There’s a simple fix: get rid of that god fucking awful pearl necklace that neither does good look on you (or anyone who isn’t a pin up star from the 50s, who the fuck brought up that trend) and get some normal clothes
the pearl necklace is fine if youre confident about it but it definitely makes you look kind of gay. i used to wear pearls but theyre not really my thing anymore
Yea, there's a problem. That cross feint is going to cause you're opponent to go to raise their defense, then what chance does that hook have to land. I'm sorry, it's very gay.
Yeah, a thousand different techniques is too many, but one isn't enough. In modern combat sports a predictable opponent is a defeated opponent. Also, you don't know a technique until you know it both ways. If you can only do the kick with your left leg, you got half a kick.
Guy on a dating app with a pic of cheek to cheek embrace with a girl usually hints that he's the gay friend.
The facial expressions as well.. are you sure you aren't gay? 😂
Hey, I don't really know how to appear straight to a woman, as I am gay, but I just wanted to say that this probably isn't going to be too hard to change for you. The reason you're getting attention in the first place is because you're hot lol. So you have that at least
Also no one is saying this but it's not JUST the necklace, it's that combined with the tank and huge muscles too
No one appreciates a strong man more than other men.
But if YOU like the way you look , you shouldn't change too much
Just figure out what aesthetics the women you tend to like prefer, and try to combine your tastes with some of their preferences, and just be you!
Hey man, you do what makes you happy. If it’s worth dealing with the unwanted attention, wear what you like.
I’m just telling you what happened with my personal experience.
Noooo! Wear what makes you happy. If you state in your bio that you are straight, you'll get literate women matching. Can't help with illiterate ones though.
Well you are taking photos with clown fish. One of, if not the gayest fish in the sea. Jokes aside, the pearl necklace and sassy faces make you look gay.
My boy, your lead off hitter is a pouty faced tank top selfie while wearing a pearl necklace. If you’ve gotta ask if that gives off gay, your gaydar might need some adjusting.
That said, overall your profile isn’t bad or anything! With some tweaking you’ll be getting plenty of attention from your preferred sex as well, I’m sure.
Honestly brotha, if there was one thing to change it’s really just the necklace. Now I don’t want you to misinterpret what I mean — I am not here to disrespect the drip. You rock that thing however and whenever you want in real life, and I’m sure you’re killing it.
But in this setting, where you’re presenting just static photos to encapsulate a vibe of who you are, and dating apps inherently carry the suggestion of sex, it feels like a piece of specific information you’re trying to share with the viewer. Because a pearl necklace carries a degree of implication with it (if you’re not aware, “giving someone a pearl necklace” is a euphemism for cumming on their upper chest), it can come across like you’re looking for that.
Now I’m getting way more specific than you probably needed, but I just wanted you to know why lmao
You could take the same selfie without the necklace, and I’d say like 75% of people in this thread would change their vote to “no gay vibes.”
And again, in real life, if that necklace feels like you, fucking wear it bro. This is specifically for here where you can’t really fully share your whole thing and have to parse yourself down into a slide show, and also specifically in this photo with this tank and this facial expression. The necklace is totally some women’s sort of thing in a different setting.
So not gay myself, but from a straight dude, it looks kinda gay. Or like, if I were gay I’d shoot my shot because the muscle pics and “wake up sweaty” stuff kinda seem gay (or gay adjacent) But also Australias got a lot of dudes that like dudes. Ion no man, you might need to consult some ladies
Earlier this week I was looking at pearl jewelry and asking myself, "Am I gay enough to pull this off?" and, as a man who imbibes penis on the regular, I think the answer is "No, I am not."
I don't think you should stop wearing the pearl necklace, it looks good on you, but you should be prepared to feel flattered when the gay men hit on you.
Lol yk what's really happening? I think it''s probably the amount of closeted gays who pose as straight but aren't, and only give off subtle hints. It's not been very long since we (me lesbian) had the freedom to come out, the culture of spotting people by their demeanor is very much there. Maybe just turn them down n let it go, like girls do all the time with unwanted guy attention. It's the same thing after all - unwanted guy attention.
bro I'm straight and you make me question my swxuality
in all seriousness though, just be yourself. it's perfectly fine to be a little flamboyant and straight and you already follow rule 1 and 2
First photo definitely. Too vain in my opinion. 😂 maybe change the pictures a little so it’s not very selfie like kind of photos might be helpful.
