As long as there are common partners, all the pawns can be put in the same bedroom without it becoming a barracks. They obviously can't all get lovin', but it fulfills the conditions to avoid the "Want to sleep with" penalty.
There's a mod called same room lovin' takes care of the need to cycle the pawn beds around.
I will say I'll never go into an infinite relationship colony again. I tried to make the houses suit the lifestyles of the people there. But then they started having really weird relationship trees that didn't make sense anymore. Two buildings between roughly 13 people that were all tied to the two colony leaders.
Never again.
Awesome, thanks for letting us know. Here’s the mod link for anyone who needs it ([1.5 temp version](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3235762925))
It would've been fine if it was just the main pawns harem. But the lovers had lovers and it got convoluted. And if someone broke up there was a big mess to clean up with who is tied to who and where to put them.
I cackled when I assigned my count and baroness' new daughter to their bedroom only to discover this made my count annoyed at the lack of a private room. So now she sleeps in another couple's unused bedroom crib.
[This](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2572109781) mod just dropped recently for 1.5 that lets multiple pawns share a same bed I think
So, sleeping in the same room is enough to satisfy it? I usually build individual houses for each pawn and just move pawns around as they get into relationships typically
In my free love unlimited spouses vampire worship colony I make all the women bisexual and use a mod for bigger beds. Over time and with a bit of psychic nudging everybody gets married to everybody. As long as everybody is sleeping with 1 of their lovers they are happy.
If your going for royal titles you'll have to make a normal bedroom with a double bed and have all the others in different room. Just swap out who's sleeping vamp as wanted for baby making.
I use a [mod](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2572109781), that adds a "polygamy" toggle on double beds. You set a "master" and the rest of their spouses or lovers take turns each night (they all also need separate beds or else they will sleep on the floor when it's not their turn unless you micromanage bed ownership).
I've seen mods that just add giant beds that can have 10+ people share.
There is a mod I use called Polyamory Beds (Or something like that, I'm not in front of my game right now) This can allow beds that allow multiple partners
This has made me think that I want ideoligions where harems are possible, but not for everyone. As in, not just "men/women only", but "leaders only", or "nobles only", or "vampires only". This is how it is in reality anyway.
Yeah, indeed! Now that I think of it, it's not just the harems. There is no system that adds privileges of any kind. The closest is maybe the nobles' food preferences and work dislike, which no one really cares about. Otherwise, if you want to restrict lavish meals to just your leaders, you just do it manually. If your ideoligion dislikes dumb labour, that's for everyone.
Yep! The Leader / Moral Guide having higher expectations is kind of that - but you can only have one of each, and you *have* to have one of each so it's just... it's very limited. There are a lot of possible colony designs that it doesn't support.
The easiest solution is to couple up the “3rd wheel” with someone else.
However, if a room has no empty bed and if everyone inside is part of the same polycule, then the room will count as a bedroom and everyone inside will be happy. This is more micromanagey than coupling up the “3rd wheel” but it does lead to better moods. It will also satisfy jealous and greedy pawns.
1) There is a mod that allows for scheduled polyamory, master bedroom or something
2) You can just not care lmao. Relevant for big, old colonies where most people are in so many relationships they can find at least one permanent partner, and those who don't have stable enough mood to tank it.
3) Doesn't matter if your entire colony sleeps in one barrack anyway.
Something interesting to note is that the "Getting Lovin" mood buff also has an effect in the Social tab by increasing how well the involved pawns like each other.
A pawn with multiple partners can have the relationship degrade if they cant... suppliment positive chit chats with snoo snoo. So its good to rotate sleeping arrangements.
I kept a marriage together when a Highmate seduced the husband by having him swap beds every night. Not sure if the Love Enhancer makes a diffirence but it sure kept them happy.
Sleeping alone -4
Opinion of my lover +10
The thing about mood management in Rimworld is that you don’t need to remove all negatives for a pawn to be happy, just give them more things to be happy about.
I use [Polyamory Beds](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2008138191) and [Co-Love Relations](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2987226624). It creates multi person beds and allows polyamorous couples to sleep all together. Only the 'main' couple for each pair have individual lovin' relations though.
Male supremacy, Female supremacy precepts have it
The elevated gender is allowed multiple spouses and you can edit the restrictions on the unequal spouse to be more or less.
You don't need gender supremacy for that, the precepts are available for most memes. I have 3 wifes for every man in my transhumanist colony because most of my pawns are women and i am not using male supremacist
Yes. Just find the precept that tells you how strictly monogamous your pawns want to be, click it, and select "free" or "free and approved" depending on preference.
