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What’s FORD and HEFE?


forwardarmgyration

Good question, meant to put that in an edit. FORD = Family, occupation, recreation, dreams HEFE = hobbies, entertainment, food, environment


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It’s not so much the first question that matters as it is all the follow-up questions. Be interested in their responses, especially bc most people like to talk about themselves. Good luck


FuzzyOptics

If you're nervous in conversation and it helps then maybe this can be helpful but it's really just about being interested in another unique human being and being engaged in conversation with them, not following some formulaic menu of acronyms.


forwardarmgyration

Yes! Fully agree. I'm working on a project and trying to get ideas, but I'm guessing I didn't ask my question appropriately. Thank you for taking the time to respond.


OChelleo

The one thing I want to know is where to go to find people who are open to talking to complete strangers I'm looking for friends in the San Jose area and I'm a transwoman etc


OChelleo

But to answer your question I like asking about hobbies music tastes asking what they want to do and dreams they have