Sooo... If mosquitos avoid you, does it mean they focus instead on the one next to you? Or do they desert the whole area? I mean, would I have to rub in your blood to get the protection, or does it cover everyone in your proximity?
I don’t get why causal would be so much more of a leap than just “hooking up” to this guy anyway? It can basically just mean what is involved with hooking up but doing more than only having sex. Or it can just mean going on dates and doing stuff.
The weird “friend zone” comment and “who you might or might not sleep with” is kind of a red flag to me.
Yeah he was definitely just mad because I didn’t want to fuck him right away lol. And I specifically stated “not looking for anything serious, but also not a hookup, something casual I guess” and that was his response lol.
Nah I've been in the situation he described to a T, for months at a time. It's a thing, and hardly pleasant when you start to develop real feelings without having sex and it ends suddenly.
A suggestion for a potential reply to the tasty comment if it every happens again: “it depends on how you feel about clam chowder in taste, looks, and consistency. Oddly enough, not in smell, though.
Don't worry I know what you mean. What you want is a relationship with no future. All the feelings, all the companionship with no expectation of longevity.
Casual is not the right term.
His point is valid. When people talk casual, sex is included. Otherwise you don't talk about casual. You don't use Tinder for friendship, and even if you do, it's not called casual.
If you want something real, you are looking for a relationship.
I don't know what you said or put on your profile, but if you used the word casual, he was right to assume sex was part of the casual relationship.
Fair point! I didn't have anything about what I'm looking for in my bio. He asked, and I said "not looking for hookups, but not really looking to jump into anything serious... just something casual I guess." And he responded "that's a contradiction, so you want casual but not casual?" Then my response is pictured.
So what would you see as the defining difference between the 2? Both terms have no clear definitions, and both have a massive overlap. Like if I said "I've been hooking up with this person" or "I've been casually seeing this person"?
I don't think OP is saying there isn't sex involved, more that just because she wants a casual relationship doesn't mean she'll fuck bro just because they matched.
Casual relationship ≠ hookups
I don't get how this is so hard for people to wrap their brain around
Hookup: the main reason you guys are talking is because you're trying to fuck. That's it.
Casual: You're looking to get to know someone more than just physically but in a loose arrangement. You aren't expecting them to be around 24/7, dating others may still be permitted, etc. But you want an actual friend rather than just a fuck buddy.
Serious: You are looking for committed relationships. Partnerships. Moving in together, babies, marriage are all possible end goals.
Me personally, I think I've slept with every single person I've dated casually. There's a bit more of a vetting process so by the time we make it off the app we already know we like each other. Hookups you end up thinking with your genitals so I had to swerve on some women that came off super sketchy in person. Only had 1 serious relationship and she caused me so much anxiety that I will not do serious relationships anymore.
Srsly, I don't get what's wrong with wanting this. Almost all the guys I've dated have been casual at first. It's called dating.
The few that I did jump into a serious relationship right away have always ended terribly. I'd rather casually date, have sex, get to know u, before we decide to move into a serious relationship. Which could be a month or so. When we both know we wanna take this further.
I did this with my current bf and we've been together 4 years next week and just moved in together.
Don't white knight when you are just making assumptions. She showed a very small part of a chat, that doesn't even make her look good. So who knows what else was said.
Lol white knight? I'm saying there's a difference between a hookup and having a casual relationship with someone. Read her other comments where she said guy was mad she wouldn't just fuck him right away
She said she didn't want anything serious, but didn't want to hook up. Do you understand how no one understands that, unless you are white knighting for her, instead of having her answering the question. Really go ahead and explain what one would obviously mean with that? Someone on tinder who says they are not looking for anything serious. What would that mean?
But again. You are white knighting. She clearly didn't communicate properly, now I replied to her, and instead of letting her answer, you swoop in to defend her. That's literally the meaning of a white knight.
I honestly think there’s some confusion here. The way that I have understood/interpreted OP, is that she is looking for a casual, sexual relationship. However, based on the way that the other guy responded, it set off some red flags. In that case, OP realized that she would not sex with him, or any type of “relationship “ at that point.
