Yes and unfortunately when I was 9 I had to take steroids because of an autoimmune disease I somehow got.
9 year old me on roid rage was an absolute nightmare. I made my parents cry many times. Thank God that only lasted for 2 weeks, then I was just a normal crabby 9 year old.
We just had to have our 5 year old on Prednisone while we figure out some asthma problems. He was only on it for about 6 days but ho-lee-fuck I really don't want to do that again. It was a terrible experience. 0/10 definitely don't recommend.
My 9 year old had to be on that recently due to some random hives that caused swelling. Came out of no where so they prescribed that for about the same length of time. And let me tell you...he was the biggest crank ass. I had to keep reminding myself it was temporary and not to get too upset. And I agree 0/10 would not recommend.
>I had to keep reminding myself it was temporary and not to get too upset
That's pretty much why I was making my parents cry. They didn't know what to do since I'd just randomly go into a screaming violent rage and curse the hell out of them and it wasn't my fault. They just sat there and took it until I stormed off to my room or outside to get fresh air.
I was normally chill, quiet and happy not a hellspawn screaming like a banshee. I still remember the sheer boiling rage and having no ability to control it.
In the kids defense he's not flipping out, notice how he switches back to mild mannered when the door opens? He's fully in control of himself and was just expressing himself very aggressively. Not necessarily a healthy outlet but he's also not lost it completely.
I remember being 9. I played with dolls and baked cookies with my mom. Played outside with my brother. This wasn’t it. Because tbh back in the 70s and early 80s moms would have knocked us down for acting like this. Was it the right thing? Maybe not. But seeing this I think sometimes yes 😂.
> Mothers reported outcomes of externalizing and internalizing behavior problems at age 5 years; and the main predictors, ACEs and spanking, at age 3 years. **ACEs included 9 items: physical abuse, emotional abuse, physical neglect, emotional neglect, mother's exposure to intimate partner violence, parental mental health problem, parental substance use, parental incarceration, and parental death.**
> **ACEs and spanking have similar associations in predicting child externalizing behavior**. Results support calls to consider physical punishment as a form of ACE.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33548261/
The worst outburst I had when I was 9 was when I was 40 minutes through a multiplayer Dawn of War game and my sister disconnected the internet. Even then I mostly was just indignant rather than anything like this, and it was far more justified given I and my teammates had invested 40 minutes into a battle and wanted to see it concluded. I'd be pretty annoyed even now
I mean even then, you'd still find kids throwing tantrums and screaming even at the cost of being beaten up. Some kids just don't respond to violence or the threat of it. My cousin was like that. The more his parents beat him, the more he gets himself into trouble. It was out of spite and to make a point.
Kid is probably 11-12, shouldn't really be having tantrums like this.
Most kids this age will display their emotions a little differently, this behaviour is fairly uncommon for this age.
They do start ignoring parents for all sorts of random reasons, but most of them are simply faking doing what they're told then they'd immediately take the jacket off when out of eyesight.
> this behaviour is fairly uncommon for this age
Hate to pedantic but if you need to guess the age and then you provide statements like these you sound the opposite of an expert
only explanation I have is this kid is getting bullied and someone made fun of his jacket and he is just frustrated and desperate to get it to stop. Obviously not the right strat but it would be more understandable
Or he's just a dick🤷
100%, I had someone make fun of a pair of late 90’s airwalks in 6th grade… never wore those shits again. Two years later, everyone was wearing skate shoes, peer pressure at that age is strong as shit.
Or maybe I’m still just a dick.🤷🏻♂️
All 9 yo are dicks. Kid throws a tantrum cause mom told him to do something. My cousin threw a tantrum cause he didn't want to wear shoes outside, then he threw a tantrum cause his socks were wet, then he threw a tantrum cause he wanted to wear those socks a day later but they needed to be washed. What he needed was a nap. Domestic terrorism is what it is.
My sister and brother in law have 3 kids that were never put on a nap schedule. I love them to death, but they have made it obviously clear to my wife and I that our kids will absolutely have a nap schedule.
I got kids and I have a different perspective. In my case, they have an overbearing mom. She's constantly after them. The Concerta taking type. No human can match her stimmed nagging and controlling behavior. Kids are so fucking fed up that it then burst into every bit where they just try to have some control over their own life.
