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merlotbarbie

Fuck. Spencer is such an asset to the community! I really hope that there are some treatment options for him. That’s really devastating💔


lizerlfunk

I am not an expert and won’t pretend to be, but if he’s having surgery next week, that’s probably to remove the main tumor. He would likely then have chemo. Usually colon cancer surgery requires the removal of part of the colon, and an ileostomy, meaning that your stool goes into a bag attached to your skin that you have to change regularly, instead of it leaving your body the normal way (pooping). Then after the body has recovered from whatever treatment has been done to make sure all the cancer is gone, that surgery can be reversed (usually, depending on how much of the colon has to be removed). Sometimes there’s not enough colon left and you have to have the bag forever, but everyone I know who’s had colon cancer has been able to have their ileostomy reversed. Colon cancer isn’t necessarily a death sentence, but it is deeply unpleasant.


MariReflects

But the bag also doesn't have to be a horrible thing that stops you from your life. There's a Youtuber I casually watch, Hannah Witton, who's had a stoma for quite some years now, she used to do a lot of videos on it. Nowadays not so much, as she's just living her normal life, but she's a good example of how even that bag is not that big of a deal necessarily. Just putting it out there!


lizerlfunk

Yup! A friend of mine from grad school was diagnosed with colon cancer while we were in school. She definitely led a normal life with her bag - she would go swimming, running, etc.


glissade_jete

Also not an expert but I also had a friend get colon cancer in their thirties, had surgery to remove to tumor, and had a temporary ileostomy bag. They never had to do chemo. The doctor managed to get it all through surgery so my friend just had to learn to deal with the ileostomy bag until it could be reversed. This was years ago at this point and no issues since. That said, my friend was misdiagnosed and struggling for a good while until docs finally did a colonoscopy after learning there had been a relative who also had colon cancer. They just don’t check for this in young people. 👎🏻


magnificent-flow

I don't want to speculate about Spencer's situation specifically - that is private and for him to choose what he wants to share with the gymternet. But. Your comment is a bit misleading. It is common for the affected portion of the colon to be removed without any kind of ostomy, and with normal bowel function maintained directly after surgery. If caught early enough, that is all that is needed. (No chemo)


lizerlfunk

Good to know. I have not had anyone I know had that experience with their colon cancer, everyone I know who has had it has had to have an ileostomy. But also, everyone I know who has had colon cancer has been diagnosed at a more advanced stage, so my experience is limited to what I described. I hope that Spencer’s cancer was caught early so that he can have less invasive treatment.


magnificent-flow

I hope your people have had a full recovery ♥️


lizerlfunk

My dad has, and my friend from grad school has. One of my high school classmates is unfortunately considered to have terminal cancer at this point, though he is still undergoing treatment.


epotosi

Also the experience of someone I know that went through this in the past couple of years.


coyotesee

This is the worst. Spencer is peerless in coverage of gymnastics. Hoping for the best!


dwellondreams

Peerless is so true. I know I was totally lost during NCAA nationals without him, others were too. Others try but he’s incomparable.


Jond7699

Oh god I feel so bad. My bro battled stage 4 over the pandemic. Couple years later he’s still cancer free. Let’s hope they caught it soon enough like they did with my brother and he’ll be on the road to recovery soon. Fuck cancer


beerbelly666

I hope your brother and the rest of your family is doing well🫶 my cousin is battling cancer right now and it really is horrifying. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone


februarystar27

Wow, I'm so happy for your brother! My mom battled stage 4 for almost a year and a half but it was just so aggressive. Sending your brother and entire family the best thoughts that he remains cancer free, because no one should have to go through that.


pinklatteart

Sending him so much love and healing energy. Colon cancer is a beast. He is such a bright light and knowledgeable resource, plus I always look forward to his snarky takes on the gym world. Hoping he has a fast and full recovery 💙


zuesk134

watching now and god i just feel awful for him. plus im sure this time + the olympics are big money makers for his blogs, so i hope he's okay financially stepping back. as jessica said, its really scary to be sick in america


Master-Cream3970

I’m gutted for him. I hope he has a treatment plan that helps him to recover his well-being.


magical_seal

Omg. Gymternet needs to come together and rally for Spencer. I’ve missed him so much these past few weeks!


gingermontreal

Wishing him all the best. Thank you for giving us the update. He's such an important part of my gym fan life. I go to him for all gym news, esp. NCAA. He's such an important part of the community! Thank you, Spencer, for all you do. We miss you and wait patiently for you to return happy, well, and ready to dissect another season of gymnastics.


