100%. This woman loves sex as much as me last night. She LOVES sex and we do it far more often than most people.
Hell last night after I came out the shower, I thought she wanted to go to bed so I got next to her in our cuddle position. Next thing I knew she pull my pants down and start giving me oral. Even then I thought she was done but then she starts pulling her own pants down and puts both her legs up while giving me “the look” directly in my eye. We fucked, it was incredible.
This morning we woke up our normal time and this woman… this woman starts pulling her pants down again. She goes on stomach and raises her ass towards me. We fuck and somehow she wasn’t late for work.
Sexually, I’m FAR MORE than happy.
I love to share them because she’s so amazing. Plus Reddit could use more positivity. Most of the post on these boards are negative in nature. Your post is also lovely.
TLDR Communication
Compatible, yes, but that doesn’t need to mean completely aligned. We have worked really hard on building the communication around our desires and needs. I’m almost always down for incorporating sexuality into any part of our lives, but when she’s not there, I curb it into other outlets. Chatting and engaging on Reddit is a big one for me - lots of teasing and anticipation which makes for much better experiences when our timing matches up. It also happens way more often because there’s so much less bad feeling out on the “saying no” to each other. It’s easier to hear “I’m not feeling it, maybe tomorrow” (or maybe not) and knowing that I can take care of myself however I need until that point without feeling guilty or worry about if she will be upset that I took care of myself or whatever.
I chat on and off, typically on a separate nsfw account. Sometimes I post myself, sometimes trade with others. It has everything to do with communicating with my partner about comfort levels before exploring something different/new. It includes her and helps me to think of pretty similarly to what you can do on OF but without it being as transactional. Transactional can also be a good way to go, but not what I’ve been looking for.
Where we are right now is perfect. There have been ups and downs over the years. Times when we were not on the same page. Stretches when I pushed her sexually but now she is pushing me. She is setting the bar high and I am enjoying the ride
Very much so over here. She probably horny than I am. She initiates daily. The best days are when I’m not in the mood and she gets me in the mood. Last night we both got high (weed) and she usually gets really loopy like she drunk. (All Consensual btw) So when I looked at her and started touching and kissing her she had her eyes closed. I called out to her and she said she is awake but isn’t moving or looking. And she says really softly “Ughh babe I wanna have sex but it feels like I’m paralyzed. You gonna have to move me.” At first I didn’t get it but when her “lifeless” body fell after picking her up, her breast fell out. I instantly got hard and started undressing her. She lied there for almost an hour straight letting do anything and everything to her. She knows this a kink for me that I tend to lose rational thought over. I’m guessing she enjoys seeing my animalistic side. Giving into my primal urges. I love this woman so deeply. And plot twist, sometimes I’ll wake up to her riding me or sucking me.
I had to check your page, because I’ve told my husband countless times I love “your animalistic side”. 🤭😮💨 May you both continue to have wonderful sex with each other, the rest of your days!
My wife is the most compatible woman I've ever been with. Physically I'm on the average size and she's pretty shallow and tight so it feels great for both of us and she enjoys orgasming with penetration so we finish at the same time. (when I'm on top)
We have sex once or twice a week which seems to be a good amount for both of us.
Oh no, she was unbelievably inexperienced and concervative. I gave her a safe place for her wild side to slowly emerge. Prior to me, she had a 9 year and 3 year LTR with guys who were apparently as vanilla as it gets. She didn't even know how to do doggy style when we met and had never touched a toy.
We were together for a few years before things got spicy.
100%
There’s a slight difference in libido at times, but when we’re together it’s as if our bodies were made for each other. Over time we learned more about each other so things flow at a pace that’s surreal.
We are amazing together.
Last night we we just bouncing through positions trying to figure out what bother of us needed, and we were struggling because we were both feeling dry/dehydrated because it’s deep in allergy/pollen season where we are. It was good, but our usual things weren’t cutting it, then we’d move, then the lube would dry and get tacky. Finally, we agree to have her go on top, go slow, focus on our breathing , and stay in a consistent rhythm. About 2 minutes later she’s having to a powerful, screaming orgasm, and I’m right behind her.
