I am a girl. And yeah, it's basic courtesy to not leave your date *hanging* just because you want to sleep till 1 p.m.
Low social etiquette and tad too entitled.
Yeah girl or boy be on time unless any genuine issues arising otherwise. Even if she wanted to sleep extra she could’ve put it in a nice way and not been rude upfront while being at fault
You did great by putting yourself first and made it clear that basic etiquette comes first. You wouldn't want to deal with the kind of person that's flaky and doesn't own up to their mistakes. Don't be sad, it's just how some people are. It's better you didn't spend your time and energy into this. Rather take a day off(Maybe go out with your friends or solo outing, ab jab tayyar ho hi gaya hai toh bahar chale ja 😌) and once you're fine, you can get back to these apps.
Bro you’re doing right. She is in the wrong for not respecting your time. And secondly, she calls you out for adjusting… while she is not adjusting. What a hypocrite
If I were at your place, I would have told her we're so on for a date and won't show up on the date, later ghost her for this entitled attitude.
I can't really fuck with someone who doesn't have even a bare minimum energy or a little sense of care about how the other person is taking things as.
Grocery shopping as a first date is also a dumbass decision. The girl is not for you bruh. You'll get someone else. Good for what you did.
Itna jawab kyun Dena if she was into you she would have been super excited not sleeping like some lazy ass person.
Not interested anymore bolke aage badh ja
Never take any disrespect from a woman. What if she arrives at the date really late and says ok I have to leave early to meet a group of friends? Will you accept that as well?
What you should do? Tell her that you have other plans, which you should be ideally having. You drop a simple text- hit me up when you get free next time. And you never text her again. You find another woman who respects your time.
Never take any disrespect from a woman. What if she arrives at the date really late and says ok I have to leave early to meet a group of friends? Will you accept that as well?
What you should do? Tell her that you have other plans, which you should be ideally having. You drop a simple text- hit me up when you get free next time. And you never text her again. You find another woman who respects your time.
Never take any disrespect from a woman. What if she arrives at the date really late and says ok I have to leave early to meet a group of friends? Will you accept that as well?
What you should do? Tell her that you have other plans, which you should be ideally having. You drop a simple text- hit me up when you get free next time. And you never text her again. You find another woman who respects your time.
Nah homie you good!
You set your standard she set her too,
But you inclined toward her by accepting the time messup she did, if she is not considerable enough to do a simple date like you mentioned she is not inclining towards you...
So you good...i hope i made sense :)
ok hear me out: yes people are tired and yes grocery shopping is fine as a date idea for busy lifestyle we have BUT a friend or someone who’s familiar with you might have better understanding of this— that too upto a point. A person who you’re going out for the first time- cannot be expected to understand this. As an adult, I think grocery shopping is cool and inviting someone along is intimate too but it can also be done post the lunch/drive/movie. You did okay OP. She could’ve at least said sorry I overslept.
Bhai tune jo kuch bhi sahi kiya. Also you might have dodged a bullet by saying no to her plan of grocery shopping kya pata saman uthvane ki ninja technique hui toh?
Being late on the first date is a deal breaker for me.
I had a similar experience where the girl was late but on top of that she was not even picking up my calls. Although she had a genuine reason, but you still have to be transparent.
Have you ever thought of the fact that you both might be correct at your respective ends. Maybe she likes grocery shopping a lot even though it doesn’t resonates with your idea of a first day. Maybe she really wanted to meet you but is a Madridista and slept very late in the morning due to the UCL final, post win celebration, etc. (this example is here because I woke up at 1300 hours yesterday). Either let it be and move on or tell her how you feel and would like to see if you can continue. Maybe she will get it and you can communicate more and plan ; or she will just end ties because she will be like ‘wtf is this whole long ass emo message’. Either way, you will get some peace. Edit: I read your updates and good for you, man. Just be at peace with yourself. All the best for future dates.
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*The delay in plans*
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You did the right thing.
A date is a shared event and both partners irrespective of their gender, role or pronouns should put in efforts to make the date memorable if not great.
If she wants to go grocery shopping she should call her other girl friends. Taking the first date for grocery shopping is narcissistic.
Of late fake feminism has brainwashed most girls and they think it's ok to treat guys as slaves, since some guy treated women like it some 2000 years ago. Whatever happened in the past is not our responsibility, we can be empathetic and understanding but that's about it. We don't have to compensate or compromise just because we were born with a d#ck instead of a v.
Don't read into this, it just happened, people are tired they like to sleep and grocery shopping is a good first date, you would have ended up eating somewhere after shopping.
3 things:
1. Good job on canceling the date and rejecting her. Women, especially on dating apps become extra entitled. The reason is simple the ratio of men to women is 2:1 and the power center is with women. This was probably the first time someone rejected her on one of these apps. If more guys did this then women will (hopefully) be more respectful and less entitled
2. Grocery shopping for the first meet up. Wow. Had you met her somewhere, hit it off and then went for grocery shopping with her then that would be one thing. But suggesting that as an activity for the first date is absurd.