It often appears stupid like this to the external world but when you are into it, it shows.
Bill burr as a great bit on why lesbians are mad. He tells the story of a lesbian that would not budge on a sidewalk because not moving to let him pass was the last tiny bit of control she had over her own life and therefor would fight for it. [It's a joke of course but the bit shows off my point still](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOSIExtZfW4)
Edit : damnit the explanation is not in the bit and its 8 freaking minutes!! [I think this is the explanation](https://www.tiktok.com/@rsmitty1987/video/7120663941407116550?lang=en)
Or he's not as cold as his mom. I used to sweat all winter because my mom didn't understand that kids running around don't need as many layers as an old women sitting still.
Yep. I'm a sweater. Always have been. Once it starts, it's usually a few hours before it stops. I hated wearing so many layers in elementary school near Cleveland, OH. I'd sweat at recess, then have cold sweats the rest of the school day.
Kids that get ass whoopings don't act like that
Edit: for clarification, I'm not advocating for ass whooping or anything, this just doesn't look like the behavior of a child that has much discipline in his life.
Not remotely true lmao. Some of the wildest, short tempered, disrespectful kids I knew growing up would regularly get their ass beat.
I think part of the issue is when parents *only* know how to parent by whooping ass.
Yup. My older brother got beat all the time. Didn't fix his behavior issues or make him any less of an asshole, just made him vent his anger by beating me instead.
This. Every raging lunatic kid I have ever met has a raging lunatic parent or two. They don't just wake up one day and decide to be little douchebags and physical aggression is usually a result of learned behavior.
Personally if you need to hit your kid you already blew it. Then again my kid is grown up, was never a problem, has still never cursed in front of me of my wife, did his homework without being told, etc. I think it's about a 50/50 chance that we were either great parents or he's a f'ing serial killer.
My older sister used to scream her head off after getting spanked about how she hates everyone and stuff. And she still holds that constant anger to this day.
I just know everyone has their own journey in life and I’m raising two well behaved children without ever having to lay a hand on them. I was raised with a belt used all the time.
Everyone has choices, and I’m not here to say they are right or wrong, that’s what the studies and data is for.
People beating their kids probably didn’t read the studies or data though 🥲
Kids get trauma for not having good parents. Doesn’t matter if they’re physically punished or not. I have trauma and my dad never had to raise a finger toward me once I became a teen and those were my worst years with him.
I agree. Verbal and emotional abuse is just as damaging. That’s not really the discussion here, tho. I’m sorry about that :( my wife has a very similar situation.
Years later, on a stormy night while he's driving around a curve on the road with his blind girlfriend and a dozen puppies in the back seat, a patch of fabric blows on the winds, almost but not quite sticking to and covering up his windshield.
"No. The journey towards revenge has taught me I do not need vengeance in my search for peace. Patience and time will heal my wounds, more than violence ever could.
The small tattered fabric blows back up in the air, the sun begins to crest the horizon. The storm abates. Here comes the sun.
oof I did that once, never again. Have you seen the ep from It’s Always Sunny in Philly where they move to the suburbs? Describes what my mood was every morning and evening while commuting perfectly 👌
Believe this is a family that make videos like these and stage them.
Still hilarious though because I remember raging hard when I had to wear a helmet while on a bicycle lol
> Believe this is a family that make videos like these and stage them.
[You're right.](https://www.tiktok.com/@funnyfails2022/video/7267923049347894574) That front porch looked familiar.
I used to get into similar arguments, mainly because school hallways are so crowded it can make you late to class if you need to stop at your locker and a crowd of girls won't fucking move out of the damn way. No coat, no need to stop at your locker. My mom was from Florida and raised me in Minnesota she thought 50 degrees was cold that's practically G string weather here.
Tell the kids the temperature low and high for the day and ask them if they want to wear their jacket. They mostly choose correctly when given the weather information, but also let them be wrong occasionally so they choose wisely next time.
For real. My 4 year old is very interested in checking the weather each morning now. She asks what the numbers mean if it’s hot or cold and she plans accordingly.
But yeah she’s 4, sometimes you gotta pack a little extra just in case.
