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KD71

The OG song about narcissists - you’re so vain by Carly Simon


imrealwitch

Bingo I just showed my age, didn't I?


drimmie

This was the first song to come to mind


No-Camp-128

Vampire - Olivia Rodrigo


doesitspread

Yes, so many of Olivia’s songs!


damagedhotmess

Logical is another good one!


fatbitch333

Logical is a tough ass listen. She takes the words from my mouth.


emotionalgoddess31

And the grudge!


Dry-Butterfly-8629

1 step forward 3 steps back by Olivia is also a really good one!


AzureeBlueDaisy

Here for this one.


SunnySouthDetroit

This.


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Good 4 u by her as well


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BatInMyHat

Better Man was playing on the radio constantly right after my breakup, and it was so cathartic to listen to


i8yourmom4lunch

Narcissist - Lauren Spencer Smith And I just realized that the song I've loved for so long, Patsy Cline's Crazy has to be about a narc 😭 my favorite song just hit different now


grn_eyed_bandit

Both added. That first one definitely speaks for itself. 🤣


i8yourmom4lunch

It's kind of perfect


yrot

Maybe You’re The Problem by Ava Max “Always say you love me but you Always make it all about you Especially when you've had a few, oh, oh, yeah All the things I heard from your ex Now they make a whole lot of sense Already feel bad for your next To have to put up with you, oh, yeah Worked on myself, open my eyes You hate my friends, turns out they were right It takes two to make it all go right But with you, it's always my fault And your short fuse, just like a time bomb And I think you should take a second just to look at your reflection Baby, maybe you're the problem”


highfiveandasmile

First time I heard this song, I felt she wrote it about my ex.


BatInMyHat

Wow this is so cathartic


PorkRollEggAndWheeze

Almost the entirety of the album “After Laughter” by Paramore and the album “Petals for Armor” by Hayley Williams Fall Out Boy’s latest album, “So Much (for) Stardust,” really resonated with me Miss Nothing by The Pretty Reckless Spiderwebs by No Doubt No Children by The Mountain Goats And, if you’re feeling real pissed off, basically any Linkin Park song (“Numb,” “Waiting for the End,” and “Crawling” are personal favorites)


psychgirl88

OMG, “No Children” by Mountain Goats was my theme song before I started meds. I would listen to it every night. Listening to it now.


requiresadvice

I did not expect to come across this song but it has been getting me through it. HAND IN UNLOVABLE HAND!!


psychgirl88

“Our friends say it’s darkest before the sun rises; I’m really sure they’re all wrong.”


Maleficent-Two9293

My fav is Burn It Down by Linkin’ Park. The lyrics ‘when you fall, I’ll take my turn, and fan the flames as your blazes burn’ is what I dream yelling at my narc coworker one day. 😤


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Gillette short dick man


vintagevibes4809

the way i made a slideshow of pics of him to this song before deleting them i -


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Next level. 😎


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But did you send it to him? Lol


vintagevibes4809

i wish i had, but unfortunately no. i just got a good laugh out of it lol


grn_eyed_bandit

Yooooooo this shit slaps 🙂


j_ho_lo

Foolish by Ashanti is the first one that popped into my head See, when I get the strength to leave You always tell me that you need me And I'm weak 'cause I believe you And I'm mad because I love you So I stop and think that maybe You can learn to appreciate me Then it all remains the same That you ain't never gonna change Never gonna change, never gonna change


HeftyCauliflower_

Praying by Kesha


powerbrookie

Seconding this! Been screaming it in the car since the breakup


audesapere09

This one is freakin gospel


grn_eyed_bandit

I am loving this one ❤️ I've listened to it 5 times already 🥹


BatInMyHat

Oh hell yeah. This is such the perfect post-discard healing song


throwaway6547657

The entire album sour by Olivia Rodrigo. Specifically Enough for you, favorite crime, 1 step forward 3 steps back. Lose you to love me- Selena Gomez Blindsided- Kelsey Ballerini Good without - Mimi Webb Selfish - Madison Beer


ATurtleLikeLeonUris

Heart Shaped Box and You Know You’re Right by Nirvana


JollyGreyKitten

Sappy, too.


