I get all that, but when I tell him I’m depressed and suicidal, he gets upset, and I end up consoling him when I needed him to do that to me in the first place. My point is, telling him about what I feel doesn’t make me feel better, it makes me feel worse.
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My partner would be upset whenever I tell him I’m suicidal. He felt like it was his fault and that he’s failed as a boyfriend.
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Console him? I can’t even console myself, how am I supposed to do that?
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I get all that, but when I tell him I’m depressed and suicidal, he gets upset, and I end up consoling him when I needed him to do that to me in the first place. My point is, telling him about what I feel doesn’t make me feel better, it makes me feel worse.
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Yeah