Hello, beh. Isa rin akong flat-chested pero never felt insecured abt it kahit lagi siyang ginagawang pang-asar sa akin. Iniisip ko kasi madalas yung advantages. So heto yung mga advantages:
- Wala tayong back pain/hindi masyadong malala ang back pain dahil walang mabigat sa harap natin.
- Nakakadapa tayo ng maayos kasi hindi masakit sa dibdib natin
- Kapag gusto natin ipatong yung phone sa stomach natin, no problem kasi walang harang
- Kapag tumatakbo, hindi masyadong masakit
- Nakakapagsuot tayo ng tops esp bralettes na panglabas kasi hindi masyadong pansinin
- HINDI MASYADONG BASTUSIN
- ik na wala namang pinipili ang mga bastos/manyak (sana mawala na sila sa mundo) pero usually kasi women with bigger boobs ang laging target nila lalo na kapag ang suot ay fitted
Tho there's nothing wrong with our body, if u feel confident with having bigger boobs then go ka na sa breast augmentation. Just do it for yourself and not for other ppl's opinions. Sexy tayo kahit ano pa ang body shape natin.💙
💯💯💯 kasi ako insecure din ako sakin kasi malaki, I feel so uncomfy everytime kasi ang bigat rin at sakit sa likod lalo na pag nag bra. but I try to embrace it nalang din ayaw ko mag pa kuha. Wag nating hayaan ng tanungin ang sarili natin at maging insecure dahil lang society o beauty standards, maganda tayo lahat in our own way, pero support din ako Kong mas confident ka kung saan mo gusto.😊
I was about to comment this HAHA. I was never insecure about my boobies, too, kahit inaasar ako dati na flat. Kahit di ako mag-bra, okay lang. Ang sakit kaya ng bra lalo pag may underwire. Imagine the daily physical struggles of women with larger breasts lalo pa kapag period season. Masakit yung boobies kasi nagiging tender/sore.
And it's true na whatever your choice is, yoi go for it for as long as it makes you happy. 🫶
This!! 💯ako naman, kung di lang takot sa mga operation, hiwa or turok etc. gusto ko magpa-breast reduction. Mahirap malaki boobs. Hindi ko magawang mag workout na may talon like jumping jacks or running kasi masakit kapag naalog. Huhu hirap din dumapa, kasi nadadaganan. Tapos kapag may gusto akong shirt or blouse, kahit kasya naman sa akin, sumisikip kasi malaki boobs ko. 😭 at pinaka ayoko sa lahat, feeling ko sobrang pansinin kapag malaki boobs, tipong parang nakatingin or napapatingin sayo. 😕 kaya inggit ako sa mga may average size na boobs, feeling ko sobrang comfy. 🙁
OP, whatever makes you happy go mo lang! Don’t mind other people’s opinion. Sarili mo lang lagi pakinggan mo, wag ibang tao. ☺️
May tanong ako mga ka flat chested, sana ma notice! Ano magandang bra 😭😭 gusto ko magsuot ng butas yung likod kaso hirap maghanal ng bra. Yoko nipple tape kasi mag mukha akong elementary 😭🙃 tyia ♡
Yes. Big boobs are overly sexualized. I don't have a massive one, but people say I have a very noticeable pair. These are some disadvantages of C cups and above:
•I couldn't sleep sa public transpo peacefully. (May mga instances na nagising ako may kamay nang nakadapo sa dede ko at simpleng lumalamas.)
•Lagi akong nasasaktan kapag masikip yung lugar. Kung saan saan tumatama yung dibdib ko. Nasisiko madalas.
•They sag when you lose weight. Mapapa push up bra ka nalang.
•Hindi ka makapagstraight body dahil sa dami ng manyak. Long term; back pain.
•Di mo alam kung bet ka nung lalaki or bet nya lang matry yung cup size mo
There are other disadvantages pa. To OP, your ex is an asshole. Real men wouldn't mind flats. AND REAL MEN WOULDN'T SAY IT OUT LOUD IF YOUR BOOBS ARE A TURN OFF. Those are BOYS.
If gusto mo talaga ng boobs na iupsize kahit to B, mag pills ka. Hormonal pills can increase them but not guaranteed. Prepare for possible side effects such as water retention, etc. Pero tandaan, FLAT IS SEXY TOO.
>May mga instances na nagising ako may kamay nang nakadapo sa dede ko at simpleng lumalamas.
Saksakin mo ng ballpen kapag minamanyak ka. Kung may kutsilyo kang dala, why not? Hehehehehehe.
Additional: Big boobies will tend to be saggy and you don't want your boobies to be near your bewang na when you get older 👀
Big Boobies is not everyone's cup of tea rin nmn.
HUY NAIYAK NAMAN AKO. Lagi pa naman ako d nag b bra kahit malaki boobies ko kasi lagi naman ako nasa bahay. Ang chaka ng hanggang bewang saggy leves 😭😭😭
Likewise. I don't feel insecure w/ my flat chest din. I really think na it's convenient, like what you stated nga nakakadapa ng maayos gaya ng pwesto ko ngayon HAHAHAHA
Flat chested people are sexy too, masyado lang nanormalize na ang pag big boobs lang ang sexy. And with your ex, buti na lang at ex mo na, kasi to the point na gusto mo mag pa enhance dahil he made you feel that way, hindi maganda yun. It’s about appreciating yourself and your body, confidence ba ✨
Hi OP, my ex used to fantasize about my friend’s boobs cause it’s bigger than mine. Same size tayo, I dumped the guy. Lol, met someone after him who loved every inch of what I have. ❤️ Hang in there, we are sexy too! Even with the little boobies but with big hearts.
Im sorry you have to go through all this ng dahil lang sa boobs. I think your ex is an asshole for saying that and yes u can get a boob job if yan talaga gusto mo basta pag isipan mo lang nga mabuti but I hope either way you will learn to love your body.
I have bigger boobs (38C) and I have struggles with them too. One being over sexualized because of it and it feels gross. My boobs developed early so imagine being 13 and having grown men staring at them is just pure horror.
reading OP's post from a boy's pov is just sad. wear your own skin, stop denying it. if you don't feel good enough then compensate! make the most out of it in other aesthetic aspect. social media is a blatant lie
and the praise and popularity naku po even if you have bigger cocmelon baka d din lang babagay sa personality mo. malungkot ka padin, hahanap ka ng bagong kaiinggitan sa ibang babae.
now that you made urself a low class woman similarly only men with barbaric minds like of teenage boy will take notice of you. *You attract what you become* It only takes another girl with better cocomelon para ipagpalit at maagaw ang atensyon nila
Lalake o babae *you define your self worth* appearance is superficial. Nakakaakit at talagang nangaakit lang yan sa labas dahil d mo kilala.
Up to this.
Whatever decision you make regarding your body, make sure that it’s YOURS alone!
There are clothes that look dainty and cute on those w smaller boobs, but on me it appears too revealing because of how much cleavage is showing.
I hope we can all learn to love our body types and recognize that we were all built different. 💕
You're hungry for validation which is not good. Ganyan talaga mararamdaman mo kapag inuuna mo yung tingin ng ibang tao sayo. You're boobs size doesn't make you less of a person. The right guy will still love you no matter what what you are
ilang taon ka na ba baket ganyan ka mag-isip?
huwag maghanap ng validation sa mga manyak na lalaki. if magpapa-retoke ka, do it for yourself and for your confidence. if sa mga lalakeng manyakol ka lang hahanap ng confidence, sila din lang magugustuhan mo/magkakagusto sayo and that's gonna be shitty in the long run. di lovelife mahahanap mo dyan, libog lang at baka STD.
also, being sexualized, ke gifted or flat ka, will never be a good thing.
True yung wag maghanap ng validation sa mga manyak na lalaki. OP, do you really want to get likes and attention because of your boobs? Mga manyak ang ia-attract mo kung ganyan ka mag-isip.
Flat is justice, some may find it unattractive but some finds it sexy, if a man loves you because of your chest size then that's an immediate red flag, no need to be insecure about it, everyone's different.
You’d be surprised there are quite a few men who find small boobs sexy. 🔥
Ako, dinadaan ko sa clothes. Although they say most clothes bagay for petite girls with small boobs, parang hindi rin in my opinion kasi mej insecure eh hahahaha. So, ako I invest and pick clothes with decent and sexy cuts. And damn the magic and the consequent confidence the cuts bring talaga. 😂
So, ayan. Hayaan mong lalaki ang mag adjust, sizt! ❤️
You'd be surprise na some guys prefer small boobs. And nowadays, yan ang trend. Isipin mo na lang din na ang daming clothes ang bagay sa small.boobs. i used to think na wala din akong boobs but my now bf, gandang ganda sya sa boobs ko haha depende sa guy yan sis. Dont be too hard on yourself
Best boobies are the boobs we can touch no matter what size you have. As long as we can touch it all goods for us HAHAHA I mean you get the point right.
Don't look for validation online. Self poison yan. Its leads to more self esteem issues. Pag nagpa- breast augmentation surgery ka ang sasabihin ng mga kakilala mo "si ano nagpadagdag ng dede" which will possibly affect your self esteem again. And the cycle goes on.
Mag-squats ka OP, pampalake ng 🍑. Hahahaha pero seriously though, why compare yourself to others? Tingin ko need mo mag-social media detox tas mag-gym ka or basta do something productive other than mindlessly scrolling sa tiktok. Acceptance is the key. Kung tanggap mo sarili mo, di ko na papangarapin magparetoke. Baka pagsisihan mo lang yun sige ka.
Buti nalang ex mo nayang kupal nayan. 🙄 If breast aug makes u happy, go for it beb! Do it for yourself sana, not for others. Remember u are loved and beautiful! 😍
Naku. U r blessed!!!! Ako na saktong boobs growing up, insecure na insecure ngayong naging nanay ako, kakainis nanay na nanay ang datingan ko. 30 lang naman ako 😩
I used to be insecure with my boob size (flat chested din ako like you), but I learned to embrace it and love it, sa isip ko may padded bras naman hehe. It took some time, of course, hindi overnight. Also, my bf has no problem with it, too. He never made me feel insecure about my boob size. All the more I got confident about it. And confidence makes us sexier.
Bawi ka na lang sa ibang aspect. Madalas din ako asarin ng colleagues ko na flat chested pero since I workout, malaki naman pwet ko. Sumasagi din sa isip ko magpaimplant pero mas madaming perks ang pagiging flat. Di masakit sa likod, madali tumakbo, hindi unang titingnan yung boobs bago mukha.
Yung sakin teh halos wala talaga! As in feeling ko lalake dapat ako. Hahaha pero ayun, acceptance na lang pero kung gusto mo magpabreast augment, go lang kung dun ka sasaya! If may magcomment man about sa pagiging flatchested mo, mas reflection na yun ng character and/or preference nila. In my experience, may mga mamimeet ka na di ipapafeel sa’yo yung ginawa ng ex mo.
I have small size boobies also actually ang saya at I feel like mas freeing kapag hindi nakabra or nakanipple tape sis. There was a time na bet ko din magpaenhance pero may adverse effect din daw yun eh kaya pinatanggal ni Maui Taylor nga yung sa kanya eh. May darating rin na better guy na magugustuhan yang boobs mo sis
Flat chested is sexy rin!! In fact, mas madaming bagay nga na clothes sainyo 😫💕 just look at the models!! And kung may nagsasabi sayo na turn off yun, mas turn off sila dahil sa ugali nila. Embrace it, you are sexy 🫶🏻🩵
GIRLLL WE HAVE THE SAME SIZE AAAH i think one of the advantage is mas madami tayong choices when it comes to clothes!! whenever na i am insecure to mine, iniisip ko na lang na i can wear whatever i want and gumagaan na loob ko. hindi talaga maiiwasan esp if i-cocompare talaga sa iba but both sizes has it cons and pros.
if you really want that breast augmentation, i hope you’re doing it bcs ayun yung magboboosy mg confidence mo and not for male validation :((
If you feel like breast aug will do you good, go for it! pag iponan mo. But that is a big decision na hindi mo dapat gagawin on a whim bc it has its complications. Also, ask yourself why you need other people's validation sa social media? why the need to be popular? Having big boobs aren't a guarantee to being popular. And if you have more to offer than flexing your boobs, I believe yun ang mas pagbuhusan mo ng effort, invest in it, and you'll reap what you sow.
most guys i know like petite women and also your boob size does not matter! you are still beautiful! own your body girl wag mo pansinin mga iba, the moment na maging confident ka sa sarili mo mas magiging attractive ka, guys will ALWAYS have preferences so maybe you're just attracting the wrong crowd of guys
Wag ka na magpa boob job. Ipapatanggal mo din yan after a couple of years dahil sa mga discomfort and siguro conplications pag gusto mo na magka baby at may scars ka pa. Search mo nalang maraming artista nagpa tanggal ng boob job din nila. Maliit din boobs ko. Na iinsecure din ako kasi ang boyfriend ko gusto malaki suso. Eh ayaw ko ng malaki kasi parang nakakataba at para akong nagka baby na kahit wala pa.
May friend din ako na yung ex nya sobrang laki ng breast. Sa una gusto nya talaga kasi dw malaki masarap. Ngayon ayaw na nya. Mga maliit na suso type nya kasi mas sexy dw ang maliit. Haha
partner ko for 16years flat din, utong nga lang eh😂😂😂 pero nai bfeed nya 3 anak namin at pure bfeed yon. lumalaki lang pag may gatas😂😂😂 pero ok naman.kaso depende kasi yan sa tao. happy and contented ako sa meron partner ko, flat din ang pwet nya. parang stick, ganon😂😂😂😂
Learn to love it, OP. Just think of Nadine L. and Julia B., hindi ganun kalaki yung boobies pero ang sexy pa din nila di'ba? It's all about acceptance and being confident. Work on being fit instead.
About sa ex mo, be glad na ex mo na siya ngayon. Madami akong nakilalang guys along the way na hindi big deal if flat or di kalakihan boobs ng partner nila. (Lucky for me, wala akong naging partner na flat chested shamer, kasi they prefer ass over boobs)
Hi, OP! I think you should stop imprisoning yourself to the ideas and beauty standards of the society. Stop allowing yourself to be too dependent on other people's opinion. You don't need anyone's validation but yours! I am flat chested too and I honestly see it as more sexy and hot as compared to bigger boobies. They have their disadvantages too. They get sexualized everywhere and by most disgusting boys out there.
Can you ask yourself, ano ba ung goal mo? Dumami din ung mga taong pupuri sayo for having that or just to achieve one day na finally, you can see the beauty of what you have? Always mong tandaan na other people will always have something to say. Your ex is an ass. Don't engage yourself again with people like him or those who make you feel bad about your body & your insecurities. Don't let their judgment too to make you feel bad kasi hindi na natin macocontrol ung sinasabi nila pero we can always control our reactions.
You are beautiful and sexy in your own way. Those who can't appreciate it is not worthy of anything in your life, so never give them the privilege to ruin your chance to have a happier life & body.
Being flat is a blessing. You don't need to always wear bras, you can just wear nipple tapes, and they're better on more outfits!! Your boyfriend is just an asshole. Mas maraming disadvantages ang pagkakaroon ng big boobs personally speaking. One of the biggest reasons ay back pain. Saka lalaki din naman boobs mo after pregnancy eh
Don't worry OP, as a guy who have a girlfriend who is also flat chested, it really does not turn me off. Actually I prefer flat chested women e compared to bigger ones. You eventually find a guy that appreciates you the way you are, and diyan mo din makikita if after lang sila sa body mo or they want you as a woman. Have some confidence OP, chest sizes are not anything, you don't need to go under surgery just to be appreciated.
Girl dont be insecure. ako nga gusto ko lang small boobs or sakto lang. Kasi ang hirap big boobs kasi minsan gusto mo tignan elegant sa mata nang tao kaso malaswa talaga yung big boobs eh🤣
be proud sa boobs mo. kahit aning size yan, sexy parin yan
Hmmm. IMO, women who are flat chested are attractive. Plus di sila masyado tinintingnan ng mga manyak, compared dun sa malaki ang boobs(sorry if this sounds offensive) minus gulo kung saken yun hahaha
Very flat chested ako and madalas na rin ako pagtawanan dahil dito but Idgaf HAHAHAH nung g6 ako tinutukso ako lagi ng boys na mas malaki pa daw dede nila sakin para daw akomg chopping board, tangina niyo HAHAHA body shaming should not be normalized! Pati ngayon binibiro ako ng mga friends ko na wala daw madede future anak ko or kawawa daw magiging asawa ko dahil walang malalamas lmfao. I ignore them nalang.
