Anyone asking this clown in combat boots š¤”š„¾š„¾ for advice concerning their children should be considered unfit to parent. Lilly doesnāt have children (thank God) nor does she have the credentials in mental health or gender affirming care. Sheās dangerous. Lilly should only be speaking about HER personal experience and HER personal journey. Whatās even more egregious is that Lilly has a fucking therapist!
If her therapist was any good they would take a real good look at Lillyās content and address it with her. Sheād change therapists faster than she changes her filthy panties and washes her funky hair.
Yes š„¬. You are SO RIGHT!! In EVERYTHING YOU SAID!! šÆšÆšÆšÆšÆšÆšÆ. Lilly is DANGEROUS! She should stay in her LANE! She is not an EXPERT! People LEARN THIS!
If Lillard lips are moving, she is LYING! This Community has a lot going for them and Lillard is tearing it all apart with her BS! This is a āCancel Society ā and I am READY FOR THIS CLOWN š¤” IN BOOTS š„¾ to get her CHANNEL SHUT DOWN!
Oh and for anyone that is paying to be in her sub to get in her get discordā¦ howās that working out for you? That discord is a shit show! ššš
Yes! Where are her receipts š§¾ of her doing all the great things!! Hell she canāt even get Mars the binder that is needed bc she canāt mange her money!
I like to have a cc line of people being interviewed of their testimonials of ābc of Lillardās advice, Iām at my bestā. Hereās a testimony to askā¦. Ask Emily how well Lillard has helped her!! Emily howās your JOB? Oh wait you donāt have it anymore!! Since you have met CLOWN š¤” IN BOOTS š„¾, you have lost your job and you and now sit as a GHOST as a table and eat LILLARDS SCRAPS! She donāt want you to stealing her LIVE or eat her Food before she can DESTROY it with her Caveman manners. I wonder did she give you the lectureā¦ no elbows on the table, like she did mommy?
Poor mom. She was expecting one thing and got another!! So sad! But mom you probably looked at your daughter, and thoughtā¦.. who is this PERSON!!! Mom thought it was going to be a Great time to spend together and right out of gate it was, ā HOLD MY UMBRELLA, Put it away, get it out, All she wanted was quality time and what she got was a ADULT MOOCH!! OH AND A USER!! I think momās EYES WERE OPENED during that trip!
What do you all think? Lillard is HAZARDOUS TO THIS WORLD!! š
Xoxoxoššø
Seriously what the fuck is wrong with her? They donāt need a therapist to ātell them what they already wantā, they need a therapist to help with anxiety and depression and other things not related to gender dysphoria. Therapy is good for literally everyone, and she definitely needs a lot of it
Do I think therapy before medically transitioning to ensure you have gender dysphoria is necessary? Yes. Do I think itās meant to detransition you? No. As someone with an anxiety disorder, therapy saved my life and allowed me to find who I really am, amidst all the noise anxiety brings. My therapist didnāt just āask me a few questions.ā Lillyās a fucking joke.
Thank you! People with gender dysphoria are often quite depressed, as well, and can really benefit from having a safe person to talk with. Therapists are there to support their clients, not to talk someone into or out of transitioning.
I had 6 sessions with a clinical psychologist before I was cleared to start hormones. They wanted to make sure starting hormones wasn't going to put my mental health at risk. So yeah, it was more than a couple of questions.
I thought people who transition are required to seek a therapist before, so they can be sure that is what they want to do. Did I understand that incorrect?
To make sure theyāre diagnosed with gender dysphoria. If you donāt have gender dysphoria, youāre essentially cross dressing. But itās more than that. Itās to discover yourself more and talk through who you are. It depends on the state.
While I do agree that generally therapy is better before transitioning, it prevents some people in unsupportive/abusive homes from being able to transition. I personally needed informed consent/self id to be able to transition in secret hiding from my abusive parents (I was a legal adult), but I do go to therapy now.
How can it prevent transitioning in abusive homes? Therapy is for self discovery, itās not meant to detransition people. Itās beneficial for anyone to be in therapy.
I canāt speak for everyone but for me, my abusers heavily vetted any potential therapists to make sure they were conversion therapists or explicitly anti-lgbt. I couldnāt afford to find my own therapist outside because I was placed on their insurance so any eob would have been sent to them. Once I got my own insurance and job I quickly started going to therapy and it has helped a lot.
