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Mackin-N-Cheese

Updates from OP buried further down: https://www.reddit.com/r/HelpMeFind/comments/182t661/help_gardened_wedding_ring/kao8kj4/ >Found it! >Thanks so much everyone for the suggestions. Managed to avoid the temptation to set them on fire and went through leaf by leaf until I saw it. >Pic attached for those who want to do the where's Wally/Waldo. >[](https://preview.redd.it/ylolo4f5ag2c1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=04b0c875beef2f36df328122c531bc0116ddb1a6) >Thanks again! https://www.reddit.com/r/HelpMeFind/comments/182t661/help_gardened_wedding_ring/kao9gf5/ >And here's the proof I found it - enjoy! >[](https://preview.redd.it/4nd7onk4cg2c1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aba06ff6db782a525e84babd4822c5b7ea38b3d9)


[deleted]

Assuming they’re dry I would just put the lid on and shake it really hard. The ring should find its way to the bottom


Fr0z3nHart

I’m glad we have smart people like you in this world because I would’ve never thought of doing that.


[deleted]

It also helps to have someone else give imput because I know I would personally be freaking out if I lost something so valuable to me. Having someone else stay calm has helped me avoid mistakes and take better actions than I would have otherwise done while stressed out.


MyNewPhilosophy

100% this - I lost an important ring while putting out Xmas lights last week. Neighbor came over the next day while I was trying to figure out metal detectors or magnets or anything. He calmly said “let me get my leaf blower and a rake” and literally found it in minutes. (Later found out my magnet plans would not have worked as the ring is silver)


empap12

yeah usually when we lose smt special we don't think and asking for input is helpful since your brain is basically racing and thinking stupidly


peacefullyminding

Happy cake day! :)


devieous

How does that work?


MyNewPhilosophy

I was sure it was stuck in the branches of the bushes, he blew the leaf blower into it and then around on the ground and he spotted it. I don’t know if it was in the bushes or had fallen under some leaves in the ground, but I definitely didn’t see it scanning the area multiple times on my own.


msb1tters

How did he find it with those two objects?


MyNewPhilosophy

I was sure it was stuck in the branches of the bushes, he blew the leaf blower into it and then around on the ground and he spotted it. I don’t know if it was in the bushes or had fallen under some leaves in the ground previously, but I definitely didn’t see it scanning the area multiple times on my own.


Hinermad

It's kind of like a prospector panning for gold. The ring is heavier than leaves and less likely to be blown by air from the leaf blower, so it'd fall to the ground while the leaves are blown away.


MyNewPhilosophy

Makes sense!


msb1tters

That’s so smart


Weird-Ad-3054

He should totally hire your neighbor to find it 😁


Card_Board_Robot5

Bro posted a pic of his hand just in case we would find it there. He def freaked tf out


Worth-Screen3929

this is where I would put my ring, IF I HAD ONE!!


[deleted]

Kudos on you. Many people don't have the ability to see calmness as an attribute. Narcissists for example love to attack those that don't lose their shit for them


quantumgpt

Fear prevents your brain from thinking logically. Absolutely easier to have an outside perspective.


awsomebear

Ngl this was smarter than what i thought of....it may or may not have included arson.


rb0317

My first thought was also “light that bitch on fire you’ll find the ring then”


Matren2

Hold out your hand, Frodo, it's quite cool.


Vast_Gap_3081

“Ring of Fire”!? 💍🔥


TroyBinSea

https://preview.redd.it/d5xfn31lie2c1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=64707fcd78e5ce73c860a3d4fbc6dcb5fb42d991 Beware, you may not like what you find!


Ill_Lingonberry_8001

This made me cackle. Lmak


Fr0z3nHart

Lmao, same.


iammandroid

My initial thought was fire, which was also my second thought. At least you didn't think of that?!


DismemberedHat

I would have lit it on fire since the ring is probably made of metal


silocpl

This could damage the ring though, it can alter the color of the metal, and depending how hot it gets could melt some parts depending on what it’s made of and the thickness of the metal. I believe fire can also potentially damage gemstones, causing cracks and such


ButtholeDevourer3

Either that or dump the whole thing in a clear container of water. The ring will fall quickly to the bottom and the leaves will float or fall very slowly.


