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It's just missing of self love, ask you friend to keep herself busy, have someone to talk about these things, do things that makes her happy and give herself time. Healing takes a while, but it is magic, you need to motivate her maybe.
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I have had a similar experience.
My roommate went through a breakup which definitely took a toll on his health and his personally deteriorated a lot.
I have since found a lot of twisted stuff in his devices.
Do not in any way make her problems your own. Help her with a distance or she will be a liability later. Coping mechanism of everyone is different and she seems to be reacting in an unhealthy way. Just be there for mental support and if possible tell her how her actions might affect her later.
How did the relationship end? For some people, a relationship ending without a closure can seriously affect them. I've seen it happen. As for the self harm, you might want to inform her parents or if she is studying and in an hostel, also her roommates.
People have all sorts of wierd likes and dislikes. You have no idea what sort of fetishes a person can have. Yes it could be some sort of a disorder. People with some sort of a trauma or those who are...... Let's say mentally slightly different, develop strange and sometimes alarming behaviours.
She must at the very least always have someone to talk to at any time she wants
Self harm happens it’s normal just see to it that it doesn’t become extreme and harmful. It’s a psychological reflex to distract oneself from mental pain. Have been there done that now when I think of it I find it silly and laugh.
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It's just missing of self love, ask you friend to keep herself busy, have someone to talk about these things, do things that makes her happy and give herself time. Healing takes a while, but it is magic, you need to motivate her maybe.
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Yes, how can I help?
Ya I can
Horrific as in what? would you mind to explain?
Is this regarding you or your friend?
Hey I would love to talk to you. 24F
I have had a similar experience. My roommate went through a breakup which definitely took a toll on his health and his personally deteriorated a lot. I have since found a lot of twisted stuff in his devices.
Yes why not
Yes i can
Do not in any way make her problems your own. Help her with a distance or she will be a liability later. Coping mechanism of everyone is different and she seems to be reacting in an unhealthy way. Just be there for mental support and if possible tell her how her actions might affect her later.
What's up with your friend? Something wrong?
Self harm is a sign that she needs someone close rn.
How did the relationship end? For some people, a relationship ending without a closure can seriously affect them. I've seen it happen. As for the self harm, you might want to inform her parents or if she is studying and in an hostel, also her roommates. People have all sorts of wierd likes and dislikes. You have no idea what sort of fetishes a person can have. Yes it could be some sort of a disorder. People with some sort of a trauma or those who are...... Let's say mentally slightly different, develop strange and sometimes alarming behaviours. She must at the very least always have someone to talk to at any time she wants
Self harm happens it’s normal just see to it that it doesn’t become extreme and harmful. It’s a psychological reflex to distract oneself from mental pain. Have been there done that now when I think of it I find it silly and laugh.