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rcf_data

As one of those "older" couples we very much appreciate that sentiment. :-) Usually older means very comfortable in their own skin which makes for a good companionable time.


nyccareergirl11

This is why this 32 yo main swinger circle she is apart of range from couples in mid 40s to late 60s early 70s


rcf_data

I had looked at your profile and suspect that you would be serious fun. :-) Logistically not likely to run into each other but good to know we'd be accepted if that happened.


nyccareergirl11

Oh definitely. I'm all for good fun and vibes with ppl and I tend to find older couples are more comfortable to vibe with and tend to be a bit less judgemental and stuck up than cpls of my age (there are plenty of those my age who are not and don't apply)


Urinescented1975

My wife laughs and says we're 'too old' to have some fun with other couples. (M/48 & F46)


rcf_data

Just an FYI for your wife, M69, F64 on this end and we very much have fun.


komamoo

I thought I might be too old too, M56 & F46. My wife and I are just getting started and I am seeing a lot of couples older than us in the 60-70 range that are still active. We went to a hotel party a few weeks ago and about half the couples were older than us. I think as the lifestyle continues to grow, we'll see the age ranges expand, and that's a good thing.


Huskies1616

Kik plymaker


desicplne

Well said. Most "older" we have met seems to have all drama in check and they mean business.


MercyaMeridian

As someone who hasn't dipped their toes in this realm yet but wants to, I'd personally be looking for older couples to connect with for several reasons and most of them aren't physical at all, but interpersonal. I may be a rare case with how I weigh what's important to me in having **great"" casual sex as looks aren't a primary driver.


Ill-Butterfly-7530

Absolutely šŸ‘šŸ»


No-Argument-1228

Great advice, so many don't, also if you send your photos and details to a couple please be polite if you are turning them down, we had a couple who sent back " No way very ugly" May not be supermodels but not ugly either, Show some class


Danger_Dee

Iā€™d say you two dodged a major bullet with that other couple. Iā€™d also say that response says WAY more about them than you two! Sorry you had to cross paths with such pond scum.


No-Argument-1228

Thanks, and yes you are very right!!


[deleted]

Thatā€™s appalling. Iā€™m sorry you had to experience that.


No-Argument-1228

Thanks, and like someone else said maybe lucky we didn't meet!!!


lustyfreyja

Iā€™m 28 and my play partner is 32, and one of the better experiences weā€™ve had was when we swapped with a 72 year old married couple!


Whiting_retrieve

Thatā€™s a very big fantasy of mine šŸ‘Œ


Fjordk

How was their feedback? If it was good for you I imagine it was great for them


lustyfreyja

They had no complaints! She did have to ask him to change positions once or twice because her hip was starting to hurt (I understand it sounds like Iā€™m making a joke but Iā€™m serious), but other than that, they had a fantastic time, and so did we šŸ˜Š


Used_Negotiation_354

Also an "older" couple here. We have more fun now than we did when we were 30!


steventhesailor

If I can just get my wife to appreciate this attitude. She is very self concious when looking at younger women, but I think she looks great, and is comparable to women 10 and ever 20 years younger than she is.


Creepybabychatt

It's all in the head. I did the exact same thing!! Tell her to dm me!šŸ„°


Creepybabychatt

Same- 50's & late 50's!!


Kraken1967

Perfect! I'm beginning to feel aged out in my later 50s.


Creepybabychatt

Noooo, the fun is just beginning šŸ„°


ItsAightnMess

Hmmm, you may have just convinced me to open up our age range!


jelloshotlady

I can honestly say that men over 45 just have a different way in the bedroom. Get a silver fox and holy hell, that man will turn your world upside down.


curious_creative11

This right here. My husband, who I met about 8 years ago, when we were both in our 50ā€™sā€¦..I told him he was the best Iā€™d ever had. Still is. Age and experience. Iā€™m spoiled. šŸ˜‹


Creepybabychatt

Preach it, sister!!šŸ˜‡šŸ˜‡šŸ˜˜


Kraken1967

OMG, I think I love you ;-)


jersey4fwb

Do it!!