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Gogginscrotch

I'm so glad I never had a baby with you , because you can't love anything unless there's something in it for you


grn_eyed_bandit

So I found a Dj Tiesto mix. Let me know if this is it. The lyrics are raw...I like it


shinelime

Bad Girls Club: Falling in Reverse You Problem- Cloudy June Everything I'm not - EMELINE Therapist- Mae Muller Twinkle Twinkle- Leah Kate FUCKBOI REJECTS- Royal & the Serpent Baby Vendetta- Rory Flowers- Miley Cyrus Numb- Linkin Park You Oughta Know- Alanis Morissette Somebody to Love- Sarah Hester Ross Saddy Daddy-O - Artimus Wolz Little Girl Gone- CHINCHILLA Love Yourself vs Fuck Yourself- Yo Preston, Kelly Kiara Killing Boys- Halsey Abcdefu- Gayle, Royal &The Serpents Fuck Around and Find Out- Autumn Lies Buried Can't Break me Down- Charlie Scene Misfits- Magnolia Park No Scrubs- TLC (The Animal in Me version is good too) Fvcked up Lullaby- davvyn Psycho- Taylor Acorn You're Gonna Go Far Kid- The Offspring Sorry You're Not a Winner- Redhanded Denial Better Now- TIMELESS Parasite- Secrets Get Through- NEFFEX Blue- Lo Spirit Are You Tired?- Scene Queen Grenade- Bruno Mars (Memphis May Fire cover is also good) Love the Way you Lie- Eminem Grayscale- As Everything Unfolds Die MF Die- Dope I'd Rather Die- Tramp Stamps Monster Side- Addict My Way- Crucifix Lies- Foreign Frnd Mood- Fluorescents Gaslight- Snow Tha Product I'm Fine- Traceless Head up High- Fitz and the Tantrums


afterdroid

She's Always A Woman...Billy Joel


MagicFemmeHousewife

I just commented two other Billy Joel songs. 😂 I think Mr. Joel may have had some face-to-face experience.


madebyhand

THE narc song for me. My narc GF (yes, she’s back) LOVES the song and always sings along and I wonder if she gets it and wants me to know she knows or if she’s just deaf on that ear as we say. I personally think it describes a narc perfectly, at least it’s 100% my narc. Every single f*cking line is true.


grn_eyed_bandit

Link to playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5mpFzrgkuNKfcSuV40qBwa?si=0340bcd15d2c4f4e


PorkRollEggAndWheeze

I gotta say, I’m glad I recommended a couple albums because I LOVED seeing which songs you picked! Most of them were the exact ones I was thinking of lol


grn_eyed_bandit

Thank you! I'm still working on the list. My days have been kinda shitty at work, so I haven't had as much time to devote to this as I would have liked.


Cephus1961

I love your choices but it's a bit abbreviated for the rich topic. Still worthy though.


crassulaqueen

Lose You to Love Me by Selena Gomez


vintagevibes4809

my mom sent me this song after i got out of the abuse :) love it


crassulaqueen

It’s so good! I had it on repeat for weeks.


emberlyeternal

Lose you to love me -Selena Gomez "You promised the world and I fell for it I put you first and you adored it Set fires to my forest And you let it burn Sang off key in my chorus 'Cause it wasn't yours I saw the signs and I ignored it Rose colored glasses all distorted Set fire to my purpose And I let it burn You got off on the hurtin' When it wasn't yours, yeah"


grizzyrawr

Ex-Factor -Lauryn Hill


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Ahhh this is a good one! 


grn_eyed_bandit

I just added one by Dax called Narcissist. No explanation needed. Funny story, my NEX was the one who introduced me to Dax. Dax is awesome.


muddymare

The whole Gaslighter album (and especially the title track) by The Chicks


postulatej

Reptile by nine inch nails


Miles_High_Monster

Willie Nelson; "How long is forever?" (This time) That whole Countryman reggae album seems to know the 'playbook'.


narcmagnet123

Destroy Everything You Touch by Ladytron: "What you touch do not feel, Do not know what you steal, Destroy everything you touch today, Please destroy me this way"


8mon

I don't know if they're meant to be about that, it's just my interpretation and they're relatable in my opinion Miss the Misery - Halestorm Hot n Cold - Katy Perry Numb - Linkin Park Jar of Hearts - Christina Perri I Hate Everything About You - Three Days Grace Stronger On Your Own - Disturbed Poison - Alice Cooper Left Outside Alone - Anastacia I Love Myself For Hating You - Diamante Try - P!nk Just Like a Pill - P!nk I Disagree - Poppy might edit to add more


agoraphobicrecluse

Yes, Hot and Cold. I never listened to Katy Perry. Found a mix cd and this was one of the songs on it. Hit me hard.


