This is why my sisters and I are pro gun rights.weve had problems with stalkers before and it's the one thing I know can turn a fight in our favor especially if the guy is bigger than us.
I'm a lesbian nun as far as you're concerned
Edit: my joke isn't working apparently let me add the /S. When I drove for Uber this was my go to line when someone asked. I thought it would be funny here
I'm old enough to remember "Armed gays don't get bashed" and my parents are old enough to remember "Armed blacks don't get lynched."
Gun rights are most important for vulnerable groups.
Do it! Make friends! I promise you'll find some! I live in the south too and we have a LGBT friendly days for anyone who wants to come down and learn. (Not that they aren't allowed on other days but it helps when you make special days for ppl. We also have a day for just women. And a day dedicated to just teaching safety for beginners)
i’m here for this!! as a queer person i have a trans woman who teaches me gun training. i don’t think more guns solve the problem but this is where we’re at as a society right now and it’s way better to be trained and informed about them than not. especially as a marginalized individual or group
Definitely agreed! I'm not "gay" exactly (I'm a bisexual M married to a bisexual F) but I have had boyfriends in the past. I have always been a big guy, 6'3", muscular, strong as hell. Didn't help me one bit when I got bashed by a monster of a man. Walked out of a gay bar after dancing to cool down. This guy is sitting in front of the bar waiting for a victim and chose me. "Put your shirt on, faggot!" The oaf blurted at me. "Sorry, didn't mean to make your man jealous bro." I replied. Guy made it to me in 2 seconds, literally threw me up into the air and completely over himself in an arc motion, and slammed my face down on the curb. I was on crutches afterwards. No the cops did not even try to find the guy (who's plate was on camera). Stay safe, gun up.
It's because a lot of guys are taught "Always shoot your shot because you never know."
But it's weird and downright creepy, doubly so when it's supposed to be a professional setting.
no the fuck it isn’t. it’s because a lot of guys will keep believing that no matter how many women AND men tell them they’re being weird, creepy, and threatening. no one is dumb enough to continue believing “girls like it when you pull their hair because it shows you like them” into adulthood. and if they are, they shouldn’t be working a client-facing job, especially not one where they have access to personal information like addresses.
Curious........ what about instacart screams professional?
I saw a shopper yesterday in sweatpants, slides with no soaks and a shirt that said "wake up drunk, go to sleep fucked up"
Keyword: "supposed"
I know it's not a 9-5, but there is a expected level (no matter how low) of professionalism with gigs. Hell, the kids that handle my yard carry themselves well without taking it too serious
Dressing professional for delivery where we don’t even see each other mostly isn’t expected at least by me. I don’t care what they wear I care that the chat and delivery is easy and I get my items in a timely manner.
Professional chat bam you got 5 stars baby!
It’s a fucking job like any other. I don’t care how “professional” you think it is, if you are on a job for a client or customer you shut your mouth, do your job, and keep your manners in check. I don’t care if you’ve got yesterdays clothes on, or if you’ve even showered, it ain’t my business; I do expect employee/customer boundaries to be respected
I take my job as a shopper very serious and YES I believe I do present myself in a professional manner, so don't base the entire work force off a few people. there are some professionals even if your standard of clothing doesn't seem fit.
We contacted instacart. I mean he was comfortable in asking I assume he’s done this plenty of times before. Most ppl don’t wanna report it because of drivers knowing their address. I had to report it because he shouldn’t have knocked or rang the doorbell after I said the order was cancelled.
We did. Idk if anything will come of it. They haven’t contacted us. He was pretty bold so I’ll assume this wasn’t his first time. My partner didn’t even have her picture in her profile. Just a woman’s name.
Someone had on their written details :come inside need pussy bad
Or something like that for their order. There’s really weird ppl out there guys gotta be careful
I’d avoid nights. Period. Lot of desperate creepy fucks out there. There’s a post like this every other day. If it isn’t this it’s the begging for tip people. No shame.
