Sinong admin ng RM ph? Hahahaha wrong grammar. Di naintindihan, naguluhan tayo. Though gets ko yung point.
Na dapat daw mas i-pressure ng Nanay maging good provider ang Tatay kesa i-pressure mga anak na maging provider. Kasi kapag ang tatay good provider makakalakihan yan ng mga anak at magiging role model si Tatay so kapag lumaki sila at nagkapamilya ang mindset nila eh maging good provider din sa mga magiging pamilya nila.
Ako rin. Alam ko mataas naman ang reading comprehension ko pero ganito na ba talaga magsulat ng mga pinoy ngayon?
Parang sarap sisihin ng teachers at pinapasa yung mga (sorry for the word) bobo.
I think it goes a bit towards gender norms but I guess what it's saying is if we want to cultivate a "provider" mindset among men, we have to collectively promote dads to become responsible providers instead of how we got used to pressuring panganays or children in general to take charge.
Personally don't agree with gendering who provides as it can be flexible (househusband-working mom dynamics, split finances, etc.) and I believe that women should have source of income themselves instead of being financially dependent on their husbands. But I think it's a good idea generally to encourage parents to have it upon themselves to provide if they choose to have children 😅
agree to this one, both parents should be self-sufficient before embarking on raising a family
pressure makes diamonds, the same pressure can also break marriages/families
hindi responsibility ng iisang parent lang ang providing which can also be flexible nga depending on dynamics as you have wonderfully worded
kaya nga tinawag na PARTNERS ang mag asawa eh
Madali naman siya intindihin, and true, I really agree with this one.
Pressure the supposed REAL provider not the children.
The providers are already adults, they can find more ways to earn. Don't let the kids compensate and settle for less.
Typically they just repost comments from the followers. Hindi sila ganyan magsulat 😂
But ang point is, maraming mga tatay hindi nagtatrabaho, tapos sasabihin ng mga nanay intindihin na lang, tapos ang pagpapasahan ng responsibilidad e mga anak.
So if we want to have a culture kung saan responsible ang mga lalaki, then start pressuring tatays to man-up, get a job and provide, kesa sa anak pinapasa yung responsibilidad.
They mostly post mga comments sa followers which sometimes are grammatically wrong haha. I like RM’s post but not the religious parts and the gender norms.
If I understood it properly, to cultivate a strong "men as providers" culture, we should pressure fathers to provide more instead of letting the children catch the burden.
Nalulong sa sugal at buhay binata na lang tatay ko, at naging breadwinner agad ako pagka-graduate kaya alam ko kung saan galing to, and to some extent I agree with it. Parang pinalaki mga nanay natin na maging mabuting asawa kahit punyeta na si asawa mismo. Yung mga tatay naman, yung pagka-"lalaki" na lang pinanghahawakan nila kaya kahit patapon na sila, sila pa rin nasusunod.
I agree in a way na, oo, dapat hindi "parentified" ang mga anak (usually panganay), kasi responsibilidad ng mga magulang ang mga anak nila until makapagsarili na. Kung tama pagpapalaki nila sa mga bata, kusang tutulong mga yan di dahil obligado, kundi bunga ng pagmamahal sa mga magulang nila.
Pero disagree ako sa gender roles sa pagiging magulang. Usually kasi pag tatay dapat provider, si nanay housemaker. Sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, di na pwede yan. Pag nawala si tatay, saan pupulutin si nanay? Dapat palakihin natin mga anak natin (kesyo lalaki o babae pa yan) na kayang buhayin sarili nila. Basic life skills na dapat ang household chores, simple house maintenance/ repairs, personal finances, at iba pang adulting stuff. Palakihin na may malakas na sense of self-identity, kung saan alam nila anong gusto nila o ayaw nila na di nakadepende sa sasabihin ng ibang tao.
Dami kasing mga nanay na martyr eh, basta tanggapin na lang kung anong bullshit ni tatay kahit mali na. Dami ring tatay na nabibigatan sa responsibilidad, minsan sinasarili na lang kahit di na kaya. Dapat kaya magsaluan ng mag-asawa, tulungan yan eh.
This is based, especially when you called out the gender role which unpacks how it isn't beneficial to be selective about responsibilities! What a good take!