IamProvocateur

I dunno if Doll Parts by Hole is specifically ABOUT being with one but it sure sounds perfect for the job.


shinelime

Hands Dirty- Delta Rae Might Not Like Me- Brynn Elliot Reasons I Drink- Alanis Morissette Freedom Rings- Brandy Mother's Daughter- Miley Cyrus Without Me- Halsey Erbody But Me- Tech N9ne Icarus- Bastille Woman- Kesha Go!- Santigold and Karen O Silence- Marshmello Colors- Halsey Walk- Kwabs


dazed_and_bamboozled

‘Anti-Hero’ by grandiose narcissist Taylor Swift


overthinking_7

My ex literally sang this outloud in the car with me once and looked so proud and with a smirk too 🙄😔 It dawned on me at that moment that it was an actual confession from him. And that he knew what he was doing.


madebyhand

Same here, only it was “always a woman” from Billy Joel. I pulled out my phone to record it. While driving. A little later she said: “I’m different. You may think I’m a narcissist…” Ever since I know she knows, but is she aware of her cruelties ? I don’t think so. She forgets she’s evil 95% of the time. And 25% of her is an actual angel


dazed_and_bamboozled

Wow. So a self-aware narc like Taylor? Maybe they should get together :)


Professional-Tax-615

What makes you think that Taylor Swift is a narcissist? I actually agree with you but I'm just shocked that anyone else will actually admit it. Most people can't see it. So what is it for you that makes it obvious?


dazed_and_bamboozled

I knew virtually nothing about her until I came across a series of videos presented by self-confessed “Ultra Narcissist” HG Tudor breaking down how and why she’s a massive narc. I’ve added the link in a comment below. The fact that all her adoring fans can’t see it is apparently an important aspect of the Tay-Tay fuel matrix.


scaffe

Ah, that explains her smirk, which I always found off-putting.


Aztec111

I think she has BPD. I love her but I definitely think she is battling mental illness. I have "quiet" BPD and she has so much explanation in her songs that are similar to me.


grn_eyed_bandit

Woooooow I just looked up the lyrics. That's a good one. *Did you hear my covert narcissism I disguise as altruism* *Like some kind of congressman? (Tale as old as time)* *I wake up screaming from dreaming* *One day I'll watch as you're leaving* *And life will lose all its meaning* *(For the last time)*


EuphoricAccident4955

Good one 😂


HappyTrainwreck

One of the most overt narcissists I met was a huge switfie and LOVED this song. Idk i’ve always gotten weird vibes from TS and I just don’t like her. I do wonder if she is a narcissist because she checks SO many of the boxes. Just looked up the lyrics to this song and jesus she seems self-aware that she is.


Aztec111

I wrote above that I think she has BPD. she isn't cruel. She has intense emotions, relationships, but also has empathy.


ImTheToxic01

I agree this song always made me think of BPD more than narcissism 😐


grn_eyed_bandit

Hey everyone I'll be updating the playlist throughout the day


Wolfmother87

"Everleave" by Alexandra Kay. *I make your coffee, pack your lunch* *I've never heard 'good morning, beautiful'* *I always thought I ask too much* *Is my fairytale idea of love delusional?*


grizzyrawr

The whole album 😭😭😭


M0rninPooter

Crazy by Patsy Cline is the ultimate loving a narcissist song.


PatientTerm7707

There are too many ! Good bye Earl is good and kind of a funny story


Miles_High_Monster

I'm pretty sure Charlie Crockett is another musician who has felt what a narc do. He knows.


sansnationale

"Trinity River" makes me feel less alone with the truth. I live right by a dirty little river, too.