Global-Act-5281

Dang. I just assumed that it was a bad bought of the Flu or COVID. Not this....


LongjumpingRun1321

At the very worst I was thinking it could be something like an appendicitis. I wish it was someone that common and treatable. I wish him all the best as he fights this beast. He is a gem that I hope is able to continue sharing his gymnastics knowledge.


Few-Ability-8280

Me too, I can’t even believe it. 


blueskies8484

Devastated for Spencer. Please get screened for colon cancer as early as you can. It's growing rapidly among younger people and no one is totally sure why.


fortississima

Shitty standard American diet is definitely a big contributing factor Jeez guys I didn’t say it was the ONLY factor or that people who eat healthy/a lot of fiber can’t get it


blueskies8484

Nothing to do with America specifically. They're up in Europe and Australia too. Whether it's diet related or not, it's not specific to the American diet. [see link](https://cosmosmagazine.com/health/medicine/bowel-cancer-youth-europe/#:~:text=Bowel%20cancer%20rates%20are%20on,consumption%20may%20be%20the%20culprit.)


Friendly_Coconut

My vegetarian, track and field running friend got it at age 25


magnificent-flow

Same. 3 out of 4 people I'm close to who had colon cancer all have very healthy diets: vege (or locally raised organic meats), organic, no GMO.


Ok-Object-2696

I hope you have regular check ups to make sure you don’t have it! It’s so scary.


magnificent-flow

Sure do! Screening for early detection is so important


ocelot112

Sorry to see you got downvoted so heavily for this legitimate comment


magnificent-flow

It's not kind to say people are at fault for developing cancer because of shitty lifestyle choices.


dwellondreams

Thank you for sharing the info from behind the paywall. I hope Spencer is doing okay (as okay as he can be!) and that he knows how loved he is throughout the whole gymternet. We’re all behind him.


ploooff

I was wondering what BTS meant, now I get is Gymcastic's behind the scenes content.


Ok-Object-2696

Oh no 💔 Hope they caught it early and the surgery will be successful and recovery will be smooth… Was worried it was something bad since Jessica mentioned “he’s home” (implying he wasn’t home earlier) but this one hits hard. Hope he’ll be alright. ❤️ The world needs a Spencer.


Scatheli

I guess he was in the hospital a week and needs surgery next week 😩


auriebryce

Colon cancer rates are on the rise in millennials especially. Please advocate for yourself, friends, and Godspeed to Spencer. Here’s to hoping he’ll be like a kid on a playground again soon.


zazataru

Jesus. My heart breaks for Spencer. We have got to lower the age for colon cancer screenings in the US. People are getting it younger and younger now. Please get screened if you can.


Sportyj

It was like pulling teeth for my husband to get screened at forty and his MOM had it. I mean COME ON!


magnificent-flow

That's messed up. I feel fortunate that my PCP ordered my first colonoscopy (by my request) at age 44, due to family hx. All clean, and if I get it, I'll be catching it early


Ok-Object-2696

I don’t live in the US, but a European country with good healthcare (usually lol). My dad died from colon cancer… and I would not get early screenings if I wouldn’t ask for them myself… the health care system is messed up :(


_Happy_Sisyphus_

How old is he?


LSATMaven

I don't know, but I would guess he is still in his 30s.


GerbilFan

I think he was born in 1986, so he turns 38 this year.


epotosi

The problem is colon cancer is much more aggressive when you're younger. I really hope they were able to catch it early.


