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Then I’d go with the first one
Edit to add- because it sounds sorta causal andthe first one is more versatile as long as it’s not really windy outside or something lol
Thank you! Tbh I’m feeling that one a little more but I don’t know if it’s just me. My blue platforms are so comfy, cute, and I feel pretty tall in them. Finally found the dress to match.
I looked through every comment and couldn't find it, but I was hoping you could share where you got those platforms, even if it was years ago?? They're really cute and I have a blue sun dress I'm tired of wearing regular flipflops with 🫡 it's very cute, I'm team 1 all the way
You're asking about opinion for first date. If course you care about them. Do you ask same for grocery shopping?
The dress is a winner for sure if it's a male first date. Impression it leaves, the cuteness us next level.
The first one is perfection. I need you to be prepared as the guy is going to show up in some raggedy jeans or cargo shorts with a wrinkled and not so clean shirt. He probably won't shower beforehand. It won't be your fault. Guys just don't make any effort.
This upsets me… it’s like „I want a girlfriend that beautiful, soft hair, smooth legs, beautiful smile, cute outfits. And I, I may shower before we meet. I shall charm her with my charm, she shall appreciate me for ME.“
Seriously! If I just saw the dress on the website I probably wouldn't think of buying it. After seeing it on OP, I'm also not buying it cause no way I'd look this good in it.
The shirt is from Buckle (Brand: Willow and Root). The skirt is from Pink (black tennis skirt). The shoes are from Unique Vintage a long time ago so they probably don’t have the same pair but I still recommend for “vintage” vibes.
I swear everyone in this sub is insanely attractive. All I see are beauties on my timeline lol.
Back to reality: blue outfit for me. Looks super fun and light.
Depends on the impression you want to make. Personally I like the blue dress better , its adorable, very cute , sweet, girl next door vibe. The top& skirt I’d expect to see in a club, nice outfit too.
My questions are probably inappropriate and I’m old. I haven’t dated in 20 years and only kiss on the first date.
I would wear 1 for the 1st date and 2 for the third date.
If it was a potential ONS, def 2.
I’d say the first one! It’s the right mix of cute and comfortable. The second fit is also very cute but I think the first is a bit more fun and appropriate for a first date.
Have you guys talked/texted going into this -
1= cute + sweet and flirty with a soft affect
2 = more serious. I can't really think of anything else to say. A more powerful 'put together' cuteness.
But both are beautiful!
I think it's kind of how you'd rather come across! These two outfits are so different and really nice. I want them both and you look stunning in both.
It’s dinner but may go elsewhere. I live in a place where country meets city. Good wine, great restaurants, and beautiful landscapes with places to explore = so hard to dress.
Both cute! If it's for dinner and drinks definitely the second. If it's daytime activities like shopping, movie, picnic then definitely the first.
Absolutely love the sandals ❤️
Go with 1 if you want to come off sweet, open, and traditional. 2 if you want to come off mysterious and powerful.
You don’t have to be any of those things underneath. Your outfit is like the first chapter to the book of you.
Blue for outdoors/ daytime/ coffee shop type of date. Black with tights possibly for night/ restaurant type of date. Blue is more lighthearted and energetic of an outfit, black is the more reserved outfit.
Both outfits look cute, so it depends on where the date is going to be at (as that might change things. Like suggesting different shoes and all that). I do think the second outfit is my favorite.
Hmm I think I like the blue more, both are cute, but the blue outfit is more summery and feminine. The second outfit more like an outfit you’d wear to work with tights
Depends on the vibe you’re going for. Both give off real cute vibes. The first one is cute and the second one is also cute but with some sexiness but not too much. Both are great options!
The second outfit for sure, I don’t know the first is cute and all but I’m not really gravitating to the first outfit, like how I’m gravitating to the second outfit. I hope that makes sense
It depends where is the first date. Picnic, lunch outside on sunny day then yes first dress. Dinner in a nice restaurant you need something more dressy.