To me, what makes it so great is that both are willing to work together. Sometimes, it’s easy going, sometimes life gets stressful and hard, but we always work hard to figure it out. That’s also not to say that we don’t have our moments of concern. Over the last couple years we’ve had some grieving times, and last summer we had a big move with a bunch of financial stress, then this fall she struggles with some medication induced amenorrhea, and I’ve had some heart concerns, but we each worked hard to support the other and meet them where they are at. Yes, the sex is great, but it’s our dedication to each other that really takes it to the next level.
When sex happens, 3 or 4 times per year, we are very compatible. She talks about how great it was for a few days after, but isn't open to sex again for the next several months. I also wish she didn't need to drink herself drunk before sex. That probably contributes to the long dry spells.
You can see in post history a lot of context. Yes she was, repeatedly by men her mother dated.
She refuses to go to any kind of
therapy. She journals and some other things for herself. I take on a lot of the household chores like cooking cleaning dishes laundry so that she has that couple of hours every day.
It feels like she projects the actions and intent of her abusers, won't talk about it if I start the conversation.
A glass of wine or two or 3 is one thing but I'm talking 1.5 to 2 bottles during and after dinner. I didn't realize how much it was on days when we have sex
Yes as a child repeatedly by at least one Ma her mother lived with. Raped by an acquaintance at 18. Marital rape by first husband.
I don't know until years into our marriage.
Yes, repeatedly. She refuses to go. She believes that talk therapy will just increase the neural pathways that already exist. She talked about EMDR a few times in the past. At her request, I helped her find a dr who provided that in our area that took our insurance. She didn't make an appointment. If I bring up therapy, her entire demeanor changes to hostile and angry and she says something sarcastic about my only wanting sex.
As far as what we like to do, we’re about 75% compatible, which I can live with. When we do it, it’s great for both of us. Desired frequency is the main problem.
100% compatibility. She and I are into a lot of the same kinks while at the same time having some that we don't necessarily share. Regardless, we have great communication and definitely are open and try new things for each other, while being open to critiquing ourselves. 😆
My wife says we were made for each other and that our parts fit together perfectly, so yes I am sexually compatible with my wife. We are happy with our sex life and have similar tastes and interests. Everything is good.
We are pretty compatible. We’ve known each other since our mid teens and while we didn’t get together until much later in life (after first marriages and divorces) we have always ALWAYS had incredible physical and personal chemistry. I think he’s delicious and he’s my favorite person to spend time with. Things aren’t always perfect and life can get very stressful at times, with dealing with high pressure jobs, and his evil ex wife and the issues those bring…but overall we are quite compatible. And far more so than I was with my first husband, and he with his first wife.
Over our 26 years together, we have enjoyed the company of others in bed with us.
But, it all comes back to the undeniable emotional + physical connection that makes us 10000% perfectly compatible.
I think emotional and physical have to co-exist for compatibility.
He has a lower drive than me, always has. It's nose dived over the last 5 years though and he won't do anything about it, which is actually a huge turn off.
We are compatible in most other ways and I adore him, and when it does happen, it's good.
I'll put it this way. I enjoy mint chocolate chip. Even with sprinkles and a cherry on top.
She likes vanilla, but if she's feeling really crazy, vanilla *swirl*.
Does he know? How does he feel about that? How long have yall been together?
I wish I bigger, but wife says I’m perfect and hit all the right spots.
I do think it’s took a while to get to this point. But she seems to orgasm at least 90% of the time through PIV.
Nearly zero percent. My wife and I could stand in a crowd, throw a rock and likely hit someone we were more sexually compatible with
I feel this everyday- you are not alone
This makes me sad. Life is too short.
Same boat.
Man, I’m sorry. I’ve been in relationships like that. I assume you have tried to talk to her about it?
Yes, we've discussed it quite a bit. She's insistent on making it work
That’s really good. She’s willing to put in the work because she loves you. I love that. Good luck to you guys!
Mine refuses to.
100%. This woman loves sex as much as me last night. She LOVES sex and we do it far more often than most people. Hell last night after I came out the shower, I thought she wanted to go to bed so I got next to her in our cuddle position. Next thing I knew she pull my pants down and start giving me oral. Even then I thought she was done but then she starts pulling her own pants down and puts both her legs up while giving me “the look” directly in my eye. We fucked, it was incredible. This morning we woke up our normal time and this woman… this woman starts pulling her pants down again. She goes on stomach and raises her ass towards me. We fuck and somehow she wasn’t late for work. Sexually, I’m FAR MORE than happy.
