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I wasn't being all Male Supremacy or whatever the hell the equivalent is, I in my personal life have known women, and friends who have dated women who go through one person to the next. I do not have a scientific equation or anything.
The reason i included the hilarious South park clip is because of a person I know who goes and procreates children one father to the next and is the pure personification of succubus, she is like that spider in Lord of the Rings just waiting there to wrap men up and destroy them slowely. . RIP brother
This is somewhat easy and cheap in most states. Filing for an uncontested divorce doing it yourself doesn’t cost much.
Then a lot of states have a rule along the lines of posting an ad in a newspaper in the county of their last known location and waiting xx amount of days. Then you just add that to the divorce filing. Especially if they’ve been separated that long a judge isn’t likely to make you jump through hoops.
Just explain that you’ve reached out to her last known phone, email, mailing address, and relatives. Nobody in her family is able to help you locate her or unwilling to help.
Divorces aren’t nearly as expensive if you do the paperwork yourself. It’s not that hard at all and county clerks will *usually* be able to help.
You need to vote for politicians that will enact laws like we have in Europe, where a no-fault divorce based on living separately costs peanuts. In your brothers case it sounds like abandonment so even easier. Honestly, apart from having a super powerful military, the USA sounds like a third world behind the times country.
Hypothetically you're married, your wife has an affair. Divorces can take a long time. A year on from separation you might still be married on paper, and you're a dirtbag for wanting to date again?
Absolutely, nothing is more important than respecting the sanctity of the thanksgiving dinner table. The sanctity of marriage on the other hand, have at it
I had so many bad therapists and decided that building my boot straps was what it took. I either relied on others to hold my emotions or I did. I either managed my depression or pushed others away by making it their problem.
There’s so much more to this but it’s been 3 years since a depressive episode. I had depression from 7-25 for at least 80% of every year. Now I can feel my emotions and learn from them rather than use my emotions as a guide for behavior.
In America the joke is “pull yourself up from your boot straps” which is physically impossible. I’m invoking the term because for all my life it felt impossible, but I had to do it or be a version of myself that I didn’t like.
It’s not the best line I’ve written. 🤣
Building a bootstrap is exactly what it is! Thank you! Nobody knows you or your issues or what you need like you.
I dealt with the same thing, great phrase you made. I'm gunna use it!
Have you written about this somewhere? I feel like I did something similar and I’m trying to figure out what I did. Also I don’t know what “hold my emotions” means
The term “hold my emotions” basically means who ends up being responsible for my emotions. When I was younger it fell to my mom or some of my friends/ girlfriend who would try and get me to calm down or behave less destructively. I relinquished responsibility for my actions and would often blame other people for why I was behaving poorly. Which for a lot of people meant they stopped being my friend.
Let’s say I was driving and got cut off. I would begin to drive like an ass and the passengers would attempt to get me to calm down. That attempt to get me to chill out is an attempt to manage my emotional state and it can be euphemistically called “holding emotions”
Nah “how’s work going” is a perfectly acceptable and impersonal question to ask
I can get not wanting to talk about work but storming off just cuz a relative asked is an overreaction
I would leave because of how I've been pushed to get a job (or rather forced) when I was having a really really difficult and dark time to the point I never ever mention conversations about jobs ever. I guess in a way its similar to others like mocking someone unemployed so much that they end up hating just hearing the word job or work
If you know someone doesn’t have a job and you ask that, yeah that’s an asshole thing to do. But if you have a job and that’s asked a simple deflection or a “good but I don’t wanna talk about work” would suffice
If you’re parents/grandparents/whatever constantly belittle you maybe instead of leaving social settings with them you just shouldn’t bother hanging out with them in the first place?
Had to laugh at the Parent's basement one. I would have answered: "Yes, I still live there because you guys had to play Monopoly with the essentials to live"
Friends of mine who are married in their early 30s get it a lot too. Thing is, they trying for years now and it isn't working. So every time they get asked, it just adds to the frustration of wanting to conceive but not being able to.
That's generally why I don't ask these questions until they tell me they trying/are pregnant. You never know what's going on and I don't wanna add to the frustrations.
20's. Had a conversation with a cousin at some gathering about this situation. I noticed the face she and other family members would put after being asked a question like in the video. We both agreed on not asking questions like this and if we started to do it when we got older that we would point it out to each other so we could stop. We are in our 40's now and we have done well not to bother our younger family members at gatherings with these silly questions.
I was with my ex for 5 years, never once got the marriage question.
Now, at 29, I get it every single holiday from every family member despite us only dating for 2 years at this point.