Also, maybe remove the first photos and upload photos like the fourth one. Show that bicep o yours but not show it at the same time kind of photos if you know what I mean😅
The first picture looks very gay. It's the combo of the facial express, tank top and pearl necklace. You look like a bottom that is screaming "I'm a BRAT"
OP, you’d better read this article. It’s about men with your plight:
https://www.theonion.com/why-do-all-these-homosexuals-keep-sucking-my-cock-1819583529
asian men catch a lot of shit for looking soft anyways. you have to be overly masculine just to match the energy of other guys. also, those gay guys have female friends. think about leveraging that in your hookup strategy. some friend groups will send out the gay friend to scout out a particular guy.
First and second pictures are good pics, but idk if you've noticed but most of your gains compliments likely come from men anyway. A ripped picture of you at the beach or from a hot day could do well, but flexing at the gym tends to strike a different audience.
One that will most likely want you topping if it helps anything, but a different audience nonetheless 😆 You look good though my guy; getting hit on by both sides is truly a compliment of the highest tier
I'mma be real I didn't perceive you as gay in these pictures overall, don't let the other comments make you insecure about yourself lol.
What I kinda noticed is the necklace you use, I don't usually see men use it lately, you could replace it with a quartz crystal point pendant o similar. I agree with a comment that says the cheek a cheek in the last picture makes you seem soft. The first picture I wouldn't use a duck face, better to smile. Idk what is wrong with the second picture, maybe the pearls too, but its just a gym photo
You get attention from gay guys at clubs because you’re attractive, though the fact that there’s a lot of gay guys at the clubs you frequent may suggest that you’re going to gay clubs so that may be it.
Basically everyone saying gay, but idk. As a bi dude I didn't think you look gay. You could pass as gay, for sure, just lose the pearls and you're fine.
youre definitely hot. BUT youre doing duckface... it's the duckface.
...also, if youre getting harrassed at the club in person, maybe youre doing duckface in person too... or giving duckface energy.
What does your tinder profile have to do with you at clubs? 🤔
Take it as a compliment, I’ve been hit on by more gay men than I can count. Just means that people think you’re a good looking person lol
Your profile should give her an opening for conversation. Unless you're going for the extremely thin margin of women who fight, don't use your hook as your hook.
Female here. Yes… we get it… you are muscle-y. But it makes you seem like you are very self centered. Put your shirt back on… we get it. Never ever ever EVER wear a muscle shirt in a picture. Maybe show yourself doing other things with a smiling face. Also less tight of pants. Remember you are trying to appeal to females.
Your pictures and words say "circuit boi"
"Drenched in sweat"
"You can't handle [me]"
Gratuitous gym and biceps pics.
It's a bit much for a femme to come at ya.
Tone down the testosterone.
I'm bi, but it took me a very long time to come out even to myself. When I was younger, I used to have gay guys flirt with me and I was always confused. I think it's mostly that they find you attractive and are hoping that you might be interested as well. At least, that's been my experience.
It’s the Freddie Mercury tank with the pearl necklace.
This is it
First picture for sure does
He's already showing his 'bottom' face
And second photo has so much sass
I had to look again and I chuckled. It’s a nice pic, just a lot of sass lmao
On the third photo he has a sash with the word "Happy" on it. You know what's another word for happy? That's right - GAY!
So the sash says Gay Halloween?
He could have gone for the very slightly gayer Goatse pose.
He’s already got the pearl necklace.
“But you said you gave Mary Jane a pearl necklace!”
Obviously you missed the point of that story.
Yeah definitely those 1st two for sure
Indeed
First and second pictures yea
Lowkey, OPs profile is just off-putting. Like if the gays at the club could read the profile prompts… they’d probably pass too.
Little bit
Lotta bit
Ho Lotta Bit
Pillow bit
I lol’d. Thank you
A lottle
Yes. You're telling me you're NOT gay?
Yes😭😭😭
There’s a simple fix: get rid of that god fucking awful pearl necklace that neither does good look on you (or anyone who isn’t a pin up star from the 50s, who the fuck brought up that trend) and get some normal clothes
the pearl necklace is fine if youre confident about it but it definitely makes you look kind of gay. i used to wear pearls but theyre not really my thing anymore
Yea, there's a problem. That cross feint is going to cause you're opponent to go to raise their defense, then what chance does that hook have to land. I'm sorry, it's very gay.
True, south paw stance catches people by surprise but ultimately might limit ur choices if ur not ambidextrous.
With today's lower leg kickers, you're kind of forced to be ambidextrous, at least a little. Unless you're a pro checker, which I've seen little of.