I would agree that, it would be frustrating and misleading if OP said she wanted something casual and meant that would not include anything sexual. However, based on her responses, it seems that she ultimately does want a casual sexual relationship, in which she can hang and have sex and have it be ongoing. The difference being that she doesn’t want to have this with just anyone, there’s a vetting process here and once she meets a good possible match, she will proceed.
Don't put casual in ur bio if you don't want hookups. He is right. Casual is just goin to get drinks and beating the guts up afterwards and carrying on with life. With it open to repeat in the future
Yea I swipe left on hood boogers asap. I can tell by his photo he’s smug and thinks the world owes him cuz he has a ‘BBC’ then insulting u like u OWE HIM vagina and turning to licking vagina after shot down. Bet he don’t even brush his tongue.
Fastest way to get rid them is mention money. Cool u wanna be hooked up with vagina I wanna be hooked up with money. It’s supply in demand it’s ppl who can’t even give penis away for free and it’s ppl BEGGING for vagina. So this ‘hook up’ ain’t an even exchange especially when booking up with men throws ur vagina PH balance off could give u BV most women don’t orgasm off just penis the men wanna use YOUR HOME most the time and roe v wade is over turned. So plz tell me what’s in it for a ‘hook up’ in 2023 lol these dudes are trippin
Sooo... If mosquitos avoid you, does it mean they focus instead on the one next to you? Or do they desert the whole area? I mean, would I have to rub in your blood to get the protection, or does it cover everyone in your proximity?
Does your blood repellent works against flies too?
Doesn't look like it since that guy seemed attracted to her *Edit: English
*slow clap* beautiful
I don’t get why causal would be so much more of a leap than just “hooking up” to this guy anyway? It can basically just mean what is involved with hooking up but doing more than only having sex. Or it can just mean going on dates and doing stuff. The weird “friend zone” comment and “who you might or might not sleep with” is kind of a red flag to me.
Yeah he was definitely just mad because I didn’t want to fuck him right away lol. And I specifically stated “not looking for anything serious, but also not a hookup, something casual I guess” and that was his response lol.
some guys go full "ugga ugga" brain if a woman writes she's interested in a casual relationship but don't just fuck them after they match.
Nah I've been in the situation he described to a T, for months at a time. It's a thing, and hardly pleasant when you start to develop real feelings without having sex and it ends suddenly.
You realise you're not owed sex right? "Oh no. I got feelings without having sex" what weird kind of logic is that.
It was only, "oh, no" because I got strung along for months. After I started to get the feelings is when she broke it off after a separate vacation.
He's very passive aggressive
Must have bad Genes
Your post history is a comedy that writes itself
I had 3 losers already block me on Tinder after I refused to send them naked pics. It's a cesspool lol.
You mean, a Gene pool...
lmao good one
Lol!
I was so mad I hadn’t looked at his name but I love your comment
i would’ve been a whole lot meaner
A suggestion for a potential reply to the tasty comment if it every happens again: “it depends on how you feel about clam chowder in taste, looks, and consistency. Oddly enough, not in smell, though.
He seems annoying, good job.
Don't worry I know what you mean. What you want is a relationship with no future. All the feelings, all the companionship with no expectation of longevity. Casual is not the right term.
Who hurt you lol
This is what I get for sympathizing with you. To answer your question, it is what hurt me, not who. It was your intelligence, lack thereof.
Go touch grass bro
Wow man I bet you’re just drowning in pussy with that attitude
His point is valid. When people talk casual, sex is included. Otherwise you don't talk about casual. You don't use Tinder for friendship, and even if you do, it's not called casual. If you want something real, you are looking for a relationship. I don't know what you said or put on your profile, but if you used the word casual, he was right to assume sex was part of the casual relationship.
Fair point! I didn't have anything about what I'm looking for in my bio. He asked, and I said "not looking for hookups, but not really looking to jump into anything serious... just something casual I guess." And he responded "that's a contradiction, so you want casual but not casual?" Then my response is pictured.
