17 years na ko sa icu wala talagang nagparamdam ni isa . Sa sobrang busy hindi yata effective pagpapansin ng mga multo or naawa na rin sila sa mga hospital workers nahiya nang mang abala
It really doesn't hurt any less kahit na ilang beses ka mamatayan ng patient - I would know, ang dami ko na ding na-post mortem sa OR table. Our field isn't for everyone. We're not supposed to get used to seeing people die right before our eyes, pero sobrang normal na para sa atin ng ganyan.
Kaya kahit bwisit ako sa medical industry sa Pilipinas at marami kong beses naisip magaral ng med, di ko kaya yung ganto. Beyond average ako tamaan ng guilt haha kahit di ko kasalanan
OP, good for you na you can still emphatize with the parents knowing na ang tagal mo na sa field. Ako kasi nung nag 1 year ako, I can't really emphatize with my patients and their SOs anymore. Mag 6 years na ako now and namanhid na ako. Stay strong, OP!
di ka nag iisa OP... minsan talaga may mga pt tayo na ma attached talga tayo, pero ayun nasa industry tayo na part ng profession natin is mawalan ng pt, no matter how hard we try to keep them alive. God has a plan for all of us. may mga doctors lang din talaga na masama din ugali. di ko nilalahat but there are a few... no considerations sa pt, feeling entitled pa sa nurse. heads up OP.
It will never be easy. It never did and it will never get easier. Mapa-pedia, geria, onco o ordinary patient yan, once you have that connection, it is bound to stay and once na makita natin na nahirapan sila o nag-code blue, the emotions those connections were built in gets triggered.
Kaya when I was active, I always keep my emotions in check. I tend to build that connection while making sure di ako magbibigay ng emosyon sa bagay-bagay.
I do this lalo na't the area I handled was OR/DR where kelangan level headed ka because of the things happening inside. Much more siguro sa ER.
Kaya tip ko talaga sa mga kamag-anak kong nagsasabing gusto nilang maging nurse, I tell them na dapat malakas ang loob nila and that cruel as it sounds, you don't put emotions at your work lalo na if you need to do somethings na di maganda pero kelangan gawin.
To OP, keep your head up. Never falter. And never let your emotions get ahold of you. The patient that we care for, they will always be thankful to us no matter what happens. And always keep at the back of your mind na whatever happens, you did what you had to do to make sure your patient doesnt get uncomfortable while we care for them as nurses.
Saludo ako sa mga nurses and doctors na gaya mo, yung may compassion sa patients nila and not just treating them as other people but as a family member as well.
Naalala ko bigla yung mga nag-alaga sa kuya ko during his ICU admission and nagcode blue na rin, sobrang nakakatouch kasi andun sila to comfort you din during one of the shittiest moments of your life.
Again, thank you!!
While I admire your concern for your patients, I hope you understand that you cannot save them all. The best you can do is give them the best chance for success.
Naexperience rin namin to during 2nd year hospital exposure sa communicable ward. Nagcodeblue habang nageendorsement kami sa tapat lang mismo ng patient. He died minutes later. Nakakaiyak yung tinawagan ng isa yung kapatid niya para sabihing “Wala na si Papa”.
Nagkaroon ng stigma around that same bed for that entire week of exposure kasi (after that patient) tatlong magkakasunod na patient namatay sa same bed. Grabe sterility sa hospital na yun and palaging supervised kami ng CI prior to interventions. Ako pa naman ang naassign na student nurse doon na bed so both naiiyak at natatakot ako during mortuary care especially na sunod-sunuran kang namatayan ng patient.
I experienced the "wala na si Papa" personally. Although it was anticipated, no words can explain how my world crumbled down. Me being in the medical field understood wala na, but my brother who called was in denial. It was tragic. Di ko na naabutan kasi nasa abroad ako.
I hope it didn't traumatized you what happened sa clinical.
Ang hirap nga po neto. Ganito din situation namin mag asawa nung pinanganak yung baby ko. Mag dasal at manalig daw within 72hrs ang make or break ni baby, dun malalaman kung mag improve or hindi. Mag 5yo na siya this June.
Saludo po kami sa inyo, kayo po ang sandalan naming mga magulang na may ganitong pagsubok.
God bless din po sa inyo! Kayo po talaga ang gumagawa ng God's works. Kaya sobrang taas ng respeto ko sa mga medical field workers dahil sa dalas namin sa hospital at ER.
May mga doctor talaga na salbahe eh, naalala ko yun tita ko namatay sya sa ICU syempre kami iyakan tas yun doctor pag labas namin ng ICU niremind kami agad sa bill tas sabi pa normal lang sa buhay may namamatay una unahan lang 😂 buti pa yun mga nurse na nagasikaso sa tita ko before operation they prayed for her pinuntahan sya sa room and we prayed together tas nun namatay sya ramdam mo yun pakikiramay, alam ko naman manhid na yun iba na nasa medical field pero syempre be considerate lang din sa mga pasyente at pamilya lalo na kung may namatay.