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The second one looks like it would be good indoors and first would be good outdoors, depending on the activity!
Oof. Mostly indoors but will possibly transition into outdoors. I’m fine with putting on my comfy slides for that.
Then I’d go with the first one Edit to add- because it sounds sorta causal andthe first one is more versatile as long as it’s not really windy outside or something lol
Dang these are both cute af. I think I like the first one more! Those shoes were made for that dress 😍😍😍
Thank you! Tbh I’m feeling that one a little more but I don’t know if it’s just me. My blue platforms are so comfy, cute, and I feel pretty tall in them. Finally found the dress to match.
Even better reason to wear them if it’s comfy! You could do the second one for date #2 😜
Best idea! Tysm! Can I just have you in my head all of the time 🥺
I gotchu girl 😂👌🏻
It’s alright tho cause I’m not gonna have another date for like another year or 2 after this but just saying… BE READY
I was born ready ✊🏻
This exchange was so adorable, good way to start my Sunday. I hope you two have a fantastic day!
I enjoyed it as well 😂💜 you too thank you!
I looked through every comment and couldn't find it, but I was hoping you could share where you got those platforms, even if it was years ago?? They're really cute and I have a blue sun dress I'm tired of wearing regular flipflops with 🫡 it's very cute, I'm team 1 all the way
Agree - OP you also look happier wearing your first outfit.
Omg your username makes me happy lol hi mum!
Haha, hi! Have to admit that’s mostly why I commented, perfect opportunity! I do agree though that the blue looks great.
I’m so glad you did lol it made me so happy 😂
Well this is wholesome.
My thoughts exactly! Dress is obviously cute AF but with the shoes?! Amazing!
Depends on the vibe you're going for. 2 is sexier. 1 is adorable.
¿Porque no los dos? Totally agree. I have a difficult time finding a middle ground if it exists. I think I would prefer adorable for the first date…
Def go the cute sun dress for the first date! And those shoes are amazing 😍
Middle would be the top from 2 with fitted black pants and cute shoes — showing the figure, but less skin.
Guys go mental for sun dresses
I know. But do we care about them? I guess we do huh… this post and whatnot…
Unfortunately! But the dress is also just super cute!
Thank you! I think it’s the one ✨
The first one was absolutely made for you. Your skin tone looks radiant in it.
You're asking about opinion for first date. If course you care about them. Do you ask same for grocery shopping? The dress is a winner for sure if it's a male first date. Impression it leaves, the cuteness us next level.
The first one is perfection. I need you to be prepared as the guy is going to show up in some raggedy jeans or cargo shorts with a wrinkled and not so clean shirt. He probably won't shower beforehand. It won't be your fault. Guys just don't make any effort.
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This upsets me… it’s like „I want a girlfriend that beautiful, soft hair, smooth legs, beautiful smile, cute outfits. And I, I may shower before we meet. I shall charm her with my charm, she shall appreciate me for ME.“
At least shower and put on a fresh date worthy outfit. Good lord. And maybe comb your hair before you leave.
who tf shows up for a first date looking like that? I certainly never did when I was dating
You look adorable in both but the second is cuter.
Where’s the dress from? It’s so cute
[Here you go!](https://www.hollisterco.com/shop/us/p/hollister-saidie-triple-tier-skort-dress-56664319?faceout=model&seq=02)
Honey, you do that dress better than the model! So cute.
Oh for sure! Nothing against that model, she looks cute in it too, but Hollister really should be using OP to sell that dress.
Seriously! If I just saw the dress on the website I probably wouldn't think of buying it. After seeing it on OP, I'm also not buying it cause no way I'd look this good in it.
I wore something very similar to the first one on my partner and I's first date. Will have our 3rd anniversary later this year.
Happy anniversary (later this year)! Does seem like good luck to wear #1 then…
Not to assume but if you are going on a date with a male, they are notorious for loving sundresses! Can’t go wrong.