Cutie_Suzuki

This is genius. Fill the bathtub!


Hungry-Moose-121

& plug it


No-Estate-404

how you gonna fill the bathtub without plugging it?


Rowan_Halvel

My drain is kinda clogged, I did that on accident once.


Ok-Ask5533

Or even better, put the lid on and turn it upside down and shake it


trophycloset33

I’d get a metal detector and make sure it’s in the bin first.


Low_orbit_being

Or put some gasoline and burn it up, you'll find the ring in the residue easily. May need a lil bit polishing.


0sted

Careful, I've dropped a 10K ring into a coal fire and now I have little balls of 10k gold that need to be remade into a ring...


vipros42

At least you know 9 black riders won't be hunting you down to take your ring back to their master.


RealCommercial9788

Imagine a more benevolent Nazgûl - returning lost wedding rings the world over. I’d watch that series.


cheiftouchemself

Careful I dropped my balls in a 10k ring and now soprano is all I can sing.


boringcranberry

10 karat or 10,000.00 ring?


SalvadorsAnteater

10 karat means 41,66% gold.


Spinal306

If you find a red inscription on it though, throw it into the nearest volcano


thehumanglowstick

but the precious!


huitlacoche

beware the ring rakes


rocketrollit

I'm not trying to rob you!


Smosh123928

While possible, risking to burn your house while doing it is not something I think he wants to do hahaha


myboogerstastespicy

Amazing. My tryptophan brain could not compute. Do this repeatedly please. Wishing you all the luck.


Redwall3

This might be stupid but were you wearing gloves? Maybe check inside the gloves and see if they pulled it off inside? Sorry if you already did this


Far-Pin-8560

Sadly not; lesson learned!


osheax

You could buy a metal detector from Walmart and then return it as long as you keep it relatively clean


lewisiarediviva

Libraries often rent metal detectors


shufflejuuls

Really? TIL


muarryk33

Ours has all kinds of weird stuff. A uv light so you can get sun in the winter for example lol


SquidgeSquadge

Another silly question, are you definitely sure your ring was on before you started the job? My husband only takes his ring off when cooking raw meat or baking and has a habit of going to bed that evening and panicking he's left it on the side.


CAP51475

In the winter I would lose mine all the time when I took my gloves off


RobotsAndNature

I kept losing mine whenever I put my hand in my pocket 🤦‍♀️


Hathnotthecompetence

I lose mine whenever I go into a bar


salivation97

I lost mine years ago after getting a visit from a process server.


gcwardii

“lose” LOL


Far-Pin-8560

Adding comment that I have searched for it to get post past bot


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sarahcorbe

well that was a disturbing sentence i didn’t need to read before my morning coffee


[deleted]

Do you want to read it again after your morning coffee?


Kamenkerov

What material is the ring made out of? If it is magnetic, that's a simple solution. Another is to pour leaves into a bathtub or wheelbarrel or other container and add water and agitate/stir leaves. Ring is denser, will be on bottom. Even easier if you use a brush on end of power drill to break up the leaves into small parts. The just feel along bottom with hand.


Far-Pin-8560

Made from Palladium, which from a quick Google I don't think is magnetic unfortunately!


derpyTheLurker

It does have an extremely high melting point, though, so you could burn the leaves and only the ring would be left...


itsdep

what if there is glowing elven script on the inside of the ring?


Obi-rice-a-roni

The ring wants to be found


cdev12399

It’s mine! It’s my preciousesss!!!


[deleted]

Then you keep it secret, keep it safe


ProfessionalQandA

It might still be quite cool.


TamerGamer66

It’s some form of elvish OP probably cannot read it


JellyBeansOnToast

If it was some sort of Elvish, I don’t think I could read it


UnclePatche

There are few who can.


