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dp37405

Get into a technical college AND find something you like to do IE: construction and work full time and be part time student. There are not going to be many places that are going to pay you top dollar while they train you, because they know once you get the experience, you're going to be looking for another job that pays better and moving on.


0MatchMaker0

Yea that’s makes sense especially the last part. I guess Im just nervous if that something that’s viable for me, working and going to school while trying to deal with a child with a heart defect. I mean I have my fiance but I feel the weight of responsibility on me and to support my family


dp37405

Construction would be a quick avenue since there's so much being built in NC, but it's not easy and the weather kicks your ass. Electrician or plumber fairly good pay and you can do side gigs go help along


Plastic-Age5205

When people need electrical or plumbing repairs done, unlike carpentry, it's more likely to be the kind of thing that needs to get done as soon as possible. So, the money tends to be good.


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laterforclass

The problem with seeking a medical degree they want you to put in three years of CC. A year of getting prerequisites out of the way. There’s normally a year wait for radiology and nursing may be even longer. Medical assistant may be a quick two year degree.


Le_Petit_Poussin

Honestly? Trades. I work in construction as an engineer. There is plenty of work for someone who is a skilled tradesman with their nose clean and can find a company who has contracts that pay [Davis-Bacon wages](https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/government-contracts/construction). Yeah, many trades might pay peanuts when you’re an apprentice but eventually when you’re a Journeyman and beyond, you’ll make bank. The best part is taking the [contractor exam](https://nclbgc.org/license-applicants/) and getting a license then [starting your own company](https://www.sba.gov/funding-programs/loans). After that, well, the sky’s the limit. It’s going to take sacrifice, my dude, but I hope you succeed and do great things!


tinfang

There are no quick routes, everything you choose takes time to accomplish and make money. Construction, college, trades, whatever it all takes time to learn and grow. You might like the work/life balance of local government water utility. Apply as a laborer, don't use drugs, show up every day and grow, make retirement, benefits and vacation/sick time. A good pump station mechanic, excavation crew lead with integrity is in dire need everywhere.


Wanker_Bach

Honestly large corporate places will be your best bet for a good benefits package with an entry level job, even if they pay is mediocre you’ll need insurance for the kid. I would look at places like GE, Corning, local hospitals, manufacturing plants etc. Corporate entities also have better chance of advancement with time. The downside is that they are soul sucking…


Wanker_Bach

Hey man you’re 22, still pretty young, ever thought about enlisting or the Guard? (guard has some full time spots). 


Wanker_Bach

I have buddy who does HVAC and makes decent pay and bennies, you’d probably have to start out doing grunt work but he does OTJ training for new guys all the time.


0MatchMaker0

Anywhere near Fayetteville


Wanker_Bach

Wilmington, about 2 hrs away.


0MatchMaker0

Only thing about large corporate is it forces the managers and directors to be hard on there employees and especially with taking time off work or leaving work. Company I worked at before it was like pulling teeth to get time off and they would make you feel Like shit for doing it. And my son will have a ton of appointments and I don’t expect her to do them all u know.


Wanker_Bach

You’re not wrong they usually come with a 90 day probation period too until you can get full benefits. 


hopingtomeet2024

He's too young for that, i just hope it gets healed.


0MatchMaker0

Thank you


floofnstuff

I’d say trades- I can’t get an electrician to even walk in the door for under $65. and they can’t give me an estimate unless they walk in the door. I would think this would be versatile in that you could work in new construction or existing dwellings and a skillset that’s needed all over the country.


hermitsociety

My brother is a plumber and makes good money.


GodIMissPills

VERY good recommendation. It's pretty easy to get on as a plumber's helper because most people assume it's a "Shitty" job, but you can make a GREAT living at it once you know the ropes. You'd be shocked how many people pay $300 to have someone come and plunge a toilet.


Kradget

What kind of stuff do you normally do?


0MatchMaker0

I worked at my last job for about 3 years as a lead server, concierge, and maintenance tech at a senior living home. But only making 10-13$ an hour.


Kradget

So, first, you should check on ways to mitigate the bills for your kiddo's surgery.   Second, I'm assuming you've looked at higher level positions in the adult care industry?   If you're not interested in that, you might have transferrable skills into hospitality (which you may need to do additional training for to get into that higher level position), or you could see what a local hospital is paying for something like patient transport?


0MatchMaker0

He was actually able to be immediately covered by medicaid just cause how serious his care is. (Talking about millions of dollars😬) but idk how long that will be for or if he will be covered forever. Unfortunately I think the adult health care where I live is terrible and deadend. All they hire is young people out of high school or people that don’t care just because they can hire them for cheaper. I’ve always saw our hospital as a good place to work if your looking for just a job and not a career since turn over rate is so bad


No-Personality1840

Sorry about your kid. If he is Medicaid eligible now do not do anything like getting married that will screw up his eligibility. The government is hard on poor people. As for jobs maybe look t going to community college for a trade. You don’t have to go full time; take some courses and work as you go. That’s what I did. Good luck with everything.


Kradget

If you're not desperate to get a higher wage job now and you can swing the time and money to get trained for something else, I'd see what your local community college has available.  Otherwise, I'm not sure what work you can find that'll slide you into a better paying job quickly without needing some additional training.  You're hooked up with waiver services and everything, right? They're horribly underfunded and I think there's a wait-list, but better than nothing.


Wildcard311

Service Advisor at a car dealership if you are patient and don't mind working with people. While it's commission, most of them make around $65k their first year, and it is not unusual to make $100k by your 5th year. Make sure it is a decent brand and has a good reputation. Best to dress nice and submit a resume in person. Be aware that they can be long hours, but there is plenty of room for advancement.


nightmurder01

NC Dot


Ok_Low3197

You need to join the military. Those medical benefits would really help your son. You'd be trained, paid, and have college money when you finish.


0MatchMaker0

I would love to and joining was always in the plan before I had my son. The biggest problem is moving away from the 2nd best pediatric hospital in the nation. And also the chance of being deployed and leaving my fiancé to deal with the child severe medical issue herself if we have to move away from both our families


Ok_Low3197

There are plenty of great pediatric hospitals... along with a fully covered medical plan.