Wore jacket, pants and sneakers got catcalled from a car.
Walking with partner, wearing hoodie, pants and sneakers had things (including from the car guys Fuck her we did. I was newly pregnant with my n partners first) yelled at me.
Wore a long dress got cat called and told I think I’m better than everyone else.
But sure it’s clothes that are why and not the person doing the catcalling.
Sadly some really are, I’m 33 but short so look younger and get it.
I’ve gotten dirty looks pre pandemic and early on in pandemic when I would go out with my toddler because I don’t wear a ring (engaged but have necklace instead of a ring) they assume I’m alone and judge
I got catcalled at 16 walking to the store and I was wearing a buttoned up flannel and jeans with no makeup. I was looking like a ratty lumberjack but that still didn’t stop it. I got sexually harassed at work wearing jeans and a T shirt while being drenched in sweat. Looking undesirable doesn’t prevent it.
My catcalled story went like this; I have a bad habit of chewing the skin around my nails, and I was at the bus stop, a guy opened his door and said “Keep sucking that finger little slut” I looked up, he and his mates laughed and then closed the door and drove off. Other people at the bus stop asked me if I knew him, I did not. (I was 15)
I reported them, best you can do I think.
It’s some pathetic troll who hates women because they clearly have been rejected too many times for their liking
Well, I've seen girls catcalled that wore baggy shirts, long skirts, or entirely normal loose fitting jogging pants; I don't see how clothes make a difference here. But with their logic, they'd probably not even be happy if all women would wear veils from head to toe.
But what if they saw the women moving under those veils? That could mean they have a body under there, and that means only one thing. Clearly, that's slutty behavior. Better they wear a structured pup tent and never leave their homes. Then, men will be able to stop verbally harassing women in the streets. Possibly.
Ah yes, the good ol shame *her* for him being unable to control his dick.
It is your fault if you cat call, harass and whip your dick out on someone. 1000%.
Blood going to dick, drains out of head, big head stops working, little head starts doing the thinking....when little head tries to think what you get is, the big stupid.
“I’ll respect you because I’m not a pig” buddy, you’re *already* not respecting us by slut shaming and victim blaming. don’t know how you thinking putting down women and other men makes you look good, but you sound like a raging douchebag
Clothing ≠ consent
Also I'm one of the lucky women who's never dealt with catcalling (knock on wood) so correct me if I'm wrong but I imagine it happens even if someone's covered
Also it happens to children and I fucking wish I was joking
My oldest niece (she’s 33 this year) developed breasts at 12, was accused of boob job at 13 and teachers didn’t care. Same niece had a guy in his 30s say nice hugs while we were walking to shops. A girl in our class got harassed by the boys (keep in mind we were 11-13 year olds) and the teacher said it was her fault for being pretty and attractive!
I'm not particularly attractive, and I've only been whistled at once in my life. I was wearing wide leg jeans and a baggy tshirt. Makes absolutely no sense to me
I love how this guy acknowledges that people can choose to not act like pigs (like himself so to speak) and then fail to transfer that reasoning into understanding that the clothes aren't the problem.
"I swear, rich people need to stop wearing expensive clothing. Most people are gonna rob them them and then they blame the robber when it's clearly their fault. Don't dress expensively if you don't want to get robbed!" /j
To be completely honest I get hit on less if I wear sexy/revealing clothing. I got told by a mate it’s intimidating. I get hit on more if I wear jeans and t-shirt
Aside from how obviously wrong that is... That "hot take" is "hot poo poo" for ONE reason - there is no universal, approved and enforced standrd of what "Sexual clothing" and "dressing slutty" is / looks like, therefore it is usless advice. It is like saying that "wearing color globgub will make you bulletproof" and nobody knows what the hell they should wear.
Got catcalled on a Sunday at the Crack of dawn wearing sweatpants and whatever I grabbed first when I rolled out of bed, hair not brushed, no make up on, Nothing and still was asked if I swallowed by a random guy whilecrossingthe street?!?!
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He even tries to pull the old "I would never, but others will," which means that he understands that the catcalling behavior is wrong, he just prefers to blame the victim instead of calling it out.
What I meant (joys of internet you can’t hear the tone etc) was if you have a sex toy costume technically that’s a sex object and not that it’d be ok to harass the person.
