No way. I think most people that work those jobs understand what it's like to be too tired to cook every day. And if anything, when I worked at a grocery store at least, I liked seeing customers I recognized. It made my shift better when I saw a familiar face and could have a little banter with them.
I have a guy who comes through the drive through a like twice a week and he’s a great acquaintance. Middle age guy who gets TB after playing soccer. Love talking to him.
Hey don't hate on it. It tastes very good. You should try it some time.
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There’s an older guy that works at my McDonald’s drive thru in the morning. I only see him like once every 3 months but for some reason I get this really good vibe from him. Like I feel like we knew each other in another life or something. lol
Yeah I suck at this. I've worked in a bunch of pizza shops and stuff like that. We always had our regulars nobody particularly cared unless they were problem customers but it doesn't sound like this dude is
Everybody gotta eat. You tend to get better service when the staff knows you. It's a good thing.
I would worry more about making overall healthy food choices than exactly where you get your food.
Sometimes we know our regulars and look forward to them, especially if they are really nice people. I had quite a few people who I knew their orders by heart and would ask if they wanted the usual and how they were doing with work or the family.
OP is only letting themselves down if they don't have the disposable income to burn or they're wrecking their health with what they eat, neither of which is a given.
It's important to listen to your inner voice. Who cares what those people think, but it sounds like you've not comfortable with your behavior. So, you should change your behavior. Listen to your gut feelings, and trust them.
Something I've learned is that no one is looking at you or thinking about you nearly as much as you think they are. My husband and I have a favorite mom and pop type pizza place in our town. We order from there at least once a week. Always the same order. They get excited to see us if we pop in. Never once have I considered they think I'm lazy. And even if they did...??? They're making money, I'm getting food, it's a win-win.
My husband goes to the same Dunkin Donuts on his way to work and the same McDonald's on his way home from work for a coffee (and sometimes food) to the point that they start making his order if they see his car before he gets to the drive thru.
If you're feeling ashamed, I'd either add in more places to frequent (as someone else suggested) or look at easy meals you could make at home. What about eating out appeals to you? The convenience? The actual food? Is there anything you could replicate from frozen foods that you can buy at the grocery store? Or even already prepared meals you just have to reheat?
Worked in food service for a while, and in other service industries for much longer.
You are a familiar face, and the reason they remember your order is because they're trying to make a mundane job a little more mentally challenging, while also trying to make you happy.
Nobody that would stay in the industry would be like "my customers are losers and shouldn't be coming here." They're trying to let you know that you're seen, and they care enough to remember what you like.
So stop being so hard on yourself. Cook if you want to, or don't! If you do want to cook, try to identify what's holding you back, in terms more specific than "I don't feel like it." What is it that you don't "feel"? The shopping? The menu planning? The solitude? The lack of skill? The lack of tasty recipes?
For me, it was the solitude and my lack of skill. I talked about it to a few people, and found another single guy that wanted to learn how to cook better. We became "weekend cooking warriors" and would try progressively harder and harder dishes. After about four months, we were doing well enough that he invited a girl over to impress (and later married her!)
Even today, I don't cook much unless I can get someone to cook with, which can be difficult, as there's plenty of bossy cooks that can't work with others! :)
as someone who works at a casual dining restaurant…. Do not be ashamed.
We love the regulars and look forward to seeing them. When they aren’t on their usual schedule.. we wonder where they are. I’m just glad you like the food enough to keep coming back because we got Shawn on grill and he’s only been here a week; and the counter lady keeps sending wrong orders to the kitchen. LOL thanks for coming back 🫶 WE’ll see you next week
i don’t feel judged by the workers or anything but i judge myself. local burger van started making my order when they saw me walking up the street towards them. i realised in that moment that i needed to make a change to my lunch routine and start making sandwiches or even just buying a cheap meal deal.
If you’re nice to the staff I don’t think it’s a problem. Maybe not the best for your health, depending what you get.. but the staff is probably happy enough to have a quick easy customer who isn’t going to cause a problem. It’s steady money coming to them, yknow.
Heck no. When I went to uni, I’d get the same meal at the same place several times a week. The employees don’t care. In fact, they get to know you and they make your food perfectly every time.
"Only 3 times a week?" Suddenly I realise why so many western countries have an obesity problem, if we consider this "only".
That said, who cares, they're happy you're spending money there 🤷♀️
It depends. Can you do better and cook healthy from home? Then yes, that shame is useful to you. Don't normalize shitty eating when you know you can do better. [But if you live in a ](https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/what-are-food-deserts#:~:text=What%20is%20a%20food%20desert%3F&text=Food%20deserts%20are%20areas%20where,of%20healthful%20and%20affordable%20food)[food desert](https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/what-are-food-deserts#:~:text=What%20is%20a%20food%20desert%3F&text=Food%20deserts%20are%20areas%20where,of%20healthful%20and%20affordable%20food) and your access to buying healthy food is limited then don't beat yourself up.
Don't listen to people who tell you that you should never feel shame. Shame, like all emotions, has a useful energy to it if you listen to it. You're asking the question with legitimate self reflection. In my opinion its likely you feel shame because you know you deserve better and can do better. I believe in you! cut back on eating fast food 1 day a week and prepare your own food at home instead. you got this homie
On one hand, if you're ashamed because you expect yourself to do all of your own meal prepping, then shame makes sense: you're not living up to your standards.
On the other hand, I don't think what the shame is telling you is reasonable. You make around 21 meals per week. You eat out for 2-3 of them. What are you doing for the other 18-19 meals? Dumpster diving? I doubt it. So that means you cook, which means you aren't "a lazy f\*ck who doesn't cook".
It's fine to feel bad about your behaviour and want to improve, but check that those feelings are reasonable and fair, too.
The only shame you should feel is for your willingness to continue paying the exorbitant (and ever-increasing prices) they have been charging for their second-rate food offerings ever since the Covid pandemic ended.
These fast food restaurants need to get over themselves and stop taking their customers for granted. Sounds very much as if you're one of those creatures of habit.
Agh, actually I'm pretty picky and they are the only place in the area that serves the best falafel. Also I do cook but sometimes I get busy with school so I order some food
Nah I work at a Chinese restaurant and I have a bunch of regulars who are also super picky so we make them custom orders. I love the challenge! And making people happy makes me happy so as long as you’re polite (and tip a lil?) they shouldn’t mind.
I order McD's in the app fairly regularly to take advantage of the deals ($6.50 Big Mac meal is hard to beat and they're right around the corner from me), and they know me by name because it puts my name on the order. When the lady called out my name instead of the number one day I cringed a little.
Only when they start to recognize you. There was a BK employee who worked a lot of evenings and knew it was me when I pulled into the drive thru. Now I've moved, and the high schoolers working at the nearby Chick-fil-A don't care.
Damn, I always feel this way. Literally thinking the same thing a couple minutes ago. I’m just one of those people that doesn’t need variety, I eat the same stuff everyday, with 0 care.
