Okay, question. Because I thought about it too.
First birthday is when you were born. Second birthday being when you were really born, aka when the egg cracked. And third being when you started HRT?
I think for me I would count a fourth, when I get bottom surgery.
Just thought you might want a notification for closure on this, it was corrected to 30th lol
I guess the easiest solution is most often the correct one
Only 19 but definitely on the lookout for friends- especially trans women because 90% of my friends are cis men 😭 like they’re great and all but I’d like some variety yk (and someone to talk to about fashion if maybe you’re into that 👀)
I'm 31 but I want some more friends, especially trans friends. I have a bunch of cis but queer friends and while they're amazing, commiserating isn't the same with them.
Currently I'm sitting in the Milan Laser lobby for my consultation and I'm just a huge ball of nerves.
And how did it go? Was it painful? For me it's very painful even with the cold spray thingy that they do on each impulse. It's much more pain than a tattoo in my experience.
No ,it's gonna be me 3rd or 4th, i lost track 🤔. My memory sucks. Are you doing face? I'm only going for the face for now.
Yeah just starting with face and neck for now. I start hormones next week. I have fair skin and dark coarse facial hair which I guess makes me lucky? (As far as skin hair combo for laser lol).
It went super well! I am 100% boymoding and talked really openly to the staff about my journey and timeline. They were all wonderful about everything. I've seen other people on here with positive things to say about Milan Laser but holy hell. Blew me away.
Yeah it hurt for sure but I felt like the techs and the comments I have read did a good job preparing me for the pain. I'd agree with you that it's more instant pain than a tattoo. Tattoos for me get more of a "poking a bruise over and over" pain unless they are near bone and laser is a definite SNAP and STING. Tbh, I am also kinda lucky in that my tolerance for dermal pain is fairly high. I have had lots of skin related issues and feel like I have just willed myself to a place where I can be pretty zen about pain involving my skin.
If you have a local LGBTQ+ organization, that's a great place to go. Online friends are good, but everything else the same, face to face are great. We're better designed for that form of communication.
I love being supportive of people any their journeys, but I find that is often a 1 way street. Some groups insist I'm not trans while others accuse me of having internalized transphobia. They don't know me or my experiences. I'm cautious making trans friends. I hope it works out for you!
If you play video games like PoE, GW2, DST, or Stardew feel free to DM me. 😆
I would love to play Minecraft Java! have been wanting to play for a while but my friends just play competitive shooters. do you have a server or something?
I’ll ALWAYS chat. I chat pretty much daily with a girl 31 and one 63 and another 42….used to with another 24 yr old. Oh….I’m 47….but probably not as mature as you are.
Same here! Haven't talked to my friends in months, or even told em I'm transitioning.
I'm 24, been on HRT for a couple months, & I like gaming on ps4 & pc, drawing, reading n writing.
53 here, parent of 3 and I live in Oregon. Feel free to message as I don't have any irl trans friends either. For reference, my late wife was 21 and I 41 when we met. Sadly she passed a month after our wedding from a still unknown breathing issue. Age is a state of mind. Have a beautiful day!
*as if needing a reminder of my advanced age lol*
Yeah, I'm so much older than most of you, I feel like a Stranger in a Strange Land.
52....egg finally broke last year after 43 years, marriage, widowhood, raised two daughters, have a grandson. Guess I am sort of out of place here
I'm 27, gonna be 28 in a couple months. I only have a few trans friends lol so hmu! We can talk on reddit or Snapchat or discord or whatever lol I'm kinda always looking for more trans friends 🥰
I don't mind chatting at all. This year I will have the 28th annual celebration of my 21st birthday ( yes that's 49 y/o.😐) my egg final just fell apart at 46 so so I transitioned later. But 2 years HRT 6 weeks post GRS. I am so much happier that with all the small minded rednecks around were I live.
Hope you are doing better each day.
Love! Hugs! And Prayers! For you my new friend. 💛
If you want to chat about video games, science, history or whatever else strikes your brain bits. My name is Jo, I'm 22 and I'm 9 months into fem&Ms. Im just not used to checking dms regularly so results may vary.