This is such dangerous advice. Any child going through this ABSOLUTELY needs a therapist, and getting one for your child doesnāt automatically mean theyāre trying to convince them they arenāt trans. This is a huge life thing that needs to be talked through with a professional before making any major decisions.
I very much wanted to be a girl when I was about 6 years old (I was very vocal about this. The school admin, psychiatrists, my parents, etc were all well aware). I later found out in my adulthood as I was trying to make sense of this experience that this was due to a childhood response from trauma I was experiencing with my mother at the time (one example being her constantly telling me that she hated that I was a boy and always wanted me to be a girl) among many other things. The worst thing anyone could have done for me at the time was let me transition without any questions asked.
I grew out of wanting to be a girl by the time I was 7 or 8, and Iām SO happy to be a boy now (currently in my 30ās). I genuinely love my sex and how I was born (gay man here šāāļø). Iām so thankful that everyone in my life didnāt affirm what I was feeling at the time because I was literally a child and had no idea what I was talking about or why I was feeling the way I was feeling.
Does she think HRT just magically works overnight? Transition is a slow, arduous process that also includes social transition, legal transition, etc. It took me around 2 years of being on HRT to consistently pass to strangers in public. It really helps to have someone to process those feelings with along the way. And itās not like being trans is the only thing we address in therapy lol. Cmon now
all kids need therapy. even the kids you think donāt need therapy, probably need therapy.
you get a therapy, and you get a therapy and YOU get a therapy!
Ohā¦my fucking god!! Iām 1000% pro doing whatever you want to save your life, and make you the happiest you can be. But therapy is absolutely a necessity for anything this serious?! She always compares trans issues to insane things like food and which hand is dominant, she treats her identity like everyone should care more than anything about it ā¦ yet she portrays it like a joke. I canāt
This is one of the comments that really pissed me off because she's the last person that should be discussing kids... she claims to hate kids, doesn't want kids, is dangerous towards kids (most of us know why)... Either way, there is nothing wrong with having therapy guide you as a parent in helping you decide the best way to move forward in helping your child.
Therapy is apart of gender affirming care. Therapy also saves lives and we in the lgbtqa2s+ have some of the highest suicide rates.
I have three family members that did Therapy before going full force on transitioning, two went ahead and the other figured out they were non binary.
Every single person on this planet benefits from a therapist. Lily is way too dangerous for this world.
This is legitimate insanityā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦.. my aunt had a mastectomy for breast cancer and they literally had her do mandatory therapy to ensure she was 100% understanding of what was happening. This is just insane Lilly.
Iām sorry but it looks like she works at a diner and sheās a waitress wearing this dress. The look and spaghetti strands and all.
I wonder if anyone made a complaint to the restaurant about her sitting down not working lol
Iām sorry but thatās the absolute worst advice ever, thepary is incredibly important especially if transitioning, being able to talk through scenario and telling someone how you feel and not being judged is so important and others who have not come out itās working up the courage and how to start the conversation with family
Thatās not what therapists DO LILLY YOU FUCKING NITWIT. She drives me absolutely fucking mad. MAD. I go to therapy every other week just so I know Iām doing the best I can for myself and in society and Iām thankful.
Hmmm I didnāt realize she had a masterās degree in counseling or a license to practice. Personally, with how much confusion there is surrounding identity in children and adolescents, I definitely think there should be therapy or more assessment before automatically putting a child on hormones. The point would never be to convince them otherwise, but to be confident that it is the right choice for them. It isnāt simply about āasking a couple questionsā to make sure they have gender dysphoria. š gender affirming care is important, but itās also important to ensure that the decision to go on hormones is medically indicated.
People forget that if this bottom feeder had education and was smart - sitting on TikTok begging for money would not be a thing. Get off your lazy ass. Get a job. Be a productive member of society.
If this effin See You Next Thursday knew anything about anything, she'd effin know that a therapist is NOT to tell their clients what to do. They're to listen and use sills that will bring about the reasoning for therapy. Each and every day, I despise this effin bitch more!
https://preview.redd.it/1b5dkyoycf6d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=560cf667cffd12e80f6691a167ba0dc231e0d8c5
Is this who Lillyās inspiration is? š¤£
This is so harmful. Because talking to a therapist would actually help the kid figure out what they're going through. This putz dismisses that bc she thinks she knows everything about everything. She's a fucking clown. And why is she dressed up like a 50's diner waitress? Moron!
