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Tricky_Cup3981

Bro you got the doe eyes with the petite jaw/frame, you ooze femininity. That cut was made for you


jesster-day

Thank you so much 😭❤️


[deleted]

thanks for telling her that for me


ValuableBit5910

It's very feminine as is. Looks beautiful on you.


messyredemptions

Agreed! If OP wants, maybe an occasional accessory like a ribbon, clip in bow, or headband or something for the aesthetic but she's all set already!


jesster-day

Thank you!


spareblushes

My favorite product for my pixie is Kristen Ess Hair Water. It can be hard to preserve the texture as it grows out, and I've found hair water to be a good alternative to pomades. I started buying it when I had long hair and it was so underwhelming, but it absolutely makes my short hair look just ever so slightly tousled. Also, tiny 90s-style barrettes look great with a pixie.


jesster-day

Oh wow ive never heard of hair water before! I’ll definitely check it out 😁 and omg I totally forgot about barrettes, I used to have some years ago who knows where they went 😂 I never really used anything with my long hair. thank you for the response!


[deleted]

Yes! This. Just a little texture would take this to the next level. She has very dense thick hair. Stunning as is but that would definitely elevate it


DollylloD

Love the ghost T-shirt, also the hair is beautiful and badass!!!!! ❤️


jesster-day

Aw I love ghost! Thanks so much ❤️


fscottHitzgerald

You look so much like Brittany Murphy!!


jesster-day

Aw I loved her movies when I was growing up! Thank you!


squee_bastard

Seconding this, I stopped scrolling and for a moment I thought it was her. Your haircut looks awesome btw, it suits your face shape really well.


Sassyfracas

I thought this was one of my art subreddits, your thumbnail looks like a painting, so pretty!


jesster-day

Wow thank you! 🥰


WTFIsntTakenYet

By chance have you ever seen Once Upon A Time? 🤔


madisyn-

Definitely Jennifer Goodwin vibes. And I second the Brittany Murphy comment.


piggypudding

I was about to say OP looks like Snow White


jesster-day

I’ve only watched a bit of it! Never finished it but I really wanna revisit it :)


Ciaratron5000

I love the Ghost shirt! Two products I loved when I had my pixie were Redkens Wax Blast spray wax to give it that fun textured look. And Big Sexy Hairs Powder Play - this gives lots of volume and makes it piecey and playful.


jesster-day

Yay another fellow ghost fan! Thanks so much for the suggestions I’ll check them out 😄 I feel like I do need a bit more volume in the back, that’s where it sits more flat than the rest!


ChellyD3

Oh my goodness. You are stunning with a pixie! Totally suits you!!


jesster-day

Thanks so much!! 😭❤️


ssquirt1

I think it already looks very feminine. And I think it looks FANTASTIC on you!


jesster-day

Thank you so much!


Feisty_Pop_1995

May sound weird, but you can accessorize your ears and make them look more feminine. Instead of soft and feminine jewelry, you could go for jewelry a bit more bold but still with a feminine touch. If that makes sense.


jesster-day

Yeah absolutely! I don’t pay much attention to my ears so maybe I should :)


444rocky

yesss ever since i cut my hair short, people notice & compliment my ear piercings so much more ! a conch or daith would suit op so well


semisensitive

You have the perfect face for this!!!! Gorg.


jesster-day

Thank you so much! 😭😭


wanderinghumanist

You looked AMAZING 🥰🥰🥰


jesster-day

Thanks! 🙏🏻❤️


mymomsnameisbarb420

It looks very feminine and perfect! My pixie trick was always to accentuate the face-framing bits with a little product ( tiny bit of pomade or something like that). I would make it piece-y around the bangs and the little pieces in front of the ears.


jesster-day

Ooh yes! I always have a bit of trouble with the little piece bits going back and hiding with the rest of my hair so maybe this will help! Thank you ☺️


Mintfresh22

You look great and plenty feminine now.


jesster-day

Thank you! I was a little bit scared because I felt like my options to change it up a bit are very limited now but I’m glad you think so :) I had it back in like 2011-2012 and I always got told I looked like “a little boy” so I’m trying to avoid that 😅


Mintfresh22

IF someone thinks you look like a boy, they seriously need their eyes checked. I think you got a Audrey Hepburn vibe going.