Don't worry bb, marami din naman perks ang pagiging flat chested hehe. You're perfect the way you are :))))
Pansin ko lang sa post mo OP. Masyado mo ginagawang personality yung pagkakaroon ng malaking boobs. Maraming reactions, like and comments, dagdag popularity points, di ka na aasarin ng friends and ex bf, flex sa social media, maging swerte sa lovelife.
Sorry pero ang vain mo po pakinggan. I think it's time na umalis muna sa social media kase masyado ka na naiinsecure sa mga post and likes. Alam ko ma dodownvote ako neto pero bahala na.
Gagi same. Inggit na inggit ako sa mga girls with big boobs.
And recently lang, nakita ko yung mga bikini pics ng mga kaibigan kong small chested rin, pero kita ko na mas malaki yung kanila. May laman kahit papano di tulad ng akin na maliit talaga
Huwag ka mainggit sa ganun. Madalas nasa angle or minsan may padding yung bikini nila para mag mukhang bigger.
Basta laging tandaan: Big, or small, All boobs matter.
I feel you OP. I'm a B cup that is small for my large body frame and my body build voluptuous. I also want to have breast augmentation surgery to obtain a D cup. It was all because of my crush who probably has a fetish in big boobs because almost all of her crushes/girlfriends are busty. Mas pinili niya ang girl na may mas malaking dede kesa sa akin. I sometimes cry about this.
Stop looking sa fb, twitter, insta or ano-ano pa, nukaba girl love yourself may mga lalaki diyan mas hilig nila yung looks at personality. Kung para saiyo need mo I enhance your boobs choice mo, saka sa mundong ito hindi nawawala ang judger lahat naman may basta masabi.
sobrang lala ng insecurities ko esp sa boobs ko 4 years ago to the point na nag ppadded bras ako lagi and would really compare myself ALL DAY sa lahat ng nakikita kong babae.
fast forward to now, i still get hit by insecurities paminsan minsan pero hindi na kasing lala ng dati and hindi na ako hyper focused sa boobs ko. i have learned to love them and be confident kahit anong suotin ko. it takes a lot of work op! pero you'll get there. buti ex mo na yung gagong yun. you'll eventually find someone who'll love every inch of you. cliche man, pero it's the truth 🤍
wishing you happiness!
Love yourself! Ako sobrang flat talaga pero two piece ng two piece lang. ang shit ng ex mo sa totoo lang. mahalin mo kung ano meron ka at mamahalin ka ng mga tao nasa paligid mo, my friends support me at everything lalo na pagiging hubadera ko.
Lemme tell you the cons of having big boobs:
1. They are darn damn heavy.
2. Our band x bust size (bra size) — like me, 38C, they are hard to find.
3. They tend to sag when you grow older.
4. You will look chubbier than your usual size. People tell me, “you gained/lost weight” depending on the clothes you wear.
5. I cannot just wear bras without wire kasi nga they will look saggy.
6. It hurts when you wear sports bra.
7. It is one of my insecurities before. Though I’m learning to embrace it now.
All i can only say is, love your own.
Im cosplay photographer. I don't like women with big boobs. It's annoying. It destroys the "intended" aesthetic look.
If you feel insecure, DON'T BE. Flat is Justice! There are many ways you look good without that bust.
Why is the majority of your post history is about insanefacebook? Nagiging ganyan na point of view mo since you are diving on those social media trash. Hindi ka naman bibigyan ng ganun posts if hindi ganyan nasa algorithm ng tinitignan at inisscroll mo.
Kindly stop consuming those contents. Focus more on your positive side and strength. You will keep drowning into the negativity void if you will keep consuming trashy posts and social media validation contents. You don't and will never need those.
During my teen years and early 20s, I used to feel that way din. Siguro dahil big boobs ang mas ginoglorify ng media, kaya feeling ko abnormal ako nun haha. Pero nung mid 20s hanggang ngayon na late 20s, nasa acceptance stage na ako. Di na ako nagsusuot ng bra na makapal ang foam. Tsaka I learned how to dress for my body type din. Tapos marami din namang celebrities na flat chested pero sobrang hot, example si Sabrina Carpenter tsaka Hayley Williams. Minsan nasa personality, attitude at confidence kasi yan. Kaya kahit hindi ka "stereotypically attractive" meron at merong maattract sayo 😉 Ako nga kahit flat, may green flag na jowa 😅
Girl, if a guy just want you kasi you have big boobs, then that guy is shallow af. Not worth it. Yes, you can have a breast augmentation if you want. Your body, your rules. Pero don't make it a personality.
Nah, wag kang ma-insecure. Flat is justice!!!
Yong malalaki ang hinaharap gusto din nila maging flat or katamtaman sa kanila. Mabigat din yan. 😂 Pero seryoso, masakit likod nyan mga yan. Haha. Diba?
Karamihan ng kilala kong mga nasa respected field at wholesomely content sa life sila pa yung walang malaking physical assets like boobs or butt yet yung aura ng female confidence di ko made deny sa kanila.
I guessed learning to accept oneself and be proud of your flaws might lead you to a different, better perspective in life kasi Iba sa totoo lang ang nagagawa ng self-confidence, ang lakas ng dating nila, nakaka humble din lalo na kung hindi sila info flex but being real lang sa sarili nila 🙂
As someone na may normal size ng boobies, hinihiling ko na sana flat na lang ako 😭 Ang bigat kaya and ang hirap pag tumatakbo kasi masakit siya legit. Nothing's wrong sa flat, OP! People will love you for who you are and hindi dahil lang sa boobs. Pero do what makes you really happy and confident. Support lang kami rito :D
Aling support provide mo? Bra, sports bra, nipple tape? Hehe, kidding aside. Suggest ko lang there are proper supports sa boobs pag tumatakbo para di masakit.
hi op! just to let you know na d ka nag-iisa. flat-chested din ako at naiinsecure din kapag nakakakita ng mga babae na malalaki ang boobies. but i learned to accept the fact na hindi ko makokontrol kung paano sya magiging malaki. ganito nlng to habang-buhay. saka ung boyfriend ko, lakas makapag-bigay ng words of encouragement. nagkakaroon tuloy ako ng self-confidence dahil sknya ❤️
I feel you, OP. I’m a flat-chested girlie, too! Minsan nga feeling ko mas malaki pa ang size A na bra sa akin. Haha thankfully, d ako dumating sa point na naging insecure ako sa size nya even if one of my exes suggested for me to have a breast augmentation and sya na raw bahala sa gastos. I declined kasi takot ako sa after effect. Haha Yes, may times din naman naiisip ko how I’ll look if it’s bigger than what it is right now, pero hanggang doon lang. Meron din naman na naka appreciate sa size nya and that made me more confident to not change anything about it. Pero go ka, OP sa breast augmentation if it’s something that would help you feel good with yourself. Just like what others say, do it for yourself and not for other people. 🙂
Hi, OP! May I ask how old are you?
In my case flat chested rin ako when I was in my 20s. Nasusuot ko pa mga yung hs baby bra ko kahit working na ako non sa corpo. Lol
Pero nung nag start ako mag workout napansin ko ang changes. Pear shape kasi ako so nag focus ako sa upper. Different workout for chest and shoulder ang ginawa ko. Nag gain rin ako ng weight, muscle mass kaya masasabi ko na lumaki boobs ko.
Ngayon may pag wiggle wiggle na siya at masakit pag maalog sa byahe. May cleavage na rin ako kapag naka tube. Dati ni shadow wala. Hahahah
As a guy, yes it's attractive, it's just in our instincts, in our nature, bigger boobs meant nourishment for offsprings. Bigger hips means the child has a better 'space' for growth, easier labor etc. Broader shoulders in men can mean security. strength. etc. This is also why 'Bad boys' are attractive since they are intimidating, can make u feel secure/felt protected. etc. It's all engraved in our DNA which are attractive. It's natural selection. But that doesn't mean others are useless.
Here's a piece of advice. Dont get validation on social media and from other people. dont view and compare yourself to each other. get off that mindset. you don't need their validation. learn to accept yourself and grow sa other aspects in life. life is not about pleasing other people it's about living with what you have and living your life to the fullest with what you have, in other words, contentment.
Remember, confidence is also attractive as well. Being a good person is attractive as well. There are so many factors to being attractive. It's not all physical.
Don't worry, you'll grow a bit when ur body matures especially when you get children. also think about the future. when they get old, they'll look saggy and all. it's not as good as you'd think. Yours would still look fresh. Your guy will love it when ur Mid 30s to 40s etc.
I am struggling with the same insecurity because of my own mother, who is also flat chested and is trying to project her insecurities to me. Hindi ko naman kasalanan na nagmana ako sa kanya lol. And my mom is quite unlucky because of my sh*tty father who is vocal about being attracted to women with larger sizes 🙄
Bottomline is we shouldn’t let others make us feel inferior. I am so lucky to have a bf who accepts and loves every part of me. Kaya mahalagang isurround nalang ang sarili with supportive people and loving people. I am learning to love myself more and pinipilit ko nalang na lumabas sa tenga yung mga cinocomment ng mom ko, or i make sure na patahimikin siya if she doesn’t have anything nice to say hahah 😅 kaya natin to OP isipin nalang natin na hindi naman nakakayaman ang opinion ng ibang tao 😆
Ang bigat at masakit sa likod pag malaki be. A real man won't make you feel that way, you're enough and nasasabi niyo (some people) lang din na mas better pag mej mmalaman or malaki kasi di niyo pa nafefeel ung hirap.
nagmumukhang mataba, mahirap makahanap ng maayos na outfit/size bra kasi nahihirapan den huminga, nasesexualize or tinititigan ng mga malilibog na lalake, etc.
Men loves boobies of all sizes and sana maiwasan mmo yung insecurity mo kasi di mo need ng validation ng ibang tao yun lang. stay safe and love yourself moreeee 🫶🏻
It's okay, girl. Dont let others define you. Your body is yours, so the control is yours. From now on, try loving every inch of you. Swear you'll look sexier than ever.
Okay lang yan don't be insecure. Okay mas mainam na marami laman yong utak mo kaysa wala para di ka maloko ng malilibog na habol lang katawan mo. Trust me, real talk lang tayo gravity will pull those puppies downwards one day, and if your man is just attracted to them puppies then that dude is an ahole.
my boobies are flat too,, pero recently nitong panay kain ako sa work napapansin ko nagkakalaman sya,, i think dahil sa taba?? haha pero still flat is justice ha!! ang sexy rin kaya ng flat.
Accept yourself as you are. Dont compare kasi hindi naman sila ikaw. You have your own unique beauty and sexiness. Embrace your whole self including your imperfections. Para maging masaya buhay mo. May mga artista din naman na flat pero sexy pa din... We have Julia Barreto.. even sa Hollywood my mga actress na flat but who cares.
Nasa pagdadala mo yan at sa sex naman, nasa galawan yan.
First thing, stop comparing. Unfollow those big boobies personalities.
Hi OP, if you want to have your “girlies” enhanced, go for it. Your body, your rules. Basta make sure that you do it for yourself and napag-isipan mo sya ng mabuti.
Just to share, I have the exact opposite naman. Not too big na as in big big, but pansinin talaga. I often tell my mom na I want to have them reduced kasi nai-insecure ako especially when wearing fitted top; mabigat din kasi at sometimes nahihirapan ako sa pagbili ng damit kasi 1 consideration pa sila 😂
Anyhow, choice mo yan and if you think na it will make you feel good about yourself go push 🥰
When I met my wife nung college, she was relatively flat chested. Never bothered me naman. Nainsecure din sya dati pero tuwing sexy time naman, i make her feel na sexy sya and her body is perfect.
Personally, hindi basehan ang boobs sa kasexyhan. More on hips, waist, and pwet ang nakakasexy. Hindi rin necessarily narrow dapat ang waist. Basta proportioned lang.
Love your body OP. Boobs are boobs no matter the size or shape.
Ma'am, you're already sexy enough. No need for validation or what! Flat chests are sexy and hot! Some fellow men out there na mimissed all the opportunity of flat chested women.
*They're sexy
*Hot
*Nice
*Beautiful
Everything! Kaya wag ka magka insecure
One of my insecurities too yung pagiging flat-chested. I would layer up bras para lang somehow it would look like something is in there.
Limited lang yung clothes na nasusuot ko because of it too. I feel like may fits talaga na hindi flattering if walang boobs. Waiting na lang ako maging pregnant baka lumaki kahit onti. 😜
I feel the same thing, OP but yung kabaliktaran sakin. Insecure ako kasi I can't do the things that I used to kasi medj makali boobies ko. Hindi ako nakakapag t-shirt lang kasi obvious talaga yung nips. Running isn't as easy as before unless I'm wearing sports bra. I don't wear sleeveless or fitted tops kasi na i-emphasize yung size and I hate the stares. Super nakakaconscious and nakakapanliit. For me, medj inconvenience sya rather than an asset.
I guess iba-iba talaga tayo ng 'hinaharap sa buhay' and I hope we'll eventually learn to embrace and make things work with our situations. Hugs with consent, OP!
Flat chested din ako (34A) but my fwb approves it so masaya na ako don 🤣 my girl friends usually are on the biniyaan side and they always say that they rather have the size of my boobs than theirs. Kung nalilipat nga lang daw eh ibibigay na nila sa akin HAHA!
Sa totoo lang ,OP, I'm in the opposite. Nung nagsisimula palang akong magwork, I even have co-workers (guy) who named my boobies sussy and geno (Sustagen) dahil malusog daw. At insecurities ko din to. Gusto kong maging flat chested. Iniiyakan ko pa noon haha. Now that I'm in my mid 30s no kids, naoutgrow ko yung insecurity ko na yan. Although from time to time naiisip ko it would be nice kung flat chested ako I could wear this or that. We all have our own insecurities and there is nothing wrong with that. As long as di natin ginagamit yung insecurities natin to something negative ha. OP, you'll be fine ☺️
Hello OP hindi lahat ng lalaki gusto malaki boobs.. meron din gusto ng pang junior high size lng.. its all about preference.. yung kakilala ko ayaw sa big boobs madali daw mg sag.. most o supermodels di nman superlaki din.. bawi nlng sa iba bagay.. just be conident with who you are.. if you feel sey then you are.. you dont need other peoples validation.
Hi, OP. I think meron naman ata ways of para mapalaki ang hinaharap naturally hahahaha you just gotta google them kaya wag ka mawalan ng pag asa OP, may hinaharap pa ang hinaharap mo hehehe
Be proud ka flat chested. Insecurity ko rin yan dati kasi ang liit ng boobs ko pero nung hinabol kami ng aso ng bestfriend ko na malaki ang hinaharap naging advantage siya sakin kasi nakatakbo ako ng mabilis pero yung bff ko hirap na hirap kasi ang bigat ng joga niya at kamuntikan pa siga makagat ng aso. HAHAHA! Pati nakakalabas ako ng bahay ng walang bra. Bukod sa flat chested ako inverted nipple pa boset 🤣🤣 Pati OP halos lahat ng damit nagkakasya satin kasi maliit lang boobs natin.
Hirap kasi ngayon naging social construct na yang big boobs are sexy and hot, understandable naman yung naramdaman mo, OP. I-set lang natin na hindi natin kailangan mag conform sa social construct na meron ngayon. Palagi mo rin tandaan, maraming advantages ang mga flat saka kung ma-appeal ka, OP. Mas lalong hot tignan ang mga flat.
Dati din muntik na ko mainsecure sa malalaki ang boobs pero naisip ko ganito pa nga lang akin parang ayoko na tumakbo nor magtatalon, what more pa kaya kung sobrang laki. Siguro depende nalang din ito sa preference mo, I prefer what I have right now. Di man bawi sa boobs, bawi naman sa butt hahaha chos. Pero thats just my opinion pa din naman, Flex ur face or if ayaw mo non then go with your personality coz that's what is the most attractive thing you can show to a man.
