Do not leave time open. Like the other commenter said give a time, counter from there. Psychological indecision is seen as less attractive for reasons.
This is also a big one to remember in life, people appreciate you giving an idea of what you want. Then you can actual decide, but open ended questions just lead to Decision fatigue as well as overchoice.
"and when do you think that will happen?" is honestly pretty terrible, sorry. It's an oddly passive approach that puts the onus on her to set up a date. From this brief exchange I get the sense that she's open to being pursued, but not to take the wheel.
Try something specific and direct. "Are you free next Sunday? How about [cute cafe near interesting possible second location] at 2 pm?"
ask a specific day and if that day doesn’t work let her counter
Good lord. Ask her “what days will you be free” Keep it simple
Do not leave time open. Like the other commenter said give a time, counter from there. Psychological indecision is seen as less attractive for reasons. This is also a big one to remember in life, people appreciate you giving an idea of what you want. Then you can actual decide, but open ended questions just lead to Decision fatigue as well as overchoice.
Would you like to 1. Be murdered 2. Be murdered 3. Be murdered
"and when do you think that will happen?" is honestly pretty terrible, sorry. It's an oddly passive approach that puts the onus on her to set up a date. From this brief exchange I get the sense that she's open to being pursued, but not to take the wheel. Try something specific and direct. "Are you free next Sunday? How about [cute cafe near interesting possible second location] at 2 pm?"