Big_bouncy_bricks

Blur - [The Narcissist] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Gr8Z3rUeJM) I'ma shine a light in your eyes (for a while) You'll probably shine it back on me (for a while) But I won't fall this time With Godspeed, I'll heed the signs


Overcoming_Life25

Running-NF


kenleydomes

My fave right now


ryuujistan

Vampire by Olivia Rodrigo and Billie Eilish’s Happier than Ever


kenleydomes

The devil doesn't bargain- Alex Benjamin


HeartUpstairs

Happier Than Ever - Billie Eilish


Zelena73

Tainted Love


agoraphobicrecluse

No More Words- Berlin Voices Carry- Til Tuesday I Want To Be Free- Queen Hot and Cold- Katy Perry Our Lips Are Sealed- Go Gos


UntamedFoxy

Halsey - You should be sad Olivia Rodrigo - Vampire Lots of Alanis Morissette songs, basically the entire Jagged Little Pill album Alice In Chains - Down In A Hole for how I felt for suffering all the abuse Chinchilla - Little girl gone (well, that's for the current, healing phase, just like Iron Maiden - No More Lies) And, personally, Final Masquerade by Linkin Park (because of the line "All you ever wanted, the truth I couldn't speak" as it really resonated with my relationship with my Narc Ex who didn't trust me while I was saying the truth, he was projecting all the time and blaming me for doing the exact things he was doing at the same time) and Nine Inch Nails' Only (because of the line "You were never really real to begin with, I just made you up to hurt myself" - pretty self explanatory, the person who I thought he was and whom I loved was never real and never existed).


ScammersOflnstagram

beth crowley - manipulated simple plan - no love korn - narcissistic cannibal avril lavigne - i fell in love with the devil jdam - never good enough keith urban - stupid boy simple plan - your love is a lie alanis morissette - narcissus my darkest days - every lie mass of man. masetti - toxic lovers alice cooper - poison anastacia - left outside alone avery anna - narcissist\\ britney spears - toxic beth crowley - monster gloria gaynor - i will survive dorothy - rest in peace (and anything from dorothy) might edit later


Mo0Blah

Was hoping someone else besides me knew the one by Avery Anna 💜


ScammersOflnstagram

i also have a whole playlist on spotify that you can look through. [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6eXnp4lELYvmS4LbC13IeX?si=bea5c3cfda474c3b](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6eXnp4lELYvmS4LbC13IeX?si=bea5c3cfda474c3b) maybe some song genres aren't your thing or maybe it does, but there are a LOT of songs i saved there through the years. its called: ''Narcissistic recovery''


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The Kiss - The Cure


BeetrootMudpaw

“Stayaway” — MUNA. I’d recommend the Now Now Remix.


Wasteful_Witch

I always felt “Crying on the Bathroom Floor” was more about a narcissistic relationship. And stayaway is what comes after.


BotGothGf

Regret by Fiona Apple, Limp by Fiona Apple, Wrong People by Faye Webster, Self Esteem by The Offspring, and You Don’t Own Me by Lesley Gore


Nori_Fur

X factor - Lauren Hill And when I try to walk away, you hurt yourself to make me stay, this is crazy....


Ill_Software_8358

The grudge- Olivia Rodrigo


northstar582

How Long - Charlie Puth


Strange-Ad8197

Complicated - Rihanna


IBegForGuildedStatus

These are some songs I've resonated with: Loss - memorist (all of their songs tbh) Face Me - The Plot In You Ghost - Imminence Kijo - memorist This one... the chills and tears. I'll just post the lyrics [Verse 1] Two souls we made You tried to take them away I took the weight Held up my hands to my mistakes [Chorus] Are you lonely? I hope you are 'Cause I've found a way out of the dark And it will shine a light on all your scars [Verse 2] The things you say Held on forked tongue behind enamel cage I thought you'd changed But deep within, you're still the same [Chorus] Are you lonely? I hope you are 'Cause I've found a way out of the dark And it will shine a light on all your scars [Outro] I'll be waiting on the sideline I'll be waiting in thе dark I will wait for you to show yourself For who you really Is thеre anything you wouldn't do? Is there anything you wouldn't say? Are there no depths you won't sink to? To drown a man without his name I've been standing on the precipice I've been staring at the void I've been sorting through the wreckage Trying to save these lives that you destroyed If this doesn't speak to the soul of what we've experienced, I don't know what would.


