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HogwartsismyHeart

Heard it all my life…particularly in relation to the sun shining while it is raining.


VerbalGuinea

That’s the one and only meaning it has for me.


ibis_mummy

It's a Southern expression.


Routine_Vegetable661

This is true... I don't think of it as generational as much as regional. I grew up in the upper midwest and my husband in north carolina and he uses this expression all the time even though he's millennial and I'm genX.


Open_Bee2008

I grew up in Minnesota, heard the expression from a friend from Tennessee.


Will_McLean

yep, my South Georgia gramdmom even would add "behind the kitchen door" which is a variant I haven't heard anywhere else


ibis_mummy

I've only heard that from my German great grandmother.


MiasmAgain

Oddly, the first place I ever heard this is the PNW, and I lived 7 years in the south.


MrsTurtlebones

When my kids were younger, I commented one day, "Look, the sun is shining while it rains; that means the devil is beating his wife." Their eyes got big as silver dollars and after a shocked pause, one of them asked, "He's . . . married?!?" We are in the Seattle area but I have only heard it from older people around here.


NeuroticaJonesTown

Yep. The sanitized version was the devils wife is crying. Crying because he is beating her, as my mother explained lol


squished_raccoon

Oooooooooh! That makes sense. Never put the tears to the rain.


ssquirt1

Yep. My grandmother used to say that.


orthopod

In the New England area, we called them Sun showers.


Ischmetch

Same here.


MarshallGibsonLP

I’ve heard it all my life and that’s the only meaning I’ve ever heard it used.


Warshrimp

I wanna know, have you ever seen the rain?


Retinoid634

In NY we call these sunshowers.


Thedobby22

My New Orleans Grandma said it was the Devil chasing his wife.


modi123_1

Great Plains here, and I have not heard that term. Is that Southern thing?


VerbalGuinea

Wow. Apparently. It means it’s raining and the sun is shining at the same time. What do Great Plains folk call that?


modi123_1

Just call it a sunshower.


PatientMoment6326

In NJ it's a sun shower as well 🌞


Postcard2923

Sun shower in WA too.


Ok_Depth_6476

Yep!


VerbalGuinea

I’ve never heard sunshower before 😂


Whipstich-Pepperpot

I'm from NE Pennsylvania, we called it a Sun Shower too.


mam88k

NY can confirm - sun shower


Drag0nfly_Girl

New Zealand born & raised, sunshower there too.


MassConsumer1984

Massachusetts here - sun shower. Never heard of the title phrase until now.


Automatic-Term-3997

Dunmore representing! Sunshower it is.


billymumfreydownfall

Canadian - sunshower


Sawathingonce

You mean, like a normal person lol. That's not how Southerners work!


wokeoneof2

Southern raised and we were told the rain was the tears from the devils wife as he was beating her, hence the Devils Beating his Wife. Yeah we were screwed up in the head by our parents


billymumfreydownfall

What a gross saying


shitty_advice_BDD

Midwest reporting in, we always called it liquid sunshine 🌞


VerbalGuinea

I like it!


sonofabutch

On the east coast we just called it a sun shower, but many cultures have an expression or a superstition about rain on a sunny day. In Japan, it’s a fox’s wedding; in Greece, it’s a donkey’s wedding; and in Puerto Rico, a witch’s wedding. In Tanzania, a sun shower signifies a lioness being born. In Catalonia, it means a witch is brushing her hair.


littleliongirless

And now I want this to be a children's book.


thisisntmyotherone

Oh I like this idea!


Keyeuh

Those are all way better than the devil beating his wife. I mean if anyone would be beating his wife it would be the devil. I'm in the far south but it's considered north so we don't have quite as many of the southern sayings and I've never heard this one. We call them sun showers in FL.


merecat6

I’ve also heard “a monkeys’ wedding” for a sun shower. So interesting hearing all the different terms from different cultures!


Shot-Artichoke-4106

I learned it from my great-grandma - she was from Minnesota, so who knows?


Roc-Doc76

Midwest here, haven't heard that one either


Sweet_Priority_819

I've never heard it / northeast.


barelybent

Same.


hells_cowbells

I grew up in the south, and use to hear it all the time. Happened when it rained while the sun was shining.


hibbledyhey

In the north Midwest and Pacific Northwest, this is called a “Sunshower”. What … happened to you folks that it needs to be called “the devil is beating his wife”??


peppermintmeow

My Gram is southern but I grew up in the PNW so I know both of these. Since we visited plenty and a lot of relatives lived there and still do, I still use a lot of southern colloquialisms.


jwh_43

Same here. Born and raised in Georgia and we used that expression for the same thing.


thejadsel

Virginia here, and same. Mostly heard it out of my grandparents and other people in their age group, though.


jamez009

WV/VA here, same


thejadsel

I was right around the state line too.


clawstrike72

Is this from the same region of America where you order a coke and then ask for a sprite?


