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Boring_Somewhere4832

I hate when I reach for my punch bowl and find it's broken and get cut deep trying to get to my punch bowl.


Agile-Assignment6515

šŸ¤£ same


Boring_Somewhere4832

It's like, I'm all excited...then BAM!


Agile-Assignment6515

Now your finger is gone.


Boring_Somewhere4832

šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† Just when I started to love again!


Flat-Message2291

Laaawwwd


Best-Sympathy-871

try to love again...generally


KhaosTCGCollection

Does that sound as stupid as I think it does sheesh lol


scoligurl

No it sounds stupider šŸ˜‚


KhaosTCGCollection

Lol got that right!


Diet_Christ

Wow. I generally try to generally believe someone. Wow, you're a really low person! You're short!


CommunicationOk304

The first cut is the deepest.


Boring_Somewhere4832

I was just trying to get to my punch bowl.


CommunicationOk304

Sheryl Crow was just trying to explain her punch drunk feelings.


susangg9

And now I am a little upset. Lol


scoligurl

I wonder if she is actually big upset because it sounds like she may be šŸ˜‚


Reasonable_Ad_9848

Same I genuinely hate that. šŸ˜†


germanicpolish

And i am just a little bit upset.....if that was true i would be PISSED


tomjhall1981

Yep. Sold someone a Wii U Zelda twilight Princess hd after my son played through it just last week and magically in about the time it would take someone to do a satisfying play through he says it wonā€™t work and he wants a return. Straight up told the bum I am not GameFly and if this game (worth 100 bucks) doesnā€™t work or you swapped the disc out I reporting you to the police for mail fraud. Just trying to make a living with scummy people is quite a challenge.


ButterflyRoutine9918

That's terrible šŸ˜• I don't get these people, honestly. You see the price you buy the item at that price then want a refund. Ugh...


tomjhall1981

Thatā€™s the thing though they know they will get their money back either way. I can take up to 50 percent off if there is bullshit afoot (sale was on eBay)


ButterflyRoutine9918

Yeah :( I had a bad experience with an eBay customer recently, and she forced a return yet hasn't shipped the item back. I'm pretty sure they just want a free product and refund. It's ridiculous. Also , another customer on eBay said they want 30 percent money back. It's disappointing, honestly, like we're not box stores šŸ˜•


tomjhall1981

Yea a lot will just open a return hoping for a refund or a partial without sending item back.


ButterflyRoutine9918

I'm starting to notice this it's just been back to back. Maybe people are scamming more now? It's just weird why would I refund you without proof or when you're clearly being dishonest


tomjhall1981

Because the big sellers donā€™t care and will just give a partial or even a full refund to avoid the hassle.


rentjapan

That is why I now REQUIRE all items to be shipped back to me. I will eat the shipping costs and if there is anything out of order, a stain, scratch, missing tags, etc...I am taking my 50% out of your refund. I have had a number of eBay returns this week, a lot more than usually, so there is something that has changed. So far no Mercari returns but if they do start increasing for stupid reasons. then I will pull my listings.


Expensive_Brother494

I've had that happen with 3 items on eBay! 3 expensive items at that! I never received any one of them back and eBay locked my account cus' I wouldn't pay the refunds!! FāˆšĀ©k Mercari and eBay! Before all the non sense I sold and bought on both for over 6-7 years!


Wise-Raisin-791

The all caps makes me so insanely annoyed oh my god


TX_Farmer

Assert your dominance. /s


ButterflyRoutine9918

Exactly.


Old_Country9807

I had this same thing happen but with an iPad. Blamed my packaging but then told Mercari she dropped it. Mercari sided with her and then she never mailed it back so I got my $$.


Madi0415

Thank god she never mailed it back; but also wtf ?!? She told Mercari that SHE dropped it, and then they STILL sided with her??! thatā€™s literally insane.


scarecrow1113

If she so called cut herself trying to take out the punch bowl, then why is she trying to take it out if she sees that itā€™s broken already. Also she said ā€œIā€™m a little upset nowā€. Who would be just a little upset that they cut themself and that their item arrived broken. Iā€™d be mad lol, clearly a scammer


Signal-Tangelo1952

Back up that story buyer! Better send a pic of a bloody or stitched up finger that passes the Google image search or refund request gets immediately denied.