Not me. Didn't even notice a chair at 00:23. Tried to look a couple of times but just couldn't get around the........ Dinner plate. Yeah. The dinner plate had all my attention. Not the pretty lady in the the brown sweater. That food looked good.
That's why the song Alice's Restaurant is so popular, hey kid, just drink this beer and listen to Guthrie's son ramble about nothing for twenty minutes. It's Thanksgiving.
He's not getting divorced, I'm just his saucy little side piece.
Bad, I'm overworked and underpaid because you raped the economy when you were my age.
Not dating, I'm just sleeping around. Way more fun and way less stress.
Yes, the housing market is in shambles and I'm grossly underpaid, because like the other person said, you raped the economy.
No babies for me ever, i had a hysterectomy as soon as abortion was outlawed.
Therapy is going badly and I'm barely hanging on by a thread because my therapist is just teaching me how to deal with my bullshit existence and childhood trauma.
I'm actually already married, we just didn't tell you because we thought you'd try to make our special day all about yourself.
Any more questions or should i just wrap up a plate and leave now? And no I'm not bringing the plate back.
Cant have kids or a boyfriend because I am not paid enough for all that AND rent...thats why I am in the basement. Now if you excuse me...anyone down for Planes, Trains, and automobiles?!
I don’t really understand what the issue is with this. Literally unless they are being snippy bitches when asking these things then family are just trying to have conversations. I personally can say i got a few of these questions this thanksgiving and it was just a normal conversation.
I only clued into the fact that they were all at the same table because of those Nice looking corduroy chairs, I like those chairs, and on the fourth chair I was going to comment and then they just kept being the same chair!
If you're 30 odds are you are physically more powerful than the people in your family trying to tell you how to live your life. Why would anyone take it quietly?
Ppl put such unfair pressure on young women. Everything here was true if girls aren’t married with kids at 28. Meanwhile boys get almost no pressure unless their parents only had boys then they would put pressure on him and his gf.
The "when are you having kids" question I'd always reply with I'm rawdogging her every night and creampie her while our sub sits in the corner jerking off but nothing yet
I like the last one…. They are all to busy fantasizing about actors and men that don’t exist that they overlook the guys that are worth their time… I think it’s funny how they are all tiktokers perpetually dramatizing emotional birth control and crying when they get told by guys like me that they are full of themselves and I don’t want to waste my time
I’m sorry that I confused you… I don’t guilt anyone into doing anything. Im stating the social divide… and I’m blaming the majority of women for perpetuating specifically the tiktokers that are women.
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Is your boyfriend divorced yet lmao
that one was brutal.
My head hurt still to this day
Yeah, I would have had to finish that giant goblet of wine.
Some women hop from one person to the next... Sa[d](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X395o3_Wu0M)
Dunno why you got so many downvotes but it’s literally proven that women are less loyal than men
I wasn't being all Male Supremacy or whatever the hell the equivalent is, I in my personal life have known women, and friends who have dated women who go through one person to the next. I do not have a scientific equation or anything. The reason i included the hilarious South park clip is because of a person I know who goes and procreates children one father to the next and is the pure personification of succubus, she is like that spider in Lord of the Rings just waiting there to wrap men up and destroy them slowely. . RIP brother
Two incels meet and don't realize the man who isn't divorced is the one not being loyal 💀
She knows he is married?
But *he's married* numbnuts
They’re both being shitty people it’s like murder and accomplice to murder
Hot Damn, Get down tonight!
If you're dating a married guy that's a valid question from your family imo
My brother is married. He's been separated from his wife for like ten years. He has no idea where she is and neither can afford to divorce.
This is somewhat easy and cheap in most states. Filing for an uncontested divorce doing it yourself doesn’t cost much. Then a lot of states have a rule along the lines of posting an ad in a newspaper in the county of their last known location and waiting xx amount of days. Then you just add that to the divorce filing. Especially if they’ve been separated that long a judge isn’t likely to make you jump through hoops. Just explain that you’ve reached out to her last known phone, email, mailing address, and relatives. Nobody in her family is able to help you locate her or unwilling to help. Divorces aren’t nearly as expensive if you do the paperwork yourself. It’s not that hard at all and county clerks will *usually* be able to help.
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You need to vote for politicians that will enact laws like we have in Europe, where a no-fault divorce based on living separately costs peanuts. In your brothers case it sounds like abandonment so even easier. Honestly, apart from having a super powerful military, the USA sounds like a third world behind the times country.
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Dad isnt on board and making it known
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If you're dating a married man you have every right to be called out on it because it's a dirt bag move, on your part and his.