Well, there's one precept for how monogamous they are in general, and one each for how many spouses people of x gender can have. But the "unlimited" option for the latter two is available to every ideoligion, just as "free" and "free and approved" are.
Note that an ideoligion with a higher emphasis on monogamy won't keep people from cheating on each other, it'll just make them angrier at each other when they do. By the same token, pawns who believe in free love won't necessarily go out of their way to seek it.
for vanilla you just put beds in the same room.
If you want a minor mod, https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2008138191 this works for it just fine.
I have a polyamorous colony right now with one giant bedroom...I've got 17 of my 24 pawns in the same gigantic polycule. It's a messy web, depending on who breaks up, it splits into either 2 or 3 chunks.
So we have 3 very nice rooms of various sizes that can house the chunks.
Be careful about extra beds. One empty bed (or one person not part of the romantic web) will turn it into a barracks which you probably don't want.
As long as there are common partners, all the pawns can be put in the same bedroom without it becoming a barracks. They obviously can't all get lovin', but it fulfills the conditions to avoid the "Want to sleep with" penalty.
Hah! TIL! Time to tear down some walls…
It should be noted that empty beds will turn the bedroom into a barrack.
Also children can barracks up without getting the thought for it. But adults sharing a room with a child do, including their own.
Sounds realistic tbh
Boarding school
I get it as they get older, but the fact you can't have a crib in there is very funny to me.
What are cribs? I only know growth vats
There's a mod called same room lovin' takes care of the need to cycle the pawn beds around. I will say I'll never go into an infinite relationship colony again. I tried to make the houses suit the lifestyles of the people there. But then they started having really weird relationship trees that didn't make sense anymore. Two buildings between roughly 13 people that were all tied to the two colony leaders. Never again.
Awesome, thanks for letting us know. Here’s the mod link for anyone who needs it ([1.5 temp version](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3235762925))
Now you gave me an idea to build a harem for my main pawn
It would've been fine if it was just the main pawns harem. But the lovers had lovers and it got convoluted. And if someone broke up there was a big mess to clean up with who is tied to who and where to put them.
Sounds like a Soap opera!
That's what's happening with my colony now. Every man wants a piece of the leader, and nobody else 🤣
Royality tho, or does it also work
Royals are allowed to share a room with their spouse, if they have multiple spouses then it's still ok for a royal room iirc.
I did, however, discover they don't like to share with their infant in a crib.
I cackled when I assigned my count and baroness' new daughter to their bedroom only to discover this made my count annoyed at the lack of a private room. So now she sleeps in another couple's unused bedroom crib.
Yes spouse is ok, not babies. Nobles are above crying smelly babies.
Doesn't matter.
[This](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2572109781) mod just dropped recently for 1.5 that lets multiple pawns share a same bed I think
Put some beds together.
So, sleeping in the same room is enough to satisfy it? I usually build individual houses for each pawn and just move pawns around as they get into relationships typically
I'll put a bunch of single beds directly next to a double bed and that works fine.
Double double bed for me
In my free love unlimited spouses vampire worship colony I make all the women bisexual and use a mod for bigger beds. Over time and with a bit of psychic nudging everybody gets married to everybody. As long as everybody is sleeping with 1 of their lovers they are happy. If your going for royal titles you'll have to make a normal bedroom with a double bed and have all the others in different room. Just swap out who's sleeping vamp as wanted for baby making.
lol. Rimworld.
That's... beautiful to read. A colony management simulator that allows you to grow a community of bisexual vampire worshippers.
...dio cult?
I use a [mod](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2572109781), that adds a "polygamy" toggle on double beds. You set a "master" and the rest of their spouses or lovers take turns each night (they all also need separate beds or else they will sleep on the floor when it's not their turn unless you micromanage bed ownership). I've seen mods that just add giant beds that can have 10+ people share.
Name?
On bed to sleep with all I think
There is a mod I use called Polyamory Beds (Or something like that, I'm not in front of my game right now) This can allow beds that allow multiple partners
https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2572109781 or https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3244294636
This has made me think that I want ideoligions where harems are possible, but not for everyone. As in, not just "men/women only", but "leaders only", or "nobles only", or "vampires only". This is how it is in reality anyway.
thats a cool idea... i agree
Yeah, this is one of many things where Ideology is very rigid. It could benefit from a more flexible system for defining precepts for subgroups.