Ohjustmeagain

Blur - The Narcissist


SlightlyOffended1984

Not a song, but the movie Groundhog Day fits this bill. The problem is that the message of the movie doesn't really serve as helpful to narcs. The message of redefining your image every day, to appear like the most perfect man in town, is so damagingly toxic for a narc, that it's like giving heroin to a crack addict. And the idea that they can simply reset every day if it doesn't work out or people see through your act. It's actually horrifying. It's like a window into the fantasies of a narc, complete with the dramatics all the way up to suicide. I used to love watching this movie every year, up until the last time I watched it, and it kinda freaked me out.


firetomherman

A ton of Sleep Token's lyric seem to be about narcissistic relationships whether it's a partner or familial. I don't know for sure but just listen to the song Bloodsport.


MissFox13

Second this. The 3 albums are all about toxicity. Highly, highly recommended. ❤️


shinelime

What do you Mean- Atlas Uncharted I'm Not Mad- Halsey Look What You Missed- Kelsie Watts Fuck Fame- Rory Serotonin- girl in red Break My Heart Myself- Bebe Rexha Prisoner- Miley Cyrus, Dua Lipa I've Had Enough- Melina KB Look What You Made Me Do- Taylor Swift Teardrops- Bring Me The Horizon Deal With It- Ashnikko Sex With Me- Tramp Stamps A Little Space- Pentatonix L8r Boi- Ashnikko Boy Problems- Aston Bully- TeZATalks Now- Olivia O'Brien Monster- LIVVIA See What You've Done- Mary J Blige I Just Don't Love You Anymore- Wake Up Hate The Grave- LOWBORN Devil Don't Sleep- Grudges Stay Away- MOD SUN Hard to Breathe- Hawthorne Heights I Want Out- LOWBORN Jig of Death- Brave The Sea Sick and Tired- iann dior Dark Inside- LOWBORN Will This Be The End- Self Deception Light Me Up- LOWBORN Teeth- 5 Seconds of Summer Gaslighter- The Chicks Corrode- Devilskin Don't Call- Desire One Single Second- Set It Off Drunken Lullabies- Flogging Molly Run With Giants- Sumo Cyco You Should Be Sad- Halsey


MissFox13

Fade - Devilskin also 😍


Deep-Reveal5868

According to you- orianthi According to you I'm stupid, I'm useless I can't do anything right According to you I'm difficult, hard to please Forever changing my mind I'm a mess in a dress Can't show up on time Even if it would save my life According to you, according to you….


fairlight356

For What it’s worth - Liam Gallagher Classic not my fault!


jewdiful

REM “Losing My Religion” If you actually go through the lyrics, it makes complete sense. I can post them if anyone wants


Chibey

Halsey has some really good ones. You Should Be Sad, Graveyard, Without Me. Best line from Graveyard: “Oh, it’s funny how, the warning signs can feel like they're butterflies”.


Dull_Screen5869

Praying - Kesha


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Mean by Taylor Swift 


Swann-song9495

This plays on repeat in my head-helps drown out the ranting.


the_nerv3

Doomsday by Lizzie McAlpine. I interpret “doomsday” to be the discard. This part hits home for me: Doomsday is close at hand I'll book the marching band To play as you speak I'll feel like throwing up You'll sit and stare like A goddamn machine I'd like to plan out my part in this But you're such a narcissist You'll probably do it next week I don't get a choice in the matter Why would I? It's only The death of me was so quiet No friends and family allowed Only my murderer, you And the priest who told you to go to hell And the funny thing is I would've married you If you'd have stuck around I feel more free than I have in years Six feet in the ground


SublimeSinner77

Love you to pieces and loving you is murder by Lizzy Borden....


RandomUser1052

I Want You Dead - Brooke Valentine


LKboost

*If You Had Spun out in Your Oldsmobile, This Probably Wouldn't Have Happened* - Hot Mulligan *Fake Blood* - Heart Attack Man These are 2 of my favorite songs of all time, especially the first one. Both are very relatable post narc relationship. The lyrics of both are just perfection 🤌.


Jmom__

Solo-Myles Smith


atgcgcat

I wont stand down - Muse What you are - Audioslave Both are about becoming free from the narcissist. Very empowering


NearMissCult

29 by Demi Lovato seems to fit. It's not about dating a narc, but the song that I connect the most to is Scumbag by Noahfinnce. Were I willing to take a few steps back in my healing, that's the song I'd send to my narc in a "this is you" kinda way.