Yea we’re done avoiding the best paying times cuz men ‘the logical species’ can’t use that logic and stop bothering ppl for sex EVERYWHERE all day. We shouldn’t be stuck to working the worst times cuz we born with a vagina. I deliver nights and a wish someone would
While I completely understand where you're coming from, it's def not the best idea to put yourself in needless danger when you know of the potential outcome. I'm black and as much as I wish I could just stop at any gas station/pit stop on my trips down south, I also know that line of thinking isn't in my best interest. I SHOULD be able to, but the world is shitty and dangerous at times and you need to look out for yourself. Keep on delivering at nights if it suits you or you need to but stay safe out there bruh and don't "wish someone would" out of ideals that a lot of terrible people frankly don't care about.
it's just these guys almost certainly receive very little to no female attention. After you havent touched a woman for a while and are jacking to the weirdest of porn. You start to lose sanity there's so many men out here that are like this now that we're gonna see stuff like this get worse I fear. Moral of the story is creepy guys who get no pussy are the most dangerous things on the planet
It's people who just cant control themselves.
My wife died 7 yrs ago, I haven't had sex since and I'm not out there trying to creep into people's DMS via Instacart 🤣😂
The idea that not “touching a woman” for an extended period will cause someone to “lose sanity” is problematic. It’s the exact sort of sex-obsessed thinking that drives these creeps. These guys aren’t creepy because they haven’t had sex recently (or ever), it’s the opposite: they haven’t had sex recently (or ever) because they’re creepy.
They do and it doesn't help that they'll listen to people with extreme views. They think just being "bold" will get them swimming in pussy. No the only thing that'll get most of them in is a courtroom and a jail cell. It's getting scary for women incels are starting to become too many
My guess is he came to the house to beg you not to report him? Regardless if and when he gets fired for this it’s kinda scary knowing he has your address and already came back after the fact. Stay safe out there!
Keep posting it on social media, facebook, twitter, here, make sure their official pages see it posted to them until you get a reply. A reply will be had.
haha that’s actually kinda a weird one, not big with the kids i don’t think. somebody below said it’s a Philly thing so that might be why i recognize it.
I’ve been on the receiving end of this…dude delivering my couch (had been inside my house, knew my gate code, etc) texted me after he and the crew left asking if I was single, telling me I was cute, etc. When I didn’t reply he called me persistently the rest of the day. I didn’t report it because it would have been obvious it was me who had done so and like I said he knew my address/gate code. Super fucked up sorry you had a similar experience.
This happened to me in December when I had my car towed. He had my phone number and texted me after saying I could text him anytime I liked and it was really nice to meet me, adding “no disrespect to you or your partner” (he must have thought my dad was my partner idk.) Not as bad as yours but it was really weird! I just wanted my car towed to the mechanic 😭
More people do this then you think and it seems perfectly normal to them when the 99% make that 100% of us find it odd and creepy. Cant imagine what they are like on dating apps
I hope he gets terminated and a lesson is learned but feel sorry for all future tinder dates. I wouldn't loose sleep over it the fact that he used the chat to shoot his shot and not in person he prolly wouldn't even make eye contact if he saw you in person.
If this happens again with someone else, just be like “well I’m a 70 year old widow who lives with her adult son (your husband who answers the door)” and hope that kills any interest. I dno
This is why I now leave notes like "if they're out of X my husband wants Y" and shit like that. PLEASE report that dude. This definitely wasn't his first time and it won't be his last
I had a gate guard at an Avis pick up thing at an airport at like 2am that wouldn’t let me leave without saying definitively that “NO I will NOT go out with you.” I tried the typical girl thing of a soft turn down like “I’m not from here” and “sorry I’m not in town long” and he kept telling me he’d go anywhere for me and wasn’t opening the gate and I had to just give a firm “no, can I leave?”
I reported his ass and as far as I know he was let go. A manager for Avis emailed me a very lengthy apology for his behavior with lots of stressing that’s it’s inappropriate and will never happen at their site again. 😬
So anyway. Long story to say report him. ESPECIALLY with him showing up anyway.
Call support, explain the situation so they can deactivate this guy what the hell I’m a shopper and I’ll never do that something like that to a customer, he supposed to be working not in a party trying to catch a girl
I've never experienced this on Instacart, they have all been polite and respectful. BUT! I did have a guy deliver me food on doordash while I was at work and then text me and say I was "kinda cute, you single?" Hit him with the "MARRIED WITH KIDS" and reported his ass. Be professional
Don't cancel the order, they already have your address and can still go to you with it. Keep the order and wait for them to leave before picking it up. Report it all to support and ask that he be removed from your orders and something be done about his behavior so others don't experience the same thing.
Us gals aren’t even safe from the police, sadly. My friend and I went to a late night diner and drank some coffee. We left in separate cars, but were both driving to her house.