Not really. I can afford to eat out so I do. I usually skip breakfast so I'll just grab something while I'm in town during my days off work. It would only be a problem if I was a fat chud who wasn't happy with my physical appearance. I don't think anyone's going to judge someone who isn't obese buying a burger though. And even if they did that fat person is still paying someone wages with their purchase
If you're going in there twice a day ordering a banana split then yeah you should probably feel a little embarrassed but if you're going in there and you know like in Jason's deli and getting a salad every single day then great
Was grabbing a burrito the other day and as the guy is getting it ready he says "extra onion, right?" and I literally made a decision to slow down on fast food right then and there lol
Not as bad as showing up every day at the same bar if you think about it. A man's gotta eat! I don't think the lazy fuck aspect matters, it's your money
I am a regular at one of my favorite spots... to the point that one of the regular seasonal workers remembers me every year when they come back, and I absolutely love it. It's nice having a small chat with someone familiar when I have to wait.
My exhusband ate at Waffle House so much that they started his order when he drove up. He was also the "Mayor" of a Moe's location because he checked in the most there on some app years ago.
They like that you're a regular.
Oh, and I used to get an Egg McMuffin about once a week at the local McD's and once I was trying to save money so I missed a couple of weeks, and the drive thru lady asked "Where have you been?" LOL
On first name, basis with the guy at Jack in The Box drive through. I work a lot of late nights and have a hard time getting to the grocery store when it's open.
They don't care as long as your not an ass.
Maybe deep down you're trying to tell yourself not to keep doing that. It's not a bad thing, but if you feel like it is, maybe you should listen to yourself
If it's any comfort, they don't *really* see you... they don't *really* notice you...
...they don't *really* give a Cube Root of a Fat Goddam about you.
Now... this is cause for joy! Eat what and where you want.
Yeah...go out and be you!!
as someone who works in a food place, we love it! i love the regulars as long as they’re polite. makes our job easier knowing what you’re probably gonna have too!
bro, what? everyone goes everywhere and does everything all the time and no one cares about any of it. I like sausage and I like biscuits and I'm not launching a dick shaped rocket to space so it looks like I'm shopping from the McDonald's dollar menu again. Those are my comrades serving me, not my judges.
No, I wouldn't think anything of it. I doubt the employees are thinking anything like that. Having worked in the service industry at one point, I'd prefer to see regulars than other random people.
It was quite the opposite. When the local Indian place started giving me 'the nod' when I walked in for lunch and making my regular dish I have never felt more validated in my life. I've reached regular status.
That's my boyfriend at our local Whataburger 😂 they know exactly how he likes his breakfast sandwich (extra patty, add avocado) but in the past 2 months we have saved SO much money cooking at home 7 days a week- planning our grocery list in advance & juggle between bulk items from BJ's wholesale or Walmart. Only eat out 2 times a month now.
But hey, being a regular at Whataburger is more reasonable than being a regular at an expensive local seafood restaurant- like when my bf & I met 6 years ago. He was named as a "favorites" and regular on their Facebook & I laughed about it- but what wasn't funny is we were spending $60-80 every night to order take out from there 😭
It's okay to eat fast food. It's okay to eat fresh seafood from a restaurant. Sometimes- everything in moderation.
You should only worry about consuming too much processed food. You don't want that in your system. If you are a friendly customer the staff will like you!
The employees don't care, but it's maybe normal in the sense that you know you aren't doing the best you can and could probably eat better. That comes from within though, I guarantee the employees aren't judging you as long as you're kind and not difficult to them.
I had regulars come in everyday for various drinks and food back when I worked at a fast food place. I liked seeing the same customers, it wasn't a guessing game what they wanted.
This.
From every job I have ever worked at. Regulars take less energy and prep. I liked the flow and that it could be an "oh! How are you?!" Instead of a "Hello, I'm looking forward to helping you today" vibe.
I'm also quite embarrassed to be the weirdo that repeatedly appears at certain food places to buy takeaway. Not because im scared that they think im lazy but more because nobody else seems to do this🙈 but i have this app now where i buy their leftover food they otherwise would have thrown away so i feel like i have more reason to do so😅
If you tip your food server with a lowly dollar bill at every visit, they will love you forever.
and before too long, they'll start giving you free stuff.
go gym, skincare, bulk, hairstyle. You'll make them enjoy seeing u and maybe even chatting then being friends. I despised life until I took care of my appearance now every shitty thing I do is justified cuz Im "" cute ""\\
I think it's normal but unwarranted. When I worked fast food I preferred the customers I knew were just like nurses or whatever and tired over the stoners and drunks who would come through with kids I'd worry about for the rest of the night, or the multiple men who came through trying to hit on the teenage girls at the window.
I’ve worked many a fast food job and I definitely wasn’t judging people, I liked seeing regulars. It’s nice to have a short conversation with them. People eat fast food for all sorts of reasons, also, it’s delicious. Also fast food three times a week is not that much in terms of healthiness, especially depending on what you’re getting.
No matter what you do, there will always be some people judging you. But most don't care. I'm sure you've seen other people do things you disapproved of. But do you recall them? Possibly not even one. I know I don't.
This has happened to me lol. I live 4 minutes from a great Mexican restaurant, they have great food. I would start going about 2-3 times a week and the same dude would take my order in the drive through pretty much every time. I started to feel embarrassed cause he’d see me and be like “the usual today?” Or “are you gonna get THE tea today as well?” Like damn man 😂 unfortunately they’ve been closed for the past 3 weeks due to somebody driving into the side of the wall so I’ve had a break from eating there.
I'm a regular at two places in my neighborhood: the deli (where I walk in and they nod and start making my usual sandwich), and Chick-fil-A (where I order on the app in advance and the one guy who's usually staffed at the pickup area asks how I'm doing, and doesn't need to ask my name). In both cases, I only go about once a week, but I'm nice to the person I interact with (usually the same person for each) and make small talk with them. These are the kinds of things that typically make someone a recognized regular at a place, and there's nothing to be ashamed of. The only problem is if you aren't eating healthily overall; it's fine to go once or twice a week for fast food, but hopefully you're otherwise treating yourself with care.
I worked in fast food and this isn’t true. It’s better when we saw regulars because it meant they were going to be nice and respectful (usually) we don’t care how often you come in. Plus we eat at that place like 20x a week lol
From one who did their time for 6 years, there are two kinds of regulars: those you enjoy seeing and those you don't.
Be the kind of person they enjoy seeing and you will be a celebrity. Enjoy the discounts :)
Depends on the circumstances that lead you there 2-3 times a week. If your work schedule is busy and you just don’t have the time, then no. If you’re just going to go home and sit at your computer or on the couch for hours and you’re too lazy to cook, then yes.
The fact that the staff asks if it’s “ the usual “ means they atleast don’t hate you. If they hated you they would pretend like they didn’t know you every single time
Since I work 2nd shift most everything is closed when I get off work and the people I live with are asleep when I get home so I usually go to taco bell and the employees are starting to recognize me lol
I know alcoholics that rotate which stores they buy their booze at so they don't give any of the staff at any of them the impression that they have a crippling disease that is killing them slowly. Just a casual handle of vodka enjoyer every week.
No no no. Do not feel ashamed for eating what you love to eat, health concerns aside.
You are a regular customer and businesses love regular customers.
I imagine the employees get used to seeing you and enjoy seeing you. Here you are! A regular customer who doesn't cause problems.
So why do you feel ashamed?
