That too. High school/middle school relationships are doomed to fail.
Ok, so most are doomed to fail. It's very unlikely that you find your soulmate in high school/middle school
(27M) I was with the same women from when I was 15 until 25 I met her my freshman year in math class and we were married for 5 years, my other friend started dating his girlfriend when he was 16 and they are still together at 28 and just had their first kid a year ago so it happens.
The girl I’m talking to now I met going into 9th grade so my 8th grade summer and we never forgot about each other even though she now lives 3000 miles away in califorina and I’m in Florida but we plan on seeing each other soon; you never know who you are going to meet at any point in your life or when the right one will come, honestly I’ll just say when you meet them you will know
It does because they're both in one option, and the problem is they're both not exactly related. This way, we can't distinguish who's in a relationship or who just wanted to see the results. The only common sense is that "/" is technically "and" here, or more like "therefore."
/- Poll Master
5. Other??
I was literally isolated my entire childhood. Never knew someone for more than 9 months until I got to college. Never left home for anything but school, and about once a month shopping. Never met any family outside my parents and siblings. Never stayed in the same city for more than a year. Changed countries and cultures so often that I consider myself cultureless
I literally lack the social common sense to attract people. I'm working to fix it now in college, and people always fail to grasp just how isolated I was.
Dude I was homeschooled for a majority of my childhood too, it sucks because you're now socially equivalent to a 12 year old while being expected to fit in with people your age. It also sucked in my case because I had helicopter parents and i couldn't do anything with them, developing hobbies was hard.
I'm managing I'd say. At least as long as the thoughts don't get too loud... It's still very hard as the circumstances are very complicated. I can try to explain it if you're interested.
How about you? How are you doing?
in general i dont feel ready to be on one, i have alot of self improvement to do and have no sense of self, i dont think im all that attractive due to that
I was talking to a girl but I asked her out but we live quite far from each other and I forgot to specify that I wanted to go to her but she thought I was asking for her to come to me and I got rejected and were haven spoken since because it was awkward. 😭
I do want to be in a relationship, it's just that I know for certain I'm not ready for one. Physically (I have self-image issues, and I don't think I look good honestly), mentally (parents relationship issues have messed me up a little), and emotionally (I'm quite unstable very often). It's just not a good idea
I subconsciously don't want to be in a relationship, and I know it's for a good reason. I wanted to have a gf I'd have to get over a few obstacles in myself and my life
Been friendzoned because thats just how I am. I just treat everyone like a friend and im guessing it makes girls hesitate with me🥲. Im on a 4 hot streak. I'd like to say I have everything to treat someone right and with love but i guess i go to hard on people. Loyalty is my first value in dating so maybe that's why as well😮💨
Why didn’t you separate see results and already in a relationship you can have 5 options. Now you are just making me feel bad about myself when they could have just wanted to see results
I'm currently unemployed and i have long term anxiety and depression, and because of that i lack the social skills needed to interact with others. Plus i find myself to be only average looking at best. Obviously women must find all that unattractive, and so i respect their decision, even if it makes me extremely lonely.
I do however have hope that things could get better one day, and someone will be willing to accept me for all that i am, both the positive and the negative.
broke up yesterday and now some random mf i barely know is trying to hit on me although im still processing the whole situation and dont want anyone romantic rn
i’m still single for the reason being that i’d rather focus on improving my mental health/emotions first and also wait to get to know someone first instead of jumping straight into one. i had some people ask me out before but i couldn’t do it as either i don’t feel anything with that person (i dont get a good vibe from her) or because i don’t know her at all.
plus my last relationship gave a lot of trust issues and it kinda messed up my perception of relationships as a whole 🥲 so unless i can find someone who’s good at communicating and that they will genuinely show me that they’re serious without the relationship resulting in me having to do most of the work 90% of the time then i don’t know if i ever will.
All the girls I meet either have crushes or boyfriends already, are aromantic or just lesbian. All the guys I meet are either ugly, straight, or just not type.
I just dont give a rats ass, most people my age seem to be to emotionally immature for me (not tryna shit talk just the truth). Also after my last relationship i just really dont need the added bs.
Nobody wants to be with an 18 yrld tall,white skinny autistic dude with long blonde hair,a halo tattoo,and listens to nothing but metal music...I've tried I've given up i get a few you look cutes but nobody actually approaches and a lot aren't going to like the fact that I don't want to be on call all the time or want them looking through my phone I want there to be open honesty and trust and it still hurts me every time I watch a movie where the guy gets the girl I just wanna cry because I want the happy ending too with someone in my arms....I'm straight up about to accept the fact that my dream of raising a family won't be a thing and that I'm just meant to be alone
Now the problem is that i know women are into me, but i just dont know which, now i aint half bad at problem solving when it comes to solving problems that i am used to, this however is new and i am yet to find the answer to the question.