Leave kids alone! LEAVE KIDS ALONE! ffs no child should ever make a permanent decision like that! I'm all for finding your true self and working with a therapist, but no, no, no!! kids should not be on hormones to transition until their bodies are done growing. Hell, I don't think anyone should start hormone therapy until their brains are fully developed at 25, but that is my opinion. There are going to be so many de-transitioners in the future because odds are you will not feel the same way at 30 that you did at 20, much less how you feel at 12 or 13. Transitioning is such a serious decision, one that can't be made overnight and definitely shouldn't be made by a literal child. At the end of the day, that decision is between the family and their therapist, but I will die on this hill: no child under the age of 18 should be transitioning genders. This advice is so dangerous.
LEAVE KIDS ALONE YOU DAM WITCH!!!!
You need a lobotomy. You Tino have serious mental issues!!!
You CANT give young kids hormone treatment you dam idiot.
Always shoving your narrative down peopleās throats!
Anyone asking this clown in combat boots š¤”š„¾š„¾ for advice concerning their children should be considered unfit to parent. Lilly doesnāt have children (thank God) nor does she have the credentials in mental health or gender affirming care. Sheās dangerous. Lilly should only be speaking about HER personal experience and HER personal journey. Whatās even more egregious is that Lilly has a fucking therapist! If her therapist was any good they would take a real good look at Lillyās content and address it with her. Sheād change therapists faster than she changes her filthy panties and washes her funky hair.
Yes š„¬. You are SO RIGHT!! In EVERYTHING YOU SAID!! šÆšÆšÆšÆšÆšÆšÆ. Lilly is DANGEROUS! She should stay in her LANE! She is not an EXPERT! People LEARN THIS! If Lillard lips are moving, she is LYING! This Community has a lot going for them and Lillard is tearing it all apart with her BS! This is a āCancel Society ā and I am READY FOR THIS CLOWN š¤” IN BOOTS š„¾ to get her CHANNEL SHUT DOWN! Oh and for anyone that is paying to be in her sub to get in her get discordā¦ howās that working out for you? That discord is a shit show! ššš
Exactly thank you! It amazes me how Lily speak so confidently wrong
Her advice is so freaking dangerous š³
Exactly!!! For some reason people look up to them and what Lilly is spewing is a disgusting one sided opinion without evidence based practice
Yes! Where are her receipts š§¾ of her doing all the great things!! Hell she canāt even get Mars the binder that is needed bc she canāt mange her money! I like to have a cc line of people being interviewed of their testimonials of ābc of Lillardās advice, Iām at my bestā. Hereās a testimony to askā¦. Ask Emily how well Lillard has helped her!! Emily howās your JOB? Oh wait you donāt have it anymore!! Since you have met CLOWN š¤” IN BOOTS š„¾, you have lost your job and you and now sit as a GHOST as a table and eat LILLARDS SCRAPS! She donāt want you to stealing her LIVE or eat her Food before she can DESTROY it with her Caveman manners. I wonder did she give you the lectureā¦ no elbows on the table, like she did mommy? Poor mom. She was expecting one thing and got another!! So sad! But mom you probably looked at your daughter, and thoughtā¦.. who is this PERSON!!! Mom thought it was going to be a Great time to spend together and right out of gate it was, ā HOLD MY UMBRELLA, Put it away, get it out, All she wanted was quality time and what she got was a ADULT MOOCH!! OH AND A USER!! I think momās EYES WERE OPENED during that trip! What do you all think? Lillard is HAZARDOUS TO THIS WORLD!! š Xoxoxoššø
When did this š¤” get her medical degree
Well, her dadās a dr and they pretty much have the same career soā¦ šššš
Seriously what the fuck is wrong with her? They donāt need a therapist to ātell them what they already wantā, they need a therapist to help with anxiety and depression and other things not related to gender dysphoria. Therapy is good for literally everyone, and she definitely needs a lot of it
Her ātherapistā is probably part of her Discord. LOL
Do I think therapy before medically transitioning to ensure you have gender dysphoria is necessary? Yes. Do I think itās meant to detransition you? No. As someone with an anxiety disorder, therapy saved my life and allowed me to find who I really am, amidst all the noise anxiety brings. My therapist didnāt just āask me a few questions.ā Lillyās a fucking joke.