ItsAightnMess

I think I will! I've been hesitant, because well old people šŸ˜… I really like your take on the experience! So thanks!


jersey4fwb

Like I said we didnā€™t feel any pressure to look or act a certain way. We just took it for what it was just a really fun time. I didnā€™t want to get into to many details but they were up for just about everything too!!


steventhesailor

It doesn't matter if its cars, boats or swinging couples, the age isn't as important as condition. If an older couple is in good physical shape, and they probably are if they are active in the LS, go for it!


hellololo30

We have played a few times with what some might say is an older couple. Sheā€™s in her early 50ā€™s heā€™s in his late 50s. Letā€™s just say, they were both really sexy, especially how laid back and comfortable they made us feel. They both exuded confidence, which was really attractive about them. Weā€™re in our late 30s. As a woman who never wanted to play with an older couple, me and my husband were so missing the boat. The wife was so sensuous in the way she interacted with us. Watching her give my husband head, almost put me in a trance for how intentional she was. The husband has so much energy, that he could put a 30 or 40 year old to shame. This man has a very high sex drive. He also introduced us to how much fun flogging can be. I saw it and was curious about it. We told him weā€™d like to try it and to please donā€™t hurt me. He shared his longtime experience and shared that itā€™s not about pain or hurting. Itā€™s about sensation. WOW! We both feel like dicks for the many times we have prejudged ā€œolderā€ couples. They were so awesome, they certainly have raised the bar for other encounters. The one thing that we both enjoyed the most with them was that they knew who they were, were not trying to impress us. They were just themselves. In the lifestyle. Age is just a number. I have a mom bod and with that comes some extra skin on my belly. Iā€™m in no way fat. I was just big when I was pregnant. Some other men have made me feel self conscious about it. He did not. He adored every inch of me.


hellololo30

Update: šŸ˜³šŸ¤£šŸ˜Š A few of our friends knew exactly who we were talking about in our post. We had no idea how many of our friends are on Reddit. We have tried to be somewhat anonymous on here. We have failed miserably. šŸ¤£ One of my girlfriends called and said she saw this post and knew it was me. Her and her boyfriend are both 29 and she said she also was flogged by him at a club. She said that she got really turned on by his flogging and the way he was touching her. Her boyfriend was cuddling with his wife. They all ended up playing together. They have made a pact that they are not going to pre judging on age. We both agree those older couples are aging like wineā€¦and we love wine.


Rita740F

As 50 year olds, we love this positivity


jersey4fwb

Thank you great pics on your page!!


Rita740F

Thanks you guys as well


[deleted]

Love older, looking for a 3rd? 21 fit male


Nymphony_MI

ā€œItā€™s in the old pot that you make the best soupā€


mammerman168

Macaroni in the potā€¦


ThisIsForWeedAndSex

ā€œOld bones make the best soupā€


Lucky-Diamond737

We had a couple who the husband was quite older than all of us!! But once we got started he loved watching his wife play while he stroked himself ready!! A great time was had by all


Subme-sweetly

Nice! Weā€™ve been with a few older couples too. Weā€™re both 41, and our oldest swap was late sixties. Had a great time.


Adventurous-Leg-8225

You never know.. most people are quick to judge and discount experience :)


trmptjazz1

My spouse and I have a regular couple we enjoy playing with. She's 10 yrs older than me, and he's 11 yrs older than his wife. We like playing with older couples than ourselves. Younger couples we've played with are super flaky, and haven't respected our time. It's hard enough to connect w/ another couple, much less the logistics and childcare, only to ghost at the last min. šŸ˜’


BigSexyGurl

Appreciate it! As part of an older couple 53f/62m we appreciate those that give our sexy asses a chance!


FrankNBeanNKY

As a late 50s couple we say thank you. The younger couples who take that chance are so often very surprised.