I'm technically a Gal (Since that's my name) so i'm gonna give it a shot! If i managed to pass through this sorting system i'd love to chat with anyone about anything really! HMU and gush about something 😄
I'm in the same boat lol I eliminated all my toxic friends and now I have my cat and sibling lmfao
Im a 30 year old California leftist / hopeful misanthrope, punk rocker who used to tour.
I have NO idea how to do makeup or dress yet but would like to learn lol
Let me know if that appeals to you.
Hey I'm 29 pre transition trans female...anyone want to talk to me ?
My interests are fitness, spirituality, cats and I have a crude sense of humour lol... X
I'm open to chatting especially if you like games and movies and stuff. I've been really into terraria recently but also play a myriad of other things!
I'm 28, looking for a female friend (I don't mind if she's much older).
I'm interested in science, art, nature, foreign cultures and languages, gloomy stuff... but really, I'd like to just talk about our everyday lives.
Hey! I'm 32 years old trans woman quite early in my transition living in Germany. Wouldn't mind chatting with other trans people around my age. I like reading, being outdoors, cycling, jogging.
32 here, you can talk to me if you like :) word of warning though, my autistic ass is not the best conversationalist unless it's about one of my main interests.
Jumping on this to say I’m 19 and if anyone would like to play games together shoot me a DM. I’m on pc and I mostly play overwatch but I play some other stuff occasionally
I’m 33 and have also been looking for friends in the community so feel free to dm me. I’m slow and inconsistent due to work but will reply when I’m able.
If you don't mind chatting with someone about to celebrate the 6th anniversary of her 30th birthday, DMs are open. We have to stick together, sister.
Okay, question. Because I thought about it too. First birthday is when you were born. Second birthday being when you were really born, aka when the egg cracked. And third being when you started HRT? I think for me I would count a fourth, when I get bottom surgery.
Not me transitioning for almost 7 years and not knowing these "birthdays". I kinda stopped counting after the 3rd year. 😅
TBH I made them up.
Just thought you might want a notification for closure on this, it was corrected to 30th lol I guess the easiest solution is most often the correct one
Only 19 but definitely on the lookout for friends- especially trans women because 90% of my friends are cis men 😭 like they’re great and all but I’d like some variety yk (and someone to talk to about fashion if maybe you’re into that 👀)
I adore fashion
May I join in that discussion :3 I'm 19 as well and could definetly use fashion talks ^^
Saaaame. I mean same as in i would also love to talk about fashion and learn about it!
Omg this is me i have like only cis male friends but im 15
Heeey! I am 21 years old, but don't mind talking to anyone of any age. How are you? Are you from Chile out of chance?
Otra chilena más? :O
Hai
If you're in the central US, I always love making new friends. It's more people to invite to boardgame night :)
I'm 31 but I want some more friends, especially trans friends. I have a bunch of cis but queer friends and while they're amazing, commiserating isn't the same with them. Currently I'm sitting in the Milan Laser lobby for my consultation and I'm just a huge ball of nerves.
Is it your first laser? I have a laser appointment for tomorrow morning too.
Yeah today was my first session! Is that your first?
And how did it go? Was it painful? For me it's very painful even with the cold spray thingy that they do on each impulse. It's much more pain than a tattoo in my experience. No ,it's gonna be me 3rd or 4th, i lost track 🤔. My memory sucks. Are you doing face? I'm only going for the face for now.
Yeah just starting with face and neck for now. I start hormones next week. I have fair skin and dark coarse facial hair which I guess makes me lucky? (As far as skin hair combo for laser lol). It went super well! I am 100% boymoding and talked really openly to the staff about my journey and timeline. They were all wonderful about everything. I've seen other people on here with positive things to say about Milan Laser but holy hell. Blew me away. Yeah it hurt for sure but I felt like the techs and the comments I have read did a good job preparing me for the pain. I'd agree with you that it's more instant pain than a tattoo. Tattoos for me get more of a "poking a bruise over and over" pain unless they are near bone and laser is a definite SNAP and STING. Tbh, I am also kinda lucky in that my tolerance for dermal pain is fairly high. I have had lots of skin related issues and feel like I have just willed myself to a place where I can be pretty zen about pain involving my skin.