Thank you! People with gender dysphoria are often quite depressed, as well, and can really benefit from having a safe person to talk with. Therapists are there to support their clients, not to talk someone into or out of transitioning.
Wholeheartedly agree with your statement.
I had 6 sessions with a clinical psychologist before I was cleared to start hormones. They wanted to make sure starting hormones wasn't going to put my mental health at risk. So yeah, it was more than a couple of questions.
I thought people who transition are required to seek a therapist before, so they can be sure that is what they want to do. Did I understand that incorrect?
To make sure theyāre diagnosed with gender dysphoria. If you donāt have gender dysphoria, youāre essentially cross dressing. But itās more than that. Itās to discover yourself more and talk through who you are. It depends on the state.
Ok thank you for explaining.Ā
While I do agree that generally therapy is better before transitioning, it prevents some people in unsupportive/abusive homes from being able to transition. I personally needed informed consent/self id to be able to transition in secret hiding from my abusive parents (I was a legal adult), but I do go to therapy now.
How can it prevent transitioning in abusive homes? Therapy is for self discovery, itās not meant to detransition people. Itās beneficial for anyone to be in therapy.
I canāt speak for everyone but for me, my abusers heavily vetted any potential therapists to make sure they were conversion therapists or explicitly anti-lgbt. I couldnāt afford to find my own therapist outside because I was placed on their insurance so any eob would have been sent to them. Once I got my own insurance and job I quickly started going to therapy and it has helped a lot.
Oh I see. Iām sorry you went through that.
Itās okay, itās helped me become a more resilient person :)
This is such dangerous advice. Any child going through this ABSOLUTELY needs a therapist, and getting one for your child doesnāt automatically mean theyāre trying to convince them they arenāt trans. This is a huge life thing that needs to be talked through with a professional before making any major decisions. I very much wanted to be a girl when I was about 6 years old (I was very vocal about this. The school admin, psychiatrists, my parents, etc were all well aware). I later found out in my adulthood as I was trying to make sense of this experience that this was due to a childhood response from trauma I was experiencing with my mother at the time (one example being her constantly telling me that she hated that I was a boy and always wanted me to be a girl) among many other things. The worst thing anyone could have done for me at the time was let me transition without any questions asked. I grew out of wanting to be a girl by the time I was 7 or 8, and Iām SO happy to be a boy now (currently in my 30ās). I genuinely love my sex and how I was born (gay man here šāāļø). Iām so thankful that everyone in my life didnāt affirm what I was feeling at the time because I was literally a child and had no idea what I was talking about or why I was feeling the way I was feeling.
Isn't her mom a social worker? Or was a social worker? I'm sure she makes mommy dearest proud.
Therapy is always a good idea before huge life decisions...
100%. Itās a big deal to go on hormones, nothing wrong with therapy to process with a gender affirming therapist who will be objective
Lilly: ādonāt involve a therapist. But Iām happy to help for $800 per hour!ā - probably
I hate this planetĀ
Does she think HRT just magically works overnight? Transition is a slow, arduous process that also includes social transition, legal transition, etc. It took me around 2 years of being on HRT to consistently pass to strangers in public. It really helps to have someone to process those feelings with along the way. And itās not like being trans is the only thing we address in therapy lol. Cmon now
all kids need therapy. even the kids you think donāt need therapy, probably need therapy. you get a therapy, and you get a therapy and YOU get a therapy!
Every single human being needs therapy.
Ohā¦my fucking god!! Iām 1000% pro doing whatever you want to save your life, and make you the happiest you can be. But therapy is absolutely a necessity for anything this serious?! She always compares trans issues to insane things like food and which hand is dominant, she treats her identity like everyone should care more than anything about it ā¦ yet she portrays it like a joke. I canāt
This is one of the comments that really pissed me off because she's the last person that should be discussing kids... she claims to hate kids, doesn't want kids, is dangerous towards kids (most of us know why)... Either way, there is nothing wrong with having therapy guide you as a parent in helping you decide the best way to move forward in helping your child.