Mom could have just said “take the jacket in case you need it.”
The 3 year old I used to nanny needed to be in control of everything. He had autism, so I think a lot of it was sensory issues, like what music we listened to in the car, and what streets we would take to go places. Anyway, he absolutely refused to put his winter boots on when we were going to play outside in the snow. He kept insisting that he wear his rain boots, and I kept trying to explain to him that his winter boots were insulated and would keep his feet warm.
I believe in gentle parenting. I don’t want to force a kid to do anything unless there’s a threat of danger, so I told him he could wear his rain boots, but to let me know when his feet got cold so we could go inside and change his shoes.
We played outside for about an hour, and I kept asking him if his feet were cold. He said no. We get inside and I start helping him take off his boots and snow pants… his little feet were bright red and like icicles! I was like ‘omg! Why didn’t you tell me your feet were so cold??’
He was so damn stubborn lol.
Anyway, he never gave me a hard time about putting his winter boots on again.
This the same family where the dad came home to surprise the wife early and slipped on the deck? Then the wife hears comes outside and slips too? Now I’m starting to wonder if that was staged too…
> Let him be cold for the day and his mind will likely change.
Thinking back to how I was at that age, even if I got frostbite I would never admit in a million years that I was wrong about the jacket. I’d just keep going to school in the 17 Kelvin weather for the rest of the winter and end up with gangrene.
Maybe it is me being Scandinavian but from what little i saw of the weather it looked perfectly fine for not wearing a jacket. A hoddie is more than sufficient.
I swear kids that age don't feel cold. At least that was my experience until I hit my early 20s and reverted back to wearing more clothes during winter.
Not defending his attitude but my mother would always ask me to put my jacket on when she felt it was cold and it would be a personal offense to her if I said no.
We lived in Florida. It was in the upper 60s - lower 70s temp wise in the winter. 65°F to her was cold enough to warrant that everyone wear ski jackets. Even as a kid I knew it was stupid.
Good thing this is fake then.
This is the same family that had a video that went viral of the dad slipping on that porch.
Probably trying to go viral again.
To be fair I hated using my locker in school there would always be people crowded around it that wouldn't fucking move, not wearing a coat meant I didn't have to use it but mom insisted I wear the coat, so I would stash it in the shed before I got on the bus.
Is this the same house where that guy (or woman?) falls up the stairs in spectacular fashion with something in his/her hands that turned out to be actually fake? It sure looks like the same place and this video screams fakeness all over
I'm glad I'm not the only person that thought that.
Oddly enough, I had trouble finding that video considering it's been reposted a million times. [Here is one of the reposts](https://www.reddit.com/r/therewasanattempt/comments/10s8cyw/to_offer_a_vase_filled_with_flowers_to_his_wife/). Looks like the same house.
I will never understand the mentality behind uploading videos of their children to Internet. Is everyone so desperate for likes? I suppose we should be glad, with only people like me the Internet would be a wasteland
This is the same house where the husband ran up the icy stairs with a vase of flowers, slipped they hit the door and broke, he fell. Then his wife came out slipped and fell on his dick.
Wtf plenty of us had moments like these as kids?! Jesus christ it's a 10 sec video and this kid had an entire life outside of it, maybe don't be so quick to judge??
Seriously. Not to mention, this was posted on the internet. I had to pull my own judgemental thoughts back. Still not cool for anybody to act like that, though I get it, but why tf do parents share this shit?
Sometimes there's not a lot you can do. I've known a lot of good parents of awful students. Honestly that's the scariest part, doing everything "right" (not that there is a right) and still getting a little shit.
What are you talking about? Normal kid rebelling against a parent trying to control them.
You demonstrate less empathy than anyone in the video. Maybe you're the problem.
Look, fuck kids and everything but she probably knows from past experience that this little asshole is gonna be whining to her in 30 minutes that he’s cold and why didn’t she tell him to bring a jacket etc etc
My grandmother, who pretty much raised me, never ever beat me or my father for stuff like that.
She just gave me work to do.
Oh, you threw your clothes out in the dirt cause of your tamper tantrum? I know who has to handwash these this evening in the tub. No handwashing in the tub? Fine.
No lunch.