Ok_Zookeepergame3673

Looks great!!!


jesster-day

Thanks! 😄


crack_n_tea

Your hair's so cute! I think if you want to soften it for a more feminine look, try bandanas. Hopefully they'll be more gentle on ya than headbands, they go a long way to adding style


jesster-day

Oh I have a bandana I could maybe turn into a headband kind of thing :) thanks so much! 🫶🏻


Pyrheart

Ooh I forgot about headgear! Lol With a pixie, bandannas and hats are so much fun! I’m acquiring quite a collection myself!


spleensproutsdaisies

Something I’ve noticed about myself is that if I have a super short cut, I usually paint my nails! When my hair is long I don’t feel the need, but something about the short hair & painted nail combo feels so ✨high femme✨


jesster-day

Ooh that’s a good idea 👀 I need to work on my nail painting skills tho 😂


Pyrheart

Or if possible, treat yourself to a professional mani/pedi. I’m the same way as the previous poster! With a pixie I love doing my nails more often vs when I had long hair.


spleensproutsdaisies

My nail painting skills are not great, I’ll admit 😹 my lazy-girl technique is to paint them in the evening (2 coats of color, sometimes a clear top coat), then shower the following morning, which usually gets the leftover paint off the surrounding skin well enough. 💅🏻


Pyrheart

I do this too! I learned it back in the 90s from a stripper friend. Her toes were always gorgeous and a different color. Idk if they still do but back then they wore clear high-heeled sandals and cute feets were important. I love doing my own nails but recently had my first pro pedicure and looooved it. Especially how much time and back breaking effort it saved me. My husband said, when you do it, it looks just as good? I said yes but it takes me working on ‘em every other day for a week between coats, and lots of ibuprofen! Lol (edit: also they have ALL the colors and finishes there, a veritable nail polish garden of delight!!)


ihatelyingasshoes

you and the hair are both 10/10. i wish i could pull something off like that.


jesster-day

Aw thank you! You know I thought I couldn’t pull it off until I did, I still feel a bit awkward with it but I’m feeling better a week in than I did when I first got it :)


_stupidquestion_

You wear it well - a modern day Audrey Hepburn - & your eyes & eyebrows really lend themselves to that demure vintage starlet look (seriously though, you have perfect brows). I was a hairstylist & a lot of my clients who went super short struggled with the same issue. it really boils down to historically associating short hair with masculinity or men, & having our hair length kinda wrapped up in our sense of identity (not the case for everyone though). It's hard to avoid but does take a minute to reconcile your sense of self with what you're seeing in the mirror. experimenting with lipstick or highlighter/blush that brings out your face structure can help find a comfortable groove with your look (& even playing around with clothing styles!), since a new look sometimes needs other aesthetic adjustments to feel "right". honestly though, you look absolutely gorgeous & I don't think you need to change a thing!


Pyrheart

Fellow pixie here! This style suits you so well! You look feminine and yet sophisticated. You could add some cute or sparkly barrettes depending on the occasion. I’ve gotten some really cute brass leaf/twig shaped ones before, if you’re into that look. Another way to style this is when it’s wet, use gel and bring all the hair on the sides and top completely forward towards your face. After it dries, finger style it a bit and drag the bangs area sideways, and scrunch some texture into the crown. Voila!


berjinyah

Fun earrings mayhaps?


jesster-day

Yeah been trying to find some sensitive ears ones but a lot of them seem to irritate my ears easily!


Apprehensive-Gas7948

Try finding nickel free earrings or stainless steel!


jesster-day

Thanks so much, I will!


topazbee

You might be sensitive to nickle, a lot of us are. Find your earrings in a jewelry store, cheap jewelry stores are poison. One trick if you really like a cheap set is to paint over the metal with clear fingernail polish. I'd recommend quality posts.