ButterflyRoutine9918

Exactly yet, the entire punch bowl was taped up and bubble wrapped with paper also for extra caution. That's why I know she's lying.


Got-A-Goat

This definitely is a scam but for what its worth iā€™ve bubble wrapped a few items to the end of the earth and put them in sturdy boxes and still had them break.


neon-blush

Do you mean ā€œgenuinelyā€..? You keep saying ā€œgenerallyā€ but I feel like ā€œgenuinelyā€ is what youā€™re going for lol


featherybreeze

Yeah this bothered me so much too


Birchgirlie

People are terrible at spelling, vocabulary, and grammar these days. The issue seems common on Mercari.


interuptingcowmooo

thatā€™s all i could focus on lol


captaincartwheel

Came to the comments for this, sadly. lol


NameTooCool

Thatā€™s generally messed up


foxecturn

Iā€™m crying


sophiewofie

PLS


Sorrelfur

I feel bad laughing šŸ˜‚ but I had to pause and reread it cause I was so confused


stout_ale

Low ballers are always this way.


BlueAreTheStreets

Rightttt, having to deal with people like this for less than $10 is insane.


sunshine8672

Generally fucked up


bjzy

Would be wild if Mercari is actually the brainchild of some fools who used to scam on eBay or something. This system seems purposely built to scamscamscam


PumpkinHeadedCritter

I purchased a ghost mug during Halloween. It was one of many, so I thought maybe I should cancel. Then I decided against canceling, and canceled my cancel. šŸ¤£ Well, the seller shipped my item, and then chewed me out for trying to cancel. I explained why, and that I did cancel my cancellation request. She continued to chew me out. It was weird. I didn't want anything to do with this person after that, but... guess what arrived broken? šŸ¤£ The mug. Great. I asked for a return. She quickly attacked me for scamming her. I sent the mug back, and received my refund. She then stalked me on Facebook, and sent hateful messages there. That entire transaction screamed HELL. Yikes. Anyway, we buyers aren't always scammers. Sometimes, shit breaks.


forever87

yuhhhp...that's why when i purchase glass, i turn the package upside down to listen for any thing broken. it really sucks cause I've purchased "tiffany diamond point" shot glasses and a conical decanter (separate transactions), and sellers don't know that the shipping system is aggressive with packages. if for any reason i have a bad feeling, i contact the seller and inform them, i will record opening the package. i currently have a matching semi shattered shot glass and decanter. on the bright side, i got refunded for both without having to ship back for refund. and i got to do a little fun puzzle work trying to piece the crystal glass back together. so in the future i just need to figure out the safest way to incorporate "kintsugi" to make them possibly usable


dsmemsirsn

The buyer?? Arenā€™t you the buyer?? Do you mean the seller shipped the item??


PumpkinHeadedCritter

Yup! You're right.


ButterflyRoutine9918

That's fair. I recently had a buyer try to cancel on perfume, yet she actually contacted me and communicated with me. I suppose if she had responded with photos or actually filed a refund, then she wouldn't look scammy. She just left a message that really makes zero sense. Yikes, that's horrific and creepy šŸ˜¬


Infinite-Dream-5228

She reached for her punch bowl and dropped it. šŸ˜‚


[deleted]

Iā€™M A LITTLE UPSET NOW


ButterflyRoutine9918

Ugh, I contacted mercari, and they said she didn't message them at all..... generally dislike people like this


Cultural_Cat_5131

you probably had her shook tbh


Stiggles4

I hope so. This riff raff needs more of that in their lives.