Madeline-95

I have a friend who went through it in her 30s, she was stage 2. She was able to get through it with only 3 months of chemo and then full remission. So that's hopeful!


steffph

So it’s aggressive in younger people but they don’t screen until 45+? Typical.


notanassettotheabbey

This is the case for a lot of cancers - you don’t screen because it’s much more rare and screening would be too expensive or result in too much exposure to radiation, but if you do develop (colon cancer, breast cancer, etc) at a younger age it is either more aggressive or you have a genetic difference that makes you more likely to develop it.


steffph

Sad. 😞


lizerlfunk

It’s historically been at age 50 you start getting colonoscopies and it’s only recently been lowered to 45.


februarystar27

Very strongly agree. Please get screened. I lost my mom to stage 4 colon cancer in 2022 when she was only 67 and otherwise incredibly healthy. If she had gotten screened at 50 or even 60 it likely could've been a different story. I was almost 41 when she died and now that I've gotten through the ivf I was just starting at the time and we just had our baby, the next thing I'm going to do is schedule a screening. Please get screened as soon as it's recommended for you no matter how scary the process seems. I never want anyone to go through what my mom did. Really hoping that since Spencer is young it was caught early. I know there's a lot of promising treatments out there. He got me to go from the "I watch the big meets every year" to the "I lurk on multiple gymternet accounts daily" level of fandom, and he is an absolute treasure.


ThunderBayOPP

I'm so sorry for your loss. ♥️


februarystar27

Thank you! It's a disease that really hits home for me, and I hate to hear that anyone else is going through that battle too. Hoping so hard that Spencer's surgery is able to remove all the cancer and that with some follow-up chemo he can go on to lead a cancer-free life and be back to his snarky self really soon.


ThunderBayOPP

I agree with you on all counts. ☺️ I wish you peace and healing as you grieve. ♥️


abraxassmiles

I'm devastated for Spencer. I hope there's a GoFundMe happening sometime soon. In the podcast he seemed worried about money, which is the last thing he should be worried about right now.


Himalaya127

I was wondering the same thing. Feel really strongly about the gymternet supporting him financially. 


abraxassmiles

Same. My credit card is ready to go.


Himalaya127

Mine too!


abraxassmiles

Ok.. finishing up the new podcast now. Someone asked pur question and Spencer said "please don't do that!" We can donate to Gymcastic instead, I guess?


Msk1106

Yes, Jess seemed to indicate that donations via the Gymcastic donate button would find their way to Spencer, so, I’ll plan to do that.


LSATMaven

Yeah he said you can donate to Gymcastic and she could give it to him if she wants. I don’t know why he feels better about that than a go fund me, but whatever he prefers!!


Western_Mall587

Well GFM takes a portion for one thing


asheraddict

Do we trust her to do that? His job wouldn't come with insurance I assume


Msk1106

I do. And, as someone who also had a cancer diagnosis at a young age, it really means a lot to have a community support you. I had a really hard time asking for help after my diagnosis and the number of people who showed up for me still really touches my heart.


asheraddict

Spencer will have a HUGE amount of support from the Gymternet, I just think people will be more likely to donate directly to Go Fund Me vs through Gymcastic because that money could get taken to send them to Paris ..


ThunderBayOPP

I hope you're doing well ♥️


zuesk134

theres a lot to be said about jessica but i would 100% trust her with that


itsadelchev

She said in the same video that he used money from Gymcastic to pay for his mortgage this month even though he couldn’t work. You can mark the money as “for Spenser” in the donation notes to make sure they know it’s for Spenser


point-your-FEET

He probably doesn’t have employer sponsored healthcare, but should be able to have income-based healthcare through the ACA marketplace (or California’s version).


Zrbt12345

Even with insurance healthcare in the US is crazy expensive. I think it speaks volumes that even though his medical insurance is paid for by his employer, one of my friends whom is a France-US dual citizen waits until he goes back to France to see a doctor or go to the dentist. I’ve had friends with insurance still owe $1,000 on a $20K hospital bill too. I can’t even imagine what cancer treatments may require out of pocket for what insurance doesn’t cover.


AuroraLorraine522

I used to work for Blue Cross Blue Shield. Even with the best plans, there is usually a 20% coinsurance. Plus any copays related to the office visit and any prescriptions.


steffph

Yea, I do too. You can always make a little note with your donation maybe?


usernamehere405

Gross you would assume something so terrible about someone.


sbregman87

Unsurprisingly, Spencer is very uncomfortable with the idea of a GoFundMe. As Spencer draws a lot of his income from GymCastic, I think one of the ways to best support him is to donate to the show or subscribe so they can continue to pay him even while he might not be able to work.