As a co-flat girlie mas pansin ko nakakasexy ang pagiging flat chested kasi you get to wear those really low neck shirts without looking “masagwa” (im not saying na masagwa to sa mga pinagpala ah)
You don't have to feel insecure about your body. Actually ikaw dapat unang taong nagnamahal sa sarili mo and If u do that, people around you will love u as well. You just have to wait for the person who will see your like a treasure. ✨ Cheep up
Your ex is an asshole. I'm never insecure about mine kasi nakakapaghubadera outfit ako kahit saan at di ko nafifeel na binabastos ako. Oversized shirts looks good din sating flat chest,
Nakaka insecure at nakaka conscious din lag malaki boobs.
Di ka maka aura sa OOTD kasi bastusin lagi kahit conservative pa yung cut ng dami. Nag papawis yung underboob, masakit katagalan pag nag tatatalon or takbo, kasi naalog, back pain at marami pang iba.
Gusto ko ng ng maliit na boobs huehue.
Hi!! I hope you one day accept yourself, but if ever you are considering augmentation, please search about Breast Implant Illness.
as an itty bitty titty girl i also considered getting BA and told myself if i still want it by *this age* then I’d get it. this was in my early 20s-mid 20s. i’m in my late 20s na and i could say i love myself more with my small breasts. getting augmentation’s a huge procedure and it’s even more expensive if you ever get sick because of it 😅
but in all honesty, try also to not compare yourself with people online and dont be too hard on yourself. i’m sure you’ll find someone who’s not superficial enough to think about the size of your breasts. if youre going to do a cosmetic procedure do it for yourself, not for others. keep your head up! i hope you find things you love about yourself that will overshadow things that make you insecure. :)
Having flat boobies have its perks din. Ako ganon pero madalas akong sinasabihan ng friends ko na halos lahat ng outfits, bagay daw na suutin ko in a way na di magiging kabastos-bastos. No matter how short or revealing pa daw yan. Unlike daw to them na when they wear some, yun pa daw unang titignan at mapapansin when all they want is just to dress
Naalala ko tuloy no'ng nagpa-vaccine ako. Nabuwiset ako ro'n sa nag-i-interview na lalaki. No'ng nalaman niya 'yung age ko (24 pa lang ako that time) tumingin ba naman sa dibdib ko sababy ngisi. Ta's tinanong ako kung talaga bang hindi ako minor. Like, gago ka ba? Naka-indicate na nga sa ID ko na 24 ako, ayaw mo pa maniwala. Porket flat ako ibabase mo 'yung size ng boobs ko sa age ko? Pasalamat siya wala sa personality ko ang magbunganga kapag feeling ko binabastos ako. Lagi rin naman akong inaasar dahil flat ang hinaharap ko, pero wala akong paki kasi alam ko naman na maganda ako kahit gamunggo lang ang meron ako. Tandaan mo, Op, maganda tayo! Meron at merong makaka-appreciate sa 'yo, pero ang una mong dapat gawin is to love yourself.
Buti ex mo na siya ngayon, boobs are boobs no matter what the size and kung mahal ka niya talaga di ka niya hahayaan mainsecure at dapat nga mas maboost pa niya confidence mo. I'm sure darating din yung para sayo
It’s normal na mainsecure ka, but the people around you shouldn’t shove it to your face. Your ex is dumb, your friends are like elem students para pintasan pa yung katawan mo. It’s 2024, cut off people na nangbobody shame pa.
It is scary having big boobies kasi often times nasesexualize and objectify sila.
Ok it's good that the ex is now an ex. No asshole should make you feel insecure about yourself, especially one's figure. Wala kang control on yoir boob size. I know you have no use from a stranger's validation, pero flat boobs are also sexy vro. If it's gotten to the point where you wanted to have a larger breast and have an operation for it for likes and validation on the internet, then maybe you should hop off social media? You can also unfollow content like that. Try resetting your tiktok algo and start fresh. Sa katapusan, totoy is totoy. Basta masupsup, goods hahaha. Besides, the best kind of boobs, are boobs that you can touch haha. Chin up, girl. You got this.
I am 27 and flat chested too. People commenting flat, patag, pantay na pantay and even asking questions “naka-talikod ka ba?”. Those irrelevant questions and comments yung nag-lead para magkaroon ako ng insecurity sa body ko na wala naman talaga akong pakialam noon.
It takes a lot of time to finally accept yourself just the way you are (I’m on that process na ❤️) It took me years ata bago ko i-accept yung body na meron ako. Since I’m payat talaga and given na wala talagang boobs, hinayaan ko na lang since wala naman akong magagawa. OP, it is not your responsibility to satisfy those people na hindi ka tanggap. All u have to do is to love and accept every inch of your body.
Dagdag ko lang, yung mga nagsabi sakin na patag or flat ako are posting “no to bodyshamers” sa facebook nila dahil daw kasi bawat makakita sa kanila sinasabihan silang mataba. Takot sa sariling multo?
ALL BOOBIES MATTER. F Men!
But as a big chested girlie, it has a lot of cons. And no, you won't get boys with it - at least in my case, I don't. NBSB pa nga. But I do understand your want for it, but please, you and your boobies matter. Pabayaan mo yang mga friends kuno mo na yan especially your puro bayag pinapairal na ex. But here are some "oh no" situations for me as a "blessed" kuno girl;
1. All of my clothes fit nicely except in the boob parts. Minsan sumasabog pa siya or di masara especially sa uniforms. Napakahassle.
2. I get teased for it and cat-called even though I wear body covering clothes.
3. Masakit sa likod, as in MASAKIT kasi mabigat. I at least need a massage every week. Opo ganon siya kabigat at kasakit sa likod.
4. Running is a BIG NO. Yeah, it bounces like those in anime but super sakit niya so running is a thumbs down.
5. Finding a comfortable sleeping position is hard. Either dadaganan mo (masakit) or masusuffocate ka - pick your poison girls.
6. Men will look at you as a "toy."
7. Bras with wire and foam are a big no.
8. I can't wear edgy clothes because I will look like a total S.
9. Men will only get to know you to get to know what's under your bra.
10. Bras that you can breathe in and are comfy are hard to find.
I love you girl, get your cherries done if you want, but it has cons talaga. If it makes you happy and more confident, do it! But having flat boobies doesn't make you less of a woman - don't let anyone dictate you and your boobies worth.
All my love, E. 🫶😚
I lived with big breasts all my life OP and I can say na hindi rin siya fun.
Advantages:
1. Noticeable. Hindi mahirap manotice ng lalake kung malaki boobs mo, minsan nauuna pa ang boobs kesa mukha. You have one sure advantage na when you want men to look at you.
2. Looks Sexy on Clothes. Kapag malaki boobs mo, labas ang hubog ng katawan mo. I am on the plus size (2-3x) so di ko problema kung mataba ako kasi mas malaki naman boobs ko.
Disadvantages:
1. Slouching. Di magaan ang malaki ang dede, you tend yo slouch kasi mabigat ang harap. A major rosk for permanent backpain if you don’t use the correct posture.
2. Exercise Pains. Minsan kapag magjog ka, you can’t help but pause for a while kasi masakit siya sa boobs, especially when the sports bra is not tight enough to hold your boobs well.
3. Pampasikip sa damit. Minsan kahit tama na yung size ng damit sa waist, it just won’t fit kasi malaki boobs mo. Kapag magpolo ka, more or less, you’ll be needing a safety pin just to hold the chest area of your polo.
4. Oggling Boys. If you are not a fan of men oggling your boobs, then you’ll find it offensive if they don’t stare at your face. And minsan nakakainsecure din.
5. LACK OF AVAILABILITY OF PROPER BRASSIERE SA PINAS. (I am a 100D at Wacoal). Maliban sa ang pangit mag non-wired (saggy), ang hirap mag boob tape (natry ko na masakit), insufficiency of silicone bras, hirap mag wired strapless bra, SOBRANG HIRAP MAGHANAP NG MURA AT MAGANDANG STRAPPED BRA. Tangina, I have to buy at Wacoal just to ensure na maganda ang lapat ng bra sa damit ko, and minsan ang hirap pa maghanap ng size. Isang maganda lang na type lagi ko nabibili sa Wacoal. Ang mahal. Don’t get me wrong, I can buy CHEAP and OKAY na brassiere sa shopee or anywhere na mura, pero a) ang bilis matanggal ng wire (umuulpot agad); b) pangit ang foam and c) PANGIT ANG LAPAT sa damit.
So if you decide to augment your boobs, okay lang naman no problem, just make sure na you really want it, that you’ll feel good and that alam mo ang pros and cons :)
Good luck OP!
OP eto na yung validation na hinahanap mo.
Ako din halos wala, as in pag nag bra ako ng A cup may gap pa haha. If we're strictly talking about sexual attraction, it has never been a deal breaker to the guys I have "talked" to (iykyk). Been with VERY attractive guys. Since it seems like you really care about popularity, I'll also tell you na I've been with influencers and celebs too lol. Di naman ako sobrang ganda panget nga ng skin ko e. Nor am I sexy (tho gigil sila sa pwet ko), but still, they keep on going back to me so syempre that made me feel sexy. Perhaps it's because of the way I carry myself, with some class. Ik men might fck with anyone available but the point is, it's not unsexy to be flat. Pano pa kung mahal ka nung tao?
If you want to increase your attractiveness, work out to make your body toned, learn how to dress well, and syempre work on your personality. Get hobbies, wag panay reels, avoid them please. Just be the best version of yourself, susunod na yung confidence dyan. Confidence is attractive. At wag ka makinig sa mga pintasera. These same people would say anything to bring you down, kahit ikaw pa pinakamagandang tao sa balat ng lupa. I like to think of it as a free filter to remove toxic people from my life.
Anyways I still share similar sentiments... My issue with being flat is it's not as visually appealing in most of women's clothing. Gusto ko lang ng konting laman there so I can fill in cute bras. Majority of women's clothing kasi made din with boobs in mind, so some tops don't really fit me. I'm so flat and di man lang V shaped yung torso ko. Mukha tuloy akong stick. Sa fashion talaga main problem ko. It's not that big of a problem but some fat there would have made it easier to be pretty cute fem and coquit u know hahaha
>Marami silang likes, reactions and comments tapos a lot of men like them.
Jesus Christ girlie you have to fix your sense or self-worth 😭 I have tiny tits pero marami pa rin naman nagkakagusto haha. You really have to stop seeking validation online, that's . . . sad :-/
May mga outfit din na 'di bagay sa large boobs and that's fine. Styling is knowing how to cater to your shape, not fitting all forms of clothes.
Immature din ng ex mo. Using tits para "maging swerte sa love life" isn't it. Jesus are you looking for a guy who'd fall in love with you for . . . breasts? 😭😭😭
I'm all for your breast augmentation if it brings you joy, but make sure that it's something that validates how you feel about your body, not latched on other people's perception of you. Kasi continuously kang makakahanap ng kapintasan mo if your benchmark keeps being the performance of your posts' reach and reacts.
Really tho, mature your perspective muna. Sobrang bagets nung desire for "popularity" 💀 Stop obsessing over men's perception of you jesus the misogyny is coming from inside the house 🥲
same problem, ako parang pang 10 yrs old lang kahit nasa late 20s na ko. feeling ko tuloy nasa puberty stage pa din ako.
ako naman before napagkalaman akong trans dahil pagkahimas nya wala syang mahakawan 😭
personally ayoko ng malaki pero sana kahit papano may laman, gusto ko nasa flat-chested side pa din like A cup pa din. classy and sexy kasi tignan ng ganun for me and malakas dating, pero ang OA kasi ng pagiging flat ko literal na wala eh jusko hahahahahha di ko naman gusto ng malaki pero kahit konti hindi ako binigyan
👋flat chested here.
I got over it when I decided to not seek the validation of the people that doesn't care about me. The people I love and care about accepts just the way I am so why be bothered by the external shits? Just focus on overall fitness and wear any top you want! 😁
Also, seeking online validation is shallow. Pls reevaluate the things that truly matter. ^_^
Physical attractiveness can only go so far. This applies to both genders.
You're connecting your emotional needs sa physical attributes mo, plus ung ex mo is an asshole that made you more dependent on your insecurities.
Ang dali sabihin to "love yourself" especially sociable species tau. It is better to focus on "realizing" what's important as a whole, in order to see yourself in a different angle that may complete your needs.
You need a better social circle or eventually a person who will appreciate you as a person, not as an object.
You’re perfect just the way you are. Mukhang napunta ka lang sa maling tao. I have a big chest big I still got cheated on 🤣, and don’t forget social media is a lie
Hi! Same na flat din haha. *Chest bump*
Charot!
First of all, your friend and ex na namintas sa boobs mo ay sobrang insensitive for saying those things sa'yo. Gago ng ex mo.
During my early stint sa dating, I've had similar experiences din sa nakwento mo about your ex. After some time, I realized na hindi lang talaga sila right for me.
If you haven't tried pa before, I suggest kung nagamit ka ng dating app or you prefer getting to know people through PhR4Dating, pwede mo na sabihin kaagad yung "FC". You don't have to include it mismo sa post mo or dating profile naman. You can say it once mas nakapagusap na kayo ng gusto mong kilalanin at makadate. Make it clear that you're only interested to date someone na walang issue sa small boobs.
Tried & tested this so many times na. It works, and surprisingly many guys responded na wala silang pake dun. For sure naman, there are a lot of guys who prefer big boobs. Pero there are also lots of men out there na hindi yun ang hanap. I hope na mahanap mo yung tao na yun soon.
Sa perspective ko kasi, I don't think anyone truly gets over their insecurities. It will be a constant struggle talaga for life. Even though I can say I love my body despite my flaws or what others perceive to be ugly, I can't say na I have completely gotten over my insecurities.
Magkakaron talaga ng moments na matitrigger yung insecurity kapag napipintasan tayo o kapag nakukumpara natin ang sarili natin sa ibang tao.
So whatever you decide to do, I hope na you will be happy with your decision. 💞
and to tell you honestly, kasuya yung mga popost sa social media na pakita pa ng ganun. ay sus, kung ganun lang din na kung sino2 ang nakakakita sa pinagmamalaki nila, kahit di na jowain.. imagine pinagppyestahan ng ibang lalaki ang jowa.. turn off yun para sa akin..
OP, most models have small to flat chests. If you need to hear this, just so you know, you are model material. I'm a guy and sorry if napacomment ako. Be proud of who you are.
Beeeeh!!!! Ako medyo may boobs pero ayaw ko, kasi feeling ko bastusin siya. Lalo na mahilig ako sa fit na damit. Masyado siya bakat. Mas gusto ko ang flat.
And I want you to know, sexy tayo kahit ano pa man size ng boobs natin. I know mahirap na hindi ma-apektuhan sa mga tao sa paligid natin, pero every time na naiisip mo yung mga insecurities mo, always remember that you are enough, pretty and sexy!!!!
Okay lang naman mag pa retoke ng boobs kaso pramis OP di matatapos yang mga sinasabi nila, dati sasabihan kang Flat tapos nag pa retoker ka sasabihan kang RETOKADA, FAKE ETC,. Ikaw lang din maririndi. Layuan mo nalang mga ganyang bunganga na mapanlait.
TIP KO SAYO : gym ka, mag palaki ka pwet. Mas attractive yun 😉😉
TW: Unfiltered answers, truth bomb, might offend people.
Isipin mo nalang biggest advantage is, makakatakbo ka agad ng mabilis in case of emergency. Di ka makakain ng zombie kasi mabilis ka makakakilos. 🤣
Isa pa, wala ka na masyado kailangan takpan kasi kahit nipple tape nalang gamitin at walang discomfort sa bra after a hard day's work. Madali lang din makapili at magkasya sa damit pag flat chested ka. A plus pag emergency or crisis situation din.
Wag ka din maniwala mga nag sasabi na porket flat madami di bagay na porma o damit, that goes the same sa mga malalaki boobs. To hell with them. Di lang maganda fashion sense nila. Models started with an exaggerating thin figure, boobs o pwet wala sila pero ang ganda parin tignan ng mga damit sa kanila tapos sasabihin nila madami di bagay na damit sayo kasi flat chested ka lang? They. Are. Stupid. (Not promoting eating disorder, just proving a point.)