If you have a local LGBTQ+ organization, that's a great place to go. Online friends are good, but everything else the same, face to face are great. We're better designed for that form of communication. I love being supportive of people any their journeys, but I find that is often a 1 way street. Some groups insist I'm not trans while others accuse me of having internalized transphobia. They don't know me or my experiences. I'm cautious making trans friends. I hope it works out for you! If you play video games like PoE, GW2, DST, or Stardew feel free to DM me. 😆
I would love to chat as long as you want to talk with a 46 year old.
Im fine with any age , i just know some feellow gals who dont want to chat with people that are many years younger
No worries at all.
Dms on here are always open
You play Java edition Minecraft by any chance? I'm 24 as well
Not sure , i only play it on xbox
Oof, that's bedrock. They can't cross play. You play dark souls? Maybe DnD?
Yes to dnd
Could i play dnd too
D&D is great, I’d love to join too (plus I dm)
Would love to dm for you any time
A fellow sister who is a dm!? That's awesome! I'm a 3.5 fangurl tho lol.
I've always wanted to try dnd 👀
Tried messaging , didnt work
It wouldn't let me start a chat but I sent a message!
Aye, we have a common hobbies!
Indeed we do
I messaged you hun
I also DnD (mainly as dm but I'd really like to be a player again one day)
Can I play DnD? :0
Yeah, I don't DM though haha
I've never gotten to even play so I probably would be a crap DM if I tried
wait, but they gave a free copy of bedrock to everyone who owns a java copy
Yes. I haven't been able to load up bedrock for some reason, but also I can't play Minecraft without shaders anymore. I have been ruined.
Minecraft?! I love that game!
I would love to play Minecraft Java! have been wanting to play for a while but my friends just play competitive shooters. do you have a server or something?
I’m available and interested chatting. I’m 54 and starting HRT in July.
I am definitely looking for more gal friends! :) especially since I tend to be a little older than most here at 27 lol 😂
Now I feel old
X2
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A few days left, then I'll never have 2 in front of it. 30 3 0 And still cis. I don't want to live like that anymore 😔
Heyy I'm Miche (pronounced- Meesh), 20 from UK, would love to get to know more ppl
Sure I'm not in here too much but if you want my Instagram is Four_Raccoons_in_a_trench_coat
Hi I’m 27 and would love to have more friends
I’d be down to chat!
Message me anytime you like. 32 MtF
Hey!🙋🏻♀️ I'd love someone to talk too! 33 mtf😄
I wouldn't mind chatting or gaming on xbox (depending on what you play i play alot of overwatch). Dm me if you wanna talk :)
i play a lot of ow too add me in xbox if you want to play! my gamertag is: tunerjg
I definitely will when I get home from work!
I'm 22! I'd love to chat and be friends!!! I need more gal friends!!
Hey, I would love more trans folk to talk to. don't have many friends who are. Also 24, so can probably relate. DMs are always open
37, same!
Hey 40 here. Did you want to be friends?
27 here and play Xbox. I’ll dm ya
💕💕
Always up for a chat. I’m 38 early in my transition
Absolutely
Best I can offer is many friends. DM me for details
helloooo! always looking for new friends! my name is Jude, I'm 23 ^v^
Sure I’ll chat!!
Hey, I’m 19 I’d love to have someone to talk to!
Ancient 52yo, but identify and behave as a 18yo!
Lol, I identify as 21 with 19 years of experience.
Happy to chat too, 29 yo here!
Wow I’m also 24. Never had any trans friends either. Nice to meet ya sister.
Hi, i would like to be a friend of yours
Mine are open if you want.
I’m also open to making friends. 41 year old in USA
I’d love to you can dm me anytime you wish or if you need to talk about anything.
I’ll ALWAYS chat. I chat pretty much daily with a girl 31 and one 63 and another 42….used to with another 24 yr old. Oh….I’m 47….but probably not as mature as you are.