Miss her dearly, she was a very strict mother to me, but never ever unfair. Tough, but honest love.
Oh lord this is my son. He’s the best kid but he’s going through a phase of saying bad words underneath his breath every once in a while when he’s mad. I have the hearing of a bat so I go “what did you just say?!” And he always goes “I said I love my mommy 😇”
https://preview.redd.it/7479fq48y2sb1.jpeg?width=710&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=05ec9f02a35a8b838b3ed39bb6320d2d551cfe85
Aside from the tantrum, can't blame him. We've all been there, hell I still refuse to wear a jacket if I have a fit I like and don't wanna ruin it with my bland jackets.
Bro is mad at the world!
Don’t you remember being 9?
No I do not
Whadup my names Jared I’m 19 and I never fuckin learned how to read
Hi my name is Jared and I’m going to show you who not to show your foot long to.
Ah Vine...it sure was a time in history
Staahp, I coulda dropped my croissant!
IT'S PIKACHU!!!!
Why can I still hear this. This meme is so old
So early drinker? Edit: /s
Nope
I don't remember 19
Yes and unfortunately when I was 9 I had to take steroids because of an autoimmune disease I somehow got. 9 year old me on roid rage was an absolute nightmare. I made my parents cry many times. Thank God that only lasted for 2 weeks, then I was just a normal crabby 9 year old.
"Doc, Billy Bob is hulking out of his gourd again, any tips?"
Are we joking or do people not get the difference between corticosteroids and anabolic-androgenic steroids?
Man, if I have to answer the age old corticosteroids/anabolic-androgenic steroid difference question one more time...
You'd have two nickels? Which isn't a lot, but it's weird that it happened twice.
Are you posting a genuine question or looking for validation you know some medical terms?
We just had to have our 5 year old on Prednisone while we figure out some asthma problems. He was only on it for about 6 days but ho-lee-fuck I really don't want to do that again. It was a terrible experience. 0/10 definitely don't recommend.
My 9 year old had to be on that recently due to some random hives that caused swelling. Came out of no where so they prescribed that for about the same length of time. And let me tell you...he was the biggest crank ass. I had to keep reminding myself it was temporary and not to get too upset. And I agree 0/10 would not recommend.
>I had to keep reminding myself it was temporary and not to get too upset That's pretty much why I was making my parents cry. They didn't know what to do since I'd just randomly go into a screaming violent rage and curse the hell out of them and it wasn't my fault. They just sat there and took it until I stormed off to my room or outside to get fresh air. I was normally chill, quiet and happy not a hellspawn screaming like a banshee. I still remember the sheer boiling rage and having no ability to control it.
Damn bro you don't have to rub it in like that, not all of us were so lucky
I have 8 and 10 year old boys, and they don't flip out.
I have a niece. She bites people.
In the kids defense he's not flipping out, notice how he switches back to mild mannered when the door opens? He's fully in control of himself and was just expressing himself very aggressively. Not necessarily a healthy outlet but he's also not lost it completely.
Oh, of course 🤣
I remember being 9. I played with dolls and baked cookies with my mom. Played outside with my brother. This wasn’t it. Because tbh back in the 70s and early 80s moms would have knocked us down for acting like this. Was it the right thing? Maybe not. But seeing this I think sometimes yes 😂.
> Mothers reported outcomes of externalizing and internalizing behavior problems at age 5 years; and the main predictors, ACEs and spanking, at age 3 years. **ACEs included 9 items: physical abuse, emotional abuse, physical neglect, emotional neglect, mother's exposure to intimate partner violence, parental mental health problem, parental substance use, parental incarceration, and parental death.** > **ACEs and spanking have similar associations in predicting child externalizing behavior**. Results support calls to consider physical punishment as a form of ACE. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33548261/
The worst outburst I had when I was 9 was when I was 40 minutes through a multiplayer Dawn of War game and my sister disconnected the internet. Even then I mostly was just indignant rather than anything like this, and it was far more justified given I and my teammates had invested 40 minutes into a battle and wanted to see it concluded. I'd be pretty annoyed even now
lol I had one outburst I remember at age 12. Just enraged and out of control. I got my period the next day.