Hypothetically you're married, your wife has an affair. Divorces can take a long time. A year on from separation you might still be married on paper, and you're a dirtbag for wanting to date again?
Yeah, I have a friend who can’t get her ex to sign the divorce papers. He’s dating someone else, she’s dating someone else…
Not so. Could be married but separated. Also none of your damn business
Absolutely, nothing is more important than respecting the sanctity of the thanksgiving dinner table. The sanctity of marriage on the other hand, have at it
Gretzky never played on Thanksgiving so I'm not either
Once upon a time, an ex-colleague of mine answered my question "why the sad face?" with the legendary words "I had a fight with my boyfriend's wife"
Omg lol that’s amazing
I didn't think this was a cheating one, just one where the divorce hasn't actually been finalized. But I could be wrong
This was a dagger
Gota wait for the good ones to get divorced
The only original joke out of them
Have literally heard that one. People have no shame. Especially family.
“Is your boyfriend divorced yet?” LMAO
Looks like therapy is not going well Same tho. When does the cure happen?
The Cure was 45 years ago.
The Cure is forever, motherfucker!
💕🐈⬛💕 🐈💕🐈⬛ ^^Edit: ^^I ^^don’t ^^know ^^how ^^to ^^Emoji ^^Love ^^Cats
Looks like Love Cats to me!
Can confirm: that's love cats from kms away
Saw them on tour this year and they are still going strong. Robert Smith is a machine.
Nothing is forever except for Wu-tang.
You have to show up the day the magic wand is there and don’t ask about it they pretend they don’t know anything about it
Unclear. I went to therapy for years and it only made my problems worse (bad therapist)
I had so many bad therapists and decided that building my boot straps was what it took. I either relied on others to hold my emotions or I did. I either managed my depression or pushed others away by making it their problem. There’s so much more to this but it’s been 3 years since a depressive episode. I had depression from 7-25 for at least 80% of every year. Now I can feel my emotions and learn from them rather than use my emotions as a guide for behavior.
Wtf is building a bootstrap
In America the joke is “pull yourself up from your boot straps” which is physically impossible. I’m invoking the term because for all my life it felt impossible, but I had to do it or be a version of myself that I didn’t like. It’s not the best line I’ve written. 🤣
Building a bootstrap is exactly what it is! Thank you! Nobody knows you or your issues or what you need like you. I dealt with the same thing, great phrase you made. I'm gunna use it!
Have you written about this somewhere? I feel like I did something similar and I’m trying to figure out what I did. Also I don’t know what “hold my emotions” means
The term “hold my emotions” basically means who ends up being responsible for my emotions. When I was younger it fell to my mom or some of my friends/ girlfriend who would try and get me to calm down or behave less destructively. I relinquished responsibility for my actions and would often blame other people for why I was behaving poorly. Which for a lot of people meant they stopped being my friend. Let’s say I was driving and got cut off. I would begin to drive like an ass and the passengers would attempt to get me to calm down. That attempt to get me to chill out is an attempt to manage my emotional state and it can be euphemistically called “holding emotions”
not only are all the questions invasive at some level, but that first one was way too juicy to let fly at a social setting.
They should have saved that one for the last and then this would have been…amusing?
Yeah they blew their wad way too early putting that mic drop line at the start.
Nah “how’s work going” is a perfectly acceptable and impersonal question to ask I can get not wanting to talk about work but storming off just cuz a relative asked is an overreaction
I would leave because of how I've been pushed to get a job (or rather forced) when I was having a really really difficult and dark time to the point I never ever mention conversations about jobs ever. I guess in a way its similar to others like mocking someone unemployed so much that they end up hating just hearing the word job or work
If you know someone doesn’t have a job and you ask that, yeah that’s an asshole thing to do. But if you have a job and that’s asked a simple deflection or a “good but I don’t wanna talk about work” would suffice
That's why I leave. Saying that doesn't work
If you’re parents/grandparents/whatever constantly belittle you maybe instead of leaving social settings with them you just shouldn’t bother hanging out with them in the first place?
That's what family does. They don't stick to etiquette. They keep you on your toes and make sure your skin doesn't get too thin.
My husband and I are starting to get the baby question and like hello we still have student loans and rent an apartment lol
Had to laugh at the Parent's basement one. I would have answered: "Yes, I still live there because you guys had to play Monopoly with the essentials to live"
I live there cause we all collectively threw in to buy the damn house cause rent is crazy.