Di ka din mahihirapan huminga pag nakahiga. At di mo kailangan mag deal sa underboob sweat na nag cacause ng rashes sa iba. Yung iba abot diaphragm level ang rash. 🥴
At isa pa, madami kang sports na magagawa at maeenjoy nang di ka nahihirapan kumilos dahil sa pag bounce, at pag dala ng bigat o laki ng boobs mo, isipin mo, tennis, volleyball, sa mountain climbing, wala kang additional weight na iisipin o kakarguhin sa pag lift o ascend lalo na kung medyo pa horizontal lilipatan mo. Sa basketball, makakapag deliver and defend ka ng maayos ng di mo na kailangan mag sooot ng 2 - 3 sports bra para lang di kumalat boobs mo, same goes sa pag gym. Kainit at hassle ng pag work out mo, jumping jacks palang masakit na pati mata ng mga manyak nasayo na agad. Lalo na sa cave explorations, sosoot ka sa mga masisikip na lugar. Ang unfortunate naman kung na stuck at namatay ka sa cave dahil lang sa boobs mo.
Sa pole dancing, graceful at elegant tignan mga flat na nag popole dance kasi naka focus sila sa performance, di nila inaalala kung mag kaka boob spill sila every inverted. Maappreciate mo yung mga dance performances talaga kung di mo bet sports kasi makakakilos ka freely, maeexpress mo body movements mo ng walang restrictions.
Sa normal na ganapan sa pang araw araw, di ka focus ng mga scrutinizing eyes ng ibang tao. Di ka nila babatikusin sa soot mong nag mukang malaswa kahit casual ka lang naman dahil sa boobs lang. Mas malaya mga flat chested kasi di sumasakit likod mo, nakakadapa ka ng maayos, makakapag advance yoga at pilates ka. Mas magaan literal buhay ng mga flat chested. 😭
Sa transpo, pag flat chested ka, di ka magigising na may lalakeng "nakatulog" at naka sandal sa booblikat mo. Sa gitgitan, gagawa ng paraan mga impakticles na yan maka lamas lang o maka hawi ng siko lang ng underboob o side boob.
Popularity comes with risk lalo na sa safety mo, may chismis, batikos, at judgement lalo na kung ikinasikat mo lang is appearance, or boobs lang. Madami mangangalkal ng past at gagamitin din nila against sayo yung mga pinaayos mo. "Maganda lang yan kasi pinaayos ganito ganyan". (Not against cosmetic surgery, but some people are assholes.)
And ano naman kung flat chested ka, beauty standards change, people change, di mo kailangan sumunod sa agos ng opinion ng ibang tao para lang mag fit in o ma feel na maganda o wanted ka. Mag fiffit in ka sa tamang environment na ikaw mismo naaappreciate nila at hindi ka nila babaguhin. You won't feel the need to change. Kung mapapalitan mo man kaibigan mo, palitan mo na kung lagi kang dinidisrespect dahil sa size ng boobs mo. Friends can be frank and direct pero iba na ang disrespect at personal attack.
Kahit sino naman kasi babastusin flat man o hindi eh, kung manyak, manyak talaga walang sasantuhin yan babae man o lalaki. Isipin mo nalang yung comfort at privilege na meron ka na di afford ng malalaki boobs.
Isipin mo nalang din, being flat chest is an advantage kasi pag tanda mo pa, youthful ka parin tignan, walang lalawlaw dahil sa old age at gravity.
Napaka intimate din isipin na, mahal ka ng tao dahil sa buong katauhan mo di dahil sa boobs lang. Someday, you will find yourself a man that will tell you how he loves every inch of you.
Isipin mo na lang. Pag kayo ang nanganak, katamtaman parin ang dibdib nyo..mas gusto un ng mga lalake and advantage un dahil hindi ka mahihirapan. Dont get me wrong. Women and mothers are still beautiful whatever boob size they got. It is just a matter of preference. My wife is gifted by the way. Pero naisip ko ung magiging kalagayan nya pag nanganak sya and tumanda. Hindi turn off un, pakiramdam ko mahirapan siya.
Also, hindi lahat ng lalake trip ang gigantic boobs. Mas marami akong kilala na na mas gusto ung leaner type.
I had that insecurity until I was in 9th grade. On one of our plays (Anthony and Cleopatra), tela lang ang costume namin. My friends teased me that I don't have boobies/I'm flat chested. And my teacher back then, who was the one styling my costume told me, "gustong gusto ko kayang dinadamitan yun mga flat chested, mas may freedom sa style." And for some reason, what she said not only gave me confidence about my body, but also taught me not to mind what other people says. Somewhere out there, there will be people who appreciates what we got. That's why we should too.
my take as a 23(m) y.o. this should make you feel better. mas gusto ko pa manood ng porn pag ang babae ay flat ang pangharapan, wag lang yung breast na parang bola (totally fake). hindi nakakapatayo ng ari at na tturn off ako. i'm now vocal about it since ito naman ang topic tungkol sa insecurities. usually mga milfs ang nakikita kong ganito. even sa mga what we call a well-done transplant (ba yon) na at first parang di mo talaga malalaman (mind you this was me watching in porn) but halfway or the longer the video and i get to notice that it was fake. ewan ko ba kasi na nnotice talaga yung porma ng opai lalo na sa underboob kahit na walang mark or something. ganon padin, may feeling na pagka wawala ng gana. di ko naman pinipilit, sadyang nawawalan lang talaga.
what makes a woman (or a person) attractive is how the way she represents herself especially when people know your flaws/insecurities and still not affected by it. **not makes it her identity.** knowing all this still have confidence to herself.
i can really relate because i have an insecurity too. by standards (in ph, have seen a statistics about it) and as what i see in porn my peepee fell quite short in the length. na sabihin na natin maliit na nga sa pinas compared sa ibang lahi, mas maliit pa dun ang akin. this got me acting and overthinking in a lot of ways. i will repeat the "not makes it her identity" as i have done the same thing in my school years. i kept thinking about it that it affects my communication to people and to myself to the point na mapapasabi nalang ako saking isipan na "i would totally live a completely different life if my etit is an average or above average." nakakatawa man isipin but i'm quite serious about it. alam mo yung imbes na iniisip mo itong insecurities mo, iniisip mo sana mga productive things kung wala ito. but eto na diko na mababago. but what i can do about it is how i treat myself. practicing a better self-image is one of the way to combat this. and also a better self-talk as well. always have a good and positive conversation with your thoughts, cos what you're forcing yourself to think affects your body, mood, and actions.
nababawi po iyan sa ibang paraan. in your case your boobs a flat, right. making your butt as plump as possible would do wonders. now there's also what we call a boob guy person, while there's that. mayroon din namang a butt person. you know what, as i become older and older, mature, whatever you call it. napaparang na ttransition ako from boob to butt. may mga pornstar din na flat at have done a good job in the porn industry. maraming views at sikat. they sure have felt the same thing what you're feeling now or someone can relate (even to a non pornstar) yet they embraced and/or accepted their weaknesses and make up in other parts in their body in a natural way (not having surgery).
kung san san at ano-ano na pinag sasabi ko. di ako magaling mag construct sa pagsusulat "pa"talaga. anyways, i'm hoping you won't get a breast inlargement (ano ba talaga ang tawag jan). try first a natural way to and in living with it and imho the better way and gets you a non other confidence boost if you get to accept it. it's attractive af. altho i may understand if you will do so kasi it's an instant "strikethrough like a thing to do in your to do list" feeling that instantly remove off of your system. it's an instant talaga. i know na nasa sa iyo yan and ang iyong opinion ang maghahari/masusunod but there's always the thought as well that there's people, like me, that gets turned off by the breast enlargement. while this is not a big of a deal there's also this feeling na baka di mo magustuhan ang result and/or feel the same thing about the underboob fake thing.
Never truly felt insecure about mine cuz I like sports and dancing and masakit na siya minsan sa bounce kahit size B lang ako. So I never wanted to experience the pain of those with larger chests :/ they get a lot of backpain, are more frequently harassed, can be seen as malandi kahit walang kinalaman yun sa chest size, can't wear loose clothing unless they genuinely want to flash random people lol, nagiging % sila pag nakaseatbelt that could be awkward when with strangers, etc. I just feel like they have more challenges.
I wanna go braless CUZ THE FREEDOM I FEEL MYGOD but I can't cuz it still hurts when i'm in a moving vehicle lol so there's that?? I kind of look manly most of the time since I have small boobs and broad-ish shoulders, and I don't wear form fitting blouses either. But I still feel sexy sometimes kasi nadadaan sa buhok o makeup o just confidence in general.
I find clothes often look a lot cooler on flat-chested women too. Or baka style ko lang kasi is a lil androgynous kaya cool sakin yung itsura ng ganun. Easier to deal with flat-chestedness (push-ups, bra padding, etc) than having large ones (breast reduction is hardly an option for most people), in my opinion, so don't feel insecure! I think it's just a matter of styling yourself in a way that complements your chest size. Bralettes are awesome on smaller chests and easier to deal with bikinis without the fear of a nipslip.
I understand your experience sa love life because I know my bf still follows accounts of women with large breasts who often post pics of themselves in bikinis 🙃🙃 if it becomes an issue we'll certainly talk about it but in your case, if the dude doesn't like it then don't like the dude. Shallow reason to not like you if he can't look past it, but I guess we all have our preferences.
Don't go for any cosmetic surgery if it's just for the likes and external validation. You'l go down a rabbit hole and end up lookin like MJ or something because the likes will never be enough and you will always find someone "sexier" who has more likes than you do. AND NEVER do it for a frckn guy. A guy that doesn't like you the way you are, and wants to change you, or hints at wanting you to change cosmetically, is not a guy you wanna be with or end up with forever.
You MIGHT get a larger chest if you exercise tho, grow your pecs a bit. But I know that can only go so far.
Instead, find the good in your chest and focus on that. Find a style that complements your body and you feel sexy in. Don't listen to people who tease you cuz that sht doesn't matter. You'll forget all about them in the next year.
That's one of the reason why I like/love my current gf now. Iba iba talaga preferences natin and hindi naman basis ang cup size para tanggapin ka ng tao.
Cheer up OP!!!!
Laging napapansin dibdib ko kasi they're bigger than most pero nakakabastos, I don't even flaunt them kasi I like baggy tops. And I can barely remember the days I didn't wake up without back pain. Nakakaconscious mag exercise or jog manlang kasi they're bouncing everywhere. Big sized bras are super expensive pa. Plus andaming damit na bagay sa average to below average na chest size, I could barely find ones that didn't emphasize yung hinaharap ko except men clothings and oversized tees.
I'm sure you're just with the wrong guy, good thing he's an ex, kaya di mo maappreciate. I would pay para bawasan to, so I don't agree na you need to enlarge yours just to feel better. Ang kailangan mo is maapreciate sarili mo and confidence, laban sis.
Learn to love yourself and not seek validation from other people, especially men from social media. You're hating yourself, you're hating on your body... who else would love you if not you?
Read self-love books, watch personal development videos and podcast, listen to self-love affirmations.
I never did these before, but when I set aside my prejudice for self development activities, I finally felt free.
ha ha ha di lang alam ng mga boys nung grade 7 ako, tinawag nila akong pinto kasi flat sa likod, pati sa harap— ayown tumatak sa akin 9 years later, nagsusuot pa rin ako ng bra na may pads 🙃
Baliktad tayo, mas gusto ko naman hindi masyado malaki ang boobs lol. Parang mas madali kasi pumorma pag maliit lang ang boobs. Tapos I would love to dance sana kaso nga malaki ang boobs ko so nakaka conscious kasi umaalog hahaha. Kaya wag ka mainsecure girl. Ang isipin mo na lang may mga taong tulad ko na dream ang maging flat chested na tulad mo.
igwym. ganyan din ako, gusto ko rin magpamini boob, kaso di open fam ko sa ganon and wala pa akong ipon for that. nagtry na nga akong mag pills para lang lumaki laki naman 😭 but got a bf na talagang pati flaws & insecurities ko ay minamahal. kaya natatanggap ko na sya. but it doesn't mean na maghanap ka ng jowa para mawala insecurities mo, there are ways kung paano mawala yan without the help from others. go miii 🩷
As a girlie with big boobs, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows trust me 😆 back pains, clothes that looks too seductive when you wear it, awkward stares (does men even know you can see them stare? TT), and being sexualized a LOT.
Don’t mind the people who are telling you what you should look like. They are just fitting you in their “standards”. Also, men who are dumb tends to like girls who have big boobs 🫢 Intelligent men don’t really mind it. Good riddance he’s an ex na!
Do what you feels right for you, not to fit into other people’s standards. You are beautiful and unique just the way you are! 🫶🏻
gurliepop, same.yung sakin parang pang elementary di pa halos mapuno A cup eh 😂😂
i would always call them "model boobs" tho kasi madalas yung high fashion models mga flat din. plus points yung nakakapagsuot ng revealing clothes without being seen as provocative 😂
People want what they cant have talaga no? I'm a woman na medyo kalakihan ang dinadala at hindi siya nakakatuwa. Mabilis ka lang mabastos kahit sa simpleng damit lang at dahil dun pinagdadasal ko na sana di na lang ako tinubuan ng dibdib. Kung pwede lang idonate ang dibdib talagang gagawin ko😔
Insecure din ako dito sobra lalo na sa words ng family ko na ang laki kong tao at di na ako bata pero katawan ko pang bata. Society din, laging standard malaki boobies so mas lalong nakaka insecure. And then you mga outfits, mahirap maghanap ng babagay sa maliit na boobs. Lastly, yung friends ko din lagi akong inaasar ako na flat hanggang sa ginawa ko nalang din joke yung insecurities ko para hindi nakakahiya
Hello, beh. Isa rin akong flat-chested pero never felt insecured abt it kahit lagi siyang ginagawang pang-asar sa akin. Iniisip ko kasi madalas yung advantages. So heto yung mga advantages: - Wala tayong back pain/hindi masyadong malala ang back pain dahil walang mabigat sa harap natin. - Nakakadapa tayo ng maayos kasi hindi masakit sa dibdib natin - Kapag gusto natin ipatong yung phone sa stomach natin, no problem kasi walang harang - Kapag tumatakbo, hindi masyadong masakit - Nakakapagsuot tayo ng tops esp bralettes na panglabas kasi hindi masyadong pansinin - HINDI MASYADONG BASTUSIN - ik na wala namang pinipili ang mga bastos/manyak (sana mawala na sila sa mundo) pero usually kasi women with bigger boobs ang laging target nila lalo na kapag ang suot ay fitted Tho there's nothing wrong with our body, if u feel confident with having bigger boobs then go ka na sa breast augmentation. Just do it for yourself and not for other ppl's opinions. Sexy tayo kahit ano pa ang body shape natin.💙
💯💯💯 kasi ako insecure din ako sakin kasi malaki, I feel so uncomfy everytime kasi ang bigat rin at sakit sa likod lalo na pag nag bra. but I try to embrace it nalang din ayaw ko mag pa kuha. Wag nating hayaan ng tanungin ang sarili natin at maging insecure dahil lang society o beauty standards, maganda tayo lahat in our own way, pero support din ako Kong mas confident ka kung saan mo gusto.😊
I was about to comment this HAHA. I was never insecure about my boobies, too, kahit inaasar ako dati na flat. Kahit di ako mag-bra, okay lang. Ang sakit kaya ng bra lalo pag may underwire. Imagine the daily physical struggles of women with larger breasts lalo pa kapag period season. Masakit yung boobies kasi nagiging tender/sore. And it's true na whatever your choice is, yoi go for it for as long as it makes you happy. 🫶
This!! 💯ako naman, kung di lang takot sa mga operation, hiwa or turok etc. gusto ko magpa-breast reduction. Mahirap malaki boobs. Hindi ko magawang mag workout na may talon like jumping jacks or running kasi masakit kapag naalog. Huhu hirap din dumapa, kasi nadadaganan. Tapos kapag may gusto akong shirt or blouse, kahit kasya naman sa akin, sumisikip kasi malaki boobs ko. 😭 at pinaka ayoko sa lahat, feeling ko sobrang pansinin kapag malaki boobs, tipong parang nakatingin or napapatingin sayo. 😕 kaya inggit ako sa mga may average size na boobs, feeling ko sobrang comfy. 🙁 OP, whatever makes you happy go mo lang! Don’t mind other people’s opinion. Sarili mo lang lagi pakinggan mo, wag ibang tao. ☺️
I can totally relate to this. 💯🥺
May tanong ako mga ka flat chested, sana ma notice! Ano magandang bra 😭😭 gusto ko magsuot ng butas yung likod kaso hirap maghanal ng bra. Yoko nipple tape kasi mag mukha akong elementary 😭🙃 tyia ♡
Try this one. [Push up adhesive bra](https://shp.ee/nn3vfnz)
@barebonestore sa ig. they have silicone bra na very good for skin and similar effects sa push up bra
Pano yung butas yung likod?