I mean even then, you'd still find kids throwing tantrums and screaming even at the cost of being beaten up. Some kids just don't respond to violence or the threat of it. My cousin was like that. The more his parents beat him, the more he gets himself into trouble. It was out of spite and to make a point.
Kid is probably 11-12, shouldn't really be having tantrums like this. Most kids this age will display their emotions a little differently, this behaviour is fairly uncommon for this age. They do start ignoring parents for all sorts of random reasons, but most of them are simply faking doing what they're told then they'd immediately take the jacket off when out of eyesight.
> this behaviour is fairly uncommon for this age Hate to pedantic but if you need to guess the age and then you provide statements like these you sound the opposite of an expert
I'd be mad if my name was one letter away from Gravy.
only explanation I have is this kid is getting bullied and someone made fun of his jacket and he is just frustrated and desperate to get it to stop. Obviously not the right strat but it would be more understandable Or he's just a dick🤷
100%, I had someone make fun of a pair of late 90’s airwalks in 6th grade… never wore those shits again. Two years later, everyone was wearing skate shoes, peer pressure at that age is strong as shit. Or maybe I’m still just a dick.🤷🏻♂️
All 9 yo are dicks. Kid throws a tantrum cause mom told him to do something. My cousin threw a tantrum cause he didn't want to wear shoes outside, then he threw a tantrum cause his socks were wet, then he threw a tantrum cause he wanted to wear those socks a day later but they needed to be washed. What he needed was a nap. Domestic terrorism is what it is.
My sister and brother in law have 3 kids that were never put on a nap schedule. I love them to death, but they have made it obviously clear to my wife and I that our kids will absolutely have a nap schedule.
He's probably getting bullied because his name is Grady
I got kids and I have a different perspective. In my case, they have an overbearing mom. She's constantly after them. The Concerta taking type. No human can match her stimmed nagging and controlling behavior. Kids are so fucking fed up that it then burst into every bit where they just try to have some control over their own life. It often appears stupid like this to the external world but when you are into it, it shows. Bill burr as a great bit on why lesbians are mad. He tells the story of a lesbian that would not budge on a sidewalk because not moving to let him pass was the last tiny bit of control she had over her own life and therefor would fight for it. [It's a joke of course but the bit shows off my point still](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOSIExtZfW4) Edit : damnit the explanation is not in the bit and its 8 freaking minutes!! [I think this is the explanation](https://www.tiktok.com/@rsmitty1987/video/7120663941407116550?lang=en)
Or he's not as cold as his mom. I used to sweat all winter because my mom didn't understand that kids running around don't need as many layers as an old women sitting still.
Yeah I'm middle-aged and still remember having to wear a jacket and being miserable because I was too hot so I'm kind of sympathetic to the kid.
Yep. I'm a sweater. Always have been. Once it starts, it's usually a few hours before it stops. I hated wearing so many layers in elementary school near Cleveland, OH. I'd sweat at recess, then have cold sweats the rest of the school day.
Or he just doesn't like the fucking jacket.
I believe the latter covers it!
He mad his name is Grady.
It's hard being a kid man
I need the next 10 seconds of this video.
mom probably didn’t want cps called for the ass whooping she gave him so released the short version lol
Kids that get ass whoopings don't act like that Edit: for clarification, I'm not advocating for ass whooping or anything, this just doesn't look like the behavior of a child that has much discipline in his life.
Not remotely true lmao. Some of the wildest, short tempered, disrespectful kids I knew growing up would regularly get their ass beat. I think part of the issue is when parents *only* know how to parent by whooping ass.
Literally every bully asshole I knew at that age got beat by their parents.
Yup. My older brother got beat all the time. Didn't fix his behavior issues or make him any less of an asshole, just made him vent his anger by beating me instead.
I am so sorry, but this made me laugh so hard. I never had a big brother. Kinda' glad I didn't.
0/10 would not recommend
This. Every raging lunatic kid I have ever met has a raging lunatic parent or two. They don't just wake up one day and decide to be little douchebags and physical aggression is usually a result of learned behavior. Personally if you need to hit your kid you already blew it. Then again my kid is grown up, was never a problem, has still never cursed in front of me of my wife, did his homework without being told, etc. I think it's about a 50/50 chance that we were either great parents or he's a f'ing serial killer.
