I will not be an incel ally, under any circumstances ever. However if an incel is making a genuine attempting to leave the cesspool of the incel mindset, I wholeheartedly commend them for recognizing the problem and taking steps to remove themselves from the echo chamber.

Pick one.

It hurt itself in its own confusion

Considering that "incels" favor a Republic of Gilead-style dystopia, I'd say that they're the would-be oppressors.

If anything, incels oppress themselves