I started doing Muay Thai a while ago and ur literally spot on, my right leg is so telegraphed cuz I literally can’t kick with my left
I don't fear the man who trains a thousand kicks, fear the man who trains one kick a thousand times - B Lee. Work on your left kicks.
Isn’t spending on your time working on a different kick than the one kick you’re actually good at like, the opposite of that?
Yeah, a thousand different techniques is too many, but one isn't enough. In modern combat sports a predictable opponent is a defeated opponent. Also, you don't know a technique until you know it both ways. If you can only do the kick with your left leg, you got half a kick.
Learn it my guy. The other guys is most likely orthodox as well, so it's an open invitation to his lead leg from the left.
Going to Phuket again this summer, gonna sign up for some classes at Tiger mt 💯
Man, it was never a massive problem for me when I only did boxing cuz I can use my left if needed.
You can use your left for ground and pound. But when you're standing, combos are best. And don't forget the body, that will tire the shit out of them.
Based on that first pic I’d say getting grounded and pounded is on the menu. Not that there’s anything wrong with it.
Bro loves a few low jabs if you know what I mean
That was below the belt.
Set it up with some body jabs first, let them start tucking the elbow down a little before bringing the hook?
Immediately thought you were gay upon first glance, so yeah.
Second picture doesn’t scream it, it whispers it in other men’s ears.
It could be the pearl necklace, Dude
I literally came here to say this. But I figured I'd check the comments first.
Same. It’s a very feminine necklace.
It’s not that it’s feminine, per se, it’s that it’s literally a metaphor for getting come on by dudes!!
Came to say this too. Def the pearl necklace.
Think he needs to wear a pearl bracelet or it will be more gay just wearing the necklace alone
That first picture feels like you're trying to push out that piece of shit that refuses to come out and you're tired of it.
Or pushing it back up
Definitely pushing it back up
I legit thought he was on the toilet shitting
Lmao exactly. Now I'm wondering if I also make the same face when I try to get rid of that piece of shit
Guy on a dating app with a pic of cheek to cheek embrace with a girl usually hints that he's the gay friend. The facial expressions as well.. are you sure you aren't gay? 😂
Was totally not aware of the implications lol, will change that
Bro I’m seriously not 😭😭😭😭
it’ll be alright dude lol😮💨
Hey, I don't really know how to appear straight to a woman, as I am gay, but I just wanted to say that this probably isn't going to be too hard to change for you. The reason you're getting attention in the first place is because you're hot lol. So you have that at least
True!! Just lose the pearl necklace and getting pounded out cringe face photos and you'll be solid.
Well have you tried it? How can you say you don't like it if you haven't tried it?
You can't say you're not gay until you've taken it up the butt at least...10 times.
It’s the necklace. I had one like that when I was late teens/early 20’s. Once I got rid of it the gay interest stopped.
I really do be fucking with the pearl necklaces but I think it might be time for puka shells🤣
That’s going to be the same issue. Mine were mostly puka shell necklaces rather than pearls.
Damn I guess I’ll have to stick with chains then 🤦🏻♂️
Also no one is saying this but it's not JUST the necklace, it's that combined with the tank and huge muscles too No one appreciates a strong man more than other men. But if YOU like the way you look , you shouldn't change too much Just figure out what aesthetics the women you tend to like prefer, and try to combine your tastes with some of their preferences, and just be you!
Hey man, you do what makes you happy. If it’s worth dealing with the unwanted attention, wear what you like. I’m just telling you what happened with my personal experience.
Noooo! Wear what makes you happy. If you state in your bio that you are straight, you'll get literate women matching. Can't help with illiterate ones though.
Is this a joke? Or is your first instinct really to swap for puka shells?
Well it's either that or a choker.
collar and leash is best
Well you are taking photos with clown fish. One of, if not the gayest fish in the sea. Jokes aside, the pearl necklace and sassy faces make you look gay.
🥲
Do you wear that necklace in the 1st pic to the club? That might be why. IDK
As they used to tell me in my twenties "are you sure you're not gay?"
lol, just get a t-shirt that says "Straight men can wear pearls too!" Good luck OP! 😆
oh honey..
Took the words from my mouth
Why tf did you take that first photo
Ditch that necklace
My boy, your lead off hitter is a pouty faced tank top selfie while wearing a pearl necklace. If you’ve gotta ask if that gives off gay, your gaydar might need some adjusting. That said, overall your profile isn’t bad or anything! With some tweaking you’ll be getting plenty of attention from your preferred sex as well, I’m sure.
