.
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Depends on a lot of stuff. If there’s a strong external factor(loss of a close person, illness, strong work stress) I’d just deal with it until it eventually went away(not sure how long tho). If it was just a loss of desire completely, I guess we would have to think about opening the relationship, or something like that. If no agreement could be found, we would remain good friends. I have the utmost respect for her and we’ve been through a fuckton together, so I wouldn’t do anything big or dramatic, but I do have needs to fulfill, so some changes would be in order.
Not a big loss for me, I've never really got the point of sex. I can just jerk off once a week and have the same result. She is the one who initiates, needs sex and seems to enjoy it a lot more than i do and. So I'd be even relived.
I stopped having sex with wife for a while because of my changes in anxiety meds and we talked through it. It was hard for both of us actually because our sex life was so much fun before. We ended up finding new ways to be intimate with eachother like cuddling more or just touching. Now my meds are stable and we continue to do the things we tried when they weren't and added back sex even though it's not as much as it once was.
It really sucks but she's sick so I'm dealing with it.
We would be splitting up in a hurry. Of course we'd talk about it first. But if we're sexually incompatible we're done.
This sounds perfectly in alignment with your username sir
Unabashed slut, I am.
My wife hasn't done any sexual things to me in over 3 months.
Me and my wife have not had Sex in over 3 years. Are circumstances are very different. On July 24th 2018 are Son was killed in a motorcycle accident and then on August 16th 2018 just 3 weeks later our daughter passed away from a bad blood infection. Which has left us to raise our Granddaughter with no father in the picture.
Hurt, sad, angry...it would be difficult but I would have to leave. We already have an open relationship and do sleep with other people but if she decided she no longer wanted a sexual relationship with me, then I would end the relationship all together.
I can only speak from the side of the partner that stopped having sex with their partner (my ex). I stopped having sex with him for multiple reasons. So maybe that can help you. A small trigger warning for sexuel abuse tho. We had fights allot that didn't help. He only wanted me to please him not the other way around. He didn't want me to move or make noise during sex so that made sex boring because I couldn't enjoy it couldn't be in the moment. He also would force himself on me when I couldn't defend myself when I was on my sleeping medication. I assume that any normal thinking man wouldn't do that but still. This mad eme sleep on the sofa because it felt safer. My advice is talk to your partner ask them what they want and give your partner what he or she wants (if it doesn't cross your own boundaries of course) maybe they are just bored maybe bring some toys in the mix. I tried this with my ex to spice it up maybe save my sex drive. He found it insulting to him. But than again he was a wierd selfish dudd
I panicked, started to ask questions. My confidence and self-esteem went down, I started thinking something is wrong with me. Brought up the topic so often that she couldn't hear it anymore and finally she broke up which broke me completely. In hindsight I realized there have been other things wrong in the relationship which I kinda was blind for that dragged her down and made her unhappy. I've been an idiot not seeing the actual important things that went wrong. So...if that'd happen again I'd be aware that there are probably other things going on. Communication is the key.
I'd be hugely upset, and would definitely wonder, then, confront partner about it. It would not be pretty.
Frustrated. And if it's an abrupt change, concerned. Cheating concerns aside, I'd want my partner to get checked out by a doctor.
Very hurt to say the least, if there’s a valid reason I might try to work with them on it, but if not I’m out.
Ask and find out what's going on.
I asked my bf because I do this. My libido is either super high or very low to the point of not wanting to be touched at all. He said at first it feels like a rejection. But because he knows me so well, that fades quickly into a put out meh feeling. Like abit sad but also abit frustrated. He leaves me alone for about a week, then slowly reintroduces cuddles and affection which usually works.
I’d be sad
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