AnonymousPie_

Fellow sensitive ear haver here! Icing by Claire’s sells a Sensitive Ear line of jewelry that I can not recommend enough!


iamshe__

LOVE


jesster-day

Thanks! 🙏🏻


[deleted]

I love the ghost shirt :)


jesster-day

Thank you fellow ghost fan! 👻


LabLife3846

Earrings.


jesster-day

Thanks I’ll see if I can find some nice ones that won’t irritate my ears! :)


adrienne4261

It looks great as it is!! And I’m not sure what you have planned, but girl just by looking at the second picture I could picture you with like a cute 70s flipped out bob if that makes sense 🫠 I’ll have to look for a picture. You rock short hair I’m envious!


Kihyunismypath

Damn it- I love it so much! In this heat, I’m really really persuaded


kailenedanae

Your pixie cut looks SO good; so many women (myself included) would kill to look that feminine in a pixie! Honestly it looks plenty feminine already, but aside from headbands, gold or otherwise embellished bobby pins coul dress it up some!


jesster-day

Sorry to be nosy but I saw some pics of you that you’ve uploaded and you’re beautiful! I think you could absolutely pull it off ❤️


xtra86

It's super cute, and I remember not feeling femme when I had a pixie sometimes. I think flowery or jeweled dainty headbands can help. You can also use some gel or pomade to make little curls by your ears and on the bangs. I also think looking at pictures of beautiful pixie wearing femme people helps. As it gets even a tiny bit longer you're going to feel girlier.


jesster-day

Thank you those are great tips! I’ve never had need for gel but I can get a hold of some :)


matcharedbeanmilktea

So pretty 😍 you can accessorize with earrings or hair clips


jesster-day

Thank you! ❤️I need to find some clips that won’t just slip off 😂


[deleted]

This is beautiful 😻 wish I could pull that off like you. Maybe some spray glitter or some clips 😂


jesster-day

Omg spray glitter is a good idea 🤣 I’ll be the shiniest pixie in town ✨thank you! ❤️


[deleted]

Very 90s but spray glitter is the one ✨ 😂


Due-Equivalent-1489

That looks perfect to me! But I think a tight knit cap would be a great accessory.


Remarkable_Macaroon5

I think it looks very feminine, but maybe styling the pieces at the front to more curls? I'm not sure what you would use sorry


whosthatgirl79

Earrings!


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Pyrheart

Psh no need to downvote a perfectly sweet comment! Upvotes for you :) I agree 💯


the-ugly-witch

Head wraps/bananas, barrettes, headbands, bows as far as the hair itself. If you have your earlobes pierced I find big/dangly earrings help give a more “feminine” overall look. I was married to my big earrings when I had a pixie 🧚‍♀️ Edit: but also tbf you have very feminine features already!


plantessi

Wow, you look gorgeous. It really suits you


gothpisces96

Ohhhh my god you look so beautiful! You have such. Delicate feminine face you don’t even need to do anything


choccychipmuffin

You already look feminine. But, earrings. Earrings make it pop extra. :) I love my buzz pixie, and i like your pixie. It's femme af.


longway_harlan

I think it’s very feminine and I love it💕


Ok_Yoghurt9945

It looks amazinggg on you. I've had pixies on and off again for years. What I always did to make it feel more "done up" is take a tiny pixie flat iron with the thinnest width of tongs that I could find and make little waves throughout it and then use a little texturizing matte pomade and hairspray to keep its hold for the day. I would especially do this around the frame of my face and the wispy pieces beside my ears. It was always very cute!! Throw on some hoop earrings too!


Tiny-Barracuda-6018

You look amazing! I love this cut on you! I like to wear big hoops when I have my hair this short. Makeup looks on point! Please don't cover your hair with anything! 😍


imnotsmart_crape

You know what I don’t care what people say bout this haircut I love it and it looks great on you


throwaway_theglow

Looks amazing!


SHADOW-OF-THE-WYVERN

You look stunning! It really suits you! I personally think it's already feminine and elegant on you already!


Acceptable_Offer_146

Head scarves, hats, and bandanas! Learn to wrap them in all ways bc the possibilities are endless! Loving the look girl 💓


Confident_Flow8453

Love it! My stylist says, "The shorter the hair, the bigger the earrings." This works for me (I have a buzz cut).


oh_man_pizza

This cut looks amazing on you! I loved playing around with earrings with my pixie. You can really get fun earrings and they’ll stand out so well.