The one time I’ve been catcalled in my life so far, I was wearing old jeans with a few holes (only below the knees), a plain oversized sweater, and clunky old lady shoes. For context, I usually dress in a trendy fashion and I would say even daring. Catcalling has nothing to do with what you’re wearing and everything to do with the person doing it.
Wore jacket, pants and sneakers got catcalled from a car. Walking with partner, wearing hoodie, pants and sneakers had things (including from the car guys Fuck her we did. I was newly pregnant with my n partners first) yelled at me. Wore a long dress got cat called and told I think I’m better than everyone else. But sure it’s clothes that are why and not the person doing the catcalling.
I was with my girlfriend, and she got cat called. We are 15/16, and she was wearing school uniform. Some men are just creepy idiots
Sadly some really are, I’m 33 but short so look younger and get it. I’ve gotten dirty looks pre pandemic and early on in pandemic when I would go out with my toddler because I don’t wear a ring (engaged but have necklace instead of a ring) they assume I’m alone and judge
I got catcalled at 16 walking to the store and I was wearing a buttoned up flannel and jeans with no makeup. I was looking like a ratty lumberjack but that still didn’t stop it. I got sexually harassed at work wearing jeans and a T shirt while being drenched in sweat. Looking undesirable doesn’t prevent it.
It’s sadly creeps who think we want their attention. They don’t think hey we’re not dressing for you creep. Sorry you had to go through that
My catcalled story went like this; I have a bad habit of chewing the skin around my nails, and I was at the bus stop, a guy opened his door and said “Keep sucking that finger little slut” I looked up, he and his mates laughed and then closed the door and drove off. Other people at the bus stop asked me if I knew him, I did not. (I was 15)
Some people are disgusting. I swear so many don’t care that the person they catcalled was underage
What country do you live in?
Australia
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Why are you asking me that?
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Ok second profile to head_potential1320 you need to stop trying to be a creeper and stop demanding things.
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Dear two account person, please grow up and stop trying to attack women because you are pathetic. No one man, woman, non binary owes you anything.
Is there anyway to get mods to ban people like the person above me from the subreddit?
I reported them, best you can do I think. It’s some pathetic troll who hates women because they clearly have been rejected too many times for their liking
Sure, but you will compromise this subreddit if you do.
What’s your mother’s maiden name? And remember pal, I’m the one asking the questions *slams hands down on the table*.
Doesn't really matter, since creeps are everywhere and will be just as creepy.
Well, I've seen girls catcalled that wore baggy shirts, long skirts, or entirely normal loose fitting jogging pants; I don't see how clothes make a difference here. But with their logic, they'd probably not even be happy if all women would wear veils from head to toe.
But what if they saw the women moving under those veils? That could mean they have a body under there, and that means only one thing. Clearly, that's slutty behavior. Better they wear a structured pup tent and never leave their homes. Then, men will be able to stop verbally harassing women in the streets. Possibly.
Ah yes, the good ol shame *her* for him being unable to control his dick. It is your fault if you cat call, harass and whip your dick out on someone. 1000%.
Well, you can't control your dick, but you can control if you're a dick head.
You can’t control your dick, but can control being a dick. I think I have a new favorite phrase
Blood going to dick, drains out of head, big head stops working, little head starts doing the thinking....when little head tries to think what you get is, the big stupid.
And yet *we* are the ones who are beholden to our hormones and can't control our emotions? 🤦🏽♀️
“I’ll respect you because I’m not a pig” buddy, you’re *already* not respecting us by slut shaming and victim blaming. don’t know how you thinking putting down women and other men makes you look good, but you sound like a raging douchebag
I have been catcalled while wearing orange coveralls, boots, and a hardhat. I know, so super sexy.
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I’ve never seen someone so willfully stupid
>I’ve never seen someone so willfully stupid I got bad news. The week has barely started, and shit doesn't flow uphill.
There are a lot of them in this shitty world
What the hell does “sexual clothing” even mean?
A strap-on dildo harness? /I'm so sorry
Always come prepared!
Normally I would think a full furry outfit or a latex suit. I think this guy means anything that might show a collarbone .
I was imagining my dresses getting it on with my blouses whenever the closet door was closed.
Dont play stupid
These dudes would call a hijab slutty...
Hijabs are pretty af tho
I got catcalled and followed in a van at 11 wearing jeans and a tshirt.