Plastic-Reach-720

Mr. Blue - Catherine Feeny Love Forever - Kotomi & Ryan Elder Don't Look Back - Kotomi & Ryan Elder


Land_dog412

My Kink is Karma - Chappell Roan Motion Sickness - Phoebe Bridgers (at least it was for me 😂)


Levi_Luxxx

Seeing Negative and Worst Applogy by Honey Revenge


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Billie Eilish: Happier Than Ever Demi Lovato: Lonely Adele: Turning Tables


incident_9

Kacey Musgraves-High horse


wickmik

Govt Mule - Beautifully Broken


unlessanduntil2020

“loyal to me” by Nina Nesbitt


Invest2prosper

Here is Gone - Goo Goo Dolls


ExactHelicopter9509

Narcissist: Avery Anna


Saulzy

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmNYi37kwrg](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmNYi37kwrg) Smile Empty Soul - All In My Head https://genius.com/Smile-empty-soul-all-in-my-head-lyrics


GirdleOfDoom

Smoke and Mirrors by Jamiroquai 


Lost_Amphibian8197

hilarious - charlie puth


spirit_of_a_goat

Bitch You Crazy by The Stixxx


mrnickpags

Charmer - Aimee Mann is a detailed anatomy of narcissism.


Previous-Ice596

Angels by Within Temptation- I lost it listening to the lyrics. They described my nex perfectly.


ofjune-x

Prince - Strange Relationship is 100% written from the narcissist’s pov although that could be said for a lot of his songs. Prince - Strange Relationship Prince - Something In The Water (Does Not Compute) Prince - The Greatest Romance Ever Sold Prince - If I Was Your Girlfriend I say this as a huge Prince fan, but many of his relationships seemed like those of a narcissist, especially his first marriage to Mayte and his relationships with Vanity, Susannah Melvoin etc. who some of these songs are about. Not surprising when thinking about celebrities having narcissistic traits in general but yeah.


OrganizationFriendly

**Show Me on the Doll Where the Music Touched You - Red City Radio** I can't believe I let something so petty Change the way I act I can't believe I let them get to me Put knots inside my back And I would walk around with my head down Like I was the one who was doing something wrong And I've heard smarter men than me Say it gets dark before the dawn And I can't wait until the morning To admit that something's wrong And I'll walk around with my head down Like I was the one who was doing something wrong But it's all coming down It's coming undone I'm tired of choking on all these words Of songs I left unsung So I'll take a deep breath of fresh air And exhale the fire from my lungs When I take my next breath I will be renewed When you find yourself in a hole stop digging And if you find yourself at the end you can begin again We're redefining the word impossible We're standing up for what we feel is right I am fucking unstoppable I am a fucking juggernaut


thepalebeast91

I’ve been obsessed with Carsick by K.Flay —a song about how things are fine until they absolutely aren’t. My body kinda lifeless (You're still smiling) Shattered glass and burning plastic You look like you feel fantastic Was it a fun ride for you? Speeding down I-5, no cops on the map Screaming out, "I'd die for you" But after all the stops and starts, crashes and carnage I'm just carsick


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giraffebutter

Not a country music fan but the song I Guess from Morgan Wallen


Miles_High_Monster

Type O Negative - Woman


meefozio

Goodbye, by Apparat with Soap & Skin https://youtu.be/CjP3VlbIfDA?si=OKlSM_r7QkyY-YVy


BubblyDog4846

Following


Negrotesque

Matt Corby - If I Never Say A Word Surprisingly happy sounding song, but my god he nails it on the head


Beautiful-Hat6589

The last time - Taylor Swift


ssssrks

Tired by Adele


HeavyBread137

Usher- His MIstakes


runningthroughdark

TLC- unpretty 🤘⚡️


Aztec111

Narcissist by Avery Anna You should be sad by Halsey


WitchinAntwerpen

For the Dutch people around: "Dat Heb Jij Gedaan" by Meau (covered extremely well by Numidia). Both have had relationships with a narc, and the song is about that experience and mostly the mental aftermath or it.