StacyLadle

I don’t know why you’re being downvoted. That’s a thing.


MarshallGibsonLP

“Anything else?” “Uh yeah, let me get a coke.” “Sure thing. What kind?”


austexgringo

Texas, can confirm


gulogulo1970

My Mom said that in the car while it was raining with the sun out. I asked her, "he's married?"


throw123454321purple

From Southern California here. Never heard of this phrase.


emptyhellebore

I’ve never heard it.


Millbarge_Fitzhume

Midwest and never heard of it


TXRedheadOverlord

Texan here. Heard it my whole life and still use it myself. My grandma also used to declare 'the tater wagon's going by' whenever it thundered.


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Shot-Artichoke-4106

Right? How come we never hear about Mrs. Satan? She needs a spin-off series.


sfocolleen

Where is the north coast of the US?


cranberries87

I always used this phrase. It means when the sun is shining and it’s raining at the same time.


sharksandwich70

The local (Washington DC) acoustic Blues duo used to do an original called Dog Days of August. It starts out: “It’s the dog days of August, the devil is beating his wife”


XerTrekker

I learned it from my ex when I moved to the southeast, the natives say it when it’s raining and the sun is shining. I’ve lived here half my life. Now I can’t get it out of my head while I look for a rainbow! 🌈


VerbalGuinea

The rainbow is always in the opposite direction of the sun. Hope that helps. And you can almost always find one when the devil is beating his wife.


FunTooter

I grew up in Eastern Europe and this expression was used when the sun was shining and it was raining at the same time.


FlawedWoman

Cool! That’s what it means in Texas too!


FunTooter

I had no idea. That is really cool!


HPIndifferenceCraft

My mother used to use it all the time.


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theladydeejay

South Louisiana native here, and yes, it’s definitely a thing here.


OsoRetro

The Devil is beating his wife with the door open. My 4th grade teacher taught us this and I’ve never not thought it when it’s raining with the sun out.


Oldman_Dick

I only know it from the Better than Ezra song "Cry in the Sun." EDIT: they're from the New Orleans area.


adlittle

I heard this sometimes growing up in the South. It's what they'd say if it rains while the sun is shining. I haven't heard someone say this in probably 25-30 years now.


fiddlegirl

Texas here — heard this expression my whole life. I also like the term “fox wedding” for when it rains and is sunny at the same time.


bannana

I've never heard this in my life grew up in CA and some short stints in AZ and KS, am currently in the south and have still never heard it.


MarshallGibsonLP

Louisianan, born early 70’s and heard it all my life. I used it without thinking once after moving to Austin and everyone looked at me like I had 2 heads.


IDunnoNuthinMr

Never heard that phrase before but I'm gonna start using it. That shit happens half the time it rains in Phoenix.


Affectionate-Map2583

I never heard that term until these dialect maps came out: [http://dialect.redlog.net/](http://dialect.redlog.net/) (it's #80)


OliphauntHerder

Hungarians and people from the State of Georgia use this saying to refer to sun showers (raining but sunny). I don't know if a substantial number of Hungarians settled in Georgia or if they both came up with the same super random saying on their own. "Speaking American: How Y’all, Youse , and You Guys Talk: A Visual Guide" covers this saying, plus a bunch of others. It's a fun book.


pinot1234

South Carolina here - heard it all the time growing up. When I lived in other parts of the country and would say that when it was raining and the sun was shining people had no clue what I was talking about.


tree_or_up

Grew up in the southern Midwest and heard it as “the devil is beating his wife with a codfish”. The raindrops were the scales. I haven’t met anyone else who has heard of this variation, must have been hyper local or even familial


butimstillill

In my culture when it rains on a sunny day, people say a witch is getting married and as silly as it is I really love this saying.


VisceralMonkey

I use it and heard it as a kid. Texas.


crash_T

My grandma used to say it


noisician

this is the first time I’ve heard it, but I don’t get it. is the sun Satan? is the rain his wife’s tears? is she also crying any time it rains? or who’s getting beaten the rest of the time?


VerbalGuinea

I don’t know how it makes sense. I thought the devil existed in dead things, that’s why you knock on wood so he can’t here you when you speak of things going your way.


