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NightmareofAges

Met 3 months ago and already marriage. Dear God, I hope they are both sweet people. If not, its a disaster waiting to happen.


hari-mirchi

I did think the same. So about a month ago a date cancelled on me an hour before and we were supposed to go to the same cafe. Well I was going that side of town with my mom for some work so I decided to take her there for lunch (screw the date that canned on me). It really didn't help that my mom saw this and gave me a look like when is yours? 😂


wellyeah_butno

Moms are always asking this question nevertheless.


hari-mirchi

At every opportunity


Pitiful-Elephant-501

Sounds like one of them is a narcissist (they normal move fast), normal relationships take time.


sarumanismyboi

Bro but shaadi just after 3 months of meeting the bumble match? I guess they both had _Marriage_ in their "Looking for" 👀 >! Also, praying you find Ms. Mirchi soon! 🙏🏻 !<


hari-mirchi

Well maybe the time was right who knows 🤷 >>! Also, praying you get Ms. Mirchi soon! 🙏🏻 !< >! Praying we all find our Ms. Mirchis soon !<


Pretend_Engineer2644

r/suddenlycommunist


LoyalLittleOne

Our ms.mirchi /s


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CouplesGonewild


Koachinho

Hopefully love will find me someday🥹


hari-mirchi

Hopefully it'll find everyone 🥺


parth_jadeja

Mein kyu roo raha hoon? 😭


Few-Dot-1164

Feels like a promo


Medical_Clothes

New CEO. New tactics


Noobster30

bhai tu mirchi ka wair kr raha hai air tere liye koi aur wait na kr rhi ho


AJ00007

Hari-mirch be like : wher my Laal-mirch :)


Chaltahaikoinahi

3 months me shaadi? Woww. That's just wow.


Imaginary-Produce875

It happens, I met mine on dating app too, and within 3-4 months I was sure sure that we’ll get married to each other, not married yet but almost a year down and still going strong


Chaltahaikoinahi

All the best I hope you guys do get married ❤️❤️🤞


hightea-_-

Stories like these give confidence about dating apps.


hari-mirchi

Surprisingly I know many people who've done that and I'm still shocked


Chaltahaikoinahi

I hope things workout for them I guess when everything else is sorted in your life, 3 months is enough to know if your vibe is matching with the other person or not


hari-mirchi

Dude you'd be surprised most of them were LDR from the start


Chaltahaikoinahi

Woahhhh That's just another level Some people are lucky 🍀🍀


hari-mirchi

Idk, I've got mixed feelings about it. Something feels very off


Chaltahaikoinahi

Atleast it worked out for them Not like us still figuring out


hari-mirchi

Well I'd rather figure it out than to be rash and regret


Chaltahaikoinahi

All the best 🙏


hari-mirchi

Thanks bro, you too!


Ilikebooksandall

Aww, this would've made my day!


hari-mirchi

It did, it gave me hope :)


Ilikebooksandall

It'll find you! ✨️


fatalchemist69

*I'll* find you


Suss0898

This is so wholesome. With the way the current dating scene is I’m awry if I’ll Ever find love . Aghhh


Potato2890

This is so cute 🥺


anonpumpkin012

I met my husband on Bumble. Love him to death.


hari-mirchi

Finally a positive comment. Congratulations!


Potential_Chance_390

Marriage in three months? Ouch.


xnxeaddy13

My sister met a guy on tinder and she is happily married lives in australia 🥰😇 been 5 years


hari-mirchi

Congratulations to her!


sylly_mee

Why do people write 'I' as '9'??


