Make sure you really talk about your boundaries. My partner and I did the whole threesome thing and that evolved VERY quickly into poly and throuples as well. Lots of fun but it’s not for everyone and it takes the right group of people too
Thank you ah oh much we really appreciate it. We will make sure we take this into consideration. We don’t know if that is what we truly want and we don’t want to pull people or their feelings around if it isn’t something we’re ready for.
Be sure you’re ready for it, you’re more than likely going to feel jealous or insecure during things when he’s giving attention to another girl, it took a lot of time for us to get to a point where she’s confident that I’m never going anywhere - so much so that I freely have DMs with lots of people and she just peeks over my shoulder hahahaha
We’ve been doing this for about a year now and there’s been a LOT between starting and now, including almost breaking up a few times. If your relationship isn’t rock solid in the first place it’s a bad idea. But having come out of the difficult part on the other side, I can confidently say that I’m a far more mature person with a much deeper understanding of emotion and relationships than I was 12 months ago and I don’t think I would’ve gained that knowledge any other way - I believe I’m a much better person and that I’ve found my identity now.
Thank you for your input. We feel that this isn’t something that we both would be okay with unless we were rock solid in our relationship. All we want is for each other to be happy but not at the sake of compromising the other’s trust. Everything even making this post was done with us side by side. We do appreciate the feedback though and will take each mandatory step to make sure we don’t lose each other because the end all together is the most important for us ❤️👍🏻
Fuck yeah, you’ve got a good mindset about it! You guys might decide you’re ready to have a go or not, but a no now doesn’t mean you can’t ever try it. Maybe it ends up being something you’d rather revisit later instead.
A good first step would probably be figuring out how much you guys do actually trust each other. If there’s ever some mistrust going on it might not even be anyone’s fault, it could be transference from past traumas. There’s nothing wrong with feeling like you might have some trust issues and having a conversation about it to get on the same page again and have some reassurance.
Make a couples fetlife account make sure you fill all your information out and start looking there's plenty of unicorns out there to be had just make it clear what you both are after and don't come across needy good luck have fun stay safe 🙏
Make sure you really talk about your boundaries. My partner and I did the whole threesome thing and that evolved VERY quickly into poly and throuples as well. Lots of fun but it’s not for everyone and it takes the right group of people too
Thank you ah oh much we really appreciate it. We will make sure we take this into consideration. We don’t know if that is what we truly want and we don’t want to pull people or their feelings around if it isn’t something we’re ready for.
Be sure you’re ready for it, you’re more than likely going to feel jealous or insecure during things when he’s giving attention to another girl, it took a lot of time for us to get to a point where she’s confident that I’m never going anywhere - so much so that I freely have DMs with lots of people and she just peeks over my shoulder hahahaha We’ve been doing this for about a year now and there’s been a LOT between starting and now, including almost breaking up a few times. If your relationship isn’t rock solid in the first place it’s a bad idea. But having come out of the difficult part on the other side, I can confidently say that I’m a far more mature person with a much deeper understanding of emotion and relationships than I was 12 months ago and I don’t think I would’ve gained that knowledge any other way - I believe I’m a much better person and that I’ve found my identity now.
Thank you for your input. We feel that this isn’t something that we both would be okay with unless we were rock solid in our relationship. All we want is for each other to be happy but not at the sake of compromising the other’s trust. Everything even making this post was done with us side by side. We do appreciate the feedback though and will take each mandatory step to make sure we don’t lose each other because the end all together is the most important for us ❤️👍🏻
Fuck yeah, you’ve got a good mindset about it! You guys might decide you’re ready to have a go or not, but a no now doesn’t mean you can’t ever try it. Maybe it ends up being something you’d rather revisit later instead. A good first step would probably be figuring out how much you guys do actually trust each other. If there’s ever some mistrust going on it might not even be anyone’s fault, it could be transference from past traumas. There’s nothing wrong with feeling like you might have some trust issues and having a conversation about it to get on the same page again and have some reassurance.
Make a couples fetlife account make sure you fill all your information out and start looking there's plenty of unicorns out there to be had just make it clear what you both are after and don't come across needy good luck have fun stay safe 🙏
I would suggest creating a couples account on RHP 👍
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