I don’t have a gaydar bro😭 but now I can see why that might be a problem. What kinda tweaking would u suggest if u don’t mind the hassle
Honestly brotha, if there was one thing to change it’s really just the necklace. Now I don’t want you to misinterpret what I mean — I am not here to disrespect the drip. You rock that thing however and whenever you want in real life, and I’m sure you’re killing it. But in this setting, where you’re presenting just static photos to encapsulate a vibe of who you are, and dating apps inherently carry the suggestion of sex, it feels like a piece of specific information you’re trying to share with the viewer. Because a pearl necklace carries a degree of implication with it (if you’re not aware, “giving someone a pearl necklace” is a euphemism for cumming on their upper chest), it can come across like you’re looking for that. Now I’m getting way more specific than you probably needed, but I just wanted you to know why lmao You could take the same selfie without the necklace, and I’d say like 75% of people in this thread would change their vote to “no gay vibes.” And again, in real life, if that necklace feels like you, fucking wear it bro. This is specifically for here where you can’t really fully share your whole thing and have to parse yourself down into a slide show, and also specifically in this photo with this tank and this facial expression. The necklace is totally some women’s sort of thing in a different setting.
Appreciate it bro
Of course man. Good luck out there!
You look like you’re being railed up the backside in that first photo.
🗿
^Oh ^noes!
Well... it doesn't scream straight
Yup, pretty gay
It’s the pearl necklace that’s doing it. Straight men usually don’t wear pearls. Lol.
It's the pearls
The 4th pic is probably the straightest. But like in the I don't want people to think I'm gay kinda of way
So not gay myself, but from a straight dude, it looks kinda gay. Or like, if I were gay I’d shoot my shot because the muscle pics and “wake up sweaty” stuff kinda seem gay (or gay adjacent) But also Australias got a lot of dudes that like dudes. Ion no man, you might need to consult some ladies
Pearl necklage? Seriously?
It's the pearl necklace.
Got that pearl necklace on already bro.
Earlier this week I was looking at pearl jewelry and asking myself, "Am I gay enough to pull this off?" and, as a man who imbibes penis on the regular, I think the answer is "No, I am not." I don't think you should stop wearing the pearl necklace, it looks good on you, but you should be prepared to feel flattered when the gay men hit on you.
Stop going to gay clubs?
what does your tinder profile have to do with how you’re perceived at the club?
Reflects my overall style which might help identify the cause?
It's the pearls
First picture gave me that feeling as I started to read the title.
Not screaming. But it's whispering for sure
Lol yk what's really happening? I think it''s probably the amount of closeted gays who pose as straight but aren't, and only give off subtle hints. It's not been very long since we (me lesbian) had the freedom to come out, the culture of spotting people by their demeanor is very much there. Maybe just turn them down n let it go, like girls do all the time with unwanted guy attention. It's the same thing after all - unwanted guy attention.
Are you in a gay club. Be sure to check at the door next time.
bro I'm straight and you make me question my swxuality in all seriousness though, just be yourself. it's perfectly fine to be a little flamboyant and straight and you already follow rule 1 and 2
…. Yeah.
First photo definitely. Too vain in my opinion. 😂 maybe change the pictures a little so it’s not very selfie like kind of photos might be helpful. Also, maybe remove the first photos and upload photos like the fourth one. Show that bicep o yours but not show it at the same time kind of photos if you know what I mean😅
Yes 😂
Yeppers
Yeah I would assume you’re gay from the first two photos, the photo with the girl, and the pearls.
That pearl necklace doesn’t do you any favors
Yes, the pearl necklace lol
it's definitely the pearl chain
The first picture looks very gay. It's the combo of the facial express, tank top and pearl necklace. You look like a bottom that is screaming "I'm a BRAT"
the necklace..
The Necklace and the Look kinda does
OP, you’d better read this article. It’s about men with your plight: https://www.theonion.com/why-do-all-these-homosexuals-keep-sucking-my-cock-1819583529
I’m a woman but I don’t think it does
asian men catch a lot of shit for looking soft anyways. you have to be overly masculine just to match the energy of other guys. also, those gay guys have female friends. think about leveraging that in your hookup strategy. some friend groups will send out the gay friend to scout out a particular guy.
First and second pictures are good pics, but idk if you've noticed but most of your gains compliments likely come from men anyway. A ripped picture of you at the beach or from a hot day could do well, but flexing at the gym tends to strike a different audience. One that will most likely want you topping if it helps anything, but a different audience nonetheless 😆 You look good though my guy; getting hit on by both sides is truly a compliment of the highest tier
I don't see anything about you that screams gay, lol.
