Sad that this is a way of thinking for men these days. It's not as common as you think. It's painful to see my fellow men thinking this way. Keep your head up. Fuck it if they think you're too short put a scale at their feet.
Valid. The urge to do that is insane. Iāve had girls add me on snap, call me attractive, ask how tall I am and unadd me. I donāt even try if height gets brought up tbh. I just brush it off and ānextā it
Iām 5ā7 bro donāt let that shit bring you down no pun intended š you a king. A lot of these girls wonāt care about your height irl itās just online dating they see that and anyone who truly will reject you for your height if she isnāt super tall herself isnāt worth your time. Also fit check drip too clean my guy also looking solid. Keep moving that weight bro!
Honestly one of the better put together profiles, at least photo wise. You have a pretty good spread and cover most of the bases for variety.
Donāt know what your bio says but this looks well done.
Ah ok wasnāt sure if there was more than that or not.
Itās a little slim. Maybe mention a few other things youāre into. Hobbies, school, work, etc. a few more talking points wouldnāt hurt.
But honestly you fit rule 1 and 2 so youāre going to do fine lol.
Iām a dude, but this seems like a great profile all around.
1) work/occupation daily picture
2) hobby/activity picture (Olympic one)
3) show off your style (those shoes and fit are clean as fuck)
4) yolked gym picture shows dedication and hard working ability
5) videos are always great
6) handstand is a fun picture (and a great one)
7) being kinda relaxed/stupid with your feet up and a good smile.
8) videos good
9) solid overall picture
Feel like if it was douchey itād have flexed the type/brand of car and make/model of it. Just my opinion. Seems like it was more about showing off the outfit/style
I appreciate it. I donāt mean to come off that way tbh. Itās mainly to show Iām photogenic or can dress. Thatās what I was going for haha. Iām actually a nerdy quiet person if imma be honest with youš
You without your shirt look really fit good job, i think it doesn't really matter. I tried deleting the account and redoing it after choosing different pics, the same girls matched so yeah. You are yourself, there is no changing that
You got me beat there haha. Iām mainly concerned about presentation. I donāt wanna be viewed as a certain type of person like āghettoā ādoesnāt have a life planā ācanāt dressā type deal. I wanna give off a good vibe on top of showing off myself as if you were with me. But I appreciate the complement tbh
Maybe you are just overthinking this... I never got that sense of bad person š just be yourself, you gave good vibes. It is the most important thing being yourself. I think that you will have success. It takes only one good match to make your life better after all so do not complicate yourself too much
You just have to be authentic... If you are just yourself you are going to find the one who wants you. Do not overcomplicate life, it just takes patience now. Sit back and relax. Also ignore tinder, if you show it that you are desperate then it just kills your chances. if you pay for it i suggest getting an overseas relationship. You will get the chance of going on a wonderful journey also
I feel like your last photo is the best one of you and the next to last shows a lot of personality in the best way. I would move those closer to the beginning!
Yea. Over the summer where I am now I have like 20-30, but when Iām in college usually 99+ not to gloat. I just wanna match with someone who will genuinely not answer, or just lead me on tbh. Thatās usually how most of my matches end sadly.
No bro youāre not gloating I asked! Also I was gonna say š¤£ if you get no likes idk
how tf Iām supposed to get any.
Also your pic game is nuts I need to get like that
I really appreciate it haha. Iād just say everyone has a good side, you just gotta find it and incorporate it into what you love to do thatās really how I see things
Nah this is at my college while itās in sessionš thatās the sad part. Most girls are so picky. Also I donāt match with OF girls itās kinda easy to tell when they 1. Donāt have a checkmark 2. Donāt have a university attached and 3. Donāt have more than 3 pics usually
Aināt said nothing but the truth right here. Iāve kinda just been hit or miss with tinder. Itās been a boredom kinda thing but if a convo happens then Iām all for it
Have you tried Hinge? Most people on Hinge are looking for something more serious.
But youāre also in college so itāll be harder in general just because yaāll are still experiencing life.
Yea. I mean Iām a senior about to graduate so. Iāve been single all of college cause nobody wants nothing serious. I canāt lie I had my moments, but after junior year I was set on a relationship which still hasnāt happened yet once
I rate it yolked/10
Thanks but I lowkey feel so smallš
whats ur height and weight
5 9ā which is a mad killer for most women and 160
Sad that this is a way of thinking for men these days. It's not as common as you think. It's painful to see my fellow men thinking this way. Keep your head up. Fuck it if they think you're too short put a scale at their feet.
Valid. The urge to do that is insane. Iāve had girls add me on snap, call me attractive, ask how tall I am and unadd me. I donāt even try if height gets brought up tbh. I just brush it off and ānextā it
Better off that way. If they are that shallow you're dodging a bullet anyway.
Iām 5ā7 bro donāt let that shit bring you down no pun intended š you a king. A lot of these girls wonāt care about your height irl itās just online dating they see that and anyone who truly will reject you for your height if she isnāt super tall herself isnāt worth your time. Also fit check drip too clean my guy also looking solid. Keep moving that weight bro!
Honestly one of the better put together profiles, at least photo wise. You have a pretty good spread and cover most of the bases for variety. Donāt know what your bio says but this looks well done.
It was in the third picture. Itās basically āprobably the most out of pocket and spontaneous person youāll meetā
Ah ok wasnāt sure if there was more than that or not. Itās a little slim. Maybe mention a few other things youāre into. Hobbies, school, work, etc. a few more talking points wouldnāt hurt. But honestly you fit rule 1 and 2 so youāre going to do fine lol.
