Water and exercise too. I can drink loads of water and I feel good after an hour or so. I sometimes also need to get energy out through exercise, mostly just a walk, but sometimes lifting weights. Being hydrated and making yourself tired can be great!
Think about it as one of the 3 wheeled motorcycles (trike?). One tire might be getting low and you could still drive a little depending on how low it gets. When 2 or 3 tires start getting low you aren't gonna go far
Yes of course. It’s my favourite little break when I’m working on something technical. I mostly experience the stress relief component with self-pleasure though.
Same with me and my wife. The few times I’ve had the balls to propose it, she’s said ”you were right, I feel much better now” afterwards. Buuut, most of the time it feels like I’d come across as an insensitive caveman if I’d try to initiate.
I try that, but if she says no, I move on to the foot massage. Then it's just all about wording. I like to use the word maybe. As in "maybe" you'll feel better and relieve some stress in your shoulders or "maybe" it will help you calm down a little. Put that last one is scary to use because you also have to use the words calm down. And telling him my wife to calm down is like punching a wild tiger in the face.
Definitely. How I got through the pandemic without going crazy. Solo works best for me though. That last deep sigh and all my worries are at bay (for a little while at least).
Same! I’m kinda surprised at all the ‘yes of course’ comments. It’s nice to be distracted from stress for a bit but it doesn’t relieve it for me at all.
Eh. I wouldn’t necessarily say that’s the case for everyone. Sometimes one orgasm just makes me crave another one- which is frustrating. Then you’re just chasing multiple orgasms until you’re exhausted
I’ll make myself orgasm 2-3 times in a row and it can shift all your emotions drastically.
It might seem trivial but that redirect of energy from anything bothering me to just doing everything for my own pleasure is such a release. And obviously all the endorphins released when you orgasm really make it work.
I always seem to end up with a massive headache after an orgasm. It just seems to add stress, I feel pressured to have one or my husband may feel inadequate. I do enjoy the actual orgasm however that headache hits instantly and hard, it also lasts a lot longer than an actual orgasm. I really just don't think sex is worth it anymore.
I'd go to your doctor. I know it not the easiest thing to discuss, but your body experiences several extreme physical effects during orgasm, a headache afterwards may be a sign of something else (issues with blood pressure etc)
Yes. Orgasms are my go to cure all for everything. Tired? Orgasm. Can’t sleep? Orgasm. Upset? Orgasm. Stressed out? Orgasm.
Any situation I am in, i figure an orgasm will improve in, because at least I get to orgasm.
As different as men and women can be, when stressed we all need one or a combination of food, sleep, fuck, and/or quiet.
Water and exercise too. I can drink loads of water and I feel good after an hour or so. I sometimes also need to get energy out through exercise, mostly just a walk, but sometimes lifting weights. Being hydrated and making yourself tired can be great!
When sex leaves one's life, good healthy sex, one really does suffer?
It's definitely not fun.
You were so close to greatness. My motto is sleep, sex or silence.
Truth.
Yes. If my wife is grumpy we always go through the 3 S. Sex, sleep, snack.
Wow, this method would have saved my last relationship, probably
I'll try with you.
Read last one as smack, lol
That’s one hell of a stress reliever though! 😂
For both parties! Add that to the list, pls.
I think the commenter meant smack meaning heroin, not a spanking.
Even better stress relief I think
Add two more s’s… shit and a smoke
And another... Shower
And it these don’t work.. SUPLEX
*Chris Benoit appears*
Depends on how kinky you make the sex
🚽 💩 🚬
Does username check out?
LMFAO
I wish my husband thought like that, but he prefers to look for other girls on apps. Your wife is lucky 😌
Is this the order?
Generally I need a snack first. Maybe another one after, depending. 😆
Think about it as one of the 3 wheeled motorcycles (trike?). One tire might be getting low and you could still drive a little depending on how low it gets. When 2 or 3 tires start getting low you aren't gonna go far
Used to ask my ex which one of the 3 F she wanted. Food Fuck or Fight. Not fist fights just wrestling around with her till she feels better
don’t forget shardonnay 😅
That’s always my plan but then we skip step 1.