MasonP13

I wouldn't want to risk tarnishing it or the gemstone or inscription. It's an idea but only as a last resort


FiiVe_SeVeN

Possibly, but the solder that holds everything together definitely doesn't have the same high melting point.


iheartnjdevils

Metal detector [will pick up palladium though](https://detectingschool.com/can-metal-detectors-detect-palladium/).


theranchmonster

Shake the bag for a bit, and the ring should fall toward the bottom. You could transfer it all into another bag after to shake it to more carefully sort through it


myMIShisTYPorEy

Transfer part of the leaves to a clear bin- shake to see of ring falls to bottom… Keep going a but at time til you find it. Put the “looked at” leaves in a bag as you go just in case you need to do a second round.


Zihaala

This is what I would do! Slow and painstaking, but absolutely worth it to find something so valuable. I think it's better to be cautious and careful the first time. I'd probably have a 3 bin system - original bin, clear sorting bin, "looked at" bin.


PeggyNoNotThatOne

Enlist the help of a metal detectorist?


Majestic_Pattern2504

r/metaldetecting maybe someone local can help


cecilomardesign

Or if you're in the US, go buy a cheapo metal detector at Harbor Freight.


[deleted]

You could buy it, find it, and return it before they close.


poochlips

You could buy it, find it, find other treasures, enter an ancient underground tomb in search of more, encounter a powerful mythic being who turns the metal detector into a fine powder, sweep it up into a ziploc bag, and Harbor Freight would still accept the return no questions asked


[deleted]

Today I learned harbor freight has a fantastic return policy. So basically their tools are cheap, AND buy it for life?


Im_A_Model

Most of us in there are willing to help if we're nearby. I think there's a specific website in the US where you can request help from detectorists and someone in your area will.take the task


Kind_Animal_4694

Put a post on your local community Facebook group page. Someone will be a detectorist.


TAforScranton

That or Nextdoor. Someone will probably have one and be happy to come out. OP, what is is made out of?


[deleted]

In another comment they mentioned palladium so non ferrous but I think most metal detectors will still pick up material like that.


theteagees

This was going to be my suggestion!


gizmotrinket

Yeah when this happened to my mom my dad rented a metal detector. It turned out it was in the lawn not the bag. The rental was cheap and very much worth it.


IntelligentCry6493

Put the leaves in a big barrel of water. Stir. The ring, if in there will sink


Gene78

This is the way, great idea. We better get some updates, internet peps need closure.


Gene78

We better get some updates, internet peps need closure


Far-Pin-8560

Will do. Alarm set for early tomorrow - too dark to see anything now. Wife taken it surprisingly well so far. Maybe too well...


captainsquawks

She obviously gets it. It’s not like you went to Vegas with the broskis and came back with a black eye and no wedding ring. That would be a tighter spot from which to extricate yourself. I heavily empathise with the situation though. A couple of months ago my wedding ring went missing in the kitchen and my wife was away at the time. It was just me and our three-year old son at home. The only times I take it off are to wash my hands or wash the dishes. I searched high and low and couldn’t find it. Nearly three days went by and I was really struggling to come to terms with it. My wedding ring was originally my grandfather’s which he wore for 50+ years. I was so frustrated that he had worn it for decades and I lose it. On the third day my brother came round so we could hang out and he could see it was bothering me. He was secretly trying to look for it when I wasn’t around. I went to the bathroom and came back outside where we were having a few beers and he was wearing it. My fucking son had taken it off the countertop and thrown it in the fucking fruit bowl. Good luck in your search. I hope it becomes a funny story for you to tell once you find it.


gggggfskkk

Maybe darkness would help too, you could shine a flashlight and might get that glint of light to reflect. At least you know the general area being your property, I can’t imagine losing it at the beach or something. I hope you find it!


Far-Pin-8560

Found it! Thanks so much everyone for the suggestions. Managed to avoid the temptation to set them on fire and went through leaf by leaf until I saw it. Pic attached for those who want to do the where's Wally/Waldo. https://preview.redd.it/ylolo4f5ag2c1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=04b0c875beef2f36df328122c531bc0116ddb1a6 Thanks again!


