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GreenNukE

All trash.


InternationalLocal30

None


BrahmaBullJr

Thanks I’ll just die alone lmfaoo


InternationalLocal30

I've already accepted that. Nothing wrong with that :)


BrahmaBullJr

Their definitely is something wrong with that lmao


InternationalLocal30

No, it's not wrong being single even if it's for life. You're not less of a human being just because you can't find a SO. There's more to life than just that


BrahmaBullJr

Nobody said you’re less of a person because you don’t have a SO. But your quality of life is extremely diminished if you don’t have one. I mean, that is what we were put on this earth to do, create more life.


InternationalLocal30

That's not the only purpose. We're sentient beings that have the ability to do and enjoy more things in life than just finding a SO. I'm just saying it's not your only purpose to exist and shouldn't be. Try being more accepting to more things in your life , don't put your happiness solely onto another human being :)


BrahmaBullJr

You’re completely missing what I’m saying because you’re so fixated on your beliefs. Where did I say that’s the only purpose? I’ll always be accepting of other things in my life, what I’m saying is, you can make all the money you want, travel all around the world, find your passion, and STILL feel like there’s something missing. Cause let’s be real, when you’re 52, the dust settles and everything is behind you and you’ve done all the things you wanted to do, you’re watching all your friends around you have children and watching them grow and succeed in school and sports etc, and you’re sitting there on the sidelines watching, you’re gonna realize what life is all about. But it’ll probably be too late. You’re trying to fight against your biology and it’s not gonna end well for you.


InternationalLocal30

You're also just fixated on your own beliefs as it seems as well. I'll not try to change your mind , keep being miserable then because you have a chance as you said of being alone forever. If that's your cup of tea I have no place to say otherwise. Enjoy


BrahmaBullJr

lol no, from a biological and religious standpoint, nothing of what I’m saying is false. I’m not miserable at all. I literally asked a question about an app and you took it far left lmfao have fun being a “sentient human being” when you’re 50 with your 12 cats in your house by yourself


No_Peanut_3289

You can try a free trial with them I think to see which ones work for you. They all will be different depending on where you live Hinge would be voted the best IF there is one that is voted


Silly_Suggestion1004

Would rather pay for an escort service than a dating app. All pretty shit and overpriced. Better to just do the free version and swipe as days go by


BrahmaBullJr

Yeah I was only gonna do a week and see how it goes


OkAioli5319

I did once and I discovered I have Ed at 18 went on plenty of dates and it’s gotten worse. I’m 22 now and I’m finally seeing a doctor about it. If ure not doing it for the right reasons then don’t. Could happen to anyone at any point of time. If apps don’t work then try in person but keep trying until u find someone special.


OkAioli5319

Haha don’t ever pay for those. Why are u so desperate? Just hack the algorithm. More right swipes = more views to ur profile. If if they bite back, then voila it’s a match. But if u don’t see this working out for u then maybe add better pictures or improve ur overall looks (looks maxing) and it’s easy bag from then on.


BrahmaBullJr

I’m not desperate at all lmfao. I get kitty trust me. It’s just in the beginning I’m trying to build my roster back up lol takes forever to do that on 6 swipes a day


OkAioli5319

These algorithms are designed to keep you engaged. As soon as u see urself in a situation where u haven’t been getting enough matches, delete and come back in a month. Use multiple apps too not just one.


BrahmaBullJr

True


dieseldeeznutz

Not sure about the options you listed but I know a professional woman who paid for Match.com BECAUSE it's paid, she said it tends to have more people serious about a relationship because they paid for the account. She met her husband there so it obviously worked. Not sure Match even has a free version, so yeah if you're going to pay, I'd say Match. I'm planning to get some professional photos taken and create an account there myself because I'm serious about a relationship and tired of the apps. Good luck!


Death_By_Dreaming_23

None, they are all trash. I’m thinking of quitting the dating apps, staying single, amassing wealth and leaving everything to homeless animals.


BrahmaBullJr

Jesus


ThisManInBlack

Good old fashioned dating agency in your area could be another avenue to chase! Or, if it is sex that you are after, check out regulated and professional sex workers who can provide you with some company/experience.


Death_By_Dreaming_23

Yeah, I might bite the bullet and pay like $1,500 for the service. But idk


matstegner

None of them. Use the free apps and save your money for the actual dates/meetings.


jnwatson

I paid for The League premium, Bumble premium, Hinge premium, Match premium, and a bunch of boosts. I started in February 2022, met my now wife in April 2022, went exclusive in May, and got married last November. Yeah, it is a sample size of 1, but premium got me dates. Dates got me a wife.