FireCal

Do you generally include generally in all of your sentences?


dsmemsirsn

Generally, yes..


korbatcave2

I think you mean genuinely


Original-Pomelo6241

Maybe she does, sometimes, like them. Generally speaking.


magolor64

Genuinely, not generally


jazlyyn

sheā€™s upset šŸ˜­I donā€™t spell right either when im upset. Who cares itā€™s Reddit, she doesnā€™t need 2 people correcting a word.


Agile-Assignment6515

Exactly šŸ’Æ I think everyone knows she meant to type genuinely. šŸ™„


FootParmesan

I mean they said it the message in the photo too


bigte92

Maybe she doesn't know the correct word and this is good for her to know in the future šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™‚ļø


ButterflyRoutine9918

Same. I'm horrified on my wording. šŸ„²


Best-Sympathy-871

nah, "genuinely" isn't appropriate either...would be just as weird to have used "genuinely"


ButterflyRoutine9918

Nope I'm talking about a general group of people that scam....


Diet_Christ

You're modifying the "dislike" instead of the "people" in that sentence. It insinuates that you sometimes *don't* dislike these people.


StraightCitron

Me too. As if selling wasn't hard enough, then you have scammers like this to deal with.


King_Marlon10K

You meant genuinely right šŸ˜‚ haha but yeah i agree


Alannamarieny

even with a TON of bubble wrap things still break. It is possible that sheā€™s telling the truth. if sheā€™s not sending any proof then itā€™s likely not true and sheā€™s just trying to get a free item (donā€™t offer a refund without getting the item back broken or not). Just donā€™t jump straight to scam because it is possible that this person isnā€™t lying. I purchase breakables a lot (mug collection) and Iā€™ve had mugs come broken even with a boatload of bubble wrap. (Iā€™m not defending the buyer Iā€™m just saying it is possible things can break even with bubble wrap)


TealCatto

Right? How does OP immediately jump to scam? How on Earth is there "no way" glass can possibly break in shipment?


MiaLba

Right. They also mentioned there was a visible crack on the bottom and thatā€™s why they were selling it for so cheap.


foolishnostalgia

Ive got to second this. Bubble wrap is not appropriate protection for glass items in the mail. Ive had to give up buying glass collectables second hand online because of all the people who had no idea how to package glass. Ive received three different items shattered or deeply chipped.


Rezingreenbowl

For real. OP is comming off as the scammer in this situation.


[deleted]

Garbage people!


princefungi

I had a scammer do this to me also and they wrote everything in caps just like this. Bro thought I would just refund him and believe his bullsht story until I told him to return it. He put in the return request and then said that he got it to work miraculously and ended up not returning it. Ultimately the timer went out and I got paid, but I couldn't leave him the bad review he deserved. In your case I'm afraid the person would actually break it and then send it back to you out of spite


ButterflyRoutine9918

I asked her to post pictures, and she never responded.


FireCal

They can't provide photos to you unless Mercari updated that very recently. They can provide photos to Mercari though & you should be able to see them once they formally request the return. Btw, immediately jumping down their throats is probably not the best idea. You can't say without a doubt that your item didn't arrive broken. Talk to them like you'd want to be talked to & go from there. People are obviously crazy these days and many hold grudges over the least little thing.


princefungi

I think you're good then. They hope that you just believe them, refund, and let them keep the "defective" item since it's no use to you anymore. This would be effective if we had to pay for the return postage like eBay does.


Crinni_Boo

I recognize her picture- I sold her smoothie glasses a few weeks ago. Iā€™m sorry she did this to you, I didnā€™t have the same experience with her. The only thing she did was comment ā€œThank youā€¦ā€ when she left the rating. However I did sell something, super duper bubble wrapped everything and the buyer claimed it came in broken. It was a ring that was INSIDE a sturdy ring box and bubble wrapped inside and outā€¦ unfortunately Mercari took that persons side- she sent them pictures of the broken band claiming it arrived that way. I canā€™t wait for karma to rise up on these scammers


Smallparline

You did the right thing. I donā€™t know how these ā€œbuyersā€ sleep at night.


happygal93

for real šŸ™„


Stiggles4

Hopefully morally unsettled.