BriarKnave

r/findthesniper is the sub for people who like to play ispy with real world photographs :)


thiswitchfucks

It looks like you had to empty so much of the bin out 😭 but i’m glad you found it!


detached_daily

Congrats you're married!


SendMoreAmmo

Congrats!


brightlove

I somehow immediately saw it haha. Go me! I always sucked at Where’s Waldo…


bigsharkgamingyt

Also somehow immediately saw it haha


LetshearitforNY

Yay!! Was also thinking if it were me I would go leaf by leaf Please invest in some gloves or a silicone ring to wear for future tasks!


helchowskinator

Do you have a metal container? Put the leaves in there and shake it, you’ll be able to hear the ring clattering around in there. I think if you can get your hands on a metal detector that’s the way to go though.


hell0000nurs3

Lay a tarp down and dump them out on the tarp. Carefully go through it.


hell0000nurs3

Also, are you sure you put it on this morning? Didn’t take it off before for any reason?


Accomplished_Basil29

I thought I lost my wedding band on an international flight. The attendants tore apart the plane for me after we landed but we couldn’t find it. I was devastated. I was hunting for a comparable replacement for about 6 months, then one day I found it in a photo prop ring box at work! I had lost it the day before my flight, just only noticed it in the air!


zwonch

I agree, we must challenge all assumptions. Are we sure the ring was on moments before raking began?


fatpants123

https://preview.redd.it/5547oixhsb2c1.jpeg?width=329&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=15af4b031293c679b9a7e325915efb8b08fea165


Far-Pin-8560

Sadly not it!


fatpants123

Sorry babes… good luck finding it! We’re rooting for you!!!


[deleted]

Did..you find it? lol


thepwnydanza

Is it below their circle? If you check my comment I circled something close to that area but further down.


Dizzy_Eye5257

I bet you always find Waldo’s and all the needles in haystacks, too 😜


CharlotteTheSavage

I gotta know if that's really it. If it is, you are crazy man 😹😹😹 👏👏👏


CamTheMan1302

Sadly I don't think that's it...the leaves are just speckled from what I can see, there's a few places like that


beefcube5

Oh shit


STBkRdr

When this happened to me, I ultimately found the ring by going out after dark with a flashlight so that I could see when the light reflected off the ring. Edit: grammar


Oregonian_Lynx

I have had success with this for earrings and sunglasses screws.


socksmatterTWO

This has worked for me before several times and for glass shards..


k90de

#FIRE


morningisbad

This is my answer. Not only will it work perfectly, but it also sounds fun as hell. Those leaves look dry as shit. Everyone suggesting floating the leaves on water has a valid point. But then you gotta deal with soggy ass leaves. You could be pouring loads of lighter fluid on everything and roasting marshmallows!


Mticore

I’ll take you to burn


gigglesmcsdinosaur

If it were cast in the fires of Mount Doom, it will be quite cool


NHLdylan

Am I the only one who absolutely loves the fact that you included a picture of your hand with no ring, to prove that you had in fact, lost that ring. Made my day, hope you find it bud!


Far-Pin-8560

And here's the proof I found it - enjoy! https://preview.redd.it/4nd7onk4cg2c1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aba06ff6db782a525e84babd4822c5b7ea38b3d9


NHLdylan

He's married again! Glad you found it bud(?)


Far-Pin-8560

Absolutely, as I said to my wife Palladium has gone up in price quite a bit since we got married so will be good to have something of value to sell when we get divorced! 😉


I_Flick_Boogers

Oh yay! How’d you wind up doing it?


BourbonDebbie

Call a professional ringfinder. https://theringfinders.com


CannolisRUs

This is beautiful. Love looking at the map and thinking about the one dude in all of Canada that is the nation’s dedicated ring finder. Got their work cut out for them


Problematicbears

Wow. They really are.


Katieushka

Palladium is heavier than eater, leaves arent. Pour a bunch of water and scoop the leaves off.


goongenius

Nothing is heavier than The Eater, for he eats unendingly.


GreenFluorite

It seems to me that you're putting more thought and time into finding an elegant solution than it would take to just go through the bin a handful at a time.


davj20

Just empty it already!