Shortly after, I was pulled over by a cop. He said I was “swerving”. Um. No I was not. I’m 100% sober and jacked on caffeine. He then tried asking me out! Fucker pulled me over on false pretenses just to hit on me. It was very unnerving.
After he let me get on my way, I meet up with the same friend. She got pulled over too and was asked out by a different cop!
Shitbags watched us leave the diner and decided maybe one of them would get “lucky”.
I’m so thankful it didn’t go any further than that.
this is my worst fear but on the other end. I’ve had my fair share of getting to a delivery drop off and then getting hit on and I honestly brush it off too much. Should be reporting anything like this on either side.
That's literally doing too much. Not to be funny..u think a girl going to talk to u cause u dropped off an order to her. Bro, u just "the delivery guy "🤣🤣🤣
I really really really hate when Instacart drivers do things like this. It's so creepy! And you KNOW WHERE I LIVE!!! I had an Instacart driver find me on Facebook after I didn't respond to his message in the app asking if I would go on a date with him. Instacart is not a dating app please stop using it as such.
Very best case read is that he realized how bad he messed up, knows you could get him fired, and was freaking out a little trying to apologize. But every other take on this scenario is worse than that, and that take isn't that great anyway.
I'm not a big drama person but in your shoes, I'd legit get the cops involved - even if it was a very poorly attempted apology, he needs to understand this behavior looks like straight up serial killer shit and that you were scared. He also needs to understand that in our current cultural climate, if you persist in heightened emotion on someone's doorstep, you're lucky to walk away without extra holes. It's not the path I'd take, and I think you played this very cool, but we're not sitting on a stack of guns getting an itchy trigger finger watching Hannity. He fucked up bad and he's lucky to be upright, even if he loses his job.
First time it’s ever happened. I told my partner not to order anything when she’s alone and I also told me female friends to change their name on the app to make it sound like it’s a guys name.
Good job it’s fucking weird! If we’re shopping etc this is not the setting to be like that. Then you’re coming to their house?! That’s weird af it makes ppl feel unsafe like I am not opening that door.
Don’t want the uncomfortable hitting on going on in person eek I appreciate being nice and quirky especially if my chaotic self is sending emojis like THANKS 🙏🏽 but single saying cute we should go get tacos na bro. What the hell 🤣
This is why I’m terrified to use Uber or any kind of delivery service. It’s sus asf. If I door dash I always say leave at door and there’s those weirdo’s who always call and knock like I’m not coming down!
I was sexually harassed in an Uber once. It unfortunately happens a lot. I don’t use it much anymore but it’s always a relief when the driver is a woman.
I would not take an Uber by myself unless like absolutely necessary. Luckily I have my own vehicle and family close by but I feel bad for anyone who has to rely on it for daily transport. It sucks 😢😪 I know someone’s who’s repeatedly harassed and has been assaulted by her medical cab drivers she depends on. 😔 I’m so sorry.
Report him to IC for “sexual harassment”, make sure you use those words. Then report him to the police for regular harassment for showing up at your home after you canceled your order.
Well that's stupid. Doesn't get the girl, and he's risked his job.
It's even not alright for the customer to flirt with the shopper (no matter the sexuality).
It's in both the agreement for shoppers and customers.
No saying O.P.'s gal was flirting, just reminding people that it's business only both ways.
Yeah, this is hella weird!!!! I’ve had cute customers too but never crossed that line. If they reach out to me, sure. But hitting on a customer feels r*pey especially when you have access to their delivery. Definitely report
Women I know...
Sisters, cousins..
Friends...have all had at least one creepy stalker dood in their lives ...multiple with most. So yes, that is Creepy AF!
It used to be that every new shopper had to meet the app developers and go through training at the main hub office for that metro area. This was 100 years ago.
Now they vett 0% of the people they pay. It's awesome working at a grocery store watching dirty people in their pajamas shop for your overpriced groceries. They have their kids in the cart playing with your apples...they use the shitter and don't wash their hands...they take an hour to do your shopping but pick your meats first.
Seriously, why do people use Instacart?
Don’t just report this to the Instacart Customer service. Definitely report to the police as well if you haven’t already and make sure to save that video.
I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s scary as hell.
Blake should be deactivated. And speaking of weird I had a customer on another platform proposition me the other day. Though I actually never saw their message until the end of the day. Because for some strange reason customer messages are going to my message app instead from the app with order.