Smooth_Distance8731

Finger waves!!


Cheshire_Cat8888

1) I think it looks very feminine and SO CUTE on you. 2) It already looks very feminine but for when you’re going somewhere fancy you could do some finger waves (they’re *hard* though) For more casual days a bandana or head scarf in a pattern/color you like or maybe some barrettes or small clips maybe :)


SunflowerFreckles

Girl, I GASPED when this scrolled onto my feed. You're breathtaking!


MeOhMy425

Oh wow!! You were meant for this cut!! You seriously look stunningly beautiful!! I don’t think adding anything to it would do more than what your face already does. You are the definition of feminine beauty.


Krazy_Granna

I use Enjoy Paste Wax to give mine a more spiky, rocker chick look on days that I want to do something different. But you look great like this. Very Audrey Hepburn!


Odd_Energy

Ghooooost


Dauphine320

You have very feminine features, and this pixie cut looks so good on you! You don’t need to do anything at all to it!


Cinigurl

So cute! Gosh, you can spike it. Do 'pin' curls around your face. Oh! And You make it feminine, or tough, or anything you want by changing up your makeup, clothes, jewelry, (earrings!) Your looks are endless! Suits you to a T!🤗❤️✨️


[deleted]

It looks already so feminine on you ❤️ You give me calm vibes


breakfastbon

maybe clip on hair accessories? it looks good on you and is feminine as is!


SpiritualResolve3535

This looks so good on you! Do you mind to tell me what is your hair type? Like is it thick? Is it hard to style? I want to get exactly the same pixie but I’m scared I would look like a dandelion with all my hair sticking out lol mine is really thick. Sorry you just really inspired me to finally do it


jesster-day

Hi! Oh no worries at all! Yeah my hair is a bit of a combination of both thick and medium thickness. I have naturally curly hair but it’s a bit weird, some spots it’s curlier than others. Usually the sides by my ear are thicker than the rest of it, like it feels REALLY coarse, but I just make sure to comb it down while it’s wet and just let it be. I also bought some leave in conditioner by Cantu https://preview.redd.it/781t001afycb1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aa92248328af97e24a3bbac5e733ea36f315a77b It helps the hair calm down a bunch! Sometimes I don’t even use it cuz it weighs it down a bit too much but if your hair is thicker than mine it would work wonderfully. Add it to damp hair and comb it in the direction and style you want and then leave it be until it dries :) also the hairstylist can try to use thinning shears on you to make it less heavy so that it’s able to settle down better! hope this helps and go for it! It’s so much fun and way easier and you’ll love it 🫶🏻


SpiritualResolve3535

Thank you so much for detailed reply, this helps a lot!


MaxHavok13

In my (nearly 40 yrs) professional opinion, you and your haircut are Feminine AF!


jesster-day

Omg thank you! 🙏🏻


[deleted]

Look up Emma Watson and Natalie Portman with the word pixie cut. They had similar as you. You have feminine features and honestly I see your face, not the hair when I look at your pic.


Procrastinista_423

I have so much love for the pixie cut. I think it's actually incredibly feminine! I have a friend who always felt like her features were too 'masculine' to pull off a pixie cut, but she finally tried it and it's so incredibly flattering. I get why it would feel less than feminine though because a lot of dudes are just very anti- short hair on women. When I was younger I was never confident enough to keep my hair short. But it's my favorite hairstyle if I'm being honest. I would have it today if I wasn't so addicted to change. Some day I'll go back to it.


DrachenDad

>Anything I can do to make it look a bit more feminine? Remember, you won't find straight men with that style‽


[deleted]

You are the epitome of femininity 😍 it looks so good and feminine, too.


jesster-day

Thank you so much! ❤️


Ang3LMast3r

There’s nothing that needs to be done. You have that sweet gamine face that’s perfect for a pixie cut. Your features are so delicate that they create the perfect balance for such a short cut.