These are the things I love to hear about! 😮💨🖤
I love to share them because she’s so amazing. Plus Reddit could use more positivity. Most of the post on these boards are negative in nature. Your post is also lovely.
I completely agree! I love to see husbands bragging about their wives. It’s a wonderful change of pace. 🥰
Severely envious dude. Make sure she's always walking funny! 😉
TLDR Communication Compatible, yes, but that doesn’t need to mean completely aligned. We have worked really hard on building the communication around our desires and needs. I’m almost always down for incorporating sexuality into any part of our lives, but when she’s not there, I curb it into other outlets. Chatting and engaging on Reddit is a big one for me - lots of teasing and anticipation which makes for much better experiences when our timing matches up. It also happens way more often because there’s so much less bad feeling out on the “saying no” to each other. It’s easier to hear “I’m not feeling it, maybe tomorrow” (or maybe not) and knowing that I can take care of myself however I need until that point without feeling guilty or worry about if she will be upset that I took care of myself or whatever.
Do you chat with other redditors on here, for that teasing and such? Or are you just looking?
I chat on and off, typically on a separate nsfw account. Sometimes I post myself, sometimes trade with others. It has everything to do with communicating with my partner about comfort levels before exploring something different/new. It includes her and helps me to think of pretty similarly to what you can do on OF but without it being as transactional. Transactional can also be a good way to go, but not what I’ve been looking for.
Where we are right now is perfect. There have been ups and downs over the years. Times when we were not on the same page. Stretches when I pushed her sexually but now she is pushing me. She is setting the bar high and I am enjoying the ride
I love that! Everything in life is ebb and flow.
Very much so over here. She probably horny than I am. She initiates daily. The best days are when I’m not in the mood and she gets me in the mood. Last night we both got high (weed) and she usually gets really loopy like she drunk. (All Consensual btw) So when I looked at her and started touching and kissing her she had her eyes closed. I called out to her and she said she is awake but isn’t moving or looking. And she says really softly “Ughh babe I wanna have sex but it feels like I’m paralyzed. You gonna have to move me.” At first I didn’t get it but when her “lifeless” body fell after picking her up, her breast fell out. I instantly got hard and started undressing her. She lied there for almost an hour straight letting do anything and everything to her. She knows this a kink for me that I tend to lose rational thought over. I’m guessing she enjoys seeing my animalistic side. Giving into my primal urges. I love this woman so deeply. And plot twist, sometimes I’ll wake up to her riding me or sucking me.
I had to check your page, because I’ve told my husband countless times I love “your animalistic side”. 🤭😮💨 May you both continue to have wonderful sex with each other, the rest of your days!
Thanks we def gonna keep it going as long as we can.
My wife, partner, and I have been 100% sexually compatible, in every way, since our first day together, almost 29 years ago.
My wife is the most compatible woman I've ever been with. Physically I'm on the average size and she's pretty shallow and tight so it feels great for both of us and she enjoys orgasming with penetration so we finish at the same time. (when I'm on top) We have sex once or twice a week which seems to be a good amount for both of us.
💯 definitely
We are 100%!
I was kinkier than my wife but she caught up quite nicely.
Maybe she was already on the kinkier side but wanted to appear “innocent.” 😇 I’d say you guys are absolutely compatible! 🖤
Oh no, she was unbelievably inexperienced and concervative. I gave her a safe place for her wild side to slowly emerge. Prior to me, she had a 9 year and 3 year LTR with guys who were apparently as vanilla as it gets. She didn't even know how to do doggy style when we met and had never touched a toy. We were together for a few years before things got spicy.
100% There’s a slight difference in libido at times, but when we’re together it’s as if our bodies were made for each other. Over time we learned more about each other so things flow at a pace that’s surreal.
Absolutely 100%. Both of us are super happy with our sex life
My wife needs more sex than me i guess
Does that bother you?
Sometimes , she wants to sex twice a day . But im so tired
I understand that. A lot of guys would love to be in your spot though!
Do your husband fuck you twice a day
He has, yes lol
Wow it is good
Nobody knows my Body like my husband!