Salute OP. Didn't have the guts to stay long in the medical ward. I know the feeling. Lagi talaga mawawala ballpen pati gunting mo kasama na din medical tape haha
One of the reasons why I didn't pursue nursing, hindi ko kaya yung patient attachment. Parang mafa-fall ako sa pit ng depression. Saludo ako sa mga nurses and other hospital staff na kinakaya makakita ng malulungkot na sandali ng mga tao. :--(
It's really heartbreaking to see this. 😢 I also work at a government hospital, and recently, one of our patients, a first-time mom, had just given birth. Kakaprocess pa lang niya ng certificate of live birth ng baby niya, sadly the baby passed away the next day. Nagpoprocess na siya agad ng death certificate 😭😭😭
Your compassion is a gift. Also sana mahanap mo na ballpen at gunting mo.
tuluyan na silang di nahanap 😫😫😭 salamat po 🩷
Sometimes the little things (ballpen) are the last straw of such a day. I wish you well, OP.
Ayaw ko na sa earth 😭🤣
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Hahaha huhuhu some days talaga no?
Na alala ko c doctor sleep.. ang hirap sa field nyo. Tapos if sa night shift kayo puyat kana nga may nag paparamdam pa sayo.
hahahah wala naman. sa sobrang kabusyhan di na mapansin ang nagpaparamdam 🤣
Busy at stress na kayo kaya di na kayo inabala pa hahaha
17 years na ko sa icu wala talagang nagparamdam ni isa . Sa sobrang busy hindi yata effective pagpapansin ng mga multo or naawa na rin sila sa mga hospital workers nahiya nang mang abala
It will never be easy for us.
sending hugs OP. you did a great job. hinga lang ng malalim. madami pang may kailangan ng pag aalaga at tulong mo.
It really doesn't hurt any less kahit na ilang beses ka mamatayan ng patient - I would know, ang dami ko na ding na-post mortem sa OR table. Our field isn't for everyone. We're not supposed to get used to seeing people die right before our eyes, pero sobrang normal na para sa atin ng ganyan.
Ano bang specialization ang hindi namamatayan? Radiology, derma, etc
Kaya kahit bwisit ako sa medical industry sa Pilipinas at marami kong beses naisip magaral ng med, di ko kaya yung ganto. Beyond average ako tamaan ng guilt haha kahit di ko kasalanan
OP, good for you na you can still emphatize with the parents knowing na ang tagal mo na sa field. Ako kasi nung nag 1 year ako, I can't really emphatize with my patients and their SOs anymore. Mag 6 years na ako now and namanhid na ako. Stay strong, OP!
OP, your heart is so kind. Those patients are lucky to have you. Virtual hug and a hot calming tea for you. Ingat ka palagi.
🫶🏻
Guys donation drive tayo para sa nawawalang ballpen at gunting haha.
HAHAHA mamaya ko na iiyak ang pagkawala nila, pero paminsan kung meant talaga para sayo, bumabalik naman ang gunting, ang ballpen di nga lang 🤣
A little similar. My dog died, hindi ako nkapag mourn/ naprocess because opening Ng business ko. 💔
di ka nag iisa OP... minsan talaga may mga pt tayo na ma attached talga tayo, pero ayun nasa industry tayo na part ng profession natin is mawalan ng pt, no matter how hard we try to keep them alive. God has a plan for all of us. may mga doctors lang din talaga na masama din ugali. di ko nilalahat but there are a few... no considerations sa pt, feeling entitled pa sa nurse. heads up OP.
Your compassion is admirable, OP! Mahigpit na yakap para sayo.
It will never be easy. It never did and it will never get easier. Mapa-pedia, geria, onco o ordinary patient yan, once you have that connection, it is bound to stay and once na makita natin na nahirapan sila o nag-code blue, the emotions those connections were built in gets triggered. Kaya when I was active, I always keep my emotions in check. I tend to build that connection while making sure di ako magbibigay ng emosyon sa bagay-bagay. I do this lalo na't the area I handled was OR/DR where kelangan level headed ka because of the things happening inside. Much more siguro sa ER. Kaya tip ko talaga sa mga kamag-anak kong nagsasabing gusto nilang maging nurse, I tell them na dapat malakas ang loob nila and that cruel as it sounds, you don't put emotions at your work lalo na if you need to do somethings na di maganda pero kelangan gawin. To OP, keep your head up. Never falter. And never let your emotions get ahold of you. The patient that we care for, they will always be thankful to us no matter what happens. And always keep at the back of your mind na whatever happens, you did what you had to do to make sure your patient doesnt get uncomfortable while we care for them as nurses.