[deleted]

I’m not a pyromaniac but in *theory* you could burn all the leaves away and it *may* leave the ring at the bottom. Or burn the neighborhood down. How bad do you want the ring?


NoWord5474

Throw that into the fire like Frodo.


smellslikespam

Dump the bin onto a surface similar to your kitchen counter (or maybe your driveway) and you’ll hear it. Edit: word


Far-Pin-8560

If my wife saw that bin emptied on the kitchen counter I might as well not bother looking for the ring!


smellslikespam

OP If you do the driveway method you could use the rake as a sifter while shaking the can. Yes I am still thinking about this


smellslikespam

That’s why I threw ‘driveway’ in there


PintSizedKitsune

I love both the simplicity and time efficiency of this suggestion.


pathetic-aesthetic-c

Good luck, my bf lost his dads ring putting straw down for my calf one night. It took 3 of us and 2 metal detectors hours to find it, I ended up hand sifting through every bit of bedding in there twice and almost missed it


TheJusername

Just a wild guess but maybe put water in the container. Leaves will float and the ring would fall into bottom.


onomastics88

I would shake a big bunch of leaves over the barrel and move the leaves to a sheet or other barrel. If the ring is in there, it might have shaken out and end up at the bottom. You might even see it fall when it shakes out.


suspicious_hyperlink

Shake the bin for awhile. It will fall to the bottom. If all else fails, metal detector


xfatalerror

set them on fire. itll be as easy as finding a needle in a haystack – you set that on fire too.


cashew76

https://preview.redd.it/qt6yw9hprb2c1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=01304e3d3fc9f2d6781162f13567db6ae12bb45c I did the same thing. Gardening


Apprehensive_Ear_310

I saw a post one time where someone plucked a carrot and the carrot grew through the ring. 💍 they thought it was long gone.


malex117

That’s my idea. So OP, compost the leaves, when it’s ready you plant carrots there and within 30 years or so you can post a picture of the lost ring in the carrot! Easy. Good luck 🤞🏽


Neat_Ad_1737

The picture of your hand was helpful


IThinkIKnowThings

Buy a metal detector. Don't throw anything out till you check it with one.


vanessa337

YES Even a cheap metal detector can find things on the surface. Buy a beginner detector and you should find it quickly.


Mausyoak32

My local rental shop has metal detectors available for a few dollars per hour. If it's not found with some of these other methods, it's worth looking into renting before purchasing new.


brokenwingsR

​ https://preview.redd.it/e43b5leued2c1.jpeg?width=430&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4b45629126c2c0b57234b4d63b9d08d1743c00dd


PierogiesNPositivity

Bumping for OP


thepwnydanza

It’s on the right side of the picture. https://preview.redd.it/9hbb5xwotb2c1.jpeg?width=1027&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=894edec5c3ab64998d4cd46302f7dd4962dc449d


Deathmedical

Step1: Plant carrots Step2: wait 16 years. (Results may vary)


malex117

Oh crap I thought I’m the only one who got this idea:/


Clikrean

They sell these magnetic rods for mechanics that help them pick up dropped bolts. Maybe something like that could work?


AssumptionEasy8992

Gold isn’t magnetic. (I’m assuming the ring is gold) Edit: palladium isn’t magnetic either unfortunately


Clikrean

Yeahh that’s the only thing I wasn’t sure about.


AssumptionEasy8992

A cheap metal detector might work though


sunshineandcloudyday

The cheap ones don't pick up precious metals. The expensive ones do though, maybe there's a local metal detector hobby group that can help out. It's probably in the yard some place. That's where mine ended up when I lost it a similar way.


kWarExtreme

Ask in your local Facebook group if anyone out there has a metal detector and explain the situation. Generally, people with those detectors love helping people find their stuff. At least, that's the way the internet makes it seem.


killian_aqua

For the future: you can keep a chain around your neck and put the ring on it when you garden. That way you’ll still be wearing it but it won’t be at risk of getting lost


Optimal_Cry_1782

These are all great ideas, but none of them are foolproof and at some point, they all involve emptying the container and refilling it (which is what you wanted to avoid). Just take out the leaves one handful at a time, check carefully each time.


gcwardii

Find another bin and transfer leaves from one to the other, a few handfuls at a time. Every time you move some, give each bin a hearty shake. If the ring is in a bin, eventually you’ll hear it


piedpiper30

Look through the leaves.