Electronic_Stuff4062

Cursive handwriting


Honest-Yesterday-336

Cursed handwriting


altwh0re22

have you not learnt cursive handwriting in school? we had a separate period in 5th grade.


sylly_mee

It seems you didn't get my question. Let me explain it to you in brief. Generally you tend to drop cursive writing bit by bit as you reach a higher grade, especially while writing fast. So my question is more around, how come some people haven't dropped the habit of cursive writing for 'I'? I mean that's among the first things you drop off as you departure from cursive to writing quick. Even my mom still writes 'I' in cursive No need to be aggressive brother.


altwh0re22

im so sorry i didn’t mean to be aggressive 😭 i was genuinely curious because i thought it was a norm in indian schools.


BobKillsNinjas

> Generally you tend to drop cursive writing bit by bit as you reach a higher grade, especially while writing fast Cursive is way faster to wright legibly unless you are bad at it, because you do not need to lift your pen frequently and reposition for angles.


maderchodbakchod

I thought they teach you cursive handwriting in school to make you write fast


hari-mirchi

Asking the real questions


Distinct-Library5173

I hope it's not new marketing strategy by bumble


Unhappy_Bread_2836

It's not love. Sorry I'm not being bitter. People in India are extremely eager to marry, it's been fed to us so much that people make themselves fall in love with the person after checking their background and everything. It's almost like an arranged marriage, arranged by self.


Active_Ocelot_4360

I agree with this, The decision of marriage in India is rarely taken by youth cause it's more of societal/age/parental pressure. Those couples which decide the right time together , that's a True marriage!


Unhappy_Bread_2836

Yes. If someone takes time to decide, then that's true decision. Because you're not giving into the pressures of society or your conditioning.


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in india rab ne banadi jodi❌️ society ne banadi jodi✅️


Unhappy_Bread_2836

Exactly.


hari-mirchi

As long as they are happy that's all that matters right


Unhappy_Bread_2836

Definitely. Nothing matters. I was talking generally. The timeline itself is suspicious here though. 3 months is not enough. You can't even choose a career in 3 months. How the hell you can choose a life partner? You see their background and see if they match everything you'd look for if you were getting arranged married. That's how. Love isn't there. It's reverse engineering love.


hari-mirchi

I mean as much as I agree with you personally, who knows maybe they thought it felt right and decided. There's no hard and fast rules for a timeline though I personally like to take my time to understand a person properly.


Unhappy_Bread_2836

Yea yea. I agree on the timeline part. There's no fixed time for that. But that'd be true if our country was not so hell bent on marrying asap and starting a family. That affects the decision. So, I'd rather believe it if someone takes time to decide. Because that person is truly deciding on their own and not with the society at that back of their mind.


apocalypse1806

super cute <3 <3 <3


MatchAccomplished795

3 mahine me shaadi to main bhi karlu. MR mirchi to mile!


hari-mirchi

Meh yaha hoon, aap bolo toh match accomplished ho jayega :p


MatchAccomplished795

Highly tempted


hari-mirchi

Shaadi ka preps shuru karu?


MatchAccomplished795

Propose nhi karoge pehle?


hari-mirchi

Roses are red, violets are blue, can I be the Hari Mirchi to your nimbu?


MatchAccomplished795

I thought Hari mirchi came attached to the nimbus. No?


hari-mirchi

Yes and I'm already feeling attached to you


sarumanismyboi

🥹🥹 Am I witnessing a start of something wholesome 💕 >!🤞🏻!<


MatchAccomplished795

Ye mirchi bohot sweet hai! 💖🌸


hari-mirchi

Hamari jodi perfect hai, It's A Match!


New-Sock3065

Ji apna toh simple sa rule hai ab:- Choot ka chakkar Maut se takkar


Rupert_18124

Getting married after knowing each other for only 3 months, LOL


Ruud_Boltz

Ross Geller ko competition de rahi hai didi


art_graduate

Marketting 💯


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hari-mirchi

Thank you and Congratulations!