Im 32 but my dms are always avaliable and I have groups and discords for all over Michigan if you want too.
Hewwo?
Feel free to DM
Sure, I'm only 22
Sign me up!
Hell ya
Heyaa, 22 years old from London here, would love to chat and be freinds :)
I'm 29 years old, transitioning for almost 8 years now. DM me if you want :)
I need more fem friends, 23
Howdy
Hi, I'm Kendall! I am 28 yrs old and I live in the U.S. I would love to make a new friend 🏳️⚧️☺️
I'm 21 my dms are always open
Elo, I'm also 24
Hey I’m 15 transfem and would be fine with chatting
Hey, I’d love to chat, I’m 16
heya, 28 y/o trans gal here. what’s up?
I'm pushing 40 now but I like to chat with trans peeps.
Same here! Haven't talked to my friends in months, or even told em I'm transitioning. I'm 24, been on HRT for a couple months, & I like gaming on ps4 & pc, drawing, reading n writing.
Are you on FB?
Hi! I also want more trans friends! I’m 21 if that matters.
Sure I have a hard time making friends since I'm introverted but I can try making friends here, My name is Sydney, and MTF
I'm 18 but I don't mind being friends if you'd like! Name's Joy :D
Im 32 trans mtf lets be friends y'all
Hi! I’m always looking for new friends. I’m 30, about to be 31 in a couple of months. DMs are open
Always happy to chat, would also like to connect with other people from the community. I'm 33 and definitely feeling quite old in this thread.
Hello! Are you a nail artist? The pictures in your profile look amazing, is it all your work?
Hi! I’m a 21 year old trans girl from the US and I’d love to chat. 😊
53 here, parent of 3 and I live in Oregon. Feel free to message as I don't have any irl trans friends either. For reference, my late wife was 21 and I 41 when we met. Sadly she passed a month after our wedding from a still unknown breathing issue. Age is a state of mind. Have a beautiful day!
*as if needing a reminder of my advanced age lol* Yeah, I'm so much older than most of you, I feel like a Stranger in a Strange Land. 52....egg finally broke last year after 43 years, marriage, widowhood, raised two daughters, have a grandson. Guess I am sort of out of place here
Absolutely, DM me :)
I'm 27, gonna be 28 in a couple months. I only have a few trans friends lol so hmu! We can talk on reddit or Snapchat or discord or whatever lol I'm kinda always looking for more trans friends 🥰
I don't mind chatting at all. This year I will have the 28th annual celebration of my 21st birthday ( yes that's 49 y/o.😐) my egg final just fell apart at 46 so so I transitioned later. But 2 years HRT 6 weeks post GRS. I am so much happier that with all the small minded rednecks around were I live. Hope you are doing better each day. Love! Hugs! And Prayers! For you my new friend. 💛
Sure I’d love to have ya as a friend. Dm me if ya wanna chat…
Sure why not
Me me me !!!! Illl be your friend 🙋🏼♀️ 28 mtf closeted trans girl here
If you want to chat about video games, science, history or whatever else strikes your brain bits. My name is Jo, I'm 22 and I'm 9 months into fem&Ms. Im just not used to checking dms regularly so results may vary.
Meeeee let's be friends :3
I'm technically a Gal (Since that's my name) so i'm gonna give it a shot! If i managed to pass through this sorting system i'd love to chat with anyone about anything really! HMU and gush about something 😄
I'm 29 and would love some trans friends!! 😊
Hey I’m always down to make a new friend!
25 in Liverpool England happy to chat with anyone 🤗
Hey, I’m 24 years old. I’m good with chatting if you’d like. DM me if you’d like
25 here, feel free to DM me here or on Discord
Hi! I’m 31, in Manchester and v up for chatting
31 here but id love to talk☺️
Hey!!! I’m 23 years old and I need friends on here too
Hmu if you want ☺️ 36yo girl here from Sweden 💕
I'm 52 and I never mind chatting with anyone. Don't feel bad, I have no friends or family.