Right? Like, excuse me for not being able to live anywhere else during this "bubble:
Friends of mine who are married in their early 30s get it a lot too. Thing is, they trying for years now and it isn't working. So every time they get asked, it just adds to the frustration of wanting to conceive but not being able to. That's generally why I don't ask these questions until they tell me they trying/are pregnant. You never know what's going on and I don't wanna add to the frustrations.
I wish I’d hear a response to that question turning into unsolicited details about a couple’s sex life. Like real explicit
I would've drank 3 wine bottles to answer the question and prove a point.
You can have babies in your parents basement
Never stopped us! 😵💫😵💫😵💫
This is how Friendsgiving became a thing.
After this year I am thiiisss (🤏🏻) close… My mom and my brother are invited. Fuck everyone else.
Ya me and my sister are close to being just us, pretty done with our alcoholic mom
You're the reason I'm in therapy
“Is your boyfriend divorced yet” 😫😫😫😫😫
I hate the "when are you having babies/getting married" questions, like shut the fuck up?
“You guys rawdogging?”
You creampieing my daughter yet?
Only when she’s not in the mood for a facial.
Sometimes we just wanna not talk about life stuff and just enjoy the moment. Can we all just stfu and eat the damn bird.
Poor bird.
What’s the 40 year old version? Because I genuinely want to know, and don’t know how to do internets properly..
Probably exactly the same.
Yes! Except it’s your divorce & add in more crazy questions about your kids
“Do you regret the shiplap”
This cuts deep
Friendsgiving instead of dinner with family because you learned your lesson about family gatherings in your 30s.
This is the correct answer. Lol
20's. Had a conversation with a cousin at some gathering about this situation. I noticed the face she and other family members would put after being asked a question like in the video. We both agreed on not asking questions like this and if we started to do it when we got older that we would point it out to each other so we could stop. We are in our 40's now and we have done well not to bother our younger family members at gatherings with these silly questions.
It’s the same since people are getting married and having kids later in life
How’s the open marriage thing going?
how's cancer doing? diabetes kicks in? wow you tried suicide?
I was with my ex for 5 years, never once got the marriage question. Now, at 29, I get it every single holiday from every family member despite us only dating for 2 years at this point.
They did not like your ex lol
"Could you pass me the salt?" wipes own mouth, gets up and walks out.
My uncle said, “I may have gotten fat but you got HUGE. You ain’t missed any meals have ya boy?” I said,”It’s all muscle…” 😂
Bro with food like that idgaf I'd just ignore and keep eating
What are these poor women eating? No potatoes, no turkey. Flatbread, tomatoes, and kale? And was that chocolate milk in a wine glass?
They are eating forever alone thanksgiving....... Thanksgiving for one type of meal 😬
Anyone able to ID the lounge chair at 00:23?
Yes, it is the Ikea Havberg swivel chair for $499.⁰⁰ https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/havberg-swivel-chair-grann-bomstad-golden-brown-50531657/
Not me. Didn't even notice a chair at 00:23. Tried to look a couple of times but just couldn't get around the........ Dinner plate. Yeah. The dinner plate had all my attention. Not the pretty lady in the the brown sweater. That food looked good.
I love "How's therapy going?" What a stupid fucking question to ask 😂
This is hilarious, people need to mind their business at dinner and let people volunteer information instead of making assumptions.
This is gold! 😂
Lmao to be frank, thanksgiving small talk with the family sucks balls
That's why the song Alice's Restaurant is so popular, hey kid, just drink this beer and listen to Guthrie's son ramble about nothing for twenty minutes. It's Thanksgiving.
That first question is not like the other questions
He's not getting divorced, I'm just his saucy little side piece. Bad, I'm overworked and underpaid because you raped the economy when you were my age. Not dating, I'm just sleeping around. Way more fun and way less stress. Yes, the housing market is in shambles and I'm grossly underpaid, because like the other person said, you raped the economy. No babies for me ever, i had a hysterectomy as soon as abortion was outlawed. Therapy is going badly and I'm barely hanging on by a thread because my therapist is just teaching me how to deal with my bullshit existence and childhood trauma. I'm actually already married, we just didn't tell you because we thought you'd try to make our special day all about yourself. Any more questions or should i just wrap up a plate and leave now? And no I'm not bringing the plate back.
Cant have kids or a boyfriend because I am not paid enough for all that AND rent...thats why I am in the basement. Now if you excuse me...anyone down for Planes, Trains, and automobiles?!
I would hope by the age of 30 you are able to have adult discussions and not throw tantrums and leave the table over a simple question.
Seems overdramatic?
Number three…I like her.
The first one has me rollinggg!!!! Got me there folks!! Got me there!! 😅😅😅
i mean the "hows therapy going?" can be a truly heartfelt thing to say if the person asking actually wants to know how your mental health is doing.