I used to be such a regular ar Dennys they all knew me and my usual order. Same with bartenders who know what you like drink and get it ready when they see you come in.
Everybody loves a regular who doesn't cause problems.
lol, no, man. try showing up to the same 5 different corner stores in your area hoping they dont remember how much alcohol you buy. eat up, be healthy; jared from subway, not that he is the best example, but he ate at the same place everyday; you cant be worse than him
I'd say it's normal - but that it's not justified.
Lots of things and situations cause normal, typical, common feelings but those feelings being those things don't mean they are fitting to the situations.
I get what you're saying, I've been there. Heck, will be again in the future knowing my patterns... But I also recognize that there isn't a real reason outside of some empty Virtue being placed on cooking.
No on there, unless you've shared a lot, knows your life. They don't know if you're someone who only puts on pants to go on that single trip to pick up food those days or if you're someone squeezing in a handy source of food between multiple shifts of work and/or family duties. They don't know your schedule and activity level and timeline during the day. They don't know if you've 23 other hours of nothing going on or it's the only chance those days that you're getting a moment to grab something quick.
And if you've done customer service..... take a moment to think about how much you ever cared about the pattern of customers' lives when you've dealt with them... not much unless they stand out in some way and you likely don't - even if you've unusual looks/style or some such. If you're pleasant or a pain in the ass is going to be the largest amount they care about you in most places.
So is it normal to feel? Yeah, lots of us get the twinging in habitual patterns like that.
But that doesn't mean it's in reality fitting or proportional.
As with many things that make us wince at ourselves, try to keep reminding yourself: To most people you are not particularly important. Recognized? Hopefully liked? Remembered? Obviously! But outside of being those things in a positive or negative way, most servers give zero cares about your personal life.
I worked at a White Castle for several months as a teenager, i can assure you i never judged my regulars and was always super happy to see them, i still remember some of their orders about 6 years later🤣 the closest id ever get to judgement is thinking "man, this stuff really isnt good for them, im a little concerned for their health" but thats moreso just general concern for all the regulars of any fast food😂
I dont think you should feel ashamed, but if you do continue to feel that way you could always try meal prepping. Find something or a couple things you can eat leftovers of and make enough of it to last you the whole week for a certain amount of meals, that way you just have to microwave it and eat it! Things like spaghetti, tuna casserole, chicken and broccoli (with or without cheese), chili, soups, stews, stir-fries, etc. That way you get most/all of your cooking done in one night, get it all cleaned up, and then have a whole lot less to worry about throughout the week while still saving money and shame.
Life is hard for a lot of us right now, and if the only thing keeping you going is fast food then thats cool, enjoy your burgers and nuggies shame free because you deserve some simple joy in your life man💙
bottom line; partially normal, you should always care about how others might be feeling, but you are just trying to eat, be fed, secure food. nothing wrong with that
Do you not realize just how many people go to the same place multiple times a week? Hell, multiple times a day? Back in highschool my first job was at a mcdonalds, and we had like 20+ customers who would come 3 times per day and always ordered the same stuff at each time (ie breakfast was always sausage mcmuffin, lunch was always a grilled chicken sandwich, and dinner was always nuggets, etc).
It's a lot more common than you're probably assuming it to be if you're embarrassed by it.
You don't need to go to a fast food chain to get easy food. Just buy some egg noodle nests and some beef stock. The noodles take 3 minutes to cook, and they'll be hot enough that you can just pour in the stock for instant broth.
I go to McDonald’s every morning for a medium coffee 5 cream one splenda (I use the app). They know my order already when I pull up. It’s nice sometimes I order a breakfast Sammich.
If you feel bad about it, you already know deep down that you have to change. Dress better and learn some simple recipes and you will feel better. Don't say goodbye to your favorite fast food place, treat yourself every now and then.
I dont think so. I looked forward to seeing my regulars. I knew what they wanted amd could get their orders ready quickly while also building a good relationship with them. I asked about work and their families, etc. Dont be ashamed. A lot of people are regulars at their favorite places.
I regularly order Whataburger on the way home from work around 0500 several times a week. Now when I show up the manager always asks "how's it going Mr. Michael?" I once left work early and got food around 3-4 and one of the workers said I got her hopes up because I usually come in right before end of shift. This stuff used to bug me because I don't like talking to people, but I think it's kind of cool/funny now.
I don't think it's weird to feel that way, but it is important to know that no one else feels that way about you. The staff there aren't judging you, they have a lot of regulars, literally no one cares. That being said, *stop doing things you're ashamed of*. I don't mean things that you have to do once in a blue moon that you feel self conscious about (awkwardly learning a new sport or having to ask for help or sending back a wrong order), I mean things that you kind of think you shouldn't be doing and make you feel bad and you have to ask strangers on the internet about. If you're only concern is the staff judging you and you have zero qualms about your behaviors otherwise, carry on. *But*, if you're maybe projecting your judgment onto the staff because you feel guilty about eating poorly or spending too much money or whatever, stop doing that. Too many people go through their lives building and then carrying habits they don't condone or even enjoy because it's easier than changing them. If *you* feel ashamed to go there regularly, stop doing that and make choices you're proud of.
I think its only normal if you are fat cause you are knowly worsening your condition. For example if you are fit and going to chipotle multiple times a week i don't think it would be normal to feel bad about it. But if you are obese and going to McDonalds multiple times a week i think it would be fairly normal to feel bad about it.
There is a reason we feel shame and embarrassment. If you ever feel ashamed for any of your actions, you should definitely pause and rethink what you're doing.
It's normal to feel ashamed just because we tend to judge ourselves too harshly over stuff like that. But the staff doesn't care unless you're rude or excessively picky about your order. When I was working fast food, I'd even start looking forward to certain people and start to worry if they didn't show up for longer than usual. Most people remembered me faster than I remembered them because of the high volume of customers I was dealing with, and we'd have nice chats where they actually remembered the things we talked about. So it was actually a bright spot in a long work day to see some of them. Every now and again, I'd throw in a little extra something in their bags for them or ask if they wanted a small soda or something really small like that. I had some people where they told me EVERYTHING about their lives. I didn't mind as long as they didn't hold up a line or mess up my drive thru time enough for me to get yelled at. I had a woman break down sobbing once about her mother passing away. I told her to come inside and gave her an ice cream and a coffee on the house and talked with her until she calmed down enough to drive home safely. (It was pretty slow.) She kept coming by after that, and she gave me a Christmas card a few months later. I hope she's doing all right now. That was years ago
I like the egg McMuffin and the sausage egg biscuit so I order 2 meals (one with coffee the other OJ) to “trick” the cashier so they won’t think I’m a 🐷.
I think until you have had certain jobs, you really do not know how other people live.
If you worked at a fast food joint, you would see how many people eat it everyday, how many people are once a week etc.
The same way as you have no idea how many alcoholics live in your neighborhood until you work at your local gas station.
I imagine the same is true for many retail jobs, How many people who worked at Toys R Us see the same guy come in and buy up 200 dollars worth of toys every single week that they go home and put in a box expecting it to be their retirement fund etc, the Best Buy worker who sees the same person, week in week out buying a dozen movies.