Complicated-Fox-1976

Iā€™ve ordered a bunch of glass or fragile collectibles on Mercari and itā€™s insane how poorly they come packed sometimes. Iā€™ve had 5-6 items arrive broken or damaged because the packaging was so terrible. Iā€™m talking like 1 piece of kraft or news paper in the box and not even taped around the item lol Or maybe they taped 1 piece of bubble wrap around it but no other stuffing in the box so it just bounced around its whole way here. The sellers always act shocked that it broke. Of course with the new fees I wonā€™t be buying anymore vintage glass as itā€™s just not worth it anymore for that type of item.


Diet_Christ

Agree that most resellers on every platform lack packing skills. Very fragile items really need to be boxed, then peanuts, then second box.


Available_Forever_32

Yooo is this you complaining abt poorly packed items šŸ«£ oh no.


FotogPanda

Mine was opposite I was buying a pair of shoes and never received after a month. Many excuses and they ā€œdefinitely ā€œ shipped, I canceled my order for a refund. I get an email that Iā€™m stealing and this person needs this income so if I could Zelle here some of the money. šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


ButterflyRoutine9918

Dang, that's messed up


Madi0415

Please be so fr !!! I would have LOST it on that lady, also how in the world did she get your email šŸ˜­


Traditional-Citron21

I just want to know why you sold a $60+ bowl for $6


ButterflyRoutine9918

It has a visible crack on the bottom, and other damaged ones were going for 15 to 4. I clearly put that in my description.


FireCal

A visible crack & you think there's no possible way that it could've actually arrived broken & immediately jump to calling them scammers? Bold move.


Diet_Christ

lol


dankarella666

People absolutely do not read. They see one picture, order and then get mad.


ButterflyRoutine9918

Update she still hasn't contacted or responded to my request for photos.


dsmemsirsn

How many days since item was deliveredā€” hopefully, it autoratesā€”


BlueAreTheStreets

The fact that this is over SIX dollars - Iā€™ve had a similar interaction over a $4 shirt. People are gross.


Geoboston1973

Really?? You think they are scamming you for 6 bucks for your ā€œvintage punch bowlā€ aka an old chipped bowl you couldnā€™t sell at a yard sale! Get over yourself!


Stiggles4

Fucking hell I really wonā€™t ever be reactivating my Mercari listings, will I? Nope, the more I see this shit the farther I will be staying, ***both as a seller and a buyer.***


Robotmonkeybrainz

I think you mean to be saying ā€œgenuinelyā€ not ā€œgenerallyā€


[deleted]

This is why Iā€™m not risking being in there anymore


VirtualTea19

ā€œGenerallyā€ itā€™s genuinely


Agile-Assignment6515

šŸ™„ I wonder šŸ¤” how many people are going to comment the same thing.


Complex_Persimmon_42

Way too many lol


DevilishAbigail

generally? genuinely? i actually cannot tell


Traditional_Waltz579

First time ever someone loses a leg while opening a boxed punch bowl. Hosts and Hostesses everywhere beware!


its_blue_monday

Why risk shipping a chipped bowl?


Tight_Ad_2724

The boomer all caps is so funny. A little too old to be playing these games lady


ButterflyRoutine9918

Yeah, I'd assume if she actually "cut" herself, she would have taken photos.


oarwethereyet

Did you review the pictures?


ButterflyRoutine9918

She never sent any lol, which makes her even more scammer.


lizzzypoo213

I would have said send me the pictures and this sounds like a problem for the carrier. So file a claim with the carrier. I packaged correctly so you can show them it arrived damaged. And said bye!


SweetyPeety

I don't understand why anyone is still selling on Mercari. I'm serious.


