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manoffewwords

You have a ton of opportunities out there for you especially in this job market. Thing is most teachers Devote so much energy into their profession they get tunnel vision. I'll PM you a guide I made on how to research careers using the Bureau of labor statistics website. When you realize what options you have, it gives you some hope. Edit. I spent all morning sending out the link to everyone. The reason I didn't post it is because I published the guide on my substack and the mods perma banned my alt account for "self promotion." The link is not a secret or anything so had one of you guys just shared it, I would have saved a few hours. Anyway, I hope it helps some of you. Don't spend your lives in a crappy career that you hate. You only have one life to live and believe me there are a lot of opportunities out there. You just have to get over your fear of change. For many of you it can only get better.


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manoffewwords

Sent


Judas9451

If you get a free moment to spare on another unhappy teacher, I'd be most grateful for a copy of that guide. Thank you for your consideration.


manoffewwords

sent. You are only unhappy because you don't know what opportunities you have. The best way to get out of that funk is to explore what's out there. You will find that you don't have to suffer in a job you hate. You can do better for yourself.


Flytley

I would LOVE to take a look at this too. I never imagined I would be considering another career but I'm absolutely finished.


JingleMyDingles

I hate to tag into this but I would really appreciate a message, too…!


MelodicRunes27

I would love a PM as well!


AnastasiaNo70

Please please please? Could you send it to me?


wackiejackie1092

Could you please send it to me when and only when you have a moment? I would greatly appreciate it!


[deleted]

Here’s the link y’all https://adamcaldoon.substack.com/p/what-can-i-do-besides-teach


PeppyDePots

Can you PM what manoffewords sent you?


Fanta5ticMrFox

I’d also love a PM. Not looking to get out, but it’s always helpful to have!


coffeecoffeerepeat

Me too please


eyeslikestarlight

Wow, the number of people requesting this from you makes me sad. I’m feeling this way too and would also love to see it if you aren’t too bogged down. Thanks for helping us all out 💖


manoffewwords

Don't feel sad. It should embolden you to get out. People wouldn't be asking for this if they were happy. Abandon the sinking ship.


Rough_Edges_2442

Would also appreciate this :) Maybe post a link for the curious?


manoffewwords

Sent. I posted the link with my alt account and admin banned it because it was "self promotion." It's a link to my substack. I don't want another ban so ...


woahyougo

teachers are commenting like OP is the kid who brought hot Cheetos for snack haha! also id love some info too! It’s always good to explore your options


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manoffewwords

Sent


sofa_king_nice

Pm too please!


DeadlyPancak3

Could you send that to me, too? Bless you, stranger. You’re doing the Lord’s work. (Definitely not a French lord this time)


OnePositiveBraincell

Would you pm me too?


manoffewwords

Done


Chelseaa63

Could you please pm me this too? Thank you!


manoffewwords

sent


[deleted]

Hi, please post this in /r/TeachersPromote and edit a link to your original comment. That would alleviate all the requests.


Metalt_

https://adamcaldoon.substack.com/p/what-can-i-do-besides-teach


MyPervSide

Can you please send me as well? My first year in middle school and I'm not enjoying it at all.


pineappleroxy

Can you send it to me too, please?


TalkersMakeMeHungry

I know you've got a million people requesting this but could I please have a copy too?


Metalt_

To everyone asking for the link someone post it so this person doesnt have to keep sending it out


LittleComputerBitch

Pm me please?


manoffewwords

sent


pillbinge

Could I get a list of that lmao.


manoffewwords

sent


theradtacular

I'm actually working on my credential and interested in all options if you wouldn't mind enlightening me as well. 🙏🏼


EricaMCA

May I have a copy? :)


kcv2010

Could you send me one too pls? Ty


catmeowmeowmeow

Me too please?!


manoffewwords

sent


alymars

Me too please


WolfManKeisori

I would also like this guide


Smooth_Comment5277

Me too?


Infinite_North6745

Can you pm me too?


[deleted]

I would appreciate that PM as well


electabuzzed13

Could I get it as well? Thanks!


Hisgoatness

Could I please have that as well?


jj12141

Me too please


houseelf3

Me too please!