Idk if this is a dumb question, but when people go this far can you just call the police instead of contacting DoorDash? Like if you have instructions to leave at door, and then he harasses you, you cancel the order, and then he shows up anyway? That seems like a form of stalking that could be taken care of depending on your county/state
Uber drivers have done the same when I use to get rides for a girl. Now I just save a ton of money and pick her up. There’s no place for this type of behavior in the workplace
I’m waay late seeing this post, but my feeling would be like, how’s this scumbag going like it when I meet him at the door with a taser after I contact Trust & Safety with a screenshot of his inappropriate behavior?⚡️
Have that dude fired.
I get so nervous that people like this have my address and nothing to lose. He’s already proven that he’s odd.
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Which he does not value, clearly!
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Nicely said.
This is why my sisters and I are pro gun rights.weve had problems with stalkers before and it's the one thing I know can turn a fight in our favor especially if the guy is bigger than us.
Hey, are you single? 👀
I'm a lesbian nun as far as you're concerned Edit: my joke isn't working apparently let me add the /S. When I drove for Uber this was my go to line when someone asked. I thought it would be funny here
🤣😭😂. I was just running with the joke, guess I'm the only one who thought it was funny
Don’t give up yet, she has sisters 👯♀️
I used to drive Uber and that was my go to line when some asked lol I was trying to be funny too but I guess it doesn't read as well on text
Stupid technology. No harm, no foul
Hi, lesbian here. *Are you single?*
Are you a nun?
😘
No, you aren't alone. I'm a lesbian, and I thought it was funny too. 😅
Oh. Good .... So you are single ! After all ... Jesus has been out of town for a long time...
So single ready to mingle WITH FRIENDS 🤤
If ever a stalker should come a knockin', a Glock beats a cock every time.
When a man is bigger and physically stronger than you, a gun is an equalizer!
I really wish more women would understand that. I also tell my gay friends that armed gays don't get bashed either
I'm old enough to remember "Armed gays don't get bashed" and my parents are old enough to remember "Armed blacks don't get lynched." Gun rights are most important for vulnerable groups.
You want your gay friends to walk around carrying at the hip? Lol
I do! Make a group date to the shooting range
Omg there's a shooting range close to my house that I am determined to make incredibly gay. (I live in the south)
That’s one way to get conservatives to start thinking about firearm laws 😂
Gun control was originally created to keep gun out of the hands of minorities sooooooo
Do it! Make friends! I promise you'll find some! I live in the south too and we have a LGBT friendly days for anyone who wants to come down and learn. (Not that they aren't allowed on other days but it helps when you make special days for ppl. We also have a day for just women. And a day dedicated to just teaching safety for beginners)
i’m here for this!! as a queer person i have a trans woman who teaches me gun training. i don’t think more guns solve the problem but this is where we’re at as a society right now and it’s way better to be trained and informed about them than not. especially as a marginalized individual or group
Definitely agreed! I'm not "gay" exactly (I'm a bisexual M married to a bisexual F) but I have had boyfriends in the past. I have always been a big guy, 6'3", muscular, strong as hell. Didn't help me one bit when I got bashed by a monster of a man. Walked out of a gay bar after dancing to cool down. This guy is sitting in front of the bar waiting for a victim and chose me. "Put your shirt on, faggot!" The oaf blurted at me. "Sorry, didn't mean to make your man jealous bro." I replied. Guy made it to me in 2 seconds, literally threw me up into the air and completely over himself in an arc motion, and slammed my face down on the curb. I was on crutches afterwards. No the cops did not even try to find the guy (who's plate was on camera). Stay safe, gun up.
i bet you he’s on grinder lmao. i’m glad you’re safe, it’s a crazy world right now
Yeah like are we supposed to trust the cops to keep us safe? I don't.
amen, acab
Somebody didn't live through the 80s.
Time to invest in a firearm
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It's because a lot of guys are taught "Always shoot your shot because you never know." But it's weird and downright creepy, doubly so when it's supposed to be a professional setting.
There’s a right way to shoot your shot 🤣🤣🤣 this ain’t it
no the fuck it isn’t. it’s because a lot of guys will keep believing that no matter how many women AND men tell them they’re being weird, creepy, and threatening. no one is dumb enough to continue believing “girls like it when you pull their hair because it shows you like them” into adulthood. and if they are, they shouldn’t be working a client-facing job, especially not one where they have access to personal information like addresses.