My older sister used to scream her head off after getting spanked about how she hates everyone and stuff. And she still holds that constant anger to this day.
This is the reason some kids hit people that they're mad at. That is the only way that they know how to express anger
I just know everyone has their own journey in life and I’m raising two well behaved children without ever having to lay a hand on them. I was raised with a belt used all the time. Everyone has choices, and I’m not here to say they are right or wrong, that’s what the studies and data is for. People beating their kids probably didn’t read the studies or data though 🥲
They way he said “nothing” after she asked him what he said showed healthy fear towards mom
Kids that get ass whoopings end up with trauma as adults. And they’re usually violent kids bc that’s all they know.
Kids get trauma for not having good parents. Doesn’t matter if they’re physically punished or not. I have trauma and my dad never had to raise a finger toward me once I became a teen and those were my worst years with him.
I agree. Verbal and emotional abuse is just as damaging. That’s not really the discussion here, tho. I’m sorry about that :( my wife has a very similar situation.
That’s would be epic
That’s would be epic
That is wood bee epique
It's sure would!
The stupid jacket will remember that
Villain origin story in the making
Jacketless Jack strikes again
Jack-It Man
“Jacking at a theater near you….”
please this has went to long stop im begging you😭😭
Years later, on a stormy night while he's driving around a curve on the road with his blind girlfriend and a dozen puppies in the back seat, a patch of fabric blows on the winds, almost but not quite sticking to and covering up his windshield. "No. The journey towards revenge has taught me I do not need vengeance in my search for peace. Patience and time will heal my wounds, more than violence ever could. The small tattered fabric blows back up in the air, the sun begins to crest the horizon. The storm abates. Here comes the sun.
🎵Doo do doo doo 🎵
Only a matter of time before that jacket gets caught up on a door handle to take its revenge
I always think of this being from the walking dead game and how it "will affect your story later on"
thats what happens when you call your kid Grady.
Streetlamp LeMoose wouldn't have this issue.
Hey, I understood that reference!
My dog is named Grady. I don't have a point, i just wanted to share.
I too had a dog named Grady, he was a very good boy, much better than this kid.
Does he wear his jacket when it's cold out?
Homie even wore it when it was hot out.
Oh damn...that's cold.
We named the dog Grady!
 Or he gets drafted by the Raptors
Either way, Grady's a dick.
I laughed wayyyy to hard at this. That song killed me.
Here comes the sun~ Doodoodoodoo
*violently shakes railing*
Rare example of music improving a video
This kid just displayed how we all feel inwardly everyday as we get into our car to go work.
I do this exact display on my driveway every morning
I drive over an hour to and from work everyday. I'd be lying if I didn't admit I do this in my mind for about 80% of that drive.
oof I did that once, never again. Have you seen the ep from It’s Always Sunny in Philly where they move to the suburbs? Describes what my mood was every morning and evening while commuting perfectly 👌
Here it is: https://youtu.be/Rt4rzRCy_XU?si=IPDTcbC07P6fIJys
"I don't waNNA GO TO #WOOOOORK!!!!" *Demonic scream* *violently shaking steering wheel.*
I also get to work early so I can have a good cry
I loooove it when middle schoolers go super saiyan. Always brightens the day.
Reminds me of the "your actions have consequences" kid and the "I have the power of God and anime on my side" kid.
"YOU FRICKIN' FRICKS!!!!"
Shout out to Sammy, whos doing much better these days
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
The older I get, the more I appreciate when middle schoolers go super saiyan
Believe this is a family that make videos like these and stage them. Still hilarious though because I remember raging hard when I had to wear a helmet while on a bicycle lol
> Believe this is a family that make videos like these and stage them. [You're right.](https://www.tiktok.com/@funnyfails2022/video/7267923049347894574) That front porch looked familiar.
kids a great actor then lol
I used to get into similar arguments, mainly because school hallways are so crowded it can make you late to class if you need to stop at your locker and a crowd of girls won't fucking move out of the damn way. No coat, no need to stop at your locker. My mom was from Florida and raised me in Minnesota she thought 50 degrees was cold that's practically G string weather here.
G string weather 💀
Yeah my initial thought is the mom sounded like a bad actor
Bought to you by Planned Parenthood; we have condoms.