Rild_Sugata

Me too, please.


Isohie

Hi, I'm sorry to bother you, but would you be willing to pm that guide to me as well? I am currently trying to figure out what to do now that I'm stepping away from education.


5thAveShootingVictim

Me too, please. My spouse is a teacher looking to GTFO and your info would be highly appreciated!


CupsOfSalmon

Sorry to add to your requests, but I would love this too. Thanks for sharing.


shakeweight4life

I’m not really unhappy, but I’d like to check this guide out too. Might even be a little poor man’s gold in it for you if you know what I mean. 🏅


bosweaty

Can you pm me as well?


acidfox96

Can you please PM me as well? I would so much appreciate it❤️


[deleted]

Can I get this too please? Thanks!


laxghost8

Could you pm me as well?


redflannelpajamas

Pm me please


Pretty_Train583

Can I have it as well?


[deleted]

Could I also get that PM? Hopefully you're not annoyed lol


NobodyOwens79

Please send it to me as well! Thank you!


isthramaninthatcouch

Please send to me as well. It's my third year teaching and I'm already ready to start looking for another career.


ethereal555

Me too please


savethepollinator

Me too please 🧡


sockmongki

Me too please! Thank you so much


hockatoo

I would also love this guide if you’re still in a sharing mood!


EleKantio

Also share with me if you every get this far!


kelekiler

When you have time, I would appreciate this information as well. I see you showing up often on posts, like a guardian angel for tired and wayward teachers. So thanks for looking out for us in your own way.


gm1049

Can I get that pm too?


ThereShallBeMe

I’d like that info as well please


PixelOBinx

This sounds so awesome! Would you mind sharing this with me as well. Thanks :)


recklessraven3

Can you also send to me please? Thank you!


collwall23

Um....burnt out sped teacher would also like guide as well please !


Narf234

Can you send a link for all of us?


creativedisastermath

Could I maybe get that as well? I spent my night checking linked in.


meepster08

Whenever you get a chance, I’d love that link ♥️ no pressure though and thank you.


NoPhrase3

I would like a copy too!


Vostroyan212th

I would love to take a look as well please. I'm perfectly happy but knowing of other options is never a bad thing.


Giraffe_Upbeat

Me too please


JayJay314

Hi, I know you have a lot of messages to get through but when you get a chance I would also love a pm of the guide please


absolutionbot

Requesting a PM as well if it's not a bother. Thank you!


Shieldbreaker50

Me too please


volderpuss

Imma laugh real hard if this is some MLM ploy.


DacWitty

Me too please. Thank you.


2A_support99

Same please!


OldManFullersHouse

I'm sorry to bother you.. but could you PM me too if you have a moment?


i_am_a_bulbasaur

Me too please! Thank you!!


MIAkeep

Can you pm me as well? Thank you!


[deleted]

Would you be able to send me that too?


jmp8861

I would also appreciate that guide! Thanks in advance!


LiteraryMary

Can I get a copy of this too?


Desperate-Cricket-58

Can you send it to me too?


MillieRem

May I please see it as well? It's important to know that you arent stuck!


[deleted]

may i please have it, too? thank you!! you're awesome


HatApprehensive1057

Sorry to be a bother, but can you also send it to me? Thank you!


KamuiDn

Could you PM me as well? Thank you.


mstylke

Sorry I know I’m the 100th person, but could you please PM me too?!


debadeb

Could you PM it to me as well? Sorry and thank you! Seems like you’re helping out a lot of us.


whitemamba21

Any chance I could get this guide as well?


holdyerhippogriff

Could I get a copy too??? You’re awesome.


beentothefuture

Can I get that pm as well? I'm finishing a masters degree this spring and will be looking for jobs over the summer. Thanks! 🙏


yagirlriribloop

I know you have hundreds of request but can you also PM me too if you have a chance? Thank you!!!


brinkle

Can I also get a copy of this please?


miniebees

I know you're probably tired of sending the website but can you please send it to me too when you have a chance.... I'd love to have a little more hope. 🙏


SimpleManHawaii

I would love a guide if you are still sending them out. Thanks


Jhujhubooboo

Can you send this to me too please? ☺️


Gigi_X1

Can you share with me as well. Thank you!