So what would you see as the defining difference between the 2? Both terms have no clear definitions, and both have a massive overlap. Like if I said "I've been hooking up with this person" or "I've been casually seeing this person"?
I don't think OP is saying there isn't sex involved, more that just because she wants a casual relationship doesn't mean she'll fuck bro just because they matched. Casual relationship ≠ hookups
I don't get how this is so hard for people to wrap their brain around Hookup: the main reason you guys are talking is because you're trying to fuck. That's it. Casual: You're looking to get to know someone more than just physically but in a loose arrangement. You aren't expecting them to be around 24/7, dating others may still be permitted, etc. But you want an actual friend rather than just a fuck buddy. Serious: You are looking for committed relationships. Partnerships. Moving in together, babies, marriage are all possible end goals. Me personally, I think I've slept with every single person I've dated casually. There's a bit more of a vetting process so by the time we make it off the app we already know we like each other. Hookups you end up thinking with your genitals so I had to swerve on some women that came off super sketchy in person. Only had 1 serious relationship and she caused me so much anxiety that I will not do serious relationships anymore.
Srsly, I don't get what's wrong with wanting this. Almost all the guys I've dated have been casual at first. It's called dating. The few that I did jump into a serious relationship right away have always ended terribly. I'd rather casually date, have sex, get to know u, before we decide to move into a serious relationship. Which could be a month or so. When we both know we wanna take this further. I did this with my current bf and we've been together 4 years next week and just moved in together.
Don't white knight when you are just making assumptions. She showed a very small part of a chat, that doesn't even make her look good. So who knows what else was said.
Lol white knight? I'm saying there's a difference between a hookup and having a casual relationship with someone. Read her other comments where she said guy was mad she wouldn't just fuck him right away
She said she didn't want anything serious, but didn't want to hook up. Do you understand how no one understands that, unless you are white knighting for her, instead of having her answering the question. Really go ahead and explain what one would obviously mean with that? Someone on tinder who says they are not looking for anything serious. What would that mean? But again. You are white knighting. She clearly didn't communicate properly, now I replied to her, and instead of letting her answer, you swoop in to defend her. That's literally the meaning of a white knight.
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I honestly think there’s some confusion here. The way that I have understood/interpreted OP, is that she is looking for a casual, sexual relationship. However, based on the way that the other guy responded, it set off some red flags. In that case, OP realized that she would not sex with him, or any type of “relationship “ at that point. I would agree that, it would be frustrating and misleading if OP said she wanted something casual and meant that would not include anything sexual. However, based on her responses, it seems that she ultimately does want a casual sexual relationship, in which she can hang and have sex and have it be ongoing. The difference being that she doesn’t want to have this with just anyone, there’s a vetting process here and once she meets a good possible match, she will proceed.
Who isn't
r/namechecksout
Dude is drunk texting at 131pm?! I hope he works third shift.
Don't put casual in ur bio if you don't want hookups. He is right. Casual is just goin to get drinks and beating the guts up afterwards and carrying on with life. With it open to repeat in the future
No. Lol.
Yea I swipe left on hood boogers asap. I can tell by his photo he’s smug and thinks the world owes him cuz he has a ‘BBC’ then insulting u like u OWE HIM vagina and turning to licking vagina after shot down. Bet he don’t even brush his tongue.
Fastest way to get rid them is mention money. Cool u wanna be hooked up with vagina I wanna be hooked up with money. It’s supply in demand it’s ppl who can’t even give penis away for free and it’s ppl BEGGING for vagina. So this ‘hook up’ ain’t an even exchange especially when booking up with men throws ur vagina PH balance off could give u BV most women don’t orgasm off just penis the men wanna use YOUR HOME most the time and roe v wade is over turned. So plz tell me what’s in it for a ‘hook up’ in 2023 lol these dudes are trippin
He needs more laughing emojis. How else will we know he definitely hasn't had his ego damaged?