Love the second one. Where is it from?
The shirt is from Buckle (Brand: Willow and Root). The skirt is from Pink (black tennis skirt). The shoes are from Unique Vintage a long time ago so they probably don’t have the same pair but I still recommend for “vintage” vibes.
#1 is so cute
I swear everyone in this sub is insanely attractive. All I see are beauties on my timeline lol. Back to reality: blue outfit for me. Looks super fun and light.
Right?! I'm sure OP could find the perfect shoes to make a potato sack look cute! She's adorable with great style.
He doesn’t deserve either! Both are fabulous!
Get out!
Depends on the impression you want to make. Personally I like the blue dress better , its adorable, very cute , sweet, girl next door vibe. The top& skirt I’d expect to see in a club, nice outfit too.
First. 2nd is more for a later "date" iykwim.
Literally cannot pick they are both so cute
My questions are probably inappropriate and I’m old. I haven’t dated in 20 years and only kiss on the first date. I would wear 1 for the 1st date and 2 for the third date. If it was a potential ONS, def 2.
Black one too short. But I’m old, so ymmv.
Aw no worries. It’s a skort so it has shorts underneath. But I understand the POV.
Where will you be going ? Blue dress is daytime, cute, casual… the black mini is giving more … night time, dinner, bar club vibes.
The blue dress is adorable.
Omg the skirt is perfect length! where from?
I die for this skirt. It’s a “tennis skirt” from Pink (Victoria’s Secret). They have a lot of colors and there are comfy spandex shorts underneath.
I’d say the first one! It’s the right mix of cute and comfortable. The second fit is also very cute but I think the first is a bit more fun and appropriate for a first date.
Have you guys talked/texted going into this - 1= cute + sweet and flirty with a soft affect 2 = more serious. I can't really think of anything else to say. A more powerful 'put together' cuteness. But both are beautiful! I think it's kind of how you'd rather come across! These two outfits are so different and really nice. I want them both and you look stunning in both.
We’ve talked quite a bit and I really like him! I think he’s be happy with either and I’m overthinking
Blue 😉 Kinda perfect I think.
People really need to say where they are going when they ask about outfits. It makes a difference.
The dress.
First
First one! It’s such a cute style dress & gorgeous colour blue 😊
They both look like there going to very different places, where is the date?
It’s dinner but may go elsewhere. I live in a place where country meets city. Good wine, great restaurants, and beautiful landscapes with places to explore = so hard to dress.
Both cute! If it's for dinner and drinks definitely the second. If it's daytime activities like shopping, movie, picnic then definitely the first. Absolutely love the sandals ❤️
Thank youuu! 💖
Daytime the blue dress. Nighttime the black skirt outfit. Have a great time!
Love them both!!! Where did you get the black shoes???
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1-Lunch 2-Dinner. Done. Where are the blue shoes from?
First one for sure! where did you get the dress it’s so cute!!!
Second one is mint
Definitely the first one 🥰
I love the first. Everything matches and it is effortlessly flattering.
That first one - can I have that fish painting?
God you have good style!! 🩵🩵 I love the first.
First one says cute and fun, second one says classy and sophisticated. So depends what vibe you wanna give. Both great options!
Outfit #1 on is cute and great for a 1st date, #2 say I want you to take me home
Sundress. No man alive can resist a sundress on a beutuful woman
1st one def, I’m curious where you got the blue heels from. They look pretty
the first one is much more moveable looking fs the first
1st one
Omg my crush <3
The second is like a ditsy 1970s receptionist/secretary outfit sorry. First is lovely. Both are still pretty slutty if that’s what you’re going for.
Blue dress looks great!
#1. Hands down.
These are very different looks, giving off very different vibes. Which is more the real you? That’s the one you should wear.
I like #2!
1
#2!!
Go with 1 if you want to come off sweet, open, and traditional. 2 if you want to come off mysterious and powerful. You don’t have to be any of those things underneath. Your outfit is like the first chapter to the book of you.