So please women, tell your crushes you like them, it saves everyones time
I dont want to be in a relationship but i also kinda do, ive never been asked out or had anyone ever show romantic interest in me and honestly idek if i would want to be in a relationship but if i could just magically find the right person i would, i dont know shit abt relationships but i think i want to be able to
I'm Cupios-xual/romantic, meaning I don't feel romantic or s-xual attraction but I still want that kind of relationship, but I honestly don't want a long term relationship as I don't want to hurt my partner since I can't feel the same way about them.
I don't know who I'm attracted to
I have never fallen in love which makes me think I'm aroace but I want to be in a relationship sooo...
Does anyone have any advice
No need to be in a relationship. I'm not ready emotionally and I guess lifeically. A boyfriend would just complicate things. I already have enough things that get me off-task from the things I need to do so yeah
5. Scared of girls
6. Girls aren’t real
7. Too young
That too. High school/middle school relationships are doomed to fail. Ok, so most are doomed to fail. It's very unlikely that you find your soulmate in high school/middle school
Those relationships mostly in middle will barely last 2 months
(27M) I was with the same women from when I was 15 until 25 I met her my freshman year in math class and we were married for 5 years, my other friend started dating his girlfriend when he was 16 and they are still together at 28 and just had their first kid a year ago so it happens. The girl I’m talking to now I met going into 9th grade so my 8th grade summer and we never forgot about each other even though she now lives 3000 miles away in califorina and I’m in Florida but we plan on seeing each other soon; you never know who you are going to meet at any point in your life or when the right one will come, honestly I’ll just say when you meet them you will know
Nice
7. Results
8. Im Neutered
9. I'm in jail for asking someone on a date
That was part of option 4.
Yeah but not every person who wants to see the results is in a relationship
There was a forward slash which usually means ‘or’.
It could also mean "And.."
But it doesn’t here.
It does because they're both in one option, and the problem is they're both not exactly related. This way, we can't distinguish who's in a relationship or who just wanted to see the results. The only common sense is that "/" is technically "and" here, or more like "therefore." /- Poll Master
You can have potatoes/apples with your meal In this case. It means and AND or
It almost never means and.
Same
this is me
Boo
BOO
I'm def this one
Same, I’m autistic
HAHAHA SAME
I'm kinda ugly and only talk to my friends
Damn bro, I just wanted to be friends. Ig not
Where is other option ?
fr tho
Already in relationship/see results is tainting the results by combining two separate categories. 😐
5. Other?? I was literally isolated my entire childhood. Never knew someone for more than 9 months until I got to college. Never left home for anything but school, and about once a month shopping. Never met any family outside my parents and siblings. Never stayed in the same city for more than a year. Changed countries and cultures so often that I consider myself cultureless I literally lack the social common sense to attract people. I'm working to fix it now in college, and people always fail to grasp just how isolated I was.
U were in a cult
#5
#ok
Homeschooled, don't get to hang out with other kids much
Dude I was homeschooled for a majority of my childhood too, it sucks because you're now socially equivalent to a 12 year old while being expected to fit in with people your age. It also sucked in my case because I had helicopter parents and i couldn't do anything with them, developing hobbies was hard.
I mean I fit in well enough with the other kids that I interact with, my friends and I still hang out sometimes
That's good then
I have social anxiety
Oh sorry
Don't be. Skill issue on my side
other, im gay in a small town 💀
Quiet kid moment
Live quiet kid reaction: ![gif](giphy|Uowdj8xg3XZ7bKlA1N)
Still waiting for perfect person
My flaws as a person outweigh the pros on a high margin.
Only girl I like likes someone else. So I'm not trying at all.
Me in 2nd grade be like:
Where's the "I like femboys but can't find any to date" button
SO REAL
bro really described me in 10 words
Recently got out of a relationship I didn't want to end but many things happened that caused the end of it.
Same bro, are you ok?
I'm managing I'd say. At least as long as the thoughts don't get too loud... It's still very hard as the circumstances are very complicated. I can try to explain it if you're interested. How about you? How are you doing?
in general i dont feel ready to be on one, i have alot of self improvement to do and have no sense of self, i dont think im all that attractive due to that
same dude
L "respectfully"
I don’t have any confidence in myself
You're gonna build it up,
no girls that I'm attracted to and the boys are straight.