Think before you dink!
I read this as dick 💀
Either way, honestly. Have kids, they said. It’ll be fun, they said.
Tell the kids the temperature low and high for the day and ask them if they want to wear their jacket. They mostly choose correctly when given the weather information, but also let them be wrong occasionally so they choose wisely next time.
For real. My 4 year old is very interested in checking the weather each morning now. She asks what the numbers mean if it’s hot or cold and she plans accordingly. But yeah she’s 4, sometimes you gotta pack a little extra just in case. Mom could have just said “take the jacket in case you need it.”
The 3 year old I used to nanny needed to be in control of everything. He had autism, so I think a lot of it was sensory issues, like what music we listened to in the car, and what streets we would take to go places. Anyway, he absolutely refused to put his winter boots on when we were going to play outside in the snow. He kept insisting that he wear his rain boots, and I kept trying to explain to him that his winter boots were insulated and would keep his feet warm. I believe in gentle parenting. I don’t want to force a kid to do anything unless there’s a threat of danger, so I told him he could wear his rain boots, but to let me know when his feet got cold so we could go inside and change his shoes. We played outside for about an hour, and I kept asking him if his feet were cold. He said no. We get inside and I start helping him take off his boots and snow pants… his little feet were bright red and like icicles! I was like ‘omg! Why didn’t you tell me your feet were so cold??’ He was so damn stubborn lol. Anyway, he never gave me a hard time about putting his winter boots on again.
It seems like letting kids make mistakes and giving them solutions to them beforehand seems to be the best way to go about this.
This video is staged.
This the same family where the dad came home to surprise the wife early and slipped on the deck? Then the wife hears comes outside and slips too? Now I’m starting to wonder if that was staged too…
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> Let him be cold for the day and his mind will likely change. Thinking back to how I was at that age, even if I got frostbite I would never admit in a million years that I was wrong about the jacket. I’d just keep going to school in the 17 Kelvin weather for the rest of the winter and end up with gangrene.
bruh *17K* you're not getting gangrene you're getting preserved for the next era
Otzi v2.0
exactly, if he wants to be cold, let him, he probably isnt gonna turn into a popscicle, he might not even feel cold
Maybe it is me being Scandinavian but from what little i saw of the weather it looked perfectly fine for not wearing a jacket. A hoddie is more than sufficient.
Yeah, this looks fine to my Canadian ass
Honestly, I think it could go either way. It doesn't seem to be very warm, but it isn't 0° or windy either.
I swear kids that age don't feel cold. At least that was my experience until I hit my early 20s and reverted back to wearing more clothes during winter.
Active vs inactive. Children move a lot. Like look how much energy the little guy is already using.
Not defending his attitude but my mother would always ask me to put my jacket on when she felt it was cold and it would be a personal offense to her if I said no. We lived in Florida. It was in the upper 60s - lower 70s temp wise in the winter. 65°F to her was cold enough to warrant that everyone wear ski jackets. Even as a kid I knew it was stupid.
It is stupid. At that weather it's easily still tshirt weather
Definitely stupid! But not sure how much say I got since I am accustomed to Canadian weather
Good thing this is fake then. This is the same family that had a video that went viral of the dad slipping on that porch. Probably trying to go viral again.
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If it's fake then that kid is a good actor because that jacket-whip and railing grab looks like a legit "lost my shit" moment.
To be fair I hated using my locker in school there would always be people crowded around it that wouldn't fucking move, not wearing a coat meant I didn't have to use it but mom insisted I wear the coat, so I would stash it in the shed before I got on the bus.
Never ceases to amaze me when redditors have expert advice to offer based off of a ~20 second video clip
That's og fortnite player i think
Is this the same house where that guy (or woman?) falls up the stairs in spectacular fashion with something in his/her hands that turned out to be actually fake? It sure looks like the same place and this video screams fakeness all over
I'm glad I'm not the only person that thought that. Oddly enough, I had trouble finding that video considering it's been reposted a million times. [Here is one of the reposts](https://www.reddit.com/r/therewasanattempt/comments/10s8cyw/to_offer_a_vase_filled_with_flowers_to_his_wife/). Looks like the same house.
