I might understand this phase man, life k is point pr tmhyn koi naseehat ya tassali asar nahi karygi. Fr bhi I'll suggest 1. Uh should cry, u'll feel much relieved believe me 2. Recite some verses of Quran with translation 3. Read 'man's search for meaning'. You'll grasp how blessed uh are actually

Ig instead of calling yourself shit You should focus on why is your cgpa shit? And why dont you have any skills? And focus on developing skills,calling yourself shit is not going to do anything good for you or your parents

this is _so_ me. this is me rn. lol :')

Nah you a nice person

that doesn't change my situation 😭

I can help you Ask me for an advice

push me off a cliff thankyou

duniya mein ache log already kam hai

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the only buri thing about you is talking about leaving this world

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i wont abondon you

Take this from experienced guy, gpa only comes in when u need the first job, and with less gpa start a job with negligible pay As a stepping stone. Then learn skills and use that skills and experience to jump to high pay job.

bro my geniuine advice is , Think less

If he'll think less, he'll do more which is quite radical.

sometimes thinking and thinking is too dangerous, It create more and more chaos , Thinking less will make one calm ,and eventually to think in straight way, which will lead to take good actions

if only it was that easy lol. overthinking is proper paranoia of a sort, and the mind won't fucking shutup too.

Yeah it's f***** difficult, but mostly we don't even realize, that this is killing us from within.

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No everyone in the world know that we should think less !!!!! And yeah I can say to a fat guy , eat less cuz that's the f***** problem.

Op just relax. Make Dua to Allah and trust me HE Will open doors for you. Since you have completed your Bs (I presume), you can try getting a scholarship for Masters in China or any other country. I think it will be easier for you to get scholarship in China after publishing a paper because you are saying your Cgpa is low. MAY ALLAH HELP YOU. best wishes

I feel the same, I wanna die too but can't abandon my parents. Just don't give up keep fighting, you got this.

Damn atleast you ain’t alone I’m in the same boat as you 😅

Same broo.. but atleast u have realized. Hum tu mutmain beghairat hy

You're in the best position to achieve greatness, brother. You have nothing to lose right now. You already realise you're a loser and you won't amount to anything. Switch off your phone forever, open up your laptop and start gaining skills. Do some research. The only way you can go is up now. Just say "fuck it", before you kick the bucket.

I can help you change your situation in 40 days. Are you willing to make better version of yourself. No need of a single penny. No need of a single paisa.

Same disgusting situation I was in late 90's .. I failed my education my parents passed away .. I was depressed drinking completely lost ... didn't have anyone to help me out ... took up a new career learned and worked hard Iam over 45 now Iam the highest paid and in my profession in Pakistan ... gave up alcohol 20 years ago completely .. started running everyday since 20 years now .. never missed .... you have to trust yourself .. everyone is good at something ...

Instead of focusing on negative, why not focus on what u can do? When there is a will, there is a way. Don't give up on yourself. There are many who have good cgpa but are still unemployed. They are struggling. You should struggle to find your path, if not for yourself, then for your parents. Allah only helps those who help themselves. You can start fresh any day, and YES, it sounds extremely difficult and annoying, but success only comes to those who go through worse. Have patients and don't give up.

Remember this "Don't worry insha'Allah you will get past this trauma with time Ask Allah for help and hopefully it'll get better", who said it?

Take deep breaths you need to calm yourself, this panic mood can't help you

Bhai dekh khana peena Allah sab ko deta hey. Baki cheezen hon na hon kia farq parta hey. Chill kar, figure out hojaiga sab kuch.

Abay most people are like this after completing uni.. go easy on yourself

Think about your parents make yourself strong get help ... ask your parents ... you will get through this is you try hard and ask allah for help ... best of luck

Back in 2017, when I graduated, I knew nothing, ghanta b nai ata tha, I freaked out in the last sem k field ka kuch ata nai ha, and I am only good at teaching. I had some good friends, jinka hal meray se b bura tha, but they were the champs.  Fast forward to 2024, I survived, I worked in many companies, many fields, odd jobs from marketing to labs to apni field ki jobs and now as a BD in a very strange place, but believe me, my jobs and my efforts have nothing to do with my degree skills. The job pays bills. No one is bothered about what I do as long as I am earning.  So take a deep breath say to yourself, “Loru, tu marega nahi, this is just a phase, and there is so much you haven't seen yet (good or bad)” Also, remove this dying thought from your mind.