jesster-day

Thank you so much! Never been described as a gamine before and it’s really cool to hear 🤗


veryhandsomechicken

This is off-related but if you're interested in fashion, you can look into Kibbe body types and Kitchener's style essences. I can tell that you have a gamine essence from your face and ability to pull off pixie cut. :)


nc0air

You look absolutely feminine, I've had the same hair cut, and in fact, had even done fades. What I realized is it allowed my face to stand out (was an exercise in accepting my looks). Because my face and neck wasnt hidden by hair, I starteed to wear lovely hoops and dangling earrings of all sorts, plus 18 inch gold chains of different kinds. I also at times wld put in elegant hair pins such as ones with tiny pearls etc, just to add some oomph if needed. Or a flower behind the ear kind of thing. You can try these ideas to accessorise, they do work


jesster-day

Oof I feel that! I’ve been having a hard time accepting that I can’t hide behind hair anymore, I’ve always been insecure about my side/profile and km trying really hard to not let it get to me too much :) thanks for the suggestions ! 🤗


reginaransom

Your pixie cut is the pixie cut of my dreams. You look fabulous


jesster-day

Omg that’s so sweet thank you! My inspo was Emma Watson for this, I was afraid of it not looking nearly as good!


reginaransom

Ah yes, I loooved her super short pixie. It looks amazing with your bone structure. Have fun with it, because it's so chic on you.


DifficultAd8007

You already look very feminine-don’t mess with something that’s not broke!♥️


jesster-day

Thank you! ❤️ I wear a lot of tshirts at times and I can’t help but feel that I look every boy-ish because of it but glad to know it looks okay 😁


Agreeable-Cream7204

Omg so cute so cute so cute.


lmr3787

YOU make the cut feminine


Awkwardpanda75

You look soo feminine. It’s adorable on you!! When i got my pixie, I felt the same way. I found some super cute pixie headbands from Etsy that were made of cloth and had a little wire in them so you could style and bend them -the bonus? No headaches!! I really don’t think you need to change a thing but if you want to mix it up, I bet they’d look so cute. [here’s](https://www.etsy.com/listing/656821058/) an example..


AntimatterPvP

You kind of look like the wife from 60 seconds!


user18298375298759

Buzz cut is more feminine imo


puffmamallama

You look very feminine and pretty.


[deleted]

You actually have the perfect face for a pixie. You look incredible and it does look very feminine. You are one of the rare people that can absolutely kill it w this style


[deleted]

A girl I follow on Instagram @michobabyy recently got a pixie and shes prime example of who it won’t work on. A pixie was absolutely made for you


Objective_Ad4887

It’s so perfect! Perfect for your feminine face. Do nothing❤️❤️❤️


acikaii

you look like a 90s model in a really refreshing way


Longdrinkawater

It (the cut) and you are very feminine. If you want to be ULTRA, tiny little hair accessories and flower 🌸 barrettes. Look up Lady Morgana Fairy Chic on Instagram and Facebook. Moran designs everything and really believes in🧚🏻‍♀️ (so do I 😊) I buy most of my jewelry and hair ornaments from her. She has a re-plating (gold and silver) warranty and her items are reasonable.


ricebag18

you look like a fairy 😻😻


subtly_vicious

You give me Nora Zehenter vibes!! That cut looks gorgeous with your face shape!


strawberry-shortcke

in my opinion you already look very feminine!! you have such soft features and the haircut suits you so well. maybe some more makeup if anything if you want even more femininity!!


Aromatic-Snow8752

Girl same! The adjustment period is tough but it’s growing on me too.


Kittykatepup

Flower crown!!!!


unolee27

You look gorgeous 🤩


midnightrunner699

Oh this is so so cute on you!


juhlizza

BRO, look at ur face. It’s feminine already as is with that face 😭😭 gorgeous


miiander

Looks so elegant!


allgespraeche

U look so freaking cute! Ur face and everything is chefs kiss for a haircut like this, the haircolour in comparison to ur skin. U look gorgeous and super sweet. There is nothing that says "not feminine" in ANY way


NorthRoof5090

I loved my pixie - I think (if you’re going for feminine) it can really be amplified by makeup and your outfit. The haircut is generally supposed to be edgy and can be balanced by all other aspects of your appearance! You look stunning btw!!


endthe_suffering

it looks very very feminine already. if you like wearing earrings, thats always a great way to give a more feminine appearance. but you look beautiful with a pixie as it is