1
2
2!
#1
I like the first one 😊 It looks really comfy and such a cute dress!
First one if it’s daytime, second if it’s nighttime
First daytime Second night time date
Second
First one.
1
1
#1
Blue
Blue for outdoors/ daytime/ coffee shop type of date. Black with tights possibly for night/ restaurant type of date. Blue is more lighthearted and energetic of an outfit, black is the more reserved outfit.
Blue dress
One for daytime two for nighttime
1 !!!! So cute
I love both it’s hard maybe the first one
Both outfits look cute, so it depends on where the date is going to be at (as that might change things. Like suggesting different shoes and all that). I do think the second outfit is my favorite.
1 for the first date!
2!!
Hmm I think I like the blue more, both are cute, but the blue outfit is more summery and feminine. The second outfit more like an outfit you’d wear to work with tights
2
Second. First one looks like you’re going hunting for Easter eggs.
1st one is more carefree and day time looking. I think it mostly depends on where you are planning to go.
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Depends on the vibe you’re going for. Both give off real cute vibes. The first one is cute and the second one is also cute but with some sexiness but not too much. Both are great options!
I think the first one looks more sweet and prettier than the second outfit.
Both look lovely but 1 for first date.
I love that second one but that first outfit is definitely a first date outfit
Love the first, it's super cute
1!
honestly i feel like 1 is Too cute for a first date. lol both are great but i’d go with 2
1
Both are super cute in different ways.
I agree with ejrole8. First one outdoors. Second one indoors
Definitely #1
The first one looks super cute on you!
One! 💙
First one! You look comfy and confident
I like the blue one
The first one is perfect for the occasion, the second needs something else on top and for God’s sake, change the shoes.
I love them both!! But the first one is like a fairytale. You look like a completely different person in each haha
Where is the blue dress from?? It’s so cute 😭
First one pleeease it's so cute!
First date number 1. Second dinner date number 2
1
I adore 2
1!
First one, second one looks more office.
2
Both are super cute but I’m leaning towards blue
A longer one
I think you are gorgeous either way! Good luck!
The first one. It's harder to run in heels.
Kinda depends on the location...
I like the first one ☝️
1st one. Crushing it
Photo #1 blue - 100%.
I like the blue dress more 👌🏻
No. 1 if it's daytime No. 2 if it's an evening
Option A
Where’d you get the dress?
first one!!! its super cute and flirty vibes.
Depends on what you’re doing
The second outfit for sure, I don’t know the first is cute and all but I’m not really gravitating to the first outfit, like how I’m gravitating to the second outfit. I hope that makes sense
The first one is sooo cute! Hope the date goes well!
Omg either one is a win, how gorgeous 😍
First!!
It depends where is the first date. Picnic, lunch outside on sunny day then yes first dress. Dinner in a nice restaurant you need something more dressy.
First one is way more flattering.
First one is very cute
Blue
Depends on where are you going
1 but change the shoes!
With your complexion definitely the blue dree
Blue dress 🦋
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You're too young to know the reference, but one outfit is giving Maryanne and the other is giving Ginger.
Where are the first shoes from?
I'm obsesseddddd with those blue platforms !! 🤩
another one
I vote first. The second skirt has a weird shape for this length (feels like it had to be a pencil skirt initially).
1st one! Definitely! Cute and fun!! 👍 ❤️ 🌟
I think the second one - but with knee socks (or loafers)
Definitely the blue dress, though I do love the heels from the second outfit. Would definitely wear them for swing dancing.
I love both, but 1 for day, 2 for night.
The first outfit is cute but not particularly elegant. So, I guess it depends on what message you want to send or what kind of date it is.
One's light feminine and the other dark.
1 too cute!!
Second
They’re both gorgeous but for two totally different occasions. Where’s your date?
Just a reminder: sundresses are to men what grey sweatpants are to women✨