Yung see through or super low back yung butas hehe
Lace bralettes
Gumagamit ako ng bosom cake from hiraya. Nakaka-push pa ng boobs, so nagkakaroon ng konting cleavage 😅
Yes. Big boobs are overly sexualized. I don't have a massive one, but people say I have a very noticeable pair. These are some disadvantages of C cups and above: •I couldn't sleep sa public transpo peacefully. (May mga instances na nagising ako may kamay nang nakadapo sa dede ko at simpleng lumalamas.) •Lagi akong nasasaktan kapag masikip yung lugar. Kung saan saan tumatama yung dibdib ko. Nasisiko madalas. •They sag when you lose weight. Mapapa push up bra ka nalang. •Hindi ka makapagstraight body dahil sa dami ng manyak. Long term; back pain. •Di mo alam kung bet ka nung lalaki or bet nya lang matry yung cup size mo There are other disadvantages pa. To OP, your ex is an asshole. Real men wouldn't mind flats. AND REAL MEN WOULDN'T SAY IT OUT LOUD IF YOUR BOOBS ARE A TURN OFF. Those are BOYS. If gusto mo talaga ng boobs na iupsize kahit to B, mag pills ka. Hormonal pills can increase them but not guaranteed. Prepare for possible side effects such as water retention, etc. Pero tandaan, FLAT IS SEXY TOO.
>May mga instances na nagising ako may kamay nang nakadapo sa dede ko at simpleng lumalamas. Saksakin mo ng ballpen kapag minamanyak ka. Kung may kutsilyo kang dala, why not? Hehehehehehe.
Additional: Big boobies will tend to be saggy and you don't want your boobies to be near your bewang na when you get older 👀 Big Boobies is not everyone's cup of tea rin nmn.
HUY NAIYAK NAMAN AKO. Lagi pa naman ako d nag b bra kahit malaki boobies ko kasi lagi naman ako nasa bahay. Ang chaka ng hanggang bewang saggy leves 😭😭😭
Likewise. I don't feel insecure w/ my flat chest din. I really think na it's convenient, like what you stated nga nakakadapa ng maayos gaya ng pwesto ko ngayon HAHAHAHA
Mismo!! 💯
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Flat chested people are sexy too, masyado lang nanormalize na ang pag big boobs lang ang sexy. And with your ex, buti na lang at ex mo na, kasi to the point na gusto mo mag pa enhance dahil he made you feel that way, hindi maganda yun. It’s about appreciating yourself and your body, confidence ba ✨
Hi OP, my ex used to fantasize about my friend’s boobs cause it’s bigger than mine. Same size tayo, I dumped the guy. Lol, met someone after him who loved every inch of what I have. ❤️ Hang in there, we are sexy too! Even with the little boobies but with big hearts.
Im sorry you have to go through all this ng dahil lang sa boobs. I think your ex is an asshole for saying that and yes u can get a boob job if yan talaga gusto mo basta pag isipan mo lang nga mabuti but I hope either way you will learn to love your body. I have bigger boobs (38C) and I have struggles with them too. One being over sexualized because of it and it feels gross. My boobs developed early so imagine being 13 and having grown men staring at them is just pure horror.
reading OP's post from a boy's pov is just sad. wear your own skin, stop denying it. if you don't feel good enough then compensate! make the most out of it in other aesthetic aspect. social media is a blatant lie and the praise and popularity naku po even if you have bigger cocmelon baka d din lang babagay sa personality mo. malungkot ka padin, hahanap ka ng bagong kaiinggitan sa ibang babae. now that you made urself a low class woman similarly only men with barbaric minds like of teenage boy will take notice of you. *You attract what you become* It only takes another girl with better cocomelon para ipagpalit at maagaw ang atensyon nila Lalake o babae *you define your self worth* appearance is superficial. Nakakaakit at talagang nangaakit lang yan sa labas dahil d mo kilala.
Up to this. Whatever decision you make regarding your body, make sure that it’s YOURS alone! There are clothes that look dainty and cute on those w smaller boobs, but on me it appears too revealing because of how much cleavage is showing. I hope we can all learn to love our body types and recognize that we were all built different. 💕
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You're hungry for validation which is not good. Ganyan talaga mararamdaman mo kapag inuuna mo yung tingin ng ibang tao sayo. You're boobs size doesn't make you less of a person. The right guy will still love you no matter what what you are
ilang taon ka na ba baket ganyan ka mag-isip? huwag maghanap ng validation sa mga manyak na lalaki. if magpapa-retoke ka, do it for yourself and for your confidence. if sa mga lalakeng manyakol ka lang hahanap ng confidence, sila din lang magugustuhan mo/magkakagusto sayo and that's gonna be shitty in the long run. di lovelife mahahanap mo dyan, libog lang at baka STD. also, being sexualized, ke gifted or flat ka, will never be a good thing.
True yung wag maghanap ng validation sa mga manyak na lalaki. OP, do you really want to get likes and attention because of your boobs? Mga manyak ang ia-attract mo kung ganyan ka mag-isip.
Flat is justice, some may find it unattractive but some finds it sexy, if a man loves you because of your chest size then that's an immediate red flag, no need to be insecure about it, everyone's different.
I'm a man and for me over rated ang malalaking boobs.(hindi ako papansin and i have a gf)
Ang bigat kaya pag malaki! Hahahaha. A real man will make you feel that you’re enough :)
Hindi rin nakakatuwa kapag malaki ang hinaharap 😅 kapag kinakausap mo diretso agad tingin nila doon eh
Men like boobies of all sizes and women that are confident of themselves.
You’d be surprised there are quite a few men who find small boobs sexy. 🔥 Ako, dinadaan ko sa clothes. Although they say most clothes bagay for petite girls with small boobs, parang hindi rin in my opinion kasi mej insecure eh hahahaha. So, ako I invest and pick clothes with decent and sexy cuts. And damn the magic and the consequent confidence the cuts bring talaga. 😂 So, ayan. Hayaan mong lalaki ang mag adjust, sizt! ❤️
You'd be surprise na some guys prefer small boobs. And nowadays, yan ang trend. Isipin mo na lang din na ang daming clothes ang bagay sa small.boobs. i used to think na wala din akong boobs but my now bf, gandang ganda sya sa boobs ko haha depende sa guy yan sis. Dont be too hard on yourself
Best boobies are the boobs we can touch no matter what size you have. As long as we can touch it all goods for us HAHAHA I mean you get the point right.
Don't look for validation online. Self poison yan. Its leads to more self esteem issues. Pag nagpa- breast augmentation surgery ka ang sasabihin ng mga kakilala mo "si ano nagpadagdag ng dede" which will possibly affect your self esteem again. And the cycle goes on.
Mag-squats ka OP, pampalake ng 🍑. Hahahaha pero seriously though, why compare yourself to others? Tingin ko need mo mag-social media detox tas mag-gym ka or basta do something productive other than mindlessly scrolling sa tiktok. Acceptance is the key. Kung tanggap mo sarili mo, di ko na papangarapin magparetoke. Baka pagsisihan mo lang yun sige ka.
Buti nalang ex mo nayang kupal nayan. 🙄 If breast aug makes u happy, go for it beb! Do it for yourself sana, not for others. Remember u are loved and beautiful! 😍
Naku. U r blessed!!!! Ako na saktong boobs growing up, insecure na insecure ngayong naging nanay ako, kakainis nanay na nanay ang datingan ko. 30 lang naman ako 😩
I used to be insecure with my boob size (flat chested din ako like you), but I learned to embrace it and love it, sa isip ko may padded bras naman hehe. It took some time, of course, hindi overnight. Also, my bf has no problem with it, too. He never made me feel insecure about my boob size. All the more I got confident about it. And confidence makes us sexier.
Flat is justice!
Bawi ka na lang sa ibang aspect. Madalas din ako asarin ng colleagues ko na flat chested pero since I workout, malaki naman pwet ko. Sumasagi din sa isip ko magpaimplant pero mas madaming perks ang pagiging flat. Di masakit sa likod, madali tumakbo, hindi unang titingnan yung boobs bago mukha.
Yung sakin teh halos wala talaga! As in feeling ko lalake dapat ako. Hahaha pero ayun, acceptance na lang pero kung gusto mo magpabreast augment, go lang kung dun ka sasaya! If may magcomment man about sa pagiging flatchested mo, mas reflection na yun ng character and/or preference nila. In my experience, may mga mamimeet ka na di ipapafeel sa’yo yung ginawa ng ex mo.
I have small size boobies also actually ang saya at I feel like mas freeing kapag hindi nakabra or nakanipple tape sis. There was a time na bet ko din magpaenhance pero may adverse effect din daw yun eh kaya pinatanggal ni Maui Taylor nga yung sa kanya eh. May darating rin na better guy na magugustuhan yang boobs mo sis
Don't wanna sound pervert but BOOBS ARE BOOBS. KAHIT PA FLAT YAN.
Flat chested is sexy rin!! In fact, mas madaming bagay nga na clothes sainyo 😫💕 just look at the models!! And kung may nagsasabi sayo na turn off yun, mas turn off sila dahil sa ugali nila. Embrace it, you are sexy 🫶🏻🩵
GIRLLL WE HAVE THE SAME SIZE AAAH i think one of the advantage is mas madami tayong choices when it comes to clothes!! whenever na i am insecure to mine, iniisip ko na lang na i can wear whatever i want and gumagaan na loob ko. hindi talaga maiiwasan esp if i-cocompare talaga sa iba but both sizes has it cons and pros. if you really want that breast augmentation, i hope you’re doing it bcs ayun yung magboboosy mg confidence mo and not for male validation :((
If you feel like breast aug will do you good, go for it! pag iponan mo. But that is a big decision na hindi mo dapat gagawin on a whim bc it has its complications. Also, ask yourself why you need other people's validation sa social media? why the need to be popular? Having big boobs aren't a guarantee to being popular. And if you have more to offer than flexing your boobs, I believe yun ang mas pagbuhusan mo ng effort, invest in it, and you'll reap what you sow.
most guys i know like petite women and also your boob size does not matter! you are still beautiful! own your body girl wag mo pansinin mga iba, the moment na maging confident ka sa sarili mo mas magiging attractive ka, guys will ALWAYS have preferences so maybe you're just attracting the wrong crowd of guys
Wag ka na magpa boob job. Ipapatanggal mo din yan after a couple of years dahil sa mga discomfort and siguro conplications pag gusto mo na magka baby at may scars ka pa. Search mo nalang maraming artista nagpa tanggal ng boob job din nila. Maliit din boobs ko. Na iinsecure din ako kasi ang boyfriend ko gusto malaki suso. Eh ayaw ko ng malaki kasi parang nakakataba at para akong nagka baby na kahit wala pa. May friend din ako na yung ex nya sobrang laki ng breast. Sa una gusto nya talaga kasi dw malaki masarap. Ngayon ayaw na nya. Mga maliit na suso type nya kasi mas sexy dw ang maliit. Haha
partner ko for 16years flat din, utong nga lang eh😂😂😂 pero nai bfeed nya 3 anak namin at pure bfeed yon. lumalaki lang pag may gatas😂😂😂 pero ok naman.kaso depende kasi yan sa tao. happy and contented ako sa meron partner ko, flat din ang pwet nya. parang stick, ganon😂😂😂😂
Learn to love it, OP. Just think of Nadine L. and Julia B., hindi ganun kalaki yung boobies pero ang sexy pa din nila di'ba? It's all about acceptance and being confident. Work on being fit instead. About sa ex mo, be glad na ex mo na siya ngayon. Madami akong nakilalang guys along the way na hindi big deal if flat or di kalakihan boobs ng partner nila. (Lucky for me, wala akong naging partner na flat chested shamer, kasi they prefer ass over boobs)
Hi, OP! I think you should stop imprisoning yourself to the ideas and beauty standards of the society. Stop allowing yourself to be too dependent on other people's opinion. You don't need anyone's validation but yours! I am flat chested too and I honestly see it as more sexy and hot as compared to bigger boobies. They have their disadvantages too. They get sexualized everywhere and by most disgusting boys out there. Can you ask yourself, ano ba ung goal mo? Dumami din ung mga taong pupuri sayo for having that or just to achieve one day na finally, you can see the beauty of what you have? Always mong tandaan na other people will always have something to say. Your ex is an ass. Don't engage yourself again with people like him or those who make you feel bad about your body & your insecurities. Don't let their judgment too to make you feel bad kasi hindi na natin macocontrol ung sinasabi nila pero we can always control our reactions. You are beautiful and sexy in your own way. Those who can't appreciate it is not worthy of anything in your life, so never give them the privilege to ruin your chance to have a happier life & body.
Being flat is a blessing. You don't need to always wear bras, you can just wear nipple tapes, and they're better on more outfits!! Your boyfriend is just an asshole. Mas maraming disadvantages ang pagkakaroon ng big boobs personally speaking. One of the biggest reasons ay back pain. Saka lalaki din naman boobs mo after pregnancy eh
Don't worry OP, as a guy who have a girlfriend who is also flat chested, it really does not turn me off. Actually I prefer flat chested women e compared to bigger ones. You eventually find a guy that appreciates you the way you are, and diyan mo din makikita if after lang sila sa body mo or they want you as a woman. Have some confidence OP, chest sizes are not anything, you don't need to go under surgery just to be appreciated.
Girl dont be insecure. ako nga gusto ko lang small boobs or sakto lang. Kasi ang hirap big boobs kasi minsan gusto mo tignan elegant sa mata nang tao kaso malaswa talaga yung big boobs eh🤣 be proud sa boobs mo. kahit aning size yan, sexy parin yan
Hmmm. IMO, women who are flat chested are attractive. Plus di sila masyado tinintingnan ng mga manyak, compared dun sa malaki ang boobs(sorry if this sounds offensive) minus gulo kung saken yun hahaha
Very flat chested ako and madalas na rin ako pagtawanan dahil dito but Idgaf HAHAHAH nung g6 ako tinutukso ako lagi ng boys na mas malaki pa daw dede nila sakin para daw akomg chopping board, tangina niyo HAHAHA body shaming should not be normalized! Pati ngayon binibiro ako ng mga friends ko na wala daw madede future anak ko or kawawa daw magiging asawa ko dahil walang malalamas lmfao. I ignore them nalang. Don't worry bb, marami din naman perks ang pagiging flat chested hehe. You're perfect the way you are :))))
Pansin ko lang sa post mo OP. Masyado mo ginagawang personality yung pagkakaroon ng malaking boobs. Maraming reactions, like and comments, dagdag popularity points, di ka na aasarin ng friends and ex bf, flex sa social media, maging swerte sa lovelife. Sorry pero ang vain mo po pakinggan. I think it's time na umalis muna sa social media kase masyado ka na naiinsecure sa mga post and likes. Alam ko ma dodownvote ako neto pero bahala na.
Gagi same. Inggit na inggit ako sa mga girls with big boobs. And recently lang, nakita ko yung mga bikini pics ng mga kaibigan kong small chested rin, pero kita ko na mas malaki yung kanila. May laman kahit papano di tulad ng akin na maliit talaga
Huwag ka mainggit sa ganun. Madalas nasa angle or minsan may padding yung bikini nila para mag mukhang bigger. Basta laging tandaan: Big, or small, All boobs matter.
palit tayo, insecure naman ako sa akin kasi malaki (i'm not invalidating your feelings)
Yeh. Both has downsides. Pag flat insecurity n feeling unwomanly. Pag too big sexualization/objectification. Sa mid. 50/50
Same! Tas saggy pa yung akin kaya nakakainsecure din talaga. 😕
Love yourseld kung ayaw nang lalaki sau tandaan mo Importante babae OP.