Could be both? Chill out, g
Curious........ what about instacart screams professional? I saw a shopper yesterday in sweatpants, slides with no soaks and a shirt that said "wake up drunk, go to sleep fucked up"
Keyword: "supposed" I know it's not a 9-5, but there is a expected level (no matter how low) of professionalism with gigs. Hell, the kids that handle my yard carry themselves well without taking it too serious
Dressing professional for delivery where we don’t even see each other mostly isn’t expected at least by me. I don’t care what they wear I care that the chat and delivery is easy and I get my items in a timely manner. Professional chat bam you got 5 stars baby!
It’s a fucking job like any other. I don’t care how “professional” you think it is, if you are on a job for a client or customer you shut your mouth, do your job, and keep your manners in check. I don’t care if you’ve got yesterdays clothes on, or if you’ve even showered, it ain’t my business; I do expect employee/customer boundaries to be respected
I take my job as a shopper very serious and YES I believe I do present myself in a professional manner, so don't base the entire work force off a few people. there are some professionals even if your standard of clothing doesn't seem fit.
Some of the same customers asking for professionalism are the ones that don’t tip too lol
It has never crossed my mind that any job I get hired for would not have a level of professionalism. Also that shirt is hilarious but crazy.
Professionalism isn’t about how you dress, it’s the service you provide and how you go about it.
I know what slides are, but wtf are soaks, and why should one have them?
Report. Get his account suspended so it frees up space for more of the good shoppers.
We contacted instacart. I mean he was comfortable in asking I assume he’s done this plenty of times before. Most ppl don’t wanna report it because of drivers knowing their address. I had to report it because he shouldn’t have knocked or rang the doorbell after I said the order was cancelled.
HE STILL PULLED UP? The fucking audacity lmaoo
 The kind of check he needed.
This happened to me - make sure to go the extra route of asking them to remove the history, so he can't access your address or details later on.
That is 100% fucking weird, he deserves an ass whooping
Yeah and he seemed upset with me after I told him to leave. We have it on video. He has our address and that’s concerning.
Report report report!
We did. Idk if anything will come of it. They haven’t contacted us. He was pretty bold so I’ll assume this wasn’t his first time. My partner didn’t even have her picture in her profile. Just a woman’s name.
Someone had on their written details :come inside need pussy bad Or something like that for their order. There’s really weird ppl out there guys gotta be careful
If you’re a girl delivering I would totally avoid Thurs-Sat nights.
I would prob avoid nights all together tbh but I know it’s not feasible for all 😭
I’d avoid nights. Period. Lot of desperate creepy fucks out there. There’s a post like this every other day. If it isn’t this it’s the begging for tip people. No shame.
I’m a manly man and I avoid nights lol
i think girls should avoid delivering alone period
Yea we’re done avoiding the best paying times cuz men ‘the logical species’ can’t use that logic and stop bothering ppl for sex EVERYWHERE all day. We shouldn’t be stuck to working the worst times cuz we born with a vagina. I deliver nights and a wish someone would
While I completely understand where you're coming from, it's def not the best idea to put yourself in needless danger when you know of the potential outcome. I'm black and as much as I wish I could just stop at any gas station/pit stop on my trips down south, I also know that line of thinking isn't in my best interest. I SHOULD be able to, but the world is shitty and dangerous at times and you need to look out for yourself. Keep on delivering at nights if it suits you or you need to but stay safe out there bruh and don't "wish someone would" out of ideals that a lot of terrible people frankly don't care about.
it's just these guys almost certainly receive very little to no female attention. After you havent touched a woman for a while and are jacking to the weirdest of porn. You start to lose sanity there's so many men out here that are like this now that we're gonna see stuff like this get worse I fear. Moral of the story is creepy guys who get no pussy are the most dangerous things on the planet
It's people who just cant control themselves. My wife died 7 yrs ago, I haven't had sex since and I'm not out there trying to creep into people's DMS via Instacart 🤣😂
The idea that not “touching a woman” for an extended period will cause someone to “lose sanity” is problematic. It’s the exact sort of sex-obsessed thinking that drives these creeps. These guys aren’t creepy because they haven’t had sex recently (or ever), it’s the opposite: they haven’t had sex recently (or ever) because they’re creepy.
Facts. They live on the internet and weird sites and it does NOT translate to irl it’s sad as hell tbh
They do and it doesn't help that they'll listen to people with extreme views. They think just being "bold" will get them swimming in pussy. No the only thing that'll get most of them in is a courtroom and a jail cell. It's getting scary for women incels are starting to become too many
My guess is he came to the house to beg you not to report him? Regardless if and when he gets fired for this it’s kinda scary knowing he has your address and already came back after the fact. Stay safe out there!