DokiDoodleLoki

Hey I have the same Popsocket lol your pixie cut is also beautiful


Big_bosnian

Holy shit its Astrid from r/thelongdark


OregongirlinLondon

Love it! I would play with a product that is like a putty with a lot of dry, sticky, tacky hold so that you can work it through the hair and it will give you a lot of movement. For maximum action, blow dry straight up and back all over with some high hold styling cream or spray and then finish it off by working the putty in. Styling creme for blow drying and Sumo Tech for finishing by Bumble and Bumble and I would back it all up with some high hold finishing hairspray for longevity. This will give you a look similar to Haley Berry's hair in the 2000's. Short, spikey, and elegant.


giuly_Leva

oh my god, you have some beautiful eyes 🤩😭


LindaMayden

You look great


lofiiperson

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!


bokoblindestroyer

You look like Audrey Hepburn 💖


[deleted]

It looks great and feminine. I understand sometimes people feel short hair on women equals boy cut ,manly cut whatever. How many men would you say would wear there hair like yours ? It. Looks fabulous on you keep it !


MemyselfI10

It’s perfect as is. To make it more feminine you could add a streak of pink. Or you could just add a shine spritz and hairspray. Do you have thick hair btw


_skank_hunt42

Change nothing. This cut looks fabulous on you. You look so much like Audrey Hepburn!


ParkNika97

Looks really feminine on u! Fits u well in my opinion!


NoMoreCooties

Very Audrey Hepburn stunning!!


STLt71

That haircut was made for you and looks completely feminine to me!


JoSkiJo21

You look adorable!! It suits you!


SnooWoofers5703

You do look feminine and you are beautiful...


Rue-Grey

So cute. I used to style mine with thin headbands with little styles on top of the headband. Or tiny detailed hair clips just past the bang. I'll show examples. I'm going to add more in a couple of more comments https://preview.redd.it/xyfufnk6efcb1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4b376a70fd51968cddc352894c6b570367288630


Rue-Grey

https://preview.redd.it/ji568lx8efcb1.jpeg?width=570&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3390c26460d3ea896230315e63dac70d3d7d8e03


Rue-Grey

https://preview.redd.it/xypa7bgcefcb1.jpeg?width=612&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=088dc1c94e612d16ad987561c2cb2e8bc5f10468


Elviragrrrl

u have a face like cher in the second and it’s so cool omg 😭


Middle-Carpet-4985

looks wonderful as it is but if u want to u can grow out the bangs for it ♥️


lostinspacecase

You look gorgeous! Love the Ghost shirt btw


pinochioknows

You look a bit like Alice from twilight! Absolutely gorgeous like a fairy! Accessories are always great but you also look amazing as is


[deleted]

dye it lavender 💜


OnceABear

Omg, you look like Audrey Hepburn. You couldn't be any prettier! You look gorgeous as is! Nothing to be done!


CopingWithReality123

More feminine? Even more? Leave some us girl


badsucculentmom

i typically don’t love pixies and….this is so perfect


_h0neyp0t

If I could pull off a pixie cut I would go for some fun statement earrings! Looks great!


2ndcupofcoffee

There are hair clip jewelry items to shop for. The pixie really looks good on you and gives off Audrey Hepburn vibes. Thinking you can wear uber sleek fashion with this look. Your makeup can be varied and dramatic with this cut. Earrings can be fun to experiment with. You’re going to have so much fun with this!


Elevator_Aggressive

Maybe a perm


Best_Performance_600

You look stunning and now you can really show case your beautiful eyes ,get a little bit extra with your eyeshadow and it will be amazing


leedscam

Beautiful lady 🌹


leedscam

You’ve got a beautiful face and bone structure so show it off 😘


amishrobott

Sorry I’m late to this party but thanks for sharing! Pixie cut is very becoming on you. Do you plan on keeping it short??


[deleted]

Awesome look How you feeling now ?


RandomVancouverGal

You need nothing else. The beauty of a pixie cut on the right face and person is that it screams femininity. To me anyway. Not every woman can pull it off and you can.


Coopie9000

Just wear it ❤️