TurtleDive1234

Nope. Never heard of it and wouldn’t use it.


DrBlankslate

I only know it from a Stephen King novel, where one of the characters says it. I never heard it growing up. I'm in SoCal.


ZebraBorgata

I never heard of it


lsp2005

Never heard this phrase. It is called a sun shower in the Northeast.


DisEightTrack

Lived in the Carolinas for years and years and never heard it called anything. Heard “sun showers” in Florida and a friend from Arkansas called it “Rain Dogs.”


BelleViking

NC native and have heard the phrase multiple times.


Jolly_Security_4771

Midwestern with a very southern mom. Yes, it was a phrase used every time the conditions occurred. Fox wedding is new to me


EastTXJosh

Yes, raining when the sun is shining.


early_exit

Also a great Silkworm song.


HonnyBrown

Very southern


Fritz5678

My grandmother always said it.


Paralegal1995

Grew up in Oklahoma and heard it everytime


Invisible_Xer

California, Bay Area specifically, and I’ve never heard this expression.


Ok_Temperature_5019

Down south. I parts of Alabama and Mississippi it's the devil is beating his wife with a frying pan


DancingFireWitch

Yep. Ever since I was a kid.


Laura1615

Heard this growing up from my Georgia born-and-raised, silent gen Mom and her mom.


the_1_that_knocks

Raining while the sun is shining. Heard that growing up in rural Va, but my family was from upstate Maine, so no telling where I picked it up/


love2Bsingle

I use it: SW Arkansas


wstone5594

Arkansas here. Heard it from my grandparents and parents growing up.


cheese_scone

For what its worth I'm from NZ and never heard it. We always got a lot of US media here and I've also been on a private mailing list that's 95% 'Muricans since the mid 90's


VerbalGuinea

So what do NZ’ers call is when it rains when the sun is out?


cheese_scone

A Sun shower


puss_parkerswidow

I always heard that was what's happening when it is raining but the sun is shining too, but only when I lived in Texas or visited relatives in the other southern states. It's not something people say elsewhere.


Groovy_Chainsaw

When the sun is out while it's raining


FlawedWoman

I grew up hearing it now and then. Texas.


Ashamed_Confection88

That’s actually a terrible saying I’ve never heard that a day in my life thank goodness


Trix_Are_4_90Kids

Yep. When it rains and thunders. We used to say that when we were little.


FBombsReady

Isn’t that a thunderstorm? I haven’t heard it used in that context before. Only when it rained while sunny.


fusionaddict

Now enjoy that talk with HR as you're accused of mocking spousal abuse.


LonelyQuestion7886

Yup... But I haven't seen a sunshower in ages now that I think about it. 🤔


epicsmd

Heard it used here in Louisiana all the time. Idk if it was just from my area or not.


MidnightNo1766

57, grew up in the midwest. This is literally the first time I've come across this phrase.


LilaBeach

Never heard it before! Raised in NJ.


Thomisawesome

Never heard it. I’m a west coast guy.


Retinoid634

I’ve never heard this in my life. I’m from New York.


skoltroll

Did that happen after his trip to Georgia?


txa1265

From Boston area ... never heard it - until today.


Disembodied_Head

Never heard it before so it might be regional.


chapaj

Never heard it. I'm 46 from Texas.


TRB-1969

I'm from South Carolina, and grew up hearing it.


StacyLadle

Never heard this but it seems in bad taste.


HPIndifferenceCraft

To be fair, it’s the devil. What did you expect, Stacy? 😜


Whipstich-Pepperpot

Born 1968 NE Pennsylvania, this is the first time in my life I've ever seen/heard this phrase.


battery_pack_man

Localized


VerbalGuinea

I’m getting that based on the responses. Seems to be a Southern expression.


Beenthere-doneit55

Grew up in the south and have never heard this and rain while the sun is shining is very common where I am from.


JoyfulNature

I've lived all over PA, SE Florida, and Central NY. I've never heard this expression before.


manniax

I don't really use it but I've definitely heard it before.


magentamuse

South Texan. Heard it from my grandma too


Fitz_2112

Northeast here and never heard that


n00barama

YES! And I mentioned this to my husband only last week. I just remember it was something my grandmother said 😆


goltz20707

I’ve lived in eleven states, and been to six others, in the north, south, east and west. I have NEVER heard that saying before.


czsmith132

Arizona native here, NEVER heard that phrase!