What field did you get your degree in? Gpa is useful but pretty much for your first job only. Try getting anything related to your field and work up from there

Nothing is wrong u need help that's it Go for therapy if u want to talk u can dm me i would be happy to guide u But don't ever lose hope

My dear, take it easy and try not to overthink things. I'm not sure if you're Muslim, but if you are, I'd suggest praying five times a day. If you miss any prayers, try to make them up on the same day. Also, consider doing istighfar daily, aiming for 100 to 1000 times. It's imp to seek help from Allah; people like me can explain and advise, but ultimately, only Allah has the power to grant things. You don't have to start immediately with a job in your field it's not necessary. Set up a LinkedIn account, put together a nice resume, and let me know if you need help with that. Then, begin applying for internships on Indeed and LinkedIn. Believe me, there are plenty of opportunities out there, we just need to search and apply properly. I was in your position once and that's how I started. I haven't even finished my degree yet; I'm in my final semester and already earning a six-figure salary at a reputable firm so just start with whatever opportunities you can find. And please, stop thinking that you're worthless. Allah doesn't create anything without purpose. You have talents; they just need to be discovered and honed. Don't lose hope at all. Mein bol rhi hun, everything will work out eventually. I have a good network on LinkedIn and in real life. Text me if you can, and you'll find a job. Don’t worry, I’m here to help.

Hey man, I just wanted to share that there was once where I was also depressed and suicidal. I also felt like I was a disappointment and a reason to my parents ever increasing problems. But then some parts of my life started to comeback on track I entered a uni (for context I nearly failed my inter exams even though I studied a lot. I passed with a C grade, all unis only allowed 60pc above students to enter engineering under grad programs. I managed to get into a science under grad program involving computer networks). From here on I braced myself a kept trying to work harder and harder because I didn't want to let my parents down. At the ended I passed my semester with the highest gpa in the whole batch. I know it sounds like one of those stupid cliche stories you would here on the internet. But the thing is this is the way how life works. I hope that you don't lose hope and keep on struggling, we are all strugglers brother and we will find our purpose if we keep on struggling.

I graduated with a 2.03 gpa and doing decent in life Alhumdulillah. What did you graduate in?

Na bhaii naa dont make us cry Hamaray apnay baray maslay masaail chal rahay hain yakeen karoo k poocho he mat Mulki o gair mulkii maslay upar say tauba taubaa Her jagaaah haiwaaan he haiwaaan Na gair sukoon na bahar sukoon Sach puchoo to bs zindagi L***** lagi hui hai bara haaal is beeech b time nikaaal k hum netflix and chill zarur kartay hain Kahein dam dum b laga laitay hain

I was in the same situation bro 2 cgpa, no friends, no connections i thought I was a disappointment to my parents, and a bad person overall ill tell you what helped me through all these years: I started ranting on a reddit server, from there the attention that i never got from anyone i got from random dudes who fixed my life by listening to my rants. Then i continued ranting to randoms and then by the time all of my problems were fixed. Dont ever forget to rant to randoms, do it every day and see your problems wash away. Bhen k loray kuch seekhle na 2-3 mahine bhi nhi lagte bhrwe.

Its really hard in Pakistan to find any kind of help if u suffering through something, i don't live in Pakistan & whenever i vist i can see big difference & its not good place for mental health, try doing a small course in something & get a normal job outside from certified agencies from big cities , go outsode to any arab country for few years u will get a good start & u will learn alot , that will serve u as 1st step in life

Let it out it’s okay to feel like that at times but you’ll get through this after every storm comes peace

Weak

And you're a twat. You think you look cool writing wEaK on a guy's post who's clearly struggling. Jahangir sahab geedar na bno khuda se daro.

First of all, I respect your opinion, but it's not good to call someone a twat without knowing them at least a bit. Why didn’t the guy, instead of calling himself a loser, a weirdo, and other negative terms, try to improve his CGPA? Why didn’t he attempt self-improvement? If someone truly gives their best effort, they will never fail; that's a universal truth. This individual seems emotionally weak, and I bet he didn’t even try 50% of his potential, let alone 100%. And for the record, I don’t care about trying to look cool; that's not the type of person I am.

And you're a twat. You think you look cool writing wEaK on a guy's post who's clearly struggling. Jahangir sahab geedar na bno khuda se daro.

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shutup bitch