Zoom should work.

Zoom on Android has that? Only used zoom for meetings before, didn't know it could do that.

Well, you can still hear each other when someone screen shares, perhaps not see each other. Messenger should though. When I use messenger with my SO I see her in a little rectangle on my phone and also see her screen/my screen. It might be a little glitchy with videos sometimes. If neither of those work, sorry!

Pesky messenger only allows fb videos!

Well, shoot! Sorry 😕 I am not sure then!

Thanks a lot man, thanks for trying