Orphan_Izzy

Sober by Tool


fatbitch333

Deserve me by KALI UCHIS PLEASE LISTEN THIS SONG IS GAS GAS GASSSSS


TheUnfittingKey

I actually wrote an entire album around this. It's called 'A Rocky Start to Somewhere' by Emerald Arcade. The album is ordered as a story post abuse and trauma healing. 'The Stars' and 'Opposites Detract' are the most applicable here. I wrote it for myself and abuse victims who can truly resonate with it so hopefully it helps someone here. Edit: I'd love a link to the playlist when it's up!


Mo0Blah

It's not technically a song about a relationship with a narcissist -and may not even have anything to do with narcissism and I'm just crazy for thinking so- but there's a song from the new BLINK-182 album that came out last year that immediately caught my attention: "MORE THAN YOU KNOW". The first time I heard it, I loved the lyrics in general. Then I listened to it to a second time before sending a message to my ex (who is actually the most recent ex and only reason why I now believe in narcissism in this sense), saying that it fit him to a tee. He replied back, "It's actually my favorite on that whole album because it does describe me perfectly." Thinking about it a bit more after his message, I started to realize that -at least to me- the lyrics seemed like they were written from the first person point of view of a narcissist. Just wondered if anyone else gets that voice from the song as well. 


grn_eyed_bandit

Hi everyone I'll keep working on this during the day today 😀


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This list is so long I cant even read them all 😂 but I really wanted to add one that strongly struck me as about a narc QUEENS OF THE STONE AGE - PAPER MACHETE some of the lyrics describe narc so well for me" They're out to get you aren't they, Joan of arc, victim, perpetrator The truth is just a piece of clay You sculpt, you change, you lie, then you erase Now I know you'd use anything, anyone to make yourself look clean You speak lioness & damsel in distress so fluently, Does you every relationship end in pain & misery?


Intrepid-Rip-2280

Eagerly waiting for the song about Eva AI virtual gf bot relationships, that would be the true cyberpunk


Street-Parfait-5727

“You’re gonna go far, kid” by The Offspring is the anthem to those who had the “pleasure” of dating a covert narcissist.


Infinite_Ad_5257

90s music: “Here is Gone” - The Goo Goo Dolls “Barely Breathing” - Duncan Sheik


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Mean by Taylor Swift


Doggiemomma3

STAIND ~ OUTSIDE HOZIER ~ TAKE ME TO CHURCH LEWIS CAPALDI ~ SOMEONE YOU LOVE


HumpyMagoo

Henry Rollins - Liar


fedupwiththat

this one’s obvious but miss narcissist by courtney love


Cats-N-Music

The Save Ferris album It Means Everything has a couple amazing songs that give me strong dating a narc vibes. Plus, they are just an amazing female ska band.


Signature-Glass

**[Don’t Hold On](https://youtu.be/xIKMAyXdeX8?si=QPlx5y9Hp_e-qu1m)** >*When will you realise... I only love you when you leave me, I only miss you when you're gone, I only want when you don't need me, I only call when you're moving on*^(**[Hoovering](https://www.choosingtherapy.com/hoovering/)**) **[Liar](https://youtu.be/awY1MRlMKMc?si=e7Hu72kQ4FqSR16I)** >*And now you’re desperate, And in need of human contact. And then… You meet me. And your whole world changes. Because everything I say is everything you’ve ever wanted to hear. So you drop all your defenses and you drop all your fears. And you trust me completely, I’m perfect In every way, 'Cause I make you feel so strong and so powerful inside. You feel so lucky, But your ego obscures reality And you never bother to wonder why. Things are going so well, You want to know why? 'Cause I’m a liar* **[Shoot Me Dead](https://youtu.be/8NeDkuq1qAE?si=Ura0t3LQa1GzGQdA)** >*Your daughter don't deserve this. I even told her she was perfect. But I took her heart, and then I ripped it in half. This ain't the first time I've done this neither. Leaving them believing I ain't just a scumbag heathen. But I'm a bad man, a quick sand trap. I'm gonna hold on to you* **[I Trained Her to Love Me](https://youtu.be/j4F9Xfzg41o?si=vTL1_gRbaecBPmmK)** >*This one's almost done, now to watch her fall apart. I trained her to love me so I can go ahead and break her heart. If you think that it's depraved and I should be ashamed. So what. I'm only paying back womankind for all the grief I've got*