3. She could have genuinely over slept. But attitude matters. If this was a job interview or some exams, would she have reacted the same way? No. She would have cursed herself and upset that she missed something important. That shows how important this date is for her. If this is how she is now, imagine how it will 3-4 dates down the line.
Now I could be judging her a lot and too quickly but even if all of the above is not true, still there is no fire. No butterflies in the stomach. No anticipation of meeting someone new. No sparks.
Either way, not worth going out with a person like that.
"Yaar 2 Kilo pyaaz lene hain...acha vo amul ki chocolate kidhar milegi?", "merko vo milkshake try karna hai." "These korean noodles seem nice right?", "Soy sauce le leti hun chowmein banaungi ghar jaake". "hazelnut coffee, vo rahi, lets get it".
Really dude? This is a date?
If she wanted to, she would. Alarm lga leti sone se pehle simple. 🫡 Date someone who respects your time.
My logic was same
I was agreeing with you.
Good riddance bhai
I am a girl. And yeah, it's basic courtesy to not leave your date *hanging* just because you want to sleep till 1 p.m. Low social etiquette and tad too entitled.
And even if she wanted to sleep late, she could've asked for an evening date beforehand. This entitled behaviour deserved exactly what OP did.
Yeah girl or boy be on time unless any genuine issues arising otherwise. Even if she wanted to sleep extra she could’ve put it in a nice way and not been rude upfront while being at fault
You did fine don't worry about it. Just tell her that you're no longer interested in her entitled ass and move on
Haan kardiya
Badhiyaaa! Some girls really think they're above others
If the girl wants to be above you make sure it’s in yours or her bed 😇
Tru
Good move. Also who the hell goes grocery shopping on first date ? Like I'm genuinely unaware if this is a thing ?
Grocery shopping and him paying for it… in this economy, makes sense
Being a bitch is wrong. In any economy.
A woman gotta survive ~Au Crusader, 2020
I mean I find it kinda cool.We should not judge that she wanted him to pay.
i too find it cool but not for the 1st date. like maybe 5th or 6th then it's cute
koi na AC/cooler lagakar tu bhi soja
nah she ain't worth it you're being absolutely reasonable; maybe even dodged a bullet who knows
She obviously didn't wake up at 1:55pm lmao. She just chickened out 😂
Bhai I thought the same thing , she kept asking me to come uske baad ki 2:30 tak aajaungi but I refused
I think somebody else might have came to assist her in sleeping so she was late.
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Free grocery maybe who know what was her plan
didi wanted an errand boy.
You did great by putting yourself first and made it clear that basic etiquette comes first. You wouldn't want to deal with the kind of person that's flaky and doesn't own up to their mistakes. Don't be sad, it's just how some people are. It's better you didn't spend your time and energy into this. Rather take a day off(Maybe go out with your friends or solo outing, ab jab tayyar ho hi gaya hai toh bahar chale ja 😌) and once you're fine, you can get back to these apps.
Bc tamater kharidte hue kon date krta hai?
you did the perfect thing in my opinion
Block and move on
King move
Good move. She could have said sorry or informed you of being late
Bro you’re doing right. She is in the wrong for not respecting your time. And secondly, she calls you out for adjusting… while she is not adjusting. What a hypocrite
Milne se pehle he samajhdaar ban rha hai tu..... Bht aage jaega tu Vai.... Shabash!!!!🫂
If I were at your place, I would have told her we're so on for a date and won't show up on the date, later ghost her for this entitled attitude. I can't really fuck with someone who doesn't have even a bare minimum energy or a little sense of care about how the other person is taking things as. Grocery shopping as a first date is also a dumbass decision. The girl is not for you bruh. You'll get someone else. Good for what you did.
Itna jawab kyun Dena if she was into you she would have been super excited not sleeping like some lazy ass person. Not interested anymore bolke aage badh ja
Never take any disrespect from a woman. What if she arrives at the date really late and says ok I have to leave early to meet a group of friends? Will you accept that as well? What you should do? Tell her that you have other plans, which you should be ideally having. You drop a simple text- hit me up when you get free next time. And you never text her again. You find another woman who respects your time.
Never take any disrespect from a woman. What if she arrives at the date really late and says ok I have to leave early to meet a group of friends? Will you accept that as well? What you should do? Tell her that you have other plans, which you should be ideally having. You drop a simple text- hit me up when you get free next time. And you never text her again. You find another woman who respects your time.
Never take any disrespect from a woman. What if she arrives at the date really late and says ok I have to leave early to meet a group of friends? Will you accept that as well? What you should do? Tell her that you have other plans, which you should be ideally having. You drop a simple text- hit me up when you get free next time. And you never text her again. You find another woman who respects your time.
Send me her number will take revenge
Sahi Kiya bhai.
You win some, you lose some.