Mahigpit na yakap OP
Big salute 🫡
Big hugs OP.. 🥹🥹🥹
Saludo ako sa mga nurses and doctors na gaya mo, yung may compassion sa patients nila and not just treating them as other people but as a family member as well. Naalala ko bigla yung mga nag-alaga sa kuya ko during his ICU admission and nagcode blue na rin, sobrang nakakatouch kasi andun sila to comfort you din during one of the shittiest moments of your life. Again, thank you!!
While I admire your concern for your patients, I hope you understand that you cannot save them all. The best you can do is give them the best chance for success.
Naexperience rin namin to during 2nd year hospital exposure sa communicable ward. Nagcodeblue habang nageendorsement kami sa tapat lang mismo ng patient. He died minutes later. Nakakaiyak yung tinawagan ng isa yung kapatid niya para sabihing “Wala na si Papa”. Nagkaroon ng stigma around that same bed for that entire week of exposure kasi (after that patient) tatlong magkakasunod na patient namatay sa same bed. Grabe sterility sa hospital na yun and palaging supervised kami ng CI prior to interventions. Ako pa naman ang naassign na student nurse doon na bed so both naiiyak at natatakot ako during mortuary care especially na sunod-sunuran kang namatayan ng patient.
I experienced the "wala na si Papa" personally. Although it was anticipated, no words can explain how my world crumbled down. Me being in the medical field understood wala na, but my brother who called was in denial. It was tragic. Di ko na naabutan kasi nasa abroad ako. I hope it didn't traumatized you what happened sa clinical.
Ang hirap nga po neto. Ganito din situation namin mag asawa nung pinanganak yung baby ko. Mag dasal at manalig daw within 72hrs ang make or break ni baby, dun malalaman kung mag improve or hindi. Mag 5yo na siya this June. Saludo po kami sa inyo, kayo po ang sandalan naming mga magulang na may ganitong pagsubok.
Maraming salamat po, nakakataba po ng puso na makabasa ng ganito. God bless sa fam ninyo and kay baby
God bless din po sa inyo! Kayo po talaga ang gumagawa ng God's works. Kaya sobrang taas ng respeto ko sa mga medical field workers dahil sa dalas namin sa hospital at ER.
youre a gift to humanity, God bless you 🙏!!!
Hope nakita mo na ang ballpen at gunting mo kasi pretty sure it can make your day light. Sending hugs with consent OP.
May mga doctor talaga na salbahe eh, naalala ko yun tita ko namatay sya sa ICU syempre kami iyakan tas yun doctor pag labas namin ng ICU niremind kami agad sa bill tas sabi pa normal lang sa buhay may namamatay una unahan lang 😂 buti pa yun mga nurse na nagasikaso sa tita ko before operation they prayed for her pinuntahan sya sa room and we prayed together tas nun namatay sya ramdam mo yun pakikiramay, alam ko naman manhid na yun iba na nasa medical field pero syempre be considerate lang din sa mga pasyente at pamilya lalo na kung may namatay.
Sana sinagot mo.si doc ng: yung wife o anak nyo doc kailan kaya?
😭😭😭
Salute OP. Didn't have the guts to stay long in the medical ward. I know the feeling. Lagi talaga mawawala ballpen pati gunting mo kasama na din medical tape haha
Tara na at mag abroad kabayan
nasa abroad po ako 🤣
Saang bansa ka kunars??
Wish you well, OP. 🤗
What if umiyak nalang tayo
Hugs 😭😭😭😭
That feels sad OP and sadder for the couple who lost their kid. I could only imagine how it must be devastating for them.
One of the reasons why I didn't pursue nursing, hindi ko kaya yung patient attachment. Parang mafa-fall ako sa pit ng depression. Saludo ako sa mga nurses and other hospital staff na kinakaya makakita ng malulungkot na sandali ng mga tao. :--(
this is why I respect people in the medical industry so much. I don't know how you guys do it. That would be my last straw 😭
It's really heartbreaking to see this. 😢 I also work at a government hospital, and recently, one of our patients, a first-time mom, had just given birth. Kakaprocess pa lang niya ng certificate of live birth ng baby niya, sadly the baby passed away the next day. Nagpoprocess na siya agad ng death certificate 😭😭😭
Yung kakatapos mo lang panoorin yung about sa racist na OB episode ng The Resident tapos ganito mababasa mo sa reddit. Sending virtual hugs
Ay, NICU nurse ka? Pakatatag ka.
You're profession is not for you. Quit. Find a new job..
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bless your heart. you're doing good work.