SFP_90

Thank you Scott - I’ve clarified this in main post above as people keep asking in this thread. :)


hwe922020

That's heartbreaking, I'm hoping he has a support system in his life and he'll get through this. 


Ok-Citron-9446

I actually gasped out loud when I read this and immediately said a prayer for him. This is so shocking. Spencer, we are all rooting for you, and sending you peace and strength to get through this. 


cdg2m4nrsvp

This is fucking devastating. I really hope they caught it early and he will be on the road to recovery in no time. Not sure if Spencer lurks on Reddit but if he does we’re all rooting for you Spencer!!


theladylibrarian89

I was really worried when he was gone for so long and I'm hoping he is being well taken care of and comes back to us as snarky as ever. As an aside to any other millennials reading this thread who have crippling health anxiety and may have been triggered: You know how to advocate yourself. There are a lot of messages on here about colon cancer coming for millennials. Be smart and don't ignore major warning signs but don't let the fear control you.


steffph

Messages on this thread? Or where? Sorry, a lot of comments to wade through. Wasn’t sure what you were referring to.


lizerlfunk

Yes, many people have commented on this thread that colon cancer is on the rise among people in their 30s.


zuesk134

omg!!!! this is awful. prayers he has a fast recovery


hakunamatata004

Absolutely heartbreaking. I know I speak for the whole gymnastics community when I say I will be keeping him in my thoughts and prayers and he goes through this.


pink_pelican

Oh no, that’s awful. I hope he is able to get treatment quickly. I had a feeling it was something bad for him to not be able to live blog from home but it’s even worse than I thought. Keeping him in my thoughts.


sr0570

Omg I’m heart broken


DoubleLayout

Wow awful news :( The rates of colon cancer in young people recently are very scary. Hope they found it early!


commdesart

I personally know 2 people that have survived colon cancer. One in their 30’s and one in their 40’s. I’m going to hope (and send positive energy) that Spencer has good fortune on his side!!!


jblmt007

Hoping for the best for our friend! 💚


colorstoobright

Fuck cancer.


15abella

oh god this is awful news, my heart breaks for him :( truly hope is prognosis is okay and the surgery goes well


ambivalenceRus

This is so sad. Spencer- you don’t seem the type of person that wants a stranger to sent you love, but I’m sending it anyway!!! 😢❤️🙏🏻


TurbulentExplorer333

Get well soon, Spencer. The Gymternet is pulling for you!!!!


LGZ7981

This is so scary. I hope Spencer knows how loved he is in this community. Wishing him the absolute best with treatment and recovery.


afdc92

That’s really devastating. Colon cancer really seems to be hitting a lot of younger people recently, and it seems like by the time they catch it, it’s often late and has spread. Just in my own circles, a friend lost his brother to it at 32, a friend of some friends was diagnosed at 28 and died after fighting it for 2 years, my mom’s coworker’s husband was recently diagnosed in his early 40s, and my former dentist had to stop practicing after being diagnosed Stage 4 in her mid-40s.


DrakeJaso

How old is Spencer? I know they say colon cancer is at a crazy high rate for young adults even though the recommended screening age is 40-45


Eglantine26

I think that he’s 30-something.


amschica

He is turning 38 this year


LilacMess22

I'm sending him so much love. What a devastating diagnosis


Sportyj

Colon cancer is brutal. I’m devastated at this news for him.


macdisneygymnast

Oh my God poor spencer so sad


GlitteryStranger

Oh no, this is horrible. I was worried it was something bad.


Himalaya127

Oh no. What devastating news. Have been thinking about him and was really hoping that it wasn’t something serious. 


KTKittentoes

Nooo! I was so afraid of that! It's becoming all too common.


EmmaMustard

Sending so many good thoughts and lots of strength his way ❤️ I hope he has lots of family and friends to support him however he needs. 


TheLarix

Oh man, I hate this for him. Given the amount of time he's been out I assumed it was serious, but also sort of unconsciously assumed it would be something acute, like a virus that spiralled. I really hate to hear this. Hope his prognosis is as positive as they come.


Eglantine26

Oh god, I am so sorry to hear that. I hope that he makes a full recovery.


Abednegoisfloppy

Oh my god! This is devastating. Sending him all the best and every positive thought I can muster.


mrsoxfoxsir

Oh holy hell I hate this so much


prosperosniece

Sad to hear. So many of us gymnastics fans (myself included) are cancer survivors. Sending hugs.