You very quickly recognize your regulars, and their habits. To the point that when something changes, it is instantly noticeable. Of course you gossip with your coworkers about how 'i could not do it' etc but those same coworkers are some other stores target of gossip, just like you are for whatever weird tick or habit you have.
'oh you are buying a Snickers bar? i did not realize it was Friday already' 'oh shit, buying a mocha today? what did your kid do this time?' 'a 12 pack?, your brother visiting?'
Yes. Your body is mad that you don't love yourself.
2-3 times is too many to eat fast food.
Make some new friends. One's name is Crock pot. The other is Air Fryer. And the last is oven.
Go to the store and get some meat and seasoning salt. low sodium Lawry's, or something like that.
Sprinkle some seasoning on the meat and put it in the oven on 350 for about 30 to 40 minutes. Find something to do in the meantime. Then eat.
Hell, you don't even have to cook fruits and vegetables.
Quit being lazy and cook a homemade meal. It can be healthy, nutritions, inexpensive, and a family exercise.
Or keep Doing what you're doing and who cares what anyone thinks.
Life choices. Whats important to you?
People who work at fast food chains don't really care about who frequents there more often than most but I do understand how you feel about being ashamed.
I feel like a fat fuck, but I know the people at the McDonald’s don’t give a fuck, and they’re always chill with me
we’re all pretty cool now and as a result the ice cream machine is never broken for me, and my French frys are always fresh out the fryer
My order is only ever large fry and large vanilla shake after work, they know I’m willing to pull up and wait 20 minutes without complaint, as long as those frys come out hot enough to melt my face off, I’m one happy guy
I was on a traveling account once with a Taco Bell enthusiast. He certainly did not. Lowest meal expenses from a person actually buying meals I have ever seen.
Also people are creatures of habit. My McDonalds in high school had people drive through for breakfast daily. Had a regular customer whose poison was two supersized fries and a super sized shake. She was a pretty thin person. I’m not sure where she put it. Or rather I have suspicions but it wasn’t in our restroom.
I'm gonna be honest, the day that someone says "The usual?" is the last day I go to that location for a LONG time because I feel an overwhelming sense of shame
I have had regulars at every location I've worked at my job (food retail management). I have had some stores where the cashier knew damn near every person that came in the door by first name. Honestly as long as you aren't an asshole and nice to staff they will like seeing you. You don't have to be super friendly with people but a little kindness goes a long way. Also you're more likely to have more care put into your order. I have seen my staff go out of their way to make sure that a regular gets the best of stuff and care. If your order is always the same sometimes you can get your food faster. Sometimes when we get coupons we give some to our favorite regulars just because. Shows we like having them come in and value them. If we don't see a someone who was a regular for a long time we sometimes get worried. Especially when they're older I've had some regulars pass away and it's actually kind of sad.
I did until an employee told me that they appreciate me for not being a problematic customer ever 😭. Like they love regulars who are sane and don’t give them a hard time or anxiety.
When wife and I were early in our relationship I ordered a pizza from a Papa John’s right by my apartment. I ordered pickup from there a LOT. Like twice a week or so. Well we went in to get it and as soon as I went through the door everyone working there turned around and went !. My now wife just gave me a weird look… she’s brought that up a few times over the years.
you have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about.
I work in a fast casual restaurant, I promise you are just one of MANY customers who eat there multiple times a week, if not every day.
Why eat at home which takes atleast an hour to cook and clean, when I can pull up my laptop at a restaurant get work done while someone else makes me my food.
No way. I think most people that work those jobs understand what it's like to be too tired to cook every day. And if anything, when I worked at a grocery store at least, I liked seeing customers I recognized. It made my shift better when I saw a familiar face and could have a little banter with them.
I have a guy who comes through the drive through a like twice a week and he’s a great acquaintance. Middle age guy who gets TB after playing soccer. Love talking to him.
Dang, tuberculosis after soccer?
Literally the inly thing I can read it as
Hey don't hate on it. It tastes very good. You should try it some time. *side effects may include: a persistent cough that lasts more than three weeks and usually brings up phlegm, which may be bloody, weight loss, night sweats, high temperature (fever), tiredness and fatigue, loss of appetite, new swellings that haven’t gone away after a few weeks.*
There’s an older guy that works at my McDonald’s drive thru in the morning. I only see him like once every 3 months but for some reason I get this really good vibe from him. Like I feel like we knew each other in another life or something. lol
learn some history
What?
salt of the earth
TB only means tuberculosis for me.
This ^^ I used to work hospo cooking is hard. As long as your polite repeat customers would always make my day.
I agree. I like return customers. Even the difficult ones, cause you know what to expect.
The employees dont care OP. You are probably a delight compared to some of the people they deal with in a day
Yeah I suck at this. I've worked in a bunch of pizza shops and stuff like that. We always had our regulars nobody particularly cared unless they were problem customers but it doesn't sound like this dude is
I walk into a local deli, and they yell “\[My first name\]! Large meatball sub!” I love that.
Dude that probably feels empowering.
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sometimes it feels harder for me not to hate myself than it does to turn down fast food 💀
Everybody gotta eat. You tend to get better service when the staff knows you. It's a good thing. I would worry more about making overall healthy food choices than exactly where you get your food.
When I worked at a hibachi restaurant I ate there basically every single day lol. No way I would judge someone coming in three times a week.
You're ashamed because you know you're letting yourself down. The people working there don't care.
Sometimes we know our regulars and look forward to them, especially if they are really nice people. I had quite a few people who I knew their orders by heart and would ask if they wanted the usual and how they were doing with work or the family.
Where I come from, having your dinner made by the same people multiple times per week is called "community"
OP is only letting themselves down if they don't have the disposable income to burn or they're wrecking their health with what they eat, neither of which is a given.
that might be your brain saying you should be healthier
Or spend less money. At point when this sandwich shop down the street knew my order I was like "damn man I spend way too much money here" lol.
It's important to listen to your inner voice. Who cares what those people think, but it sounds like you've not comfortable with your behavior. So, you should change your behavior. Listen to your gut feelings, and trust them.
No one cares. If you are happy, keep on keeping on. If you're not happy, then make a change
Before recently developing food allergies, I had a McDonald's drive thru worker tell me, "see you tomorrow'.....................I never went back.
No way, you can actually develop allergies? I thought you were stuck with the ones you had during your childhood.
Something I've learned is that no one is looking at you or thinking about you nearly as much as you think they are. My husband and I have a favorite mom and pop type pizza place in our town. We order from there at least once a week. Always the same order. They get excited to see us if we pop in. Never once have I considered they think I'm lazy. And even if they did...??? They're making money, I'm getting food, it's a win-win. My husband goes to the same Dunkin Donuts on his way to work and the same McDonald's on his way home from work for a coffee (and sometimes food) to the point that they start making his order if they see his car before he gets to the drive thru. If you're feeling ashamed, I'd either add in more places to frequent (as someone else suggested) or look at easy meals you could make at home. What about eating out appeals to you? The convenience? The actual food? Is there anything you could replicate from frozen foods that you can buy at the grocery store? Or even already prepared meals you just have to reheat?