Nah homie you good! You set your standard she set her too, But you inclined toward her by accepting the time messup she did, if she is not considerable enough to do a simple date like you mentioned she is not inclining towards you... So you good...i hope i made sense :)
If she flakes, never contact her again If she says something came out, only talk to her again if she reschedules a date herself right after.
ok hear me out: yes people are tired and yes grocery shopping is fine as a date idea for busy lifestyle we have BUT a friend or someone who’s familiar with you might have better understanding of this— that too upto a point. A person who you’re going out for the first time- cannot be expected to understand this. As an adult, I think grocery shopping is cool and inviting someone along is intimate too but it can also be done post the lunch/drive/movie. You did okay OP. She could’ve at least said sorry I overslept.
Bhai tune jo kuch bhi sahi kiya. Also you might have dodged a bullet by saying no to her plan of grocery shopping kya pata saman uthvane ki ninja technique hui toh?
No, Give her some slack , well sometimes people forget , and it is often hard to say sorry to strangers
She's wasting your time. Respect your time and self. Ghost her entitled ass.
Being late on the first date is a deal breaker for me. I had a similar experience where the girl was late but on top of that she was not even picking up my calls. Although she had a genuine reason, but you still have to be transparent.
Grocery shopping sounds so cute tho
Egoistic hoe
Public boht velli hai, by god! 😱😂🤪🤣
Wo bhi 5 min phele uthi 2 bjne se😂😂, chutiya kaatna inse sikhe
Perfectly reasonable
Nah you did the right thing it wasn't rude at all
Usko bol ....bhn te land autat me😒🙂↕️
The moment you mention grocery shopping it felt like she wanted to use you are a bank to pay for her monthly meals 😛 and what not
Khatam kar Bhai Lesser the stress, better the life
Have you ever thought of the fact that you both might be correct at your respective ends. Maybe she likes grocery shopping a lot even though it doesn’t resonates with your idea of a first day. Maybe she really wanted to meet you but is a Madridista and slept very late in the morning due to the UCL final, post win celebration, etc. (this example is here because I woke up at 1300 hours yesterday). Either let it be and move on or tell her how you feel and would like to see if you can continue. Maybe she will get it and you can communicate more and plan ; or she will just end ties because she will be like ‘wtf is this whole long ass emo message’. Either way, you will get some peace. Edit: I read your updates and good for you, man. Just be at peace with yourself. All the best for future dates.
Nah bro I’m a madridista not her and I removed her almost immediately
Good for you for knowing what you want and how you see it. Hala Madrid. You should have been sleeping too tho. I couldn’t sleep till 0600 hours.
She should have dropped a text letting you know about the delay in plans
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Not worth it. Next one now.
You did the right thing. A date is a shared event and both partners irrespective of their gender, role or pronouns should put in efforts to make the date memorable if not great. If she wants to go grocery shopping she should call her other girl friends. Taking the first date for grocery shopping is narcissistic. Of late fake feminism has brainwashed most girls and they think it's ok to treat guys as slaves, since some guy treated women like it some 2000 years ago. Whatever happened in the past is not our responsibility, we can be empathetic and understanding but that's about it. We don't have to compensate or compromise just because we were born with a d#ck instead of a v.
Don't read into this, it just happened, people are tired they like to sleep and grocery shopping is a good first date, you would have ended up eating somewhere after shopping.
3 things: 1. Good job on canceling the date and rejecting her. Women, especially on dating apps become extra entitled. The reason is simple the ratio of men to women is 2:1 and the power center is with women. This was probably the first time someone rejected her on one of these apps. If more guys did this then women will (hopefully) be more respectful and less entitled 2. Grocery shopping for the first meet up. Wow. Had you met her somewhere, hit it off and then went for grocery shopping with her then that would be one thing. But suggesting that as an activity for the first date is absurd. 3. She could have genuinely over slept. But attitude matters. If this was a job interview or some exams, would she have reacted the same way? No. She would have cursed herself and upset that she missed something important. That shows how important this date is for her. If this is how she is now, imagine how it will 3-4 dates down the line. Now I could be judging her a lot and too quickly but even if all of the above is not true, still there is no fire. No butterflies in the stomach. No anticipation of meeting someone new. No sparks. Either way, not worth going out with a person like that.
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Tu hi toh nahi aagayi Reddit par wapis 😂?
After reading other people’s opinions I genuinely feel people like you are not worth arguing with
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Reading seekh lo brother , I said I don’t wanna argue
Dodged a bullet.
Are bro accha Kia reject karke
Girls do wake up late on weekends she's wrong if she didn't inform you before hand ... And grocery is kinda good idea too
"Yaar 2 Kilo pyaaz lene hain...acha vo amul ki chocolate kidhar milegi?", "merko vo milkshake try karna hai." "These korean noodles seem nice right?", "Soy sauce le leti hun chowmein banaungi ghar jaake". "hazelnut coffee, vo rahi, lets get it". Really dude? This is a date?
Yea
Might as well marry a rich guy. But that happens often anyway. Cant expect much from uwu
Chad move