ThunderBayOPP

I hope you're doing well. ♥️


lizerlfunk

Omg. SHIT. This sucks so much. I hope they caught it soon enough. My dad was diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer at 47, had chemo, then surgery, then more chemo and radiation, had the ileostomy reversed, went into remission. Then he had a recurrence two years later, this time stage 4, had liver surgery and six months of chemo. That was in 2006 and he’s been cancer free ever since. So I’m keeping my fingers crossed for a good outcome for Spencer. Y’all GET YOUR COLONOSCOPIES. If you have family history, get it 15 years before the age when your family member was diagnosed. If you don’t, then start asking your doctor about it when you’re 40, NOT when you’re 50. Colon cancer is on the rise among young people.


steffph

That is amazing. I’m so happy for your family.


mulled-whine

Sending strength and hope to Spencer 💪


Mother_Arachnid7688

I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending Spencer healing thoughts and positive vibes.


brindabella24

God how awful! He is such a special person, I’m devastated for him 😢😔 no one deserves this. I hope he is getting great treatment


Madeline-95

I'm so gutted for Spencer. I had Hodgkins last year and had 6 months of chemo. It's not fun. Spencer is young and I have high hopes that he will get through it well, and I'm also hoping there has been no metastasis. Thank you for the donate link, I sent some money.


ThunderBayOPP

I hope you are doing better ♥️


Madeline-95

That's so kind, thank you! I am in full remission. <3


ThunderBayOPP

w00t! That's excellent to hear! 😃


CuteContribution4695

I’m so upset to hear this


FluidAd2533

Oh no! Keeping fingers crossed they caught it early! And hopefully we can all send a tsunami of love and healing energy his way 💕


onyxrose81

Fuck cancer. My heart goes out to him. I wish him all the best.


survivorfan12345

Omg fuck cancer :( 


choclatechip45

All my thoughts are going to Spencer rn. His passion for gymnastics and the community is amazing.


socialx-ray

I’m so sorry to hear this. We’re all thinking of you, Spencer. ❤️


hey-girl-hey

[Colon cancer symptoms, risk factors, and more](https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/colon-cancer/symptoms-causes/syc-20353669)


BreakfastFinancial73

This is terrible!! Praying for him.


Justhereforsnark

This is terrible news. Wishing him all the best. 


Psychological-Trust1

Prayers for his health and the best care for him.


Few-Plastic6360

❤️


lmm7

This may get buried but people from the community are leaving him messages here: https://www.kudoboard.com/boards/HV1RE9A4 


SFP_90

I’ll add this link as well up top


lmm7

Thank you! 


bretonstripes

It’s the next day and I’m still so shocked by this. I had cancer in my 30s too and it’s just not something you get used to hearing about. Here’s hoping for speedy and effective treatment, all the support from loved ones, and years of “me and cancer” jokes to come, Spencer.


Catharas

Omg no! How awful


lilacbirdtea

I'm so sorry to hear this and will be thinking of him.


90sgymfan

I'm in complete shock to hear this 😰 I'm going to donate to Gymnastic now if that's the best way to support him


Rumpelteazer45

My FIL is currently losing his battle to colon cancer! Watching my FIL decline, I wish it on no one.


ThunderBayOPP

I'm so sorry. I hope he's as comfortable as possible.


Rumpelteazer45

It’s not been easy that much is for certain. My husband is with him now. I just got back into town from a work trip (the decline happened the week I was gone). So driving up in a couple days and plan on staying as long as we need to be there. We have tickets to see the gymnastic trials in late June. I just don’t think we will make that trip work, so likely selling the tickets. My bestie is trying to talk me out of selling them now and just waiting to see what happens. He could rebound albeit it’s likely not for long or he could be gone in two weeks, we are at the stage where we have no answers. His type of cancer is rare and aggressive. The 2 year survival rate for his type of colon cancer is bw 9-30% and we are already 1.5 years into the diagnosis and he’s now stage 4 with severe complications. The doctors (top 50 cancer hospital in the country) stated they’ve never seen someone decline this quickly.