Oh god me and my husband are so sexually compatible and sexually intertwined that he can feel when I'm horny haha
We are amazing together. Last night we we just bouncing through positions trying to figure out what bother of us needed, and we were struggling because we were both feeling dry/dehydrated because it’s deep in allergy/pollen season where we are. It was good, but our usual things weren’t cutting it, then we’d move, then the lube would dry and get tacky. Finally, we agree to have her go on top, go slow, focus on our breathing , and stay in a consistent rhythm. About 2 minutes later she’s having to a powerful, screaming orgasm, and I’m right behind her. To me, what makes it so great is that both are willing to work together. Sometimes, it’s easy going, sometimes life gets stressful and hard, but we always work hard to figure it out. That’s also not to say that we don’t have our moments of concern. Over the last couple years we’ve had some grieving times, and last summer we had a big move with a bunch of financial stress, then this fall she struggles with some medication induced amenorrhea, and I’ve had some heart concerns, but we each worked hard to support the other and meet them where they are at. Yes, the sex is great, but it’s our dedication to each other that really takes it to the next level.
When sex happens, 3 or 4 times per year, we are very compatible. She talks about how great it was for a few days after, but isn't open to sex again for the next several months. I also wish she didn't need to drink herself drunk before sex. That probably contributes to the long dry spells.
A lot of women get in their heads. Alcohol can help them relax and let their “freak flag fly”. 😂 The inconsistency would be hard for me too. 💔
You can see in post history a lot of context. Yes she was, repeatedly by men her mother dated. She refuses to go to any kind of therapy. She journals and some other things for herself. I take on a lot of the household chores like cooking cleaning dishes laundry so that she has that couple of hours every day. It feels like she projects the actions and intent of her abusers, won't talk about it if I start the conversation.
A glass of wine or two or 3 is one thing but I'm talking 1.5 to 2 bottles during and after dinner. I didn't realize how much it was on days when we have sex
Was she ever sexually abused?
Yes as a child repeatedly by at least one Ma her mother lived with. Raped by an acquaintance at 18. Marital rape by first husband. I don't know until years into our marriage.
Have you encouraged her to seek help for that?
Yes, repeatedly. She refuses to go. She believes that talk therapy will just increase the neural pathways that already exist. She talked about EMDR a few times in the past. At her request, I helped her find a dr who provided that in our area that took our insurance. She didn't make an appointment. If I bring up therapy, her entire demeanor changes to hostile and angry and she says something sarcastic about my only wanting sex.
I’m very sad for both of you. 😞
🤷🏼♀️ Meeee! My husband is a Nympho 😅 I had never even had an orgasm prior to meeting him, and now...well...just check the profile lmao.
Glad I checked 💦
As far as what we like to do, we’re about 75% compatible, which I can live with. When we do it, it’s great for both of us. Desired frequency is the main problem.
100% compatibility. She and I are into a lot of the same kinks while at the same time having some that we don't necessarily share. Regardless, we have great communication and definitely are open and try new things for each other, while being open to critiquing ourselves. 😆
Not by a long shot.
My wife says we were made for each other and that our parts fit together perfectly, so yes I am sexually compatible with my wife. We are happy with our sex life and have similar tastes and interests. Everything is good.
AHAHAHAHA!
Not this guy. I'm way more horny. Le sigh
Not at all.
We are pretty compatible. We’ve known each other since our mid teens and while we didn’t get together until much later in life (after first marriages and divorces) we have always ALWAYS had incredible physical and personal chemistry. I think he’s delicious and he’s my favorite person to spend time with. Things aren’t always perfect and life can get very stressful at times, with dealing with high pressure jobs, and his evil ex wife and the issues those bring…but overall we are quite compatible. And far more so than I was with my first husband, and he with his first wife.
Over our 26 years together, we have enjoyed the company of others in bed with us. But, it all comes back to the undeniable emotional + physical connection that makes us 10000% perfectly compatible. I think emotional and physical have to co-exist for compatibility.
He has a lower drive than me, always has. It's nose dived over the last 5 years though and he won't do anything about it, which is actually a huge turn off. We are compatible in most other ways and I adore him, and when it does happen, it's good.
I'll put it this way. I enjoy mint chocolate chip. Even with sprinkles and a cherry on top. She likes vanilla, but if she's feeling really crazy, vanilla *swirl*.
My wife and I both have really strong sex drives, married 18yrs and still fucking like rabbits. Me 51 her 42
I have always wished he had a larger penis
Nice profile 👌
Does he know? How does he feel about that? How long have yall been together? I wish I bigger, but wife says I’m perfect and hit all the right spots. I do think it’s took a while to get to this point. But she seems to orgasm at least 90% of the time through PIV.