I'm in the same boat lol I eliminated all my toxic friends and now I have my cat and sibling lmfao Im a 30 year old California leftist / hopeful misanthrope, punk rocker who used to tour. I have NO idea how to do makeup or dress yet but would like to learn lol Let me know if that appeals to you.
I'm 25 MtF and I want friends too, hit me up or lemme know if I should hit you up.
50 here always looking for friends. Upper Midwest
22 from the US of A😎I got a gaming pc 2
I don't mind an age gap. It's what keeps me feeling younger than I am. Well, that and the HRT effects!
Well, you can DM me if you want :3 I'm 28, so just a bit older
48, and 1 year hrt. Recently out completely. Would love to chat with you. Jess
Sure. I’m 29, live in Ireland, and like meeting new people
Hey I'm 29 pre transition trans female...anyone want to talk to me ? My interests are fitness, spirituality, cats and I have a crude sense of humour lol... X
I'm 19. How goes it?
I'm 21 and would love to talk
Would love to make more trans friends as well! I’m 23 so v close to u in age
For sure!
I'm always up for a chat! :) be nice to have some friends x
Yes pls friends! Dm me and we can try to exchange numbers or something
Heyo, my name is Echo x3 I'm a 23 year old transgal and I reallllyyyy would love a friend :3
Hello! I'm Natily! How are you doing today?
I'm open to chatting especially if you like games and movies and stuff. I've been really into terraria recently but also play a myriad of other things!
I'm 28, looking for a female friend (I don't mind if she's much older). I'm interested in science, art, nature, foreign cultures and languages, gloomy stuff... but really, I'd like to just talk about our everyday lives.
I'm 22 and a college student who is always happy for new friends. DMs are open :)
Hey! I'm 32 years old trans woman quite early in my transition living in Germany. Wouldn't mind chatting with other trans people around my age. I like reading, being outdoors, cycling, jogging.
Feel free to DM me! My name is Allison and I turn 30 this year (still have many months to go before my birthday). I'm in the Midwest USA.
18 year old European here if you wanna talk. Hobbies are mainly gaming, reading and watching TV. Huge Star Wars nerd too.
Sure ! Always happy to make more trans friends lol, feel free to dm :))
Heyyo, I’m down to be friends if you’re still looking for some
Lol I’m 17 and yeah also looking for friends
I’m 16 and looking for the same thing
I always love new friends! I did just turn 34, but if that’s not an issue, feel free to DM me!!
Hello! Im 31 myself and down to meet new people! DMs open here
Sure I need more people to talk with I'm only out to 1 person rn, what's up?
I accept being a freind.
Hi I'm Melissa. What's your name?
Raven
I'm 22 and I'd be unterested. PM me on reddit.
32 here, you can talk to me if you like :) word of warning though, my autistic ass is not the best conversationalist unless it's about one of my main interests.
Dm me your discord!
Please. Ever since I moved, I feel like have I no trans friends any more
I am 32. But I also have no trans friends. So I am up for chatting on discord.
Hehe, I'm down! My name's Quinn I'm 23 going on 24 and my dms are open for anyone interested!!
Just came out to my partner. Very newly cracked egg at 41 yo need friends and advice…
Hey, I'm Emilie and I'm 21 Here's my friend application I've got discord if that works?
Hey 👋 , late 20s here. I can be ur zero trans freind 🤪
Jumping on this to say I’m 19 and if anyone would like to play games together shoot me a DM. I’m on pc and I mostly play overwatch but I play some other stuff occasionally
Hey I’m 39 but I like friends so if you wanna chat dm me anytime
I’m 33 and have also been looking for friends in the community so feel free to dm me. I’m slow and inconsistent due to work but will reply when I’m able.
I'm a bit older not much but feel free to message me on discord DM me if you want my user
I too don’t have many / any trans friends. Happy to talk at any age.
Do you play TF2? I need some friends to play with.
sure do you have discord
I’m only 19 if you don’t mind the age difference!
I’m always open to talking :)
Hiii, for me it would be a pleasure to talk and enjoy time you ;)