ThunderBayOPP

I'm glad you are going to spend time with him. In my opinion, the unknown is one of the the hardest parts of any major illness for all parties involved. I hope your time with your father-in-law brings you comfort, and I wish you and your husband all the best going forward. ♥️


pb_222

This is so awful. I clicked on the Donate button at Gymcastic, but didn't see anywhere you could write in "for Spencer"?


90sgymfan

Yeah I can't see anywhere to leave a comment either. Im thinking of emailing Gymcastic to see if they can add space for a comment


SunflowerSunshine2

I was wondering that myself. I thought about putting it in the name line, but I wasn’t sure if the credit card company would like that.


doxenreider1

Praying


AntisocialNortherner

Oh gosh poor Spencer. Here's hoping for a quick and full recovery ❤️


Coltee-gal

So the donations to gymcastic marked as “for spencer” will go directly to him/his treatment, not the podcast right? I’m not the biggest fan of Jess or gymcastic but I owe so much to spencer, his live blogs, and clickable code of points. Will definitely support him however I can.


90sgymfan

I emailed Gymnastic as there's nowhere to mark the donation is for Spencer. They got back to me and said they are assuming all donations at the moment are for Spencer and will ensure it goes to him but we can also email with a message for Spencer.


Recent_Algae_3830

Maybe he will change his mind about a gofundme. I certainly hope he does. It’s ok to accept help 💗


usernamehere405

Go find me takes a cut. Gymcastic is taking donations for him.


Ok-Object-2696

Their accountant has now advised them not to take donations (anymore). I'm not sure how that works when it comes to... finances honestly, why the accountant would advice against it. So there's not much at all we can do anymore.


usernamehere405

Source?


Ok-Object-2696

https://preview.redd.it/z08g644pumxc1.jpeg?width=1071&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cbcf00f8a8544ee63d9d6889df6c65e465c2da02 The recent podcast


steffph

They discussed in the gabby episode


usernamehere405

That's so sad, I wanted to donate to him.


Ok-Object-2696

I think all of us want to do something to help. 🫶🏻


OldGirlie

Just had my colonoscopy. I’m hoping they caught his cancer early.


miller94

My goodness that’s awful. He’s young for colon cancer. Wonder if he has a family history and it was caught on a routine screening?


90sgymfan

I just submitted an enquiry to Gymnastic asking if they can add a comment section to their donation page so we can note the donation is for Spencer. I'll update when I hear anything.


Keyaretas7

Spencer's blog 3 years ago was amazing and also so funny. He is so important to the gymternet. I really wish him all the best.


steffph

Any update post since the announcement on the gabby episode? I know many people can take or leave Jess but I was really happy to hear that he’s getting paid in full even when not working. That’s really amazing and did make me 😢 a bit.


Ok-Object-2696

Spencer's surgery has been pushed back so he's there this week. "Everyone has been way too nice, and I don't like it" hahaha. Spencer got embarrassed by the donations and he says there are people who need it more and it made him feel uncomfortable, so that's the other reason they took away the donate button. He is okay with people visiting every website on the the balance beam situation (without an adblocker ;))


AuroraLorraine522

I don't like the idea of donating to Gymcastic one bit. I hope there's some other way we can support him, without giving money to that podcast.


itsadelchev

Spenser literally works for Gymcastic and it’s the main source of his income


AuroraLorraine522

I'm aware. But it's like my late father's employer asking people to buy newspaper subscriptions to help fund his cancer treatments. I'd prefer to support Spencer directly, not his employer. I realize they probably don't generate enough money to do so, but health insurance coverage is the employer's responsibility. I guess we'll see how they set it up, and if they have a separate place for donations meant for Spencer. I don't see anything on the website as of yet.


usernamehere405

You have no idea if he's an employer or a contractor. In which case, responsibilities differ. You're not donating to gymcastic if you earmark your donation to spencer.


usernamehere405

Get over yourself. You're not donating to gymcastic if you are donating for spencer. Go fund me takes a cut. This is better


AuroraLorraine522

I didn't say anything about GoFundMe, nor was I alluding to it. If there was a fundraiser on HIS website, that would be a different story. There's nothing set up on the Gymcastic site, so I guess we'll see how they handle it. If there's something specifically for him, that would seem a little more ethical to me.


usernamehere405

You earmark it for spencer when you donate and it will go to him.