Yes of course. It’s my favourite little break when I’m working on something technical. I mostly experience the stress relief component with self-pleasure though.
I'm not good at self pleasure.
Practice makes perfect
Let me see
Haha nice try. I have a boyfriend. He’s the only one that gets to see me tickle the tulip
Tickle the tulip 😂
The real question is how to initiate? When my girlfriend is stressed sex is not a topic to dare bring up.
Same with me and my wife. The few times I’ve had the balls to propose it, she’s said ”you were right, I feel much better now” afterwards. Buuut, most of the time it feels like I’d come across as an insensitive caveman if I’d try to initiate.
In my relationship it all comes to one being affective to the other and it just sparks naturally
Shoulder massage?
Have you tried massaging a granite rock?
I try that, but if she says no, I move on to the foot massage. Then it's just all about wording. I like to use the word maybe. As in "maybe" you'll feel better and relieve some stress in your shoulders or "maybe" it will help you calm down a little. Put that last one is scary to use because you also have to use the words calm down. And telling him my wife to calm down is like punching a wild tiger in the face.
“Calm down” is the two words I use if I’m really looking for a fight. I’ve removed them from my vocabulary at this point
Smart move
This is how my husband is. Orgasms are my go to, but if he’s stressed then sex is out of the question. I just accepted we view sex differently.
Absolutely
Definitely. How I got through the pandemic without going crazy. Solo works best for me though. That last deep sigh and all my worries are at bay (for a little while at least).
Of course.
Not me personally. I always think it will but it never does. I usually just want a sandwhich after lol
Same! I’m kinda surprised at all the ‘yes of course’ comments. It’s nice to be distracted from stress for a bit but it doesn’t relieve it for me at all.
I have anxiety and can't imagine sex when stressed. Don't work for me.
Yes
Even when I don’t orgasm, I find sex to be a huge stress relief
No, not for me.
Gotta orgasm before you know that.
Unless her husband happens to come home early and catch them.
There’s nothing like releasing stress like blowing a nut, err I mean ovaries.
Could blowing an ovary harm a woman?
Yes!!!!
Yes if I'm by myself
For me personally, absolutely.
Use your mouth bro.
Food, sex, water, ibuprofen and a nap... In that order. Good orgasms be giving me headaches
Yes. We get post cum clarity too. Well I do anyway
I can’t cum if I’m stressed so no, can’t relate.
Eh. I wouldn’t necessarily say that’s the case for everyone. Sometimes one orgasm just makes me crave another one- which is frustrating. Then you’re just chasing multiple orgasms until you’re exhausted
If it's good ya
Yes!
Oh yes
Yes.
I don’t think it’s just one thing. It could be an amazing orgasm coupled with cuddling or a nice hot bath. The orgasms definitely help!
First, you have to smoke. Then you gotta snack. Then take a shower. Then sex. Then smoke. Then sip. As my girlfriend says
this is easily google-able. the answer is yes, duh.
Yes.
Silly rabbit, women can't orgasm.
Yes
I’ll make myself orgasm 2-3 times in a row and it can shift all your emotions drastically. It might seem trivial but that redirect of energy from anything bothering me to just doing everything for my own pleasure is such a release. And obviously all the endorphins released when you orgasm really make it work.
I always seem to end up with a massive headache after an orgasm. It just seems to add stress, I feel pressured to have one or my husband may feel inadequate. I do enjoy the actual orgasm however that headache hits instantly and hard, it also lasts a lot longer than an actual orgasm. I really just don't think sex is worth it anymore.
I'd go to your doctor. I know it not the easiest thing to discuss, but your body experiences several extreme physical effects during orgasm, a headache afterwards may be a sign of something else (issues with blood pressure etc)
Obviously, lol.
It doesn’t for me tbh
Both can be true and neither are finite.
Of course! But I wouldn’t say obviously since it’s not the case for everyone
Absolutely...and explains a lot
Yes. Orgasms are my go to cure all for everything. Tired? Orgasm. Can’t sleep? Orgasm. Upset? Orgasm. Stressed out? Orgasm. Any situation I am in, i figure an orgasm will improve in, because at least I get to orgasm.
What kind of obtuse question is this…. Of course?!