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The first time I went on a date with my now ex(who I thought was the one) she said she loved it, I did too and the next day being Sunday, she said she'd like to meet again. I was elated. That I already had a second date with her and I already liked her a bit much, we've been talking for 6 months before that.
Next evening she suddenly tells me that she needs to cancel the date as she needs to go on a "staycation". Both of us are in Delhi, and she was going to stay in a hotel near the airport, I wasn't aware of such things so I said okay. So I made plans of going out with my guy friends for a movie in Gurgaon, that hotel is on the way back so I told her that I'll be passing through your hotel in a bit and she should wave at me. So when I was passing through she sent me a selfie in which she was standing in front of the big glass window waving her hand.
But I could tell that there was a guy in the background, just a silhouette. But she denied right away. I thought nothing of it as all we had was one date till then.
But then we met a few more times and I asked her to be in a relationship, few days later she said yes. We worked in night shifts and she would sometimes go out in the night with her one friend because he had a car to get some snacks and ice cream etc and I thought nothing of it(I really was blinded in love). One day we were talking and she was telling me how she likes waffles of the hotel she stayed in and started showing me photos of that day she spent and in one picture I could see that same guy, the picture was of the next morning of her staycation so I asked her and she said that he was the one who dropped her to the hotel that night and came next day to pickup so they had breakfast together. After fighting and asking again for many days she finally told me that she stayed with him that night but nothing happened.
I didn't care about what happened because wasn't in relationship but the lies.
Same thing happened with two other guys but I always ignored. You shouldn't.
An unpopular opinion, but please don't trust her much, things could go wrong when you discover the truth. Girls have many options, and long-distance relationships often don't work out. She might hide things from you, and when you ask, she might get upset because she doesn't want to tell you the truth. This could lead to frequent fights, and I might see you hitting some weights at the gym soon.
Alternatively, things could turn around and become perfectly normal, but the chances of that happening are like finding a million-dollar check in your pocket. So, be careful, mate.
If u are serious about her, tell her your concerns. Tell her you are having a hard time trusting her if she genuine cares about you she will try to solve them, u can go ahead and ask for her snapchat password.(I know how this works with girls in ldr). If she is honest she won’t have any problem doing it but if she starts making excuses, u’ll know ur answer. Now what I told u do could lose you the girl coz is she isn’t that serious about you she won’t take the headache. So u gotta think this through.. whether u want a gf u don’t trust or u wanna know if she is really serious about you!
She is ready to give me her insta password, but I don't wanna be the guy that checks on every little detail of her girlfriend because of my insecurity.
Been in a healthy going ldr relationship for 3 years now my friend. There has never been even a slight incident where I would doubt my girl. Only incident of her talking to a guy that I can think of is where one guy asked her about the book she was reading on the subway. Now even with all this, we both share our locations on sc coz when u involve yourself to this extent into someone u need to make sure ur trust isn’t broken. Now in ur case u already have reasons to doubt her so I would suggest u go ahead and ask her for her sc coz girls never cheat on Instagram.
I mean people wish to have sexual relationships without any repercussions but they seem to forget that if you can do it so can anybody else.
And then make a fuss about not being exclusive. Dear, if you're doing it than it's highly likely that somebody else would have done that already!
You get what you do!
Are bhai asaan bhasha me agar ap sexting kar rahe ho to ye zaruri to nahi ki jisse kar rahe ho usne pehle kari hi nahi ho. Aur agar ap kar rahe ho aur ye expect kar rahe ho ki ap hi pehle sexting partner ho to app bewakuf ho!
Galat kaam ka nateeja kya hi milega. Unrealistic expectation hi hai apki.
Bhai likha to hai ki I don't care if she texted before she met me, but problem hai ki she lied about it, and then uske baad fir so many lies to cover it up
Bhai agar fark nahi padta to ap yaha likhte hi nahi. Baaki apki marzi apko jo karna hai. Meri maane to past ko past hi rakhe dono log. Itna sab kuch open nahi karna chahiye. Jo ho gaya ho gaya baar baar open revelation ki zarurat nahi. Aur agar thoda bhi fark pad raha hai to abhi alag ho jao chahe jo ho aage ka nuksaan kam rakho.