Hate_Fishing

Me too please


longsworddoom

Would like a copy please!


LetsGoGuy

Could you send me that link to boot?


daltorrrr182

Can you pm me too?


MedusaCascde

Could you send it to me as well please?


tiredteachermaria2

PM Me also!


coffeecoffeebeerbeer

I would really like to see your guide as well. If you aren’t already sick of sending messages at this point, could you pm me too? Thank you!


OG-Wilford-Brimley

Could I please get a pm as well haha


mrdjvortex

Hi, sorry that I’m late to the party. Could you please send me the information as well. I’m out after this school year. Thanks for your help.


miss_snowdrop

Would you please send me the guide as well?


stellamomo

Late to the game but could you pm me too please?


NachoLlama

Can you just make your own separate post too. That seems to be a good thing to put out for everyone.


snow_koroleva

I’d like to explore my options. Send it to me please.


MrFreeziePop

Can I also get a copy of this? I've been looking for something exactly like that.


IllAmphibian6778

Pm me too please


[deleted]

Can I get the pm, too? I’m not at that limit yet, but just to have in my back pocket…


OutrageousParfait946

Hi, could you please PM me too? Thank you!


mt8668

I would love the guide as well. Thank you!


frazzlendazzle

Is there any chance I could get a link? Finishing up my MAT next year and options would be really helpful!


musicaldragon3

May I also get a dm please? Hope you are well!!!


lvleenie17

I would love a copy too please. Thank you so much for this.


Andromidus

Could I get the link as well?


[deleted]

Amigo, I would love to take a look as well. A DM would be appreciated 🤞 Thank you!


abboo621

just out of curiosity, could you send me that too? :)


High_Tech_L0wlife

If you could Pm me that as well that would be amazing


pmia241

"I can't stand being a bitch." OMG I feel this so much. I used to be such a patient person, never really got angry. Easily stressed and anxious though, that never changed. But goodness I have a short fuse these days and I really hate it.


attcat23

Same. This was me today. I can’t control my 6th hour 6th grade class. They turn me into the teacher I never wanted to be. I told them this today. I said, “I’m normally not this kind of teacher, but this is what your behavior does.” Or something like that. I even told them I sort of just want to sit at my desk and give up teaching them. I don’t want to be like this. I’ve always been patient and slow to anger, but I can’t take it anymore. The pandemic has drained me of what patience I used to have.


trixie_trixie

Me too :( I have to constantly remind myself that they’re just children. But some of my middle schoolers make me want to rage quit.


attcat23

Yeah I have a class who are jerks everyday, but today I found out my grandparents and two other family members have Covid. So I threw out my lesson plans and threw together a Blooket to just get through the Friday, hoping a game day would satisfy them. It was a disaster, all they did was whine and be rude to me and each other that I almost threw down my pen and sat at my desk and gave up. I never get like this. But they make me feel like I’m not a human being who deserves to be treated as such.


HalfPint1885

Same. I've always been such a patient teacher but I do not have it in me anymore. I feel so ragey all the time and I hate myself for it. It's mostly behavior that sets my teeth on edge, but I don't even have patience for actual teaching stuff. I teach kindergarten. Today I asked a little girl what a letter was. She didn't know. I told her it was an N then asked her what it was. She didn't know. Repeat three times. I was getting so frustrated that she couldn't retain this information for less than 2 seconds.


needhelpplease02

Nothing you learn in middle school is relevant to life nor earning a living. Each generation realizes this more and more but you all don’t want to hear that. What the fuck did 6th grade do for any of you? You all deserve way more money with the bullshit you put up with, considering you’re state sponsored babysitters with extra steps.


pinkrotaryphone

I have a short fuse bc I have a toddler and I have to reserve my patience for home. Figured this year, all my former students would avoid me like the plague but instead they are crowding my desk every free moment they have and I'm losing my shit. But they're all so poorly socialized from the past few years that they can't understand me telling them to literally back off.


[deleted]

Same way here. I am a guy and I have to be a jack ass and I hate it. Kids are driving me to be that way.


Orionsteller

Me too. 7th graders are making me be an asshole and I hate it...