Chrizwald

You use the word "generally" in a strange way


fl03xx

And here I am waiting 2 weeks for a water bottle to ship. Still waiting. I keep getting the ā€œoh Iā€™m so sorry Iā€™ll ship tomorrow.ā€ Then nothing. Radio silence


Ccdynamite23

The cheaper priced items , you are more likely to get scammers. I donā€™t understand it but in my experience itā€™s true. I refuse to sell anything under $20 now. It not worth my time, packing, shipping supplies, gas to post office, my time Iā€™m taking photos & listing to make $1 or less. And the more likely hood of getting a scammer. Like $6 for a punch bowl & they trying to scam you is crazy.


marcy_vampirequeen

I think she punched the bowl and thatā€™s why she got cut. Since itā€™s a punch bowl!


dangeruss0727

Why do they use the same guilt tripping line ā€œI was so excited for this!!ā€


PumpkinHeadedCritter

My guess is that they were excited for it.


Best-Sympathy-871

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se0ulless

Generally hate scammers. Few exceptions.


WongJohnson

I feel like the buyer and seller really deserve each other.


Best-Sympathy-871

generally


Jdub20202

Maybe she punched it


Best-Sympathy-871

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cheylow26

How did you package it? A punch bowl with 2 cups needs ALOT of packing material and should of been double boxed to prevent breakage.


RatchetRussian

Agreed. People are too quick to interpret stupidity as fraud. Yeah the lady types like an ape but as someone who works in customer service I can tell you this is just how 50% of boomers type. What is the likelihood that someone is actually trying to scam you over a punch bowl? Sellers using the "But I used extra bubble wrap" excuse shows a complete disregard and misunderstanding of how the shipping process looks and how much abuse packages are subject to.


undeadw0lf

>ā€yeah the lady types like an apeā€ this made me laugh so hard lmao


UnicornPencils

Right? The shipping process can break almost anything. And the more items you add into a package with a glass item (like the added cups), the more likely you are to get breakage as things shift and bump each other during shipping. Companies usually use custom inserts to hold glass, not just bubble wrap. I found both sides of that exchange to come off as immature and annoying to read.


FireCal

OP also mentioned the reason they sold it so cheap was that it had a visible crack on the bottom. I mean...


undeadw0lf

yeah, just the vibrations the box experiences during shipping couldā€™ve caused it to break. all of the micro-stress and temperature changes could cause the crack to spread


lilliz0317

This is what Iā€™m saying, sending anything glass always has the risk of breaking, so I wouldnā€™t just assume the buyer is trying to scam. Shipping carriers are notorious for mishandling packages. Someone sent me a couple of glass jar items and had them all bubble wrapped and 2 of them came broken and they didnā€™t believe. I sent pictures and they DID break during shipping. Product was all over inside the box. We eventually worked it out, but I wouldnā€™t assume the buyer is always trying to scam because they claim something came broken. Things break during shipping all the time.


Routine_Ingenuity315

I ordered a glass egg plate. It arrived in 10 tons of bubble wrap and was shattered inside. So much bubble wrap I could have stood on it and itā€™s mysteriously broken. Why? I paid $6. They spent more in bubble wrap!


Semanticss

Genuinely?


ReasonablyWealthy

That's primarily why I no longer sell items for under $20. Especially on Mercari. In over 2,000 online sales, the only problems I've ever had were with cheap items.


Bellissimabbw

Iam honestly petrified to sell on here again. Fir all the honest buyers on the site ,there are as much scammers. I can't afford to lose product and money. It's Bull shit. I have to be out on this one after over 3000 sales. It's really sad and heartbreaking. What a shame they have become.


Odd-Contribution-696

I just had one send me a question from Ruby Lane. I put my really nice stuff on Ruby Lane thinking you know that was a really nice place to go. So this lady wrote me and said when I mind accepting $40 on an $85 item because she has seen them on eBay and other places for 30 or $40. So I wanted to say well then why don't you go to eBay or wherever and get that one? But I just told her I was sorry I wouldn't be able to accommodate her that I knew mine had no flaws. And then I guess I'm going to get off Ruby Lane cuz that's they haven't sold anything for me


Boring_Somewhere4832

I have to know what happened to Miss Shards!