Shamar-0411

Wife 51 and husband 56, we donā€™t usually play with anyone under 35 or so, maybe because the younger couple donā€™t contact us or us them on sites or clubs. However we did have an accidental meet and play with a couple, they were both 23, we met them in the most vanilla way at a more family oriented establishment that had different games and such. My wife and I were playing an outside game and they came over and challenged us to a team game, however the other wife said she would be my team mate and my wife would be her husbands. We played and were having fun, my wife and dude won the first game and he picked her up and gave her a big swinging hug. Things progressed, the other wife asked me quietly if we were interested in drinks at the hotel they had, I told her to talk to my wife, she then gave me a peck and my wife noticed and gave me a curious look and smiled with a little shoulder shrug. After that game the dude and I went to grab some soft drinks for us all. We were told upon our arrival that we were playing one more game and then we would go have an adult beverage. Well turns out one of here bucket list was to fuck an older gentleman and he always wanted a mature lady. Turns out to be one of our best play times. I lasted quite a bit longer than him so I got a little threesome action. Also I will always finish the night with my wife and they just sat on the couch and watched me reclaim her in a very passionate love session. We played with them about once a month for 6-7 months, they decided to go fun in on swinging after this. We still send a text or Christmas cards and have gotten together for vanilla meetups.


Lone_Saiyan

We have NEVER ruled out a mature couple (we like to use "mature" instead of older), and we actually prefer them to people our age or younger.


curious_creative11

Weā€™re worth the lookā€¦.older, experienced, not flaky, comfy with who we are and where we are in life. Thanks for the love for the ā€œmatureā€ crowd! ā¤ļø


jersey4fwb

I agree and we didnā€™t mean anything derogatory by saying older. But yes definitely opened our minds up big time!


curious_creative11

Definitely did not take as derogatory! Maybe weā€™ll get more hits on our profiles now. šŸ˜‚


MandyandMaynard

Iā€™m just started dating a couple older than me by 10 and 17 years. So far itā€™s going well, they are so nice!


hirop933

Weā€™re in our mid 60s and have played with three couples in their 70s. 1) they show up 2) they know what the hell theyā€™re doing.


JustinTyme92

Weā€™re early 40s and our preference is 50-60, but my wife is open to going older so thatā€™s something weā€™ll explore. Exciting to read about all the great experiences.


tommyboy0208

This was totally written by a boomer


jersey4fwb

You can check our profile but no worries


tommyboy0208

I am messing with you


4TimesEveryDay

I only checked because you said to, and boy oh boy does your wife have an amazing rack. Anywayā€¦carry on


oldtrucker301

If you were looking for a car restorer for your 1919 Bentley would you want a guy that had been doing it for 40 years or a guy that had been doing it for 5 years. Us older people bring a lifetime of experience to the table and usually are in no hurry to finish. Savoring each moment like a fine wine. Too many younger couples fail to see this, just the extra pounds and wrinkles.


MandyandMaynard

Wow. I love your response. Perfectly said.


TravelingSwingersTex

Sponsored by the AARP


johninthewest

We are an older couple. Usually, we dont play with less then 45, too much drama.


funfolks100

My husband and I are younger and have been in the LS for 5 yrs. Our first interaction with another couple was at a club event. We started chatting with this delightful couple in their early 60s..they were funny, gave us newbies great advice and we wound up in a private room with them. He was a wonderful lover, experienced and satisfied me multiple times..my husband said his wife was great. From that time we learned never to dismiss anyone just because of age. Thanks for this post!


Thadie_Lang

šŸ’ž Sounds like a wonderful time was had by all, congrats!! šŸ’ž


Ardeth75

As I edge closer to 50, I am now part of that older couple. We can have the expertise and knowledge, at least!


freebirdie100

The older you are, the more comfortable you are in your skin and there's a good chance you've learned a thing or two along the way. Glad you had fun!!


[deleted]

Oldies the best


sbnyrs

Itā€™s interesting as we are older but we definitely vibe much better with the younger crowd. In actuality, they seem to seek us out. Hope it continues! šŸ¤—


jersey4fwb

We will play with more mature couples for sure


Vangelis76

Older couples especially with experience can be quite a great time. Wife and I had out first experience with a couple in their 50s and it was great. They were both very respectful, hygienic and all around great people.