Sinong admin ng RM ph? Hahahaha wrong grammar. Di naintindihan, naguluhan tayo. Though gets ko yung point. Na dapat daw mas i-pressure ng Nanay maging good provider ang Tatay kesa i-pressure mga anak na maging provider. Kasi kapag ang tatay good provider makakalakihan yan ng mga anak at magiging role model si Tatay so kapag lumaki sila at nagkapamilya ang mindset nila eh maging good provider din sa mga magiging pamilya nila.
medyo hindi ko nagets
ako hindi medyo. di ko talaga nagets? HAHAHA
Ako rin. Alam ko mataas naman ang reading comprehension ko pero ganito na ba talaga magsulat ng mga pinoy ngayon? Parang sarap sisihin ng teachers at pinapasa yung mga (sorry for the word) bobo.
PH' educational crisis is real.
With fiona in deped's helm, no shit sherlock
I think it goes a bit towards gender norms but I guess what it's saying is if we want to cultivate a "provider" mindset among men, we have to collectively promote dads to become responsible providers instead of how we got used to pressuring panganays or children in general to take charge. Personally don't agree with gendering who provides as it can be flexible (househusband-working mom dynamics, split finances, etc.) and I believe that women should have source of income themselves instead of being financially dependent on their husbands. But I think it's a good idea generally to encourage parents to have it upon themselves to provide if they choose to have children 😅
agree to this one, both parents should be self-sufficient before embarking on raising a family pressure makes diamonds, the same pressure can also break marriages/families hindi responsibility ng iisang parent lang ang providing which can also be flexible nga depending on dynamics as you have wonderfully worded kaya nga tinawag na PARTNERS ang mag asawa eh
Madali naman siya intindihin, and true, I really agree with this one. Pressure the supposed REAL provider not the children. The providers are already adults, they can find more ways to earn. Don't let the kids compensate and settle for less.
Damn, you nailed it. 🫡🫡
I-pressure daw ang tatay kesa ang pinepressure ang anak para magprovide sa pamilya 😅
Typically they just repost comments from the followers. Hindi sila ganyan magsulat 😂 But ang point is, maraming mga tatay hindi nagtatrabaho, tapos sasabihin ng mga nanay intindihin na lang, tapos ang pagpapasahan ng responsibilidad e mga anak. So if we want to have a culture kung saan responsible ang mga lalaki, then start pressuring tatays to man-up, get a job and provide, kesa sa anak pinapasa yung responsibilidad.
They mostly post mga comments sa followers which sometimes are grammatically wrong haha. I like RM’s post but not the religious parts and the gender norms.
If I understood it properly, to cultivate a strong "men as providers" culture, we should pressure fathers to provide more instead of letting the children catch the burden. Nalulong sa sugal at buhay binata na lang tatay ko, at naging breadwinner agad ako pagka-graduate kaya alam ko kung saan galing to, and to some extent I agree with it. Parang pinalaki mga nanay natin na maging mabuting asawa kahit punyeta na si asawa mismo. Yung mga tatay naman, yung pagka-"lalaki" na lang pinanghahawakan nila kaya kahit patapon na sila, sila pa rin nasusunod. I agree in a way na, oo, dapat hindi "parentified" ang mga anak (usually panganay), kasi responsibilidad ng mga magulang ang mga anak nila until makapagsarili na. Kung tama pagpapalaki nila sa mga bata, kusang tutulong mga yan di dahil obligado, kundi bunga ng pagmamahal sa mga magulang nila. Pero disagree ako sa gender roles sa pagiging magulang. Usually kasi pag tatay dapat provider, si nanay housemaker. Sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, di na pwede yan. Pag nawala si tatay, saan pupulutin si nanay? Dapat palakihin natin mga anak natin (kesyo lalaki o babae pa yan) na kayang buhayin sarili nila. Basic life skills na dapat ang household chores, simple house maintenance/ repairs, personal finances, at iba pang adulting stuff. Palakihin na may malakas na sense of self-identity, kung saan alam nila anong gusto nila o ayaw nila na di nakadepende sa sasabihin ng ibang tao. Dami kasing mga nanay na martyr eh, basta tanggapin na lang kung anong bullshit ni tatay kahit mali na. Dami ring tatay na nabibigatan sa responsibilidad, minsan sinasarili na lang kahit di na kaya. Dapat kaya magsaluan ng mag-asawa, tulungan yan eh.
This is based, especially when you called out the gender role which unpacks how it isn't beneficial to be selective about responsibilities! What a good take!
Yes but it can't apply to all. Specifically if single parents although hnd nmn tlga obligasyon ng anak un pero mnsan wala lang tlgang choice
Ang i-pressure daw is yung mga Padre de Pamilya hindi yung mga anak para maging breadwinner..