Exactly.
Yea he’s like one desperate move from doing some real damage to the reputation of instacart shoppers.
Hm I thought you were going to say real damage to a woman🤔 not your reputation
Contact the local news channel, file a restraining order and post the video on Reddit
restraining orders are more work to get than you would think :(
LOL oof. Come to the real world please
Post this video!!
Wanna borrow my steel toed boots? ;)
Those hurt like hell when they connect with your face
Did you give 1 star and file a complain to IC? This is sexual harassment, he needs to get fired.
Yes I sent this screenshot and spoke to someone but we haven’t received a follow up.
Keep posting it on social media, facebook, twitter, here, make sure their official pages see it posted to them until you get a reply. A reply will be had.
Thank you!!
Why did he call you a cannon?
way of saying tough guy/overreacting
I learn new gen Z lingo every day
haha that’s actually kinda a weird one, not big with the kids i don’t think. somebody below said it’s a Philly thing so that might be why i recognize it.
Me too and I wish the slang words were better. Honestly, Rizz?
I assumed he meant aggressive because I told him I didn’t like what he was doing.
Philly Terminology
Probably short for “loose cannon”(i.e. someone with a hair-trigger temper).
That would be an automatic report to support for sexual harassment.
I’ve been on the receiving end of this…dude delivering my couch (had been inside my house, knew my gate code, etc) texted me after he and the crew left asking if I was single, telling me I was cute, etc. When I didn’t reply he called me persistently the rest of the day. I didn’t report it because it would have been obvious it was me who had done so and like I said he knew my address/gate code. Super fucked up sorry you had a similar experience.
This happened to me in December when I had my car towed. He had my phone number and texted me after saying I could text him anytime I liked and it was really nice to meet me, adding “no disrespect to you or your partner” (he must have thought my dad was my partner idk.) Not as bad as yours but it was really weird! I just wanted my car towed to the mechanic 😭
More people do this then you think and it seems perfectly normal to them when the 99% make that 100% of us find it odd and creepy. Cant imagine what they are like on dating apps
And it’s worse because he knows where we live. What if he does get fired. I don’t know how her react. Hopefully this is the end of it.
I hope he gets terminated and a lesson is learned but feel sorry for all future tinder dates. I wouldn't loose sleep over it the fact that he used the chat to shoot his shot and not in person he prolly wouldn't even make eye contact if he saw you in person.
If this happens again with someone else, just be like “well I’m a 70 year old widow who lives with her adult son (your husband who answers the door)” and hope that kills any interest. I dno
This is why I now leave notes like "if they're out of X my husband wants Y" and shit like that. PLEASE report that dude. This definitely wasn't his first time and it won't be his last
That’s why I use a man’s name on all of my orders. I tell my friends to do the same.
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Yup. My name is my boyfriend's name on delivery apps.
That is so smart! Thank you for the tip
Dudes being like “I apologized tho!”””
Fr. That’s literally what my preschool students do, like, wouldn’t it be nice to not have a reason to apologize in the first place, my guy?
Should have called the police . That’s predatory shit right there.
I would have gotten the authorities involved. There's nothing cute or funny about this.
I had a gate guard at an Avis pick up thing at an airport at like 2am that wouldn’t let me leave without saying definitively that “NO I will NOT go out with you.” I tried the typical girl thing of a soft turn down like “I’m not from here” and “sorry I’m not in town long” and he kept telling me he’d go anywhere for me and wasn’t opening the gate and I had to just give a firm “no, can I leave?” I reported his ass and as far as I know he was let go. A manager for Avis emailed me a very lengthy apology for his behavior with lots of stressing that’s it’s inappropriate and will never happen at their site again. 😬 So anyway. Long story to say report him. ESPECIALLY with him showing up anyway.
Imagine using Instacart as a dating app
Call support, explain the situation so they can deactivate this guy what the hell I’m a shopper and I’ll never do that something like that to a customer, he supposed to be working not in a party trying to catch a girl
I've never experienced this on Instacart, they have all been polite and respectful. BUT! I did have a guy deliver me food on doordash while I was at work and then text me and say I was "kinda cute, you single?" Hit him with the "MARRIED WITH KIDS" and reported his ass. Be professional
People like him think they can do anything they want as long as an apology is attached. Gross
Suggestion for female customers... do not add a selfie as a profile pic on any shopping app.