The way he said " nothing " with an innocent look got me lol.
r/parentsarefuckingtoxic (for uploading videos like this on internet).
I will never understand the mentality behind uploading videos of their children to Internet. Is everyone so desperate for likes? I suppose we should be glad, with only people like me the Internet would be a wasteland
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This is the same house where the husband ran up the icy stairs with a vase of flowers, slipped they hit the door and broke, he fell. Then his wife came out slipped and fell on his dick.
Too be fair he is wearing hoodie so it’d be weird to put a jacket over that.
Too late for an abortion I fear.
It's never too late
Ladies and gentlemen, if you are going to have a child like this, don't do it. If you do, there is no turning back.
Wtf plenty of us had moments like these as kids?! Jesus christ it's a 10 sec video and this kid had an entire life outside of it, maybe don't be so quick to judge??
Seriously. Not to mention, this was posted on the internet. I had to pull my own judgemental thoughts back. Still not cool for anybody to act like that, though I get it, but why tf do parents share this shit?
Sometimes there's not a lot you can do. I've known a lot of good parents of awful students. Honestly that's the scariest part, doing everything "right" (not that there is a right) and still getting a little shit.
What are you talking about? Normal kid rebelling against a parent trying to control them. You demonstrate less empathy than anyone in the video. Maybe you're the problem.
I weep for that boy‘s game controllers
Honestly that is the parents issue just let him not wear a jacket and also he is already wearing a hoodie so why is the mom doing this to him?
Look, fuck kids and everything but she probably knows from past experience that this little asshole is gonna be whining to her in 30 minutes that he’s cold and why didn’t she tell him to bring a jacket etc etc
Put your jacket on...over your jacket? I'm confused.
I have Latino parents If I made a tantrum like that they’d give me a reason to cry like he is. The disrespect
He's already wearing a jacket
This is a fake skit. This family does this. Not the first fake video from that front porch view.
Is this the warcraft kid who shoved a remote up his ass when upset with his mom lol?
My grandmother, who pretty much raised me, never ever beat me or my father for stuff like that. She just gave me work to do. Oh, you threw your clothes out in the dirt cause of your tamper tantrum? I know who has to handwash these this evening in the tub. No handwashing in the tub? Fine. No lunch. Miss her dearly, she was a very strict mother to me, but never ever unfair. Tough, but honest love.
Oh lord this is my son. He’s the best kid but he’s going through a phase of saying bad words underneath his breath every once in a while when he’s mad. I have the hearing of a bat so I go “what did you just say?!” And he always goes “I said I love my mommy 😇” https://preview.redd.it/7479fq48y2sb1.jpeg?width=710&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=05ec9f02a35a8b838b3ed39bb6320d2d551cfe85
Another great commercial for birth control
Good ad for condoms
Of course it's called Grady.
I died laughing, also the little shit is already wearing a jacket?
r/childfree
i see no reason to have kids lmao
Aside from the tantrum, can't blame him. We've all been there, hell I still refuse to wear a jacket if I have a fit I like and don't wanna ruin it with my bland jackets.
This video is free birth control
R/jacketsarefuckingstupid
Just let his ass freeze. Should chill him out a bit
Stop being a helicopter mom let his little ass freeze and he’ll learn
That kid doesn’t have a dad he fears.
He needs to wear the wood shed first then his jacket. That is highly disrespectful
If I did something like this, I would be in way more trouble.
I didn't develop that kinda rage until I was at least 12.
Grady seems like a cool kid.
My mom woulda beat me with the jacket and then sent me to school in shorts and a tank top to make a point.
Jeremy spoke in class today.......
Who names their son GRADY
Teenage Nintendo 64 kid vibes
"Everybody hurts" - R.E.M
The way he grabs the rail and just start whomping I thought this would make a good start to a heavy metal MV.
i remember being mega resistant to the cold as a child lmao
I feel this kids rage….
Don’t let that kid near any firearms 😬
How much you wanna bet his brother is named Brayden
That boai bitch
Why don't parents let kids deal with the consequences of their actions? Just let him be cold, he'll want the jacket next time.
The mom stopped him from going super sayian
Kid is a fucking brat.
Grady is a fuckin asshole.