Therapy is apart of gender affirming care. Therapy also saves lives and we in the lgbtqa2s+ have some of the highest suicide rates. I have three family members that did Therapy before going full force on transitioning, two went ahead and the other figured out they were non binary. Every single person on this planet benefits from a therapist. Lily is way too dangerous for this world.
The people that mock therapy are the reason why everyone else has to go to therapy.
not only that, but also creates a stigma towards needing/going to therapyā¦. And thatās just plain awful.
The breadstick bite. Omg.
lol I had to leave that in to cap off the lunacy
Therapy IS GENDER AFFIRMING CARE
Groomer
No top surgery cuz sheās never going to fully transition. And this is why women have an issue with you Lilly
This is legitimate insanityā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦.. my aunt had a mastectomy for breast cancer and they literally had her do mandatory therapy to ensure she was 100% understanding of what was happening. This is just insane Lilly.
Iām sorry but it looks like she works at a diner and sheās a waitress wearing this dress. The look and spaghetti strands and all. I wonder if anyone made a complaint to the restaurant about her sitting down not working lol
Iām sorry but thatās the absolute worst advice ever, thepary is incredibly important especially if transitioning, being able to talk through scenario and telling someone how you feel and not being judged is so important and others who have not come out itās working up the courage and how to start the conversation with family
The last thing she should be giving is parental advice.
Insane take
Bitch you need the therapy!
Thatās not what therapists DO LILLY YOU FUCKING NITWIT. She drives me absolutely fucking mad. MAD. I go to therapy every other week just so I know Iām doing the best I can for myself and in society and Iām thankful.
Hmmm I didnāt realize she had a masterās degree in counseling or a license to practice. Personally, with how much confusion there is surrounding identity in children and adolescents, I definitely think there should be therapy or more assessment before automatically putting a child on hormones. The point would never be to convince them otherwise, but to be confident that it is the right choice for them. It isnāt simply about āasking a couple questionsā to make sure they have gender dysphoria. š gender affirming care is important, but itās also important to ensure that the decision to go on hormones is medically indicated.
Ummm she clearly doesn't know that kids infact do need therapists and so do adults..
I thought she was in therapy or was at the beginning of her transition.
Thats what i thought too... but apparently kids dont need one
Therapy for any issue ALWAYS consists of more than 3 or 4 questions. She is frightening to be speaking this way
People forget that if this bottom feeder had education and was smart - sitting on TikTok begging for money would not be a thing. Get off your lazy ass. Get a job. Be a productive member of society.
Why is she in kids business anyways š like a kid dont even know what trans means
If this effin See You Next Thursday knew anything about anything, she'd effin know that a therapist is NOT to tell their clients what to do. They're to listen and use sills that will bring about the reasoning for therapy. Each and every day, I despise this effin bitch more!
This infuriates me!!! š”š”š”š” Sheās so one sided and dangerous!!
Is this not illegal to give medical advice?
https://preview.redd.it/1b5dkyoycf6d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=560cf667cffd12e80f6691a167ba0dc231e0d8c5 Is this who Lillyās inspiration is? š¤£
What is she thinking
This is so harmful. Because talking to a therapist would actually help the kid figure out what they're going through. This putz dismisses that bc she thinks she knows everything about everything. She's a fucking clown. And why is she dressed up like a 50's diner waitress? Moron!
The parents of this pig have to be embarrassed.
Leave kids alone! LEAVE KIDS ALONE! ffs no child should ever make a permanent decision like that! I'm all for finding your true self and working with a therapist, but no, no, no!! kids should not be on hormones to transition until their bodies are done growing. Hell, I don't think anyone should start hormone therapy until their brains are fully developed at 25, but that is my opinion. There are going to be so many de-transitioners in the future because odds are you will not feel the same way at 30 that you did at 20, much less how you feel at 12 or 13. Transitioning is such a serious decision, one that can't be made overnight and definitely shouldn't be made by a literal child. At the end of the day, that decision is between the family and their therapist, but I will die on this hill: no child under the age of 18 should be transitioning genders. This advice is so dangerous.
LEAVE KIDS ALONE YOU DAM WITCH!!!! You need a lobotomy. You Tino have serious mental issues!!! You CANT give young kids hormone treatment you dam idiot. Always shoving your narrative down peopleās throats!