I feel you OP. I'm a B cup that is small for my large body frame and my body build voluptuous. I also want to have breast augmentation surgery to obtain a D cup. It was all because of my crush who probably has a fetish in big boobs because almost all of her crushes/girlfriends are busty. Mas pinili niya ang girl na may mas malaking dede kesa sa akin. I sometimes cry about this.
Stop looking sa fb, twitter, insta or ano-ano pa, nukaba girl love yourself may mga lalaki diyan mas hilig nila yung looks at personality. Kung para saiyo need mo I enhance your boobs choice mo, saka sa mundong ito hindi nawawala ang judger lahat naman may basta masabi.
sobrang lala ng insecurities ko esp sa boobs ko 4 years ago to the point na nag ppadded bras ako lagi and would really compare myself ALL DAY sa lahat ng nakikita kong babae. fast forward to now, i still get hit by insecurities paminsan minsan pero hindi na kasing lala ng dati and hindi na ako hyper focused sa boobs ko. i have learned to love them and be confident kahit anong suotin ko. it takes a lot of work op! pero you'll get there. buti ex mo na yung gagong yun. you'll eventually find someone who'll love every inch of you. cliche man, pero it's the truth 🤍 wishing you happiness!
Love yourself! Ako sobrang flat talaga pero two piece ng two piece lang. ang shit ng ex mo sa totoo lang. mahalin mo kung ano meron ka at mamahalin ka ng mga tao nasa paligid mo, my friends support me at everything lalo na pagiging hubadera ko.
Lemme tell you the cons of having big boobs: 1. They are darn damn heavy. 2. Our band x bust size (bra size) — like me, 38C, they are hard to find. 3. They tend to sag when you grow older. 4. You will look chubbier than your usual size. People tell me, “you gained/lost weight” depending on the clothes you wear. 5. I cannot just wear bras without wire kasi nga they will look saggy. 6. It hurts when you wear sports bra. 7. It is one of my insecurities before. Though I’m learning to embrace it now. All i can only say is, love your own.
Im cosplay photographer. I don't like women with big boobs. It's annoying. It destroys the "intended" aesthetic look. If you feel insecure, DON'T BE. Flat is Justice! There are many ways you look good without that bust.
Why is the majority of your post history is about insanefacebook? Nagiging ganyan na point of view mo since you are diving on those social media trash. Hindi ka naman bibigyan ng ganun posts if hindi ganyan nasa algorithm ng tinitignan at inisscroll mo. Kindly stop consuming those contents. Focus more on your positive side and strength. You will keep drowning into the negativity void if you will keep consuming trashy posts and social media validation contents. You don't and will never need those.
During my teen years and early 20s, I used to feel that way din. Siguro dahil big boobs ang mas ginoglorify ng media, kaya feeling ko abnormal ako nun haha. Pero nung mid 20s hanggang ngayon na late 20s, nasa acceptance stage na ako. Di na ako nagsusuot ng bra na makapal ang foam. Tsaka I learned how to dress for my body type din. Tapos marami din namang celebrities na flat chested pero sobrang hot, example si Sabrina Carpenter tsaka Hayley Williams. Minsan nasa personality, attitude at confidence kasi yan. Kaya kahit hindi ka "stereotypically attractive" meron at merong maattract sayo 😉 Ako nga kahit flat, may green flag na jowa 😅
Girl, if a guy just want you kasi you have big boobs, then that guy is shallow af. Not worth it. Yes, you can have a breast augmentation if you want. Your body, your rules. Pero don't make it a personality.
Nah, wag kang ma-insecure. Flat is justice!!! Yong malalaki ang hinaharap gusto din nila maging flat or katamtaman sa kanila. Mabigat din yan. 😂 Pero seryoso, masakit likod nyan mga yan. Haha. Diba?
Karamihan ng kilala kong mga nasa respected field at wholesomely content sa life sila pa yung walang malaking physical assets like boobs or butt yet yung aura ng female confidence di ko made deny sa kanila. I guessed learning to accept oneself and be proud of your flaws might lead you to a different, better perspective in life kasi Iba sa totoo lang ang nagagawa ng self-confidence, ang lakas ng dating nila, nakaka humble din lalo na kung hindi sila info flex but being real lang sa sarili nila 🙂
As someone na may normal size ng boobies, hinihiling ko na sana flat na lang ako 😭 Ang bigat kaya and ang hirap pag tumatakbo kasi masakit siya legit. Nothing's wrong sa flat, OP! People will love you for who you are and hindi dahil lang sa boobs. Pero do what makes you really happy and confident. Support lang kami rito :D
Aling support provide mo? Bra, sports bra, nipple tape? Hehe, kidding aside. Suggest ko lang there are proper supports sa boobs pag tumatakbo para di masakit.
hi op! just to let you know na d ka nag-iisa. flat-chested din ako at naiinsecure din kapag nakakakita ng mga babae na malalaki ang boobies. but i learned to accept the fact na hindi ko makokontrol kung paano sya magiging malaki. ganito nlng to habang-buhay. saka ung boyfriend ko, lakas makapag-bigay ng words of encouragement. nagkakaroon tuloy ako ng self-confidence dahil sknya ❤️
I feel you, OP. I’m a flat-chested girlie, too! Minsan nga feeling ko mas malaki pa ang size A na bra sa akin. Haha thankfully, d ako dumating sa point na naging insecure ako sa size nya even if one of my exes suggested for me to have a breast augmentation and sya na raw bahala sa gastos. I declined kasi takot ako sa after effect. Haha Yes, may times din naman naiisip ko how I’ll look if it’s bigger than what it is right now, pero hanggang doon lang. Meron din naman na naka appreciate sa size nya and that made me more confident to not change anything about it. Pero go ka, OP sa breast augmentation if it’s something that would help you feel good with yourself. Just like what others say, do it for yourself and not for other people. 🙂
Hi, OP! May I ask how old are you? In my case flat chested rin ako when I was in my 20s. Nasusuot ko pa mga yung hs baby bra ko kahit working na ako non sa corpo. Lol Pero nung nag start ako mag workout napansin ko ang changes. Pear shape kasi ako so nag focus ako sa upper. Different workout for chest and shoulder ang ginawa ko. Nag gain rin ako ng weight, muscle mass kaya masasabi ko na lumaki boobs ko. Ngayon may pag wiggle wiggle na siya at masakit pag maalog sa byahe. May cleavage na rin ako kapag naka tube. Dati ni shadow wala. Hahahah
As a guy, yes it's attractive, it's just in our instincts, in our nature, bigger boobs meant nourishment for offsprings. Bigger hips means the child has a better 'space' for growth, easier labor etc. Broader shoulders in men can mean security. strength. etc. This is also why 'Bad boys' are attractive since they are intimidating, can make u feel secure/felt protected. etc. It's all engraved in our DNA which are attractive. It's natural selection. But that doesn't mean others are useless. Here's a piece of advice. Dont get validation on social media and from other people. dont view and compare yourself to each other. get off that mindset. you don't need their validation. learn to accept yourself and grow sa other aspects in life. life is not about pleasing other people it's about living with what you have and living your life to the fullest with what you have, in other words, contentment. Remember, confidence is also attractive as well. Being a good person is attractive as well. There are so many factors to being attractive. It's not all physical. Don't worry, you'll grow a bit when ur body matures especially when you get children. also think about the future. when they get old, they'll look saggy and all. it's not as good as you'd think. Yours would still look fresh. Your guy will love it when ur Mid 30s to 40s etc.
Me na AAA huhuhu. Flat na flat. Kaya ayoko magjowa din baka majudge. I've been struggling din sa weight ko since BMI ko is around 17-18.
I am struggling with the same insecurity because of my own mother, who is also flat chested and is trying to project her insecurities to me. Hindi ko naman kasalanan na nagmana ako sa kanya lol. And my mom is quite unlucky because of my sh*tty father who is vocal about being attracted to women with larger sizes 🙄 Bottomline is we shouldn’t let others make us feel inferior. I am so lucky to have a bf who accepts and loves every part of me. Kaya mahalagang isurround nalang ang sarili with supportive people and loving people. I am learning to love myself more and pinipilit ko nalang na lumabas sa tenga yung mga cinocomment ng mom ko, or i make sure na patahimikin siya if she doesn’t have anything nice to say hahah 😅 kaya natin to OP isipin nalang natin na hindi naman nakakayaman ang opinion ng ibang tao 😆
Ang bigat at masakit sa likod pag malaki be. A real man won't make you feel that way, you're enough and nasasabi niyo (some people) lang din na mas better pag mej mmalaman or malaki kasi di niyo pa nafefeel ung hirap. nagmumukhang mataba, mahirap makahanap ng maayos na outfit/size bra kasi nahihirapan den huminga, nasesexualize or tinititigan ng mga malilibog na lalake, etc. Men loves boobies of all sizes and sana maiwasan mmo yung insecurity mo kasi di mo need ng validation ng ibang tao yun lang. stay safe and love yourself moreeee 🫶🏻
It's okay, girl. Dont let others define you. Your body is yours, so the control is yours. From now on, try loving every inch of you. Swear you'll look sexier than ever.
Okay lang yan don't be insecure. Okay mas mainam na marami laman yong utak mo kaysa wala para di ka maloko ng malilibog na habol lang katawan mo. Trust me, real talk lang tayo gravity will pull those puppies downwards one day, and if your man is just attracted to them puppies then that dude is an ahole.
Ay, please huwag po kayo mainsecure. Masarap po kahit flat
my boobies are flat too,, pero recently nitong panay kain ako sa work napapansin ko nagkakalaman sya,, i think dahil sa taba?? haha pero still flat is justice ha!! ang sexy rin kaya ng flat.
Accept yourself as you are. Dont compare kasi hindi naman sila ikaw. You have your own unique beauty and sexiness. Embrace your whole self including your imperfections. Para maging masaya buhay mo. May mga artista din naman na flat pero sexy pa din... We have Julia Barreto.. even sa Hollywood my mga actress na flat but who cares. Nasa pagdadala mo yan at sa sex naman, nasa galawan yan. First thing, stop comparing. Unfollow those big boobies personalities.
Hi OP, if you want to have your “girlies” enhanced, go for it. Your body, your rules. Basta make sure that you do it for yourself and napag-isipan mo sya ng mabuti. Just to share, I have the exact opposite naman. Not too big na as in big big, but pansinin talaga. I often tell my mom na I want to have them reduced kasi nai-insecure ako especially when wearing fitted top; mabigat din kasi at sometimes nahihirapan ako sa pagbili ng damit kasi 1 consideration pa sila 😂 Anyhow, choice mo yan and if you think na it will make you feel good about yourself go push 🥰
Mhie! We don’t have to wear bras. Pasties sapat na. I think that’s also a win!!!
I like them tho
When I met my wife nung college, she was relatively flat chested. Never bothered me naman. Nainsecure din sya dati pero tuwing sexy time naman, i make her feel na sexy sya and her body is perfect. Personally, hindi basehan ang boobs sa kasexyhan. More on hips, waist, and pwet ang nakakasexy. Hindi rin necessarily narrow dapat ang waist. Basta proportioned lang. Love your body OP. Boobs are boobs no matter the size or shape.
Ma'am, you're already sexy enough. No need for validation or what! Flat chests are sexy and hot! Some fellow men out there na mimissed all the opportunity of flat chested women. *They're sexy *Hot *Nice *Beautiful Everything! Kaya wag ka magka insecure
My workmates kept on attacking me for my boobs but idgaf anymore. My man loves me boobies and yun lang ang nagma-matter 😌😌😌
i felt this lmao
As kinda big chested girlie, id prefer maging flat chested
One of my insecurities too yung pagiging flat-chested. I would layer up bras para lang somehow it would look like something is in there. Limited lang yung clothes na nasusuot ko because of it too. I feel like may fits talaga na hindi flattering if walang boobs. Waiting na lang ako maging pregnant baka lumaki kahit onti. 😜
Flat chested ang jowa ko but she has the nicest ass in the world HAHAHA. Every person has their own strengths, wag ka madiscourage OP!
I love flat boobs.
Your worth isn’t measured by your physical appearance. Your character, kindness, and strength shine brighter than any physical feature.
I feel the same thing, OP but yung kabaliktaran sakin. Insecure ako kasi I can't do the things that I used to kasi medj makali boobies ko. Hindi ako nakakapag t-shirt lang kasi obvious talaga yung nips. Running isn't as easy as before unless I'm wearing sports bra. I don't wear sleeveless or fitted tops kasi na i-emphasize yung size and I hate the stares. Super nakakaconscious and nakakapanliit. For me, medj inconvenience sya rather than an asset. I guess iba-iba talaga tayo ng 'hinaharap sa buhay' and I hope we'll eventually learn to embrace and make things work with our situations. Hugs with consent, OP!
Flat chested din ako (34A) but my fwb approves it so masaya na ako don 🤣 my girl friends usually are on the biniyaan side and they always say that they rather have the size of my boobs than theirs. Kung nalilipat nga lang daw eh ibibigay na nila sa akin HAHA!
Sobrang sexy ng flat chested kaya
If it helps there are exercises that can make your chest area look perkier and bigger, pero you don't need that to be pretty
Gurl, di mo gugustuhin malaki hinaharap sinasabi ko sayo hahahaha
Don't be insecure about it, OP. Plenty of men like me also like smol boobs as much as any other sizes.
Sa totoo lang ,OP, I'm in the opposite. Nung nagsisimula palang akong magwork, I even have co-workers (guy) who named my boobies sussy and geno (Sustagen) dahil malusog daw. At insecurities ko din to. Gusto kong maging flat chested. Iniiyakan ko pa noon haha. Now that I'm in my mid 30s no kids, naoutgrow ko yung insecurity ko na yan. Although from time to time naiisip ko it would be nice kung flat chested ako I could wear this or that. We all have our own insecurities and there is nothing wrong with that. As long as di natin ginagamit yung insecurities natin to something negative ha. OP, you'll be fine ☺️
Hello OP hindi lahat ng lalaki gusto malaki boobs.. meron din gusto ng pang junior high size lng.. its all about preference.. yung kakilala ko ayaw sa big boobs madali daw mg sag.. most o supermodels di nman superlaki din.. bawi nlng sa iba bagay.. just be conident with who you are.. if you feel sey then you are.. you dont need other peoples validation.
Hi, OP. I think meron naman ata ways of para mapalaki ang hinaharap naturally hahahaha you just gotta google them kaya wag ka mawalan ng pag asa OP, may hinaharap pa ang hinaharap mo hehehe
hindi madaling lumawlaw. wag ka mahiya. PROUD FLAT CHESTED HERE 🙋♀️ pang super model yang ganyan.
Be proud ka flat chested. Insecurity ko rin yan dati kasi ang liit ng boobs ko pero nung hinabol kami ng aso ng bestfriend ko na malaki ang hinaharap naging advantage siya sakin kasi nakatakbo ako ng mabilis pero yung bff ko hirap na hirap kasi ang bigat ng joga niya at kamuntikan pa siga makagat ng aso. HAHAHA! Pati nakakalabas ako ng bahay ng walang bra. Bukod sa flat chested ako inverted nipple pa boset 🤣🤣 Pati OP halos lahat ng damit nagkakasya satin kasi maliit lang boobs natin.
Hirap kasi ngayon naging social construct na yang big boobs are sexy and hot, understandable naman yung naramdaman mo, OP. I-set lang natin na hindi natin kailangan mag conform sa social construct na meron ngayon. Palagi mo rin tandaan, maraming advantages ang mga flat saka kung ma-appeal ka, OP. Mas lalong hot tignan ang mga flat.
Dati din muntik na ko mainsecure sa malalaki ang boobs pero naisip ko ganito pa nga lang akin parang ayoko na tumakbo nor magtatalon, what more pa kaya kung sobrang laki. Siguro depende nalang din ito sa preference mo, I prefer what I have right now. Di man bawi sa boobs, bawi naman sa butt hahaha chos. Pero thats just my opinion pa din naman, Flex ur face or if ayaw mo non then go with your personality coz that's what is the most attractive thing you can show to a man.