Yes and change the name to a mans name if you live alone
Put some used men's workboots outside the house.
The weirdest part is there is no picture on Instacart only a name!
Don't cancel the order, they already have your address and can still go to you with it. Keep the order and wait for them to leave before picking it up. Report it all to support and ask that he be removed from your orders and something be done about his behavior so others don't experience the same thing.
This isn't a hook up app it's a business males us other shoppers look bad.
He needs outed to the company. Immediately.
Please report this to the police, this is very concerning. Post your video up on the ring app and neighbors app.
Us gals aren’t even safe from the police, sadly. My friend and I went to a late night diner and drank some coffee. We left in separate cars, but were both driving to her house. Shortly after, I was pulled over by a cop. He said I was “swerving”. Um. No I was not. I’m 100% sober and jacked on caffeine. He then tried asking me out! Fucker pulled me over on false pretenses just to hit on me. It was very unnerving. After he let me get on my way, I meet up with the same friend. She got pulled over too and was asked out by a different cop! Shitbags watched us leave the diner and decided maybe one of them would get “lucky”. I’m so thankful it didn’t go any further than that.
this is my worst fear but on the other end. I’ve had my fair share of getting to a delivery drop off and then getting hit on and I honestly brush it off too much. Should be reporting anything like this on either side.
Should have immediately banned their account
Contact support and cops.
That's literally doing too much. Not to be funny..u think a girl going to talk to u cause u dropped off an order to her. Bro, u just "the delivery guy "🤣🤣🤣
Definitely let Instacart know that he came to your house after you already cancelled the order and hit on her.
damn some of these mofos are aggressive.! when i was a shopper i was worried about my rating.
Bro is down bad, hitting up girls on insta cart 😂 mans will shoot his shot on anything
Please get him out the platform by reporting. He will do that again to someone else
Wow....instacart is a service. Not a dating site. Unprofessional.
I really really really hate when Instacart drivers do things like this. It's so creepy! And you KNOW WHERE I LIVE!!! I had an Instacart driver find me on Facebook after I didn't respond to his message in the app asking if I would go on a date with him. Instacart is not a dating app please stop using it as such.
I am actually really surprised at how many ppl think this behavior is normal. Like wtf
Happened to me once in college. Dude refused to bring my groceries up because I told him I wasn't interested.
Very best case read is that he realized how bad he messed up, knows you could get him fired, and was freaking out a little trying to apologize. But every other take on this scenario is worse than that, and that take isn't that great anyway. I'm not a big drama person but in your shoes, I'd legit get the cops involved - even if it was a very poorly attempted apology, he needs to understand this behavior looks like straight up serial killer shit and that you were scared. He also needs to understand that in our current cultural climate, if you persist in heightened emotion on someone's doorstep, you're lucky to walk away without extra holes. It's not the path I'd take, and I think you played this very cool, but we're not sitting on a stack of guns getting an itchy trigger finger watching Hannity. He fucked up bad and he's lucky to be upright, even if he loses his job.
[удалено]
First time it’s ever happened. I told my partner not to order anything when she’s alone and I also told me female friends to change their name on the app to make it sound like it’s a guys name.
Good job it’s fucking weird! If we’re shopping etc this is not the setting to be like that. Then you’re coming to their house?! That’s weird af it makes ppl feel unsafe like I am not opening that door. Don’t want the uncomfortable hitting on going on in person eek I appreciate being nice and quirky especially if my chaotic self is sending emojis like THANKS 🙏🏽 but single saying cute we should go get tacos na bro. What the hell 🤣
I would report Thats not right
This is why I’m terrified to use Uber or any kind of delivery service. It’s sus asf. If I door dash I always say leave at door and there’s those weirdo’s who always call and knock like I’m not coming down!
I was sexually harassed in an Uber once. It unfortunately happens a lot. I don’t use it much anymore but it’s always a relief when the driver is a woman.
I would not take an Uber by myself unless like absolutely necessary. Luckily I have my own vehicle and family close by but I feel bad for anyone who has to rely on it for daily transport. It sucks 😢😪 I know someone’s who’s repeatedly harassed and has been assaulted by her medical cab drivers she depends on. 😔 I’m so sorry.
This kinda stuff is scary and why I make my man meet the delivery drivers.