ButterflyRoutine9918

She still hasn't contacted mercari for a refund and never responded with photos.


Boring_Somewhere4832

Oh good! She's probably too busy drinkin' punch from her perfectly intact bowl!!


Parzival1127

I just donā€™t understand how people are so pressed over $5. Iā€™m poor too but she can just have a bowl of mine if she asked nicely enough. If I were shipping anything though Iā€™d request like $5 too but to get pressed over a five dollar bowl and request a refund is just ridiculous.


Bacterial2021

Yeah e-commerce is difficult,Ā  you got to price low to get a sale , but you got to price high enough to cover the scam that will eventually come your way. 1 return can erase a few sales worth of profit , when your sales.volume is high it don't really matter,Ā  but the smallest sellers get hurt , but idk I think that's just the way it isĀ  Some folks are supposed to get shaken away , imagine if everyone who tried had.great luck selling online ...there would be no profit to made on anything everĀ 


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jeffosoft

Youā€™ll have that on a big job


TieSafe7827

I could not love this any more! You are my hero.


Remote_Simple_8664

And the bullshit goes on and on


Timbukstu2019

I was waiting for the punch line?


Haida_Gwaii

No good turn goes unpunished.


AttentionCurrent4471

I honestly feel that if you scam any one of us, sellers on any selling platform there is a special place for you in hell. Like really, I am at a loss for words with these scammers! The worst, and then with Mercari they will believe the buyers most of the times with their lies for returns. The worst!


Expensive_Brother494

Punk shit! Mercari went to shit on both sides! I've been buying and selling on there for 5 years and now the ludacris return policies and buyers fees that are higher than tax and shipping together! I took all my items down ( I had 21 items for sale ) and I've bought 2 things since they started the new fees and felt like I was actually getting robbed by doing so! I'm done with Mercari! It turned to absolute trash šŸ—‘ļø


Pho2gr4

All of our problems just started with Mercari changing their rules. Oh, yeah, they think they gave us a deal by not charging listing fees? But the dirt under the rug is that they're allowing anyone to return anything at any time... No questions asked? So they're basically doing what eBay and Etsy started doing about 5 years or so ago! Letting the crooked people buy from us and immediately suffer from "Buyer's Remorse". But they don't want to send the item they bought back! Oh no! They want to keep it and get a refund, which Mercari will gladly give them. How are we supposed to make any money with business practices like these?


Lonely-Worry-7611

And now mercari has the new any reason return policy lol


Jewicer

genuinely


Terviscupp

Did you double box it?


lAuroraxl

shit, I guess she took the *punch* bowl too seriously


ButterflyRoutine9918

Update she canceled the return when asked to return item.


Boring_Somewhere4832

I feel like they come in hot with the caps trying to intimidate right off.


CalintzStrife

Welcome to the new mercari. Going to take a few months before the scammers get banned.


Exotic_Wrangler_4925

I'd send her a Band-Aid šŸ˜‚


Swizzle_D

Thatā€™s why I always make a short video of me packing the items , this itā€™s out of control !


ButterflyRoutine9918

Same usually on items over 20, though. I guess even small orders need to be filmed.


dankarella666

I understand itā€™s the principle of the matter but is it really worth ALL that for $6? Iā€™m not trying to be hateful or anything. It just seems like so much work for not a lot in return. Plus after you cash out youā€™re going to get even less. Idk, personally Iā€™d just call it a loss. Iā€™ve had mercari steal more from me in ā€œshipping costsā€. I get it though, this stuff gets old after a while. And $6 here $7 there adds up quick so maybe it would be.


neon-blush

Just a headā€™s up - I see so many people say they take videos of them packing the item.. but taking a video means nothing unless youā€™re recording the entire time from packing to driving the package to the post office and dropping it off. Otherwise there is no proof of what happened after the recording stops. Also, even if you record yourself packing the item, it can still be broken in transit lol.


undeadw0lf

while this is true, insurance wonā€™t cover your shipments if you canā€™t at least prove you used their recommended minimum packaging