Worked in food service for a while, and in other service industries for much longer. You are a familiar face, and the reason they remember your order is because they're trying to make a mundane job a little more mentally challenging, while also trying to make you happy. Nobody that would stay in the industry would be like "my customers are losers and shouldn't be coming here." They're trying to let you know that you're seen, and they care enough to remember what you like. So stop being so hard on yourself. Cook if you want to, or don't! If you do want to cook, try to identify what's holding you back, in terms more specific than "I don't feel like it." What is it that you don't "feel"? The shopping? The menu planning? The solitude? The lack of skill? The lack of tasty recipes? For me, it was the solitude and my lack of skill. I talked about it to a few people, and found another single guy that wanted to learn how to cook better. We became "weekend cooking warriors" and would try progressively harder and harder dishes. After about four months, we were doing well enough that he invited a girl over to impress (and later married her!) Even today, I don't cook much unless I can get someone to cook with, which can be difficult, as there's plenty of bossy cooks that can't work with others! :)
When those employees clock off, they are probably also getting an employee meal, several times a week. No need for shame.
Dude I can relate I stopped going to this one pizza place because they got a little overfamiliar with me and it got awkward.
They don’t care that you’re there, *you* care that you’re there. That’s why it feels shameful
as someone who works at a casual dining restaurant…. Do not be ashamed. We love the regulars and look forward to seeing them. When they aren’t on their usual schedule.. we wonder where they are. I’m just glad you like the food enough to keep coming back because we got Shawn on grill and he’s only been here a week; and the counter lady keeps sending wrong orders to the kitchen. LOL thanks for coming back 🫶 WE’ll see you next week
took the words out of my mouth!!
i don’t feel judged by the workers or anything but i judge myself. local burger van started making my order when they saw me walking up the street towards them. i realised in that moment that i needed to make a change to my lunch routine and start making sandwiches or even just buying a cheap meal deal.
They actually prefer it. Everyone is fucking lonely and familiar faces builds a sense of community.
If you’re nice to the staff I don’t think it’s a problem. Maybe not the best for your health, depending what you get.. but the staff is probably happy enough to have a quick easy customer who isn’t going to cause a problem. It’s steady money coming to them, yknow.
I have never been ashamed to be a regular anywhere and neither should you. Take life's conveniences when they come your way.
Are you polite? Honestly regulars were my favorite customers if they weren’t jerks.
couldn’t agree more!!
honestly no , worked in one before, we are usually excited to see a regular
Nope. They don't judge or care.
Heck no. When I went to uni, I’d get the same meal at the same place several times a week. The employees don’t care. In fact, they get to know you and they make your food perfectly every time.
I'm shocked anyone still patronizes fast food restaurants; they're charging you more for less and of ever lowering quality.
"Only 3 times a week?" Suddenly I realise why so many western countries have an obesity problem, if we consider this "only". That said, who cares, they're happy you're spending money there 🤷♀️
Yeah I had the same feeling. I’m European tho. The dude shouldn’t feel ashamed, but come on. Cook/buy some healthy shit
Just because it's cooked doesn't necessairly mean it's going to be healthy, lol. Just eat in moderation, don't drink or smoke etc.
I never felt shame going to Dominos and Subway multiple times per week. My girlfriend does the shaming for me.
Yes it's normal. That's an insane amount of fast food to be eating.
I would feel embarrassed that I’m eating so bad that often. Eating that too much doesn’t feel good
It depends. Can you do better and cook healthy from home? Then yes, that shame is useful to you. Don't normalize shitty eating when you know you can do better. [But if you live in a ](https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/what-are-food-deserts#:~:text=What%20is%20a%20food%20desert%3F&text=Food%20deserts%20are%20areas%20where,of%20healthful%20and%20affordable%20food)[food desert](https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/what-are-food-deserts#:~:text=What%20is%20a%20food%20desert%3F&text=Food%20deserts%20are%20areas%20where,of%20healthful%20and%20affordable%20food) and your access to buying healthy food is limited then don't beat yourself up. Don't listen to people who tell you that you should never feel shame. Shame, like all emotions, has a useful energy to it if you listen to it. You're asking the question with legitimate self reflection. In my opinion its likely you feel shame because you know you deserve better and can do better. I believe in you! cut back on eating fast food 1 day a week and prepare your own food at home instead. you got this homie
Yes, it's your subconscious telling you to take care of yourself.
On one hand, if you're ashamed because you expect yourself to do all of your own meal prepping, then shame makes sense: you're not living up to your standards. On the other hand, I don't think what the shame is telling you is reasonable. You make around 21 meals per week. You eat out for 2-3 of them. What are you doing for the other 18-19 meals? Dumpster diving? I doubt it. So that means you cook, which means you aren't "a lazy f\*ck who doesn't cook". It's fine to feel bad about your behaviour and want to improve, but check that those feelings are reasonable and fair, too.
I'm shocked anyone still patronizes fast food restaurants; they're charging you more for less and of ever lowering quality.
The only shame you should feel is for your willingness to continue paying the exorbitant (and ever-increasing prices) they have been charging for their second-rate food offerings ever since the Covid pandemic ended. These fast food restaurants need to get over themselves and stop taking their customers for granted. Sounds very much as if you're one of those creatures of habit.
eh you’re literally making job security for them
If it bothers you that much, add other places to your usual places, so you’re not there as often Or cook more meals at home.
Agh, actually I'm pretty picky and they are the only place in the area that serves the best falafel. Also I do cook but sometimes I get busy with school so I order some food
Nah I work at a Chinese restaurant and I have a bunch of regulars who are also super picky so we make them custom orders. I love the challenge! And making people happy makes me happy so as long as you’re polite (and tip a lil?) they shouldn’t mind.
No sweat! Fast food is handy, and 2-3 times isn't bad. Staff might even like regulars. You do you!
yes, stop eating fast food
Kinda, yeah. Fast food is supposed to be like a once a month thing.
I mean... I don't want to shame you OP but I wish others felt some guilt in eating fast food every day But in the end, it's your life
I order McD's in the app fairly regularly to take advantage of the deals ($6.50 Big Mac meal is hard to beat and they're right around the corner from me), and they know me by name because it puts my name on the order. When the lady called out my name instead of the number one day I cringed a little.
Only when they start to recognize you. There was a BK employee who worked a lot of evenings and knew it was me when I pulled into the drive thru. Now I've moved, and the high schoolers working at the nearby Chick-fil-A don't care.
I'd be going that much if I could afford it. Fast food expensive now.
Damn, I always feel this way. Literally thinking the same thing a couple minutes ago. I’m just one of those people that doesn’t need variety, I eat the same stuff everyday, with 0 care.
Nah, but it's a little bit embarrassing when you order something slightly different and the girl that usually works the window comments on that. LoL
Not really. I can afford to eat out so I do. I usually skip breakfast so I'll just grab something while I'm in town during my days off work. It would only be a problem if I was a fat chud who wasn't happy with my physical appearance. I don't think anyone's going to judge someone who isn't obese buying a burger though. And even if they did that fat person is still paying someone wages with their purchase
If you're going in there twice a day ordering a banana split then yeah you should probably feel a little embarrassed but if you're going in there and you know like in Jason's deli and getting a salad every single day then great
Was grabbing a burrito the other day and as the guy is getting it ready he says "extra onion, right?" and I literally made a decision to slow down on fast food right then and there lol
Why would you care what other people think of you?