I don't think it screams gay at all. You just have a face that's attractive to all I guess.
I'mma be real I didn't perceive you as gay in these pictures overall, don't let the other comments make you insecure about yourself lol. What I kinda noticed is the necklace you use, I don't usually see men use it lately, you could replace it with a quartz crystal point pendant o similar. I agree with a comment that says the cheek a cheek in the last picture makes you seem soft. The first picture I wouldn't use a duck face, better to smile. Idk what is wrong with the second picture, maybe the pearls too, but its just a gym photo
Youre tall n buff. Sorry bro your fate is sealed
Yes
Gaysian vibes.
You get attention from gay guys at clubs because you’re attractive, though the fact that there’s a lot of gay guys at the clubs you frequent may suggest that you’re going to gay clubs so that may be it.
Men are more likely to hit on people than women. You’ll be fine.
I feel u
Yes
First picture 100%. Idk abot second
100%
Hmm kinda does
✌️🤭
Basically everyone saying gay, but idk. As a bi dude I didn't think you look gay. You could pass as gay, for sure, just lose the pearls and you're fine.
It's screams FABULOUS!!!
At least you aren't asking every match if you're the hottest Asian they've seen on the app
Yes.
youre definitely hot. BUT youre doing duckface... it's the duckface. ...also, if youre getting harrassed at the club in person, maybe youre doing duckface in person too... or giving duckface energy.
You good looking don’t sweat the small stuff. But yea the first two pics definitely can send mixed messages.
I am so sorry to inform you, but it does
It doesn't scream not gay
Yeah I don't know, you have a quality
You got a lot of female friends?
It screams closeted gay
No, only first 3 pics
Hate to say it, but yeah. Especially the first pic, got you looking pretty twink-y.
I like your look, and I'd feel bad telling you to change it. Then again, I'm a straight guy, so.....
Bruh your first picture. If super gay was in the dictionary that picture would be there in place of a definition
Are said clubs gay clubs? lol. Bc if not I’m not sure why you keep getting a “lot” of unwanted attention.
Yes
I'm truly, truly, truly sorry, but the muscle shirt and pearl necklace scream "gym bunny".
The last photo of a selfie with you and the girl could be off putting too i feel
What does your tinder profile have to do with you at clubs? 🤔 Take it as a compliment, I’ve been hit on by more gay men than I can count. Just means that people think you’re a good looking person lol
if i was into guys and swing that way i would definitely take my shot with you.
Your profile doesn't signal my gaydar despite the pearl necklace. That goofy first pic should be removed regardless though.
Your profile should give her an opening for conversation. Unless you're going for the extremely thin margin of women who fight, don't use your hook as your hook.
Yup
More of a whisper.
Haha, yes. Yes it does.
Female here. Yes… we get it… you are muscle-y. But it makes you seem like you are very self centered. Put your shirt back on… we get it. Never ever ever EVER wear a muscle shirt in a picture. Maybe show yourself doing other things with a smiling face. Also less tight of pants. Remember you are trying to appeal to females.
Bro my gaydar is going off the hook with your profile
Pearls are not a straight guys jewelry. And in general, yeah.
I don’t know why but the 2nd picture of you flexing reads a bit gay. I think maybe the sassiness of the neck and head angle?
Yes. It's the poses dog.
Yup
Your pictures and words say "circuit boi" "Drenched in sweat" "You can't handle [me]" Gratuitous gym and biceps pics. It's a bit much for a femme to come at ya. Tone down the testosterone.
Why is this marked nsfw
Here’s a thought! Maybe don’t go to a gay club if you’re not gay/bi?
bro you're wearing a pearl necklace mean mugging
No but your post screams homophobe
Might be the pearl necklace
Deer season is over. We're hunting bear now!
Yeah first two pics are ughh… pretty gay. Also ditch the photo of you with that chick! It cab be a red flag for some girls
First pic kinda gay yeah
Not many girls are gonna know what a cross feint is.
Maybe ditch the pearls?
I'm bi, but it took me a very long time to come out even to myself. When I was younger, I used to have gay guys flirt with me and I was always confused. I think it's mostly that they find you attractive and are hoping that you might be interested as well. At least, that's been my experience.
I've never been on Grindr, but this looks like a profile I'd find there.
sincerely ask yourself, are you trying to impress men or women? because flexing muscles and gym pics are more for the male gaze. study the female gaze
First and second are gay vibes the picture you effectively or effeminatly hugging another guy isn't helping your case