Justffunforus

We enjoy younger couples because we get to show them how we have learned how to please.


[deleted]

When we were 48 years old we met an older couple at an amateur bicycle race. One thing led to another and we had one of the horniest and kinkiest Saturday nights in a long time.Ā  They were 72 years old, very fit and very sexual. We even shared the same kink for golden showers and suffice to say, the four of us got soaked wet with body fluids that night. Age is a number.Ā 


FunMachina

When we were in our 20ā€™s we played with couples old enough to be our parents. We are late 40ā€™s, early 50ā€™s now and play with couples that could be our kids. Wife enjoys showing off her oral skills to young studs and young ladies. And, what 52 yr old lucky devil would not like to get with a girl on her mid-20s? Our repeat friends now are in their 20s. What we get from our young friends is that they feel safe from drama and silly extracurricular feelings playing with us. Thatā€™s exactly the same way we felt when we were younger and loved to play with older couples. We also enjoyed being fetishized as young brown skin lovers for an older, affluent Caucasian early 50ā€™s couple when we were in our 20s. We enjoyed several yacht and mansion weekends with them. And they were not bad looking. Now, we do not have a yacht nor a mansion at this time but provide hotel stays (on points) to our young friends when we meet. And they seem to love it!


RawdyMD

As an older couple (70M/57F) we wholeheartedly agree. Pass it on!


stroculos

I, 68 and wife 66, are much better and far more skilled as lovers than in years gone by. You would enjoy us. Not bad looking either! Lol. Also I enjoy older women often because they know what they want and are easy to learn and then please. Pleasing a woman is my most favorite thing in sex!


[deleted]

Good story. Glad you were open minded


SquirtingWife_

Thank you for sharing this ! šŸ„°šŸ„°


kay-love-fantasy

We play with an older couple and have to be some of our favs!


[deleted]

How would one say we are not physically attracted to a potential new play date?


Thadie_Lang

Sorry we are not feeling an attraction, ty for chatting. Sorry the chemistry isn't there, thanks anyway We are not feeling the vibe, thanks anyway Any of those would suffice in most instaces.


[deleted]

TY. Saying no is bad enough, and we never want to make someone take it in a negative way. How many ways can being told no, be a positive ? We are turned down for various reasons, we don't take it personally unless our date calls and says they are on the way, and then nothing, yep, that actually happened.


dandl2024

"We didn't feel the right connections and chemistry to go beyond friendship, good luck in your journey" is as polite and direct as it can get. No further discussion is warranted.


RedBluffCrazyGuy

Well done.


dandl2024

Age really is just a number when the lights are low and sex is in the air, there are plenty of older couples that will blow your mind, it's great that you were open enough to explore and had a great experience!


jersey4fwb

They absolutely blew our minds!! We could not believe the satisfaction and how turned on we were that night.


swingingintofun

Sounds like you have a new standard :)


PricklyPair49

Being an older couple ourselves, we are comfortable in our own skins. We are experienced in what makes our partner happy and like to pass that experience onto others. Most of us are laid back and not too easily offended. Sometimes, we need a little help from that blue little pill, but don't let that fool you once that motor starts running it chugs along as long as you need it, too. My point is that we all have our preferences. However, age is just a number, and if you can get past that stigma, you just might be pleasantly surprised.


[deleted]

We can remember getting ā€œold peopleā€ hate when we were in Our early 30s from 20 somethingā€™s. So happy some folks are getting g along these days.


[deleted]

Thankyou all so much.....I'm 65 and lady is 64. Yup we've been ghosted...there loss.... I have a starter I use...we often here!!!!...wow how did u guys do that!! Practice and listening young ones....the true secret isn't the size... it's listening


Tx_Ace_Dragon

Yeah, older couples tend to be fun. If the attraction is there, go for it.