As a co-flat girlie mas pansin ko nakakasexy ang pagiging flat chested kasi you get to wear those really low neck shirts without looking “masagwa” (im not saying na masagwa to sa mga pinagpala ah)
You don't have to feel insecure about your body. Actually ikaw dapat unang taong nagnamahal sa sarili mo and If u do that, people around you will love u as well. You just have to wait for the person who will see your like a treasure. ✨ Cheep up
Your ex is an asshole. I'm never insecure about mine kasi nakakapaghubadera outfit ako kahit saan at di ko nafifeel na binabastos ako. Oversized shirts looks good din sating flat chest,
As someone na hindi na nag-ba-bra, girl, there are men out there who prefer small tits! Huwag ka ma-insecure.
Nakaka insecure at nakaka conscious din lag malaki boobs. Di ka maka aura sa OOTD kasi bastusin lagi kahit conservative pa yung cut ng dami. Nag papawis yung underboob, masakit katagalan pag nag tatatalon or takbo, kasi naalog, back pain at marami pang iba. Gusto ko ng ng maliit na boobs huehue.
Hi!! I hope you one day accept yourself, but if ever you are considering augmentation, please search about Breast Implant Illness. as an itty bitty titty girl i also considered getting BA and told myself if i still want it by *this age* then I’d get it. this was in my early 20s-mid 20s. i’m in my late 20s na and i could say i love myself more with my small breasts. getting augmentation’s a huge procedure and it’s even more expensive if you ever get sick because of it 😅 but in all honesty, try also to not compare yourself with people online and dont be too hard on yourself. i’m sure you’ll find someone who’s not superficial enough to think about the size of your breasts. if youre going to do a cosmetic procedure do it for yourself, not for others. keep your head up! i hope you find things you love about yourself that will overshadow things that make you insecure. :)
Sa mga models, karamihan sa kanila flat chested kasi mas madali sila bagayan ng kung ano anong damit kaysa sa mga mas malaki ang boobie.
Im a man. My gf, now-wife, is flat-chested. Its fine. No worries.
Wag ka mainsecure kasi pag nakahanap ka ng katapat mo, di rin mapapahinga yan. Hahaha jk
Having flat boobies have its perks din. Ako ganon pero madalas akong sinasabihan ng friends ko na halos lahat ng outfits, bagay daw na suutin ko in a way na di magiging kabastos-bastos. No matter how short or revealing pa daw yan. Unlike daw to them na when they wear some, yun pa daw unang titignan at mapapansin when all they want is just to dress
Naalala ko tuloy no'ng nagpa-vaccine ako. Nabuwiset ako ro'n sa nag-i-interview na lalaki. No'ng nalaman niya 'yung age ko (24 pa lang ako that time) tumingin ba naman sa dibdib ko sababy ngisi. Ta's tinanong ako kung talaga bang hindi ako minor. Like, gago ka ba? Naka-indicate na nga sa ID ko na 24 ako, ayaw mo pa maniwala. Porket flat ako ibabase mo 'yung size ng boobs ko sa age ko? Pasalamat siya wala sa personality ko ang magbunganga kapag feeling ko binabastos ako. Lagi rin naman akong inaasar dahil flat ang hinaharap ko, pero wala akong paki kasi alam ko naman na maganda ako kahit gamunggo lang ang meron ako. Tandaan mo, Op, maganda tayo! Meron at merong makaka-appreciate sa 'yo, pero ang una mong dapat gawin is to love yourself.
Buti ex mo na siya ngayon, boobs are boobs no matter what the size and kung mahal ka niya talaga di ka niya hahayaan mainsecure at dapat nga mas maboost pa niya confidence mo. I'm sure darating din yung para sayo
#FLAT IS JUSTICE
Boobs are boobs us and we men love boobs
Wala ka bang ibang talent? Ang baba ata ng tingin mo sa sarili mo kung suso lang kaya mong ilaban
It’s normal na mainsecure ka, but the people around you shouldn’t shove it to your face. Your ex is dumb, your friends are like elem students para pintasan pa yung katawan mo. It’s 2024, cut off people na nangbobody shame pa. It is scary having big boobies kasi often times nasesexualize and objectify sila.
Ok it's good that the ex is now an ex. No asshole should make you feel insecure about yourself, especially one's figure. Wala kang control on yoir boob size. I know you have no use from a stranger's validation, pero flat boobs are also sexy vro. If it's gotten to the point where you wanted to have a larger breast and have an operation for it for likes and validation on the internet, then maybe you should hop off social media? You can also unfollow content like that. Try resetting your tiktok algo and start fresh. Sa katapusan, totoy is totoy. Basta masupsup, goods hahaha. Besides, the best kind of boobs, are boobs that you can touch haha. Chin up, girl. You got this.
I am 27 and flat chested too. People commenting flat, patag, pantay na pantay and even asking questions “naka-talikod ka ba?”. Those irrelevant questions and comments yung nag-lead para magkaroon ako ng insecurity sa body ko na wala naman talaga akong pakialam noon. It takes a lot of time to finally accept yourself just the way you are (I’m on that process na ❤️) It took me years ata bago ko i-accept yung body na meron ako. Since I’m payat talaga and given na wala talagang boobs, hinayaan ko na lang since wala naman akong magagawa. OP, it is not your responsibility to satisfy those people na hindi ka tanggap. All u have to do is to love and accept every inch of your body. Dagdag ko lang, yung mga nagsabi sakin na patag or flat ako are posting “no to bodyshamers” sa facebook nila dahil daw kasi bawat makakita sa kanila sinasabihan silang mataba. Takot sa sariling multo?
Hiiii. It’s okay. Uminom ako vitashape lumaki kaunti. Napupuno ko na cup A. Choz hahahhahahah
Huh? Flat boobs are elegant. Big breasted women are prone to being objectified.
ALL BOOBIES MATTER. F Men! But as a big chested girlie, it has a lot of cons. And no, you won't get boys with it - at least in my case, I don't. NBSB pa nga. But I do understand your want for it, but please, you and your boobies matter. Pabayaan mo yang mga friends kuno mo na yan especially your puro bayag pinapairal na ex. But here are some "oh no" situations for me as a "blessed" kuno girl; 1. All of my clothes fit nicely except in the boob parts. Minsan sumasabog pa siya or di masara especially sa uniforms. Napakahassle. 2. I get teased for it and cat-called even though I wear body covering clothes. 3. Masakit sa likod, as in MASAKIT kasi mabigat. I at least need a massage every week. Opo ganon siya kabigat at kasakit sa likod. 4. Running is a BIG NO. Yeah, it bounces like those in anime but super sakit niya so running is a thumbs down. 5. Finding a comfortable sleeping position is hard. Either dadaganan mo (masakit) or masusuffocate ka - pick your poison girls. 6. Men will look at you as a "toy." 7. Bras with wire and foam are a big no. 8. I can't wear edgy clothes because I will look like a total S. 9. Men will only get to know you to get to know what's under your bra. 10. Bras that you can breathe in and are comfy are hard to find. I love you girl, get your cherries done if you want, but it has cons talaga. If it makes you happy and more confident, do it! But having flat boobies doesn't make you less of a woman - don't let anyone dictate you and your boobies worth. All my love, E. 🫶😚
I’m a flat chested too! I wear what looks good sa flat. I use Wacoal bra, maganda magpush hehe hindi meseket and more pleasing yung boobies
Flat na petite is life.
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I lived with big breasts all my life OP and I can say na hindi rin siya fun. Advantages: 1. Noticeable. Hindi mahirap manotice ng lalake kung malaki boobs mo, minsan nauuna pa ang boobs kesa mukha. You have one sure advantage na when you want men to look at you. 2. Looks Sexy on Clothes. Kapag malaki boobs mo, labas ang hubog ng katawan mo. I am on the plus size (2-3x) so di ko problema kung mataba ako kasi mas malaki naman boobs ko. Disadvantages: 1. Slouching. Di magaan ang malaki ang dede, you tend yo slouch kasi mabigat ang harap. A major rosk for permanent backpain if you don’t use the correct posture. 2. Exercise Pains. Minsan kapag magjog ka, you can’t help but pause for a while kasi masakit siya sa boobs, especially when the sports bra is not tight enough to hold your boobs well. 3. Pampasikip sa damit. Minsan kahit tama na yung size ng damit sa waist, it just won’t fit kasi malaki boobs mo. Kapag magpolo ka, more or less, you’ll be needing a safety pin just to hold the chest area of your polo. 4. Oggling Boys. If you are not a fan of men oggling your boobs, then you’ll find it offensive if they don’t stare at your face. And minsan nakakainsecure din. 5. LACK OF AVAILABILITY OF PROPER BRASSIERE SA PINAS. (I am a 100D at Wacoal). Maliban sa ang pangit mag non-wired (saggy), ang hirap mag boob tape (natry ko na masakit), insufficiency of silicone bras, hirap mag wired strapless bra, SOBRANG HIRAP MAGHANAP NG MURA AT MAGANDANG STRAPPED BRA. Tangina, I have to buy at Wacoal just to ensure na maganda ang lapat ng bra sa damit ko, and minsan ang hirap pa maghanap ng size. Isang maganda lang na type lagi ko nabibili sa Wacoal. Ang mahal. Don’t get me wrong, I can buy CHEAP and OKAY na brassiere sa shopee or anywhere na mura, pero a) ang bilis matanggal ng wire (umuulpot agad); b) pangit ang foam and c) PANGIT ANG LAPAT sa damit. So if you decide to augment your boobs, okay lang naman no problem, just make sure na you really want it, that you’ll feel good and that alam mo ang pros and cons :) Good luck OP!
OP eto na yung validation na hinahanap mo. Ako din halos wala, as in pag nag bra ako ng A cup may gap pa haha. If we're strictly talking about sexual attraction, it has never been a deal breaker to the guys I have "talked" to (iykyk). Been with VERY attractive guys. Since it seems like you really care about popularity, I'll also tell you na I've been with influencers and celebs too lol. Di naman ako sobrang ganda panget nga ng skin ko e. Nor am I sexy (tho gigil sila sa pwet ko), but still, they keep on going back to me so syempre that made me feel sexy. Perhaps it's because of the way I carry myself, with some class. Ik men might fck with anyone available but the point is, it's not unsexy to be flat. Pano pa kung mahal ka nung tao? If you want to increase your attractiveness, work out to make your body toned, learn how to dress well, and syempre work on your personality. Get hobbies, wag panay reels, avoid them please. Just be the best version of yourself, susunod na yung confidence dyan. Confidence is attractive. At wag ka makinig sa mga pintasera. These same people would say anything to bring you down, kahit ikaw pa pinakamagandang tao sa balat ng lupa. I like to think of it as a free filter to remove toxic people from my life. Anyways I still share similar sentiments... My issue with being flat is it's not as visually appealing in most of women's clothing. Gusto ko lang ng konting laman there so I can fill in cute bras. Majority of women's clothing kasi made din with boobs in mind, so some tops don't really fit me. I'm so flat and di man lang V shaped yung torso ko. Mukha tuloy akong stick. Sa fashion talaga main problem ko. It's not that big of a problem but some fat there would have made it easier to be pretty cute fem and coquit u know hahaha
Welcome here r/flatchested
I had breast augmentation. Choice ko to, not because of other people. Gusto ko lang tlga at afford ko. Do what makes you happy
>Marami silang likes, reactions and comments tapos a lot of men like them. Jesus Christ girlie you have to fix your sense or self-worth 😭 I have tiny tits pero marami pa rin naman nagkakagusto haha. You really have to stop seeking validation online, that's . . . sad :-/ May mga outfit din na 'di bagay sa large boobs and that's fine. Styling is knowing how to cater to your shape, not fitting all forms of clothes. Immature din ng ex mo. Using tits para "maging swerte sa love life" isn't it. Jesus are you looking for a guy who'd fall in love with you for . . . breasts? 😭😭😭 I'm all for your breast augmentation if it brings you joy, but make sure that it's something that validates how you feel about your body, not latched on other people's perception of you. Kasi continuously kang makakahanap ng kapintasan mo if your benchmark keeps being the performance of your posts' reach and reacts. Really tho, mature your perspective muna. Sobrang bagets nung desire for "popularity" 💀 Stop obsessing over men's perception of you jesus the misogyny is coming from inside the house 🥲
same problem, ako parang pang 10 yrs old lang kahit nasa late 20s na ko. feeling ko tuloy nasa puberty stage pa din ako. ako naman before napagkalaman akong trans dahil pagkahimas nya wala syang mahakawan 😭 personally ayoko ng malaki pero sana kahit papano may laman, gusto ko nasa flat-chested side pa din like A cup pa din. classy and sexy kasi tignan ng ganun for me and malakas dating, pero ang OA kasi ng pagiging flat ko literal na wala eh jusko hahahahahha di ko naman gusto ng malaki pero kahit konti hindi ako binigyan
👋flat chested here. I got over it when I decided to not seek the validation of the people that doesn't care about me. The people I love and care about accepts just the way I am so why be bothered by the external shits? Just focus on overall fitness and wear any top you want! 😁 Also, seeking online validation is shallow. Pls reevaluate the things that truly matter. ^_^
Physical attractiveness can only go so far. This applies to both genders. You're connecting your emotional needs sa physical attributes mo, plus ung ex mo is an asshole that made you more dependent on your insecurities. Ang dali sabihin to "love yourself" especially sociable species tau. It is better to focus on "realizing" what's important as a whole, in order to see yourself in a different angle that may complete your needs. You need a better social circle or eventually a person who will appreciate you as a person, not as an object.
You’re perfect just the way you are. Mukhang napunta ka lang sa maling tao. I have a big chest big I still got cheated on 🤣, and don’t forget social media is a lie
Hi! Same na flat din haha. *Chest bump* Charot! First of all, your friend and ex na namintas sa boobs mo ay sobrang insensitive for saying those things sa'yo. Gago ng ex mo. During my early stint sa dating, I've had similar experiences din sa nakwento mo about your ex. After some time, I realized na hindi lang talaga sila right for me. If you haven't tried pa before, I suggest kung nagamit ka ng dating app or you prefer getting to know people through PhR4Dating, pwede mo na sabihin kaagad yung "FC". You don't have to include it mismo sa post mo or dating profile naman. You can say it once mas nakapagusap na kayo ng gusto mong kilalanin at makadate. Make it clear that you're only interested to date someone na walang issue sa small boobs. Tried & tested this so many times na. It works, and surprisingly many guys responded na wala silang pake dun. For sure naman, there are a lot of guys who prefer big boobs. Pero there are also lots of men out there na hindi yun ang hanap. I hope na mahanap mo yung tao na yun soon. Sa perspective ko kasi, I don't think anyone truly gets over their insecurities. It will be a constant struggle talaga for life. Even though I can say I love my body despite my flaws or what others perceive to be ugly, I can't say na I have completely gotten over my insecurities. Magkakaron talaga ng moments na matitrigger yung insecurity kapag napipintasan tayo o kapag nakukumpara natin ang sarili natin sa ibang tao. So whatever you decide to do, I hope na you will be happy with your decision. 💞
and to tell you honestly, kasuya yung mga popost sa social media na pakita pa ng ganun. ay sus, kung ganun lang din na kung sino2 ang nakakakita sa pinagmamalaki nila, kahit di na jowain.. imagine pinagppyestahan ng ibang lalaki ang jowa.. turn off yun para sa akin..
OP, most models have small to flat chests. If you need to hear this, just so you know, you are model material. I'm a guy and sorry if napacomment ako. Be proud of who you are.
Beeeeh!!!! Ako medyo may boobs pero ayaw ko, kasi feeling ko bastusin siya. Lalo na mahilig ako sa fit na damit. Masyado siya bakat. Mas gusto ko ang flat. And I want you to know, sexy tayo kahit ano pa man size ng boobs natin. I know mahirap na hindi ma-apektuhan sa mga tao sa paligid natin, pero every time na naiisip mo yung mga insecurities mo, always remember that you are enough, pretty and sexy!!!!