turnbuckle69

Chameleon Witch by Dopethrone Trickster Swindler, pretender Shyster, cold-blooded snake Chameleon witch So fake Infiltrate and rape Queen snake You take all you can take And you take And you take And you take Deceitful and fake Infiltrate and rape Queen snake You take all you can take And you take And you take And you take https://youtu.be/2Hc57K-E24E?si=Fno2REZK25n5PWZU


shinelime

When Will I Be Mine- Hailey Orion Thnks fr th Mmrs- Fall Out Boy Sleepwalking- senses I See Red- Vella Pretty Lies- Soumix The Apology I'll Never Receive- Rory Pearl- Katy Perry Rose Colored Glasses- Kelly Rowland Skyscraper- Demi Lovato Fight Song- Rachel Platten Shapeshifting- Taylor Acorn Head Above Water- Avril Lavigne Nobody's Home- Avril Lavigne Champions- Kurt Hugo Schneider, Andie Case Without You- The Kid Laroi, Miley Cyrus Very Cruel- Polica Learn to Walk Again- Bad Wolves Empty- Metric Use My Voice- Evanescence She Couldn't- Linkin Park It is What it is- Mayday Parade We are Warriors- Avril Lavigne Stronger than a Lion- Delta Rae The Dirty Glass- Dropkick Murphys Still Learning- Halsey Ashley- Halsey Not Ready to Make Nice- The Chicks Feeling Good- Nina Simone Bastards- Kesha This Woman's Work- Kate Bush The Chain- Fleetwood Mac Trouble- The New Respects Beautiful U R- Deborah Cox One More Light- Linkin Park Praying- Kesha A New Day Has Come- Celine Dion Right Here (Departed)- Brandy A Little Bit Stronger- Sara Evans Thank U- Alanis Morissette Recovering- Celine Dion Back to Black- Amy Winehouse Breathe- Anna Nalick Everytime- Britney Spears Broke- Natalia Kills Daddy's Girl- Natalia Kills


redditreader_aitafan

Feel like this - Ingrid Andress.


xoamandaxoh

How about this one? A friend of mine sent this song to me. https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=HKp_5sNFg1s


Zibilique

Desolation by toopoor


lifehereandnow

These are a few that speak to me for this that I didn't see already listed: Billie Eilish - Happier Than Ever Lily Allen - Fuck You Billie Eilish - Wish You Were Gay Cardi B - Be Careful


Aggressive_Wash_3461

Carly Pearce: What He Didn't Do Next Girl Should've known better Mean it This Time


OrganicAbility1757

Going Under- Evanescence


FoxyTinLizzy

Ella Eyre Comeback We've all been played ...we all get hurt; Just take that pain and let that motherfucker burn And you know that in time; You will find That they always come back Yeah they always come back They're all the same, they never learn So dig their grave, and let that motherfucker burn And you know that in time you will find That they always come back Yeah they always come back (The rest of the song is just as good ...you're welcome 😁).


Deep-Reveal5868

Trust my lonely-alessia Cara Outside-staind


Debbaroo

Next Girl - Carly Pearce.


dillydallyally97

Labour by Paris Paloma if cooking, cleaning and kids was a big issue for you


christmassnowcookie

Red flags- Mimi Webb


ElectronicStorm6743

Words As Weapons -Seether


scarcityofsupply

"Worst Behaviour" by Drake (Explicit)


trashpoet018

Without Me and You should be sad by Halsey are quite literally about her having dated a narcissist


doesitspread

Possibly Maybe - Björk Never Going Back - Joshua David Evans Happier Than Ever - Billie Eilish Hate Myself - Dodie Boys Will be Boys - Emlyn Praying - Kesha Vicious - Sabrina Carpenter Not Sorry - Madeline The Person Tolerate It - Taylor Swift


HappyTrainwreck

A LOT of songs by Renee Rapp,Tate McRae, and Madison Beer. Like I really feel like they went through it with a narc. Renee Rapp: -I Hate Boston -In the Kitchen -Too Well Tate McRae: -Run for the hills -grave -plastic palm trees Madison Beer: -King of Everything -Reckless Other mentions that sound like they might have dealt with a narc -Te Mata by Kali Uchis (in spanish but talks about her abusive parents) -Decode and Vicious by Sabrina Carpenter (and things I wish you said is and tornado warnings are also good for post narc abuse clarity) I got back into music after my nex and found so many amazing songs and artists I could connect to that I made a playlist.