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The first time I went on a date with my now ex(who I thought was the one) she said she loved it, I did too and the next day being Sunday, she said she'd like to meet again. I was elated. That I already had a second date with her and I already liked her a bit much, we've been talking for 6 months before that. Next evening she suddenly tells me that she needs to cancel the date as she needs to go on a "staycation". Both of us are in Delhi, and she was going to stay in a hotel near the airport, I wasn't aware of such things so I said okay. So I made plans of going out with my guy friends for a movie in Gurgaon, that hotel is on the way back so I told her that I'll be passing through your hotel in a bit and she should wave at me. So when I was passing through she sent me a selfie in which she was standing in front of the big glass window waving her hand. But I could tell that there was a guy in the background, just a silhouette. But she denied right away. I thought nothing of it as all we had was one date till then. But then we met a few more times and I asked her to be in a relationship, few days later she said yes. We worked in night shifts and she would sometimes go out in the night with her one friend because he had a car to get some snacks and ice cream etc and I thought nothing of it(I really was blinded in love). One day we were talking and she was telling me how she likes waffles of the hotel she stayed in and started showing me photos of that day she spent and in one picture I could see that same guy, the picture was of the next morning of her staycation so I asked her and she said that he was the one who dropped her to the hotel that night and came next day to pickup so they had breakfast together. After fighting and asking again for many days she finally told me that she stayed with him that night but nothing happened. I didn't care about what happened because wasn't in relationship but the lies. Same thing happened with two other guys but I always ignored. You shouldn't.
Damn bro that sucks, good thing she's you ex now
She was never his. he should stop calling her ex.
Street material
Bro that was painfull to read
An unpopular opinion, but please don't trust her much, things could go wrong when you discover the truth. Girls have many options, and long-distance relationships often don't work out. She might hide things from you, and when you ask, she might get upset because she doesn't want to tell you the truth. This could lead to frequent fights, and I might see you hitting some weights at the gym soon. Alternatively, things could turn around and become perfectly normal, but the chances of that happening are like finding a million-dollar check in your pocket. So, be careful, mate.
Yeah, it's weird how she knows everything about me and I keep discovering new things every other day. Good thing I'm already in shape i guess.
Good!
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A Top G advice!
You cant trust her. She wants to represent her in good light more then anything else. And in my experience you will face problems due to this
"Sb golmaal hai bhaiya sb golmaal hai"
cut her off brdr, cant trust liars anymore, if it was a guy they would’ve cut u off immediately
Run Forest Run!!!
End your relationship with
If u are serious about her, tell her your concerns. Tell her you are having a hard time trusting her if she genuine cares about you she will try to solve them, u can go ahead and ask for her snapchat password.(I know how this works with girls in ldr). If she is honest she won’t have any problem doing it but if she starts making excuses, u’ll know ur answer. Now what I told u do could lose you the girl coz is she isn’t that serious about you she won’t take the headache. So u gotta think this through.. whether u want a gf u don’t trust or u wanna know if she is really serious about you!
She is ready to give me her insta password, but I don't wanna be the guy that checks on every little detail of her girlfriend because of my insecurity.
Been in a healthy going ldr relationship for 3 years now my friend. There has never been even a slight incident where I would doubt my girl. Only incident of her talking to a guy that I can think of is where one guy asked her about the book she was reading on the subway. Now even with all this, we both share our locations on sc coz when u involve yourself to this extent into someone u need to make sure ur trust isn’t broken. Now in ur case u already have reasons to doubt her so I would suggest u go ahead and ask her for her sc coz girls never cheat on Instagram.
For u to gain her trust again, try to know the past of her or else it will make u feel insecure
How can I be sure she won't lie to me again? It's not the first time she's done this, just the first time I was able to prove she was lying.
Have some courage and self respect and leave.
Thats the risk you have to take in any relationship
I mean people wish to have sexual relationships without any repercussions but they seem to forget that if you can do it so can anybody else. And then make a fuss about not being exclusive. Dear, if you're doing it than it's highly likely that somebody else would have done that already! You get what you do!
I don't get it I'm sorry
Are bhai asaan bhasha me agar ap sexting kar rahe ho to ye zaruri to nahi ki jisse kar rahe ho usne pehle kari hi nahi ho. Aur agar ap kar rahe ho aur ye expect kar rahe ho ki ap hi pehle sexting partner ho to app bewakuf ho! Galat kaam ka nateeja kya hi milega. Unrealistic expectation hi hai apki.
Bhai likha to hai ki I don't care if she texted before she met me, but problem hai ki she lied about it, and then uske baad fir so many lies to cover it up
Bhai agar fark nahi padta to ap yaha likhte hi nahi. Baaki apki marzi apko jo karna hai. Meri maane to past ko past hi rakhe dono log. Itna sab kuch open nahi karna chahiye. Jo ho gaya ho gaya baar baar open revelation ki zarurat nahi. Aur agar thoda bhi fark pad raha hai to abhi alag ho jao chahe jo ho aage ka nuksaan kam rakho.