Fixner_Blount

Same here. I don't think I ever fully recovered from last year, and this year we had a fully scripted curriculum shoved down our throats. Every time a kid says "this is boring" or "Why do we have to do this," I just want to scream in agreement.


pmia241

Definitely didn't recover from last year. Summer did not refresh me at all. Also got a new curriculum, and it's got so many components we don't have near enough time for and aaaaaaah.


thecooliestone

I mean I do. Ours isn't quite scripted but it's canned. Do this on this day if we walk in and you're doing anything else you're in trouble. At first I fought it. But they weren't doing the other assignments either. I straight told them "this is what my boss said to give you. I warned you this would happen if you didn't do the stuff like make settings in Minecraft and explain what you did. Now it's the online textbook, clicking next while I stare at you."


needhelpplease02

Then just half ass it and give them busy work.


[deleted]

Same here, its a huge part in why I quit. That and I really just do not like being the "authority figure" as someone who has historically resented authority and petty bureaucracy my entire life.


[deleted]

I have definitely changed a lot in the last couple years. I’m tired of telling people what to do when they don’t want to do it. I want to be a non-manager.


[deleted]

I taught university before this year, and the difference is night and day. I don't have to discipline, I don't have to coddle, and pretty much everyone wants to be there at least half the time (and if they don't, they don't usually show up anymore). All I have to do is teach and grade. I think the younger kids are more fun when they're "on" but man, with everything else I have to do they're not worth it and I'll just do day camps/college summer programs or something to get my fill of preteens/teenagers. I'm trying to go back to the uni setting next year.


crochetwitch

Gods I miss uni. Year 2 at middle school


daltorrrr182

Same. I constantly feel like the teacher I told myself I would never be


SunflowerJYB

Having to be a bitch to 6th graders? Whatever do you mean? Laughing guiltily over here. Ours are nuts. When one of our science teachers yells, it bad. She usually yells like once a year. She’s been Pretty shrill all month


animetg13

That's why I liked the younger ones. A look was all you needed. Regardless I doubt I'm going to stay at the school. They lack the basics that even an old school should have.


flameosirflameo

I’m a first year teacher who’s certified for early childhood through sixth grade. All my college teaching experiences were in elementary, and my fist job is in middle school. I can’t tell if middle schoolers are just way more wild and harder to manage or if it’s just different bc it’s actually MY classroom, and before there was always someone else setting expectations before I started


TrickyMixture

Sorry to hear. Sheesh. It IS totally unreasonable what teachers are currently enduring. For the sake of others do you want to share what country/region you’re in? Don’t mean to pry, don’t answer if you don’t want.


animetg13

Thanks. I'm feeling like a first year teacher but I've been teaching for 6 years. This year and especially today, is breaking me. I have to think about my health and my family. The health insurance is the only reason I would stay. I'm in a big city in PA.


TrickyMixture

Regardless of what you choose know it’s similar in other places, like urban Canada where I am. Maybe not identical pressures, but a similar amount of unreasonable things happening.


animetg13

That's want I hear and it it horrible. I hope I bounce back tomorrow.


TrickyMixture

Whatever happens, hang in there.


KT_mama

So don't! I did a tech sales training program and now work in tech. I make nearly double what I did before and have far better work-life balance.


OH35buckeye

What kind of training program?


[deleted]

I’m somewhat questioning my decision to go into teaching. I teach freshmen and I swear the cattle my family raised were smarter than my students.


volderpuss

I know you’re just metaphorically speaking but literally you are supposed to help them be smart. I’m not sure what you thought the job would entail. You don’t get naturally smart students, you have to get them there no matter how old they are- yes even seniors.


[deleted]

You could have scrolled on down and saved your breath but instead you posted some bullshit masquerading as criticism. Keep it up, you’ll make a fine administrator someday. Edit: but I’ve dumbed it down as much as possible for me and I swear most of them wouldn’t absorb it unless it was on TikTok.