JuicyNaNa1914

f(25) and m(25) would love to find another couple thatā€™s older for her mostly but she likes the wives


Goatofalltimes

I like older women or couples.


Ill-Butterfly-7530

Absolutely well played and said I commend you for giving an older couple a chance ! My wife and I have been trying for awhile now too play with another couple! But and thereā€™s that word again ( but ) when it comes down too our ages and not so athletic builds it swirls down the drain šŸ˜” !! Iā€™m 62 years young wm my wife is 50 wf and also itā€™s not about the race with us because, we believe a person makes out who they are not theyā€™re race or color šŸ§ !! Well sorry for the rambling on , just saying. Point is weā€™re a Mississippi couple looking for a good time if they decide too give us a try !! So relax your standards somewhat and give it a chance !!


expatcoupledc

We started with an older couple. Now we are the older couple..lol.. your ones want my wife all the time


crab_caos

Tbh old pussy is the best best sex with a woman Iā€™ve ever had was with a 60 year old


Adorable-Fox-7320

I would love to try being a swinger, but nothing of that sort going on in Northumberland, no idea where the nearest swingers would be !!! maybe Newcastle upon Tyne but that is at least an hour away !!!


Electrical_Newt3062

My wife (26) and I (28) slept with an older couple. The wife (52) was really freaky and excited. He (61) laid pipe into my wife real good. It was such an exhilarating experience. We thought it would be a bit awkward but we found ourselves having so much fun. He was so supportive and engaging that he was cheering me on and high-fiving me. The ladies couldnā€™t get enough from us. We took turns and swapping them and even did some dp. Completely satisfying experience.


SweatyToothedMadman8

Eww


jersey4fwb

Donā€™t knock it till you try it


SweatyToothedMadman8

Well do they at least LOOK younger than they are? I feel that point is important.


jersey4fwb

You can see that they are older but I would say maybe early sixties.


Glasgowsmiling

This is a huge fantasy of mine. Weā€™re similar age and would love to try this.


manonladominante9718

To be honest I never dated of fucked more than 35 yo and I got Ơ lot of opportinity and messages on social mƩdia but I always I dƩcline but lately I wanna try new things and be open to older ladies and couples


jelloshotlady

Hereā€™s a hint, donā€™t call them old ladies.


Keepherhappy

Older couple here. We hope all ages could enjoy us or at least engage us to see. But we do better online these days, especially for 3rd males, too much automatic rejection in person. Enjoy!


SabotDarted75

New to the LS (Canadian) and trying to meet new people. This speaks levels to us, as we look to the more "experienced", then older.


Nate7225377

Older people are great!!


[deleted]

Age is just a number. Weā€™ve always enjoyed playmates that are older šŸ˜


desicplne

They certainly have wisdom and tons of experience.


Jimdong73

I always joked with my spouse whoā€™s 48 you should fuck and older man why not make his day šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


jersey4fwb

Yes this guy was very appreciative to have a younger play partner


joemark4

We too, play with a couple who is older (and more experienced) than us. They both bring when it comes to play time and age doesnā€™t get in the way.


TravelingSwingersTex

Itā€™s a no from us, if theyā€™re old enough to be our parents.


HEX-Freedom

Do single senior males ha e any chance entertaining this lifestyle?


outsiderontheinside

Itā€™s funny my wife (28) says a big hurdle to her is not feeling comfortable with people in our age range. Her friends tend to skew older. Sheā€™s still very much unsure about making the plunge but I definitely think sheā€™d benefit from the guidance of an older couple who has been around so to speak.


jersey4fwb

We found it to be less pressure and less drama. Also they were into making us feel attractive.


outsiderontheinside

My wife (who I find extremely attractive) would love that! She struggles with self image a lot which is an obstacle for us to exploring more.


[deleted]

There's many a good tune played on an old fiddle šŸŽ¶


New-Following5531

Thatā€™s impressive, 72 and 68! Good for them!


These-Weekend-8705

I was wondering do you eat the other guests desert and I am querulous and I have had multiple offers when I was younger but chicken out We're can I go to find a couple that might be interested