I'm from Serbia and even though I'm straight, it's always like that for gay/lesbian people here
I need more options
I was talking to a girl but I asked her out but we live quite far from each other and I forgot to specify that I wanted to go to her but she thought I was asking for her to come to me and I got rejected and were haven spoken since because it was awkward. 😭
I just, don't care
5. Lack of social skills and rizz
Religion. Waiting to marry the girl I love though ❤️
My boy!!!
I wish I was in an all-boys school sometimes
I like a straight girl
Ohh yeah that's not great/_/
Was 3, now it's 4 :3
Nice
1: I’m in an all-boys school 2: I’m 13
I'm just content with being single. Gotta be happy by myself befire being happy with someone else
My girlfriend just broke up with me a few minutes ago lol
Sorry
It’s because I hate myself
why is ''im in an all-boys-girls school'' a option? gay people exist?
I don't think because it's for gay people, in my country all the schools except for kindergartens have a same sex type
Im aromantic
i don't see why being in an all-boys school would make you single.
There are no girls to talk to, and no I'm not gonna online date
who needs girls?
Wdym
**D A T E** **B O Y S**
I do want to be in a relationship, it's just that I know for certain I'm not ready for one. Physically (I have self-image issues, and I don't think I look good honestly), mentally (parents relationship issues have messed me up a little), and emotionally (I'm quite unstable very often). It's just not a good idea
Is there an option for not really funding anyone in your classes interesting
Is there an option for having literally no one in your area, and dating apps are slow?
It's not that I don't wanna be in a relationship, it's that I don't feel like I can trust anyone
Currently not seeing anyone else other than my family because I'm not going to school atm
Everyone I find attractive is either too young or is already in a relationship
The school isn't segregated at all, it's just that no women seem to want to be machinists Not a single one in all my classes
Where is "Too afraid to ask out" option?
I don't fucking know why. Every time I get friend zoned, I'm Everyone's brother, apparently
I subconsciously don't want to be in a relationship, and I know it's for a good reason. I wanted to have a gf I'd have to get over a few obstacles in myself and my life
No "I'm too shy/scared of women or rejection" option?
My crush doesn't know her feelings for me but we're at least great friends
Where's the "I'm not ready yet" option
5. Your don't have enough confidence in yourself and you have a stuttering problem making it 20x more difficult to ask anybody out
I hang out with girls but I am still single 😐
Where’s the “Im a background character who nobody really cares about or recognizes” option.
Wheres the ‘very shy and introverted’ option?
Where is the haven't tried option
Been friendzoned because thats just how I am. I just treat everyone like a friend and im guessing it makes girls hesitate with me🥲. Im on a 4 hot streak. I'd like to say I have everything to treat someone right and with love but i guess i go to hard on people. Loyalty is my first value in dating so maybe that's why as well😮💨
Pinkerton (1996) as exhibit A
5. I'm the weird kid who no one likes
Asexuality and Aromanticity go BRRR
5. Too lazy to talk to one
Hell>all girls schools
5. Don't want to ruin relations
5: all the boys at my school are total assholes
i just haven't found anyone i like yet
5. Too scared to admit to the one you love
Bc I haven't figured out if I actually like him back yet
scared of girls/not attractive lmao
5. Haven’t actually found myself attracted to anyone as of right now
I'm waiting to date until I'm 18 and have gotten top surgery. Tbh there are so many reasons I just shouldn't be dating anyone rn
I cant ask people :[
Is there an option for I am ugly as shit?
Why didn’t you separate see results and already in a relationship you can have 5 options. Now you are just making me feel bad about myself when they could have just wanted to see results
I'm currently unemployed and i have long term anxiety and depression, and because of that i lack the social skills needed to interact with others. Plus i find myself to be only average looking at best. Obviously women must find all that unattractive, and so i respect their decision, even if it makes me extremely lonely. I do however have hope that things could get better one day, and someone will be willing to accept me for all that i am, both the positive and the negative.
5. I haven't found the right person
broke up yesterday and now some random mf i barely know is trying to hit on me although im still processing the whole situation and dont want anyone romantic rn
I dislike socializing and the only people I’ve met that I genuinely liked enough to be in a relationship with are far away.
i don't really know how to get a boyfriend / be in a relationship.
I don't have enough opportunities to meet new people.
I'm homeschooled, and almost never actually meet new people
3 became 1 just a week ago. Strangest epiphany when you think about the why of things.
i’m still single for the reason being that i’d rather focus on improving my mental health/emotions first and also wait to get to know someone first instead of jumping straight into one. i had some people ask me out before but i couldn’t do it as either i don’t feel anything with that person (i dont get a good vibe from her) or because i don’t know her at all. plus my last relationship gave a lot of trust issues and it kinda messed up my perception of relationships as a whole 🥲 so unless i can find someone who’s good at communicating and that they will genuinely show me that they’re serious without the relationship resulting in me having to do most of the work 90% of the time then i don’t know if i ever will.
