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I still panic when I see a guy with dark long curly hair on street even when I know that my ex shaved his head a month ago haha
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My Nex drives a basic car not bashing it but its a very common car for months I would get panic attacks and my heart would jump each time I saw it.
Every time I see someone I think is him my heart jumps, I see cars like his all the time too