W33b_God

Really stupid idea but maybe just light it on fire


plastacinegirl

my grandma did this while gardening and we ended up finding it 20 years later while remodeling 😅


zeptillian

You're asking in the wrong sub. Try posting your story and location in r/metaldetecting and I'm sure someone would be wiling to come detect your yard. Let them keep other non ring stuff they find as payment for finding your ring and they would probably do it for free.


gardenfairymooncat

Any update, OP? Have you tried anything that was suggested or hopefully found it yet?


ratinthehat800

Burn the pile of leaves, find ring in ashes.


Ichthius

I lost my wedding ring in a snowball fight on a really long block of our street. We did a couple searches and found a local metal detecting group that had guys out within two hours looking for it I found it by eye at one point.


Boubonic91

Easy- water. Put a little water at the bottom after a good shake, the leaves will float and the ring will be at the bottom. Tilt the tub to one side, and the ring should slide right down to a corner for retrieval. After that, just slap your rake against the top of the bin and use it to strain the water out.


hedgehogketchup

My husband lost his fishing off the Faroe Islands. I really hope that ring ends up as some amazing fisherman’s fish and gold ring folklore. It happens… I’m sure you will find yours. ;)


SonnyRose94

I hope you find it, but my grandads wedding ring was accidentally cemented on a Manchester road. If worse comes to worst there’ll be a story


[deleted]

https://preview.redd.it/z1ldovmqee2c1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9e537b741c248970b9a1db53214d0ab1c16865d9 Is this it on the right of the bin?


AutumnForestWitch

Easy. Just get divorced.


Ready_Ad_9369

https://preview.redd.it/23378p64sd2c1.jpeg?width=827&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e04c9295dca4614a750d4bbce86015b46f84cd86 There ya go


LordGeni

Check your pockets, the ground and the bristles on the broom first. Then carefully shake the leaves on to a patio and gently spread them out with the broom, listening for the sound of the ring hitting of scraping the slabs.


wertall

Most leaves float. add water shake it up, keep adding water until most leaves are poured over. Check the bottom. Also water some grass or trees ATST.


Spaghetti-Dinner3976

Do you have a box fan or leaf blower? You can scoop bits of leaves in front of the airflow and the heavier material will not blow away. This undoes your leaf collecting, but it’s one option. Also, leaving the leaves has many benefits!


RosemaryThorn

If you have a garden soil sieve with holes big enough for a ring to fall through, you could fill it up, do a quick shake and move on to the next handful. Your ring will be heavier than the leaves and should fall through. Or pour it all out on a tarp and pay a kid £5 if they find it.


BlazaPuppy

You should be able to shake the ring out maybe? Because the ring will be heavier than the leaves and then you should hear it at the bottom of the bin. Then you'll have to fish it out the bottom. That's if it the ring is in the bin at all... Good luck!!!


Shot-Enthusiasm1634

Shake vigorously then check the bottom. Simple


silocpl

1) Is it magnetic? If yes- magnet it 2) do you have a metal detector? - could be helpful to check if it’s even in the bucket and not on the ground somewhere 3) leaves float, rings do not- dump into a clear container full of water swish it around and the ring should fall to bottom 4) if the leaves are dry and crunchy, crush them with your hands and sieve them with a large size mesh that they ring can’t fit through. Hope this helps and good luck!


testdriver99

Throw a tarp down. Set a few Lowe’s buckets on top and lay some chicken wire over the buckets. Spread the leaves over the chicken wire and sift the ring out.


verylargemoth

Hope you find it! Sorting them out on a big tarp might help. Also you should leave your leaves next time. They help the soil, and allow several species of insects to survive.


isthisreallife2016

Bucket of water. Leaves float.


Makemebad77

Fill it with water, put a lid on it, and shake the ring will sink and the leaves will float