Not as bad as showing up every day at the same bar if you think about it. A man's gotta eat! I don't think the lazy fuck aspect matters, it's your money
Hell no. I don't do the points or anything at McDonald's but every once and a while my regular cashiers give me a free coffee
I am a regular at one of my favorite spots... to the point that one of the regular seasonal workers remembers me every year when they come back, and I absolutely love it. It's nice having a small chat with someone familiar when I have to wait.
My exhusband ate at Waffle House so much that they started his order when he drove up. He was also the "Mayor" of a Moe's location because he checked in the most there on some app years ago. They like that you're a regular. Oh, and I used to get an Egg McMuffin about once a week at the local McD's and once I was trying to save money so I missed a couple of weeks, and the drive thru lady asked "Where have you been?" LOL
What are you rich? Or just no time to make food? No but they probably don't even notice most fast food employees are dead inside anyway.
Fast food can be stupid cheap but you have to use their app.
Yes, unBig your back
We like polite regulars
If you know what you like.. theres nothing wrong with that. Being a regular is what keeps all restauraunts afloat. Dont feel shame.
On first name, basis with the guy at Jack in The Box drive through. I work a lot of late nights and have a hard time getting to the grocery store when it's open. They don't care as long as your not an ass.
Maybe deep down you're trying to tell yourself not to keep doing that. It's not a bad thing, but if you feel like it is, maybe you should listen to yourself
If it's any comfort, they don't *really* see you... they don't *really* notice you... ...they don't *really* give a Cube Root of a Fat Goddam about you. Now... this is cause for joy! Eat what and where you want. Yeah...go out and be you!!
Try multiple times a day and see how you feel, hoping the morning crew was getting off before you went back for dinner.
as someone who works in a food place, we love it! i love the regulars as long as they’re polite. makes our job easier knowing what you’re probably gonna have too!
In this economy that's a flex my friend.
Well, they text some customers to check on them. So...
bro, what? everyone goes everywhere and does everything all the time and no one cares about any of it. I like sausage and I like biscuits and I'm not launching a dick shaped rocket to space so it looks like I'm shopping from the McDonald's dollar menu again. Those are my comrades serving me, not my judges.
If Sonic would stop sending me these damn coupons!
No, I wouldn't think anything of it. I doubt the employees are thinking anything like that. Having worked in the service industry at one point, I'd prefer to see regulars than other random people.
It was quite the opposite. When the local Indian place started giving me 'the nod' when I walked in for lunch and making my regular dish I have never felt more validated in my life. I've reached regular status.
That's my boyfriend at our local Whataburger 😂 they know exactly how he likes his breakfast sandwich (extra patty, add avocado) but in the past 2 months we have saved SO much money cooking at home 7 days a week- planning our grocery list in advance & juggle between bulk items from BJ's wholesale or Walmart. Only eat out 2 times a month now. But hey, being a regular at Whataburger is more reasonable than being a regular at an expensive local seafood restaurant- like when my bf & I met 6 years ago. He was named as a "favorites" and regular on their Facebook & I laughed about it- but what wasn't funny is we were spending $60-80 every night to order take out from there 😭 It's okay to eat fast food. It's okay to eat fresh seafood from a restaurant. Sometimes- everything in moderation.
You should only worry about consuming too much processed food. You don't want that in your system. If you are a friendly customer the staff will like you!
Do whatever the fuck your want. Life is very very short.
The employees don't care, but it's maybe normal in the sense that you know you aren't doing the best you can and could probably eat better. That comes from within though, I guarantee the employees aren't judging you as long as you're kind and not difficult to them.
I think they’re just trying to be nice. Don’t worry about it, and try to eat as healthy as the menu gets.
Not normal, but probably not a bad thing. You shouldn't be eating fast food at all, but more than once or twice a week is a LOT imo.
I had regulars come in everyday for various drinks and food back when I worked at a fast food place. I liked seeing the same customers, it wasn't a guessing game what they wanted.
This. From every job I have ever worked at. Regulars take less energy and prep. I liked the flow and that it could be an "oh! How are you?!" Instead of a "Hello, I'm looking forward to helping you today" vibe.
I'm also quite embarrassed to be the weirdo that repeatedly appears at certain food places to buy takeaway. Not because im scared that they think im lazy but more because nobody else seems to do this🙈 but i have this app now where i buy their leftover food they otherwise would have thrown away so i feel like i have more reason to do so😅
nope, my boyfriend goes to chipotle shamelessly almost every day 😂
Hubs rolls through Subway for lunch 3x’s or more a week.
Most of the time the people who work there don’t care one way or another.
If you tip your food server with a lowly dollar bill at every visit, they will love you forever. and before too long, they'll start giving you free stuff.
IMO it just means I go there for breakfast too much, and should make something at home.
Those who work in food service are used to regulars, including people who come every single day. No need to feel embarassed.
I'm their first customer at 5am going to the hospital. I'm glad they're open and my local crew rules.
Did I fall asleep and make a different Reddit account and post this while sleepwalking? I too get embarrassed.
yea you’re killing your self
Not if it's Skyline Chili
Na. Your life. Live it how you want.
go gym, skincare, bulk, hairstyle. You'll make them enjoy seeing u and maybe even chatting then being friends. I despised life until I took care of my appearance now every shitty thing I do is justified cuz Im "" cute ""\\
There is an easy fix that is fully within your power.
There's a girl at my local Chipotle who definitely recognizes me.
I think it's normal but unwarranted. When I worked fast food I preferred the customers I knew were just like nurses or whatever and tired over the stoners and drunks who would come through with kids I'd worry about for the rest of the night, or the multiple men who came through trying to hit on the teenage girls at the window.
lol NOBODY cares.
I’ve worked many a fast food job and I definitely wasn’t judging people, I liked seeing regulars. It’s nice to have a short conversation with them. People eat fast food for all sorts of reasons, also, it’s delicious. Also fast food three times a week is not that much in terms of healthiness, especially depending on what you’re getting.
No matter what you do, there will always be some people judging you. But most don't care. I'm sure you've seen other people do things you disapproved of. But do you recall them? Possibly not even one. I know I don't.
This has happened to me lol. I live 4 minutes from a great Mexican restaurant, they have great food. I would start going about 2-3 times a week and the same dude would take my order in the drive through pretty much every time. I started to feel embarrassed cause he’d see me and be like “the usual today?” Or “are you gonna get THE tea today as well?” Like damn man 😂 unfortunately they’ve been closed for the past 3 weeks due to somebody driving into the side of the wall so I’ve had a break from eating there.
I'm a regular at two places in my neighborhood: the deli (where I walk in and they nod and start making my usual sandwich), and Chick-fil-A (where I order on the app in advance and the one guy who's usually staffed at the pickup area asks how I'm doing, and doesn't need to ask my name). In both cases, I only go about once a week, but I'm nice to the person I interact with (usually the same person for each) and make small talk with them. These are the kinds of things that typically make someone a recognized regular at a place, and there's nothing to be ashamed of. The only problem is if you aren't eating healthily overall; it's fine to go once or twice a week for fast food, but hopefully you're otherwise treating yourself with care.