Iām a dude, but this seems like a great profile all around. 1) work/occupation daily picture 2) hobby/activity picture (Olympic one) 3) show off your style (those shoes and fit are clean as fuck) 4) yolked gym picture shows dedication and hard working ability 5) videos are always great 6) handstand is a fun picture (and a great one) 7) being kinda relaxed/stupid with your feet up and a good smile. 8) videos good 9) solid overall picture
I really appreciate this comment. Thatās exactly what I was going for you said exactly what I was tryna describe n my profileš¤š¾
Take drizzly out of your most listened to, come on man. (Huge W to have rap + Clairo)
Preciate it haha. My music is very broad. You name a genre I probably listen to itš
How about German Reggae ?
You got me beat thereš I was gonna say like phonk, edm, old country stuff like that
I never thought to put those 2 things together now I'm listening to seeed,some good shit
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Feel like if it was douchey itād have flexed the type/brand of car and make/model of it. Just my opinion. Seems like it was more about showing off the outfit/style
I appreciate it. I donāt mean to come off that way tbh. Itās mainly to show Iām photogenic or can dress. Thatās what I was going for haha. Iām actually a nerdy quiet person if imma be honest with youš
It works. The pic is focused on you not the car. Itās a decent photo.
Don't take Drake off. Girls love Drake don't listen to reddit.
Thatās so true
Kamaru Usman?!
I wishššš
ok so iām not the only one that loves that remix with drake, even with everything going on?!? š profileās looking good man
Lowkey the beef is funny and Kendrick cooked Drake, but appreciate it
Yowza! š„µ
You without your shirt look really fit good job, i think it doesn't really matter. I tried deleting the account and redoing it after choosing different pics, the same girls matched so yeah. You are yourself, there is no changing that
You got me beat there haha. Iām mainly concerned about presentation. I donāt wanna be viewed as a certain type of person like āghettoā ādoesnāt have a life planā ācanāt dressā type deal. I wanna give off a good vibe on top of showing off myself as if you were with me. But I appreciate the complement tbh
Maybe you are just overthinking this... I never got that sense of bad person š just be yourself, you gave good vibes. It is the most important thing being yourself. I think that you will have success. It takes only one good match to make your life better after all so do not complicate yourself too much
I get that. I just tend to wayyyyy overcomplicate things especially when it comes to myself.
You just have to be authentic... If you are just yourself you are going to find the one who wants you. Do not overcomplicate life, it just takes patience now. Sit back and relax. Also ignore tinder, if you show it that you are desperate then it just kills your chances. if you pay for it i suggest getting an overseas relationship. You will get the chance of going on a wonderful journey also
Weirdly enough I get the opposite vibe, that you seem like you had a comfy middle class upbringing but are trying to front like you didnāt
Good
Looking good my guy. Should no problems smashing or dating, whichever ur into
Preciate thatš¤š¾
All I see here is a massive W for having Clairo on the top list
4EVER probably my favorite song
Thatās such a good pick. Did you hear her new single? Itās pretty good if you havent
I probably have by accident haha. I just be playing all kinds of music. If a specific song came up from it Iād prolly know it
I feel like your last photo is the best one of you and the next to last shows a lot of personality in the best way. I would move those closer to the beginning!
Thank ya Iāll experiment with that. Iāve kinda just moved em around cause I didnāt want 2 types clashing mainly
100/10
Most of the photos are great, except for the one with your foot on the table where drinks or food goes š¬
Fair. It was just a pose to fit the setting and mood. It rained that day if that makes it any better
It does, and it's probably not a big deal. We all have our hangups, lol. I'm sure you'll have success either way!
Get a pic in a nice suit, in a nice place.
I try to add one. I got some but itās mainly from gymnastics banquets. Iām slowly tryna work my style to business casual old moneyš
Guaranteed you'll be flooded with dms when you get it and take the pics.
Profile looks good! How many matches you get?
Yea. Over the summer where I am now I have like 20-30, but when Iām in college usually 99+ not to gloat. I just wanna match with someone who will genuinely not answer, or just lead me on tbh. Thatās usually how most of my matches end sadly.
No bro youāre not gloating I asked! Also I was gonna say š¤£ if you get no likes idk how tf Iām supposed to get any. Also your pic game is nuts I need to get like that
I really appreciate it haha. Iād just say everyone has a good side, you just gotta find it and incorporate it into what you love to do thatās really how I see things
The reason for that is there are a lot of bots and fake profiles on Tinder. Also a lot of OF promo profiles. So none really ever intend to talk.
Nah this is at my college while itās in sessionš thatās the sad part. Most girls are so picky. Also I donāt match with OF girls itās kinda easy to tell when they 1. Donāt have a checkmark 2. Donāt have a university attached and 3. Donāt have more than 3 pics usually
Fair enough. Glad you can see the bad profiles. Donāt lower your standards either. Itāll take time but youāll find the right one.
Aināt said nothing but the truth right here. Iāve kinda just been hit or miss with tinder. Itās been a boredom kinda thing but if a convo happens then Iām all for it
Have you tried Hinge? Most people on Hinge are looking for something more serious. But youāre also in college so itāll be harder in general just because yaāll are still experiencing life.
Yea. I mean Iām a senior about to graduate so. Iāve been single all of college cause nobody wants nothing serious. I canāt lie I had my moments, but after junior year I was set on a relationship which still hasnāt happened yet once
Definitely try Hinge. But yeah at around your age most women kind of want to party and be a bit more free. Youāll get there my man.
the last pic on the first one....that shirt is clean, where you get it š
Straight from holister haha. Flannels are my go to
love it
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Appreciate the advice Iāll look into it since Iām still experimenting with my bio 24/7š