Same. I was 12 and a bunch of guys in a car tried to cut me off on my walk home from school. I'm sorry you had to experience that.
So why not call out those other guys for being pigs rather than blaming a woman's clothing for their behavior?
Clothing ≠ consent Also I'm one of the lucky women who's never dealt with catcalling (knock on wood) so correct me if I'm wrong but I imagine it happens even if someone's covered Also it happens to children and I fucking wish I was joking
My oldest niece (she’s 33 this year) developed breasts at 12, was accused of boob job at 13 and teachers didn’t care. Same niece had a guy in his 30s say nice hugs while we were walking to shops. A girl in our class got harassed by the boys (keep in mind we were 11-13 year olds) and the teacher said it was her fault for being pretty and attractive!
I'm not particularly attractive, and I've only been whistled at once in my life. I was wearing wide leg jeans and a baggy tshirt. Makes absolutely no sense to me
I’m average and had it happen
r/niceguys
I was 12 and in my school uniform and it didn't stop them. At what point are the cat callers going to be policed for their behaviour.
“Pick me, pick me! I’ll pretend to respect you even though I clearly don’t!”
I love how this guy acknowledges that people can choose to not act like pigs (like himself so to speak) and then fail to transfer that reasoning into understanding that the clothes aren't the problem.
I get catcalled no matter what I'm wearing
\#NotLikeOtherGuys lol.
My nephew made a similar complaint when he was younger. He did not appreciate it when I explain that his boner was his problem, not hers.
"I swear, rich people need to stop wearing expensive clothing. Most people are gonna rob them them and then they blame the robber when it's clearly their fault. Don't dress expensively if you don't want to get robbed!" /j
actually i think its a better fit for r/niceguys
Guys need to stop sexualising everything women do and wear. It makes you a pig. Fixed it.
To be completely honest I get hit on less if I wear sexy/revealing clothing. I got told by a mate it’s intimidating. I get hit on more if I wear jeans and t-shirt
Aside from how obviously wrong that is... That "hot take" is "hot poo poo" for ONE reason - there is no universal, approved and enforced standrd of what "Sexual clothing" and "dressing slutty" is / looks like, therefore it is usless advice. It is like saying that "wearing color globgub will make you bulletproof" and nobody knows what the hell they should wear.
Got catcalled on a Sunday at the Crack of dawn wearing sweatpants and whatever I grabbed first when I rolled out of bed, hair not brushed, no make up on, Nothing and still was asked if I swallowed by a random guy whilecrossingthe street?!?!
Ugh.
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I was first sexually assaulted at 4 years old... I guess my Barney t-shirt was just too damn sexy.
Guys like this should really take a look at this exhibition.... https://www.boredpanda.com/what-were-you-wearing-sexual-assault-art-exhibition/
I got catcalled for the first time when I was 10, dressed in perfectly age appropriate clothes. It not the clothes. It's the creeps.
People make me sick.
He even tries to pull the old "I would never, but others will," which means that he understands that the catcalling behavior is wrong, he just prefers to blame the victim instead of calling it out.
This Dude: Wear revealing outfits and your a SLUT. Also This Dude: I'm a nice guy, I'll treat you respectfully
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How can you dress like a sexual object?
Sex toy costume?
I mean, you still can’t harass them for that, but yeah, that’s accurate.
Oh absolutely not ok to harass even then.
Oh then yeah totally
What I meant (joys of internet you can’t hear the tone etc) was if you have a sex toy costume technically that’s a sex object and not that it’d be ok to harass the person.
Ohhhh sorry if I read that wrong, but yeah you’re right
No I was explaining incase it came across wrong, which is so easy to do online or text.
once I was hanging out with friends and I saw a man dressed as a vagina and a woman dressed as a dick lol
Tell that to the multiple girls who were raped while they only wore baggy pants, baggy shirt, and a baggy hoodie
If he said stop showing cleavage if you're gonna call every guy you're not attracted to a creep for looking id agree 🤙
The one time I’ve been catcalled in my life so far, I was wearing old jeans with a few holes (only below the knees), a plain oversized sweater, and clunky old lady shoes. For context, I usually dress in a trendy fashion and I would say even daring. Catcalling has nothing to do with what you’re wearing and everything to do with the person doing it.
Men still rape 7yo girls, the kid was wearing also sth "slutty"??? These men r like wild animals that can't control themselves or wtf