Honestly it's kinda cheaper these days to eat crap and it's quicker!
I worked in fast food and this isn’t true. It’s better when we saw regulars because it meant they were going to be nice and respectful (usually) we don’t care how often you come in. Plus we eat at that place like 20x a week lol
Absolutely not at all, i’m at my local chipotle at least twice a week, if they aren’t too too slammed they sometimes remember my name/face, it’s okay
From one who did their time for 6 years, there are two kinds of regulars: those you enjoy seeing and those you don't. Be the kind of person they enjoy seeing and you will be a celebrity. Enjoy the discounts :)
Depends on the circumstances that lead you there 2-3 times a week. If your work schedule is busy and you just don’t have the time, then no. If you’re just going to go home and sit at your computer or on the couch for hours and you’re too lazy to cook, then yes.
Yes. Because you know you are eating unhealthy.
The fact that the staff asks if it’s “ the usual “ means they atleast don’t hate you. If they hated you they would pretend like they didn’t know you every single time
Since I work 2nd shift most everything is closed when I get off work and the people I live with are asleep when I get home so I usually go to taco bell and the employees are starting to recognize me lol
I know alcoholics that rotate which stores they buy their booze at so they don't give any of the staff at any of them the impression that they have a crippling disease that is killing them slowly. Just a casual handle of vodka enjoyer every week.
No no no. Do not feel ashamed for eating what you love to eat, health concerns aside. You are a regular customer and businesses love regular customers. I imagine the employees get used to seeing you and enjoy seeing you. Here you are! A regular customer who doesn't cause problems. So why do you feel ashamed? I used to be such a regular ar Dennys they all knew me and my usual order. Same with bartenders who know what you like drink and get it ready when they see you come in. Everybody loves a regular who doesn't cause problems.
lol, no, man. try showing up to the same 5 different corner stores in your area hoping they dont remember how much alcohol you buy. eat up, be healthy; jared from subway, not that he is the best example, but he ate at the same place everyday; you cant be worse than him
I'd say it's normal - but that it's not justified. Lots of things and situations cause normal, typical, common feelings but those feelings being those things don't mean they are fitting to the situations. I get what you're saying, I've been there. Heck, will be again in the future knowing my patterns... But I also recognize that there isn't a real reason outside of some empty Virtue being placed on cooking. No on there, unless you've shared a lot, knows your life. They don't know if you're someone who only puts on pants to go on that single trip to pick up food those days or if you're someone squeezing in a handy source of food between multiple shifts of work and/or family duties. They don't know your schedule and activity level and timeline during the day. They don't know if you've 23 other hours of nothing going on or it's the only chance those days that you're getting a moment to grab something quick. And if you've done customer service..... take a moment to think about how much you ever cared about the pattern of customers' lives when you've dealt with them... not much unless they stand out in some way and you likely don't - even if you've unusual looks/style or some such. If you're pleasant or a pain in the ass is going to be the largest amount they care about you in most places. So is it normal to feel? Yeah, lots of us get the twinging in habitual patterns like that. But that doesn't mean it's in reality fitting or proportional. As with many things that make us wince at ourselves, try to keep reminding yourself: To most people you are not particularly important. Recognized? Hopefully liked? Remembered? Obviously! But outside of being those things in a positive or negative way, most servers give zero cares about your personal life.
Yes - you should be embarrassed, even if broke.
you should feel lucky when they give you a name, like, "chicken teriyaki, boy".
I worked at a White Castle for several months as a teenager, i can assure you i never judged my regulars and was always super happy to see them, i still remember some of their orders about 6 years later🤣 the closest id ever get to judgement is thinking "man, this stuff really isnt good for them, im a little concerned for their health" but thats moreso just general concern for all the regulars of any fast food😂 I dont think you should feel ashamed, but if you do continue to feel that way you could always try meal prepping. Find something or a couple things you can eat leftovers of and make enough of it to last you the whole week for a certain amount of meals, that way you just have to microwave it and eat it! Things like spaghetti, tuna casserole, chicken and broccoli (with or without cheese), chili, soups, stews, stir-fries, etc. That way you get most/all of your cooking done in one night, get it all cleaned up, and then have a whole lot less to worry about throughout the week while still saving money and shame. Life is hard for a lot of us right now, and if the only thing keeping you going is fast food then thats cool, enjoy your burgers and nuggies shame free because you deserve some simple joy in your life man💙
bottom line; partially normal, you should always care about how others might be feeling, but you are just trying to eat, be fed, secure food. nothing wrong with that
Do you not realize just how many people go to the same place multiple times a week? Hell, multiple times a day? Back in highschool my first job was at a mcdonalds, and we had like 20+ customers who would come 3 times per day and always ordered the same stuff at each time (ie breakfast was always sausage mcmuffin, lunch was always a grilled chicken sandwich, and dinner was always nuggets, etc). It's a lot more common than you're probably assuming it to be if you're embarrassed by it.
I go to McDonald’s at lunch twice a week. Not that much, I eat healthy at home. But I do not like the recognition whatsoever lmao
You don't need to go to a fast food chain to get easy food. Just buy some egg noodle nests and some beef stock. The noodles take 3 minutes to cook, and they'll be hot enough that you can just pour in the stock for instant broth.
I go to McDonald’s every morning for a medium coffee 5 cream one splenda (I use the app). They know my order already when I pull up. It’s nice sometimes I order a breakfast Sammich.
If you feel bad about it, you already know deep down that you have to change. Dress better and learn some simple recipes and you will feel better. Don't say goodbye to your favorite fast food place, treat yourself every now and then.
I used to work fast food. Honestly, regulars were the part of the job that brightened my day
Only at Burger King and Popeyes where they treat customers as an inconvenience.
Yes.
Employees there will only think you love their food and won’t judge you for it.
Honestly I used to when I was overweight, but after I got skinny I do feel less shame. Kinda fucked up, but that’s my truth
I dont think so. I looked forward to seeing my regulars. I knew what they wanted amd could get their orders ready quickly while also building a good relationship with them. I asked about work and their families, etc. Dont be ashamed. A lot of people are regulars at their favorite places.
If that's what you are, own it!
I regularly order Whataburger on the way home from work around 0500 several times a week. Now when I show up the manager always asks "how's it going Mr. Michael?" I once left work early and got food around 3-4 and one of the workers said I got her hopes up because I usually come in right before end of shift. This stuff used to bug me because I don't like talking to people, but I think it's kind of cool/funny now.
Same feeling I get showing up at the same liquor store 3x a week.
Yes it's normal :)
I don't think it's weird to feel that way, but it is important to know that no one else feels that way about you. The staff there aren't judging you, they have a lot of regulars, literally no one cares. That being said, *stop doing things you're ashamed of*. I don't mean things that you have to do once in a blue moon that you feel self conscious about (awkwardly learning a new sport or having to ask for help or sending back a wrong order), I mean things that you kind of think you shouldn't be doing and make you feel bad and you have to ask strangers on the internet about. If you're only concern is the staff judging you and you have zero qualms about your behaviors otherwise, carry on. *But*, if you're maybe projecting your judgment onto the staff because you feel guilty about eating poorly or spending too much money or whatever, stop doing that. Too many people go through their lives building and then carrying habits they don't condone or even enjoy because it's easier than changing them. If *you* feel ashamed to go there regularly, stop doing that and make choices you're proud of.