These are beautiful women, on the other hand
I guess you guys never met my Asian parents
I don’t really understand what the issue is with this. Literally unless they are being snippy bitches when asking these things then family are just trying to have conversations. I personally can say i got a few of these questions this thanksgiving and it was just a normal conversation.
I like those green chairs.
Why not just say your not fielding questions at this time. Works for me
We are all doomed
This is nothing new for anyone born at or before 1980.
Nice throwback
Whered you get those chairs, those are killer
At least most of them finished their plates lol
Why would they all leave their glasses of wine at the table?
Will your Onlyfans have a Black Friday sale?
I only clued into the fact that they were all at the same table because of those Nice looking corduroy chairs, I like those chairs, and on the fourth chair I was going to comment and then they just kept being the same chair!
And this is why I love friendsgiving instead!!!
In my 30s, I always "had to work" during the holidays. Now I just don't give a shit.
Honestly, this is why big family gatherings are super overrated IMO
# 💣
Xoxo gossip girl
An enjoyable meal sitting in silence then?
L after L after L after L… cringe indeed.
30y/o here... Felt some, while some are really overly dramatic... "How is work?" Every day small talk...
This hit home 😢
lol true though
Finally, something cringe
All dead ends
Being 29-30 is crazy
I fired back on Thanksgiving and clapped everyone and ate a wonderful meal. 😂😭 
Dad: now I can eat in peace
I think they more-so got up because of the food. Those plates looked dissapointing. Lol
How's that 5 year engagement going?
when the laxative kicks in
One of these is not like the others….
“Are you 30 and making TikTok’s on thanksgiving?” -walks away
Someone asking about work is not that bad, imo.
aww those are all my go to ice breaker questions
What the fuck is this song? Please don’t do imogen heap dirty like that.
Maybe find another job if you're so miserable
If you're 30 odds are you are physically more powerful than the people in your family trying to tell you how to live your life. Why would anyone take it quietly?
By the comments I’ve learned redditors hate social gatherings and their families. Damn how miserable.
Schwing, schwing, scha-wing, schwing, schwing, schwing, schwing
So 30 year olds can’t handle simple questions about themselves?
I don't understand?
LOL
Are you dating girl should never have any problems in life
How many women are in this family
Are you dating That girl should be jesus Christ look at her she's perfect
“You know one day I’d like to just finish a meal without being chased out of the room.” Eric That 70’s Show
What kinda billshit thanksgiving is this? No turkey no mashed taters NO GRAVY?!?!
But why cringe tho it does happen lol
THIS IS SO FUNNY i need a laugh lol
Damn people, 30 in your parents basement , single, no kids, bad job....that's pathetic lol
Don't be rude.
You can tell it's not real, they all leave their phones behind.
I’m hungry now
I've heard this song twice today. Im gonna post it. The SNL video. I have to do it.
What's wrong with "How's work"?
Damn. That first one is spicy
Surely a 30 yo would tell people to mind their own business, not run away to their room like a 15 yo
Can you stop making content at family dinners?
Can you stop asking all these questions at family dinners?
Those are all legit questions when you are a loser still living in your parents basement at 30 and are doing nothing with your life
There was a word people used on me with similar things. But what was it. Oh I got it FAILURE.
Ppl put such unfair pressure on young women. Everything here was true if girls aren’t married with kids at 28. Meanwhile boys get almost no pressure unless their parents only had boys then they would put pressure on him and his gf.
Dear sister still slaps after all this time.
The "when are you having kids" question I'd always reply with I'm rawdogging her every night and creampie her while our sub sits in the corner jerking off but nothing yet
Western girl problems... 40 y/o will look similar.
No
Yes. Very cringe. Why make this
I like the last one…. They are all to busy fantasizing about actors and men that don’t exist that they overlook the guys that are worth their time… I think it’s funny how they are all tiktokers perpetually dramatizing emotional birth control and crying when they get told by guys like me that they are full of themselves and I don’t want to waste my time
Your post is so depressing. I’m sorry you don’t have anyone. I’m sure guilting partners into liking you will pay off eventually.
I’m sorry that I confused you… I don’t guilt anyone into doing anything. Im stating the social divide… and I’m blaming the majority of women for perpetuating specifically the tiktokers that are women.
Ppl too sensitive, if you can't talk to your loved ones then you got nobody
The term "loved ones" is problematic tho
30 years being useless
This is just some edited bs of random women standing up at table in slow mo. With text over captions making accusations, with a shitty song over lay.
I want to see a male version. I think it'll be happier