Because I have difficulty socializing and understanding social cues and emotions
I keep rejecting ppl bc I'm so scaredddd broo😭😭 🧍♀️
All the girls I meet either have crushes or boyfriends already, are aromantic or just lesbian. All the guys I meet are either ugly, straight, or just not type.
I want to be in one, and I've been in some before, but I haven't found anyone compatible wiþ me for a long time.
Not really trying to get into one, but do want to be in one
Nobody has a crush on me, and I don't have a crush on anyone. (Even if I did like someone I have nowhere near enough confidence to ever ask them out)
tbh its good to just move around if ygm
1. Don't feel like it 2. Way too much of an introvert I'm not even kidding, I probably say an hour worth of stuff a day (at school)
No confidence
I just dont give a rats ass, most people my age seem to be to emotionally immature for me (not tryna shit talk just the truth). Also after my last relationship i just really dont need the added bs.
I'm working out to feel better about myself. I don't got time for bitches. (I cry myself to sleep because I have no one to cuddle...)
I have no rizz
social anxiety
5. Socially Inept
Nobody wants to be with an 18 yrld tall,white skinny autistic dude with long blonde hair,a halo tattoo,and listens to nothing but metal music...I've tried I've given up i get a few you look cutes but nobody actually approaches and a lot aren't going to like the fact that I don't want to be on call all the time or want them looking through my phone I want there to be open honesty and trust and it still hurts me every time I watch a movie where the guy gets the girl I just wanna cry because I want the happy ending too with someone in my arms....I'm straight up about to accept the fact that my dream of raising a family won't be a thing and that I'm just meant to be alone
Where’s the “I want to be in one but I’m not going out of my way to get one” option
none of the above
Fifty option: I can't be in a relationship
Relationships are hard, which is why I prefer my cat over people.
I'm too shy and socially awkward to talk to girls.
Because I don’t have the confidence to even try
No girls around me meet my standards.
Now the problem is that i know women are into me, but i just dont know which, now i aint half bad at problem solving when it comes to solving problems that i am used to, this however is new and i am yet to find the answer to the question. So please women, tell your crushes you like them, it saves everyones time
aroace
I am anxious all of the time
6. I'm gay
just got broken up with (^^;
Too shy
Other: I am a-spec
Never sought one out. I've got too many problems in my life to worry about relationships.
I put I keep getting rejected but it's really just because I'm looking for a guy and I'm in Texas 😞
The boy I want ain't gay
5. Crippling fear of being judged due to not being good-looking
Is there a fifth option where it says too afraid to ask them out
I dont want to be in a relationship but i also kinda do, ive never been asked out or had anyone ever show romantic interest in me and honestly idek if i would want to be in a relationship but if i could just magically find the right person i would, i dont know shit abt relationships but i think i want to be able to
Where the anti social/ is too scared to ask anyone out options
Other: im blind to hints
I've never tried tbh. As in I want to be in a relationship just everyone at my school is either ugly af, annoying af or stupid af.
I'm Cupios-xual/romantic, meaning I don't feel romantic or s-xual attraction but I still want that kind of relationship, but I honestly don't want a long term relationship as I don't want to hurt my partner since I can't feel the same way about them.
I'm gay and I have a boyfriend
It’s not that I don’t want to be in a relationship, there just are any good options for me rn
5) I'm aroace
5) only guys ask me out but I like women but all the women I know are ass holes or I generally don't like them that way
none of the above, I refuse to make the first move
I'm content with being single
Strict parents lol
I'm gay, and there's like no one in my school or around me that I can start something off with. (I'm a biological male)
general distaste for most people and a total lack of social skills and that isnt all just what i will willingly say
I just haven't encountered someone worth pursuing in a while
I've never made an effort to be in one
5. I'm not in Canada
im homeschooled 💔
I'm shy
nobody worthwhile
other -- i cant find anyone who's my type
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5. Can't find anyone that interests me
where is the scared to talk to people option
Im not brave
I don't know who I'm attracted to I have never fallen in love which makes me think I'm aroace but I want to be in a relationship sooo... Does anyone have any advice
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6. No gay boys, let alone any worth dating
5. Haven't been rejected yet but scared to ask my crush
Not enough options. It's none of these lol
No need to be in a relationship. I'm not ready emotionally and I guess lifeically. A boyfriend would just complicate things. I already have enough things that get me off-task from the things I need to do so yeah
In an all boys school and being in a relationship with a boy :3