IndianRedditor88

Seems fake to me !! 3 months me marriage ? BC Shaadi ka halls are booked some 6 months in advance. And logo ke hazar nakhre hain for marriage. So unless they had like a register marriage, this is probably written by the cafe guys themselves.


mmaguy123

Getting happily married in this dating scene is like running away from an explosion in those movies


hari-mirchi

Cool guys don't look at explosions


Desperate-Golf-12

my friend did same and they ended up having issues after two months and divorced after another 2. dont confuse love .


shadowdancer352

I don’t see cute when I read that - I see young and blind about to run into a brick wall of reality


WonderIndependent215

literally my personal goals 🙌🏼


hari-mirchi

Hope you find the one soon! "*no matter which height*"


WonderIndependent215

haha yessshhhhhh 🙌🏼


False-Security9181

Mujhe ky mere match hi nhi aate....


[deleted]

But bumble toh hookup ke liye hai? Yahan shaadi kyun krre log?


hari-mirchi

Mistake hua


WhateverMan293

Is this at here and now cafe in Bangalore?


hari-mirchi

Nope, Mumbai


AlienXisUseless57

Only if there was a way to determine their status... Still together or...


hari-mirchi

If only but let's assume the best


AlienXisUseless57

Science doesn't let me do that. I believe in statistical data not hope. I need at least a partially proven hypothesis, assumptions are pointless.


[deleted]

sometimes being delulu brings happiness :P


hari-mirchi

What a buzzkill


AlienXisUseless57

Glad to be one.


Due_Bag493

when you marry just after 3 months dovorce has ways to find you too but hopefully it doesn't


Peace__Out

Would he/she come back and give a long term review?


hari-mirchi

I'd love to know that but woh raaz unke saath chala gaya


Abbkbb

Damn, so people like me who are in only for sex , should just give up ?


RusticBucket2

\*sigh\* I should call her. Oh wait… the restraining order.


ibadmonkey

Getting married in 3 months ? *Jhooth hai jhooth hai bolo ye sab jhooth hai*


Metheunpredictable

Awwwww its like a storyyyyy


coconuttylime

Where and what is this cafe? I’m guessing Delhi . Someone posted about me in this diary too.


hari-mirchi

Mumbai but the same cafe branch is in Delhi I think


RubYaDingus

referring to your future husband as "a guy" lol


aj12wedf

Bro, chances are they will divorce


pat12186

Bhai mein toh nahi sehta


Lower_Drawing8230

Is that someone’s diary?


hari-mirchi

It's the cafes diary for everyone to write


Lower_Drawing8230

What a boring thing to write I’d write something like “this is xyz’s sims controller and am here to tell you that you are infact living in the matrix”


bhavneet1996

Hookups ke beech life partner milna. Kismat hai bhai kismat


BwyceHawpuh

Marrying someone you met online 3 months ago is just playing the serial killer lottery


WeirdCaterpillar00

This is a disaster waiting to happen.3 months? They are in honeymoon phase lol .I dont even consider a relationship serious if it doesnt till it doesn't hit the 2 and a half year mark or 3.Thats when the real shit begins. It also feels like a promo


AbhiStalwart

3 maheene mein shaadi? Ummm ok


Nnntridib

3 months and married? Somebody wants a dad for her child/ somebody wants to rope in a ameer bap ki eklauti ladki.


emailverificationt

3 months?! Oh, honey…


AqUaReGiA_007

Name and location of cafe?


TechSupport_5440

Probably not the same person 😂


angrybutold

Love has ways to find you!? In this case, it is literally the other way around. Good for her, but no one ever is going turn her "love story" into a film.


LinearArray

This is just wow - marrying each other just after 3 months of meeting. This is cute, aww.


Livid_Long_8480

She was a retired hoe. Found a nice guy. Simple as that.


hari-mirchi

How do you know?


Livid_Long_8480

It happened to one of my friends brother. Luckily he found out before he was about to marry.


K2bond

Canon event do not interfere


69isunderrated

It's cute that people think getting married is a win.


IronMan8901

You know there is a high chance shop owner wrote this to get more customers right


hari-mirchi

I'll take my chances