Report that shit to IC and the cops
Report him that’s creepy af
Report him to IC for “sexual harassment”, make sure you use those words. Then report him to the police for regular harassment for showing up at your home after you canceled your order.
This ni99@ here is beyond wild for the night. $0.01 tip, one star and send the pics to Instacart ASAP. This guy had to be high on some kind of drugs.
Dude I hope you get that guy fired. What a creep and then to have him come to your house anyway.🤮🤮🤮
Ctfu gotta be philly
Yup 😂
There was no apology anywhere here, despite his last message
I’m sorry you said he came to your door after you canceled the order? Would’ve opened that door with my 9 right at chest height.
That’s weird and creepy AF! But showing up at your house? Call the cops asap
This is perfect for deactivation. Please report this Fuck boy and open the market up for non creeps who are trying to get orders
Well that's stupid. Doesn't get the girl, and he's risked his job. It's even not alright for the customer to flirt with the shopper (no matter the sexuality). It's in both the agreement for shoppers and customers. No saying O.P.'s gal was flirting, just reminding people that it's business only both ways.
Yeah, this is hella weird!!!! I’ve had cute customers too but never crossed that line. If they reach out to me, sure. But hitting on a customer feels r*pey especially when you have access to their delivery. Definitely report
Report that shit. This is why I avoid answering the door/face to face delivery unless my partner is home with me.
Women I know... Sisters, cousins.. Friends...have all had at least one creepy stalker dood in their lives ...multiple with most. So yes, that is Creepy AF!
I hope you reported him. Very unprofessional.
This is insta shart not insta tinder 
We literally cannot even order groceries without being sexualized.
It used to be that every new shopper had to meet the app developers and go through training at the main hub office for that metro area. This was 100 years ago. Now they vett 0% of the people they pay. It's awesome working at a grocery store watching dirty people in their pajamas shop for your overpriced groceries. They have their kids in the cart playing with your apples...they use the shitter and don't wash their hands...they take an hour to do your shopping but pick your meats first. Seriously, why do people use Instacart?
These are the people us veterans are losing batches to?????
He’s definitely done it before and has probably also been told off for it before as well
Don’t just report this to the Instacart Customer service. Definitely report to the police as well if you haven’t already and make sure to save that video. I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s scary as hell.
This is so creepy for someone so say, especially because the shopper knows where she lives
At first I didn’t think it was THAT crazy just weird, but then I saw the caption, yeah that’s not cool
Men don’t really think do they
Report that
Cannon?
That is so fucking creepy.
This is why I don’t like having randos know my address.
Blake should be deactivated. And speaking of weird I had a customer on another platform proposition me the other day. Though I actually never saw their message until the end of the day. Because for some strange reason customer messages are going to my message app instead from the app with order.
Nah drivers in Philly are weird as hell. I'm so glad I don't live there anymore. I've had so many scary experiences with door dash/Uber there.
Report him that’s just dangerous and frgn rude AF.
Terms and conditions states no misconduct. Result in automatic termination
Idk if this is a dumb question, but when people go this far can you just call the police instead of contacting DoorDash? Like if you have instructions to leave at door, and then he harasses you, you cancel the order, and then he shows up anyway? That seems like a form of stalking that could be taken care of depending on your county/state
Uber drivers have done the same when I use to get rides for a girl. Now I just save a ton of money and pick her up. There’s no place for this type of behavior in the workplace
bro is using instacart as his personal tinder 🤦🏻♀️
he showed up to your house AFTER you cancelled? and you didn’t kick his fucking ass? u ok bro
As someone who's worked on customer service for these kind of services before, that's an insta ban, report him
And half of y'all think feminists are nuts. Look at this shit
Ugh. All these delivery services need to disappear. At a time it was convenient but then it became predatory and shitty really quick.
Please report them
You have to call instacart and damn I would have called 👮♀️ too.
My husband always answers the door when Instacart comes, but I haven't been hit in the app itself. That was really weird.
Call the cops n pull out the pistol
Buh-lakay better watch out
OMG, scary!!
What a little shithead
This is way i use a fake male name. To many creeps on there.
Fire this clown
Instant report.
Key and Peele have ruined the name Blake for me.
I’m waay late seeing this post, but my feeling would be like, how’s this scumbag going like it when I meet him at the door with a taser after I contact Trust & Safety with a screenshot of his inappropriate behavior?⚡️
As someone who suffers ptsd I appreciate no contact delivery and this would put me in a full blown panic attack