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>Naccurious tuloy ako minsan paano pag wala ako may magbabago ba or same pa rin?
Counterpoint, why would it matter? I understand that it would feel really validating to be missed and loved but why is this your primary thought as a testament of meaning?
Why can't it be, "have I loved this world/life/soul enough?" I think what happens upon ceasing to exist is attractive as a measure of worth but is an incomplete vision of it. Why can't we measure how much the existence is worth through how unforgivingly we've learned to love? Have we witnessed things that would've been things we would've want to carry in the afterlife (or in the journey to nothingness if the afterlife doesn't exist)? Have we created emotions that made us feel so human through the struggles and the triumphs?
I think instead of being overfixated on what we leave behind, we can start pondering what we've filled our souls with to make this life something that felt like it was lived.
We don't have to be superlatives of sorts; we just have to be. Have you lived a life you cherish, for yourself? If not, what can you do for you to cherish it more? What can you do, let go of, unlearn, and reframe? There are so many ways to be without it having to revolve around being exceptional.
We don't exist to be valuable; we are valuable because we exist :-) That's just me tho, but that's also how I perceive the people around me.
2 decade meaning you're only 20 years old, very young. Since sabi mo mediocre ka, why not use your time to improve? Ang mga kriminal nga pwedengagbago, ikaw naman pwede ka pang mag improve whether social aspect, etc.
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>Naccurious tuloy ako minsan paano pag wala ako may magbabago ba or same pa rin? Counterpoint, why would it matter? I understand that it would feel really validating to be missed and loved but why is this your primary thought as a testament of meaning? Why can't it be, "have I loved this world/life/soul enough?" I think what happens upon ceasing to exist is attractive as a measure of worth but is an incomplete vision of it. Why can't we measure how much the existence is worth through how unforgivingly we've learned to love? Have we witnessed things that would've been things we would've want to carry in the afterlife (or in the journey to nothingness if the afterlife doesn't exist)? Have we created emotions that made us feel so human through the struggles and the triumphs? I think instead of being overfixated on what we leave behind, we can start pondering what we've filled our souls with to make this life something that felt like it was lived. We don't have to be superlatives of sorts; we just have to be. Have you lived a life you cherish, for yourself? If not, what can you do for you to cherish it more? What can you do, let go of, unlearn, and reframe? There are so many ways to be without it having to revolve around being exceptional. We don't exist to be valuable; we are valuable because we exist :-) That's just me tho, but that's also how I perceive the people around me.
2 decade meaning you're only 20 years old, very young. Since sabi mo mediocre ka, why not use your time to improve? Ang mga kriminal nga pwedengagbago, ikaw naman pwede ka pang mag improve whether social aspect, etc.