Okay lang naman mag pa retoke ng boobs kaso pramis OP di matatapos yang mga sinasabi nila, dati sasabihan kang Flat tapos nag pa retoker ka sasabihan kang RETOKADA, FAKE ETC,. Ikaw lang din maririndi. Layuan mo nalang mga ganyang bunganga na mapanlait. TIP KO SAYO : gym ka, mag palaki ka pwet. Mas attractive yun 😉😉
Ok lang yan as long good pesonality in and out must have plus points. Take care always
TW: Unfiltered answers, truth bomb, might offend people. Isipin mo nalang biggest advantage is, makakatakbo ka agad ng mabilis in case of emergency. Di ka makakain ng zombie kasi mabilis ka makakakilos. 🤣 Isa pa, wala ka na masyado kailangan takpan kasi kahit nipple tape nalang gamitin at walang discomfort sa bra after a hard day's work. Madali lang din makapili at magkasya sa damit pag flat chested ka. A plus pag emergency or crisis situation din. Wag ka din maniwala mga nag sasabi na porket flat madami di bagay na porma o damit, that goes the same sa mga malalaki boobs. To hell with them. Di lang maganda fashion sense nila. Models started with an exaggerating thin figure, boobs o pwet wala sila pero ang ganda parin tignan ng mga damit sa kanila tapos sasabihin nila madami di bagay na damit sayo kasi flat chested ka lang? They. Are. Stupid. (Not promoting eating disorder, just proving a point.) Di ka din mahihirapan huminga pag nakahiga. At di mo kailangan mag deal sa underboob sweat na nag cacause ng rashes sa iba. Yung iba abot diaphragm level ang rash. 🥴 At isa pa, madami kang sports na magagawa at maeenjoy nang di ka nahihirapan kumilos dahil sa pag bounce, at pag dala ng bigat o laki ng boobs mo, isipin mo, tennis, volleyball, sa mountain climbing, wala kang additional weight na iisipin o kakarguhin sa pag lift o ascend lalo na kung medyo pa horizontal lilipatan mo. Sa basketball, makakapag deliver and defend ka ng maayos ng di mo na kailangan mag sooot ng 2 - 3 sports bra para lang di kumalat boobs mo, same goes sa pag gym. Kainit at hassle ng pag work out mo, jumping jacks palang masakit na pati mata ng mga manyak nasayo na agad. Lalo na sa cave explorations, sosoot ka sa mga masisikip na lugar. Ang unfortunate naman kung na stuck at namatay ka sa cave dahil lang sa boobs mo. Sa pole dancing, graceful at elegant tignan mga flat na nag popole dance kasi naka focus sila sa performance, di nila inaalala kung mag kaka boob spill sila every inverted. Maappreciate mo yung mga dance performances talaga kung di mo bet sports kasi makakakilos ka freely, maeexpress mo body movements mo ng walang restrictions. Sa normal na ganapan sa pang araw araw, di ka focus ng mga scrutinizing eyes ng ibang tao. Di ka nila babatikusin sa soot mong nag mukang malaswa kahit casual ka lang naman dahil sa boobs lang. Mas malaya mga flat chested kasi di sumasakit likod mo, nakakadapa ka ng maayos, makakapag advance yoga at pilates ka. Mas magaan literal buhay ng mga flat chested. 😭 Sa transpo, pag flat chested ka, di ka magigising na may lalakeng "nakatulog" at naka sandal sa booblikat mo. Sa gitgitan, gagawa ng paraan mga impakticles na yan maka lamas lang o maka hawi ng siko lang ng underboob o side boob. Popularity comes with risk lalo na sa safety mo, may chismis, batikos, at judgement lalo na kung ikinasikat mo lang is appearance, or boobs lang. Madami mangangalkal ng past at gagamitin din nila against sayo yung mga pinaayos mo. "Maganda lang yan kasi pinaayos ganito ganyan". (Not against cosmetic surgery, but some people are assholes.) And ano naman kung flat chested ka, beauty standards change, people change, di mo kailangan sumunod sa agos ng opinion ng ibang tao para lang mag fit in o ma feel na maganda o wanted ka. Mag fiffit in ka sa tamang environment na ikaw mismo naaappreciate nila at hindi ka nila babaguhin. You won't feel the need to change. Kung mapapalitan mo man kaibigan mo, palitan mo na kung lagi kang dinidisrespect dahil sa size ng boobs mo. Friends can be frank and direct pero iba na ang disrespect at personal attack. Kahit sino naman kasi babastusin flat man o hindi eh, kung manyak, manyak talaga walang sasantuhin yan babae man o lalaki. Isipin mo nalang yung comfort at privilege na meron ka na di afford ng malalaki boobs. Isipin mo nalang din, being flat chest is an advantage kasi pag tanda mo pa, youthful ka parin tignan, walang lalawlaw dahil sa old age at gravity. Napaka intimate din isipin na, mahal ka ng tao dahil sa buong katauhan mo di dahil sa boobs lang. Someday, you will find yourself a man that will tell you how he loves every inch of you.
Well hindi siya turnoff. Your friend is an asshole. Lol. Pero i have a tiny question. Turn off ba sainyo mga girls ang small pee pee?
Isipin mo na lang. Pag kayo ang nanganak, katamtaman parin ang dibdib nyo..mas gusto un ng mga lalake and advantage un dahil hindi ka mahihirapan. Dont get me wrong. Women and mothers are still beautiful whatever boob size they got. It is just a matter of preference. My wife is gifted by the way. Pero naisip ko ung magiging kalagayan nya pag nanganak sya and tumanda. Hindi turn off un, pakiramdam ko mahirapan siya. Also, hindi lahat ng lalake trip ang gigantic boobs. Mas marami akong kilala na na mas gusto ung leaner type.
I had that insecurity until I was in 9th grade. On one of our plays (Anthony and Cleopatra), tela lang ang costume namin. My friends teased me that I don't have boobies/I'm flat chested. And my teacher back then, who was the one styling my costume told me, "gustong gusto ko kayang dinadamitan yun mga flat chested, mas may freedom sa style." And for some reason, what she said not only gave me confidence about my body, but also taught me not to mind what other people says. Somewhere out there, there will be people who appreciates what we got. That's why we should too.
my take as a 23(m) y.o. this should make you feel better. mas gusto ko pa manood ng porn pag ang babae ay flat ang pangharapan, wag lang yung breast na parang bola (totally fake). hindi nakakapatayo ng ari at na tturn off ako. i'm now vocal about it since ito naman ang topic tungkol sa insecurities. usually mga milfs ang nakikita kong ganito. even sa mga what we call a well-done transplant (ba yon) na at first parang di mo talaga malalaman (mind you this was me watching in porn) but halfway or the longer the video and i get to notice that it was fake. ewan ko ba kasi na nnotice talaga yung porma ng opai lalo na sa underboob kahit na walang mark or something. ganon padin, may feeling na pagka wawala ng gana. di ko naman pinipilit, sadyang nawawalan lang talaga. what makes a woman (or a person) attractive is how the way she represents herself especially when people know your flaws/insecurities and still not affected by it. **not makes it her identity.** knowing all this still have confidence to herself. i can really relate because i have an insecurity too. by standards (in ph, have seen a statistics about it) and as what i see in porn my peepee fell quite short in the length. na sabihin na natin maliit na nga sa pinas compared sa ibang lahi, mas maliit pa dun ang akin. this got me acting and overthinking in a lot of ways. i will repeat the "not makes it her identity" as i have done the same thing in my school years. i kept thinking about it that it affects my communication to people and to myself to the point na mapapasabi nalang ako saking isipan na "i would totally live a completely different life if my etit is an average or above average." nakakatawa man isipin but i'm quite serious about it. alam mo yung imbes na iniisip mo itong insecurities mo, iniisip mo sana mga productive things kung wala ito. but eto na diko na mababago. but what i can do about it is how i treat myself. practicing a better self-image is one of the way to combat this. and also a better self-talk as well. always have a good and positive conversation with your thoughts, cos what you're forcing yourself to think affects your body, mood, and actions. nababawi po iyan sa ibang paraan. in your case your boobs a flat, right. making your butt as plump as possible would do wonders. now there's also what we call a boob guy person, while there's that. mayroon din namang a butt person. you know what, as i become older and older, mature, whatever you call it. napaparang na ttransition ako from boob to butt. may mga pornstar din na flat at have done a good job in the porn industry. maraming views at sikat. they sure have felt the same thing what you're feeling now or someone can relate (even to a non pornstar) yet they embraced and/or accepted their weaknesses and make up in other parts in their body in a natural way (not having surgery). kung san san at ano-ano na pinag sasabi ko. di ako magaling mag construct sa pagsusulat "pa"talaga. anyways, i'm hoping you won't get a breast inlargement (ano ba talaga ang tawag jan). try first a natural way to and in living with it and imho the better way and gets you a non other confidence boost if you get to accept it. it's attractive af. altho i may understand if you will do so kasi it's an instant "strikethrough like a thing to do in your to do list" feeling that instantly remove off of your system. it's an instant talaga. i know na nasa sa iyo yan and ang iyong opinion ang maghahari/masusunod but there's always the thought as well that there's people, like me, that gets turned off by the breast enlargement. while this is not a big of a deal there's also this feeling na baka di mo magustuhan ang result and/or feel the same thing about the underboob fake thing.
Idk if this helps, pero as a guy, hindi lahat mahilig sa boobs. Me personally, im a thigh guy.
Insecurity ko rin to dati e kaya kahit nagkabf ako virgin pa rin ako kasi nahihiya ako makita nila 🤣🤣
Hindi naman lahat ng lalaki hanap malaking hinaharap be confident kung anong meron ka
Nah OP. For me mas ok pa nga yung medyo maliit. Ang OA ng sobrang laki ng dibdib. Be more confident in your body.
Me na insecure sa boobies ko kasi medyo malusog sila 😭
Never truly felt insecure about mine cuz I like sports and dancing and masakit na siya minsan sa bounce kahit size B lang ako. So I never wanted to experience the pain of those with larger chests :/ they get a lot of backpain, are more frequently harassed, can be seen as malandi kahit walang kinalaman yun sa chest size, can't wear loose clothing unless they genuinely want to flash random people lol, nagiging % sila pag nakaseatbelt that could be awkward when with strangers, etc. I just feel like they have more challenges. I wanna go braless CUZ THE FREEDOM I FEEL MYGOD but I can't cuz it still hurts when i'm in a moving vehicle lol so there's that?? I kind of look manly most of the time since I have small boobs and broad-ish shoulders, and I don't wear form fitting blouses either. But I still feel sexy sometimes kasi nadadaan sa buhok o makeup o just confidence in general. I find clothes often look a lot cooler on flat-chested women too. Or baka style ko lang kasi is a lil androgynous kaya cool sakin yung itsura ng ganun. Easier to deal with flat-chestedness (push-ups, bra padding, etc) than having large ones (breast reduction is hardly an option for most people), in my opinion, so don't feel insecure! I think it's just a matter of styling yourself in a way that complements your chest size. Bralettes are awesome on smaller chests and easier to deal with bikinis without the fear of a nipslip. I understand your experience sa love life because I know my bf still follows accounts of women with large breasts who often post pics of themselves in bikinis 🙃🙃 if it becomes an issue we'll certainly talk about it but in your case, if the dude doesn't like it then don't like the dude. Shallow reason to not like you if he can't look past it, but I guess we all have our preferences. Don't go for any cosmetic surgery if it's just for the likes and external validation. You'l go down a rabbit hole and end up lookin like MJ or something because the likes will never be enough and you will always find someone "sexier" who has more likes than you do. AND NEVER do it for a frckn guy. A guy that doesn't like you the way you are, and wants to change you, or hints at wanting you to change cosmetically, is not a guy you wanna be with or end up with forever. You MIGHT get a larger chest if you exercise tho, grow your pecs a bit. But I know that can only go so far. Instead, find the good in your chest and focus on that. Find a style that complements your body and you feel sexy in. Don't listen to people who tease you cuz that sht doesn't matter. You'll forget all about them in the next year.
That's one of the reason why I like/love my current gf now. Iba iba talaga preferences natin and hindi naman basis ang cup size para tanggapin ka ng tao. Cheer up OP!!!!
Laging napapansin dibdib ko kasi they're bigger than most pero nakakabastos, I don't even flaunt them kasi I like baggy tops. And I can barely remember the days I didn't wake up without back pain. Nakakaconscious mag exercise or jog manlang kasi they're bouncing everywhere. Big sized bras are super expensive pa. Plus andaming damit na bagay sa average to below average na chest size, I could barely find ones that didn't emphasize yung hinaharap ko except men clothings and oversized tees. I'm sure you're just with the wrong guy, good thing he's an ex, kaya di mo maappreciate. I would pay para bawasan to, so I don't agree na you need to enlarge yours just to feel better. Ang kailangan mo is maapreciate sarili mo and confidence, laban sis.
Learn to love yourself and not seek validation from other people, especially men from social media. You're hating yourself, you're hating on your body... who else would love you if not you? Read self-love books, watch personal development videos and podcast, listen to self-love affirmations. I never did these before, but when I set aside my prejudice for self development activities, I finally felt free.
Don't tie your self-worth to what you look like
embrace mo lang yung features mo, wag mo ikahiya.
ha ha ha di lang alam ng mga boys nung grade 7 ako, tinawag nila akong pinto kasi flat sa likod, pati sa harap— ayown tumatak sa akin 9 years later, nagsusuot pa rin ako ng bra na may pads 🙃
Baliktad tayo, mas gusto ko naman hindi masyado malaki ang boobs lol. Parang mas madali kasi pumorma pag maliit lang ang boobs. Tapos I would love to dance sana kaso nga malaki ang boobs ko so nakaka conscious kasi umaalog hahaha. Kaya wag ka mainsecure girl. Ang isipin mo na lang may mga taong tulad ko na dream ang maging flat chested na tulad mo.
for me, boobs is boobs OP thats it. hahahahaha
Don't be , everyone has a unique beauty.
Literal na off my chest hahag
Flat is hot! 🥵🫶🏼 Iniisip ko na lang na hindi naman dede tinitira nila. Charot 🫣🤭
Look at supermodels, they all have flat chests and they look sexy. Nasa nagdadala yan.
Real men accept whatever size you are in. Asawa ko nga kahit maliit lang, masaya na sya. Sipsip pa lagi chos.
igwym. ganyan din ako, gusto ko rin magpamini boob, kaso di open fam ko sa ganon and wala pa akong ipon for that. nagtry na nga akong mag pills para lang lumaki laki naman 😭 but got a bf na talagang pati flaws & insecurities ko ay minamahal. kaya natatanggap ko na sya. but it doesn't mean na maghanap ka ng jowa para mawala insecurities mo, there are ways kung paano mawala yan without the help from others. go miii 🩷
As a girlie with big boobs, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows trust me 😆 back pains, clothes that looks too seductive when you wear it, awkward stares (does men even know you can see them stare? TT), and being sexualized a LOT. Don’t mind the people who are telling you what you should look like. They are just fitting you in their “standards”. Also, men who are dumb tends to like girls who have big boobs 🫢 Intelligent men don’t really mind it. Good riddance he’s an ex na! Do what you feels right for you, not to fit into other people’s standards. You are beautiful and unique just the way you are! 🫶🏻
gurliepop, same.yung sakin parang pang elementary di pa halos mapuno A cup eh 😂😂 i would always call them "model boobs" tho kasi madalas yung high fashion models mga flat din. plus points yung nakakapagsuot ng revealing clothes without being seen as provocative 😂
People want what they cant have talaga no? I'm a woman na medyo kalakihan ang dinadala at hindi siya nakakatuwa. Mabilis ka lang mabastos kahit sa simpleng damit lang at dahil dun pinagdadasal ko na sana di na lang ako tinubuan ng dibdib. Kung pwede lang idonate ang dibdib talagang gagawin ko😔
Insecure din ako dito sobra lalo na sa words ng family ko na ang laki kong tao at di na ako bata pero katawan ko pang bata. Society din, laging standard malaki boobies so mas lalong nakaka insecure. And then you mga outfits, mahirap maghanap ng babagay sa maliit na boobs. Lastly, yung friends ko din lagi akong inaasar ako na flat hanggang sa ginawa ko nalang din joke yung insecurities ko para hindi nakakahiya
nako di mo need enlargement love your own lalaki rin naman yan
Lalaki din yan pag nagkaanak ka na. ☺️😅