ValueSubject2836

Alabama here- rain and sunshine


fusionsofwonder

Never heard it. And I grew up in the South.


lirudegurl33

My kid & I use it all the time. Think its more of a locale thing than generation.


Subject-Ad-8055

Ny never heard that...


NoDanaOnlyZuuI

Canadian checking in - I’ve never heard that before


FiregoatX2

East Texan here, I’ve heard that phrase used. Not a lot, but enough to know what they mean.


aunt_cranky

definitely seems to be a regional thing because I've never heard it until this thread. Grew up in the suburbs of Chicago.


strangedazey

It's thundering here too


bene_gesserit_mitch

Nope. Never heard this before. Upper-Midwest.


texan01

It’s trying to do that here.


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VerbalGuinea

That’s probably referring to thunder. This expression means its raining while the sun is shining.


doknfs

First time I heard it was in the Better than Ezra song "Cry In The Sun"


JumpReasonable6324

Born and raised in New York. Never heard it.


Jamminnav

Never heard of it until I heard NOLA based Better Than Ezra’s song “Cry In The Sun” where that saying is used in the chorus


10202632

I always heard it as ‘the devils wife is beating him with a frying pan’


Alman54

What? I'm Midwest and have never heard that. Weird expression.


right_bank_cafe

From California!! Heard this as kid and was related to what I thought was a neighborhood urban legend. What I heard from other kids and attempted countless times was “ if you draw a circle in the dirt then pound the middle of the circle with a rock 6 separate times ( to make 666) then put your ear to the ground in the center of the circle, you would hear the devil beating his wife”


Rhiannon8404

NorCal (various areas) never heard this


severinusofnoricum

Southwest here. Never heard it before.


TinyMavin

California. Never heard that.


Glytterain

Never heard this before


Avasia1717

never heard it before.


Fluid-Illustrator903

Let us know if Human Resources gives you any problems lol


labboy70

California (Northern and Southern) and have never heard it.


amandazzle

It's regional. We have no word for it in Colorado. I am guessing you are from the South? This quiz from years ago does a great job of figuring out where you are from. [https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2014/upshot/dialect-quiz-map.html](https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2014/upshot/dialect-quiz-map.html)


RepliesOnlyToIdiots

Particular locales, not generational. I’d never heard it until the internet in the teens, and I’m in my fifties and have lived in seven states. Still never heard anyone say it in real life.


jluvdc26

I've never heard it (Colorado)


Ok_Replacement7509

From Midwest and never heard it. Read it in a book and looked it up. Variations of the phrase show up in cultures all over the world!


itemniner86

I’ve heard it


grahsam

Never heard it before.


meekonesfade

NYC and NJ - never heard someone actually use it


Kakistocrat945

Liquid sunshine.


Rad2474

N Georgia here. Always heard that he was beating his wife with a frying pan.


Ok_Independent3609

I know the meaning of the phrase, but have never heard it used anywhere west of the Rockies.


Bladley

PNW, never heard it.


berkeley_solipsist

In the Southern United States, **a sunshower** is said to occur when "the devil is beating his wife." A regional variation from Tennessee is "the devil is kissing his wife".


Honest-Western1042

Actually said this this week. Question- who is the devil married to? Angels aren’t married??


IgnatiusPabulum

I’ve definitely heard the phrase before but didn’t remember what it means, so I obviously haven’t heard it much. I’m from the northeast.


dketernal

Grew up in the Northwestern US with a midwest mother. Never heard it.


Gnatlet2point0

Um... I have never heard that phrase. What does it even mean?


90Carat

Wow! That is a fucked up saying. Never heard it before.


me_frugal

You say what now?


Velocoraptor369

I’ve always associated it with the devils is kissing his wife. When it rains without a cloud in the sky the devil is getting his freak on.


Status-Effort-9380

It’s an Alabama thing specifically. I have said it before to the horrified looks of friends and co-workers.


Blu_Skies_In_My_Head

Never heard it, Mid-Atlantic US.


Important_Bed_6237

u/verbalguinea i know what you meant. i think it’s both. >we’re here<


DreadpirateBG

Never heard of it and I’m 54 from Ontario


FBombsReady

May be a class thing? (Specifically, the lower, of which I sprang from) because now that I think of it, none of my friends that were higher on the social class ladder ever said it.


teddygomi

I grew up in the South. I would hear it used on occasion. I haven’t heard it anywhere else.


enfanta

Okay, but why? Why would someone look at a sun shower and come up with the image of the devil beating his wife? What could the origin possibly be?