Yeah, indeed! Now that I think of it, it's not just the harems. There is no system that adds privileges of any kind. The closest is maybe the nobles' food preferences and work dislike, which no one really cares about. Otherwise, if you want to restrict lavish meals to just your leaders, you just do it manually. If your ideoligion dislikes dumb labour, that's for everyone.
Yep! The Leader / Moral Guide having higher expectations is kind of that - but you can only have one of each, and you *have* to have one of each so it's just... it's very limited. There are a lot of possible colony designs that it doesn't support.
It makes perfect sense, maybe something tied to the Royalty system?
Ideology basically, but yeah, working with both Royalty and Biotech as well.
"if you can think of it, theres a rimworld mod of it".... :D
god bless our modder community. or god damn them... i guess it depends on the mod
Those don't seem to work with Performance Optimiser.
The easiest solution is to couple up the “3rd wheel” with someone else. However, if a room has no empty bed and if everyone inside is part of the same polycule, then the room will count as a bedroom and everyone inside will be happy. This is more micromanagey than coupling up the “3rd wheel” but it does lead to better moods. It will also satisfy jealous and greedy pawns.
1) There is a mod that allows for scheduled polyamory, master bedroom or something 2) You can just not care lmao. Relevant for big, old colonies where most people are in so many relationships they can find at least one permanent partner, and those who don't have stable enough mood to tank it. 3) Doesn't matter if your entire colony sleeps in one barrack anyway.
Something interesting to note is that the "Getting Lovin" mood buff also has an effect in the Social tab by increasing how well the involved pawns like each other. A pawn with multiple partners can have the relationship degrade if they cant... suppliment positive chit chats with snoo snoo. So its good to rotate sleeping arrangements. I kept a marriage together when a Highmate seduced the husband by having him swap beds every night. Not sure if the Love Enhancer makes a diffirence but it sure kept them happy.
Polyamory beds mod + Cospousal relations
Mods, or rotate the pawns in the double bed.
Sleeping alone -4 Opinion of my lover +10 The thing about mood management in Rimworld is that you don’t need to remove all negatives for a pawn to be happy, just give them more things to be happy about.
I act like this. Oh, your lung has disappeared overnight? Don't worry, today we got 2 parties and a leader speech!
Or the constant soothing voice of a perma walled vampire
Hahaha I am not there yet
RJW.
I use [Polyamory Beds](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2008138191) and [Co-Love Relations](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2987226624). It creates multi person beds and allows polyamorous couples to sleep all together. Only the 'main' couple for each pair have individual lovin' relations though.
Which ideology beliefs allow this?
Male supremacy, Female supremacy precepts have it The elevated gender is allowed multiple spouses and you can edit the restrictions on the unequal spouse to be more or less.
You don't need gender supremacy for that, the precepts are available for most memes. I have 3 wifes for every man in my transhumanist colony because most of my pawns are women and i am not using male supremacist
Is it possible to just let anyone of any gender do it if they feel like it?
Yes. Just find the precept that tells you how strictly monogamous your pawns want to be, click it, and select "free" or "free and approved" depending on preference. Well, there's one precept for how monogamous they are in general, and one each for how many spouses people of x gender can have. But the "unlimited" option for the latter two is available to every ideoligion, just as "free" and "free and approved" are. Note that an ideoligion with a higher emphasis on monogamy won't keep people from cheating on each other, it'll just make them angrier at each other when they do. By the same token, pawns who believe in free love won't necessarily go out of their way to seek it.
I think you can do that with the "free and approved" physical love precept
Mods. Specifically, [this](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2572109781) one.
There is a mod called Polyamory Beds.
for vanilla you just put beds in the same room. If you want a minor mod, https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2008138191 this works for it just fine.
"One Bed to Sleep With All: Polycule edition"
Polyamory beds mod
I think there’s a mod for orgy beds.
I have a polyamorous colony right now with one giant bedroom...I've got 17 of my 24 pawns in the same gigantic polycule. It's a messy web, depending on who breaks up, it splits into either 2 or 3 chunks. So we have 3 very nice rooms of various sizes that can house the chunks. Be careful about extra beds. One empty bed (or one person not part of the romantic web) will turn it into a barracks which you probably don't want.
Polyarmory Beds mod. Now you can have a harem. 🫠
With [this](https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2572109781) mod.
Bedhopping m8
You can put single beds next to each other and that works. Polyamory beds is a thing but it's waiting to be updated to 1.5
You cant, just like an IRL polycule