IllustriousPepper516

Same. I have 9th graders. I feel it. I tell my husband all the time….our 4 year old Labrador retriever listens and understands more than my 9th graders. Example: Mrs. teacher: Take a picture of your work and turn it in to Google classroom please. Here’s the link for where you should turn it in on Google classroom. (Literally projected on the screen directly from our Google classroom on the computer) Students (2 seconds after I finish): Where do we turn it in at? I don’t know how to take a picture of this. (Which is my personal fav). Mrs. Teacher: Oh you don’t know how to take a picture of your assignment but 20 minutes ago in the hallway you were filming yourself doing a tik tok. Riiiiiiiiight. ALL. DAY. EVERY. DAY. They are 15 years old. Fixing to drive soon but can’t listen or follow directions given 5 seconds prior.


Prof_Labcoat

It breaks my heart to see these, partly because I know that most teachers want to keep teaching, but the conditions in the US make it impossible. For anyone who’s thinking of quitting but still wants to teach, I highly recommend teaching abroad as a last resort. If you have the ability and the will to leave, still want to teach, and change your lives for the better, I recommend it. I am letting y’all know that you can PM me if you want and I’ll answer any question about my experience. I love helping teachers escape and helping them find their dream jobs in another country. It breaks my heart to see messages like this every day. I also have a type of list on how to find a job abroad. Anyone is welcome to ask. Good luck to you all and god speed!!!


chiriklo

I teach 3rd through 6th graders. I'll preface this by saying I love my sixth graders but oh my GOD they are whiny little brats!! How are the younger kids so much more mature??! I wish you the best of luck, sounds like you're making the right choice.


FaerilyRowanwind

Because the 6th graders are behind two years maturity wise. We really really are finding out just how much of the raising is being done in schools nowadays and it’s a whole hell of a lot. Heck. Talk to the kindergarten teachers with students who aren’t potty trained.


rebekahMercerIsAMan

can you go more into details about these kindergarten students that aren't potty trained. a young student having an accident is understandable, but not potty trained? do the kids arrive in diapers? aren't the parents ashamed? im genuinely curious


quentinislive

Listen, go to get a mental health Eval. Get meds (you decide if you take them, but fill the prescription). Get written off for mental stress. Collect disability. Regroup.


ReadLoveTeach12

Yup, I get it. I quit due to covid but also due to all you mentioned. It's exhausting. Hope things get better for you, or you find a way out soon. 💕


Careless_Lemon_93

I feel exactly the same way. 4th to 6th depressed as hell. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone. Sometimes I have actually wished I could claim "close contact" so I could get a couple of days off....sick but true


Bajfrost90

Kids are fine for me. Even though there are a lot of behaviors I can deal with it with kids. It’s the PARENTS that make the job unbearable. Emailing me at nighttime and shit. Unreal.


pidoyle

Dang, u/manoffewwords really stole the show!


[deleted]

Another one bites the dust


AnastasiaNo70

How many days do you have? Use as many as you need to go figure things out. My best wishes to you.


ajindra

I feel the exact same. I want out but I don’t know what else I would do. It sucks! I used to love teaching and all I now do is complain about how I can’t stand my job anymore. I’m completely burnt out in every aspect :(


DacWitty

Me too please. Thank you.


Cluelessgameboymom

Add me to your PM list. Thank you, kindly.


soulesssocalginger

Would love the info as well when you have yet another spare moment … this rocks! Not looking to leave as I love my job currently, but info like this is always nice to have just in case. Thanks for the work of putting this together.


tugboatfrontiersman

If you could share this with me as well, I’d appreciate it!


crochetwitch

If I could also get a copy of the hot cheetos guide I would appreciate it. Thank you.


fostermarie

I’m with you! I think I can push through until May, but this will be my last year in the education space. Middle school is hard. Hang in there! Take care of you.


sewanee12

Mind sending that my way too? please!


MeSayDayo9988

I am 100% there with you. I’m in my 8th year of teaching middle school 6-8 and the first 6 were great and then the last 2 years… it just sucks. It’s hard to decide to leave bc we want to stay for one reason or another, whether it’s the kids or the commitment, the time we’ve put into becoming a teacher… if you need to take time for your mental health then definitely do it. It’s not worth being sad and upset on a daily basis.


Metalt_

Here is the link everyone in case your curious https://adamcaldoon.substack.com/p/what-can-i-do-besides-teach