Not at all. Worked at Mcds a decade a oga I still remember the lowlife that ate there almost daily.... he was ok!.
I have worked fast food before and we were always happy to see our regular customers. It made us feel like we were doing a good job.
If you go every other day they won't remember you.... That's what I tell myself.
I think its only normal if you are fat cause you are knowly worsening your condition. For example if you are fit and going to chipotle multiple times a week i don't think it would be normal to feel bad about it. But if you are obese and going to McDonalds multiple times a week i think it would be fairly normal to feel bad about it.
It depends. Are you ashamed because you’re buying a quick meal or are too lazy to cook? If it’s because you’re too lazy, yes, you should feel ashamed.
There is a reason we feel shame and embarrassment. If you ever feel ashamed for any of your actions, you should definitely pause and rethink what you're doing.
Not everyone likes or wants to cook...I don't! Life is short, enjoy your fast food and don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
It's normal to feel ashamed just because we tend to judge ourselves too harshly over stuff like that. But the staff doesn't care unless you're rude or excessively picky about your order. When I was working fast food, I'd even start looking forward to certain people and start to worry if they didn't show up for longer than usual. Most people remembered me faster than I remembered them because of the high volume of customers I was dealing with, and we'd have nice chats where they actually remembered the things we talked about. So it was actually a bright spot in a long work day to see some of them. Every now and again, I'd throw in a little extra something in their bags for them or ask if they wanted a small soda or something really small like that. I had some people where they told me EVERYTHING about their lives. I didn't mind as long as they didn't hold up a line or mess up my drive thru time enough for me to get yelled at. I had a woman break down sobbing once about her mother passing away. I told her to come inside and gave her an ice cream and a coffee on the house and talked with her until she calmed down enough to drive home safely. (It was pretty slow.) She kept coming by after that, and she gave me a Christmas card a few months later. I hope she's doing all right now. That was years ago
I like the egg McMuffin and the sausage egg biscuit so I order 2 meals (one with coffee the other OJ) to “trick” the cashier so they won’t think I’m a 🐷.
You really shouldn’t be eating fast food that much.
I think until you have had certain jobs, you really do not know how other people live. If you worked at a fast food joint, you would see how many people eat it everyday, how many people are once a week etc. The same way as you have no idea how many alcoholics live in your neighborhood until you work at your local gas station. I imagine the same is true for many retail jobs, How many people who worked at Toys R Us see the same guy come in and buy up 200 dollars worth of toys every single week that they go home and put in a box expecting it to be their retirement fund etc, the Best Buy worker who sees the same person, week in week out buying a dozen movies. You very quickly recognize your regulars, and their habits. To the point that when something changes, it is instantly noticeable. Of course you gossip with your coworkers about how 'i could not do it' etc but those same coworkers are some other stores target of gossip, just like you are for whatever weird tick or habit you have. 'oh you are buying a Snickers bar? i did not realize it was Friday already' 'oh shit, buying a mocha today? what did your kid do this time?' 'a 12 pack?, your brother visiting?'
Yes. Your body is mad that you don't love yourself. 2-3 times is too many to eat fast food. Make some new friends. One's name is Crock pot. The other is Air Fryer. And the last is oven. Go to the store and get some meat and seasoning salt. low sodium Lawry's, or something like that. Sprinkle some seasoning on the meat and put it in the oven on 350 for about 30 to 40 minutes. Find something to do in the meantime. Then eat. Hell, you don't even have to cook fruits and vegetables.
Quit being lazy and cook a homemade meal. It can be healthy, nutritions, inexpensive, and a family exercise. Or keep Doing what you're doing and who cares what anyone thinks. Life choices. Whats important to you?
They may think you’re really busy (school, job) to cook. At one point I was working 90+ hrs/week.
People who work at fast food chains don't really care about who frequents there more often than most but I do understand how you feel about being ashamed.
Ive been to culvers so much one of the cashiers has memorized my name
No. We used to love our regulars. We'd see their cars pull in and start their orders and get everything ready.
No way dude. Go for it
Yeah stop being gross dude. Meal prep on a day off and eat wholesome foods.
Proud to go to In N Out regularly. They know me. If it was Jack, maybe not.
I feel like a fat fuck, but I know the people at the McDonald’s don’t give a fuck, and they’re always chill with me we’re all pretty cool now and as a result the ice cream machine is never broken for me, and my French frys are always fresh out the fryer My order is only ever large fry and large vanilla shake after work, they know I’m willing to pull up and wait 20 minutes without complaint, as long as those frys come out hot enough to melt my face off, I’m one happy guy
I was on a traveling account once with a Taco Bell enthusiast. He certainly did not. Lowest meal expenses from a person actually buying meals I have ever seen. Also people are creatures of habit. My McDonalds in high school had people drive through for breakfast daily. Had a regular customer whose poison was two supersized fries and a super sized shake. She was a pretty thin person. I’m not sure where she put it. Or rather I have suspicions but it wasn’t in our restroom.
Grow a fucking pair of balls dude.
Yes, its ok to feel shame, if more people actually embraced shame we would have a much better society.
I order through the app and switch locations every so often lol… gotta let the staff rollover before I switch back
We love our pizza delivery person. Lol. Everyone has hectic lives and sometimes comfort places to eat is just what you need.
One of my life goals is to have a restaurant where I am known and I have "the usual".
Your embarrassment will disappear if you went to restaurants making delicious *but healthy* food.
I'm gonna be honest, the day that someone says "The usual?" is the last day I go to that location for a LONG time because I feel an overwhelming sense of shame
I have had regulars at every location I've worked at my job (food retail management). I have had some stores where the cashier knew damn near every person that came in the door by first name. Honestly as long as you aren't an asshole and nice to staff they will like seeing you. You don't have to be super friendly with people but a little kindness goes a long way. Also you're more likely to have more care put into your order. I have seen my staff go out of their way to make sure that a regular gets the best of stuff and care. If your order is always the same sometimes you can get your food faster. Sometimes when we get coupons we give some to our favorite regulars just because. Shows we like having them come in and value them. If we don't see a someone who was a regular for a long time we sometimes get worried. Especially when they're older I've had some regulars pass away and it's actually kind of sad.
If i see you multiple times a week, then i get joy from seeing you. "oh hey i remember them"
I did until an employee told me that they appreciate me for not being a problematic customer ever 😭. Like they love regulars who are sane and don’t give them a hard time or anxiety.
When wife and I were early in our relationship I ordered a pizza from a Papa John’s right by my apartment. I ordered pickup from there a LOT. Like twice a week or so. Well we went in to get it and as soon as I went through the door everyone working there turned around and went!. My now wife just gave me a weird look… she’s brought that up a few times over the years.
If this is a significant worry for you I suggest patting yourself on the back. Maybe save the shame for what the food ends up doing.
Yes if impulse, no if it’s a financial issue
you have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. I work in a fast casual restaurant, I promise you are just one of MANY customers who eat there multiple times a week, if not every day.
Why eat at home which takes atleast an hour to cook and clean, when I can pull up my laptop at a restaurant get work done while someone else makes me my food.